That shows their immaturity and failure to grasp adulthood. James seems like one of those adult-babies. I cant help but picture him with a white diaper and baby bottle. His poor family; he is very self-involved and doesnt get how his "wants" have impacted the family.
Yes she did but she will still carry on being with him which is the wrong decision. One day, she will realise that she should put her safety and mental health first over being on TV. UGH I am just not a fan. Love you Po ❤
@@EmanDeMoan and it’s also our responsibility to get help and work through it. Not just to be able to be with other people, but to be able to live life without being so retracted.
Agreed, She needs therapy. Yes, partners should be supportive and understanding of their significant other, but the person with anxiety/other mental health issues shouldn't expect everyone to shoulder the burden. I don't think Statler belongs in any romantic relationship until she deals with her trauma and learns better coping skills. Statler blames and projects so much of her ish onto others and it's not fair; she shows little to no accountability for herself.
I understand that Statler has anxiety, I do as well. So I sympathize with her on that. HOWEVER at this point in time, she has had to come up with some coping mechanism to help at least a little. Fidget toys, listening to music or podcast, meditation, something. I’m not gonna paint Dempsey as faultless, because I don’t know this woman personally, but she can’t help Statler if Statler doesn’t communicate on what she needs Dempsey to do if she needs her to do anything. Many of their problems come from Statler not communicating or using her mental disorders as an excuse for why she didn’t do something or ‘forgets’. Maybe instead of just taking over video call while planning this van life thing, important details should’ve also been sent in text so both have proof of a conversation happening or not happening. Side note, how did Statler think they were going to get to France with the van, legit question.
I’ve had cupping done a couple months ago on my right leg. I had surgery and needed more than just regular physical therapy. It made such a difference and I loved it. There was no pain putting them on. 💜
I love cupping 😩 when I’m stressed it all goes to my upper back, and massage with a cupping session really improves pain and posture. A lot of people hate the bruises, I’ve always thought they’re kind of cute??😅 probably because I feel so much better I associate them with something positive. I just say I got hugged by an octopus 🐙
Statler is definitely not my favorite person. What got me was her not being able to talk with Dempsey but not having ANY problem WHATSOEVER talking to producers. Hmmm...bye!
Anxiety aside, she is selfish. Everything has to be her way; the world needs to bend to her; and if anyone pushes against that, they are the enemy. Her past, her childhood, needs to be worked through if she really wants a mutual relationship. Otherwise she is just as selfish and one sided as an addict.
Shekinah would have taken Sarper back regardless!! She only stood her ground because she knew viewers would have a fit it she gave him a pass. But whether he gets help or not, she'll stay with him no matter how he treats her!
I had my first cupping experience during physical rehab earlier this year! I was excited to try it but did NOT like it. It was painfully sucking my flesh into the very transparent cup device. 🤢 And then the therapist MOVED THEM around! Lol I was laughing to not yell! But it definitely made the pain lingering from a procedure go away overnight. It was super weird in a good way. I just had to deal with gross bruises for about 2 weeks lol. 🤮 PS - Love you Miss Panda! ❤
Statler has done nothing positive or sweet to Dempsey….dempsey always tries to make Statler happy, it’s never the other way around. I think Statler is borderline abusive…
it is kinda true that kids do make relationships stronger. however, kids can't SAVE a FAILING relationship. (btw, i just say it makes a relationship "stronger" bc having a kid is really life changing. in my experience, when my partner and i had a baby, we became more mature. our focus was totally to give our children the best environment and to show them what healthy relationships are supposed to be like. that's just me.)
James needs to own up to himself. Yes, kids are a lot of work and will require a lot of them, but he needs to be honest about his intentions for kids or not. Whether they reach a point where they can financially support a child and whether he WANTS children given the opportunity are two completely different questions
@@Boba_Belly no problem, you, Linda, Kiblz, quickslice, and thots have been insanely entertaining these past couple of months, and I can’t wait to continue watching yalls stuff!
Hi Boba, I've never had a coin massage (although I'd like to try it after seeing this segment), but I've had cupping therapy multiple times both as a kid and a grown up. It doesn't hurt at all but it can sometimes be a bit uncomfortable when the tissues are very congested. And it leaves weird red or brown marks on the treated areas - the more congestion there is and the darker the marks are. The dark circles on my back used to freak out my classmates big time when I was a kid and I would take my clothes off in the changing room before/after PE. They probably thought that I was a victim of ab*se. Cupping's helped a lot with my respiratory issues (I'm prone to bronchitis and asthma) - and I know that it can treat a lot of other problems. Thank you for your videos and your delicious humour !
I could not imagine being these kids, going to a different country and thinking your opinion matters to your mom/dad and suddenly they yank the rug out from under you mid visit. The amount of trust broken and lost in that one moment from their selfishness omg 😳
And it is that kind of thinking that leads to so many neglected and abused children. Kids are not a fix all relationship band aid. And not wanting to bring kids into the world you can't take care of is actually the most responsible thing you could do. I would have loved to actually be a mom, but I refused to continue to cycle of abuse and neglect.
Honestly the most responsible thing for him to do would have been to tell her about his true feelings BEFORE they got married! That is grounds for annulment, he married her under false pretenses. Everything else, though, spot on.
Well, in her defense, that violent gesture was way out of line. She seemingly likes the whole "treat me like your Barbie doll" thing, but of course she wouldn't accept his anger issues.
The coin massage isn't as crazy as it seems. There are chiropracters that do similiar things with their tools, there is a youtuber called Mondragon Chiropractic and she has videos where her client's back is completely red.
If Statler is so afraid of everything, she should lock herself up in a room or get medication. I hate the way she can't allow Dempsey to enjoy anything. I've had panic attacks before, they're no fun, but I got help, I didn't expect everyone around me to change who they were and walk on eggshells. Statler is old enough to know she should seek help
Kids only exposed the deep dark sides of your marriage. People that think kids make marriages stronger or fix your problems are so wrong, and seriously need therapy.
Awwww I am no statler fan but seasickness is the WORST! As an emt who used to work on a boat, seasickness management was like 60% of my job. Staring at the horizon and getting fresh air is exactly what I’d recommend too. Sometimes antihistamines work, but not for everybody. Talking interrupts breathing, as does anxiety. Deep breaths if sea sick! Not getting enough air makes it so much worse 😢 PS: the staring at the horizon thing is to trick the temporal lobe of the brain to think you don’t have vertigo and have your bearings even though the boat is rocking, this reduces the amount of histamines the brain tells the body to fire off which makes you feel sick
I had a boyfriend from Indonesia and he would ask me to do this for him when his back would bother him. It's looks painful but it's not painful at all.
Kids make your relationship more complicated and difficult…not stronger. They have no money and no goals. I wish more people would think like James before having kids. (I can’t believe I just said that about James but it’s true 😂)
I get cupping done pretty regularly as part of a deep tissue massage and it's not painful. There is a slight tingly/pinching sensation for maybe the first 30 seconds, and then it's incredibly relaxing. It's kind of like a reverse massage. It allows the massage therapist to get a lot deeper into the tissue and for the massage to be much more effective, too. From what I understand, it also helps with lymhatic drainage and boosts the immune system.. so you do need to drink a LOT of water afterwards to help flush toxins out of the body. It helps a lot with my migraines. It seems like whatever this coin massage thing is may be operating in a similar way by causing inflammation and helping the body to flush out toxins.. but I would go for cupping! I have also done Gua Sha a few times, and it helps to get into really focused areas for knots in the neck and back. It is a little bit intense but I think it feels good because it relieves the pressure :)
@@Boba_Belly I’m not as sore as I am after a deep tissue massage, but I am usually really tired on the day or two after. Cupping is really relaxing and detoxing for the body, so extra sleep and water is super important!
“all feelings are welcome, all behaviors are not” statlers trauma is not an excuse to be mean to dempsey. she can express how she’s feeling without being hurtful to her partner. she really has a lot of growing up to do.
Cupping literally made me bleed, but I'm chronically ill so I'm ouchey anyway. 😂💀 Gua sha helps me so much, I'd also get cupping again tomorrow if I could! It's sore asf but you feel so good for a few weeks re energy etc!
Cupping doesn’t hurt. It feels amazing actually. If you have a good therapist it’s shouldn’t hurt. You will get bruises though so you wanna do it when you don’t have to wear something that shows your back.
I have anxiety and I don't act like that. Thinking back, I wasn't even that bad before I was medicated. My ex was, and we ended up breaking up because of it. The constant drama and negativity and paralysis was so draining on me. Get medication, get therapy, get healthy coping mechanisms. Taking it out on other people and expecting them to weather your every shitty mood is not going to work.
It's frustrating from both of them in this particular situation. Statler clearly hasn't properly explained her needs during an episode, it's not your partners responsibility to just figure it out. Then on Dempsey's side she was completely ignoring the clearly distressed person in front of her and was trying to have a serious discussion. (With a lot of force on her side). I've noticed a lot of frustration towards Statler but Dempsey is pretty annoying too.
Different people handle anxiety differently, and panic attacks have different levels. However statler needs to communicate her needs during episodes (even if the conversation occurs during a calm discussion) and to not take it out on Dempsey.
Yup. But some of us do and the outcome would have been different. Dempsey made everything worse and offered zero support only saw her Own perspective. That being said, stat needs to communicate better and continue to work on herself as we all ought.
yeah she acts like shes the only one who knows. shes been anxious for a long time---why doesnt she tell her psych she needs different meds>???????????????????????????????//
Dumb question: Statlers anxiety is pretty bad so why would she pick a van 🚐 lifestyle? It sounds like she should NEVER have agreed to it. And they are so different: Dempsey is a happy optimist and Statler is so negative.
Server is not going to change he is not going to improve he's always going to have his issues they don't get better walk away leave him yes we love them their lovable they're charming they're the lovable they're difficult to walk away from but you have
If you go to an Asian massage place, coin massage is called "GuaSha". It hurts really bad but definitely felt a lot better once it's over with lol. It's kind of the same concept as cupping but stronger, which is why it hurts more.
Statler’s anxiety is inconvenient and very intense but also… Dempsey kinda specifically sucks at dealing with it in my opinion. If I was anxious she’d make it worse for me too acting like that.
James & Metalia have a very juvenile relationship and the only thing that would change their juvenile relationship into an adult relationship is if they had a child and that’s why she is insisting on it. Her family will be very disappointed with her if they find out that she still wants to stay with James after he has told her this. I am happy that Shekinah put Sarper in his place but there is a lingering feeling that perhaps that conversation was scripted. She never stands up for herself and she always takes him back, so why would she start to speak her mind and give him ultimatums? Perhaps she would like to stay on the show and I think she would be great in the single life series but sarper needs to get back to his personal trainer job and marry someone from his culture which his family will approve of. That’s my two cents at least 😂
James is just a slippery eel. His answer was good, but I don't think that he was honest at all. He doesn't want kids because he doesn't want to be nailed down and he doesn't want to share the attention. IMO.
Joanna & sean still rub me the wrong way not telling your family is bonkers 5:07 it's really worrying how some think like that same for getting married the relationship isn't gonna get better if you do.
That coin massage looks very painful, my bf had one and I was like “wtf happened to your shoulder” and he looked upset he was like “never again” And he didn’t say it helped at all he was just pissed he let some dude rake a coin across his back 🥹
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I wanted to scream at her when she said kids make a marriage stronger
It’s the most stressful thing a relationship will ever experience.
I always tell friends without kids, take whatever problems you have, and it's like kids pour gasoline on those problems.
I mean it’s statistically untrue if anything it heightens DIVORCE RATES.
Ooof not in any situation is that going to help not if either side is not healed
That shows their immaturity and failure to grasp adulthood. James seems like one of those adult-babies. I cant help but picture him with a white diaper and baby bottle. His poor family; he is very self-involved and doesnt get how his "wants" have impacted the family.
shekinah slayed
Yes she did but she will still carry on being with him which is the wrong decision. One day, she will realise that she should put her safety and mental health first over being on TV. UGH I am just not a fan.
Love you Po ❤
@@JazzyB-Heaven-11Totally agree!!
Yoooo shout out to shekina she stood on business
I love her so much for that
Finally! Good for her 👏🏻🙌🏻
right?? i really wasn't expecting that!
Damn im so impressed!!
For the first time ever, I'm proud of Shekinah. Good for her for standing up for herself. ❤
"Ass to hips" 😂😂😭
😂😂😂😂
Yeah baby 😂😂
I gatta use that one!! lol
Statler is a downer😣
Agree
Maybe but I feel for her. Anxiety disorders are no joke. Things feel much scarier than they are, and the body responds to it like an actual threat.
Which one cheated with producer?@EmanDeMoan
@@EmanDeMoan and it’s also our responsibility to get help and work through it. Not just to be able to be with other people, but to be able to live life without being so retracted.
@@branblymier1752Dempsey
So glad the panda head is back! The little ear wobbling is so cute 🐼
Oh my GAWD! I didn't even notice that until I saw your comment. ❤
Statler really should work on her anxiety instead of allowing it to run her life.
Yea but it's really hard, and for me it took years, and it still comes back sometimes.
You think she’s not? 😵💫
I agree I need her to take her meds and calm tf down like girl take an edible or a MED something
Agreed, She needs therapy. Yes, partners should be supportive and understanding of their significant other,
but the person with anxiety/other mental health issues shouldn't expect everyone to shoulder the burden.
I don't think Statler belongs in any romantic relationship until she deals with her trauma and learns better coping skills.
Statler blames and projects so much of her ish onto others and it's not fair; she shows little to no accountability for herself.
I'm sorry Statler is too mentally unstable to function in a relationship.
God I hope Statler and Dempsey breakup
They do
Neither one of them us happy!!
Tbf, James is right. Neither of them are read for a kid! Especially after what Tata aai. Huge red flag.
absolutely. im glad one of them was capable of a mature thought in that moment
I understand that Statler has anxiety, I do as well. So I sympathize with her on that. HOWEVER at this point in time, she has had to come up with some coping mechanism to help at least a little. Fidget toys, listening to music or podcast, meditation, something. I’m not gonna paint Dempsey as faultless, because I don’t know this woman personally, but she can’t help Statler if Statler doesn’t communicate on what she needs Dempsey to do if she needs her to do anything. Many of their problems come from Statler not communicating or using her mental disorders as an excuse for why she didn’t do something or ‘forgets’. Maybe instead of just taking over video call while planning this van life thing, important details should’ve also been sent in text so both have proof of a conversation happening or not happening. Side note, how did Statler think they were going to get to France with the van, legit question.
I’ve had cupping done a couple months ago on my right leg. I had surgery and needed more than just regular physical therapy.
It made such a difference and I loved it. There was no pain putting them on. 💜
wat?
I love cupping 😩 when I’m stressed it all goes to my upper back, and massage with a cupping session really improves pain and posture. A lot of people hate the bruises, I’ve always thought they’re kind of cute??😅 probably because I feel so much better I associate them with something positive. I just say I got hugged by an octopus 🐙
hahaha hugged by an octopus, i love that!
Statler is definitely not my favorite person. What got me was her not being able to talk with Dempsey but not having ANY problem WHATSOEVER talking to producers. Hmmm...bye!
I have anxiety myself I know how much panic attacks can suck. I feel like statler uses it as a copout for her awful personality
Anxiety aside, she is selfish. Everything has to be her way; the world needs to bend to her; and if anyone pushes against that, they are the enemy. Her past, her childhood, needs to be worked through if she really wants a mutual relationship. Otherwise she is just as selfish and one sided as an addict.
@@nataliemesbah1639 its almost like mental illness really fucks you up huh?
@@nataliemesbah1639Totally agree!!
Shekinah out here standing up for herself like a boss! Slay girl!
Shekinah would have taken Sarper back regardless!! She only stood her ground because she knew viewers would have a fit it she gave him a pass. But whether he gets help or not, she'll stay with him no matter how he treats her!
I had my first cupping experience during physical rehab earlier this year! I was excited to try it but did NOT like it. It was painfully sucking my flesh into the very transparent cup device. 🤢 And then the therapist MOVED THEM around! Lol I was laughing to not yell! But it definitely made the pain lingering from a procedure go away overnight. It was super weird in a good way.
I just had to deal with gross bruises for about 2 weeks lol. 🤮
PS - Love you Miss Panda! ❤
Sorry you went through that. It’s not supposed to be painful at all.
Handsome squidward shakina never ceases to amaze me 🥴
HAHAHAHA oh. my. god. i can never unsee it now.
Statler is a negative person. even when she’s around an overly positive person, she still finds a way to be negative.
LOL "James probably got sick from his own lies" 100%
Statler has done nothing positive or sweet to Dempsey….dempsey always tries to make Statler happy, it’s never the other way around. I think Statler is borderline abusive…
it is kinda true that kids do make relationships stronger. however, kids can't SAVE a FAILING relationship.
(btw, i just say it makes a relationship "stronger" bc having a kid is really life changing. in my experience, when my partner and i had a baby, we became more mature. our focus was totally to give our children the best environment and to show them what healthy relationships are supposed to be like. that's just me.)
James needs to own up to himself. Yes, kids are a lot of work and will require a lot of them, but he needs to be honest about his intentions for kids or not.
Whether they reach a point where they can financially support a child and whether he WANTS children given the opportunity are two completely different questions
that's fair. I don't think he wants kids and is just using the current situation as an excuse.
Cupping is amazing. Highly recommend
Thanks for inspiring my channel for 90 Day content and continuing to be awesome! I don’t comment a lot but my wife and I enjoy every video!
thank you dee-man!
@@Boba_Belly no problem, you, Linda, Kiblz, quickslice, and thots have been insanely entertaining these past couple of months, and I can’t wait to continue watching yalls stuff!
Hi Boba,
I've never had a coin massage (although I'd like to try it after seeing this segment), but I've had cupping therapy multiple times both as a kid and a grown up.
It doesn't hurt at all but it can sometimes be a bit uncomfortable when the tissues are very congested. And it leaves weird red or brown marks on the treated areas - the more congestion there is and the darker the marks are. The dark circles on my back used to freak out my classmates big time when I was a kid and I would take my clothes off in the changing room before/after PE. They probably thought that I was a victim of ab*se.
Cupping's helped a lot with my respiratory issues (I'm prone to bronchitis and asthma) - and I know that it can treat a lot of other problems.
Thank you for your videos and your delicious humour !
thank you for the information. It seems lke most people say it's more uncomfortable than painful. maybe i'll give it a try... one day....
I could not imagine being these kids, going to a different country and thinking your opinion matters to your mom/dad and suddenly they yank the rug out from under you mid visit. The amount of trust broken and lost in that one moment from their selfishness omg 😳
And it is that kind of thinking that leads to so many neglected and abused children. Kids are not a fix all relationship band aid.
And not wanting to bring kids into the world you can't take care of is actually the most responsible thing you could do.
I would have loved to actually be a mom, but I refused to continue to cycle of abuse and neglect.
Honestly the most responsible thing for him to do would have been to tell her about his true feelings BEFORE they got married! That is grounds for annulment, he married her under false pretenses. Everything else, though, spot on.
Poor Statler. Dempsey could have booked the train.
You let him tell you what to do , what to wear and even control your weight, but now HE NEEDS TO CHANGE . MAKE IT MAKE SENSEEEEE PLEEEASE
Well, in her defense, that violent gesture was way out of line. She seemingly likes the whole "treat me like your Barbie doll" thing, but of course she wouldn't accept his anger issues.
@@EmanDeMoan you right! I was just talking about the controlling thing she said.
Just what I needed ❤ thank you Boba 😊
The coin massage isn't as crazy as it seems. There are chiropracters that do similiar things with their tools, there is a youtuber called Mondragon Chiropractic and she has videos where her client's back is completely red.
God Dempsey is exhausting. So negative all the time, I wouldnt be able to be with her for long...
If Statler is so afraid of everything, she should lock herself up in a room or get medication. I hate the way she can't allow Dempsey to enjoy anything. I've had panic attacks before, they're no fun, but I got help, I didn't expect everyone around me to change who they were and walk on eggshells. Statler is old enough to know she should seek help
Kids only exposed the deep dark sides of your marriage. People that think kids make marriages stronger or fix your problems are so wrong, and seriously need therapy.
Awwww I am no statler fan but seasickness is the WORST! As an emt who used to work on a boat, seasickness management was like 60% of my job. Staring at the horizon and getting fresh air is exactly what I’d recommend too. Sometimes antihistamines work, but not for everybody. Talking interrupts breathing, as does anxiety. Deep breaths if sea sick! Not getting enough air makes it so much worse 😢
PS: the staring at the horizon thing is to trick the temporal lobe of the brain to think you don’t have vertigo and have your bearings even though the boat is rocking, this reduces the amount of histamines the brain tells the body to fire off which makes you feel sick
Demsey was in the wrong on that boat.
Statler clearly asked to be left alone multiple times too! I would’ve just let her have a breather. Dempsey was absolutely overwhelming her more
I had a boyfriend from Indonesia and he would ask me to do this for him when his back would bother him. It's looks painful but it's not painful at all.
Love these recaps! Hope your still covering the boyfriend too!
thank you! I am still covering boyfriend but had to take a break from it to prioritize some other things. it will be back soon!
Studying for Sat and enjoying this ~
Team Statler!!!
I’ve had several cupping massage sessions and never painful but I agree the coin massage looks excruciating to me.
Not only is Sean gorgeous he’s got that Irish accent! Hope he doesn’t turn out to be a nut job like most of the cast on these TLC shows!
Kids make your relationship more complicated and difficult…not stronger. They have no money and no goals. I wish more people would think like James before having kids. (I can’t believe I just said that about James but it’s true 😂)
hahahaha i feel you, i was like "am i about to really say that I agree wtih james?!"
Shakina is BOSS this time! Good for her❤
Cupping is initially a little painful but oh so worth it.
I get cupping done pretty regularly as part of a deep tissue massage and it's not painful. There is a slight tingly/pinching sensation for maybe the first 30 seconds, and then it's incredibly relaxing. It's kind of like a reverse massage. It allows the massage therapist to get a lot deeper into the tissue and for the massage to be much more effective, too. From what I understand, it also helps with lymhatic drainage and boosts the immune system.. so you do need to drink a LOT of water afterwards to help flush toxins out of the body. It helps a lot with my migraines. It seems like whatever this coin massage thing is may be operating in a similar way by causing inflammation and helping the body to flush out toxins.. but I would go for cupping! I have also done Gua Sha a few times, and it helps to get into really focused areas for knots in the neck and back. It is a little bit intense but I think it feels good because it relieves the pressure :)
are you super duper sore the following days after the massage or is it just business as usual?
@@Boba_Belly I’m not as sore as I am after a deep tissue massage, but I am usually really tired on the day or two after. Cupping is really relaxing and detoxing for the body, so extra sleep and water is super important!
“all feelings are welcome, all behaviors are not” statlers trauma is not an excuse to be mean to dempsey. she can express how she’s feeling without being hurtful to her partner. she really has a lot of growing up to do.
oooh i love that! definitely putting that in my pocket to use later. and i agree!
I'm impressed with Shekeinah!
Waking up to a Boba video🙌
Boba Belly, you are funny af.😅😅😅
I dont understand why she didn't bring anti-nausea medication on the boat since she knew how miserable she was going to be?
I missed you BO!!!
James might be hiding that he cant have kids and he might be afraid to tell her....😮
Cupping literally made me bleed, but I'm chronically ill so I'm ouchey anyway. 😂💀
Gua sha helps me so much, I'd also get cupping again tomorrow if I could! It's sore asf but you feel so good for a few weeks re energy etc!
eeeek!! im nervous but maybe ill try it. i'm also low on energy these days.
@Boba_Belly don't be overdoing it, we can always wait, you know the deal! 😂🫡
Who knew shakinah had so much emotional maturity. She comes off as vapid because of the LA lifestyle shtick, but girl can say no! Good for her
Shes to immature to have a child an James definetly
Coin massage is the answer to everything 😊
Cupping doesn’t hurt. It feels amazing actually. If you have a good therapist it’s shouldn’t hurt. You will get bruises though so you wanna do it when you don’t have to wear something that shows your back.
Love you bo!
If your marriage is in trouble a lidnis gunna break it. Kids are touch on relationships. You have to be a total team
I loved the cupping massage. I have never had a massage like James got it looked painful. yikes. I loved acupuncture also.
gotta hand it to shakayna. she is actually pretty smart and strong
Felt so bad for statler here :( it’s so frustrating when people just don’t understand how anxiety works
I have anxiety and I don't act like that. Thinking back, I wasn't even that bad before I was medicated. My ex was, and we ended up breaking up because of it. The constant drama and negativity and paralysis was so draining on me. Get medication, get therapy, get healthy coping mechanisms. Taking it out on other people and expecting them to weather your every shitty mood is not going to work.
It's frustrating from both of them in this particular situation. Statler clearly hasn't properly explained her needs during an episode, it's not your partners responsibility to just figure it out. Then on Dempsey's side she was completely ignoring the clearly distressed person in front of her and was trying to have a serious discussion. (With a lot of force on her side).
I've noticed a lot of frustration towards Statler but Dempsey is pretty annoying too.
Different people handle anxiety differently, and panic attacks have different levels.
However statler needs to communicate her needs during episodes (even if the conversation occurs during a calm discussion) and to not take it out on Dempsey.
Yup. But some of us do and the outcome would have been different. Dempsey made everything worse and offered zero support only saw her
Own perspective. That being said, stat needs to communicate better and continue to work on herself as we all ought.
yeah she acts like shes the only one who knows. shes been anxious for a long time---why doesnt she tell her psych she needs different meds>???????????????????????????????//
Welcome back!💜
thank you!!
Sean and Joanne are SELFISH
Sarper looks like a Mafia thug, scary looking.
Dumb question: Statlers anxiety is pretty bad so why would she pick a van 🚐 lifestyle? It sounds like she should NEVER have agreed to it. And they are so different: Dempsey is a happy optimist and Statler is so negative.
" Ass to hips " wow just get to the point already lol
And Sean is cute so that shouldn't be a prob 🙃
right? he's very yummy. he better not turn into a red flag. i would be so sad.
I’m a massage therapist, what I’ve noticed is that if you like deep tissue, you will like the feeling of Gua sha and cupping
oooo ok, that's good to know!!
GO SHEKINAH!! WOOO
Du sollst kein Gift trinken, nur weil du durstig bist.
Server is not going to change he is not going to improve he's always going to have his issues they don't get better walk away leave him yes we love them their lovable they're charming they're the lovable they're difficult to walk away from but you have
i feel bad for joey :( i know how that feels
Gua sha isactually not painful at all and makes your skin look so much nicer.
If you go to an Asian massage place, coin massage is called "GuaSha". It hurts really bad but definitely felt a lot better once it's over with lol. It's kind of the same concept as cupping but stronger, which is why it hurts more.
Statler’s anxiety is inconvenient and very intense but also… Dempsey kinda specifically sucks at dealing with it in my opinion. If I was anxious she’d make it worse for me too acting like that.
Gua sha isn't painful. It's good for your lymphatic system
James & Metalia have a very juvenile relationship and the only thing that would change their juvenile relationship into an adult relationship is if they had a child and that’s why she is insisting on it. Her family will be very disappointed with her if they find out that she still wants to stay with James after he has told her this. I am happy that Shekinah put Sarper in his place but there is a lingering feeling that perhaps that conversation was scripted. She never stands up for herself and she always takes him back, so why would she start to speak her mind and give him ultimatums? Perhaps she would like to stay on the show and I think she would be great in the single life series but sarper needs to get back to his personal trainer job and marry someone from his culture which his family will approve of. That’s my two cents at least 😂
Agreed!
@@Masenyane thank you 🤗
I've had cupping and it's not painful, it does feel weird
Wait…is this a week behind?! I’m confused 🤔
No, this is the most recent episode that aired on TLC this past Monday, so 5 days ago.
Shekinah, misogyny and sexism is not love and romance ...
I can't stand boats
They freak me out
I get it
It's really being in the water i hate
I don't even like being far in on a beach
James is just a slippery eel. His answer was good, but I don't think that he was honest at all. He doesn't want kids because he doesn't want to be nailed down and he doesn't want to share the attention. IMO.
Gracias Bobo ❤️ 💙 💜
Tata so damn annoying, cry cry cry all the time.
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Joanna & sean still rub me the wrong way not telling your family is bonkers 5:07 it's really worrying how some think like that same for getting married the relationship isn't gonna get better if you do.
7:57 good lord panda
That coin massage looks very painful, my bf had one and I was like “wtf happened to your shoulder” and he looked upset he was like “never again”
And he didn’t say it helped at all he was just pissed he let some dude rake a coin across his back 🥹
12:12 Wooooooow go go girl !!!
I always liked her, it's payday !