Hi Shelly💕🌸😊 my SP (Xavier) texted me a few days ago!! (Last time he did was in march 2018 lol).. It was kind of neutral but it just made me feel so happy!💖 anyway I am currently just focussing on loving myself + my self concept!👱♀️💖💖💖 & when I think about him I just think positive things about him but mostly I am just focussing about feeling good💕
Yes. This is a classic dynamic. Next steps for you: do A LOT of self love so that you stop feeling so needy when he shows up. Self Love is the thing that will dissolve that neediness.
When I decided I wanted a new person, I manifested her in a month or two and it was SO easy and fast. We've been into an "official relationship" for like 3 months and it's been awesome. Do what Shelly says, it's good stuff!
I don't need him to want me. I know I'm chosen by him or whoever I want because I am infinite. We all are infinite. It's who we are at a soul level! ❤️
This is very true and beautiful. Sometimes people in relationships are basically using each other to 'not feel abandoned' or to fill that space unintentionally. They think it's love but it is not really love. It is attachment, codependent. The real love comes from within you and once you find it BY YOURSELF you can then manifest someone that is not toxic and they will really love you because you will both feel whole with or without the other. :)
OMG. I kid you not it’s 11.11 and I just finished watching this video. My SP replied to my text!! (1 week later) Truly guys, self love is the best love❤️ THANK YOU UNIVERSE (‘:
My sp was/is/will be inside of me the whole time.She is me.(everyone is you pushed out).Why I should need it when this relationship is inside me rn. Thanks Shelly💖
Yes, when we stop needing..the sp shows us. It is true we feel the graspy feeling. I think , when we feel so , we need to remain silent, calm , just letting whatever it is to be in its place , at that time the dominant feeling of being with the sp or whatever...shows up. Absolutely true.🙏 many times you have saved me. Thank you.
So true, and also so nice to hear 🧡 I think it's also very important to keep this feeling deep into yourself ONCE you have found "your" person, otherwise it's very easy to fall back again in the old trap and wait for the other one to love you, instead of loving yourself. And then you have to do it all over again. First: I love myself ; Next : He loves me ; Then : I keep on loving myself and giving myself the priority in all the areas of my life ! :)) Cheers to everyone and know that you are never alone in that process.
This is so beautiful you explain it very clearly how self love is most important to manifest anything including our sp, we are so grateful for your teachings, thank you
Self-love is something that is basically instilled in the first 7 years of life. Programmed into your foundational world-view and much of the rest of your life is built on those core experiences. So yeah that makes it something that someone with self-love just does and doesn’t know they do, and someone without self-love also doesn’t know how they are living an old pattern too-and sabotaging themselves. So it’s hard to believe, but much of the problems of those who need self-love can be solved by repeatedly doing self-love exercises. Mirror work, and seeing how the world changes etc. Thanks for this message ❤️🌹🙏🏻 Totally working on this...
What other self love excercises? I'm definitely one of the people that went through some stuff in my first 7 years! Now my subconscious can never chill out and takes over! Obviously im working on it, but would like to know any exercises that people have ... currently I'm meditating, and scripting.
@@ganapatikitty those are awesome, but I use a mirror and look into your own eyes with love and feel love, say “I love you” even though it feels really weird. 😂 It seriously helped me to just stroke your forearm lovingly or your shoulders or face even while thinking how you love your body and who you are without reservation. Don’t qualify or be critical. Just love and understanding as a learning living being of immense beauty and ability. Do it every morning for 2 months. Also imagine other people loving you and wanting to be near you. And you wanting and feeling good about being near them. I just realized the body thing was mostly me because I am transgender and have those issues... but still, focus on whatever is most gratifying or against your own insecurities. Love is the answer.
It is so true. To sustain a relationship you must sustain self first. I completely agree with self love. Coming from rather than running after. Two dynamics different results.
Beautiful video Shelly, self love really is the most important thing to manifest, it makes you believe on your worth and your power; enjoy your stay in Tulum, a place I’ve been thinking about a lot and really surprised me you were there! So deserved
I think loving yourself is important but isn't needed to manifest. I know people that are insecure and have been happily married for decades. It's actually an assumption, that if you stop being needy you'll get the relationship. Since it's your reality, you create your own rules. This is still classic dating advice.
When I feel I become desperate I do some self love meditation or I think about my blessings. My story is like this: I've met I guy that I liked and felt some special bonding. I've started the "manifest a specific person meditation" and in 3 days he started te act different around me, I understood that he liked me too. After that I started te become desperate and needy and wanted to be together fast and he stepped back. I realized what my mistake was and cooled down, begin self love meditation and after one month he asked me out. After 2 dates he kissed me and said that he couldn't wait to do that. We just started dating but I just can't believe that I manifested that. I hope not to go in the lower vibrations again, I am relaxed now and confident that we are soulmates.
What’s wrong with wanting to be together fast it’s not like he’s just anyone from the street you chose that person why wait years just to prove that you’re “cool”
Years ago I named this syndrome after one of my boyfriends. This was decades before I had heard of LoA or Manifesting or Neville. But it played out exactly as you explain. In fact it happened twice with 2 different guys. So it works. For reals. Also, the Tulum, Mexico thing is becoming a bazaar synchronicity. I had never heard of it before. You are now the 3rd person who has gone there this year. Isn't that crazy? Have fun.
You have been a huge part of the changes to my life and attitude that all started with a need to get our dog from my boyfriend (we're separated temporarily) and has turned into something so big that I never imagined at the time. Thank you so much for your help 💜💜💜
Would you please do a video for specific person when you are in a long-distance relationship? Long distance as in miles away, countries apart. Thank you!
Oh, I just talked about my experience in Tulum - one special week of 4 weeks Mexico. So, happy for you, spending a couple of weeks there and how cool is it, to work from everywhere in the world. These videos have the vibe from the older videos. I guess, it is the setting. :))
Thank you Shelly. I have learned a lot of things from you. I am trying to manifest a specific person in my life I am using the method that you have told us "living in the end" in my imagination I am engaged with my specific person everytime before bed I visualize me and my partner are so happy together. I visualize different scenarios . And that makes me feel so good.. in my imagination I already have him. And there is no doubt in my mind . I truly believe that he is mine . We're meant to be together. I feel so good thinking about him also I try to focus on myself the person I want to be in future I assume that I am already that person.. I am living in the.. I believe that no matter what he will come into my 3d world.all the things that I desire will take place. If it takes time then it's ok. I'm not exhausted because in my mind I know he is mine . He only loves me he needs me. After all if he is me pushed out then what I feel about him he is feeling the same right ?? I just wanna know I am living in the end with my specific person but he is not in my 3d world then what is going on with him ? Can he feel me ? I mean if I am manifesting him then can he also feel my presence ?
I would say I've done this and figured out that it just intensified my desire for the person. Our minds are dangerous. They build this image of the person while we imagine-- that isnt even who they are. Then we want them more and even feel like we have this time with them-- when in reality we've been nowhere around them. I think the secret is action. If you want them, drop them a quick message. We cant hide in our beds at night wishing. I think that's just us being afraid they wont like us. Take a shot! Time is short. Should we spend it waiting and wishing? YOU have the power. YOU!!! Clap your hands together real hard and say-- I have the power to make my dreams happen. Don't sit and wish. YOU can do it RIGHT NOW. Dunno- I believe in manifesting but what fun is a love that you'll feel you forced. Get out there and rock it :) Make some mistakes, but make something happen! YOU!!! have the key.
@@johndavis5512 thank you for your valuable comment it means a lot to me 🥰. But I have some insecurities. I don't want this relationship now to be happen. I'm just a college student. I want this relationship happen when I will be in university. Then I will have my own life to live. And moreover I think I'm not pretty enough to go in front of him and confess my feeling. I'll do that for sure I can't just sit here and wait for some miracle to happen. I gotta do something to get him but not now. I'm afraid of losing him so first of all I wanna be the best version of myself .. I want to have all the qualities that a ideal woman should have. First I need to focus on myself my career,my looks,my dream house etc. Then after having all of this I'm gonna get him.. he has nothing to do but be mine.. ... I have full faith on my manifestation. He is mine. And I won't let anyone to get him. If he is dating someone it's ok but when I'll be on the field no one can come even closer to him. I may sound like a psychopath but once I have thought he is mine then he is mine..
@@johndavis5512 Dear John, your opinion is surely practical.. That's what I did.. My msgs to him are one sided, I msgs would be lengthy and his would be really short.. At one time, I voiced msg him, asking his stand about this relationship.. He firmly said he wants to carry on but his work situation does not permit him to send lengthy msgs.. I did it 3 times, and all the 3 times he still kept saying he wants to carry on.. So i concluded that, I need to take Shelly's advice, never to have a story playing in my mind about him.. I have to self love more to spread love.. I managed to persuade my heart to be more patient with him.. I don't understand why I still love him so much though his messages are so minimal.. In the end, I said to myself that I love him for God has created him that way, I love him as he is God's creation, no soul is perfect.. I love him for what he is.. I love him for God has made us meet each other ( long distance relationship) and through him I am learning a lot of patience.. I love him..I love him..I love him.. I love him for he is God's creation.. By God's will, I will meet him one day..
I honestly would LOVE to manifest a specific cat. Would it be same as other manifestations? I mean that specific pet. No other alternatives! But I am afraid I can not have him. Paradoxically enough, he is already adopted by a kind-hearted meowmy/mother! On top of that, he has been provided with an older kitty brother as well to play with. Most importantly, he lives thousands and thousands miles away in a whole different country! Would his meowmy agree on leaving him and what is more, would he himself want to move in with me? I know others would possibly advise me to get a look alike but I can only think of that particular individual.🐈🐾 A cat is a cat, btw! No metaphorical sense involved.🙂 It makes me so melancholy when I see his pictures every morning!😼
@@ShellyBullard Aww, what a sweet response! thank you for replying! 😊🧡 But I also do not want to make his mum sad! Would it be wrong for me to manifest him, then?😔
@@anonymoussomeone7306 You can either manifest that everyone is happy for you adopting the cat, or you can manifest other cats which has the exact same traits ❤️
Hi Shelly, I suddenly feel like I don’t want her that much anymore because I’m tired. And I dislike certain the behaviours about her. What does this all mean. Is it a manifestation progress or throwing my desire away. I don’t really care anymore. I just want to be happy
My partner has been changing over the last month, we had a chat on Wednesday and it knocked me but I told her when she asked me what do I think and I told her that I’ve not got the same thoughts and feelings as she has, meaning nothing is wrong on my end and she’s looking into things that aren’t there, she’s an out going person and very bubbly and this lockdown isn’t doing her any favours at all. I used to be a very needy guy but this lady I’m now with is the lady I’m going to marry so I’ve nothing to get stressed about, I’m relaxed and I don’t over pursue her, if she wants to contact me then she can if she doesn’t I know she will and she’s busy, I thought by her being 48 and me being 46 we’d not be going through this and things will just flow and go smoothly, she is a single mum, she’s back into college bettering herself, she’s caring after her 85 and 74 year old parents and her needy 17 year old son who doesn’t want her to be anywhere else other than with him, she runs around after him like a mum runs around after a toddler
Tks Kelly for the positivity that u bring to us I wish u all the best, as I am new can we say to sum up that to manifest we must; imagine the scene, feel it in the first person, believe it?,could u make when u got time and feel like a specific video on how to get ur friend back and forever that he now in a relationship with someone else and got no feeling for us and he lives very distant and blocked us?? is it possible to have him back forever even if he lives very far from us if we cannot see him and if he in a relationship?? tks much much!
This is very important because you are God, putting someone else on a pedestal is as if he is God which isn't true because you are the most important person in your reality. That is worshipping a false god as Neville would say
So Shelly my question is: If I am manifesting my own reality and someone else involved in my reality is manifesting their own reality, how come our realities don't "bump into each other" or cancel each other out if we are manifesting even slightly different outcomes?
My sp is constantly hidden from me although he sees everything!.Now, I have a new person who makes lots of sense to my job. I do not think he is my new sp but for sure he covers lots of my spiritual necessities!.I am wondering myself: How to understand all of these??.and I do not want to ocult any feeling. I just want to follow my heart.
Hey what do you mean he's hidden from you but sees everything ? So he just watches you? And any updates on this situation? Who did you stick with, your SP or the new person?
@@dalinadanergy6484 So you stuck with the SP and the new person. Got it. But let me guess, the SP is now only a booty call, bc he knows about the other guy...?
@@imshaun4563 I am single!!.Not even SP. I just help with my good energy and I do not even need to have Sex as Harry and Meghan to make sense. I do not need more that One man to be happy. They are the ones who need me to have more than one man to satisfy their interestes. It's all about them.
How about when there’s no SP and you’re just trying to switch from desperate vibration to abundance and loving vibration? How to trust that it’s there and it’s going to find you once and for all🙌🏼
Hey Shelly, towards the end of the video you said that that's when the sp comes around and then added not always... Could you please explain that before my version starts overthinking😂.. thanks in advance
Can you do a video of manifesting appearance? I'm trying to manifest clear skin but I don't know how to affirm when I constantly see myself in the mirror
The problem is that I DO NEED it. I’ve been with one woman for a short time my whole 56 years. I’m running out of time. Women always tell me how awesome I am how amazing and wonderful I am, it none of them want to be with me.
SHELLY ! Can yu do a video on y I mostly get d opposite of what I think/expect? Pls it's a humble request !! Or can yu atleast tell y it happens. If I expect good,bad happens..if I expect bad,good happens. Y is dat ? Can v use negative affirmations 2 our advantage ? Like "I don't want a big house" and then it will show up etc.
@@stephaniem999 Plz tell me how can i manifest my trip vacation to meet my sp and manifest our marriage and how can i manifest that my sp lives in my country only because he is planning to move in another country in future..plz help
@@mswhunter118 ..i want to travel alone by train but my parents are not allowing me to travel because they are saying that i am only 19 and its difficult for me to travel alone but i want to travel alone and to meet my sp who is in another state 🥺..plz give me some tips that how can manifest this
Plz tell me how can i manifest my trip vacation to meet my sp and manifest our marriage and how can i manifest that my sp lives in my country only because he is planning to move in another country in future..plz help
I'd like to ask a question. IF stop feeling needy is the key to manifest an SP why there are situations when the person you felt needy to be with long time ago don't show up at all? Like you don't have feelings for any of them for 10-20 years and they still don't show up in your life?
I don't understand your question. However I think you're asking why not all people show back up? Because it's about eliminating lack (eliminating neediness) and also holding the knowing that it will happen (wish fulfilled).
Hi, im trying to manifest new love but i sometimes still think about my sp (i stopped trying to manifest him cause i realize he’s not for me) would it trigger my new manifestation? :/
Yes, I understand that. AND in your imagination, you really can create the inner experience of physical intimacy. Yes, of course, it's not exactly the same, but there is a way to use your imagination to feel whatever you want to feel as if it's happening in the 3D.
@@ShellyBullard I love this answer!.It is fine, It is elegant, It matches good values!.Just those who love from the deepest space can understand it!.Now, Can you imagine to love that way and to have sex with men because you have to??.And on top of that, you are most of the time Asexual!!.That's terrible!!!,believe me!!.Just a very strong woman can go through this and still have compassion!!..And Yes, Self Love is the most important thing!!.and because of it, I deserve the best man in this planet!!.
The only thing i dont get it . If you feel whole without a person, why would you need to manifest him? Is it to change the prespective from seeig him as someone that completes you to someone who compliments you? Thanks😊
Try a black magic spell caster with good reviews. I’ve been so positive for months and living like he’s mine. Even have a pic of him on my sideboard like it’s normal...and had only one downer. I’ve just done a spell so don’t know if that will help. If that doesn’t work I can’t see how LOA works when I’ve been following it to a T.
I have a deep crush on a girl whom I see in the gym. We never spoke to each other but I feel we have a vibe How to get her to approach me? Or should I approach her I also have fear of losing her. She is absolutely my type which I can’t find in other women So tell me what should I do? I dont even know her name. we just see each other once or twice a week or even less
it was this Monday 01/03/2021 when he n myself had an argument...he is loosing his temper for very minor issues...i cannot actually believe such hurting talks is coming out of his mouth whom i loved above everything. He said now you dare call me again...he dumped my call...next day on tuesday i called and texted desperately he avoided completely. Iam doing affirmations daily its been 5 days he still didn't call me NEITHER IAM CALLING NOW...iam missing him a lot, thinking of him 24×7 I hope he calls me with his full heart and stop this taking advantage attitude and love me without any conditions 😭 Will update if this turns out in my favor Shely could u make a video on how to change a person from the root....he was soooooo good before and now he is so cruel and unjust😭🙏 iam tired of these fights and stubborn attitude of his....
Stop focusing on what you don't like about him. Focus on the version of him that he was before. When bad things like this happen, persist. Circumstances don't matter. You got this in the long run. He's already yours and you can relax.
I sometimes read comments to see some success stories but instead, I see "black magic" or "3D situation" comments lol. Thanks for the video though, I know a lot about this topic but still don't work on myself hahah
Hahaha, I clicked on this video because she's sitting on a bed. Sad I know! I get that she's at a hotel after listening. BTW, when nothing is needed...all things are possible!
Sometimes iam imagining in daily basis that im already with him i mean i act with the imagination its so fun and i love doing it example i imagine he is calling, i take my phone and i talk to him ( i act it ) ,, is that fine?
Oh my gosh. I was just looking for this comment. I have BPD too and I find that my specific person comes back when I'm good and stable but when I'm in an episode he tends to drift a bit...it's just so hard to control sometimes.
@@babyysn1perr there is a youtuber named Chiron calling and she does BPD and manifesting. She helps me with my SP and his BPD symptoms. Best of luck to you lovely people.
it's so weird that Americans are still travelling during the pandemic and talking about it, I keep seeing all these youtubers boosting about their vacation and wondering what they're being told. In Canada we're on a semi lockdown and urged to not travel to stop the spread of the variants and so are most other countries. Why aren't you guys getting the memo, stay home, don't endanger other people in other places.
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Hi Shelly💕🌸😊 my SP (Xavier) texted me a few days ago!! (Last time he did was in march 2018 lol)..
It was kind of neutral but it just made me feel so happy!💖 anyway I am currently just focussing on loving myself + my self concept!👱♀️💖💖💖 & when I think about him I just think positive things about him but mostly I am just focussing about feeling good💕
Yay!! I'm happy for you! It's exciting when we see changes in the 3D. 💖
@@ShellyBullard thank you🌸💕💕😊
omg!! that gives me hope :)
Congrats @mgpl. And Shelly thank you for all your videos!
Instablaster.
whenever i forget about him he shows up and when i feel needy he disappears
Yes. This is a classic dynamic. Next steps for you: do A LOT of self love so that you stop feeling so needy when he shows up. Self Love is the thing that will dissolve that neediness.
Daniel Only god is powerful and rest we are the same, please don’t try to lie to people
Same !! Lol
We cant control that
Oh my goodness. The same thing is happening on me. Why
Self love is the best love
Yes. It's the foundation of everything.
When I decided I wanted a new person, I manifested her in a month or two and it was SO easy and fast. We've been into an "official relationship" for like 3 months and it's been awesome. Do what Shelly says, it's good stuff!
I don't need him to want me. I know I'm chosen by him or whoever I want because I am infinite. We all are infinite. It's who we are at a soul level! ❤️
This is very true and beautiful. Sometimes people in relationships are basically using each other to 'not feel abandoned' or to fill that space unintentionally. They think it's love but it is not really love. It is attachment, codependent. The real love comes from within you and once you find it BY YOURSELF you can then manifest someone that is not toxic and they will really love you because you will both feel whole with or without the other. :)
Sometimes people in relationships are basically using each other to 'not feel abandoned' >> true.
Exactly we need to change codependency to interdependency and things start to flow 😊
That’s not realistic because Humans Have Needs
OMG. I kid you not it’s 11.11 and I just finished watching this video. My SP replied to my text!! (1 week later) Truly guys, self love is the best love❤️ THANK YOU UNIVERSE (‘:
This is so true has happened to me so many times. When I'm moving on they pop up, if I act needy they are gone.
Wow! I've heard this many times, but you break this down in a way that makes sense out of "stop feeling needy."
My sp was/is/will be inside of me the whole time.She is me.(everyone is you pushed out).Why I should need it when this relationship is inside me rn.
Thanks Shelly💖
Yes, when we stop needing..the sp shows us. It is true we feel the graspy feeling. I think , when we feel so , we need to remain silent, calm , just letting whatever it is to be in its place , at that time the dominant feeling of being with the sp or whatever...shows up. Absolutely true.🙏 many times you have saved me. Thank you.
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I never want him to need me. I want him to want me and show it in words and actions everyday in the way I prefer.
Yes exactly That's what I need too
So true, and also so nice to hear 🧡 I think it's also very important to keep this feeling deep into yourself ONCE you have found "your" person, otherwise it's very easy to fall back again in the old trap and wait for the other one to love you, instead of loving yourself. And then you have to do it all over again. First: I love myself ; Next : He loves me ; Then : I keep on loving myself and giving myself the priority in all the areas of my life ! :)) Cheers to everyone and know that you are never alone in that process.
Whats wrong with loving others?!?!?!
This is so beautiful you explain it very clearly how self love is most important to manifest anything including our sp, we are so grateful for your teachings, thank you
Self-love is something that is basically instilled in the first 7 years of life. Programmed into your foundational world-view and much of the rest of your life is built on those core experiences. So yeah that makes it something that someone with self-love just does and doesn’t know they do, and someone without self-love also doesn’t know how they are living an old pattern too-and sabotaging themselves. So it’s hard to believe, but much of the problems of those who need self-love can be solved by repeatedly doing self-love exercises. Mirror work, and seeing how the world changes etc. Thanks for this message ❤️🌹🙏🏻 Totally working on this...
What other self love excercises? I'm definitely one of the people that went through some stuff in my first 7 years! Now my subconscious can never chill out and takes over! Obviously im working on it, but would like to know any exercises that people have ... currently I'm meditating, and scripting.
@@ganapatikitty those are awesome, but I use a mirror and look into your own eyes with love and feel love, say “I love you” even though it feels really weird. 😂 It seriously helped me to just stroke your forearm lovingly or your shoulders or face even while thinking how you love your body and who you are without reservation. Don’t qualify or be critical. Just love and understanding as a learning living being of immense beauty and ability. Do it every morning for 2 months. Also imagine other people loving you and wanting to be near you. And you wanting and feeling good about being near them. I just realized the body thing was mostly me because I am transgender and have those issues... but still, focus on whatever is most gratifying or against your own insecurities. Love is the answer.
It is so true. To sustain a relationship you must sustain self first. I completely agree with self love. Coming from rather than running after. Two dynamics different results.
Beautiful video Shelly, self love really is the most important thing to manifest, it makes you believe on your worth and your power; enjoy your stay in Tulum, a place I’ve been thinking about a lot and really surprised me you were there! So deserved
Thank you so much! Enjoying!
Hi, Shelly. Thank you for all the information. I've got my sp exactly by letting go of desperation and when I've stopped chasing him 💜
I struggle with this BIG TIME due to major childhood neglect and abandonment. Getting better day by day but still my main weakness for my SP.
I can relate :/ but we can get there!
I think loving yourself is important but isn't needed to manifest. I know people that are insecure and have been happily married for decades. It's actually an assumption, that if you stop being needy you'll get the relationship. Since it's your reality, you create your own rules. This is still classic dating advice.
Well if you want to be HAPPY in the relationship, then self love is necessary
When I feel I become desperate I do some self love meditation or I think about my blessings. My story is like this: I've met I guy that I liked and felt some special bonding. I've started the "manifest a specific person meditation" and in 3 days he started te act different around me, I understood that he liked me too. After that I started te become desperate and needy and wanted to be together fast and he stepped back. I realized what my mistake was and cooled down, begin self love meditation and after one month he asked me out. After 2 dates he kissed me and said that he couldn't wait to do that. We just started dating but I just can't believe that I manifested that. I hope not to go in the lower vibrations again, I am relaxed now and confident that we are soulmates.
What’s wrong with wanting to be together fast it’s not like he’s just anyone from the street you chose that person why wait years just to prove that you’re “cool”
I loooove TULUM ! It's sooo magical and serene ! I know you will just love it !
OMG I already do! It's so epic here!
Years ago I named this syndrome after one of my boyfriends. This was decades before I had heard of LoA or Manifesting or Neville. But it played out exactly as you explain. In fact it happened twice with 2 different guys. So it works. For reals. Also, the Tulum, Mexico thing is becoming a bazaar synchronicity. I had never heard of it before. You are now the 3rd person who has gone there this year. Isn't that crazy? Have fun.
You have been a huge part of the changes to my life and attitude that all started with a need to get our dog from my boyfriend (we're separated temporarily) and has turned into something so big that I never imagined at the time. Thank you so much for your help 💜💜💜
This is so wonderful to hear.
THE TIMING OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG I NEEDED THIS
Shelly I love your clothes I love everything about you however sometimes I wonder where could I find clothes like yours?? 🤔🤔🤣🤣
This is the part i find so hard. She is always in my thoughts and to share my day with her.
I love your top!
Would you please do a video for specific person when you are in a long-distance relationship? Long distance as in miles away, countries apart. Thank you!
I decided yesterday to move from need for certain things and just decided to say I want
Nice video Shelly thank you
This is so true! Thank you, Shelly
Oh, I just talked about my experience in Tulum - one special week of 4 weeks Mexico. So, happy for you, spending a couple of weeks there and how cool is it, to work from everywhere in the world. These videos have the vibe from the older videos. I guess, it is the setting. :))
Wow, so well explained, thank you very much, Shelly❣☀️🙏
You are Amazing Madam!. God Bless you. & Happy new year 2022🙏😇❤🇦🇺🎊
Thank you Shelly. I have learned a lot of things from you. I am trying to manifest a specific person in my life I am using the method that you have told us "living in the end" in my imagination I am engaged with my specific person everytime before bed I visualize me and my partner are so happy together. I visualize different scenarios . And that makes me feel so good.. in my imagination I already have him. And there is no doubt in my mind . I truly believe that he is mine . We're meant to be together. I feel so good thinking about him also I try to focus on myself the person I want to be in future I assume that I am already that person.. I am living in the.. I believe that no matter what he will come into my 3d world.all the things that I desire will take place. If it takes time then it's ok. I'm not exhausted because in my mind I know he is mine . He only loves me he needs me. After all if he is me pushed out then what I feel about him he is feeling the same right ?? I just wanna know I am living in the end with my specific person but he is not in my 3d world then what is going on with him ? Can he feel me ? I mean if I am manifesting him then can he also feel my presence ?
I would say I've done this and figured out that it just intensified my desire for the person. Our minds are dangerous. They build this image of the person while we imagine-- that isnt even who they are. Then we want them more and even feel like we have this time with them-- when in reality we've been nowhere around them. I think the secret is action. If you want them, drop them a quick message. We cant hide in our beds at night wishing. I think that's just us being afraid they wont like us. Take a shot! Time is short. Should we spend it waiting and wishing? YOU have the power. YOU!!! Clap your hands together real hard and say-- I have the power to make my dreams happen. Don't sit and wish. YOU can do it RIGHT NOW. Dunno- I believe in manifesting but what fun is a love that you'll feel you forced. Get out there and rock it :) Make some mistakes, but make something happen! YOU!!! have the key.
@@johndavis5512 thank you for your valuable comment it means a lot to me 🥰. But I have some insecurities. I don't want this relationship now to be happen. I'm just a college student. I want this relationship happen when I will be in university. Then I will have my own life to live. And moreover I think I'm not pretty enough to go in front of him and confess my feeling. I'll do that for sure I can't just sit here and wait for some miracle to happen. I gotta do something to get him but not now. I'm afraid of losing him so first of all I wanna be the best version of myself .. I want to have all the qualities that a ideal woman should have. First I need to focus on myself my career,my looks,my dream house etc. Then after having all of this I'm gonna get him.. he has nothing to do but be mine.. ... I have full faith on my manifestation. He is mine. And I won't let anyone to get him. If he is dating someone it's ok but when I'll be on the field no one can come even closer to him. I may sound like a psychopath but once I have thought he is mine then he is mine..
@@johndavis5512 Dear John, your opinion is surely practical..
That's what I did..
My msgs to him are one sided, I msgs would be lengthy and his would be really short..
At one time, I voiced msg him, asking his stand about this relationship..
He firmly said he wants to carry on but his work situation does not permit him to send lengthy msgs..
I did it 3 times, and all the 3 times he still kept saying he wants to carry on..
So i concluded that, I need to take Shelly's advice, never to have a story playing in my mind about him..
I have to self love more to spread love..
I managed to persuade my heart to be more patient with him..
I don't understand why I still love him so much though his messages are so minimal..
In the end, I said to myself that I love him for God has created him that way, I love him as he is God's creation, no soul is perfect..
I love him for what he is..
I love him for God has made us meet each other ( long distance relationship) and through him I am learning a lot of patience..
I love him..I love him..I love him..
I love him for he is God's creation..
By God's will, I will meet him one day..
Your vibes are so pure and positive.. Love all ur videos .. Love from India 😊
Mmm thank you for seeing me!
Love it.... Shelly, can you give me more details on the cours plz ?
I honestly would LOVE to manifest a specific cat. Would it be same as other manifestations? I mean that specific pet. No other alternatives! But I am afraid I can not have him. Paradoxically enough, he is already adopted by a kind-hearted meowmy/mother! On top of that, he has been provided with an older kitty brother as well to play with. Most importantly, he lives thousands and thousands miles away in a whole different country! Would his meowmy agree on leaving him and what is more, would he himself want to move in with me? I know others would possibly advise me to get a look alike but I can only think of that particular individual.🐈🐾 A cat is a cat, btw! No metaphorical sense involved.🙂 It makes me so melancholy when I see his pictures every morning!😼
You can manifest anything you want. If you know you and this kitty are meant to be together, you will be.
@@ShellyBullard Aww, what a sweet response! thank you for replying! 😊🧡 But I also do not want to make his mum sad! Would it be wrong for me to manifest him, then?😔
@@anonymoussomeone7306 You can either manifest that everyone is happy for you adopting the cat, or you can manifest other cats which has the exact same traits ❤️
@@ohnojc Aww, I will opt for the first one, then!😁😹
Hi Shelly, I suddenly feel like I don’t want her that much anymore because I’m tired. And I dislike certain the behaviours about her. What does this all mean. Is it a manifestation progress or throwing my desire away. I don’t really care anymore. I just want to be happy
Thank you Shelly 💖 xx
Love the warm love.
Great video
My partner has been changing over the last month, we had a chat on Wednesday and it knocked me but I told her when she asked me what do I think and I told her that I’ve not got the same thoughts and feelings as she has, meaning nothing is wrong on my end and she’s looking into things that aren’t there, she’s an out going person and very bubbly and this lockdown isn’t doing her any favours at all. I used to be a very needy guy but this lady I’m now with is the lady I’m going to marry so I’ve nothing to get stressed about, I’m relaxed and I don’t over pursue her, if she wants to contact me then she can if she doesn’t I know she will and she’s busy, I thought by her being 48 and me being 46 we’d not be going through this and things will just flow and go smoothly, she is a single mum, she’s back into college bettering herself, she’s caring after her 85 and 74 year old parents and her needy 17 year old son who doesn’t want her to be anywhere else other than with him, she runs around after him like a mum runs around after a toddler
Hi Shelly, this is so true
This is great! Thankyou ❤️
It is no coincidence that my SP was in Tulum recently too... haha. TY for this insight!
Love this method
Thanks You Darling !!! ❤️❤️😌😌🙏🙏
U are speaking to my problem. I am like that.
I love this, thank you🧡
Best advice ever! ♥️
I tried signing up for one on one coaching but couldn't, I'm trying to let go of the grasping feeling
BEAUTIFUL LADY!
Tks Kelly for the positivity that u bring to us I wish u all the best, as I am new can we say to sum up that to manifest we must; imagine the scene, feel it in the first person, believe it?,could u make when u got time and feel like a specific video on how to get ur friend back and forever that he now in a relationship with someone else and got no feeling for us and he lives very distant and blocked us?? is it possible to have him back forever even if he lives very far from us if we cannot see him and if he in a relationship?? tks much much!
Amen. Love u girl ❤
This is very important because you are God, putting someone else on a pedestal is as if he is God which isn't true because you are the most important person in your reality. That is worshipping a false god as Neville would say
So Shelly my question is: If I am manifesting my own reality and someone else involved in my reality is manifesting their own reality, how come our realities don't "bump into each other" or cancel each other out if we are manifesting even slightly different outcomes?
8:15 Oh, this is developing a form emotional self-sufficiency. That made sense now, lol.
Thank you ❤
Self love ❤️🙏💜
My sp is constantly hidden from me although he sees everything!.Now, I have a new person who makes lots of sense to my job. I do not think he is my new sp but for sure he covers lots of my spiritual necessities!.I am wondering myself: How to understand all of these??.and I do not want to ocult any feeling. I just want to follow my heart.
Hey what do you mean he's hidden from you but sees everything ? So he just watches you? And any updates on this situation? Who did you stick with, your SP or the new person?
@@imshaun4563 Situation is the same or even worst. I am still single but helping a lot.
@@dalinadanergy6484 So you stuck with the SP and the new person. Got it. But let me guess, the SP is now only a booty call, bc he knows about the other guy...?
@@imshaun4563 I have no idea what booty call is
@@imshaun4563 I am single!!.Not even SP. I just help with my good energy and I do not even need to have Sex as Harry and Meghan to make sense.
I do not need more that One man to be happy. They are the ones who need me to have more than one man to satisfy their interestes. It's all about them.
You are looking so pretty.
How about when there’s no SP and you’re just trying to switch from desperate vibration to abundance and loving vibration? How to trust that it’s there and it’s going to find you once and for all🙌🏼
Hey Shelly, towards the end of the video you said that that's when the sp comes around and then added not always... Could you please explain that before my version starts overthinking😂.. thanks in advance
Lmao right. These little things throw me OFF. lol I guess we gotta believe.
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯
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Whtsaap him**
Very True 👍
You look so beautiful ❤️
Can you do a video of manifesting appearance? I'm trying to manifest clear skin but I don't know how to affirm when I constantly see myself in the mirror
eat healthy and drink plenty of water use honey and lemon and baking soda!!
The problem is that I DO NEED it. I’ve been with one woman for a short time my whole 56 years. I’m running out of time. Women always tell me how awesome I am how amazing and wonderful I am, it none of them want to be with me.
You clearly need to change your inner conversation. Why would you affirm this and post it here?
For me it was the same thing with getting pregnant. When I didn't want it anymore it was coming.
SHELLY !
Can yu do a video on y I mostly get d opposite of what I think/expect?
Pls it's a humble request !!
Or can yu atleast tell y it happens.
If I expect good,bad happens..if I expect bad,good happens.
Y is dat ?
Can v use negative affirmations 2 our advantage ?
Like "I don't want a big house" and then it will show up etc.
Very nice 🆗
How to stop need relationship when u want it most?
The video has answers for you ;)
It's hard but you can do it. And it will make you feel so much better! 💜
@@stephaniem999 Plz tell me how can i manifest my trip vacation to meet my sp and manifest our marriage and how can i manifest that my sp lives in my country only because he is planning to move in another country in future..plz help
@@shikhagupta5546 there’s no special way to manifest anything. The same way you manifest for one thing is the same you manifest for another thing.
@@mswhunter118 ..i want to travel alone by train but my parents are not allowing me to travel because they are saying that i am only 19 and its difficult for me to travel alone but i want to travel alone and to meet my sp who is in another state 🥺..plz give me some tips that how can manifest this
You mentioned 'it's not the only way to do it'. Could you share the other ways to do it?
um, yeah. I have 400 videos so start there ;)
Plz tell me how can i manifest my trip vacation to meet my sp and manifest our marriage and how can i manifest that my sp lives in my country only because he is planning to move in another country in future..plz help
I'd like to ask a question. IF stop feeling needy is the key to manifest an SP why there are situations when the person you felt needy to be with long time ago don't show up at all? Like you don't have feelings for any of them for 10-20 years and they still don't show up in your life?
I don't understand your question. However I think you're asking why not all people show back up? Because it's about eliminating lack (eliminating neediness) and also holding the knowing that it will happen (wish fulfilled).
Okay, so HOW do you stop feeling needy for it?
Hi, im trying to manifest new love but i sometimes still think about my sp (i stopped trying to manifest him cause i realize he’s not for me) would it trigger my new manifestation? :/
No, it’s not going to mess anything up ☺️
@@ShellyBullard Thank you, Shelly 🥺❤️
What about us needing intimacy, touch ? We need phisical contact with other people....
I have the same question
Yes, I understand that. AND in your imagination, you really can create the inner experience of physical intimacy. Yes, of course, it's not exactly the same, but there is a way to use your imagination to feel whatever you want to feel as if it's happening in the 3D.
@@ShellyBullard I love this answer!.It is fine, It is elegant, It matches good values!.Just those who love from the deepest space can understand it!.Now, Can you imagine to love that way and to have sex with men because you have to??.And on top of that, you are most of the time Asexual!!.That's terrible!!!,believe me!!.Just a very strong woman can go through this and still have compassion!!..And Yes, Self Love is the most important thing!!.and because of it, I deserve the best man in this planet!!.
@@ShellyBullard thank you for your reply.
You are beautiful
The only thing i dont get it . If you feel whole without a person, why would you need to manifest him? Is it to change the prespective from seeig him as someone that completes you to someone who compliments you? Thanks😊
I’ve been trying for more than a year but nothing happens.. I’m still on his block list.. I’m feeling very depressed..
Try a black magic spell caster with good reviews. I’ve been so positive for months and living like he’s mine. Even have a pic of him on my sideboard like it’s normal...and had only one downer. I’ve just done a spell so don’t know if that will help. If that doesn’t work I can’t see how LOA works when I’ve been following it to a T.
Self Love. Stop focusing on them.
Shelly after a year of chasing can I still work with self love and get my sp back.
Practice self love in a major way & you’ll find out
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I have a deep crush on a girl whom I see in the gym. We never spoke to each other but I feel we have a vibe
How to get her to approach me? Or should I approach her
I also have fear of losing her. She is absolutely my type which I can’t find in other women
So tell me what should I do? I dont even know her name. we just see each other once or twice a week or even less
it was this Monday 01/03/2021 when he n myself had an argument...he is loosing his temper for very minor issues...i cannot actually believe such hurting talks is coming out of his mouth whom i loved above everything. He said now you dare call me again...he dumped my call...next day on tuesday i called and texted desperately he avoided completely.
Iam doing affirmations daily its been 5 days he still didn't call me NEITHER IAM CALLING NOW...iam missing him a lot, thinking of him 24×7
I hope he calls me with his full heart and stop this taking advantage attitude and love me without any conditions 😭
Will update if this turns out in my favor
Shely could u make a video on how to change a person from the root....he was soooooo good before and now he is so cruel and unjust😭🙏 iam tired of these fights and stubborn attitude of his....
I feel this
I hope she could make a video on it too
Stop focusing on what you don't like about him.
Focus on the version of him that he was before. When bad things like this happen, persist.
Circumstances don't matter.
You got this in the long run.
He's already yours and you can relax.
@@manifestationqueen717 thank you for this
@@ashleygordon6989 My pleasure 😁
Did I just manifest a video from u?
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I sometimes read comments to see some success stories but instead, I see "black magic" or "3D situation" comments lol. Thanks for the video though, I know a lot about this topic but still don't work on myself hahah
Hahaha, I clicked on this video because she's sitting on a bed. Sad I know! I get that she's at a hotel after listening. BTW, when nothing is needed...all things are possible!
Sometimes iam imagining in daily basis that im already with him i mean i act with the imagination its so fun and i love doing it example i imagine he is calling, i take my phone and i talk to him ( i act it ) ,, is that fine?
YES!
🙏🏼 💕💞
do you have any tips for letting go with bpd? it feels like i can’t control it sometimes
Oh my gosh. I was just looking for this comment. I have BPD too and I find that my specific person comes back when I'm good and stable but when I'm in an episode he tends to drift a bit...it's just so hard to control sometimes.
@@babyysn1perr there is a youtuber named Chiron calling and she does BPD and manifesting. She helps me with my SP and his BPD symptoms. Best of luck to you lovely people.
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When manifestation gurus start sounding like psychoanalysts I just have to laugh so hard. Hahahahaha!!
Well I am a licensed psychotherapist as well... so there you have it!
Can we manifest different persons at the same time?? And how to do it???
the same way you manifest just one.
@@ShellyBullard I manifest a sister relationship and a partner.. can I visualize these two things daily to attract them?
@@ng2891 Of course. Just don't do it in an obsessive way.
8:54 so in summary...
it's so weird that Americans are still travelling during the pandemic and talking about it, I keep seeing all these youtubers boosting about their vacation and wondering what they're being told. In Canada we're on a semi lockdown and urged to not travel to stop the spread of the variants and so are most other countries. Why aren't you guys getting the memo, stay home, don't endanger other people in other places.