A man’s strength is in his gentleness. I teach my son that now. It’s not easy being a single mom of 7 and raising three sons, but I know God got me. I’m healing, writing & helping others.
@GeeB-bi8id not at all. Some men, too many men, are vapid energy drainers. They don't know how to Lead much less take accountability. They have views of leadership and submission yet would require a woman who gave him multiple heirs...to do at least everything he thinks he should be doing, plus more. Some men are children, no accounts, liars and cheaters and awful role models for children. They don't stay in the home if the home requires sacrifice and discipline. Some men look to blame their women and a man like that is garbage and belongs outside where such men tend to choose to go. You strike me as a man who blames and puts down your woman so I think you understand why you are not wanted.
This is so healing. A lot of men have the wrong mindset on how to treat women. They rather be dominating instead of serving, and being supportive, gentle, understanding, and soft with their woman.
I love that comment “Treat her like someone is always in the room” because God is always in the room and he is the one paying attention and judging our acts..I love your channel..it’s been a tremendous help for me.
This man is correct. My dad is a gentle person and I have a massive amount of respect for him. He has 4 daughters, and he set the standard for how we expect to be treated by our partners.
Just wanted to share I met Tony Gaskins today on my flight!!!!! We can sense God’s spirit in him through our phones, but guys it is so authentic in real life!! With all due respect, he is very handsome & kind! I am an avid supporter of his messages like many of you. Tony, I pray God fills your cup & replenishes you greater than what you give. You give us your wisdom daily & it is truly appreciated!
Ain't no woman of value got time for no thug mindset as their purpose partner ,the strongest men will be as gentle as a feather, but as lethal as a hammer. such a beautiful programme tonight, journey for us all Tony Gaskins bless
So true, I once dated a very lethal infantry soldier when he was in the US army, sometime after he got out he worked for the government protecting oil ships from pirates in Somalia, he is tall, buff, very strong, skilled in combat and special forces when he was in the military, he looked scary and intimidating on the outside, but he is and was always very gentle and protective of women and children. At first I didn't date him because I was intimidated by how huge and buff, and strong he is. But little did I realize he is a gentle man and a gentleman because he was raised by his mother and his older sister. ❤️
I love everything you said, except the last part. A lot of men turn out the opposite way and are abusive and toxic as a result of being raised by single mothers, so who he was raised by may not necessarily be the reason he turned out the way he did. Again, I love that he treated you with respect & was gentle, kind & compassionate with you.
Thank You Gaskin’s Family for your sacrifice to help us in our relationships and building healthy family units …. Your more than appreciated God Bless y’all 100 fold🙏❤️🙏
Tony Gaskins, you are a gifted teacher who God has anointed to speak the truth in love. You don't need to complete with your women instead collabortae with your women. Amen!!! Thank you for this truthful measage for women and men. God bless you and your family. 🙌🏾🙌🏾💜
Wow, very powerful stuff. Thank you. It certainly gives me perspective on how gentle I am being towards women. As men, we need to learn to turn the other cheek and become their rock.
I agree Tony but some men act like they don't like their mothers because they were Raised by their mothers so it's Like they are unemotional to Women's feelings. You are on Point with this video you have To realize what's going everytime I am ready to ask You a question you already Address it in your videos. Thank you so much for your Platform.
Treat her how you would treat her in front of her mother or father. That's the way you are Accountable for treating her right. I like that wisdom!! Thanks for making this video. It needs to be said.
Great message, some men don't know how to lead. You telling men how to treat their woman; at the same time telling us women how we should be treated, so we can recognize what love is and what's not love.
My favorite online relationship mentor - thank you, Tony, for restoring faith in women worldwide that true love still exists and that not all men are the same.
Couldn’t agree more, it means a man is comfortable enough with himself to be gentle. Don’t need to prove anything or push and pull. Gentleness can be a very masculine trait. I think a woman will be able to see his power and there is a difference between gentleness and weakness.
I know two successful marriages in my family and both husbands are exactly like that: gentle, supportive, trust the woman with decisions and always put her first. I've had controlling boyfriends in the past and now I understand what it's all about.
This is a powerful message. Perfect example of what I need to look out for in a relationship. How a man should treat a woman. I know that I will not accept anything less. Thanks Tony on teaching us this.
Blessings to you and the family I appreciate your transparency brother Tony that takes a lot of boldness ,strength ,and character to get up on this mantle and embody Godly principles and to be open and truthful with your audience .Respect and love for you 🙏🏾🙌🏾✝️
Every single thing you have mentioned here is so important and so powerful. It perfectly describes my last relationship. And a lot of men still have their ombilical cord attached. That's still a boy, who isn't ready to start building his life with someone.
That's awesome, I've always done something similarly... years ago I heard the phrase treat your family like you treat your friends and treat your friends like you treat your family, however I talk/treat my family like I would my friends and I treat my friends like I would treat my friends, basically be nice to everyone 💞
Great video!! This is a very serious issue that is going on for awhile and it leads to domestic violence. And it needs to be discussed more so people can understand the truth behind it.
I think many of us have experienced the grown boy It's draining. After I became intentional with my healing journey, I just wonder what was it about me that entertained that kind of man for close to two years. Everything Tony is saying is right!
Thank you as always for your videos! I just had this conversation with my husband but sometimes as a woman it’s hard to articulate things simple enough. God truly is using you and your gift to change lives around the world!!!! Keep being a blessing!
Thank you so much for your powerful words and insight. You really helped me express these feelings in my own relationship and help others in theirs. Keep doing good work.
Tony I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I’ve listened to many relationship “gurus”. You bring facts straight no chaser, with clear concise speak. Thank you for keeping all the fluff & click bait out. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
My dad does NOT respect my mom like not even a little bit. He starts the argument anytime my mom is saying the truth like he doesn't agree so he just walks away when he started the argument in the first place. i'll send this to him thank you! ❤
I'm crying now because I feel so unloved that I searched for the title of this video... I no longer know how I should be loved, and I'm so sad because of this.
I just want to say that I don't attend your lives much but I do listen to your videos however. And I'd like to say that your sacrifice is not in vain, we all at least I do, appreciate what you do. You're a blessing that's very unique. I will enjoy as I finally get married and have children to also see you grow even if you start growing white hair lolz. To see your lovely family grow and your sons get older. It's a blessing to see a man of God pursuing such a task as God has given you. I look forward to the day where I can financially finally give to your ministry in a way that is worthy in Jesus name. Amen and Amen.🌺👍💥🦋📣🌸😤✨🌈🌷❤🌻
Dear Men, See Ur Woman As Ur Teammate To Conquer The World In Lifetime Game..🙂 Bt, When U Take Her As An Opponent To Compete With/Defeat & Win Over Her!!...U'll Definitely Loose The Battle Of Life & Nothing Will Left For U To Gain At The End..🙃 Always Remember.. U're Both In One Team To Support & Uplifting Each-Other,, Not To Apart...
I was gentle and that didn't do me much justice just got used ,and now I'm in a new relationship i guess I'm too vigilant, up tight, I'm already not an affectionate person and it's rare I'm relaxed ,I do all I can but idk it's some militant/disassotaion but I feel like I have my reasons
Tony can you make a video about when to grow together vs dating a man that has grew? every married couple that I see that is working says they had nothing and their wife had the finances and emotional intelligence but in today's world says a man is using you if he comes in broke. Where is the humble line?
A man’s strength is in his gentleness. I teach my son that now. It’s not easy being a single mom of 7 and raising three sons, but I know God got me. I’m healing, writing & helping others.
They will appreciate you and everything you do. Continue to be a amazing woman. The universe starts with you.
Get a pet and teach them how to be responsible and gentle.
Uh huh, boys should be taught how to be men. Not doormat pussies.
The universe starts with keeping the man in the house!!
@GeeB-bi8id not at all. Some men, too many men, are vapid energy drainers. They don't know how to Lead much less take accountability. They have views of leadership and submission yet would require a woman who gave him multiple heirs...to do at least everything he thinks he should be doing, plus more. Some men are children, no accounts, liars and cheaters and awful role models for children. They don't stay in the home if the home requires sacrifice and discipline. Some men look to blame their women and a man like that is garbage and belongs outside where such men tend to choose to go. You strike me as a man who blames and puts down your woman so I think you understand why you are not wanted.
This is so healing. A lot of men have the wrong mindset on how to treat women. They rather be dominating instead of serving, and being supportive, gentle, understanding, and soft with their woman.
@@x__lexx for good reason
I love that comment “Treat her like someone is always in the room” because God is always in the room and he is the one paying attention and judging our acts..I love your channel..it’s been a tremendous help for me.
Finallly a video that’s not talking about abusing women
This man is correct. My dad is a gentle person and I have a massive amount of respect for him. He has 4 daughters, and he set the standard for how we expect to be treated by our partners.
Just wanted to share I met Tony Gaskins today on my flight!!!!! We can sense God’s spirit in him through our phones, but guys it is so authentic in real life!! With all due respect, he is very handsome & kind! I am an avid supporter of his messages like many of you. Tony, I pray God fills your cup & replenishes you greater than what you give. You give us your wisdom daily & it is truly appreciated!
Ain't no woman of value got time for no thug mindset as their purpose partner ,the strongest men will be as gentle as a feather, but as lethal as a hammer.
such a beautiful programme tonight, journey for us all
Tony Gaskins bless
BOTH of my ex's were hard core.....for the 1st time in my life I dated a gentle man....OMG what a difference.....❤ l
Happy for you sis!! I'm dating a grown boy in his 30's... who's far from gentle... time to step it up!
@@spina8527 IKR....bye clown ✌
@@beefaye18 😂😂 fr!!
God bless you
@@spina8527 😂😂 Yes.... Priceless 👍
So true, I once dated a very lethal infantry soldier when he was in the US army, sometime after he got out he worked for the government protecting oil ships from pirates in Somalia, he is tall, buff, very strong, skilled in combat and special forces when he was in the military, he looked scary and intimidating on the outside, but he is and was always very gentle and protective of women and children. At first I didn't date him because I was intimidated by how huge and buff, and strong he is. But little did I realize he is a gentle man and a gentleman because he was raised by his mother and his older sister. ❤️
Blessings to you both!♥️
Wow that’s awesome to hear about men like that
Once dated...? Where is he now? If you're not with him...may I have his number? Buff, protective, masculine and gentle...?🤯 Is that still an option?
I love everything you said, except the last part. A lot of men turn out the opposite way and are abusive and toxic as a result of being raised by single mothers, so who he was raised by may not necessarily be the reason he turned out the way he did. Again, I love that he treated you with respect & was gentle, kind & compassionate with you.
This videos has changed my life, i will never be the same again. Thank you💯
Humility will take you higher … arrogant is from weakness
The man I really care for stated that I bring out his soft side. He wants to take care of me, listen to me, and love me. It’s beautiful.
I wish every man & woman could hear this! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Both sides have strengths and weaknesses, working together is key
Let's learn to Love our Women the way they deserve to be loved.❤️
Som can't real man knows😊
I love that you mentioned acting like someone's in the room with you, while you interact with your wife. Excellent idea!!👏👏👏
Thank You Gaskin’s Family for your sacrifice to help us in our relationships and building healthy family units …. Your more than appreciated God Bless y’all 100 fold🙏❤️🙏
Wow leadership is sacrifice, thank you so much
Tony Gaskins, you are a gifted teacher who God has anointed to speak the truth in love. You don't need to complete with your women instead collabortae with your women. Amen!!! Thank you for this truthful measage for women and men. God bless you and your family. 🙌🏾🙌🏾💜
Wow, very powerful stuff. Thank you. It certainly gives me perspective on how gentle I am being towards women. As men, we need to learn to turn the other cheek and become their rock.
I agree Tony but some men act like they don't like their mothers because they were
Raised by their mothers so it's
Like they are unemotional to
Women's feelings. You are on
Point with this video you have
To realize what's going everytime I am ready to ask
You a question you already
Address it in your videos.
Thank you so much for your
Platform.
Treat her how you would treat her in front of her mother or father. That's the way you are Accountable for treating her right. I like that wisdom!! Thanks for making this video. It needs to be said.
Great message, some men don't know how to lead. You telling men how to treat their woman; at the same time telling us women how we should be treated, so we can recognize what love is and what's not love.
We should also teach women how to treat men and how men should be treated by women
It's true. Proverbs 15:3(KJV) and He'll never leave you nor forsake you. We're never alone.
Tony you went above and beyond with this one. Your servant leadership just went to another level. I needed this and I have shared it with others 👏🏾
A blessed message from an anointed man. I ❤️ Gaskins family.
I wish I could’ve been loved this way and definitely vice versa. Those that experience this are truly blessed!
Treat your women the way she needs to treated… love sacrifice… communicate..confidant ..Amen To God Be The Glory
My favorite online relationship mentor - thank you, Tony, for restoring faith in women worldwide that true love still exists and that not all men are the same.
As a lady!
You have to be gentle with us.
Couldn’t agree more, it means a man is comfortable enough with himself to be gentle. Don’t need to prove anything or push and pull. Gentleness can be a very masculine trait. I think a woman will be able to see his power and there is a difference between gentleness and weakness.
I know two successful marriages in my family and both husbands are exactly like that: gentle, supportive, trust the woman with decisions and always put her first. I've had controlling boyfriends in the past and now I understand what it's all about.
Damn sounds like you want the relationship to revolve around you
@@VaporwaveLover2000 I know who I am now.
@@joannadziokan3267 Sounds toxic
I've always respect and love a real GENTLE- MAN
BIG DIFFERENCE !!!!
It’s really hard when that love and respect is not reciprocated.
This is a powerful message. Perfect example of what I need to look out for in a relationship. How a man should treat a woman. I know that I will not accept anything less. Thanks Tony on teaching us this.
How should you treat a man
That's a whole word bro. Thanks for dropping that wisdom 💯💯
I'm in the building hit like lets go uncle Tony I already know the message is always good.
Thank you so much Tony Gaskin I needed to here this and its, truly the truth🙏☺💯
Got yourself a new subscriber.. so well spoken and knowledgeable. Words from a true MAN. Your wife is blessed!!💕
Indeed, Tony!
Great message!👏🕊️
This is really well said. 🎉
Blessings to you and the family I appreciate your transparency brother Tony that takes a lot of boldness ,strength ,and character to get up on this mantle and embody Godly principles and to be open and truthful with your audience .Respect and love for you 🙏🏾🙌🏾✝️
Every single thing you have mentioned here is so important and so powerful.
It perfectly describes my last relationship.
And a lot of men still have their ombilical cord attached. That's still a boy, who isn't ready to start building his life with someone.
That's awesome, I've always done something similarly... years ago I heard the phrase treat your family like you treat your friends and treat your friends like you treat your family, however I talk/treat my family like I would my friends and I treat my friends like I would treat my friends, basically be nice to everyone 💞
You are right
Great video!! This is a very serious issue that is going on for awhile and it leads to domestic violence. And it needs to be discussed more so people can understand the truth behind it.
I think many of us have experienced the grown boy It's draining. After I became intentional with my healing journey, I just wonder what was it about me that entertained that kind of man for close to two years. Everything Tony is saying is right!
❤️❤️❤️
Wisdom!!! Good for both men and women to hear!💯
I have read it as a text ©once. The author was Mike Harrigan, writer. Beautiful
Whew ! I wish men knew this is how u get submissions! Gentleness is STRENGTH 😊
Some fresh air of healthy masculinity.
It's like a dream to have a man like that.
Just healthy.
Its time to start addressing these men.
Your definitely speaking the truth. I hope this video help someone. Thank you for this video.
Thank you as always for your videos! I just had this conversation with my husband but sometimes as a woman it’s hard to articulate things simple enough. God truly is using you and your gift to change lives around the world!!!! Keep being a blessing!
Brilliant, very necessary message. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much for your powerful words and insight. You really helped me express these feelings in my own relationship and help others in theirs. Keep doing good work.
Proper communication is the key for us men and women to be able to have each other grow in a relationship.
Tony I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel. I’ve listened to many relationship “gurus”. You bring facts straight no chaser, with clear concise speak. Thank you for keeping all the fluff & click bait out. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
A peaceful warrior …🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Tony is always on point!
your words are gold man
Oh lord this was heavy, but much needed. This is what I call wisdom.
You hit the nail right on the head.
Tony you are so humble and gentle, I would die to see you on one of those red pill podcasts
As I always say treat people how u want to be treated.
Tony you spoke a word, I appreciate you!!!
Wow..u r a beautiful young man. You are on point..great job..Your wife should be proud.
This is golden. Thank you so much for this! ✨
🙏💜🙏This is so much appreciated …I want this treatment. Thank you 🙏💜🙏
I love this message. Thank you Tony.
Thank you bro, you spoke the truth about me! I get it
My dad does NOT respect my mom like not even a little bit. He starts the argument anytime my mom is saying the truth like he doesn't agree so he just walks away when he started the argument in the first place. i'll send this to him thank you! ❤
The challenge is its the women who are watching this!
Hey Tony, peace and blessings to you.
This was greatly NEEDED APPRECIATED
Loving a woman is like loving a daughter
Thank you so much for this timely message. May God continue to bless you and your ministry🙏🏾
Be blessed Sir!
I'm crying now because I feel so unloved that I searched for the title of this video... I no longer know how I should be loved, and I'm so sad because of this.
I just want to say that I don't attend your lives much but I do listen to your videos however. And I'd like to say that your sacrifice is not in vain, we all at least I do, appreciate what you do. You're a blessing that's very unique. I will enjoy as I finally get married and have children to also see you grow even if you start growing white hair lolz. To see your lovely family grow and your sons get older. It's a blessing to see a man of God pursuing such a task as God has given you. I look forward to the day where I can financially finally give to your ministry in a way that is worthy in Jesus name. Amen and Amen.🌺👍💥🦋📣🌸😤✨🌈🌷❤🌻
💯🙏🏽so many 💎 in this message
Dear Men, See Ur Woman As Ur Teammate To Conquer The World In Lifetime Game..🙂
Bt, When U Take Her As An Opponent To Compete With/Defeat & Win Over Her!!...U'll Definitely Loose The Battle Of Life & Nothing Will Left For U To Gain At The End..🙃
Always Remember.. U're Both In One Team To Support & Uplifting Each-Other,, Not To Apart...
...sigh the thing with these videos, only women listen to it but so much men out there need to hear it !!!
I agree with all of this... thank you
God bless you my brotha
God Bless You & Yours!!! 😇😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
Videos be right on time!
I was gentle and that didn't do me much justice just got used ,and now I'm in a new relationship i guess I'm too vigilant, up tight, I'm already not an affectionate person and it's rare I'm relaxed ,I do all I can but idk it's some militant/disassotaion but I feel like I have my reasons
Amen definitely agree with you and hundred percent
Thank you , you just understand ❤
Watch your videos all the time!!! Love these videos!!
Thank you bro, I needed 2 hear that 💯
There is someone else in the room; the Holy Ghost
Tony can you make a video about when to grow together vs dating a man that has grew? every married couple that I see that is working says they had nothing and their wife had the finances and emotional intelligence but in today's world says a man is using you if he comes in broke. Where is the humble line?
Beautiful!!!! Absolutely beautiful
Thanks for your help
This is exactly it. All of that!!!
Muchas Gracias, I love all your content. Thank you 🙏
🙌 I That’s the TRUTH❤️♥️💕❤️♥️💕❤️
With their heart & wallet ☺️ lol
All facts💯