Be a buddy not a bully - (A short film against bullying)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 พ.ค. 2014
- Be a buddy not a bully!
STOP BULLYING! It starts with you - (A short film against bullying)
Film created by YG Productions:
Facebook: / yehudagelb
TH-cam: / heeray23
CREDITS:
Directed/Produced/Filmed and Edited by: Yehuda Gelb
Written by: Naomi Steinberg and Yehuda Gelb
filmed by: Yehuda Gelb
Natan Epstein
Melissa Simanowitz
Ma'ayan Furer
Acting Director: Melissa Simanowitz
music was made by the artists: Andy Beatz
Zevos Beats
The bullying issue is so bad, it explodes to front page news every single day.
Unfortunately, the bullies in school today do not cease to exist when leaving school but become the bullies at work and on the highway tomorrow. It’s estimated that 1 out of 4 elementary-school bullies will have a criminal record by the time they are 30.
Most people are aware of the critical problem existing in bullying, both emotionally and physically, but many people when seeing an article or watching a film regarding bullying will think “oh that’s not relevant to me” or “that’s them, I’m not like that, I’m against those brutal acts”. But is it really not relevant to you?
The goal of this film is to connect with everyone - as in for those who bully to want to stop, for the bystander to want to stand up and reach out and for the people who are neither to want to bring up awareness to the situation.
If you saw this, please send/share/tweet this to at least one friend, family member or TH-camr,
We want to spread the word of bullying and with your help, it's possible!!
המטרה של הסרט היא לחבר את הווידאו הזה עם כולם - כמו למי שמתייג לרצות להפסיק ,למשקיף מהצד לרצות לקום ולהושיט ידו, ועבור אנשים אחרים לרצות להעלות את המודעות למצב.
אם ראיתם את הסרטון, בבקשה תעבירו אותו הלאה, אנחנו רוצים להפיץ את המודעות למצב ,ובעזרתכם זה אפשרי.
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As someone who went through 15 years of bullying, I can give anyone who's being bullied this advice. The bullies opinion of you does NOT matter. They don't know you. THEY are the ugly ones, not you. Ugly is something that builds up inside you. It's mean, it hurts,.Every day you wake up in the morning, you gotta make a decision. Ask yourself every morning " Am I going to believe all of those bad things those fools say about me today?" Go to the mirror and repeat this question again and again and answer "No! No, I'm Not going to believe them! I refuse to!" Do this everyday and you will get through it. I promise. It won't be easy, but just hold on.
SKYDORMER yeah, like someone once said "the lion doesn't concerns himself with the opinion of the sheep"
SKYDORMER That's amazing
SKYDORMER you are the best person I have ever met, me and my friend saw this comment and she got bullied. Then she did what u said and now she's like, almost the most popular girl in school. LOVE U!!!!!
SKYDORMER you are so right! (if you don't know I'm Jewish too and kids in my class bullied me because I talk Russian , yes this is hurt but I told to my parents , I think I did the right thing!)
You did the right thing. I didn't tell my parents cos I was afraid. I can't count the times I almost committed suicide because of the bullying. The one and only thing that stopped me every time was my family. I didn't want them to suffer because I gave up and I didn't want to throw away my life because of what some ignorant, cowardly, and truly "ugly" girls thought and said about me.
I was bullied for 2years.... but now, i finaly have friends.... so now,i'm plaing on making my homepage for the "STOP BULLYING"
i think that's a very good idea
Cockroaches U GOT NO JAMS
Cockroaches U GOT NO JAMS try over 7 but... I'm happy now
Cockroaches U GOT NO JAMS good luck
Cockroaches U GOT NO JAMS IM 12 AND I LOVE KPOP
If someone doesn't have any friends than that doesn't mean they're a loser it just means they haven't anyone worthy of their friendship ;)
Rakushumi Migi Yeah they are too cool for you😎
Rakushumi Migi or She/hes parents are abusing
She/he
Rakushumi Migi 😏😏😏
It made me think of this girl in my class who got bullied, I went back to when I got teased because I was weird apparently. So I felt a connection, I stuck up for her and now we are friends ❤❤
That's great...I wish that someone stand with me 😪💔😩
I'll be your friend :) I'll help you I ain't scared of bullys IM 9 BUT I HURT EM BACK BRUH by the way I'm a girl
Being normal is boring friend.
Shamma Alkaabi what ever matters I'll stand up for you it doesn't matter how you look it matters that you have a wonderful heart
I honestly think u are awesome for that if u keep that up than you will always have something to remember you were nice and stood up for someone
Poor girl. I love her. I want to help her. I want to hug her and tell that she is beautiful. I will be her platinum. Stay strong girl.
I love Lisa Cimorelli they need to be more people like you
thanks beautiful
Your welcome
I love Lisa Cimorelli wish i had a friend like you when i was in school people bully me everyday and bet me up i try to fet in but i never do i don't get out much because of what the bullys did to me
Melissa Simanowitz
the girl who was getting bullied is really pretty xx
izzy.x random I agree ✅
I got bullied for about 3 years in 2 3 4 grade and al I wanted was someone who cared. That person is my best friend now in 5th grade. She went up to the bully and legit slapped her in the cheek, she got suspended but I love her more then words can express
Erica The tomboy DAMN!!
Erica The tomboy really? I have no friends and everyone hates me pucky you at least people dont replace you..
Omg to all those bullies out there GET A LIFE
honestly girl!....im with ya!
I agree with you I use to get bullied but now that I'm in high school I haven't been bullied yet
uNiCoRn GiRl ikr
uNiCoRn GiRl they forgot how to 😂
uNiCoRn GiRl поссрсгпомлп
My parents taught me self-defence I fight back I almost got expelled just by fighting back those bullies need punished
dannnng!!!great job 👏👏👍
Omg
The zero tolerance policy is a very stupid policy, students should have the rights to defend themselves if they ever feel threatened by bullies. There have been parents that were complaining about the zero tolerance policy as they allow their children to use self-defense to protect themselves.
I'm a loser
And I lost someone who's near to me
I'm a loser
And I'm not what I appear to be
OmqOreozXD123 dont fight tell someone stand up to them talk through it dont use violence
In the nursing home I live in one of my nurses are being bullied, and have been bullied myself in school I stick up for her, stand by her and have reported the bully, also a resident to management. Sad it still happens at this stage of our lives. 😭😭😢
Ps. She was blaming this nurse for reporting her, which the nurse has every right to. It wasn't the nurse, it was me and I told her that last night. Her response was "you got me in big trouble I'm going to lose everything". I answered with "no it's you who caused yourself to be in trouble by using your mouth. I told her I won't let her bully me or anyone else". She walked away. STAND UP TO BULLIES. they won't continue bullying if we take a stand against it, and let them know they're NOT getting away with it.
Even if there is a zero-tolerance against bullying at different schools, the bullies will still find a way to bully their target. I was a victim of endless bullying, starting in the 3rd grade all the way through my senior year in high school and beyond. I was bullied in the workplace by supervisors and co-workers. The bullying only ended, when I was forced to retire due being diagnosed with interstitial lung disease. I battled depression for 18 months in 1993&1994. I was non suicidal just sad.
I was bullied for 5 years, but it does get better if you let them know you are NOT weak, and you DON'T care what they think.
I almost cried, till the end. Every case of bullying should end the same way. Unfortunately, it doesn't. We all have to be the ones who stand up for others. You can't just sit there and think *oh, someone else will help* NO, IT SHOULD BE YOU. No matter how hard it might be, you should do what's right. Too many people commit suicide because of bullying, and whether you see it happen on real life, or online, try to put a stop to it, any way you can.
You are right, I do not understand why other people are so bad.
For someone who never had bystanders stand up for me when I'm bullied, believes you have to fight your own battles and have to stand up for yourself because people are too scared sometime. So I always stand up for someone when I see them get bullied because you can see on people face they feel bad but they don't do anything.
Yeah right...I don't understeand why they do this to her...Probably she's not like them,but she's her,she dress like she want and she's beautifull outside inside...idk why they do this.Just Peace and Love...Nobody's perfect
heyitspaola xD OR maybe there jealous of her own they try hurt her.
Bacon Angel I woulda punched them taken a photo and post it on Facebook and smirked her
Hey everyone this is what happens through out life if your getting bullied stick up for yourself be strong wipe your tears and tell someone even if you see it make a change people get bullied at school at the park out everywhere be the change and stop make a difference please don't be the one who makes it worse all we ask from you is to change this over a million people a day get bullied be the change listen to god you were born with a heart so use it
never be a bully
well...i too feel times alone..when people insult me that i dont look good.😢😢
awww..
me too..u r sooo good..so sweet..😢😢..filled my eyes..hope every person should be like u..u lead champ!!
devanshi Joshii well i got an advice for you as am a musilm aboard dont care about people's opinion life always has 2 sides one side for who go through the hard way to success and the side who watch the success
i get bullied for being a musilm but i always fight for my rights someone insults you? dont feel depressed you are the reflection of what they want to be all what it takes to get out of depression is to be confident and focusing on yourself you see there is 2 sides of everything. good with success and bad without a life ( bullies)
good luck pal. :)
devanshi Joshii just fight back it doesn't matter fight back :3
I've gotten bullied how Mazy did the first person but I standed up to myself, and pushed them away so they won't hurt me
That's like my life
WE NEED TO Stop This Once IN FOR All
#confirmpactvsbullying we are the chosen ones we together will build a better world
I've been bullied since day one of high school and I developed anxiety from it. It got worse because people took the piss out of how I looked, like my nose is slightly unturned and I have a tiny gap in my front two teeth, the anxiety then turned into social anxiety
I remember one time I was just walking down the street when a guy and a girl stopped me and made me drop all my stuff and then this girl came up to me and stopped them and asked me if I was ok and gave me my stuff and if you stand up to someone that is being bullied...they will never forget that. It has been about 5 years since that happened..and I still remember
I love this video I think the reason why people bully is because they think they are better. so they feel powerful but just because it feels good it's really not and this is how people die and make you weak and stupid this is why WE can stop that
Yessika Matos lets all make the world a better place and spread kindness to all!!! you are all children of god
#ProudToBeJewish
Gina Do #ProudToBeJewish
Aww I love the ending they had ways to glow bright even when the evil bullies stand in their way
I've been bullied before and I don't think it's gonna stop. this world is full of hate ! when ever I see someone getting bullied I'm getting to help them out.
no matter if you get bullied stand up for yourself and the people who see others get bullied and don't stand up for them they are idiots. I stranded up for myself when I got bullied to stand up for your self tell the teachers tell your parents they will help you my teachers and my parents helped me a lot I don't get bullied anymore
i have bin bulled and i don't like being bulled who is with me
i Got Bulled by people i was Crying out loud
jordan Olson ....me
I've been bullied before and once was reduced to tears
Once a group of girls tryed to bully my friend in 4th grade and they told her she isn't smart so i went up to them and told them "back of my friend" and the leader of the group said "what are you going to do huh? I said "i will tell the principal about you and ur bullying friends . After that they stoped bullying
6 years ago i was a bully my self God help me to stop that now i'm nice to every one i see
i am bullied and really bad at it i have only two friend at my class and i have tried killing myself i don't understand why someone things that bullying is right!!
crasy MMer Hi I know I don't know you or anything but I do know what bullying can do and it's effects. Bullying is effective enough to make people do crazy things. I'm not calling you out I'm only trying to help in hopes of making the bullying end. I don't care what the bullies have said to you in your life because they're wrong we are what we make ourselves be. If you want to be smart you can make yourself smart you and only you have the power to be who you want don't let anyone steal that from you. You have the power to make the bullying end stand up for yourself or tell a teacher or a parent/ guardian. I really do hope this helps. #TakeAStandAgainstBullying
who cry I do because I remember that the bully bully me and he's mean 😭😭😭
so inspiring nearly made me cry so just so wonderful the message
People bullied and said I was fat and stupid I cried myself to sleep every night but now I have the confidence to stand up for myself and not to care what people say
Yeah I'm fat too and I don't care what you say either.
if anyone who's ever been through the hell of been bullied reads this: you're amazing, beautiful and deserve the best. stand up to defend your rights, you don't deserve going through that shit, don't think you don't deserve the beauties of this world cause you do. don't listen to people who bother you anymore. stand. up. I believe it all starts with YOU.
That's easy for you to say. Because I have never been bullied and I like being a loner and do things my own way and not your way and that's all I'm saying.
People stop bullying 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 why do people bully
Weezzy Bladin I don't know but I have stuck up to my friend before and it was great at the end😜😁
Fuck the bullys up
Um simples gesto pode salvar uma vida por isso diga não ao bullying.
This made me think that each school should start a little group thing where kind of like girl scouts and stuff but instead a group that stops bullying in each grade
Here in the Philippines, we are respecting each other. No matter what you are.
this video made me cry I would stand up for someone even though I don't know them I would be there friend I know how it feels like to be bullied I've been bullied in 4th grade n 5th grade I'm going to 6th grade hopefully I don't get bullied
IM A GIRL
villager cutie 😐😶😮😱
Am a boy
sometime when people get bullied just or they will keep coming back and always have a positive attitude
The kids at my school rarely get bullied. The weird kids are the cool kids.
This video it's great. I got bullied, and no one standed for me. Now I see how a boy of my class is getting bullied, but I was a little scared of doing something for him. Now I am decided to not let the bullies do whatever they want. I will help that boy :)
1:32 I would have slapped that phone right out of her little hand
I would have just smiled xD
It's so cruel how people can be...I can't believe what people in the world have come to...
someone who got bullied for nearly like 3 or more years should have already told someone. Bullies are bullies, nerds are nerds. but everyone is still the same they're still going to stick up for someone one day.
people are bullying because they want to be them the other person so bad but they can't because they don't have enough knowledge all they do is just bully people around because stuff has happened to them like they've got bullied and they don't want it to happen to them again
Amy Hayden i been bully my hole life I'm use to it now
the end is so sweet 😭
STOP BULLING. LETS MAKE THIS WORLD A BETTER PLACE.
i like it !
why do you guys bullying????
I mean look at yourself in the mirror before you are bullying someone
Roxana Josodimedjo my mom says ask them go look in the mioor tell me are you perfect there gonna say no and ill win
Roxana Josodimedjo we bully them because they are ugly and a loser
STOP BULLYING AND MAKE A DIFFERENCE.if u see some one getting bullied stick up for them
Not anyone has ever stood up for me when I was bullied...they watched me cry over and over each day my only friends were my teachers *tears stream down her face* and now I am not able to feel emotions...
That's the exact same thing that happened to me at school and ad least I have 4 friends with me but they right stuff in my back my face 😭 and I decided to try and kill myself but I didn't my mom would if cried to death 💀
LpsShadow Lover
sorry I was gonna say that's why we need to stop that
Omg there are tears building up from watching this
when people call me "weird ", I say thank you i am weird then the live me alone
Im a girl
Wtf is wrong with people these days soo rude and unkind (Like if u agree)
I learned from my dad if anyone bully's me it's rather I tell a trusted adult or handle it myself
I was watching short films about bullying. Bullying is unkind, mean, ruining the lives of victims and making them taking their own lives. Instead of risking of suicide please get professional help. Tell your teachers, parents or other people you can trust. BULLYING HAS TO STOP RIGHT NOW, MAKE IT AGAINST THE LAW. No one should pull up with bullying. I am just writing a strong message before more people becomes of victims of bullying and harassment. REMEMBER SUICIDE IS NOT THE WAY TO GET OUT OF BULLYING, GET HELP INSTEAD..
u are right
Poor kids out there who go thru this everyday I feel bad
How to stop a bully
1 it all starts with one voice
2 never give up
Joseph Allen thanks 4 this comment
noa .l np ❤
don't let all the bad times hold you down to see the good times
I got bullied too and it seems to be unending.
I used to get bulled but my friends stood up for me
The teacher yelled at my friend for standing up for me more then once. I lost hope for myself almost 5 years ago but I still help my friend and anyone who might need it
Tbh... i think my life is worse than this because i still get bullied and i think some people don't have hearts , i just want to live a normal life , i didn't think that i would get bullied because of how i look so i have to wear a mask all the time now.
All you need are friends
I'm crying when I watch this
SHOW RESPECT PEOPLE
who stands up for bullying it might be hard but it'll be worth it
everyone is weird, its called being unique so embrace that part of you, love yourself.
No need for a like just do it 😇
some people don't understand when they cross the line. in fact there is no line to cross. people need to stop
Bully: Say cheese to the camera!
Me: **smiles**
#BullysItCouldHappendToYouSomeday
That was my life for 11 years.
poor people I been bulled before for two years it's hurt so much to know more and more people have to go through this
stop bulling
stop bullying and spread the love simple but effective.
this video shows that there will be somebody by ur side that god and family forget the bullies and live ur life informing them fight for ur life
the music is so beautiful and bullying will reverse back to you if you're not sorry.
Your right,it's my thing to make things right not wrong
I've been bulied before and now i still do
If you are being bullied, Don't worry cause they are afraid of you that's why they bully you..If it gets worse ask for help from an adult
everyone calls me ugly
Why are there dislikes to this video? This video is help full. If you disliked it then you disagree to stop bullying.
It made me think of this girl in my class has now became my very bestfriend..because whenever she got bullied i stand up for what is right! I'll fight the person who made her think she's a loser! Stand for it there's nothing to be shy of what you are thinking. Be brave!
this video needs to be shared because this keeps on telling a lesson bout bulling and why we don't do it
I love how the two people that help her show up then there's that random girl like I
here too
😂
people just don't think before they do.
STOP BULLYING
and all people go in good ways...
The people who get bullied are way prettier and cooler than the ones who bully.
many of people bullied like me but now I feel im stronger and bullies is out in school and now people like me
stop bullying. little do you know the person you bully ends up in the hospital dying. unless if they're strong. and fight it.
This video is so inspirational 😭😭
I don't get bullied, but if one of my friends get bullied I will give the bully a black eye.
But i can't take it anymore...i'm not a fighter
Yeah I don't care if you don't like getting bullied. Because my friends are bullies and that's why I will always be their friend.
she's still a beautiful girl even if she wears glasses and all the others are good enough too, even if they are different and not pretty as them. 😢👊 all the bullys are gonna have a bad future if they don't stop!!!
I always fight for my seatmate whenever she/he was bullied...
WE CAN STOP BULLING