Cheating Mom Divorced My Father After Getting Caught, Got My Custody, Married Her Affair Partner,...

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  • @tracisr
    @tracisr 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    Mom says you can't trust random strangers on the internet, but she trusted a random man from the internet WITH HER CHILD!!! That's rich!

  • @AelaLoves
    @AelaLoves 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +78

    Story 1: That poor child.. No, her mom did not protect you AT ALL. She trusted a random stranger with her child WAYY TO SOON. Now that happened.. 😭I Hope Op works past this trauma..

  • @jimjohnson394
    @jimjohnson394 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +93

    IMO, mom was careless for inviting a guy into her home after such a short courtship. Unnecessary risk there.

    • @chontaineabraham2129
      @chontaineabraham2129 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      I agree. I'm baffled by why she would allow a stranger around her teen daughter for a weekend while she's home alone.

    • @vincentcleaver1925
      @vincentcleaver1925 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      The mom was indeed careless, but the guy love-bombed her, so desperate?
      I don't get how he was her best or only choice for looking after op. GP, close friend, long time neighbor? Not the guy who had a meltdown over the rejection

    • @AA-ed6ek
      @AA-ed6ek 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@vincentcleaver1925 Oh, shut up.

    • @RobDaCajun
      @RobDaCajun 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@vincentcleaver1925 this isn’t an excuse just a possible explanation. “Aging out of the market” makes you desperate.

    • @RosensDragon2140
      @RosensDragon2140 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Right? She tells her daughter not to trust strangers on the internet after seeing the reddit post...
      But that is exactly what the mom did. Trusted a stranger she met online and introduced her underage daughter/left him with her right away.

  • @katiestewart5688
    @katiestewart5688 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    "which is weird because I don't normally nap"
    Where is that gif of Steve Harvey being all flabbergasted and flailing?!

  • @badgerp-chanqueen7707
    @badgerp-chanqueen7707 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    That mom from first story is piece of work

  • @Knives7777
    @Knives7777 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Mom getting an ez pass who leaves their daughter alone with some random dude who they barely know for 6 months

  • @johnlindo6211
    @johnlindo6211 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    My mom would have gone ballastic. Police going to have to find his other victims

  • @michaelalanbaker7339
    @michaelalanbaker7339 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    OP needs to call CPS on the mother and stepfather.
    Parental alienation? Check.
    Resentment? Check.
    Emotional and psychological abuse? Check.

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well said. But if OP calls CPS, he’ll need to be prepared for them to place his sisters in the foster care system, and then with other families, through closed adoption.⚠️

  • @Thaddius0
    @Thaddius0 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    always put stickers over the faces of kids on dating profiles. it is important that your partner knows whether they are dating a single mom, but also do as much as you can to protect your kids from predators. no reason for them to know the ages/genders of your children, just that they exist
    he also shouldnt have been left alone with her child that soon... let alone meeting her

  • @rocmsocem
    @rocmsocem 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    A big reason you don't put your children in your profile pictures, especially for dating sites. Also why would the hell would let a man you just met watch you your female daughter?

    • @cetialpha-vi
      @cetialpha-vi 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      💯 Exactly. Like if you were gonna let him watch your male daughter that would be maybe ok but def not the the female daughter wth

  • @chontaineabraham2129
    @chontaineabraham2129 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    To thoae concerned about if this story is fake, who cares? Women, teen girls and little girls as young as 5 years old are SAd. Most perpetrators are someone they know so instead of worrying about this is fake, check on the women in your family.

    • @macylouwho1187
      @macylouwho1187 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      This right here. It happens every day out there unfortunately and the story isn’t a new one or one that ends with that one.

    • @vince.inthevoid8158
      @vince.inthevoid8158 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I genuinely cannot fathom what you are upset about. People thinking a Reddit story is fake? Yes these things do happen all too often irl. But what is the connection between these two things?

    • @vince.inthevoid8158
      @vince.inthevoid8158 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Did someone comment and say specifically because they think this story is fake they’re goona become sexist or something? I think this story is fake as well, but that wouldn’t imply I don’t care about the assaults women face constantly.

    • @thousandyardgavri2785
      @thousandyardgavri2785 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I usually complain about a fake reddit story when its the same shit that didn't really happen over and over

    • @ZenoDovahkiin
      @ZenoDovahkiin 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      >acting morally superior while reinforcing the "sexual viopence only happens to women" narrative
      You are far, far, far worse than any of the people you are complaining about.
      If anything ever happens to you, I will care just as little about it as you care about male victims.
      Get your hatred under control.

  • @RobinSiwula-w4h
    @RobinSiwula-w4h 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    But I'm glad she's getting the help she needs

  • @raynellemccathern3018
    @raynellemccathern3018 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Story 1: Mom: "You shouldn't listen to strangers on the Internet." And you shouldn't bring a random stranger around your daughter dummy

  • @deadlishaoran
    @deadlishaoran 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Parental alienation is yhe worst you can do to your OWN children.

  • @cetialpha-vi
    @cetialpha-vi 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Why are so many single moms doing this?? If you value having a man more than your children’s safety then GIVE THE DAD FULL CUSTODY.

    • @fl-ri-
      @fl-ri- 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They are desperate

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@fl-ri-Well said. And as a result, those single moms lose their children to the foster care system, and when the children become single parents, they avoid repeating their mothers' stupidity, by steering clear of potential new partners, and focus on raising their kids.

  • @meredithhateseveryone6706
    @meredithhateseveryone6706 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Tell your sisters what really happened your mom deserves to get exposed

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think OP's sisters will find out for themselves. When OP’s sisters hit their mid to late teens, they’ll disappear on their mother and stepfather, to couch-surf with fake friends, after seeing what an evil person their mother is, just like OP has, next, at 18, one of OP’s sisters will stay with/marry a boy who cheats on her, and become homeless with a kid on the way, after her husband kicks her out, the other will marry a boy who controls and abuses her, mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point where EMTs show up the door, traps her, and at times, threatens to un-alive, if he catches her trying to sneak off to stay with her aunt from the bio-dad's side of the family, then, the older sister will flee to another state to keep her kid away from the mother and AP, stay temporarily with roommates until after she gives birth, find a cheaper apartment, work two or more jobs to support her one-parent household, and ask neighbors to babysit for her, the younger sister will also flee to another state, but with the help of cops and DV social services (because she’s scared that her husband will take her kid away from her with the help of OP’s mother and the AP, and tell her she deserves the pain), and stay at a women's shelter, find solace with a new boyfriend who, one moment, takes her under his wing and becomes her birthing support partner in the delivery room , the next moment, scams her and throws her out with another kid on the way, stay at another women's shelter until she can find an apartment, because she won't have OP, her bio-dad, their paternal relatives, or friends in her new state to take her in; the only family the younger sister and her kids will have is each other. Plus, given the mother wants to increase the child support payments, OP will have her other kid taken away from her and her AP by social services, as leverage to scare her into giving up those child support payments, so that, he can help his sisters with baby-related expenses, and maternity expenses. ⚠️

  • @lamarlo4437
    @lamarlo4437 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    A saying that I just become familiar with is "The mother sees but doesn't want to know". Now that may not be the case in this situation but in many cases, it is. The mom is an extreme pick-me that didn't put her daughters safety in front because she wanted a man around. Even when OP told mom she didn't feel.comfortable around him, she gaslit her. Then the mom tells OP to not listen to internet strangers, but internet strangers helped her out more than the mom. The mother needs to not be in denial as to why she allowed this man in her home and why she put a picture of herself and daughters on her dating profile. OP needs love and care and needs the upmost support❤.

  • @mordecai2251
    @mordecai2251 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Jesus Christ why would you think any of this is your fault

  • @dizzybee8966
    @dizzybee8966 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    #1...seems very immature...that poor baby...mom should've never posted a pic of her kids on a dating app..she should know better..but at least she had her child's back...but that poor little girl...no one entered my home while my children were young...and I instilled in my children tell mommy everything...I believe everything they say..I informed my children thoroughly...and I'm slightly crazy when it comes to my kids so...hope that fu***r gets charges his come upings..why would the mother ask the dude to look after her kids anyway?

  • @QueenViolet8
    @QueenViolet8 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Story 1 Not your fault

  • @danacarter9147
    @danacarter9147 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Story 2: Karma will knock on the mother's door, before too long; when the mother's AP cheats on/divorces her, gets custody of their kid, throws her out on the street, tells her SHE deserves the pain, her family disowns her, OP's sisters cut off contact with her, and go on to date/marry guys who are as horrible as she is, she'll come to OP, and beg him to take her in, only, to find out that he also moved to another state, disconnected his phone number, and deleted his social media accounts.⚠️

  • @emily.letsendbslintheuk554
    @emily.letsendbslintheuk554 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This isnt that girls fault at all, but blaming yourself is a common reaction to SA 😢
    Yes the mum made a huge error in letting him keep a eye on her over the weekend, but we dont know what led up to theum trusting him to do so. Men (and women) who do things like this are often fantastic at manipulation with the mums and of thos mum has been single for a while or doesnt like being alone then it would be easy for him to manipulate her (not making excuses just saying we dont know why the mum trusted him so we cant really pass judgement on why the mum trusted him).
    I hope the girl manages to put this behind her as much as possible (know she wont ever get over it fully but some people can differentiate between the abuser and other people)

  • @staceyearle2817
    @staceyearle2817 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The police have enough to go on ...

  • @markanthony1004
    @markanthony1004 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You see the way I interacted with my stepson nothing was ever forced. The boy has gone from a high energy little kid to a part time job and full scholarship to Texas A&M and he comes to me about things more than my wife or his father. Really it's me and his uncle mostly but still. It happened organically. I've never asked him to call me dad, and never asked or forced my mother to call him her grandson she actually did that herself lol. Overall, this sounds like grooming. That dude is coming on strong as hell.

  • @MrCreepjo
    @MrCreepjo 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Title gore in the description wtf is that plus they don't lead to any reddit post

    • @the83rdtrombonist60
      @the83rdtrombonist60 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      From what others have said, when SecretVoices have done that in the past, it's caused redditors to be harassed so they've stopped putting links to the posts in the descriptions

  • @BlackKoiRecords
    @BlackKoiRecords 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The Mom has the dating app which links to this Man. File charges that way!!!

  • @sinbadwilliams7186
    @sinbadwilliams7186 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Day 155 of telling secretvoices to have a good day

  • @RobinSiwula-w4h
    @RobinSiwula-w4h 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Don't blame the cops and she waited two weeks to tell they need DNA within 48 hours to prove he sad her otherwise they really can't prove it that's true

    • @patriksvensson2360
      @patriksvensson2360 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      They could probably tie him to it by checking him for chlamydia, asking him where he got it and which sexual partners he's had lately, them inform him that they were alerted to him having it by a previous sexual encounter of his that he had unprotected sexual with. He'll likely slip up enough to have the cops given a warrant to search his devices for further incriminating stuff.

  • @TheyCallMeJay
    @TheyCallMeJay 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This seems super fake ngl

  • @willjones455
    @willjones455 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Quit censoring everything it's beyond stupid

    • @musicmusette2014
      @musicmusette2014 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      It's to prevent yt from taking it down. They already took it down once

    • @Intrepid_A
      @Intrepid_A 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      You wanting SV to have the video taken down it's beyond stupid

    • @willjones455
      @willjones455 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Intrepid_A lmfao your response is beyond stupid

    • @willjones455
      @willjones455 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@musicmusette2014 still doesn't make it any less stupid

    • @mordecai2251
      @mordecai2251 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      God forbid someone doesn’t what their video taken down