Yeah, the woman that would have been her mother-in-law needs to be sued for assault and attempted murder and destruction of property and probably a host of other things that the Op never mentioned. 👀
nah if you heard the final update when she left them she dropped the charges and the restraining order. OP wasn't that bright at all. she should have got a restraining order after the licence issue. the only smart person and the only hero was OP's momma and OP should have told her family right from the start.
Anyone who would constantly bring you around their toxic family members isn’t worth it. He should have never brought her around his mother after how she behaved the first time
I didn’t even get to the end when I made my first comment. I could have told her that her fiancé was just as toxic. Now if he gets rights to their child it will be tortured for sure
@@Mochalate I truly hope you stay single forever. He told her it was purely her decision and said they could move away and have zero contact with ANY of the family. She dropped the charges and restraining order and no more than 3 DAYS of breaking this guy's heart she tries to visit him. Yes I feel he should've stepped in to protect him but he was literally lost in his mind over a 5 year relationship being thrown away for no reason. To assume the child would be tortured is complete bullshit since time after time after time he came to her defense to save her but you only use the one time he doesn't as the only time
I’m so happy to hear she left. I agree, that marriage would’ve just been a huge nightmare for her. I don’t think the ex was trying to be mean, I really just think he was in utter shock he’s really seeing his mother act this way towards his ex fiancée. (I mean would you expect your momma to attack a pregnant woman? I wouldn’t 🤷🏾♀️.) If she really doesn’t want the rest of the family involved besides the dad, I’d file a restraining order against that side of the family and for extra precaution, a second party be present for visitation with dad (just in case the mom shows up unannounced). This is was a very shocking story, I hope the op is okay now and has a good family lawyer.
I kinda disagree considering the fact she said he was saying to stop. At that point he was well aware of what was happening to be able to talk.if he was truly in shock he would have just stood there with his mouth open unable to move or talk.
The ex definitely could have still could have been in shock. Unable to move or speak isn’t the only kind of shock out there. But I also think he could have intentionally not gotten involved because of his opinion on the op/his mom. I also think that she should try to get full custody over her child and then allow the father to see them. Even with a restraining order on the mom, I’m not sure if I would want him to have parental rights if I felt so strongly that he purposely just let his mother attack me. I understand how difficult it can be balancing a terrible relationship with your ex/father if your child, but still wanting that father in your child’s life. My mom died from cancer when I was 14. She had hired a lawyer to transfer guardianship from my father to a close family friend for after her death. But even though she had raised me completely on her own since I was three, and I only visited my dad around a week a year starting at nine, they had shared parental rights since she had never taken him to court. It made transferring guardianship incredibly difficult, and it added unnecessary stress during a time when I was vulnerable, and almost completely ruined my relationship with my father. Obviously, that’s not an incredibly common situation, but there’s just so many things that can go wrong in life legally, with a child. So it honestly might just be better for her to have the legal rights, and create a contact schedule herself with the father. Even though that would be an incredibly long, expensive, and tiring court battle, it could be worth it depending on how crazy he/his family really are.
The man was willing to cut all ties with his family and let his mom stay in prison for this woman but that wasn't enough. Not only the shock of his mom attacking her but the man was still devastated over the breakup that happen 3 DAYS ago. She didn't try to notify him she was on the way or tell him she wanted to talk. If that would've happened he would've kicked his mom out immediately like he was willing to do when they were engaged
First story: It's always a huge red flag when the partner won't defend OP when their family members or friends attack. I'm baffed that he chose his evil witch of a mother over his fiancee, I just hope OP is okay now and is happy with her new baby. ♥
To be continuously punching a stomach of a pregnant woman is worse than an assault. I don't even want children but damn this makes me emotional, if anything like that happened to any of my closest friends or family I'd make sure that this evil monster rots in prison for years. What a terrifying experience it must have been.
Number one suggestion: DO NOT put his name on the birth certificate. Put “Father Unknown”. Block everyone and move. If you do name him, get him to give up rights and a permanent no contact order for you, the baby and your entire family!
She could also sue for full custody and have a restraining order put in place on the grounds of letting the child be in his custody unsupervised is child endangerment. Use the restraining order and pictures of her injuries as evidence, as well as testimony from the ex that his mother tried to beat the fetus to death inside her.
I personally would forget everything that happened and get restraining orders on both the ex and the mother-in-law and I'd try to get full custody of the child and if either of them try to get into your home in the future lock everything,get whatever weapon you have available,and call the cops
The moment where she attacked the Christmast tree and OP is the moment where i would personally cut it all off. Break with husband, gdt the restraining order, press the charges, tell ex to put mother in law in a mental hospital and therapy
OP should follow in her mother's footsteps and take up bodybuilding, and boxing on top of that too. Being physically strong and having martial arts training and experience is often indispensable. Keeping weapons for self defense is good advice too. Preferably, OP should buy firearms and get regular training so that she can profficiently use them should the situation arise.
She should have broken it off way sooner. when she discovered and suspected that her mother in law signed her up on all these scetchy sites, or her ex-sisters in law, that is the moment she should have called it all off.
OP needed to run for her life. If she keeps the baby, she needs to get restraining order against both of them, and enforce the shit out of the TROs, with jail time for each violations. If she has to move out of state, do it. Dhe needs to prosecute every instance, and she needs to move out of state. If she gas a restraining order against the baby daddy, that solves the visitation issue. Or should. My late wife had something like this with her baby daddy being the violent one. When she and I got married, i took legal action to strip baby daddy of parental rights, then I adopted her son and we moved out of state, solving that issue once and for all. OP should try it
I wonder if moving out of state to give birth and listing the father as unknown might help to confuse the paternity issue. The BF's mother would probably encourage the son to not claim paternity due to how much she wants him to not be in contact with OP. And at this pint, OP certainly doesn't want contact with this vicious hag.
yes, but the baby daddy himself was not abusive only the mother so the op would have nothing of cause to file a restraining order and the baby daddy would still have rights even if she could get one because he did nothing to the child
That's wrong. Out of pure petulance my ex left my name off and then sued me when I was seeing another woman. Rightfully so, and I was 19 at the time living in California. I'm 44 now. The child support laws are for the women.
@@anti-classist I did the blood test too, and I paid for it. This was in 1998. It was I think $270.00. I ask for the so I'm not complaining about paying for it. I had to call about 6 weeks later to find the results when they said they would call me. I asked about paternity and he said well... erm... oh your it than hung up.
I found out when she was born 3 days after. I begged my ex to please just let me know when she goes in. Her mom and step dad got into her ear. It's been over 20 years and my life has worked out for the best. Stay strong.
@@jasonpiwarski5016 well your ex clearly was not done with you...... This woman may want a calm peaceful life away from his psycho mother. I kept my ex off the birth certificate and I do not collect child support but I can get a passport and don't have to seek out my ex who couldn't care less for permission to travel with my kid.
The OP’s mother was just Awesome Like that’s just awesome Leaves to make food, beats up her grandchild’s other future grandmother, comes back with her hair, puts it in a box, refuses to elaborate
So wow, where to begin? OP's ex seemed to reasonable at first, but he slowly devolved into the exact same sort of crazy as his mom. I know it will come as no comfort, but OP may have dodged a bullet by breaking it off. It sounds like, at its core, Ex's mom was afraid her "baby boy" would be taken away from her. Ex himself didn't seem willing to accept that his mother was in the wrong, trying to convince OP to drop charges even though OP was the victim in all of this. It's entirely possible that he played a role in a lot of this himself that he was trying to keep secret. OP needs to be aware she has done nothing wrong. She tried to make nice, tried to be good, but her would-be husband and would-be mother-in-law were content to make things hard for her. I don't honestly think I could see any way that relationship could have worked in the long run. What OP went through is horrible, and I hope for the best for her and her baby.
Nah, OP's ex is not crazy. He knows to limit his losses. He has already lost OP despite doing his best to keep her. That is nobody's fault but the mom's of course and breaking up to never see her again is a valid option. However, at that point he had lost her and any potential future family with her. So, why then would he side with his ex after that against his mom, who is still very much in his life, as is the rest of his family? It seems to me from everything said in the story that he was willing to lose either his mom / family or his bride-to-be, but not both. So of course, when one forced the issue and broke with him, he chose the remaining side. That is not crazy. Not wanting to be alone is not crazy.
@@CidVeldoril Once OP broke up with him, he could have simply stayed out of it and told his mom 'hey, you brought this upon yourself, it stopped being my problem the moment you got your wish and she left me.' OP's mom is almost certain to continue with this behavior, as any time he brings home a woman that she finds some stupid reason to hate, she will continue with this insane behavior. She will never stop casting a shadow over his life, sabotaging his relationships, and behaving like an absolute psycho. This is what he has chosen to enable.
@@MetalHanyou1 it's undeniable. Also, Ex-Fiancee was screaming at OP over the phone at the end, clearly showing that he not only is still a momma's boy and a coward, letting his mother get between them till tearing them apart, endangering OP by putting OP's physical description and contact info online with the possible goal to ruin her reputation on top of making her a target to perverts, and physically attacking OP with the goal of causing the loss of her pregnancy, but that he has not learnt a thing after the mother of his own child was attacked. What is OP gonna tel the kid once it's grown? I would certainly not hold back a single detail, and would just villanize him altogether if I was OP.
@@juanestebanmauro5280 From the sounds of it, I don't think Ex-Fiancee wants the child in his life. The fact he defended his mom after she began striking the stomach area alone shows how unsympathetic he is to his unborn child, so in the best case scenario he doesn't care, and in the worst case scenario, OP is right and he was hoping his mom would harm the child. Ex-Fiancee is every bit his mother's son it seems.
I was all good until he asked OP to drop the charges. It was only going to go downhill from there. As sucky as it is, at least she had the courage to leave. For OP's ex-fiance to some with his mom in the end is just appalling.
It was his mother, I guess you don't give a shit about your mom. He asked her to but said it was still her decision to make. He even was willing to throw his entire connection to his family away so he could be happily married with her, that's how much he loved her
Would be surprising how late it can be by the time a kid asks about their dad. I know since for most of my childhood I grew up with only my mum. I was already at school by the time I got curious about why I didn't have a dad like my friends. It would really be based on what a kid would see if they aren't told about their dad.
The future mom in law is crazy and should be in a mental asylum because she was punching a pregnant woman's stomach! Even worse she was doing it after finding out the woman is christian instead of jewish and the father is her son
The levels of enabling for future mother-in-law were insane. Edit: Mother-In-Law would have acted like this for any woman, I believe. Her son is her baby boy who supplies her with all of the love and support regardless of how she acts so she would never let him go.
Glad to hear you had enough sense to get away from him unfortunately being pregnant is going to be hard on you just remember every baby is a blessing from God keep trucking girl you going to make it
OP’s mom is the flipping MVP of this story for kicking the MIL’s butt! Hope she gave the ex-fiancé a small beat down too for what he let the MIL do and put OP in harm’s way
6:40 Oh GOSH! I fee really bad for grandma!!!!!! At first I was thinking that she should have dropped the charges and stayed with him, because he sounded supportive. After the update and seeing how he acted, I feel like she made the right decision. I hope when I'm older, I'm able to see the future like this lady.
Oh, Honey, run. I bet he would sign away his parental rights. Good god, I wouldn’t want any of his family near the child. You’re not alone. Your mom sounds top notch. And where the heck is the MIL’s husband in all of this. She is bat shit crazy.
Props to the mother for doing what she did. This is how all people should be treated. Treat people with respect and you get respect back. My heart is still shaking in pure shock. To the OP, you didn't deserve any of that.
You poor woman! You've been through enough! Your story has really made an impact on me. There were so many things I could relate to. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this!! Time to be proactive. Hire an attorney. Get a permanent restraining order on the mother( She has absolutely no rights). The Restraing order Should cover both you and the child, Even after the child is born. and a temporary on the father for doing nothing and endangering his own child. Make sure you're attorney gets you full parental rights And custody. It shouldn't be too hard cause he assisted in his own child's endangerment. Once the child is born he can have supervised visits With absolutely no way shape or form his mother is included in. He is the one and only person that has any rights to this child! No other person in his family does so just write them off. You don't have to deal with any of that so ease your mind. The way he acted at last meeting he may not even want anything to do with his own child. That would be fine with me no stress, Other than financially. Just make sure you have a photo. Never lie to your child about what happened but son/daughter later may want to know what he looked like. Don't be upset if he doesn't want to see the child. Do you want your child to be raised with the morals of that family? Not me. I truly believe that your child would be abused just by the fact you're his/her mother. I would never leave the child alone with any of them. Be thankful you didn't marry that clown. The rest of his family can pound sand. Press charges now! It will only confirm your position later. Nothing is too stressful to protect your child. You can take my advice or not, it's your choice and life. I wish you all the blessings, luck and love!❣️ Keep us informed on how you are. One more thing....Your Mom is Awesome and Totally Rocks!!!👍🤭
That would-be mother in law is insane, she did such terrible things and one of the most baffling things is that she seems to think only christians celebrate christmas, which couldn't be further from the truth!
In the first story the OP should’ve pressed EXTREME charges and potential imprisonment because that’s just theft and impersonation AND damage to belongings AND attempted murder
Wow as a man in his late teens even I was horrified just listening to this . As soon as the mother in law attacked the OP and the husband just watched it felt like her world just shattered as the so called husband who acted like he would do anything for her and said he would cut contact with his whole family and move away with her and to have all that trust and love turn to nothing so fast and to stand there alone getting beat as your unborn child is trying to be taken away by his grandmother as the father just watches. It’s unbearable I can’t imagine ANYONE would just stand there. Some “MAN” he is :(
@@spikertaker i was expecting for her to go to the police and say that "THAT CRAZY RAT JUST PUNCH MY PREGNANT DAUGHTER'S STOMACH,STOLE HER PURSE AND RUINED HER PROPERTY" And then when asked if she and her daughter wants to file charges she could say yes but then the fiancee would be mad and the mom would go crazy at him punching him and knocking some sense into him
Story 1 : the part where the mother in law destroyed the Christmas because quote " wont celebrate Christmas because he is of a different religion" I am a indian ( Hindu ) but I still celebrate Christmas. Like WTF
Well... Disclaimer first before everyone thinks I am antisemitic for what I will say next, but there are quite a number of anecdotes of Jews maltreating anyone who is not of the same religion as them, and they are exceptionally angry if a Jew converts to Christianity, or a Jew decides to marry a Christian. Though such xenophobia is also happening throughout all religions.
Omg 😳 moral of the story, don’t mess with a Momma Grizzly cubs, Man can you imagine if her mother would have known this information from the beginning….. there never would have been an engagement to begin with ✌️
Oh my god, I nearly cried when she said she left him, I’m so happy for her, dude was doing good till he wanted her to drop the charges on his crazy assaulting monster, I really hope op finds peace and happiness, god I can never be like these people, I’d someone hit me once I’m hitting back, that’s the green light to fight back to protect myself, I will never just stand there and let someone hit me or mess with my personal stuff ever again, especially if their family…yo!!!!! That’s the best mama!!!! Whoa whoa whoa there, what’s wrong with you? If that was your ex’a family and that crazy b*tch assaulted you especially punching you in the stomach, you’d let that ex see the child!? You don’t know what that crazy monster will do to the kid, if anything the op should have most of the rights and the ex should only be given partial visits, and op could make charges against the monster after being attacked again and especially while being pregnant!
The man said it was her decision and he would agree to it no matter what. He loved her so much he was willing to move away and complete cut off all communication to the family
@@bonds927 I think that's BS. Who knows what would have happened once he married her. I don't believe he had good intentions. His true colors showed in the end.
She is actually able to remove his parental rights by getting of full custody as soon as the baby’s born because if she moves away and does it the ex can’t get any custody
At first, I had some respect for the fiancé and his family (apart from the mother). He almost handled all of this well. But, then the break-up happened and I saw it. It wasn't a backbone and honor he was displaying before. It was pathological conditioning. He was conditioned to defend and submit to the matriarch. His girlfriend/wife-to-be served as his matriarch. He was conditioned to support her even if she was a complete psycho. As soon as she was out of the picture, he ran straight back to mommy. The default matriarch who had recently found the fault in her programming of her son and will be sure that he never has a healthy relationship with a partner EVER from this point forward. Not that this relationship was particularly healthy either. He's a victim of a narcissistic sociopath parent. It's far more common than anyone would expect, because as we saw, he masquerades quite well as a functional adult. It doesn't exempt him from also causing harm. He did his fair share of harm through enabling a dangerous person. And he's likely to do it again. And again. And again. Until he understands just how unwell he is and seeks help. OP 100% made the correct choice to extract herself from the situation. And he actually does not have any innate parental rights due to his not being a part of any form of parenthood aside from sperm donation. Sperm doners have no parental rights. If OP goes to court to sue for child support, THAT would be acknowledgment of the child's parentage and the father's responsibility. OP should also refrain from having his name on the birth certificate. He would then have rights to sue for custody. But as it is, he could attempt to sue for custody, then the police reports would show the danger apparent in his home and family. He wouldn't have a snowballs chance in hell of any form of custody until he could prove to the court that there is no danger. And with the mother's complete inability to control herself, that's doubtful.
Honestly, the OP should just find another guy and tell him about the stuff that happened. And obviously, she should get full custody over her child with her future husband.
She can file for custody under grounds of fear of personal safety as the ex did nothing to help her or the unborn child when his crazy mother attacked her
Best advice would be to have the ex sign over parental rights. Don't agree with others saying not to put the name on the birth certificate. May bite them in the ass later if the ex decides to get custody and a DNA test. Better to nip that potential in the bud.
That's assuming he would do so. I could see ex-mil pressuring him to try and get as much custody as he can just so she can have a chance to murder the kid. She seems that level of psycho.
I would personally file a restraining order, sue the hell out of them for assault, battery, tresspassing (for the previous actions of the ex-mil), homicide (if the op miscarries as a result of ex-mil's actions) and they will also may be required to pay the op for emotional damages etc.
Honestly, with the 2nd or 3rd update, I was conflicted on whether or not the OP should leave. I'm one to believe that you marry a person, not their family BUT in-laws can be a pain and you always have to ask "are you willing to deal with them for the rest of your marriage/life?". That being said, with the final update....aside from the violence towards you, but I'd say that you ultimately dodged a greater bullet. This jerk of a fiance would have never defended you and the last thing you need is to deal with a monster-in-law. If you have a strong relationship with your mom, see if you can live with her while raising the soon-to-be little one.....but I would sacrifice him paying child support if it meant not legally having to interact with him or his family if I had the financial means. Some things are NOT worth it. I hope you and the baby are health and stay safe. You'll get through this with people who actually love you and your child.
I feel heartbroken for the OP just from hearing that story, I'm glad she did right thing and got out of that toxic relationship and I hope that the baby is OK
What toxic relationship? He was literally ready to throw all communication to his family away and let his mom stay in prison just so he could marry her, he loved her so much he was willing to do the "It's us vs the world"
The guys mother hating the girl and being mean is fine The fact she impersonated her online to get men to solicit her is terrifying. She could have put it on Craigslist that she had a r**e fantasy and basically sent strange men to take advantage of her. It’s happened before and it’s always serious when someone poses as you online.
i know this story for a long time. LONG TIME. Yeah! the only advice is a restriction order and work hard SUPER HARD to move away from this people. Also cheers for your mother too. If i was her, i would go back not only with the chunk of hair but also broken the face of both the MIL and the ex too.
That family are all crazy. I feel bad for anyone who would marry into that family. The part of the mom going to the ex future-mother-in-law and coming back with the trophy had me laughing so hard! Never mess with a mama bear and grandmama bear. Happy OP is safe now and away from the lunatic. I honestly think OP should again get a restraining order against the crazy lady and also against the loser ex cause who’s to say he won’t go near her to try and talk things out which will most likely up with OP meeting the psycho again face to face?
Honestly the OP need to sue the mother in law for the many crimes she did (I will list them in the replies) and go no contact with the fiancee and try and get a babysitter for the baby and she should definitely go to the hospital
I am so sick of people who pull the “We ArE faMilY” card or side with other people solely because of familial relationships. I would press charges even against my own mother. At least pulling the race card helps expose people who are racist.
... Sometimes, I am really happy that these things are happening nowhere near me. I'd probably be serving time if this happened to my sister, or anyone else I know for that matter. Good riddance.
I’ve seen a lot of comments calling the ex an absolute jerk and that he wouldn’t have defended her but you can kind of see why he didn’t do anything. He probably just felt absolutely betrayed and sad and dejected and his mother probably kind of brainwashed him ,while she was comforting him, to think that the OP wasn’t worth it to protect. But of course I side with the OP and she has to try to get out state ASAP and cut contact with everyone who could tell were she was to the now ex mother in law.
She needs to contact a lawyer ASAP! Get the paperwork drawn up for him to relinquish his parental rights, before this child is born. It will be much harder after he sees the actual baby.
The OP did the right thing so did her mum, "love it", get an attorney about the baby but if he's not around during birth or is there to sign then he will have to pay for the courts and DNA. But he doesn't have to be around even the judge can ask him if he wants to after the DNA. I went threw the exact same thing with the mother in law part and my daughter went threw the same situation with the baby side. Keep moving forward, make you and your baby happy, life's unpredictable and it's great that you have a warrior like your mum to protect you and your baby. Lot's of well wishes
Of 15:54 to 16:00 I scream of joy for OP mom THIS IS WATH WE DO op just stay strong for your child (thoes pepol have wath they deserded) The happiness then thoes bunch of bastars had stoled would never be return) But there's one thing they would never be able to take away from you(your courage and this littel baby angel😇👶👼 Who's gonna have most loving and courageous mom it could ever deserded👩👦💪🏾💞💓💗💞💝) (😟please don't let Yourself down I know you will get through this and you and YOUR family will be happy again[👵🏼👩👦] Am wiph you🤜🏾🤛🏾🤲🏾if could i will hug you i feel you need it,god is wiph you too and god bless the rest of your life) 💗💗💝💞💝💞💘💗❣💗💘💗[remember be happy no matter wath]
I don’t think the ex-fiancé was a bad person I think he was just stuck trying to play both sides but cared more about the op then his mom and at the end he was probably just in shock of what his mom was doing
I'm German and would follow your call with cross and nails, even though I'm a Jew . Having another religion doesn't give you the right to be an asshole.
If I were in this situation but didn’t tell them anything about the baby I would tell the future kid that “the father is a spineless man child who didn’t want anything to do with them and stays in their mom’s house without a job!!”
She should get full custody of her baby. And depending on where she is, she might have to fight for grandparents custody, where the grandparents can sue for not seeing there grandchild. So getting complete custody would be best and probably very easy for her, considering all the crap that has happened.
She should press charges for assault, on both incidents. She should also get a restraining order for the mother, and get a lawyer to try to deny access of the baby to the father because of the assault by the mother. The attempt to cause a miscarriage, and the refusal to stop the mother by the fiance might be reason enough to deny visitation, or guarantee only supervised visitation.
She must just get away from this family. They are all crazy including the ex fiancé, he was just just being nice when they were together but she would have realized they are all the same 5 years down the line.
Dropping the charges and restraining order is the stupidest thing in a situation like this. Should have sent that witch to prison and dumped that relationship in a heartbeat given all those red flags. But then again, hindsight is 20/20. All the best to OP and hope she finds a partner who is better for her and her child.
I would tell that woman to lawyer-up and maybe leave the "father" portion of the birth certificate blank so he doesn't have any legal access to the baby. The only way he would get access is if he demands a paternity test, but if she gets a restraining order against both of them, that should solve that.
I hope she put him on child support and take as much as she can! Also I hope she sued for distress! I'm glad moma went and opened up a can of whoop azz
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This woman did the right thing by leaving and press assault charges. She needs an attorney
Yeah, the woman that would have been her mother-in-law needs to be sued for assault and attempted murder and destruction of property and probably a host of other things that the Op never mentioned. 👀
Absolutely. And a Priest.
And evil mother in law can go to hell.
nah if you heard the final update when she left them she dropped the charges and the restraining order. OP wasn't that bright at all. she should have got a restraining order after the licence issue. the only smart person and the only hero was OP's momma and OP should have told her family right from the start.
I agree
"I got bit and pregnant." Never have i ever thought that those words would be in the same sentence.
dude I was like “What the heck?”
I'm in a wtf mode right now.
Yeah I was confused at first lol.
No kink shaming lol
Ehhhh, yeah, doesn't sound good lol
The OP'S mom is a Chad for what she did to the mother-in-law. I give respect for her!!!
Not a Chad she is a true Gigachad
My mother was like that!
Right? That was amazing ♥
That was good parenting right there. SHE PUT THE HAIR IN A "MEMORIES BOOK"!
Legally Badassery right there. Hee husband is a lucky man
wow yea totally Chad like to get revenge yea revenge is totally what should be done yeah wow
Anyone who would constantly bring you around their toxic family members isn’t worth it. He should have never brought her around his mother after how she behaved the first time
I didn’t even get to the end when I made my first comment. I could have told her that her fiancé was just as toxic. Now if he gets rights to their child it will be tortured for sure
@@Mochalate I truly hope you stay single forever. He told her it was purely her decision and said they could move away and have zero contact with ANY of the family. She dropped the charges and restraining order and no more than 3 DAYS of breaking this guy's heart she tries to visit him. Yes I feel he should've stepped in to protect him but he was literally lost in his mind over a 5 year relationship being thrown away for no reason. To assume the child would be tortured is complete bullshit since time after time after time he came to her defense to save her but you only use the one time he doesn't as the only time
@@Mochalate
When push came to shove (literally) the dude was a coward. The op wasn’t that bright for dropping charges
Its his mother who raised him for 26+ years?????
@ God Shenron ok so?
I hate how she plays the victim after attacking that poor woman. In the words of Isaac Butterfield, "If you can't take the heat, get out of the oven."
Danm he is a funny guy
Never thought I'd see an Isaac Butterfield reference on one of these videos.... you're alright.
@@NickThorbjørnsen2207 (tips hat)
Yeeeees, Isaac Butterfield!! 🥰🥰
@@patrioticjustice9040 ah a funny guy/ " youre alright" guy or a Sophisticated gentleman/woman with a hat
I’m so happy to hear she left. I agree, that marriage would’ve just been a huge nightmare for her. I don’t think the ex was trying to be mean, I really just think he was in utter shock he’s really seeing his mother act this way towards his ex fiancée. (I mean would you expect your momma to attack a pregnant woman? I wouldn’t 🤷🏾♀️.) If she really doesn’t want the rest of the family involved besides the dad, I’d file a restraining order against that side of the family and for extra precaution, a second party be present for visitation with dad (just in case the mom shows up unannounced). This is was a very shocking story, I hope the op is okay now and has a good family lawyer.
I kinda disagree considering the fact she said he was saying to stop. At that point he was well aware of what was happening to be able to talk.if he was truly in shock he would have just stood there with his mouth open unable to move or talk.
OP mother in law is a scumbag
The ex definitely could have still could have been in shock. Unable to move or speak isn’t the only kind of shock out there. But I also think he could have intentionally not gotten involved because of his opinion on the op/his mom. I also think that she should try to get full custody over her child and then allow the father to see them. Even with a restraining order on the mom, I’m not sure if I would want him to have parental rights if I felt so strongly that he purposely just let his mother attack me. I understand how difficult it can be balancing a terrible relationship with your ex/father if your child, but still wanting that father in your child’s life.
My mom died from cancer when I was 14. She had hired a lawyer to transfer guardianship from my father to a close family friend for after her death. But even though she had raised me completely on her own since I was three, and I only visited my dad around a week a year starting at nine, they had shared parental rights since she had never taken him to court. It made transferring guardianship incredibly difficult, and it added unnecessary stress during a time when I was vulnerable, and almost completely ruined my relationship with my father.
Obviously, that’s not an incredibly common situation, but there’s just so many things that can go wrong in life legally, with a child. So it honestly might just be better for her to have the legal rights, and create a contact schedule herself with the father. Even though that would be an incredibly long, expensive, and tiring court battle, it could be worth it depending on how crazy he/his family really are.
The man was willing to cut all ties with his family and let his mom stay in prison for this woman but that wasn't enough. Not only the shock of his mom attacking her but the man was still devastated over the breakup that happen 3 DAYS ago. She didn't try to notify him she was on the way or tell him she wanted to talk. If that would've happened he would've kicked his mom out immediately like he was willing to do when they were engaged
First story: It's always a huge red flag when the partner won't defend OP when their family members or friends attack. I'm baffed that he chose his evil witch of a mother over his fiancee, I just hope OP is okay now and is happy with her new baby. ♥
Money she has money they don’t want to lose or she has dirt that could ruin thier image
@@-KingGanon what
@@-KingGanon what
They have money that they don’t want to lose and dirt on her
There is only one story in this
To be continuously punching a stomach of a pregnant woman is worse than an assault. I don't even want children but damn this makes me emotional, if anything like that happened to any of my closest friends or family I'd make sure that this evil monster rots in prison for years. What a terrifying experience it must have been.
If that happened to any friend or family member of mine I'd be the one who ended up in prison for what I did to the person who did that to my friend.
her mother is a flat-out badass for that hair thing💀💀💀
Yep, I would have brought back an arm, but a clump of hair is not bad
Or an eye.
I would have bring back a bloody bullet and a few police officers with cuffs on me
Number one suggestion: DO NOT put his name on the birth certificate. Put “Father Unknown”.
Block everyone and move.
If you do name him, get him to give up rights and a permanent no contact order for you, the baby and your entire family!
She could also sue for full custody and have a restraining order put in place on the grounds of letting the child be in his custody unsupervised is child endangerment. Use the restraining order and pictures of her injuries as evidence, as well as testimony from the ex that his mother tried to beat the fetus to death inside her.
@@TheVillageIdiot829 Op could also petition the court to have the father's parental rights terminated.
I personally would forget everything that happened and get restraining orders on both the ex and the mother-in-law and I'd try to get full custody of the child and if either of them try to get into your home in the future lock everything,get whatever weapon you have available,and call the cops
The moment where she attacked the Christmast tree and OP is the moment where i would personally cut it all off. Break with husband, gdt the restraining order, press the charges, tell ex to put mother in law in a mental hospital and therapy
OP should follow in her mother's footsteps and take up bodybuilding, and boxing on top of that too. Being physically strong and having martial arts training and experience is often indispensable.
Keeping weapons for self defense is good advice too. Preferably, OP should buy firearms and get regular training so that she can profficiently use them should the situation arise.
@@juliane.mfarias9285 There is no therapy for zealots.
@@Jadae Zealots would be the opposite of destroying the tree
She should have broken it off way sooner. when she discovered and suspected that her mother in law signed her up on all these scetchy sites, or her ex-sisters in law, that is the moment she should have called it all off.
OP needed to run for her life. If she keeps the baby, she needs to get restraining order against both of them, and enforce the shit out of the TROs, with jail time for each violations. If she has to move out of state, do it.
Dhe needs to prosecute every instance, and she needs to move out of state. If she gas a restraining order against the baby daddy, that solves the visitation issue. Or should.
My late wife had something like this with her baby daddy being the violent one. When she and I got married, i took legal action to strip baby daddy of parental rights, then I adopted her son and we moved out of state, solving that issue once and for all. OP should try it
You're a good man for doing so :)
Kudos
😊👍
I wonder if moving out of state to give birth and listing the father as unknown might help to confuse the paternity issue. The BF's mother would probably encourage the son to not claim paternity due to how much she wants him to not be in contact with OP. And at this pint, OP certainly doesn't want contact with this vicious hag.
@@dulcilass Agreed. That mother in law needs to burn in hell...
yes, but the baby daddy himself was not abusive only the mother so the op would have nothing of cause to file a restraining order and the baby daddy would still have rights even if she could get one because he did nothing to the child
Momma came back with a trophy 🤣🤣🤣
I was thinking about a crazy woman's severed head.
@@erichanastacio9695 AMAZING!!!
Keep his name off the birth certificate. You can't go for child support, but he won't have parental rights
That's wrong. Out of pure petulance my ex left my name off and then sued me when I was seeing another woman. Rightfully so, and I was 19 at the time living in California. I'm 44 now. The child support laws are for the women.
@@jasonpiwarski5016 well 25 years ago things were way harder blood tests are easier now.
@@anti-classist I did the blood test too, and I paid for it. This was in 1998. It was I think $270.00. I ask for the so I'm not complaining about paying for it. I had to call about 6 weeks later to find the results when they said they would call me. I asked about paternity and he said well... erm... oh your it than hung up.
I found out when she was born 3 days after. I begged my ex to please just let me know when she goes in. Her mom and step dad got into her ear. It's been over 20 years and my life has worked out for the best. Stay strong.
@@jasonpiwarski5016 well your ex clearly was not done with you...... This woman may want a calm peaceful life away from his psycho mother.
I kept my ex off the birth certificate and I do not collect child support but I can get a passport and don't have to seek out my ex who couldn't care less for permission to travel with my kid.
The OP’s mother was just
Awesome
Like that’s just awesome
Leaves to make food, beats up her grandchild’s other future grandmother, comes back with her hair, puts it in a box, refuses to elaborate
So wow, where to begin?
OP's ex seemed to reasonable at first, but he slowly devolved into the exact same sort of crazy as his mom. I know it will come as no comfort, but OP may have dodged a bullet by breaking it off. It sounds like, at its core, Ex's mom was afraid her "baby boy" would be taken away from her. Ex himself didn't seem willing to accept that his mother was in the wrong, trying to convince OP to drop charges even though OP was the victim in all of this. It's entirely possible that he played a role in a lot of this himself that he was trying to keep secret.
OP needs to be aware she has done nothing wrong. She tried to make nice, tried to be good, but her would-be husband and would-be mother-in-law were content to make things hard for her. I don't honestly think I could see any way that relationship could have worked in the long run. What OP went through is horrible, and I hope for the best for her and her baby.
Nah, OP's ex is not crazy. He knows to limit his losses. He has already lost OP despite doing his best to keep her. That is nobody's fault but the mom's of course and breaking up to never see her again is a valid option. However, at that point he had lost her and any potential future family with her. So, why then would he side with his ex after that against his mom, who is still very much in his life, as is the rest of his family? It seems to me from everything said in the story that he was willing to lose either his mom / family or his bride-to-be, but not both. So of course, when one forced the issue and broke with him, he chose the remaining side. That is not crazy. Not wanting to be alone is not crazy.
@@CidVeldoril I can't believe you're defending that creep.
@@CidVeldoril Once OP broke up with him, he could have simply stayed out of it and told his mom 'hey, you brought this upon yourself, it stopped being my problem the moment you got your wish and she left me.' OP's mom is almost certain to continue with this behavior, as any time he brings home a woman that she finds some stupid reason to hate, she will continue with this insane behavior. She will never stop casting a shadow over his life, sabotaging his relationships, and behaving like an absolute psycho. This is what he has chosen to enable.
@@MetalHanyou1 it's undeniable. Also, Ex-Fiancee was screaming at OP over the phone at the end, clearly showing that he not only is still a momma's boy and a coward, letting his mother get between them till tearing them apart, endangering OP by putting OP's physical description and contact info online with the possible goal to ruin her reputation on top of making her a target to perverts, and physically attacking OP with the goal of causing the loss of her pregnancy, but that he has not learnt a thing after the mother of his own child was attacked.
What is OP gonna tel the kid once it's grown? I would certainly not hold back a single detail, and would just villanize him altogether if I was OP.
@@juanestebanmauro5280 From the sounds of it, I don't think Ex-Fiancee wants the child in his life. The fact he defended his mom after she began striking the stomach area alone shows how unsympathetic he is to his unborn child, so in the best case scenario he doesn't care, and in the worst case scenario, OP is right and he was hoping his mom would harm the child.
Ex-Fiancee is every bit his mother's son it seems.
Sue them. That woman needs to pay for losing the wedding ring as well as damaging Christmas ornaments.
The ring I believe was on his side of the family. So they can deal with that.
And trying to give the OP a free abortion 💀
Dang, that's so dark
I was all good until he asked OP to drop the charges. It was only going to go downhill from there.
As sucky as it is, at least she had the courage to leave. For OP's ex-fiance to some with his mom in the end is just appalling.
It was his mother, I guess you don't give a shit about your mom. He asked her to but said it was still her decision to make. He even was willing to throw his entire connection to his family away so he could be happily married with her, that's how much he loved her
@@bonds927 what with you
Stay away from that whole family. Problem is when the child starts to question who their father is
@Andy Liu LOL
Would be surprising how late it can be by the time a kid asks about their dad. I know since for most of my childhood I grew up with only my mum. I was already at school by the time I got curious about why I didn't have a dad like my friends. It would really be based on what a kid would see if they aren't told about their dad.
The future mom in law is crazy and should be in a mental asylum because she was punching a pregnant woman's stomach! Even worse she was doing it after finding out the woman is christian instead of jewish and the father is her son
The levels of enabling for future mother-in-law were insane.
Edit: Mother-In-Law would have acted like this for any woman, I believe. Her son is her baby boy who supplies her with all of the love and support regardless of how she acts so she would never let him go.
Glad to hear you had enough sense to get away from him unfortunately being pregnant is going to be hard on you just remember every baby is a blessing from God keep trucking girl you going to make it
This is one of the longest and most brutal story I have ever heard and I support you in every way, they have no right to treat you that way
This is one of the craziest story as well
OP’s mom is the flipping MVP of this story for kicking the MIL’s butt! Hope she gave the ex-fiancé a small beat down too for what he let the MIL do and put OP in harm’s way
6:40 Oh GOSH! I fee really bad for grandma!!!!!!
At first I was thinking that she should have dropped the charges and stayed with him, because he sounded supportive. After the update and seeing how he acted, I feel like she made the right decision. I hope when I'm older, I'm able to see the future like this lady.
Oh, Honey, run. I bet he would sign away his parental rights. Good god, I wouldn’t want any of his family near the child. You’re not alone. Your mom sounds top notch. And where the heck is the MIL’s husband in all of this. She is bat shit crazy.
When the OP's mom came back from beating up the ex's crazy mother & came back with the *Trophy* , oh I started applauding for her mom
Props to the mother for doing what she did. This is how all people should be treated.
Treat people with respect and you get respect back.
My heart is still shaking in pure shock.
To the OP, you didn't deserve any of that.
I'm so grateful that both my MIL, and FIL were a couple of Saints.
You poor woman! You've been through enough! Your story has really made an impact on me. There were so many things I could relate to. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this!! Time to be proactive.
Hire an attorney. Get a permanent restraining order on the mother( She has absolutely no rights). The Restraing order Should cover both you and the child, Even after the child is born. and a temporary on the father for doing nothing and endangering his own child. Make sure you're attorney gets you full parental rights And custody. It shouldn't be too hard cause he assisted in his own child's endangerment. Once the child is born he can have supervised visits With absolutely no way shape or form his mother is included in. He is the one and only person that has any rights to this child! No other person in his family does so just write them off. You don't have to deal with any of that so ease your mind. The way he acted at last meeting he may not even want anything to do with his own child. That would be fine with me no stress, Other than financially. Just make sure you have a photo. Never lie to your child about what happened but son/daughter later may want to know what he looked like.
Don't be upset if he doesn't want to see the child. Do you want your child to be raised with the morals of that family? Not me. I truly believe that your child would be abused just by the fact you're his/her mother. I would never leave the child alone with any of them. Be thankful you didn't marry that clown. The rest of his family can pound sand. Press charges now! It will only confirm your position later. Nothing is too stressful to protect your child. You can take my advice or not, it's your choice and life. I wish you all the blessings, luck and love!❣️ Keep us informed on how you are. One more thing....Your Mom is Awesome and Totally Rocks!!!👍🤭
That ex went from reasonable to out of his goddamn mind
apple doesn't fall far from the tree as they say
@@windofchaosblows yeah guess so
Damn mamas boy
That would-be mother in law is insane, she did such terrible things and one of the most baffling things is that she seems to think only christians celebrate christmas, which couldn't be further from the truth!
Let's just say the true hero in this story is OP's mom. Holy crap! I adore this woman!
I wish my mom was like that
But she always helps me when i have problems with a student
Forget Mama bear, that lady’s a fuckin Mama elephant.
The OP's mom is a true hero. Really pleased that her mother put her ex's crazy ass mother in her for assaulting her daughter & the unborn baby
In the first story the OP should’ve pressed EXTREME charges and potential imprisonment because that’s just theft and impersonation AND damage to belongings AND attempted murder
Wow as a man in his late teens even I was horrified just listening to this . As soon as the mother in law attacked the OP and the husband just watched it felt like her world just shattered as the so called husband who acted like he would do anything for her and said he would cut contact with his whole family and move away with her and to have all that trust and love turn to nothing so fast and to stand there alone getting beat as your unborn child is trying to be taken away by his grandmother as the father just watches. It’s unbearable I can’t imagine ANYONE would just stand there. Some “MAN” he is :(
Alternate title: Karen ruins everything show: part 4689.
The most successful, longest running show there is.
the show is so successful that its whole duration outlasts your entire life
I love your mom. I'm sorry for that happening to you.
That mom manhandled the crazy woman
She went super saiyan on that b.
@@spikertaker epic comment
@@spikertaker i was expecting for her to go to the police and say that "THAT CRAZY RAT JUST PUNCH MY PREGNANT DAUGHTER'S STOMACH,STOLE HER PURSE AND RUINED HER PROPERTY"
And then when asked if she and her daughter wants to file charges she could say yes but then the fiancee would be mad and the mom would go crazy at him punching him and knocking some sense into him
All I can say is you are absolutely not the jerk and your mom is probably the coolest and the most supportive person on earth.
Story 1 : the part where the mother in law destroyed the Christmas because quote " wont celebrate Christmas because he is of a different religion" I am a indian ( Hindu ) but I still celebrate Christmas. Like WTF
Well... Disclaimer first before everyone thinks I am antisemitic for what I will say next, but there are quite a number of anecdotes of Jews maltreating anyone who is not of the same religion as them, and they are exceptionally angry if a Jew converts to Christianity, or a Jew decides to marry a Christian. Though such xenophobia is also happening throughout all religions.
sue the ex family in law. sue them till they own nothing left
Rip for the neighbours to actually be near the OP’s ex fiancé family. They are officially the unluckiest neighbours on this planet
Omg 😳 moral of the story, don’t mess with a Momma Grizzly cubs,
Man can you imagine if her mother would have known this information from the beginning….. there never would have been an engagement to begin with ✌️
Forget Momma bear, that lady’s a fuckin Momma elephant.
I'm glad you saw the Red alert!
Lol I love her mom!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 OP did the right thing she should sue
Oh my god, I nearly cried when she said she left him, I’m so happy for her, dude was doing good till he wanted her to drop the charges on his crazy assaulting monster, I really hope op finds peace and happiness, god I can never be like these people, I’d someone hit me once I’m hitting back, that’s the green light to fight back to protect myself, I will never just stand there and let someone hit me or mess with my personal stuff ever again, especially if their family…yo!!!!! That’s the best mama!!!!
Whoa whoa whoa there, what’s wrong with you? If that was your ex’a family and that crazy b*tch assaulted you especially punching you in the stomach, you’d let that ex see the child!? You don’t know what that crazy monster will do to the kid, if anything the op should have most of the rights and the ex should only be given partial visits, and op could make charges against the monster after being attacked again and especially while being pregnant!
The man said it was her decision and he would agree to it no matter what. He loved her so much he was willing to move away and complete cut off all communication to the family
@@bonds927 I think that's BS. Who knows what would have happened once he married her. I don't believe he had good intentions. His true colors showed in the end.
I've heard the shortened story on TH-cam shorts but this is crazy good
Omg hi I love your stuff so much!!!!!
She is actually able to remove his parental rights by getting of full custody as soon as the baby’s born because if she moves away and does it the ex can’t get any custody
Lawyer up and unleash hell on them!!!
The ex mom in law is nuts and need to be institutionalized. The son is a coward.
I say get full custody and put a long restraining order.
At first, I had some respect for the fiancé and his family (apart from the mother). He almost handled all of this well. But, then the break-up happened and I saw it. It wasn't a backbone and honor he was displaying before. It was pathological conditioning. He was conditioned to defend and submit to the matriarch. His girlfriend/wife-to-be served as his matriarch. He was conditioned to support her even if she was a complete psycho. As soon as she was out of the picture, he ran straight back to mommy. The default matriarch who had recently found the fault in her programming of her son and will be sure that he never has a healthy relationship with a partner EVER from this point forward. Not that this relationship was particularly healthy either.
He's a victim of a narcissistic sociopath parent.
It's far more common than anyone would expect, because as we saw, he masquerades quite well as a functional adult.
It doesn't exempt him from also causing harm. He did his fair share of harm through enabling a dangerous person. And he's likely to do it again. And again. And again. Until he understands just how unwell he is and seeks help.
OP 100% made the correct choice to extract herself from the situation. And he actually does not have any innate parental rights due to his not being a part of any form of parenthood aside from sperm donation. Sperm doners have no parental rights. If OP goes to court to sue for child support, THAT would be acknowledgment of the child's parentage and the father's responsibility. OP should also refrain from having his name on the birth certificate. He would then have rights to sue for custody. But as it is, he could attempt to sue for custody, then the police reports would show the danger apparent in his home and family. He wouldn't have a snowballs chance in hell of any form of custody until he could prove to the court that there is no danger. And with the mother's complete inability to control herself, that's doubtful.
at least the OP was able to realize the truth of her fiancee before they actually got married. and he doesn't deserve to have any parental rights
Honestly, the OP should just find another guy and tell him about the stuff that happened. And obviously, she should get full custody over her child with her future husband.
Yes
And sue for child support
I mean she has to look well to find another man because she isn’t smart at all
@@markgrayson1987 I hope you never have kids
I hope you never have children, this answer makes me think you're a child and have never been in a serious relationship
She can file for custody under grounds of fear of personal safety as the ex did nothing to help her or the unborn child when his crazy mother attacked her
Best advice would be to have the ex sign over parental rights. Don't agree with others saying not to put the name on the birth certificate. May bite them in the ass later if the ex decides to get custody and a DNA test. Better to nip that potential in the bud.
That's assuming he would do so. I could see ex-mil pressuring him to try and get as much custody as he can just so she can have a chance to murder the kid. She seems that level of psycho.
@@Lans32485 or use the opportunity to corrupt the kid and have the kid cry sexual assault or abuse
I hope you never have kids
Yes there is. She can stop them both if they go to court.
I would personally file a restraining order, sue the hell out of them for assault, battery, tresspassing (for the previous actions of the ex-mil), homicide (if the op miscarries as a result of ex-mil's actions) and they will also may be required to pay the op for emotional damages etc.
attempted infanticide yes that is actual crime
@@Nockgun ty, learned something new. (I mean, I didn't know the term for that)
@@xiii0722 infanticides are more severe than 1st degree murder
@@Nockgun learned another thing then
The goosebumps when i heard Mama bear 🧸 part go BIG MAMA 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
Honestly, with the 2nd or 3rd update, I was conflicted on whether or not the OP should leave. I'm one to believe that you marry a person, not their family BUT in-laws can be a pain and you always have to ask "are you willing to deal with them for the rest of your marriage/life?".
That being said, with the final update....aside from the violence towards you, but I'd say that you ultimately dodged a greater bullet. This jerk of a fiance would have never defended you and the last thing you need is to deal with a monster-in-law.
If you have a strong relationship with your mom, see if you can live with her while raising the soon-to-be little one.....but I would sacrifice him paying child support if it meant not legally having to interact with him or his family if I had the financial means. Some things are NOT worth it.
I hope you and the baby are health and stay safe. You'll get through this with people who actually love you and your child.
Before this I never knew that someone could be so much like a wild animal. I’m glad that the OP’s mother beat the crap out of the future mother-in-law
I heard a few seconds of this videos and already wanted to throw hands I love her mom if that was my kid id be leaving with more than a little hair
The op mom is like a very terrifying t rex fighting a dodo bird
I feel heartbroken for the OP just from hearing that story, I'm glad she did right thing and got out of that toxic relationship and I hope that the baby is OK
What toxic relationship? He was literally ready to throw all communication to his family away and let his mom stay in prison just so he could marry her, he loved her so much he was willing to do the "It's us vs the world"
THIS TITLE IS EVERYTHING
The guys mother hating the girl and being mean is fine
The fact she impersonated her online to get men to solicit her is terrifying. She could have put it on Craigslist that she had a r**e fantasy and basically sent strange men to take advantage of her. It’s happened before and it’s always serious when someone poses as you online.
Her hate isn't fine. It is extreme and unjustified. This all happened over religion.
Don't forget the ex's mother punished her stomach multiple times when OP was pregant
she should fill for full custody and make hen pay for child support 60% of his wage
i know this story for a long time. LONG TIME.
Yeah! the only advice is a restriction order and work hard SUPER HARD to move away from this people. Also cheers for your mother too. If i was her, i would go back not only with the chunk of hair but also broken the face of both the MIL and the ex too.
That family are all crazy. I feel bad for anyone who would marry into that family. The part of the mom going to the ex future-mother-in-law and coming back with the trophy had me laughing so hard! Never mess with a mama bear and grandmama bear. Happy OP is safe now and away from the lunatic. I honestly think OP should again get a restraining order against the crazy lady and also against the loser ex cause who’s to say he won’t go near her to try and talk things out which will most likely up with OP meeting the psycho again face to face?
Honestly the OP need to sue the mother in law for the many crimes she did (I will list them in the replies) and go no contact with the fiancee and try and get a babysitter for the baby and she should definitely go to the hospital
I am so sick of people who pull the “We ArE faMilY” card or side with other people solely because of familial relationships. I would press charges even against my own mother. At least pulling the race card helps expose people who are racist.
He might have gotten his niceness from his father
Speaking of which where was the ex’s dad during this
She may be able to get full custody in court if she explains to a judge what her ex allowed his mom to do to her.
... Sometimes, I am really happy that these things are happening nowhere near me. I'd probably be serving time if this happened to my sister, or anyone else I know for that matter. Good riddance.
I’ve seen a lot of comments calling the ex an absolute jerk and that he wouldn’t have defended her but you can kind of see why he didn’t do anything. He probably just felt absolutely betrayed and sad and dejected and his mother probably kind of brainwashed him ,while she was comforting him, to think that the OP wasn’t worth it to protect. But of course I side with the OP and she has to try to get out state ASAP and cut contact with everyone who could tell were she was to the now ex mother in law.
She needs to contact a lawyer ASAP! Get the paperwork drawn up for him to relinquish his parental rights, before this child is born. It will be much harder after he sees the actual baby.
I hope no man is stupid enough to have kids with you
Restraining order on the MIL. Make set-in-stone boundaries if visitations are forced.
I got bit and pregnant lmao what thee hell
Her mother in law got taste by her own medicine at the final one
Hola
If u reading this I hope u having a good time
The OP did the right thing so did her mum, "love it", get an attorney about the baby but if he's not around during birth or is there to sign then he will have to pay for the courts and DNA. But he doesn't have to be around even the judge can ask him if he wants to after the DNA. I went threw the exact same thing with the mother in law part and my daughter went threw the same situation with the baby side. Keep moving forward, make you and your baby happy, life's unpredictable and it's great that you have a warrior like your mum to protect you and your baby. Lot's of well wishes
Of 15:54 to 16:00
I scream of joy for OP mom
THIS IS WATH WE DO
op just stay strong for your child (thoes pepol have wath they deserded)
The happiness then thoes bunch of bastars had stoled would never be return)
But there's one thing they would never be able to take away from you(your courage and this littel baby angel😇👶👼 Who's gonna have most loving and courageous mom it could ever deserded👩👦💪🏾💞💓💗💞💝)
(😟please don't let Yourself down
I know you will get through this and you and YOUR family will be happy again[👵🏼👩👦]
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I was the same. But people were asleep. Oh hell yeah well done to myself.
Your Mother is freaking AWESOME! Your husband has no right to be a Father. Never contact him again.
was that the bite of 87
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Respect to the OP's mother and that the ex and entitled mother in law should go to prison
Bro I bet that bite didn't even hurt I mean she's wearing Denture's like-🤨
I don’t think the ex-fiancé was a bad person I think he was just stuck trying to play both sides but cared more about the op then his mom and at the end he was probably just in shock of what his mom was doing
If my future mother in law was mad bc I'm not jewish i would say: "shut up or I'll call the Germans!"
I'm German and would follow your call with cross and nails, even though I'm a Jew .
Having another religion doesn't give you the right to be an asshole.
That's a little too far.. but yes
I'm always amazed that more people don't realize murder is always an option.
I mean, at what point is it justifiable, if not out right self defense?!
If I were in this situation but didn’t tell them anything about the baby I would tell the future kid that “the father is a spineless man child who didn’t want anything to do with them and stays in their mom’s house without a job!!”
She destroyed someone’s Christmas tree? Well restraining order and prison time for her
She should get full custody of her baby. And depending on where she is, she might have to fight for grandparents custody, where the grandparents can sue for not seeing there grandchild. So getting complete custody would be best and probably very easy for her, considering all the crap that has happened.
She should press charges for assault, on both incidents. She should also get a restraining order for the mother, and get a lawyer to try to deny access of the baby to the father because of the assault by the mother. The attempt to cause a miscarriage, and the refusal to stop the mother by the fiance might be reason enough to deny visitation, or guarantee only supervised visitation.
the front image is absolutely perfect for the title LOL
She must just get away from this family. They are all crazy including the ex fiancé, he was just just being nice when they were together but she would have realized they are all the same 5 years down the line.
Dropping the charges and restraining order is the stupidest thing in a situation like this. Should have sent that witch to prison and dumped that relationship in a heartbeat given all those red flags. But then again, hindsight is 20/20. All the best to OP and hope she finds a partner who is better for her and her child.
Holy chrome, I'd heard the first post on another reddit reader, but not these updates. That almost in law was a complete and total psychopath
In my opinion the longer the story the more interesting it is
I would tell that woman to lawyer-up and maybe leave the "father" portion of the birth certificate blank so he doesn't have any legal access to the baby. The only way he would get access is if he demands a paternity test, but if she gets a restraining order against both of them, that should solve that.
"Police were involved, I got bit and pregnant."
Wait, what?
I hope she put him on child support and take as much as she can! Also I hope she sued for distress! I'm glad moma went and opened up a can of whoop azz
Bless your heart honey. I know crazy people, and it's never good. Take care sugar.
Now, I’m a very passionate atheist, and I hate people who try to force Christianity on people who do not want to be a Christian. But the same applies for anti-religion people. I do not and will never believe in god, but I certainly will not force my beliefs on others.