Buli please thank your mother for sharing so much wisdom with us. Wish all men could protect their wife’s. You’re both looking gorgeous, I love your Mother’s attire.
I loved when Mama spoke about your husband speaking up for you, and protecting you against in-laws who can be harsh towards uMakoti. She shared so much wisdom about handling izinto with grace and not causing “drama”. Siyafunda, thank you Sis Buli and Mama 🥰❤️
The other issue is embracing your in laws and accept them for who they are because most times us ladies when come from priveledged background we want to compare and want things our way into the their family and bring so much resentment
Soo true...my Aunt Always said ' You have a role to understand and accept your inlaw, it may not be love at 1st sight but soon they wil see your true heart and love you more'
Your Mom is beautiful, wise and prayer warrior. I attend the same cell group as your mom. I can't wait for cell group to resume. This also opens our eyes regarding how we treat our in-laws and to know our boundaries. Thanks.
Wow Buli. You are blessed. So so incredibly blessed. Your mom oozes wisdom in the most humble way. I love how you can tell she’s not one to be messed with but at the same time has such a big heart. 👑👑😫😫😍😍#QUEEN
I'm a young wife and I thank God for the wisdom He gave me early. Being married to a bread winner is not easy but the relationship with my in-laws is extremely important to me because it is a very fragile relationship. I never defend myself, but instead I ensure my husband becomes the mediator. I really like what mama said, you only spend a little time with your in-laws so have a bit more care in that time and try to grin and bare somethings. What doesn't bend, breaks under pressure. I strongly believe trying to compromise in in-law relationships is worth it. Compromise but don't tolerate disrespect. Address disrespect with care, I think that's best💕I really loved the video💕
All I can say is, “I’ve heard and thank you Ma”. It’s always a pleasure listening to a woman with so much wisdom. I was listening with my husband, thank you❤️
😍🔥 Another banger... Moms looking oh so gorgeous as ever!!! Man I loved this. My biggest takes were 'to choose your battles wisely and being strategic in addressing' conflict'.
Wow mom came through looking super gorgeous hey!!! You are a spitting image of her, super gorgeous women! Choosing your battles, accepting that everyone is different, having your husband present when addressing issues with in-laws. We are taking notes. Thank you for sharing your mother with us.
Wow not only is uMa beautiful but she is sooooo wise. Thank you Ma for always availing yourself. We love and appreciate you. Thanks B for this, we really enjoyed it.
Love this and I am only getting married noma 2022-2023 LoL. Also, you have me watching the ADs cause sister has to bag those paychecks from YT. Cause support❤️❤️❤️
Ahhh Mommy.. So much wisdom and truth that she's speaking. Inlaws are a tough one honestly and it's a situation that needs the couple to work together as mom said...working on it. Working on it
Wow i love love love love wow. She looks young even you would say she is your sister. I like how she is so calm n shy when she is quiet but when she speaks you yohhh light light light n her word are sweet n smooth. In basic terms am saying I love this n I learned alot am not married but soon. 😚
Thank you for bringing your mother. I have learned a lot, especially about setting boundaries in a respectful way and also choosing your battles wisely. Allowing your husband to address his family in a respectful way when he needs to protect you. 😁 We need more of your mother on the wife talk series. I love the #wifetalk series ❤❤❤💞💛💞💞
What I took away from this is that your mom has Reference of where she saw how in-laws should be treated. Some people are raised by single parents in two generations meaning both the mom and grand mom,and have never been married. I wonder if it’s easy for them to understand those dynamics of respect and boundaries if they have never been married and how much of a challenge might be for them to treat they son in law kahle with no reference point
Yoh. That is so right, or when your parents get divorced when you're young and there's a strained relationship with in-laws and you just never saw that example. But how wonderful when people have this in their lives.
I love, love, love your mother! She has so much wisdom, and love it’s just a blessing to have women like her still alive and advising us. By the way I’m still not married but In a committed relationship. The advice she gave in both videos Iv noted. God bless you both 🌻♥️
Thank you Buli for bringing Mom back🙌🙌 I still feel that it is significant that Makoti have a open & respeful relationship with her new Parents In Laws especially uMama because mothers tend to be more influential than fathers. In terms of Finances, I like your mom's approach of saying, your siblings should ask your husband n vice-versa. This might lessen unnecessary disputes amongst two families. Socially, you can never please everyone. In laws tend to expect so much from Makotis n some will try to find faults, so in this scenario YOUR HUSBAND MUST COME TROUGH FOR YOU ALWAYS & I'm glad Buli's mom highlighted that too
Your mom is speaking so much knowledge and wisdom. As a single woman wanting to get married I definitely needed to hear all of this, now. I kept on saying nnete fela. 👏😂 Please share more of her knowledge with us. Especially content for the new age Makoti. You are truly blessed.
Mom's wisdom though, syabonga Buli for bringing her back we are truly learning. I'm learning mostly about being honest about how you feel but have an approach to address it. Thanx hun
Wooooow waze wa khuluma umama.... All true shem😍🤗💯.. We need to meet 1 another half way, I think and believe that our inlaws especially from husbands side they tend to have a lot of expectations from abo makoti, they don't give us a chance to get know us and all, they just want their expectations to be met and if not automatically they shall never like you but they will always complain.
Hello Buli, just discovered your channel I like it already:). Loved it when your mom talked about the relationship your father had with your grandparents 🥰. Thanks to her for the wisdom.
Absolutely love this topic and your moms wisdom Buli there is so much we are going through as makoti and when your mom says no one is perfect it makes sense and communicate is definitely key in marriage
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When you not even a wife but carefully listening 🤣
ntokozo zulu I can second that one ☝🏽
We are packing our suitcase😂😂
🤣 You are not alone sisi, we are here
It is for the future🤣🤣🤣
ntokozo zulu girl😹 our husbands are so lucky
Buli please thank your mother for sharing so much wisdom with us. Wish all men could protect their wife’s. You’re both looking gorgeous, I love your Mother’s attire.
I'm learning alot as soon to be wife. I'm from Namibia marrying a South African. Thank you both.
Good luck sis. I’m South African marrying a Congolese man
@@nolwaziemkhatywa4345 yooo wow
I’m a South African happily married to a Gabonese man and listening attentively
We trust everything went went well Roseline ♥️
"you cannot please a person who is not willing to be pleased"... Wow
when mom said "its not for me to respond to that",i felt it........its very important to choose your battles wisely.
Mama is very wise. We need more of her
I loved when Mama spoke about your husband speaking up for you, and protecting you against in-laws who can be harsh towards uMakoti. She shared so much wisdom about handling izinto with grace and not causing “drama”. Siyafunda, thank you Sis Buli and Mama 🥰❤️
siyamthanda qinga So much wisdom. Wish all men could protect their wife’s like that
The other issue is embracing your in laws and accept them for who they are because most times us ladies when come from priveledged background we want to compare and want things our way into the their family and bring so much resentment
You're talking to me.
That's true...
Soo true...my Aunt Always said ' You have a role to understand and accept your inlaw, it may not be love at 1st sight but soon they wil see your true heart and love you more'
Your mum tied her headscarf so beautifully wow!!! can she pls teach us.
Your Mom is beautiful, wise and prayer warrior. I attend the same cell group as your mom. I can't wait for cell group to resume. This also opens our eyes regarding how we treat our in-laws and to know our boundaries. Thanks.
Wow Buli. You are blessed. So so incredibly blessed. Your mom oozes wisdom in the most humble way. I love how you can tell she’s not one to be messed with but at the same time has such a big heart. 👑👑😫😫😍😍#QUEEN
I'm a young wife and I thank God for the wisdom He gave me early. Being married to a bread winner is not easy but the relationship with my in-laws is extremely important to me because it is a very fragile relationship. I never defend myself, but instead I ensure my husband becomes the mediator. I really like what mama said, you only spend a little time with your in-laws so have a bit more care in that time and try to grin and bare somethings. What doesn't bend, breaks under pressure. I strongly believe trying to compromise in in-law relationships is worth it. Compromise but don't tolerate disrespect. Address disrespect with care, I think that's best💕I really loved the video💕
I am a young wife too and I share the same sentiments.💕
Ilike how Buli is so cool nd not emotional when she ask questions
All I can say is, “I’ve heard and thank you Ma”. It’s always a pleasure listening to a woman with so much wisdom. I was listening with my husband, thank you❤️
😍🔥 Another banger... Moms looking oh so gorgeous as ever!!! Man I loved this. My biggest takes were 'to choose your battles wisely and being strategic in addressing' conflict'.
I love her wisdom and you are so graceful Buli. I love this🥰🙏🏾
I love how your mum is straight forward 🤣yho in-laws can be pain in the butt! 😡
I’m soo in love with your topics. I really enjoyed this video, such wisdom from your mom. Both of you are stunning.❤️❤️❤️
The Holy Spirit led me here 🥺 You know what I needed this. Being a new wife is hard at times.
Mom is back 💃💃💃💃
Wow mom came through looking super gorgeous hey!!! You are a spitting image of her, super gorgeous women! Choosing your battles, accepting that everyone is different, having your husband present when addressing issues with in-laws. We are taking notes. Thank you for sharing your mother with us.
Wait until you see my dad .. then you’ll really be confused as to who I look like 🙆🏾😂... thank you 🙏🏾 🤗
Such a feared topic. Thanks to mommy. I wish my mom and my MIL could watch and comprehend this.
Thank you Buli , your mom has anointed wisdom. Mama Mazwi ❤
Your mom’s experience is what I’m at now . My family is okay but we helping his. I love doing it . But transparency helps a lot
Wow not only is uMa beautiful but she is sooooo wise. Thank you Ma for always availing yourself. We love and appreciate you. Thanks B for this, we really enjoyed it.
Love this and I am only getting married noma 2022-2023 LoL. Also, you have me watching the ADs cause sister has to bag those paychecks from YT. Cause support❤️❤️❤️
Ohh so she gets something from those Ads? Will watch them from now on then😉😉
Please ask mummy to talk about finances in marriage. What to do when you don’t know anything about your husband / partner finances.
You communicate.
Communicate and ask for receipts. Both put your recipts on the table.. Very important.
You bring it up and talk
Yes definitely I also want to see the payslip as well as 6 months bank statement to see how he actually spends his finances
Your mom is adorable! She reminds so much of my mom... full of wisdom!
Ahhh Mommy.. So much wisdom and truth that she's speaking. Inlaws are a tough one honestly and it's a situation that needs the couple to work together as mom said...working on it. Working on it
Pearls of wisdom from your mom. Loved this topic.
What a wonderful video Buli. Your mom is dropping gems of wisdom. And she looks drop dead gorgeous
Your Mom is so level headed. I like her, please bring her back again.
This was so beautiful, very much appreciated. Thanks Buli.
Wow i love love love love wow. She looks young even you would say she is your sister. I like how she is so calm n shy when she is quiet but when she speaks you yohhh light light light n her word are sweet n smooth. In basic terms am saying I love this n I learned alot am not married but soon. 😚
Shuu the part where she speaks about finances and building relationships, it hit home hey.
This is very important. I wish also Omamezala could watch this video. Syabonga mama ngokusikhulisa.
Buli, so your mom calls her husband daddy... Thats so cute
I love your Mom,,,,she's elegant and wise
I love your mom❤️Full of wisdom. May God bless her❤️
Gorgeous Mom, this is a very important conversation yoh
Mom nailed this topic. Thank you Buli for this ❤️
Mom's sense of style🥰😍🥰🥰! When I grow up 🤞🤞🤞🤞.
Wow. I loved this so much. It’s very important for your husband to speak up on your behalf, he knows his family better than you
Mummy is back thank you for sharing with us Buli we appreciate for discussing such issues with us
True,You must say this is your wife,,the husband must stand up for you
Just watched pt 1 & 2. Mom must come back. We need this wisdom 💞 her teachings are helpful and will go a long way for many generations to come.
I'm not even a wife but took so much from this , it was really informative.
Thank you for bringing your mother. I have learned a lot, especially about setting boundaries in a respectful way and also choosing your battles wisely.
Allowing your husband to address his family in a respectful way when he needs to protect you. 😁
We need more of your mother on the wife talk series. I love the #wifetalk series ❤❤❤💞💛💞💞
I enjoyed the episode . the wisdom in Mommy 🔥🔥.
Not married but learning alot 💙
Absolutely enjoyed this video. Your mother is a wonderful woman, Buli. What a safe space she is as a mother & a mommy in law. You're blessed. 🧡
Wow thank you mom wisdom right there as an engaged young lady I needed that ❤
Love love love. We are learning. Such beauties ❤️
Wow Mom’s wisdom🤯...I’m single and definitely taking notes📝
Very powerful and inspiring vlog.Mum is so full of wisdom.She is teaching us a lot of things.
Wow, such a wise mother you have, I am officially a subscriber. Thank you for sharing her with us
Mother's are special, the wisdom they give us! Shuuu
Loving mum😍😍😍she looks gorgeous, I enjoyed the lesson
Thoroughly enjoyed this chat Thank you ❤️
Ladies, trust me sit down and talk to your mothers, They Are Just As Filled♥️🙏 Mara This Video Is Much Needed
Buli this facebeat tho 🔥😍
Listening to this 2 years later and it answered a question I had 🙏❤.
Your make up Mrs Makhubo 😩🙆🏽♀️ YEYI! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ teach us
U have a wonderful mom, full of wisdom, patient and so loving towards u.
Mom is back 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Mama has so much wisdom to share. You just need to bring her on on a monthly basis to share with us.
This is much needed 🙏 thank you ❤
Your mom'a earings😍😍😍
Yhuu the wisdom!!🔥 You're blessed
Wow your mom is very wise...thank you
Your mom is beautiful and knowledgeable
What I took away from this is that your mom has Reference of where she saw how in-laws should be treated. Some people are raised by single parents in two generations meaning both the mom and grand mom,and have never been married. I wonder if it’s easy for them to understand those dynamics of respect and boundaries if they have never been married and how much of a challenge might be for them to treat they son in law kahle with no reference point
Yoh. That is so right, or when your parents get divorced when you're young and there's a strained relationship with in-laws and you just never saw that example. But how wonderful when people have this in their lives.
I love, love, love your mother! She has so much wisdom, and love it’s just a blessing to have women like her still alive and advising us. By the way I’m still not married but In a committed relationship. The advice she gave in both videos Iv noted. God bless you both 🌻♥️
Your mom is gorgeous 😍
loved loved this session your mom speaks such truth and how she used her life experiences as an example was great.
Thank you Buli for bringing Mom back🙌🙌
I still feel that it is significant that Makoti have a open & respeful relationship with her new Parents In Laws especially uMama because mothers tend to be more influential than fathers.
In terms of Finances, I like your mom's approach of saying, your siblings should ask your husband n vice-versa. This might lessen unnecessary disputes amongst two families.
Socially, you can never please everyone. In laws tend to expect so much from Makotis n some will try to find faults, so in this scenario YOUR HUSBAND MUST COME TROUGH FOR YOU ALWAYS & I'm glad Buli's mom highlighted that too
Wisdom nuggets from mom thank you 🌸
WOW. Your mom is wisdom personified.
Don’t mind me, I’m just catching up. Thank you so much for sharing mom with us! Can’t believe I didn’t know your channel. I love it here!!! ♥️♥️
Awww yay! Thanks foe watching 🥺❤️
Your mom is speaking so much knowledge and wisdom. As a single woman wanting to get married I definitely needed to hear all of this, now. I kept on saying nnete fela. 👏😂 Please share more of her knowledge with us. Especially content for the new age Makoti. You are truly blessed.
It's true mam Mazwi, nothing beat talking about issues and ironing out boundaries and lines. Thanks for the advice🙏❤️
Road to 10k yay!
Mom's wisdom though, syabonga Buli for bringing her back we are truly learning. I'm learning mostly about being honest about how you feel but have an approach to address it. Thanx hun
This was an interesting and insightful talk. Thank you for the lessons
Wooooow waze wa khuluma umama.... All true shem😍🤗💯.. We need to meet 1 another half way, I think and believe that our inlaws especially from husbands side they tend to have a lot of expectations from abo makoti, they don't give us a chance to get know us and all, they just want their expectations to be met and if not automatically they shall never like you but they will always complain.
I love your mother's wisdom.
This is wisdom mama is sharing to you Buli. I enjoyed listening and old as I am learnt a lot. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
I really enjoyed this. 🥺❤️ Your mum is a treasure.
Hello Buli, just discovered your channel I like it already:). Loved it when your mom talked about the relationship your father had with your grandparents 🥰. Thanks to her for the wisdom.
Umama bringing the fire. One of th most stylish mothers I know 👌🏻👌🏻
WhAt an eye opening conversation thank you
I loved this sooo much
Wow
Absolutely love this topic and your moms wisdom Buli there is so much we are going through as makoti and when your mom says no one is perfect it makes sense and communicate is definitely key in marriage
Thank you to uMama for sharing such wisdom. Always learn so much from the #wifetalk series.
Thanks for mum. What if you are staying with your in laws. How do you ensure you have peace and not to loose yourself in the process?
I love how Mom says,This is my wife I love you both,But you have different roles in the man's life
Thank you Mama for your wise words❤️
Great conversation, wise words. Here for note taking.
Pearls of wisdom🔥🔥i love your mommy
Thank You Buli and Mama for such wisdom❤️
Thanks Mummy........stay blessed
My favorite mom. Also... She is dressed to kill, bathong Mama 🔥🔥🔥. I love everything about her