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  • @DadUniversity
    @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

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  • @christianmorrow3254
    @christianmorrow3254 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m going to be a dad to a little girl, next year. So happy and blessed!

    • @albertjose8879
      @albertjose8879 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wishing you all the best!

    • @christianmorrow3254
      @christianmorrow3254 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@albertjose8879 appreciate it. So far, so good!

    • @I-AM-JESSE
      @I-AM-JESSE 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have a two-year-old baby girl. It’ll be the best thing that ever happens to you.

    • @amirjafari6032
      @amirjafari6032 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@I-AM-JESSE Me too. Loving that we can do more together but HOLY SHIT THE TANTRUMS

  • @3Prodigy
    @3Prodigy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kids are such a blessing and it means the world to see them smile. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for these videos to help people be their best for their children.

  • @TreRiv
    @TreRiv ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the videos and the support all the new fathers in the comments are showing each other! I Just turned 30 last month and learned that my girlfriend and I are 15 weeks expecting a little girl. I’m nervous but excited at the same time. Good luck to you all, I can tell we’re going to be great fathers simply because we are here. Peace ✌🏾

  • @Ryannnlebel
    @Ryannnlebel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Loving the videos. I’m having my first child in July. It’s a girl!!. Also I’m 21 so I feel like a young father.

    • @orwellianyoutube8978
      @orwellianyoutube8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congrats man! Just found out today that I am having a baby girl as well. Did you already graduate, as its July 12th already?

    • @Ryannnlebel
      @Ryannnlebel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@orwellianyoutube8978 yup July 1st actually haha. Stressful so far but fun.

    • @orwellianyoutube8978
      @orwellianyoutube8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ryannnlebel Good work, dad! Hope you and your lady are able to get some sleep. Btw, my mom is born on July 1st as well, lol.

    • @marlostanfield8127
      @marlostanfield8127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@orwellianyoutube8978 me too I jus found out today it's my first child she will be born in July 7-16. Not gonna lie though the news had me down all day hence why I'm here😔🥺 I was so excited thinking it would be a boy and today when I got the news I was numb 😶

    • @glasscannon4723
      @glasscannon4723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im 21 with a 3 year old baby girl and a 1 year old baby giril both born on December 23rd and 25th i feel proud and happy with them 😁

  • @eliasalcazar6554
    @eliasalcazar6554 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Watching this to be a better Uncle! Wife and I decided on no kids for us, but that doesn't mean we can't be a positive influence in our Nieces and Nephews lives.

  • @lebronbeatsrdan1046
    @lebronbeatsrdan1046 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm going to be a twin girl dad soon and a single dad at that😔 I pray to get through this and do the best I can for my princesses

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You will be an amazing father, there will be many people praying for you and your daughters and the blessings from those prayers will never depart from you. 🙏🏿❤️

  • @JackSmith-w1t
    @JackSmith-w1t 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +130

    Just finished reading ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ and it really opened my eyes to some new ways of guiding my kids in their faith. Highly recommend it if you’re looking to strenghten your family’s spiritual life

  • @glennalawrence5258
    @glennalawrence5258 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video I am a grandmother. Not having a girl only boys. I will send this to my son. I was telling my son the same things.

  • @C2FUX
    @C2FUX 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your advice is preparing this daughter to be alot more delicate than need be , alot of your advice is solid but you follow it up with general information that noone can benefit from but they will listen, if your going to do this do it right, take questions, give specific examples

  • @Nashjay21
    @Nashjay21 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve just become a dad and I’m binge watching your videos , I can’t wait to put it to use, Thank you for some solid advice

  • @PittBlu213
    @PittBlu213 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video just confirms what I already know. I am an Awesome Dad to my 5 year old daughter. Unfortunately I haven't been able to see her in 9 months due to her mother holding a grudge against me and using my daughter as a pawn to hurt me. I miss her so much

    • @waves2378
      @waves2378 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Time to sue for full custody. You can even use the “parental alienation” argument, based on what you’re saying.

    • @PittBlu213
      @PittBlu213 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@waves2378 I would never do all of that I just want visitation rights or split custody at the most. She is still my daughter's mother and I hold no grudge or wish no punishment on her. Thank you for your comment though I see what you are saying.

  • @realdadvswild
    @realdadvswild ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so valuable. Currently integrating more one-on-one time for each of my daughters into my schedule.🤙🏽

  • @walterl8451
    @walterl8451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This dude is a legend!!!

  • @PapaulskiBCFC
    @PapaulskiBCFC ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m gunna be a first time Dad in December to a little girl. I really want to be a good Dad. Me and the Mother have unfortunately broken up so the advice about not disrespecting my daughters Mom is something to consider.

    • @theGiantworm86
      @theGiantworm86 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My daughter was born about the same time as yours. Her mother is my current wife. But I have a previous wife. One thing I think is important is to look for the best in the people of your past. I try not to talk badly of my ex wife even though we didn't have children together. I don't want my daughter to see me disrespecting someone from my past. I know your situation is different. And your ex is very much involved in you and your daughters life. Try and be the person you hope your child can be. Teach her the best way to be. And if we do that, hopefully we can become better as well.

  • @JordzManchesta
    @JordzManchesta 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im a single dad who took on my daughter at 2 months because she her mum didnt want to do it, im finding it majorly difficult in situations when tantrums start. I find myself crying alot and thats something i never did! I bottled up emotions up all the time! People are telling me im going through hormonal imbalances. Are they correct?

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am not a doctor but there is nothing wrong with you. Emotions and these feelings are normal. Talking with a therapist might be helpful to sort things out.

  • @rc3324
    @rc3324 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advice .. I am thankfull bc I have been cretical, me and my ex have been disresptful to each other.

  • @Andyc515
    @Andyc515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video thank you,it’s much needed advice and tips as I’m a struggling single dad with my 11 year old daughter we’ve both been through a lot since me and her birth mother split and my recently split up with ex partner my daughters step mum so we’re back as one now and in our own house trying my best for her. 😢

  • @danwilson7636
    @danwilson7636 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Excellent... Thank You Sir !!

  • @lazaruslove7165
    @lazaruslove7165 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you man this is great im absorbing everything

  • @graemer1511
    @graemer1511 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Jason, i know this a 3 year old video but I wanted to let you know, I just became a Dad and I've binged all your videos. i am so grateful for the passion and work you put into these videos. From a new dad, thank you very much.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so glad these videos are valuable to you. This is exactly why i make them. Thank you for the comments and congratulations!

  • @claudefrancis9128
    @claudefrancis9128 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly is only when they young you can do most of these things with them it creates a bond. In most cases and to most dads I've spoken to say soon as they reach puberty they pull away from dads they turn towards their mom speak about things you'll never know about bro. Some pull away from dad's some come back. Women are strange so men do y'all best with daughters treat your son good stay a lil closer to them

  • @melsmith5100
    @melsmith5100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #6 should be #1

  • @ZaBoiii1620
    @ZaBoiii1620 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro single parenting a girl is so scary, I've walked threw hell but nothing scares me more then raising my kid right

  • @jeru333
    @jeru333 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My wife won't let me and my daughter go camping together and make precious memories any advice Dad University

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did she provide a reason why?

    • @woody1389
      @woody1389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like my situation. I can’t take her to feed, ride the side by side, take her for a ride or do anything. It kinda sucks, but I just keep my head down because the only other choice is to not be around at all and I can’t imagine that

  • @D-unfadeable
    @D-unfadeable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much!!!!!

  • @bloodiamondeyes
    @bloodiamondeyes ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Personally, I believe it’s not only a dad’s right. But also his responsibility to speak against certain outfits his daughter wears. Obviously, don’t be rude about it. But simply just say. I don’t like you wearing such things. And as your father, it’s my responsibility to make sure you wear clothing that encourages men to be more respectful towards you.

    • @rene3759
      @rene3759 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, looking out in a positive and supportive way how kids dress is important. but dont set them up for a false attitude that how they dress will encourage men to respect her or that she should be thinking about men in how she dresses. because one as a woman who dresses "modestly" i have gotten plenty of disrespect from the range of personally degrading me because i am a woman and those particular men dont respect any women in general and 2, have still been stalked, harrassed and have had unwanted advances and have been cat called despite how I dressed. Clothing will not protect your daughters at all. A predator will stop at nothing to get what they want. Even women in very conservative and modeslty dressed countries get alot of sexual harrassmetn, rape abuse and general rudness despite how they dress. One things predators look out for is vulnerabilty ie. women and girls with low self esteem and little to know back bone, women and girls who can be easiley be molded into what they want them to be or can be intimidated into silence ie women and girls who blineldy obey perceived authority. Women with little ability to descern peoples characters. Respectful men respect women based on who they are not on what they wear. I have met many of those respectful men , they usually also have alot of female friends who also look differently and are different and they use to be around them based on who they are ie good people, that are kind and intelligent and fun to be around. Also you should be preared that when it comes to girls alot of predatory will precisely look to get a hold of and sexually harrass young girls because they are young and because they are innocent and vulnerable. Predators are destructive people that enjoy the idea of destroying innocent, vuleranble and young people, girls in particular. This means you doesnt matter how she dresses they will prey on her for the fact that she is a girl. Also she shouldnt care for the opinions of men who care more to respect clothing than a human being, those people are not good people in my experience especially because when something bad does happen to you they will not be supportive, protect you or be there for you when you need help but simply blame you even if you did dress "correctly". You know what predators are scared of? Getting hurt and secondly going to jail and lastly getting exposed. So to try and protect yourself learning self defense and having a weapon is good, also having a strong aura and attitude is good, im a small and petite women and i have been able to stare down a couple of predators ie they know that it would be a bloody fight even if they got me and that they would likey get caught, also being loved and being raised with strength gives you and aura that can deter some predators just from loooking at you because they can sense that people will not only protect you but also hunt him down and kill him if he hurt you. Human beings are still animals so alot of non-verbal communication still happens even subcounciously so women and girls who have the non-verbal aura of I will hurt you or kill and I can and or my family "pack" will hunt you down and kill you, deter alot of predators just by this. This is why you need to be careful how "sweet and agreeable" you raise your daughter to be because that only could make her a perfect target for predators. I was also raised to be sweet and agrreabe but only to an extent becaue i was also raised to fight and stand my ground and to hurt people even kill them if they try to attack and hurt me.

  • @BjMiles-sb8ju
    @BjMiles-sb8ju 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the videos gonna start watching more I found out today I’m having a girl

  • @OlDavefromthatsho
    @OlDavefromthatsho 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if mom is constantly harassing and talking to be very rude?
    I can only take so much before I get mad

  • @C2FUX
    @C2FUX 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dont say anything negative? , so you should be able to be critical of your daughter, to avoid it is to have not formed a bond solid enough to weather such comments in the 1st place, this guy is not really in touch , although I'm from the UK a single father , maybe its different in the USA

  • @BrianNguyen-w8h
    @BrianNguyen-w8h 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    awesome video

  • @wally2909
    @wally2909 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Some aspiration to become better is not a bad thing to teach your kid. Look at the dads who clicked the link to become a better father. So too should you be honest to your daughter. If her hair looks crap, just tell her she could do better or show her. Sure she'll be beautiful no matter what in the eyes of a father but not by society. Prepare her for that because she will hold it against you in the future when looks start to matter

  • @jjc8116
    @jjc8116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video thank you

  • @blumythefool777
    @blumythefool777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Treating my mom well is too much for my dad 💀💀💀💀 and then he asks himself why i dont even want to be around him

  • @PopTalkPodcast
    @PopTalkPodcast 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dope video!

  • @Supreme_Cipher
    @Supreme_Cipher 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Having a Daughter hits different only Girl Dads understand this.

  • @BloomingCakes-h8l
    @BloomingCakes-h8l 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Trueee

  • @romascopa8461
    @romascopa8461 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The inside part is tough. Feel a ton of shame of my kid seeing how the Internet has shaped her way of talking people when she's upset. It's straight out of a dumpster. Then the negative part when they dress like the US teaches kids to dress, it's also hard to say anything at all, just feel more shame. I do feel like this advice is more for a mom than a dad though to be honest.

  • @mjaraz5442
    @mjaraz5442 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love my two-year-old so much, and it is a sad day for me to drop her off at her mother's. I want to be there for her as much as I can. I also want her to understand her place in life and to know that men and women are not here to compete but to complete each other. And all this women's power BS is toxic ideas that destroy couples.

  • @GeeLaa-u9g
    @GeeLaa-u9g 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If mom always badmouths dad, would that only encourage her to do the same to men in her future relationships?

  • @bobaasmr9347
    @bobaasmr9347 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ExceLent.

  • @Knowthyself1013
    @Knowthyself1013 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with all but the first one. I've been through some of your videos and they were very informative. What's actually sad is that there isn't much information on TH-cam about being a great father. But you'll find way more videos thrashing father's rather than teaching men how to be father's. So thank you very much for your content, you've just got a new subscriber 👍🏾👍🏾

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So glad you enjoyed the content and thank you for subscribing!

  • @john9inc809
    @john9inc809 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Doesn’t work for everyone. Every family is different sir. Say things as it is . If she is far, tell her to eat better food. Or else she will grow up thinking what is does wrong is always right. Suck it it up ! Kids now a days are too weak

  • @davidh.7289
    @davidh.7289 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So telling my daughter is beautiful is a bad idea right?

  • @SCOREFIVEvision
    @SCOREFIVEvision ปีที่แล้ว

    gym video😆

  • @a.vaccarielli7637
    @a.vaccarielli7637 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't quit your day job..if you don't have 1..start applying.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the career advice. Since you are obviously quite the expert, any specific jobs you think I would be good at? I would love to get your feedback

    • @KJ33
      @KJ33 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@DadUniversity great video , subscribed

  • @GeeLaa-u9g
    @GeeLaa-u9g 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If her hair looks like a rats nest, your suggestion is to not speak on it?

  • @needisaymoore2138
    @needisaymoore2138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please do a video on the toxic tendency to gender housework among the children. Particularly, don't treat your daughter like a maid/nanny for your other children. This is A BIG ISSUE!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who is doing this or where are you seeing this?

    • @glasscannon4723
      @glasscannon4723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DadUniversity it happens, i see it when i was in middle school and visit my friends house here in tx

    • @christapherwinrow846
      @christapherwinrow846 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've never seen anything like this but it's a good topic to cover, I don't doubt at all this could be a problem in many households

    • @blumythefool777
      @blumythefool777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DadUniversity its common where i live for girls to be expected to do the house work while the boys arent taught anything about taking care of their personal space, usually the mom does the cleaning for them

    • @markhainsworth8542
      @markhainsworth8542 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I grew up with a similar issue but it wasn’t gender based. My brother and I grew up with our father in Australia and we used to do daily and weekly chores for a small allowance. After moving away to the US to live with our mother, our stepdad expected us to do chores just to live in the house. We had two other half siblings who did not do any chores. At the time I figured it was because they were younger and it would just be easier for us to get the work done. Once we were 18 and done with high school e we’re kicked out of the house. They then hired maids to take over the work I was doing.

  • @niltomega2978
    @niltomega2978 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dad university?...lol

  • @lewisambrose7572
    @lewisambrose7572 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is b.s. if you have a girl you must teach them what girls do and how girls act from a young age.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the feedback. What were you hoping to hear within this video that you didn't?

  • @Challengeme242
    @Challengeme242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    if you are there for every thing it makes them needy and clingy

  • @lewisambrose7572
    @lewisambrose7572 ปีที่แล้ว

    Children shouldn't make choices

    • @BoyMama87
      @BoyMama87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So they should be robots?

    • @lewisambrose7572
      @lewisambrose7572 ปีที่แล้ว

      @allessandrajacobsen6215 who makes better decisions for children, a parent or a child?

  • @JoshDixon-li2uk
    @JoshDixon-li2uk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude, hit me up. You have a lot great advice. My daughter & I are best friends. She’s 16. I’d like to just say a couple of things. But I ❤️your video , I respect it & I appreciate it. 🫶

  • @PittBlu213
    @PittBlu213 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This video just confirms what I already know. I am an Awesome Dad to my 5 year old daughter. Unfortunately I haven't been able to see her in 9 months due to her mother holding a grudge against me and using my daughter as a pawn to hurt me. I miss her so much

    • @Terminamask
      @Terminamask 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sorry to hear that. I just know that your daughter loves you to pieces

    • @PittBlu213
      @PittBlu213 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Terminamask thank you for your kindness and I know she loves me which makes it hurt 10 times more. I would suffer any pain to keep her from suffering. I just wish her mother cared about her more than herself.