Second op's parents is just basically "if ur brother shot you 42 times in the chest with a shotgun it's ur fault for not handling it like a man and taking the shots"
Yes because according to parents the oldest child is basically an adult living in the house and the youngest child is an angel that has just come to earth
@@norwegianpatr he should record it and the parents reaction and tell them to act like adults now or act like adults when interviewed by child services
@@aroachinyourhouse4150 That’s just how the world works if you get raised as if you are an angel then you often become a devil because you aren’t faced With consequences for your actions
Sarah was probably one of those stepmoms who expected to be the mom and saw anything short of burning all photos and renouncing OP's bio mother, was rejection.
2nd story: Leave the house as soon as you reach 18 and cut contact, let that household implode because they are all entitled s***heads that deserve each other.
If the kid in the second story can work reasons to think he is 14 or about that age if he can get proof of this and show it to other family members he could try to get emancipated and live with a trusted family member or someone like a teacher outside of the family. Cause in situations like this the court could grant him emancipation
first story, I'm pretty sure the OP said that this step-mom didn't want him interacting with his dead mother's side of the family and tried to force him into doing things with her that he did with his mother and it ended up poorly each time. You can't fault the OP on this one saying that he never gave her a chance if she's immediately trying to remove all memory of his original mother against his wishes.
Can't wait for parents in the 2nd Story to get some of that treatment from the younger child towards themselves. Poor OP, they didn't deserve any of this.
Story 2: I would rather be an in orphanage than deal with that little hellspawn. This story absolutely made my blood BOIL. I would record the next abusive interaction without the little twerp knowing, and then I would go and show it to parents, and, if it was bad enough, the police.
Story 1: There is a lot that isn't being said here regarding their pasts, but if they aren't close either way, i really can't see why Sarah expects to walk him down the aisle. It would be one thing to ask,but to expect is unreasonable. Story 2: Honestly, i hope the OP just snaps one day and beats the living tar out of that little brother. If i were the OP, id be doing everything in my power to get out of that house, and even disown my family. They are some of the worst parents i've heard on here when it comes to favoring one child over the other. Not quite as bad as the little girl who got to blow out the older brothers candles, but its up there. Story 3: Good on the OP for staying cool here, both on the phone and in person. Overall, i feel bad for the dog here. The dog is probably aggressive because it has to be around such a miserable bag like that all the time.
The 2nd story is so disgusting. Seeing as their parent wont do anything about it, he should put his little brother in his place soonest. As the eldest sister of two, I made sure my younger siblings learned at an early age to respect me and not mess with me. They know I love them dearly but that I also won't hesitate to whoop their butts when they cross the line. Til this day, my siblings listens to me more than our parents actually. 😇
2nd video - not borderline abuse. It’s straight up abuse. And clearly a “golden child/scapegoat” situation. OP needs to go to his school teachers and ask their help, or any adult he knows can be trusted. Immediately.
2nd story. Do you have uncles or aunts, or grandparents? Explain the whole thing and show them the proof. Record it in your cell phone by putting on record and keeping it in your pocket or keep a facebook messenger tab open on top of the video recording to act as if you were doing something else.
Unfortunately, it sounds like the parents are going to take the side of the brat over the brother any day of the week. I’m not trying to say it as a jerk thing, but the way that they’re sounding if Opie fights back in anyway even if he got up in their faces, those parents obviously you’re showing the favoritism towards that brother.
@@silverblaze46 Yes, but causing a potential custody case and a potential cutoff from the rest of the family and their circles is probably a better ending than to let them go unscathed.
@@ignaz-one7430 right. I don’t wanna try to cause too much drama with the suggestion, though I’m sorry to say OP is over 18 that I’ve read in some of the previous posts, so I’m not sure what you really say except the advice I gave, or I would also say the OP, that, even though they’re going to talk to a therapist, make sure that they are nowhere near OP when speaking, because when it comes to that little monster, that little creep will definitely sabotage the session and make it all about him and then go wine to the parents to say OP did this one clearly it didn’t happen and of course get punished by the parents
Dude the second story reminds me of my brother and how my mom dealt with him- He'd torment me until I was curled up in a ball begging him to just leave me alone and my mom would call me dramatic and even take him out to do something fun to quote "Cheer him up" It sucks
Story one- I don't blame op for excluding the Stepmom, first of all it sounds like Opie had a great relationship with his mother and the fact that the step mom was trying to erase it to a certain degree can actually make it seem pushy. First of all you do not go into a family and expect that they will love you ahead of time that family was already touched and it's not going to be easy so you shouldn't be entitled to the love of the kids who were already hurting back then. Anyway I don't blame op for not wanting his stepmom to walk him down the aisle and yeah it does sound painful but I feel like whenever a person marries into an already family they should be either a responsible Guardian whether to that boy or girl and not to say that I will be your father or mother because that's just presumptuous and in most cases entitled and rude.
Okay. One thing is wanting to become someone's mother after they lost her. The role could be filled but never replaced. You can't force that. That person will be always there no matter what. You need to accept that, when your partner is a widow and a parent. About the kid, well... there is nothing can be done.
Story 2: I really hope there is a good update for this story. I can’t believe how the op’s brother is practically the devil and his parents don’t do anything about it.
Story #2: Move out, call the police, call CPS, emancipate yourself, make sure you ghost your brother those are all my words of disappointment to your family. They clearly show you mean nothing to them.
Story 2 is the reason why I love how my mom is treating me ,my older sister, and my little brother (who almost died at birth by twisting in the womb to tangle himself in the umbilical cord....no one ask why) and we all protect eachother. I mean sure we get on eachothers nerves but one time I saw my little brother get bullied in school and I was right behind the bully as his friends backed off....let's say the kids parents found him on a fence by his underwear I even recorded the whole thing to show them to tell there son NEVER mess with my little brother
Story 2 even frustrated me. I have a little brother who isn't as bad but I can oddly feel his pain. A great differencei would have done was yelled at him and possibly used violence
If I were OP in the abusive family story I'd air all dirty laundry of the donors and bloodkin on social media and also contact CPS for neglect (depending on OP's age). Let's see how popular they are after people finds out they rather listen to their younger, spoiledrotten golden child over OP who do everything in the house. Also most likely record every time the brother is acting up and the parents berating over the lies.
The second ops' parents were absolutely dishonorable to be parents. They play obvious favorites and remind me of my own at times. I hope he either cuts contact with them as soon as possible if they aren't willing to change
Second Story: I seriously hope you have other family members or some friends who are willing to allow you to move in with them, because your parents sound absolutely awful, and I hope your little brother ruins everything for them so they could see how much of a little monster they raised.
For that second story, you really just need to stand up to your brother and show him that you’re not a pushover. If your parents don’t side with you fine, but get the immediate threat of your brother dealt with. As long as you have him stop and don’t give it to him
As someone who has had a step parent who "tried to be a loving parent" twords me, the step never considers the fact that we do NOT want them to be our parent, we never asked them to "put in the effort" we never wanted them there to begin with, and all they ever do is force their unsolicited "love" and "affections" on us.
2nd story: I wouldn’t pull out a phone because the brat will probably break it and parents will find a reason to yell at op, and if op puts up a secret camera and catches this they’ll still yell at him for putting that up and ignore the little crap’s actions.
First story is insane. My step-daughter never accepted me as well. The amount of beatings her Mom had. I kept it secret. Her biological father was a monster. Know what? There are bigger monsters around.
Not gonna lie, that big brother needs to learn to stick up for himself. His parents aren't going to teach him this life lesson, so he needs to teach himself. I'm not victim blaming, I'm just saying bullies are everywhere. You gotta learn to put those cowards in their place.
I agree with this, but here's the thing, OP is still in their parents house. So if they would even try and stick up for themselves, YB would cry wolf and get their parents to tear into her, both physically and mentally. I'd say they should call their friend and stay there, and tell the friends mother EVERYTHING.
I hate "Grandparents rights laws" they are usually abused by the grandparents. But that Stepmom sounded like she was trying to alienate the Stepchild from the Dead bio Mom's family, while the Stepchild was still a minor.
For story 2, i’ll say this, cancel me all you want People like op’s parents and brother are the type of people who it’s okay to wish something horrible on. Period.
For the first story, OP is a bit of an AH for how he handled it, but - and I need to emphasize this - NOT an AH for not wanting Sarah to walk him down the aisle. She's also acting very entitled in assuming she would, and especially by announcing it before even talking to OP about it.
Ops dad and step mom definitely suck in this situation, instead of trying to understand things from ops perspective they tried to force a family bond that could have happened naturally, had they not been pushy. It's great the step mom stepped up and tried to be a mom for him, but she's not his mom and now he'll (probably) never see her anything more than his dad's wife.
Op is kinda a jerk for not giving the step mom a chance but at the same time the step mom is also the jerk for not realizing she can't replace his mom Two birds with one stone
Dear freaking Lord….Story 2….it made me physically shake with anger. OP needs to get the hell out of that house. He is in literal danger because his brother is psychotic and manipulative and his parents are utterly useless. The urge I felt to reach through the screen and smack the younger brother was so powerful that I actually crushed a cup I was holding (plastic, thankfully, and empty). Some people just were not meant to be parents, and OP’s are a classic example of that.
So if your parents punish you and never punish your brother you might as well beat the shit out of him…. They already think you beat him so why not make it a reality
First story both are jerks him for not giving her a chance and her for thinking she has the right to do whatever. 2) should have video evidence of brothers actions
Second story time to call CPS and you need to find a way to get out because they have favoritism and obviously don't care about your well been so get out of their
Whenever my sister was being a jerk when I was a kid and I told my parents they would say “are you telling me this to get her into trouble or out of trouble?” Um neither I just wanted her to stop
Story 2 I was nearly about to yell at my phone this is so WRONG! the parents are neglecting to do a simple task of defending the op and I know how they feel my sister dose simler things. But if the younger brother blew up the world they would probably blame the older brother because him being alive is "so bad for the parents" if I was the op I would shove that little pos down the stairs 50 times. Or record the interactions because when they can tell cps about it.
I want to say something to the narrator to help them understand the scenario that OP two is in. Even if he gets perfect video evidence of him abusing and assaulting his brother, the parents won’t care anyways. Even if they knew 100% the little brother is doing this, favoritism is a very bad thing and they won’t care and just tell the older brother to deal with it and grow up.
Gotta disagree with you he lost his mom and the dad' wife replacement may have tried to move into the mom role too soon and not give op time to grieve, but the whole don't visit your dead mom's parents because it's a waste of time sealed my judgement on the stepmom for me and probably for op too.
Story #1: Here I thought it was the husband's mom that tries to make the wedding about her! Because that's exactly what's happening! The bride's STEPMOM, who supposedly wanted nothing to do with her, until now, is trying to be the star of the wedding! Story #2: Dude's gotta try to find his own apartment and move out, permanently! Then just let his parents deal with the golden boy. You gotta be willing to cut toxic people outa your life! Even if it's family! Which in some cases can be the most toxic!
Last story about the dog. First of all, I cannot even begin to imagine why she would have poop next to her sink? If the dog is as small as implied, how did it get up to the sink to eat it? Yeah I think I will cast some doubts about the veracity of that story.
To be completely honest, I don’t blame the step mother in story 1. I’ve witnessed similar situations and while no, you can’t replace loved ones, it is very obvious that the OP never even gave her a chance. Not to replace his mother, but to be close at all. The ultimatum may not be the best way to go about it but if I was in that situation, I wouldn’t want to attend someone’s wedding that barely even saw me as family despite my best efforts.
Maybe if she hadn't forced it for all these years he would have felt differently. You can't force them to make you their mom. Now she's seeing the consequences of HER actions.
Story 2: Sadly little brothers like that either respond to two things, a nice older sibling beat down or a nice lovely thing I call payback. All and all, maybe you should live with your aunts for a while since your family is so toxic.
If I were OP in the first story, then I would’ve said that if you were really my mom, then you wouldn’t put this kind of a condition of not coming if you can’t walk me down the Aisle 🤷♀️ like I have never heard mothers walking their son’s down the aisle🤷♀️
That kid in the second story is going to end up in jail for beating some poor innocent person up and the parents sound like the type to blame the person and not their little angel.
That poor big brother. He needs to talk to someone. Maybe a school counselor or just an adult that you like and is kind to you. But, they are right use your phone. But try not to let the little bro know, if you can.
If I had to tolerate that I have a temper I've got better at controlling it but if I had a brother like this I'd probably have snapped if I went through the same abuse as this person did
Story 1: no the op is in the right period. You don't just come into someone's life and try to replace anyone. You start something new. Work your way into the child's heart. I'm becoming a step mom. I let thr kids know i love them but I'll never replace their mom. Moms are important ladies in a child's life. It's disrespectful to try and force it. Because thr child will resist. She's in the wrong all around
Every wedding I have ever attended the groom was already at the altar waiting for the bride. Never have I seen the parent(s) of the groom walk the groom down the aisle. Is this a tradition in other cultures?
Second story. Its impossible something to told parents. They fell comgortable to have a punching bad and never will be listening. He should to find any way to leave them.
Second op's parents is just basically "if ur brother shot you 42 times in the chest with a shotgun it's ur fault for not handling it like a man and taking the shots"
Yes because according to parents the oldest child is basically an adult living in the house and the youngest child is an angel that has just come to earth
@@norwegianpatr but that "angel" was a devil in disguise
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@@norwegianpatr he should record it and the parents reaction and tell them to act like adults now or act like adults when interviewed by child services
@@aroachinyourhouse4150 That’s just how the world works if you get raised as if you are an angel then you often become a devil because you aren’t faced With consequences for your actions
Sarah was probably one of those stepmoms who expected to be the mom and saw anything short of burning all photos and renouncing OP's bio mother, was rejection.
It’s crazy when family members believe you owe them everything 😂
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2nd story: Leave the house as soon as you reach 18 and cut contact, let that household implode because they are all entitled s***heads that deserve each other.
If the kid in the second story can work reasons to think he is 14 or about that age if he can get proof of this and show it to other family members he could try to get emancipated and live with a trusted family member or someone like a teacher outside of the family. Cause in situations like this the court could grant him emancipation
If he's 16/17 he can get emancipated from his parents.
OP is 22, probably doesn't have enough money yet to leave, but I really hope he does soon, the younger brother sound like a danger to be around
@@LunaRoA he would be better off living in a car then
@@bensgalley1368 True
Story 2 - Leave and never look back. If they love your brother so much, then they can have him all to themselves
first story, I'm pretty sure the OP said that this step-mom didn't want him interacting with his dead mother's side of the family and tried to force him into doing things with her that he did with his mother and it ended up poorly each time. You can't fault the OP on this one saying that he never gave her a chance if she's immediately trying to remove all memory of his original mother against his wishes.
People need to realize no step child HAS to like their step parents ESPECIALLY if they are trying to replace the bio parent
I agree Kayla reader needs to pay attention
After I'm hearing these stories of favoritism, those deeply hurt me on how the OPs have to deal with their nasty parents and siblings like this.
Can't wait for parents in the 2nd Story to get some of that treatment from the younger child towards themselves.
Poor OP, they didn't deserve any of this.
Story 2: I would rather be an in orphanage than deal with that little hellspawn. This story absolutely made my blood BOIL. I would record the next abusive interaction without the little twerp knowing, and then I would go and show it to parents, and, if it was bad enough, the police.
Story 1: There is a lot that isn't being said here regarding their pasts, but if they aren't close either way, i really can't see why Sarah expects to walk him down the aisle. It would be one thing to ask,but to expect is unreasonable.
Story 2: Honestly, i hope the OP just snaps one day and beats the living tar out of that little brother. If i were the OP, id be doing everything in my power to get out of that house, and even disown my family. They are some of the worst parents i've heard on here when it comes to favoring one child over the other. Not quite as bad as the little girl who got to blow out the older brothers candles, but its up there.
Story 3: Good on the OP for staying cool here, both on the phone and in person. Overall, i feel bad for the dog here. The dog is probably aggressive because it has to be around such a miserable bag like that all the time.
Story 1: we don't know her side of this story. It seens both of them - the OP and the stepmother - are right and wrong at the same time.
The 2nd story is so disgusting. Seeing as their parent wont do anything about it, he should put his little brother in his place soonest. As the eldest sister of two, I made sure my younger siblings learned at an early age to respect me and not mess with me. They know I love them dearly but that I also won't hesitate to whoop their butts when they cross the line. Til this day, my siblings listens to me more than our parents actually. 😇
My sister is just like you
That little brother in the 2nd story is literal hellspawn, probably should call the cops on him
2nd video - not borderline abuse. It’s straight up abuse. And clearly a “golden child/scapegoat” situation. OP needs to go to his school teachers and ask their help, or any adult he knows can be trusted. Immediately.
Story 2: it's gonna be outstandingly hilarious once Op leaves and the parents are left with their little psychopath
2nd story. Do you have uncles or aunts, or grandparents? Explain the whole thing and show them the proof. Record it in your cell phone by putting on record and keeping it in your pocket or keep a facebook messenger tab open on top of the video recording to act as if you were doing something else.
Unfortunately, it sounds like the parents are going to take the side of the brat over the brother any day of the week. I’m not trying to say it as a jerk thing, but the way that they’re sounding if Opie fights back in anyway even if he got up in their faces, those parents obviously you’re showing the favoritism towards that brother.
@@silverblaze46 Yes, but causing a potential custody case and a potential cutoff from the rest of the family and their circles is probably a better ending than to let them go unscathed.
@@ignaz-one7430 right. I don’t wanna try to cause too much drama with the suggestion, though I’m sorry to say OP is over 18 that I’ve read in some of the previous posts, so I’m not sure what you really say except the advice I gave, or I would also say the OP, that, even though they’re going to talk to a therapist, make sure that they are nowhere near OP when speaking, because when it comes to that little monster, that little creep will definitely sabotage the session and make it all about him and then go wine to the parents to say OP did this one clearly it didn’t happen and of course get punished by the parents
Dude the second story reminds me of my brother and how my mom dealt with him-
He'd torment me until I was curled up in a ball begging him to just leave me alone and my mom would call me dramatic and even take him out to do something fun to quote "Cheer him up"
It sucks
Story one- I don't blame op for excluding the Stepmom, first of all it sounds like Opie had a great relationship with his mother and the fact that the step mom was trying to erase it to a certain degree can actually make it seem pushy. First of all you do not go into a family and expect that they will love you ahead of time that family was already touched and it's not going to be easy so you shouldn't be entitled to the love of the kids who were already hurting back then. Anyway I don't blame op for not wanting his stepmom to walk him down the aisle and yeah it does sound painful but I feel like whenever a person marries into an already family they should be either a responsible Guardian whether to that boy or girl and not to say that I will be your father or mother because that's just presumptuous and in most cases entitled and rude.
The family that abuse the o.p. here will get their own karma and I hope the o.p. get the better life to live
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It sounds a little nice as she is trying her best and compared to other stories people may find it sweet
The little brother in story 2 is exhibiting some disturbing behavior. What is wrong with that family?
Okay. One thing is wanting to become someone's mother after they lost her. The role could be filled but never replaced. You can't force that. That person will be always there no matter what. You need to accept that, when your partner is a widow and a parent. About the kid, well... there is nothing can be done.
Story 2: I really hope there is a good update for this story. I can’t believe how the op’s brother is practically the devil and his parents don’t do anything about it.
8:06 man, if my brother did all of this, there wouldn't be a little brother anymore, there'd be a little funeral
Story #2: Move out, call the police, call CPS, emancipate yourself, make sure you ghost your brother those are all my words of disappointment to your family. They clearly show you mean nothing to them.
Story 2 is the reason why I love how my mom is treating me ,my older sister, and my little brother (who almost died at birth by twisting in the womb to tangle himself in the umbilical cord....no one ask why) and we all protect eachother. I mean sure we get on eachothers nerves but one time I saw my little brother get bullied in school and I was right behind the bully as his friends backed off....let's say the kids parents found him on a fence by his underwear
I even recorded the whole thing to show them to tell there son NEVER mess with my little brother
Love hearing these story dude
Favoritism children never end well 😕
Story 2 even frustrated me. I have a little brother who isn't as bad but I can oddly feel his pain. A great differencei would have done was yelled at him and possibly used violence
Second story, i understand wanting to be a good brother but once he jabs a fork into you, i don't understand how you don't send him to the hospital
If I were OP in the abusive family story I'd air all dirty laundry of the donors and bloodkin on social media and also contact CPS for neglect (depending on OP's age). Let's see how popular they are after people finds out they rather listen to their younger, spoiledrotten golden child over OP who do everything in the house. Also most likely record every time the brother is acting up and the parents berating over the lies.
The second ops' parents were absolutely dishonorable to be parents. They play obvious favorites and remind me of my own at times. I hope he either cuts contact with them as soon as possible if they aren't willing to change
People who yell at service staff are just the WORST.
Second Story: I seriously hope you have other family members or some friends who are willing to allow you to move in with them, because your parents sound absolutely awful, and I hope your little brother ruins everything for them so they could see how much of a little monster they raised.
Story is so sad I almost cried my self
The last story: I genuinely feel the crazy woman may have altered her bill I do not know why I feel this way but I do
For that second story, you really just need to stand up to your brother and show him that you’re not a pushover. If your parents don’t side with you fine, but get the immediate threat of your brother dealt with. As long as you have him stop and don’t give it to him
As someone who has had a step parent who "tried to be a loving parent" twords me, the step never considers the fact that we do NOT want them to be our parent, we never asked them to "put in the effort" we never wanted them there to begin with, and all they ever do is force their unsolicited "love" and "affections" on us.
2nd story: I wouldn’t pull out a phone because the brat will probably break it and parents will find a reason to yell at op, and if op puts up a secret camera and catches this they’ll still yell at him for putting that up and ignore the little crap’s actions.
First story is insane. My step-daughter never accepted me as well. The amount of beatings her Mom had. I kept it secret. Her biological father was a monster.
Know what? There are bigger monsters around.
Not gonna lie, that big brother needs to learn to stick up for himself. His parents aren't going to teach him this life lesson, so he needs to teach himself. I'm not victim blaming, I'm just saying bullies are everywhere. You gotta learn to put those cowards in their place.
I agree with this, but here's the thing, OP is still in their parents house. So if they would even try and stick up for themselves, YB would cry wolf and get their parents to tear into her, both physically and mentally. I'd say they should call their friend and stay there, and tell the friends mother EVERYTHING.
And family members be hurt after you go no contact with them after they act like this😂
Can the op tell some extended family about his brother’s abuse?
I hate "Grandparents rights laws" they are usually abused by the grandparents. But that Stepmom sounded like she was trying to alienate the Stepchild from the Dead bio Mom's family, while the Stepchild was still a minor.
Istg I couldn’t relate with the 2nd story more. And when you finally hit him back you get in trouble 😒
For that second story you should totally rock his worlds and rough em up a bit ya know? Brotherly conflict and all
The second story will end with “why doesn’t our oldest speak to us anymore”
I was confused at first, cause the stereotypical wedding has the woman walked down the isle. Good for you doing things your way, no judgement.
For story 2, i’ll say this, cancel me all you want
People like op’s parents and brother are the type of people who it’s okay to wish something horrible on. Period.
They already think he’s beating his little brother…. What’s the harm in beating the shit out of that bastard
100% agree with you. People like that are just plain awful and dont deserve any compassion.
Always remember beating your brother is not abuse its a valid form of discipline
I hope that OP's parents and brother get thrown in jail, their monsters.
The younger brother in story 2 sounds like a golden child story.
For the first story, OP is a bit of an AH for how he handled it, but - and I need to emphasize this - NOT an AH for not wanting Sarah to walk him down the aisle. She's also acting very entitled in assuming she would, and especially by announcing it before even talking to OP about it.
Ops dad and step mom definitely suck in this situation, instead of trying to understand things from ops perspective they tried to force a family bond that could have happened naturally, had they not been pushy. It's great the step mom stepped up and tried to be a mom for him, but she's not his mom and now he'll (probably) never see her anything more than his dad's wife.
We cant comfirm without thinking and investigating
Op is kinda a jerk for not giving the step mom a chance but at the same time the step mom is also the jerk for not realizing she can't replace his mom
Two birds with one stone
@@vxnvee8193 don’t blame an 11 year old for not “giving her a chance”
Don’t forget that she tried preventing him from seeing his mother’s family too
Now that you said that it makes my statement invalid which I feel like it is invalid considering I tried my best to be impartial
Dear freaking Lord….Story 2….it made me physically shake with anger.
OP needs to get the hell out of that house. He is in literal danger because his brother is psychotic and manipulative and his parents are utterly useless. The urge I felt to reach through the screen and smack the younger brother was so powerful that I actually crushed a cup I was holding (plastic, thankfully, and empty).
Some people just were not meant to be parents, and OP’s are a classic example of that.
For Story 3 : I Was Thinking Thank God Is Not A Karen But Then She Starts Screaming
So if your parents punish you and never punish your brother you might as well beat the shit out of him…. They already think you beat him so why not make it a reality
Story 2. Kick his ass, put the fear of God into him before he permanently damages you
for story 1 the step mom needs to understand op isn't comfortable with her being the one walking him not all kids are going to like their step parents
Seeing as how op will always be the villain and his little brother can get away with murder, beat the ever loving crap out of him
The story with the owner and her dog sounds like my fourth-grade teacher
2nd story; call the domestic abuse hotline
First story both are jerks him for not giving her a chance and her for thinking she has the right to do whatever. 2) should have video evidence of brothers actions
for the second story bloody hit him, what is he going to do tell your parents because this is like the boy who cried wolf
Second story time to call CPS and you need to find a way to get out because they have favoritism and obviously don't care about your well been so get out of their
Ops step mom is getting too much hate.
That second story I would have called the cops and explained to them what the brother was doing.
Whenever my sister was being a jerk when I was a kid and I told my parents they would say “are you telling me this to get her into trouble or out of trouble?” Um neither I just wanted her to stop
Story 2 I was nearly about to yell at my phone this is so WRONG! the parents are neglecting to do a simple task of defending the op and I know how they feel my sister dose simler things. But if the younger brother blew up the world they would probably blame the older brother because him being alive is "so bad for the parents" if I was the op I would shove that little pos down the stairs 50 times. Or record the interactions because when they can tell cps about it.
I want to say something to the narrator to help them understand the scenario that OP two is in. Even if he gets perfect video evidence of him abusing and assaulting his brother, the parents won’t care anyways. Even if they knew 100% the little brother is doing this, favoritism is a very bad thing and they won’t care and just tell the older brother to deal with it and grow up.
The 2nd story is so relatable for me but instead of a little brother its an older brother.
Without more history I can't comment on why "Sarah" behave the way she did
Gotta disagree with you he lost his mom and the dad' wife replacement may have tried to move into the mom role too soon and not give op time to grieve, but the whole don't visit your dead mom's parents because it's a waste of time sealed my judgement on the stepmom for me and probably for op too.
Story #1: Here I thought it was the husband's mom that tries to make the wedding about her! Because that's exactly what's happening! The bride's STEPMOM, who supposedly wanted nothing to do with her, until now, is trying to be the star of the wedding!
Story #2: Dude's gotta try to find his own apartment and move out, permanently! Then just let his parents deal with the golden boy. You gotta be willing to cut toxic people outa your life! Even if it's family! Which in some cases can be the most toxic!
Last story about the dog. First of all, I cannot even begin to imagine why she would have poop next to her sink? If the dog is as small as implied, how did it get up to the sink to eat it? Yeah I think I will cast some doubts about the veracity of that story.
the brother in the second story has to put his brother in order cuz if that was me, i would beat the shit out of him
To be completely honest, I don’t blame the step mother in story 1. I’ve witnessed similar situations and while no, you can’t replace loved ones, it is very obvious that the OP never even gave her a chance. Not to replace his mother, but to be close at all. The ultimatum may not be the best way to go about it but if I was in that situation, I wouldn’t want to attend someone’s wedding that barely even saw me as family despite my best efforts.
It’s also the OP’s wedding, it’s their right to say Whether or not someone is involved
ya true
@@zekeaderenzo2966 its also the parents choice on weather they are gunna go
Maybe if she hadn't forced it for all these years he would have felt differently. You can't force them to make you their mom. Now she's seeing the consequences of HER actions.
Did we forget the part when she practically tried to erase anything the mother inprinted in OPs life
The one with the abusive brother I would have called the cops a long time ago.
Story 2: Sadly little brothers like that either respond to two things, a nice older sibling beat down or a nice lovely thing I call payback. All and all, maybe you should live with your aunts for a while since your family is so toxic.
the brother likely learned to be so abusive from his parents.
If I were OP in the first story, then I would’ve said that if you were really my mom, then you wouldn’t put this kind of a condition of not coming if you can’t walk me down the Aisle 🤷♀️ like I have never heard mothers walking their son’s down the aisle🤷♀️
That kid in the second story is going to end up in jail for beating some poor innocent person up and the parents sound like the type to blame the person and not their little angel.
7:57
"YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH IT YOURSELF!"
Me: ok =) *beats the little brother to death* there :D
So the step mother sounds like she wants to completely replace the op mom. As she did want the op to see his mom family.
That poor big brother. He needs to talk to someone. Maybe a school counselor or just an adult that you like and is kind to you. But, they are right use your phone. But try not to let the little bro know,
if you can.
When did grooms walk the isle? The groom waits beside the wedding officiant.
Story 1 - No, screw you, that Stepmother tried to _erase_ OP's birth mother. They never EARNED that chance
Story 2 - I checked. Two days ago. OP IS STILL LIVING THERE AND BEING AB*SED
I am so FURIOUS with this!
Holy, AITJ and Connor Pugs collab?!
Maliciouscompliance
MAN when the parents were not home that day I would probably not have a brother
If I had to tolerate that I have a temper I've got better at controlling it but if I had a brother like this I'd probably have snapped if I went through the same abuse as this person did
Story 1: no the op is in the right period. You don't just come into someone's life and try to replace anyone.
You start something new. Work your way into the child's heart. I'm becoming a step mom. I let thr kids know i love them but I'll never replace their mom. Moms are important ladies in a child's life. It's disrespectful to try and force it. Because thr child will resist. She's in the wrong all around
Does the 2nd story have an update?
Every wedding I have ever attended the groom was already at the altar waiting for the bride. Never have I seen the parent(s) of the groom walk the groom down the aisle. Is this a tradition in other cultures?
second story: my anger issues could never
*I Didn't Listen To These Because There Aren't Any Updates!*
Second story. Its impossible something to told parents. They fell comgortable to have a punching bad and never will be listening. He should to find any way to leave them.
I am so sorry for the person in story two.
The little brother in story two is like my brother but to the extreme
(sorry if that seem self centered)
Hey in the first story that step mom har no right to interfear for the OP to see his Mom"s side on the family that a huge red flag!!!!