What She Did To Her Baby Was Called "A Gory Massacre"
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❤Drewby + Yergy
Absolutely not hospitals aren't supposed to believe a person they are supposed to do the pregnancy test patience lie all patients lie
It's thanksgiving?
@@EerilyMidnight In the US. In Canada, it’s October.
So wrong how crap peop can give birth over n over whereas decent loving people can't!? Hope you'll get yr baby, adopted or otherwise in near future & that child will be _sooo lucky!_ Love to you xxx
Maybe posters _in bathrooms,_ & special bell for someone to come take the baby, away frm girl's parent's eyes, criticism?
I don't care what anyone else says, I appreciate how willing you two are to be human in your videos. Yergy, as a woman, what you did at the end of the video means a lot to me. Love you two.
They make me so proud. I feel the exact same way, you said it all very well.
I also appreciate it.... I was crying before Yergy but when she cried it broke my soul even more.... It honestly was nice to see true human emotions.... We cried with you Yergy, let us be there for you as you are for us.... I really do appreciate the things these two do and how open and honest they are.... Makes me feel good and have hope in people a little bit....
I cried too, poor Yergy tho this must just eat her alive to research these stories
@TwizzlerGirl
Amen
My mother who was a family clinic P.A had to repeatedly asked overbearing parents to step out of the room when questioning teens about sensitive subjects or threaten to call cps. One girl brought my mother flowers thanking her for confronting her mother about the girl's S.A abuse from her stepbrother and finally having him arrested. A great deal of parents really are pathetic.
Your mom's a badass. 💖
@@SewardWriteran earthly Angel ❤❤❤
💙🙏💙🙏💙
Yeah murdering a baby is beyond pathetic
I don't think it's pathetic to want to be by your child's side in the ER. I think a lot of parents don't trust others. They are ignorant to the reason why the staff is asking them to leave. A parent who may be innocent of abuse but has trust issues doesn't give their children privacy except in the restroom.
The fact you have tried to have or lost a child, makes what you do here, bringing to light these children’s stories, even more admirable. It must break your heart to talk of all these babies born to vile parents, when you yourself would have cherished any one of those children ❤️
Amen. I lost one and prayed for 2 years before I got my 2nd. I would have taken that precious boy in a heartbeat. I had to go hug my 3 year old just now.
I have 3 grown children and one that never got to take a breath before leaving the womb and I wonder about that angel constantly.
I don't know how. I get so angry when people take their children for granted or treat them badly. Like "You moron, do you not know how lucky you are to have a healthy, living child? Do you not see what a blessing it is?"
@@Whatdoesthisboxdoan un wanted child is not at all a blessing.
I would never abuse a child but i definitelly would consider a pregnancy something more akin to a curse 😅
@@laelaps5246 I agree with you, not all people view children as being blessings
Never apologize or cut out your emotions. They are human and valid and make the episode hit much harder. Don't forget you guys are amazing people and anyone in your families are lucky to have you.
I totally agree! Showing emotion demonstrates just how much they really do care about the children they cover on their channel. I can’t imagine how hard bringing these stories to us must be. It is so important though. People need to be made aware of what is going on. That is the only way we as a society can make changes so incidents like these no longer occur. This was a truly horrific tale and I do feel some sympathy for this young girl. She must have had problems with her relationship with her own mother. That is not an excuse though. We cannot blame the school either, but I believe that teaching abstinence only sex-ed is not helpful and it is a form of willful ignorance. Teens need options and resources for problems when they occur. The school should have a compassionate individual on hand to talk to teens about things they might not want to talk to their parents about. I don’t know how this girl thought she would be able to get away with what she did. Clearly, the medical professionals would have known she had just given birth and asked where the baby was. This is such a heartbreaking situation all around. RIP baby Alex.
Both of them are such amazing people.Even though the content is horrible I listen to them when I go to bed. They way they say Love you Byyyeee is so sweet to me. The first time I heard that I cried ❤️🩹I love them
I've lost several preganancies and struggled to get and stay pregnant. So to hear cases like this completely shatters my heart. Yergy, you are strong. You have a whole sisterhood who knows what you've been through. No need to hide your emotions.
The fact that she was giving birth in the bathroom even after they KNEW she was pregnant and chose to try and hide it was insane!
I don't get that either. This was her chance to just be like yeah ok. Then given birth and could have handed the baby over like that man said. Like it's too late for an abortion at 39 weeks. So they had to come out the usual way. I don't know why the doctors allowed her to go to the bathroom alone like that knowing she was pregnant and had abdominal.pain.
@@zionsphere
NM has elective abortion all the up to the 9th month. She could have aborted the baby hours prior to her labor yet she didn't, abortion did nothing to prevent this situation.
On top of that, she gave birth in a safe haven hospital. She could have given birth, given the baby up, no questions asked, completely anonymous, yet that didn't happen neither.
She is a murderer. Unfortunately these crimes are insanely common, women kill their babies regularly.
I think she is so afraid of her mother that she was desperate enough to do that. Of course that's not an excuse! But I can't imagine giving birth alone in a toilet and then also trying to hide what can't be hidden. This is pure desperation to me..
The fact that the hospital staff didn't piece it together themselves... she was in there for to long... she shouldn't have been allowed to use the bathroom even!!! Bad pans only should have been the scenario!!!
The staff are all so fucking stupid!!! Once she was more than 2 or 3 min someone should have opened the door!!! The hospital has Some accountability to take on this!!!
@@sarahlou7796so if the baby was killed inside the womb a few hrs earlier it wouldn't be murder? It has to happen within the mothers body to be ethical?
I really can’t believe that they’re filing a wrongful death lawsuit against the hospital 😔
No accountability lifestyles.
Her lawyer said that the hospital never gave her a pregnancy test, and never told her she was pregnant. That is a lie. They gave her a pregnancy test and told her she was pregnant. She just denied it.
I think suing the people who actually gave a shit and tried to save her baby is gonna be a bridge to far for jurors. Rightly so. She could have called the nurse in and handed them a baby no fuss no muss and been protected by the state's Baby Moses (or Safe Haven) law. They wouldn't have been able to tell her Mom either. The fact that the police body cam picked up a framed picture of the baby she murdered at the house when they arrested her tells you a lot about the kind of assholes these people are.
@@JenX_1973she didn’t just deny being pregnant, she denied having sex altogether
Horrid people
The fact that she tries to dehumanize him by saying “nothing was crying” to make the situation seem less worse than it actually is is disgusting
I thought that too, calling the child "nothing". How disgraceful and disgusting. There was zero maternal bond formed during that pregnancy.
@@DayzeeZimmzCalled him ‘it’ once or twice; same with the dumpster baby mama…….
@@DayzeeZimmz got me thinking wether she had pregnancy denial. Like, maybe she actually didn't realise that? Because how else did she not know she was pregnant for so long? In some cases of pregnancy denial women can't see the baby as an actual human being, just as a part of their body they are getting rid of and that's an actual condition. Yes, it is very rare, but that happens
@@ggihel
That's interesting.
She was taking those pills too.
Something is wrong with that girl, I mean she's off.
You're in actual labor in the hospital and STILL denying it?
That baby was coming out of her when she was running to the bathroom.
Came here to say this. “Nothing was crying” totally detaching herself from the baby she carried for nine months and then left in a trash can
That doctor saying the most unfortunate part was that she didn’t even give him a chance to save the baby, gosh that broke my heart. You can tell he cares and would have done anything to help had he been given the opportunity. This case is just so sad all around. I find it telling that Alexee felt like doing all this was still a better option than facing the wrath of her mom… strict parents make sneaky (and here: murderous) children. And Yergy, please don’t apologize for crying, we’re all right there with you! This CANT keep happening.
your pfp scared the shit out of me
@@massivel my face? 😭😂
@@massivelWHAT IS UR PFP??? CANT BE TALKING ABT HERS WHAT IS YOURS .
@@Timefortracy no your pfp is AI generated girl dont lie 😭 Like Im begging you dont even mess with me like that. That aint a real person its hella edited or something
@@Arreyuh please chill. I wasnt trying to call her ugly or anything. Im like 99% sure that her pfp is not a photo of a real person, i think its AI generated. and if it is a real person i think its heavily doctored. like really heavily. Just look at the hand in her photo. It is all fucked up. And look at the way the face is so perfect that its off-putting? And the way the leaves in the background arent attached to any branches? There is a ton of stuff wrong with her pic and it creeps me out im sorry.
I zoomed in on her pfp because I wanted to see a cute girl, but when I looked it scared me. That isnt a human in that picture.
I’m 7 months pregnant and everything I’ve heard about this case makes me sick. I understand being scared; we tried for a year to get pregnant, and I’m still terrified (but also so excited and ecstatic) of childbirth and motherhood. She had so many options: abortion, adoption, dropping the baby off at the hospital or fire station, hell, she could have probably handed the baby to a random stranger on the street and he’d still be alive! The image of her tearing and shredding the umbilical cord is utterly horrifying and nauseating. The worst thing is that that baby never experienced even one moment of love in his whole, short life.
I wish you a happy and healthy baby.I hope the birth is not too difficult!
I think these women care more about their image than they do these children.
The fact they threw these babies away and covered it shows they are heartless and dont deserve understanding and compassion
Abortion is not an option. The intentional taking of innocent life is never an option.
@@ripbeni6198That’s right.. Humans do not have the “right” to sl@ughter another human being
@@stephaniebach__12-24 God bless you Steph, sincerely.
There is a video of her cheering and her cheerleading sweater is so tight on her, and her belly is so huge, there is no way she, her mother, or anyone else didn’t know she was pregnant. I’m surprised her fellow cheerleaders didn’t notice it and asked her about it.
Hey Jen! We included some of that in the video. I have no idea how nobody knew. Alexee was under 5 feet tall and just tiny - it was super obvious.
@@TheMiseryMachineI’m sorry about that, I hadn’t got that far into the video when I made this comment. I’m watching this video now, and I just got to the part you covered about her cheerleading outfit. Thanks for covering this story, and I agree with you, there is no way she didn’t know she was pregnant, or that her mother didn’t know!!
Even if she was bloated,for her belly to be that round and pronounced,that didn't look normal ! I was shocked myself after seeing that video that no one asked what was up with her stomach !
People did know, or at least thought she was. The school sent out emails threatening students with no activities or walk for graduation for talking about it ie."bullying". She said she was being bullied for her weight.
Apparently some of them did. They said that Alexee told them she was pregnant and she was planning to call the baby Alex.
Yergy, your love and compassion is duly noted. Your passion and tears are not misplaced in this case. Tragedies like this DO NOT have to happen.
I really want to know what the mother meant by the first thing she said to her daughter after finding out what had happened - "I told you about this!" Told her about what, exactly? If neither of them knew she was pregnant, this is an extremely odd thing to say, at best.
Also, this POS family is suing not only the hospital, but also the individual nurses and even the custodian. Horrible daughter, horrible mother!
I always wondered about that, too. As an autistic, I can sometimes blurt out things that seem strange but even I found this highly suspect.
I 100% think the mother knew. There’s pictures of her in her cheer uniform and she absolutely looks pregnant.
However I will say my mother had discussions with me when I was a teenager and she suspected I was active about how if I did become pregnant or something she would want me to tell her for help instead of trying to hurt myself or hide it. I never heard about women discarding their babies like I’ve heard about it recently - it may have occurred, but I never heard about it- so I could also see that being a discussion to have with a daughter her age in today’s world.
I wish the doctor hadn't cut her mother off at that point and had let her go on just another 15 or 20 seconds. We could have learned so much. It was odd that the doctor stopped the mother mid-sentence. I get the feeling they knew (the hospital) was going to be in hot water for not realizing right off the bat she was pregnant.
@@defenestrate4957 I don't think the doctor stopped her for that reason. I think she was just looking after her patient, trying not to stress her out. Even if she did a horrible thing, doctors vow to first, do no harm.
wtf they’re suing the nurse and custodian???
I teared up watching Yergy at the end of this video, and I absolutely agree. We need to end the stigma and the secrecy around sex and sex education, and we need to make sure our young people (and people of all ages, honestly) have the resources, access, and education needed to make healthy decisions in their lives.
As a women who just lost her pregnancy yesterday I found out my baby didnt have a heartbeat and it shattered me to pieces I don't understand what would make someone do that rip baby Alex I hope you and my baby angel are playing in heaven 😢 💔
I’m so sorry for your loss.
The fact that they are suing the hospital with staf members whom were they only ones seeming to cared about that innocent little baby is disgusting!!!! Her mom probably thinks that her daughter is Jane The Virgin
Exactly, she traumatized the hospital staff with what she did, and she’s suing them??? I hope the judge laughs in her face and throws out that lawsuit.
Her mother said "i told you what happens", so the suit against the school is total BS, she had that information.
I understand her lawyers are doing their jobs. They're having to grasp at straws to defend her.
Agnes of God
@@C-SDwhen her mom said she asked her to tell her the truth about the pregnancy, then claimed she didn’t know she was pregnant. i hope these videos are shown in court and she gets what she deserves…
@@C-SDwhen her mom said she asked her to tell her the truth about the pregnancy, then claimed she didn’t know she was pregnant. i hope these videos are shown in court and she gets what she deserves…
As someone who's birth mother was seven months pregnant before she discovered she was pregnant with me, and only discovered this going to the hospital due to pains in her stomach, I know some women don't know till much later or even only when they're in labour.
It's everything else that is unforgivable, and she needs to answer for her act of murder.
Oh this happens more than we think. We worked with a woman who had no idea up until it was time to give birth. She had two children already, so it wasn't like she didn't know the signs. It literally looked like she had just gained a little bit of weight all over, not in the front like we'd normally see. But NOPE! Went to the ER in pain and had a baby!
I had a coworker that didn't know she was pregnant till she had pain and gave birth. My old roommates also had a friend who was going through chemo for uterine cancer and had stomach pain one day. She delivered a healthy baby girl!!
Narrator said 1 in 2500 that happens
My late aunt was like this. She was a bigger woman, so for her, it was easy to understand. She also had a history of going a year without a menstrual cycle. So, missing her cycle for 9 months was nothing new or too alarming.
I under that this happens but I also know a girl who hid that she was pregnant from everyone but her roommate in college. Her parents didn’t know nor did the baby’s father or her current boyfriend. I was on the track team with this girl and I trained her her every day. And some of the things I said and did haunt me because of her lies and deception because I remember max lifting with her and there was an accident because I encouraged her to keep going. I knew she had gained weight and I was quiet about it because I thought it was because she was eating too much when transitioning from distance running to throwing. I didn’t know but she did and maybe if I had been more aware or just said something the accident could have been prevented. She also got the entire track/cross coaching and athletic training department fired because the AD couldn’t believe that no one knew and then shamed them for not knowing.
The sad thing is she still lies about it to this day. We know the truth only because her roommate had photos and documentation of trying to set up doctors appointments. So that’s my slant on this sort of stuff.
It’s disgusting what happened and how many lived were tarnished and damaged by this event. And yet to this day I keep asking why did it have to happen.
The way the mom keeps talking at her daughter just rubs me the wrong way. It’s just a dreadful situation all around
Yeah, it's really weird... that mom prob has some shit going on in her brain. And not anything good
Why?? She knew that her daughter just committed murder!
@@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 you're determined to protect the mother of Lexi....why? Lexi was legally an adult @ 19 and if she was scared of her mom, which is what it seems like...then that hospital room was the best place to have her mother removed and talk freely with police and hospital staff.
@@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 right never mind her mother's tone your parents aren't supposed to be happy and kiss your butt after you've just murdered their grandchild..
@@dontwakethedeadp.jankey9592 Did Alexee being in the hospital save a life that day? No. Had Alexee been at home she would’ve tried to flush the whole baby.
My gosh! You made cry with your emotional commentary at the end 😢 Thank you for this episode and for educating many out there. RIP BABY Alex 😢🙏🏻🕊️
Thank you for not editing out your tears and for speaking up!! I’m sorry for what you’ve been through! Tight hugs to you!! ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
The way both mother and daughter referred to the baby boy being an it😢 first Alexi wit "it wasn't crying or anything" and the mother was " what did you do to it" 😭 Absolutely heartbreaking and not Alexi, rosa or anyone even ask about the baby and he was there blood😢 as a mother who has lost a baby at 7 1/2 months this breaks my heart I can't stop crying
That’s what happens when society has been brainwashed into believing babies aren’t human
'Nothing was crying'. That was so chilling. and the mother not asking anything about the baby as well. Something, anything.
Mom is why Alexee is the way she is.
Of course you take away her accountability wtf 😂
@@Grind2Excellenceits not. This person is right
@@Grind2Excellence How so?
And thats no excuse for what Alexee did
Absolutely 💯
It confounds me that the medical staff didnt initially request Lexi's mom leave the room when they were asking her personal questions about her period/sexual activity. She was literally already an adult so her mom didnt even have to be in the room! I wonder if her mom hadnt been there if lexi would have given them an honest answer, or if she was just too much in denial herself
Edit: i wanted to add that theres so much stigma against sex and teen pregnancy that it feels like "womens choice" and the legality from state to state almost doesnt matter when no one in your life is willing to stand by you/get you the help you need
She wouldnt have told the truth because she'd be afraid of the doctors telling her mom or her having the baby and them finding out when they came back in the room and saw her with it. I dont know why Alexee didnt take the easiest and best answer which was to have the baby in the bathroom and just leave it there on the floor or something or hand it to a nurse in the hallway. Then the baby would be alive and its legal to give up your baby like that. They will take the baby no questions asked and give it up for adoption for you. Then she could have just lied about it from there and her parents may not have ever known
Family not being there for their pregnant sibling/child is terrible, ESPECIALLY if it was from a S.A. However, I do see why there is a stigma around teens having a kid at 16-17, at that age you’re too young and immature to even know if you really want a kid for 18 years of your life. A very large number of teen mothers neglect and or abuse their child. I’m not saying every teen parent turns out to be terrible but at that age you barely know anything about life yourself
It's normal for hospitals to remove any males from the room, but not moms. A girls mom would normally be the most comforting and supportive person around and removing them might freak out the girls even more.
@@whitemagus2000No they should have removed the mother, because she is an adult and therefore should be allowed privacy.
True. She also could have told hospital staff that she's delivering the baby and needs help but not to tell her mom.
Big hug Yergy. You can cry in outrage all you want, there are no judgements here. Thank you for your tender compassionate heart and not being afraid to show it. ♥️
Never feel like you have to hide your emotions, feelings and opinions. This is why I watch you both. You are honest and show emotion and that is what makes your videos so great. ❤️
Her referring to her own human child as "it" and "nothing" is very telling. How someone can do that to a baby is beyond me. What. A. Monster.
Her mom seems so off, I wouldn't doubt that the way she was raised has something to do with it.. Monster 1 created monster 2. Regardless, both of em are now monsters.
She seems completely delusional. Absolutely dissociated.
She was likely in shock.
She’s not a monster she was a confused child
She clearly didn't want the baby?
I felt the passion increasing in your voice before you even choked up. Girl, you're so strong covering all of these traitorous stories. Both of you are. I respect tf out of yall and thank you for bringing these stories to light. I'm crying with you.
Cannot believe her mother, or friends didnt know she was pregnant! It was obvious, and disgusting what she did, poor innocent baby. Her mother seemed very off I thought. And how they have the nerve to try and sue the hospital, that is unbelievable! Sorry this upset you so much, my heart went out to you. ❤
The cheerleading videos show her looking obviously pregnant I don't understand how people didn't know!
Everyone knew and you can tell by the look on the boyfriend's mom's face and the stepfather. They are on bodycam in the hospital when the mother lied. Disgusting people to not support this young girl. She deserves the consequences though.
Sometimes pregnancies really don't show much. Like it looks like the they're getting a bit chunkier, but not necessarily that really distended abdomen that usually occurs. I'm not saying that's the case here, but it can be that way, especially with curvier frames. I wonder if maybe there was an element of such strong denial that you feel stupid to have asked.
She looked pregnant and I'll bet she knew she was.
I never showed much when i was pregnant,,,, i had the baby and put my size 2 jeans back on to leave the hospital
I've been watching for a while and haven't really seen you break down quite like this before. I could feel your pain and anger. I myself have never had that particular struggle, but I've seen how painful it can be. I truly hope you get what you're wishing for - you deserve it. You'd make the best mom ❤❤❤
This story is crazy to me. I go to Artesia high school, I live in Artesia. I used to see her in the hallway and even saw her at prom before the news came out. Its insane seeing a story from my town go so viral and being one of the first people to ever hear about the news before it blew up like this
I hope she's getting help.
Is she in jail or prison?
@@Flowervibes101 to be honest I don't know. I'm gonna throw artesia high school under the bus for a second because I never liked my school in the first place but in April of last year there had been whispers going around the school about the whole incident. The school's response had been to email teachers threatening suspension if they spoke about the topic in class or allowed students to talk about it in class.
When school started again Artesia high school held a TWO HOUR LONG pep assembly to try and distract students from the current situation as it had really blown up over the summer. They never addressed it, nor did they apologize for ignoring the entire thing as it went down. Again, they reprimand any teacher caught discussing it still today.
My boyfriend is the child of the old cheer coach who quit after the situation came out, they had news stations showing up to their houses for interviews (because of my boyfriend is the reason I knew about the whole thing the day right after she was caught in the hospital). From my understanding, Alexi won't be serving much time and is attempting to be accepted into ENMU.
Once I graduate I plan on speaking out against Artesia high school. Despite our football team's success, the school is AWFUL. The principal is one of the worst and biggest contenders to the school's major issues.
To preface I am a parent of a wonderful 10 year old: This girl can be convicted of murder and also have my sympathy for being put in a situation like this in the first place. Yes she had a lot of other options but clearly, for whatever reason, she didn’t use them or felt like she couldn’t. Both of these things can be true. She is guilty but damn what a sad situation. These young girls/women having unwanted pregnancies and either out of fear or shame or simply being uneducated in what options are available, choosing to get rid of their children in horrible ways. I hope their legislators see the trend and work towards giving better education on those options.
That’s what I’m saying. It was not right in any stretch of the imagination, but this girl was obviously not lead in a positive, healthy and open manner. She was never taught the REALITY of the situation, just, “what will mom think?” I’m not surprised that they did not ask about the baby, it went so much deeper psychologically and unfortunately, that innocent baby was an afterthought.
My heart breaks for that poor little boy. Jessica, I’m sorry for what you and Drew are going through. You seem like such kind, loving people. This video broke me…
Thank you for covering this story. This is one of those things that a parent of a high school girl dreads happening. This is why you talk to your daughter and keep track of what they are doing. I just can’t believe that you can’t feel a child kicking for months. That is such a unique feeling.
I am pregnant with my second and I can say there is no feeling like feeling your baby kick. It's the best feeling in the world. However, a woman can have what's called an anterior placenta, where the placenta is in an odd place in the womb, in the front instead of the back. In those cases, women usually can't feel their baby kick because the baby isn't kicking the front side of the abdomen. However I don't think this was the case with the girl in this story. I think she knew she was pregnant the whole time. She's just using that "I got scared" explanation as an excuse to kill her baby.
When I was pregnant with my daughter and I didn’t find out until I was 7 and half months and I wasn’t showing until I was nine months
Right?
I realized I was pregnant pretty quickly because my sense of smell was really wacky! Along with other stuff, even tho I never had morning sickness once , but a lot of ppl know pretty quick from the am illness
I mentioned this in another comment but I had a friend that said she never knew she was pregnant until she went into labor with her first child, but said her second child kicked like a mule. I don't doubt that some women have no idea up until third trimester or even labor, but the statistics show it's very rare.
@@TheMiseryMachine true!
Yergy, you are so compassionate and I just want to give you a hug. This should NEVER happen, its so heartbreaking.
Bless your heart..I lost 3 pregnancy early in the 1st trimester.
Then went on to have 6 children..my prayer is with you..never give up..m💯
Sad case, but glad you guys covered it. Every angel deserves a voice.
It is not a sad case. It is a disgusting awful case
I work in an ER and we were all talking about this. We care about saving lives, period. We don’t care what drugs you took, we’re not judging you, tell us so we know how to treat you. Pregnant and don’t want your mom to know? Tell us in private, we’ll figure out the rest. We’re NOT JUDGING YOU but we need to know. Often, overbearing family members literally don’t let the patients speak. You see this in the vulnerable elderly, pediatrics and domestic situations. Huge red flag. Ugh this is all frustrating.
This case just goes to show the family dynamic in that household. Doctors should know to ask these questions in private. I understand that she is a kid but I think this was all out of fear of her own mother. Not saying what she did was right, I’m just saying that fear of punishment can make people do some really crazy and horrible things.
Edit- I also think this is my own way of trying to understand why she would do this
The wild thing is she's not a kid, she's 19
@@RadisgrekAgree-the mother should not have been in the room!
You're exactly right. They should have asked her these questions in PRIVATE..... Not in front of mom. She is a terrified kid!
She was 19!!! She’s not a “kid”.
@@AlaFrigginBama 19 is still a kid. Just because in the eyes of the law you’re an “adult” doesn’t mean shit. At 19 years old I was out being irresponsible as hell in college. 19 is still a kid.
I've watched so many videos from you guys. This is the first time I've ever seen you get so emotional.
I had my first son at 18, and he just turned 9 years old the other day. I cannot imagine doing what this girl did and claiming not being educated enough. This girl was lying every chance she could to reduce the amount of trouble she was in.
This takes evil people to do things like this. Not being educated doesn't make you a murderer.
A sick person does.
I want to say this now to you, specifically Yergy. I loved and felt so completely heartbroken seeing emotion and sorrow at this story, and this horrific reality. On top of also keeping that in the video. It didn't feel like a true crime video, but a very real discussion that needs to happen. I wanted to hold you as those tears welled up and get angry beside you, and the same questions are asked over and over, why and what can be done to prevent this. All of my love to you both, but to you, Yergy, know that you are not alone in what you feel. I wish I could tell you directly, but sadly this comment is all that can suffice. Justice needs to be brought forward for these innocent, beautiful, defenseless babies, but changes need to happen.
Amen ❤
The pictures i saw of her in her cheerleading costume , makes it obvious that her mother knew. The mother and daughter are both peculiar.
The dad, the boyfriend, the school. EVERYONE knew something. This is too much.
There is no way no one knew she was pregnant!!
Your emotional response in the end of this video is completely relatable and admirable. 😢 I've watched this horrific case from the beginning and even if it's unpopular to say I can't help but say I hope she gets punished to the fullest extent of the law . What she did was clearly murder Period .
When that doctor said that women who miscarry at 6 weeks are a mess, I can attest to that!
During my planned (first and only) pregnancy I began to bleed heavily at 4 weeks. Baby was too small to detect a heartbeat so we had to wait a full week to do another ultrasound. I was warned that I was likely miscarrying. I was in such emotional pain that entire week I told my husband I'd never get pregnant again because it was just too much heartbreak. I definitely would have needed therapy. Thankfully, our little man survived and he'll soon be 21 years old.
Your final take made me cry, seeing you so emotional! I’m so sorry, damnit I don’t understand what’s going on either. I got pregnant at 15, I had my son one month after turning 16. I knew I was pregnant within 6 weeks every single time. I’m no saint or mother of the year, but I raised my 2 kids (second at 22) and I have had an abortion, I simply couldn’t afford to take food out of the mouths of the kids I had. I tried the best I could, life isn’t full of opportunities when you’re a single teen mom on your own. Morning after pill wasn’t available to my knowledge (I’m older). My kids are grown, and while we were poor, I worked my ass off, made some bad choices, but never had CPS called, never beat them, and the fridge had food and the house was sanitary… mostly I loved my kids more than my life., they saved me. I struggled with unaliving thoughts for as long as I can remember, still do. We struggled, but ultimately they grew to be beautiful and successful kind humans, despite having to deal with me! There’s no excuse for these girls. Please take care of yourself 😢🥀🖤 you guys are beautiful souls and I appreciate your respect and value your tenacity and advocacy for vulnerable children and kitties. I have 3 black kitties of my own now as my new kids since mine are grown and only need me for $ lol. The world would be a better place with more people like you guys! 😢
❤❤❤ you never beat your kids and you had food and a clean place for them. You did better than average. No parent is perfect of course. But you did good. ❤
@@iLoveTheBamx thank you, trust me when I say how good that is to hear, especially when my family is tearing me apart for not doing enough financially or emotionally, and they’re asking for sooo much, it’s so frustrating. I can’t wait for them to be old enough to realize how alienated you feel when you’re struggling so much and so tired, and your loved ones can’t see beyond what they “need/want”’from you! Thank you! Much love to you ❤️❤️❤️🖤🩶 a random encounter with a beautiful soul like you gives me such encouragement!
Alexxee could have just left her baby at the hospital, no questions asked. The baby would have gone to a loving home, with parents who would have loved him. Instead, this vile monster stuff him into a garbage bag. There's a special place in hell for people like her who harm children.
Ikr. She killed an innocent baby boy and then her mother and her even dared to out the blame in hospital staff. Disgusting 😢
That’s not how that happens. People think you can just refuse to take your child home but only a few states and an even fewer hospitals in those states allow this.
@@bertmaclen6585incorrect.
@@bertmaclen6585 There’s safe haven laws. In New Mexico, where this happened, a mother can leave her baby at any hospital, police or fire station, until the child is ninety days old. She had the option, she was just a cruel vile b!tch who had no regard for human life.
@@bertmaclen6585 Alexee’s state is a Safe Haven state though. So.. she could’ve left with no questions asked.
You crying got me crying. I see your passion for this subject. I lost a child myself. Full term. It's a horrible thing to go through so when I have been following the story of this women it hurts me to the core that all she had to do was open that bathroom door and say "help him!"
Jesus.. I remember growing up my dad forbade me from relationships before 16 and asked me to not have sex before I was an adult. He asked me to tell him if I ever did become sexually active. Of course, I was a teen and I wanted intimacy. So I did just that. When I told him I wasn’t a virgin, he talked to me about contraceptives, took me to a gyno, and allowed me to start taking BC. I still am so thankful my dad was compassionate, understanding and honest with me about this topic. I couldn’t imagine not doing the same when I have my own children. You all remember how you were at 16, don’t expect your kids to be any different. All parents should be like my father, open, honest and caring. I can’t imagine what these girls are going through and I personally blame poor parenting for these occurrences. These babies didn’t deserve what happened to them, and we need major educational reform and parents need to do better with their children.
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I talked to my daughter as well about this sort of thing, you have to talk to your kid, boy or girl about this topic. She’s 15 now, and I’m going to put her on BC as well, I told her, if she does it before she’s married or an adult and she thinks she’s prego, she got to let me know, no hiding it, but also that just because I’m putting her on BC doesn’t also give her a free pass to sleep with anyone. We as parents can’t completely stop our kids especially when they are Teens, from doing stuff, it’s better to know than to be in the dark, and some parents scare their children rather than try to understand the fact that they will do things that we will never want them to or agree with. I’m happy that my daughter comes to me for everything, even as teen. So kudos to your father for being amazing ❤️🙌🏻
@@princesssmileyface91putting your child on birth control just because she’s 15 might seem like a wise decision but unnecessary medications should really be avoided my parents educated me on my rights and asked me to be open with them which was great if they pushed for BC i know i wouldn’t take it and that would be the end of my trust. she’s not a dog don’t dose her up just because you can, birth control can lead to serious blood clots in the lungs and heart it’s safer than pregnancy and a whole lot more dangerous than nothing!
Really? At 16?
Yergy never cut it out. Youre so sweet and passionate
I was 17 and pregnant with my first child, yes I was scared, but I still went to my mom and told her, taking the life of my baby never crossed my mind it’s heartbreaking to know there are people out there who would hurt an innocent baby, smdh. My daughter is now 15yrs old, healthy and happy, could never imagine hurting her.
Is she a teen mom too? That’s very very common to for them to follow in their mother’s footsteps
@@courtneycook7910your comment is utterly ridiculous. If anything the opposite is true.
@@courtneycook7910 while you have an L take and know absolutely nothing about my life and others, she’s actually not and doing well in school, people like you are trash, have a nice day.
@@courtneycook7910 it’s not common lmao, you’re a 🤡 and she’s doing great, she’s at the top of her class and is on the way to college.
@@moondancer4660 it’s fine, that person means absolutely nothing to me 👍🏻
Hugs to both of you. I was in tears at the end of this segment.
As for this case....the mom gave me weird vibes. And Alexi just acting like nothing happened shows such disassociation. I have a feeling this family is a mess behind closed doors.
Thank you Yergy for your genuine coverage of this topic
The reaction by this girl and her mother is appalling. No questions or concerns about the baby. She kept calling it "nothing". "Nothing was breathing". I'm appalled. And then to get an attorney to sue the hospital! This is just so very wrong from the beginning to the end. Her mother, their attorney, will never hold her accountable for her actions. Thank you for showing true emotion for this innocent little boy. Someone loved him. Just not the ones that should have.
It’s always bothered me that she disassociated herself from what happened, continuing to call the baby “it” and “nothing”.
@@vanessarussell7048 Well, what else would you do in that situation? Disassociating is the only way to cope
Amen Yergi, you are 100% correct about parents needing to talk with their kids that sex isn't something to be ashamed of or to be swept under the rug! It's disgusting to see the way these young ladies are so afraid that they are so afraid that think the only option is to discarded their beautiful healthy babies when their are so many families desperately wanting what these young ladies do not... Don't be afraid to show your emotions, it's definitely something that warrants tears! It's definitely time for sex ed to be brought back into schools if the parents can't be mature enough to teach it. It's absolutely tragic what's going on! 😢
How about teaching kids to abstain from having sex? That would help too!
@@maevematthee4312 Well obviously, but you know how it is with the majority of kids, they're hormones are raging and they want to experiment, but i agree abstinence is the first thing they need to be taught!
What exactly would the parents say/do?
I am in a state in which abortion is illegal - even for women who are literally dying of sepsis and need to go to other states to save their own lives.
I'm seriously wanting to know: take a girl aside with her first menstrual cycle, get her to a gynecologist and get her on the pill - *hoping* that her teenage mind will remember to take it every day exactly on time, making sure she is not taking counter indicative antibiotics for instance...
I'm afraid the "just talk to your kids about sex" is way too simplistic in these current times.
Sure, teenagers have "raging hormones". So do married men whose wives are pregnant and "need" relief. And lots of other people in various situations. Do we teach teenagers that behavior doesn't have consequences, if it feels good do it should be the mantra.
I am glad that *finally* this first world nation of the US is allowing the over the counter sale of progesterone birth control pills.
Not all parents and families approve of premarital sex for religious or other reasons.
And believe it or not, there was a time in modern history when teenagers were not having intercourse.
They survived.
We as a society survived.
My heart goes out to Jessica. I know the feeling and tears rolled down my cheek when I heard the sadness and anger in your voice. Sending you hugs.
I've been following this case since it occurred and it is appalling how a 19 year old would be that ignorant (to put it nicely). She knew what was happening and had no idea how to get out of it (IMO). I think of that baby and all the babies who have died or been tragically abandoned by their mothers when they're born.
I don't think I'll ever be able to comprehend hurting a child let alone a baby just so tragic.
i am so sorry for your loss and the pain you are obviously still feeling. i am glad that you found the strength to continue, because your message is important and needed to be said. parents should NEVER make their kids afraid to talk to them about ANYTHING! parents need their children, from a young age, to trust in them and to know that no matter what they {their child} is going through, they can always turn to them without fear. otherwise, horrible things will continue to happen to kids, teens and even young adults....and the way this world is going.....who knows what that could mean for them.
love your channel and content bunches you guys!
Hugs'n'Sunshine! 💜
Yergy, child I was completely heartbroken to see you break down during this particular episode. I'm so sorry for your loss or the reason why this affected you so greatly. It brought tears to my eyes to see you cry ma'am.
For children are to be loved and protected by those who brought them here, into this world.
Not one of us asked to be here!!!
God bless you Yergy. 🙏 I pray He bless you one day soon.
Amen.
My heart breaks for you Yergy. I don’t know how you do it but I appreciate the vids you make, you guys make. It has to weigh heavy on your heart but thank you for speaking up and bringing light and energy to those who can’t. Bless you! ✨
Preach girl. You are so intelligent. It's NOT shameful.
Getting emotional is completely valid. Poor baby
Your emotion & advocacy to these babies who’s mothers are throwing them away is so touching! I’m so glad you choose to show your emotions towards this issue! 💚
This case has infuriated me ever since I heard about it, and never apologize for how you feel! It's such a horrific and sensitive case. I hope justice is served for poor baby Alex who was not a "nothing", but a "someone"!
Her calling the baby, her son, "nothing", infuriated me 😤 that creature & her mother had the audacity to make a shrine for the baby with candles & a photo with his name (not a photo of the actual baby). You can clearly see it on the body cam footage when they came to arrest her."
@@IMFJP82075really? Holy crap I didn't know they made a memorial. Also but how would they get a photo of the baby for the shrine though when he was already deceased and no photos of him were able to possibly be taken by them due to the nature of how he died...?
@@iLoveTheBamx It's a generic photo of a baby, not THE baby. The fact that she literally ripped the umbilical cord apart with her teeth, casually walked out of that bathroom, called her baby "nothing", & then acts like a grieving parent by displaying a memorial for that baby is absolutely disgusting
You are never alone Yergy. I will stand by your feelings because many people have gone through the same thing. So have I...
Everyone is talking about how pathetic it is to murder babies, but then they would suggest you go murder your baby if you don't want it.. would be confusing to a kid. Im all for choices.. what about the babies choice. This girl new what she was doing. Sad she couldn't go to her mother. Even sadder she thought murder would be ok...
Shut Up Sandy,a abortion isn't the Same as actually killing a REAL,sentient,developed kid.
This is your comment about this situation? Wow. That tells me a lot about you.
@@charliedeegan1598 Did you even watch the video seriously?
you can’t get an abortion at full term. Those are two completely different things. I’d suggest educating yourself on the topic of abortion before making such an idiotic comment.
Fuck... hearing someone usually so stoic start to cry always gets me crying too. So much passion behind her message. Very powerful words 💙
Even before you broke I could tell how emotional you were telling this story & I commend you for even doing it given your situation. As a woman who has yet to be a mother despite years of trying I completely align with your feelings & im so sorry. Sending so so so much love to you yergy & also drewby xx
Please don't feel bad about crying--I cried too when I heard about this case. My first daughter would have turned 5 this month if she had lived. I was thankfully blessed with a 2nd daughter almost 2 years later but getting her in the first place was quite hard. We had the BS abstinence only sex ed in high school as well but I grew up with a combo of a medical book in the house that explained sex and pregnancy in great detail and parents that were comfortable answering my incessant questions when I found the book (I was about 9). I got in trouble at school for telling the other kids how to actually make babies LOL. Even though I am what you would call a very religious person, I still plan on telling my daughter everything about the birds and the bees, birth control, and so on openly and honestly. If she requests birth control, I will gladly take her to get it. I plan on teaching her how to put on a condom as well in case the boy hasn't learned yet. And if she does get "blessed" i.e. pregnant, I might be a little surprised but ultimately overjoyed in the end and will be happy to help her out. I've always viewed babies as a blessing and a gift and I'm super protective of them. I might not be the best mother as I'm autistic and Adhd (not diagnosed until after I had children) but my weirdness and bluntness about the whole thing might be a good thing. I had to go hug her the first time I heard of Alexee and I had to go hug her again just now even though she was in time-out LOL. Thank you guys for covering these hard cases and never shy away from being emotional. People NEED to feel emotional about these things--that's what makes us caring human beings.
Ugh...I am so sorry...it's like a punch to the gut. A tightness in the chest that you don't expect but rears it's ugly head still. My daughter would be 18...graduating high school...going to prom...hell, maybe even having a baby of her own (it happens).
These people make me sick.
Calm down with the misogyny there, go watch more Andrew Tate there INCEL💩
You are doing amazing!! I love the way you see things and love her unconditionally!! It’s our one job as parents man and whenever I hear about her I always feel bad but as a mom myself now it truly is a different type of feeling. I completely feel the needing to hug them rn sadly my daughter is asleep haha so I’m not gonna wake her!! The hug will be in the morning 🥹😍
We also need to be teaching our children about the Safe Haven laws!
I don't know if there are any high schools or middle schools that teach about the Safe Haven laws..
And in this day and age, with how many abusive parents there are, we cannot trust that they are learning about it from their parents!
Even if the parents aren't abusive... Most of them don't think to tell their children about this law because they don't think that this could happen to their child!!
I have all daughters, and I asked my eldest one who is 24 and has been trying with her husband to get pregnant and has had 5 MC, If they were ever taught about the Safe Haven laws in school or in college.. She said NO! She had only a vague understanding of what it was even as an adult!
I asked my youngest who is almost 16 if anybody at school had taught them about the Safe Haven laws since they've been going through 3 years of reproductive health about males and females.. She had no clue what I was talking about!
I told her exactly what it was, we looked it up for our state, and then I told her to please inform her friends, male and female!
If our children don't know about Safe Haven laws, then how can we expect them to utilize it?!?
@emeraldrayv3n in our profession, we focus on teaching our deaf students about "incidental learning". Much of what we know is overheard in conversations that adults have in our presence as children.
If my son is around me when I see a news clip for example, I make it a point to say hey dude, check this out. I explain these things to him without fear of repercussions because I know as hard as it may be to hear that the world is indeed a hellish place to exist, it could very well save his life.
No topic is off limits and for that, I have been rewarded as a mother with a highly educated, witty, responsible son.
This is all we can do for them in the end.
Watching you break down, made me break down. I'm so sorry you are struggling to become parents. I think every bb is a miracle and if anyone deserves to have them it is you guys. I will keep you in my thoughts. These girls don't realize how big of a deal it is to get pregnant and carry a bb to term. One day I hope they understand how horrible it was what they did to these precious children. Hugs ❤
thank you for mentioning those of us who haven't been able to have children. i'm in my late 40s now, & was once pregnant in my early 20s. i was so happy, but it didn't turn out ok so i had to terminate the pregnancy, & just always assumed i'd get pregnant again, but it never happened. it's a lot to digest when you finally come to the end of your child bearing years. i'm Australian & always had pretty solid sex-ed. it's mind boggling to me that anyone (particularly given the internet - didn't have that then) would make such poor choices for their baby. i will always miss the one i hoped to have 💔
I love you guys so much. I couldn’t literally feel your pain. I can tell you feel so deeply about this. Thank you for sharing these stories with us with such realness. Thank you for “not cutting it out” God bless you and praying for you both. 🙏🏼❤🙏🏼
i have been following this case for so long, but i DID NOT know how easy it is for a woman to choose. Hearing your voice break in frustration melted my heart! sending so much love. 💞
Every time I hear one of these stories it's like a dagger in my heart. I've had MULTIPLE miscarriages. We have a daughter -and we tried our best to give her a sibling/siblings. We would GLADLY have taken that precious baby boy ! 💔
First of all I am so happy you were able to have a child. My friend, Judy, never had the chance and it breaks my heart. After thinking she was finally going to conceive she had, yet another miscarriage, late in the pregnancy. That one was awful and it was also the last time they tried. She and her husband would have made over the top, wonderful parents. I offered to carry a baby for them but, at that point they were just done. When I hear stories like this about selfish little brats it makes me nauseous because that sweet little boy could have had loving parents.
Thank you for saying what those of us that wanted children but couldn’t have one is screaming…
My aunt had a stillborn daughter ( her first child) over 50 years ago. She still loves her to this day. She would have been a great om to her and showed her so much love.
There's so many people who would make great parents but never get the chance, then there's someone like this that threw her beautiful little boy away like he was garbage? Someone out there would have cut off their right arm just to have him to love and raise, why do this?
Take ol' Bird Nerd's word for it. Adoption can be a literal lifesaver. I had (they've both passed on) a wonderful mom and dad wo stood by me no matter what sort of nonsense I pulled, and I pulled a lot. In recent years, I was able to find my biofamily. If I had been brought back to that, I likely wouldn't be here.
As someone with a controlling mother, I saw her in Rosa the first time I saw the hospital footage. When a mother controls the narrative of their child's life through fear, information control is a major part of maintaining the childish dependency that they depend on to feel important. The way that Alexee reverted to childish behaviour when caught is a big red flag for me. It's obvious that Alexee was acting out of fear of her mother above all else to me.
That will never excuse what she did to baby Alex, ever, but ignoring this red flag would be an injustice to Alex just as much as letting Alexee off the hook would be. This is a situation where we need to address both sides of the equation if we want to be effective in preventing more babies like these from suffering.
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@@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470if you think they're wrong, you must be only here to hate and not learn from others mistakes
This mess brought tears to my eyes too. I'll never understand how you can carry another person in your womb for 9 months only to do something like this afterwards. Don't ever apologize though for shedding tears over something like this. It shows your humanity and empathy and that's exactly what this baby needed but didn't get from his own mother. That clip you didn't delete actually made me like this podcast even more than I already did. xo
Just by the way her mom responds to this whole situations tells me all I need to know about how they plan to respond to this as a whole. It's eerie and lacking of any empathy accept for the daughter and mom facing cops.
This authenticity from you was both heart warming and bone chilling. I hope you are well love 💖
I agree that severe changes need to be made.
Thank you for telling the horrific story. Your love and pain in these cases are plain. Love and healing to you Yergy and Drewby. I know these cases take a huge toll on your hearts abd minds. Yet you still do it to give the victims a voice. Sending live and healing to all in need. ❤
Oh yergy. My heart is breaking for you. I am a mother who lost a child and I'm as angry about this as you are.. well done on this story guys. I can see how hard it was for you.
Hoping you guys have a wonderful Thanksgiving. All my love to y’all and the fur babies ❤️🐈⬛
Omg! I was listening while getting dressed. When I heard you cry I had to see you! That broke my heart! I totally understand why you broke down. You NEVER have to apologize! 😢Much love and respect from California -
(I remember when this story broke. How arrogant the mother was! It damaged a lot of people)
Thank you, as always, for advocating for these sweet babies and children. Thank you for telling their stories.
Thank you for sharing at the end🥺 I'm in tears hearing the hurt in your voice😫
Yergy, I am sorry for your losses, I thank you for being able to tell these horrible stories. ❤
I was looking forward to your video on her and her baby. While at the same time kinda hoping you guys might not cover it. The work you two put in to the details of these cases involving children is second to none. So much so that I've had to purposely not watch sometimes because it's not exactly the stuff I want running through my head when I get home to eat dinner with wife and kids.
I'm 38. My oldest is 22. I have a pretty damn good idea of the fear she was feeling and yet it ABSOLUTELY disgusts me at what she did. She was in the hospital when she gave birth. She wasn't at home or at school. Her mother infuriates me. Listening to her speak at the hospital and the day the officers come to arrest her is wild. When kids do some bad things and people say "It's not the parents fault" I can't help but disagree. When a kid grows up with a level head, good work ethic, strong morals, and true empathy towards their community people say, "He/she was raised right." You can't have it one way and not the other. Somewhere, somehow...she was failed. It doesn't remove blame from the girl at all but it adds responsibility on to the parent/parents.
I was also 16 when I had my first child and I have to agree that the parents have some responsibility in this I grew up with no parents and I'm sure that had something to do with being a teen mum but and it's a huge but this girl had every opportunity to ask for help when in the hospital toilet but she didn't she tried to hide the baby and it's birth by putting it in a plastic bag in the trash so even if it was born alive it would quickly die and it's this action I can't get my head around
really awesome comment fr. thank you
Absolutely agree.
@@michellejones5541that was an action done out of desperation and fear. & I agree that teen moms typically come from iffy backgrounds with poor to little support, or support of a low/poor quality. My mother was pregnant three times by age 21, the first time she got pregnant was at 15 and she had my brother at 16. She gave birth to my other brother at 18. Granted it was all with the same father, someone she had been with since she was 12. However he was an alcoholic and drug user, he ultimately succumbed to his alcoholism at 55 and passed away with cirrhosis of the liver. She picked a poor partner and had children so young, it's no surprise that she had an abusive and neglectful father. Or that her mother passed away when she was only 6. No one ever actually told her mom passed. Just that she was sick. They said this even after her mom had already died, I believe. People didn't treat death the same or talk to kids about it back in the 70's like they do now. My aunt, her sister would go on to not be a teen mom, but to be a multiple drug addict with bipolar disorder and ADHD. Their father was a child predator who preyed on his own daughters like a sicko and was just abusive in every possible way it sounds like. I'm glad my mom didn't have him in her life or around us. As you can see, the circumstances she grew up in/with weren't the greatest; which likely probably contributed to teenager motherhood and her choice in her partner and the father of her children. She had saved money and stashed away a few grand only to find it gone and suspected he blew it on drugs. When she found out he was cheating on her, she left him. Some guy. She told me she'd pick her kids up (my brothers) from his house still wearing the same clothes she dropped them off in. 2-3 days straight. Absolute neglect.
I talked to my kids ranging from 39 to 22, 4 kids one girl 3 boys and today I have 10 grand dogs and no gran kids. I feel sorry for the children they are the ones to suffer. Poor babies that don’t have a chance ❤❤
I'm so very sorry, Yergy, that you've had trouble conceiving. (I also experienced problems, so I understand your pain) Please don't apologise for your tears or your comment. It must be so hard for you & Drewby to research these cases. I'll NEVER understand how a woman could throw her newborn baby away, as though the little angel is just trash!! It sickens me to the core!
Yergy & Drewby, I have so much admiration for you both. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for what you guys do!
Sending love & hugs!
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thank you so much for showing your raw emotions. i have lost two babies after birth and this is inexcusable
I can’t stand to even look at that despicable creature, especially because she had the nerve to SUE the hospital after SHE murdered her own child! 😣
My heart goes out to you both, Yergy & Drewbie. Sending you both tons of hugs & love. I'm so sorry for your struggles. Yergy there's no need to apologize for having a human rection to such an difficult topic. I hope you both have lovely Thanksgiving & I'll look forward to a new video from you on Friday.
Baby Alex, and all babies, should be given consideration for the miracle they are. Life sometimes presents a person with hard choices and you don't always have a long time to make the right decision...
Decades ago I was prepped for surgery to have a hysterectomy for Stage 4 Metastatic Cancer (the kind of cancer that travels all over your body). About 5 minutes before the surgery was to start the Surgeon told me that I was pregnant. He asked me if I wanted him to terminate the pregnancy or did I want to go home. I was totally shocked!!! This day was also the day of my Dad's funeral.
You all know that I took off home as fast as my husband could help me back into my street clothes and get me out of the hospital. I delivered a beautiful Miracle Baby 8 months later. I am still alive today because I made the right choice and lazers were FDA approved by the time I was able to have the surgery for the cancer again and the cancer had stayed in place for me while I had been pregnant. I would probably be dead today if I had been cut.
It is always better to make the right decision. Things will always be better in the long run that way....
Omg I had a feeling....Yergy, in one of newer episodes she got very emotional about a newborn dying...and I've lost my baby as well...and her reaction mimic mine...Yergy I hope you are blessed with a BEAUTIFUL BABY! Don't get discouraged, it will happen! You're gonna be a wonderful mom! And Drewby will be a wonderful dad!
Yergy you brought tears to my eyes watching this and thats not an easy thing to do. After 5 miscarriages i finally got my rainbow baby and I really do hope it works out for you one day too, you deserve it so much with how much care and empathy you have for all these children.
I'm so glad you got your rainbow. I only lost one and it nearly killed us both (me and my husband). OUr rainbow arrived 2 years later. I always have to go hug her after I hear about a case like this.
The sad part for me is that most Hospitals, including the one that Alexis was at, is a safe haven spot, you can surrender an infant no questions asked up to 90 days old.
Just because she was in denial about being pregnant doesn't make her not pregnant... She most certainly knew that she was pregnant!!
Thank you for giving these kiddos a voice. As a formerly abused child, I really wish, even to this day, someone spoke about me. I know it's a terribly difficult service you provide, but you are giving us a voice, and showing us all that we can speak too. That these words and knowings are allowed in the world and we will still be ok. You are so loved and appreciated.
Seeing you upset really broke my heart. I had issues for a long time getting pregnant and was told after losing a child that I wouldn't be able to have children which resulted in me turning to bad things to cope with the pain of that. I was however blessed with two children but unfortunately lost two. My first would be 23 now if I hadn't have lost him. I was underage but chose to have my baby but unfortunately that decision was taken away from me and still to this day it hurts and it will always hurt as well as with my other child that didn't make it. I really feel for you and wish I could have given you a hug when I seen you get upset. You guys are amazing and are one of my favourite channels to watch because you can see how much you care. I really hope that one day it will happen for you because you would be amazing parents. Sending you lots of love and hugs xxx
Kudos to you for doing this story. It was raw, but you said what needed to be said. Love to you both and have a good Thanksgiving.