Dear DAUGHTERS-INLAW We Are Doing It WRONG!!!( The Whole Story!!)
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Neze my dear, I went into my marriage with an open heart and mind. I gave love, care and respect. My Mom & Dad inlaw were my Mom and Dad. I divorcef in 1992 but due to the relationship I forged with my ex husbands family, they still consider me a part of their family. They update me on everything that happens or is going to happen. They still worship the ground I walk on. I am and will always be their daughter.
Girls do yourselves justice and know that when you get married, it's not just your husband but the whole family you are marrying into. Love begets love and toxicity begets toxicity. SPREAD THE LOVE LADIES.
If any wife genuinely loves her husband, she will also love her mother inlaw and his siblings.
Exactly
It doesn't always work like that. Some in laws that solemnly rely on their brother for financial support might hate his wife even before meeting her and seeing her as a rival when they eventually meet her. At that point, they always see wrong in all you do . No boundaries. The relationship will be like a clash of power. Thou there are bad daughter in laws, there are also a bad sister in laws. Even if you love ur husband, how can you love people that find it difficult to love you no matter what. My opinion thou
@@ogegod.a.k.aogedouble6460I'm on this table,I Love the family I married to, everything was going well,I helped them whenever they needed them,even without their brother knowing until I left to be with my husband (their brother), they turned against me, see me as devil who doesn't want their brother to help them which was all wrong, but my mother inlaw is still the best,, not part of thei gang up against me likewise one of my sister in-law(the only one who say the truth because he refuted lie my husband told her about me). But all these, my husband is the cause of whatever because he lies against me to them.
I lived with my brother in-law for 10 yrs, there's no wickedness he didn't dish out to me, until he poured pepper inside the wc, I sat on it when peeing unknowingly,,he wasn't remorseful,I cut off ties and call it a quit.
Not when they treat you like crap. Bottomline, there are terrible DIL and also terrible in-laws, just like there are good people and terrible people. If you meet terrible in-laws…
It does not always work dat way. If wishes were horses😮
Neze, you’re just lucky. Listen I am just like you. I came in with open mind, I do so much for them and still, these people still don’t like me. I lived for 15 years doing everything to please them and it didn’t work. I got tired and right now, I’m done pleasing.
So there are people you can’t please for some reason, my in-laws are one of them. There’s no amount of gifts and money you give them that is enough.
So Neze, you’re just lucky you have good husband and good mother in-law. Very rare.
You are so right. I am experiencing the exact same thing.
I agree.
So true
Very true
I concur,,,
Your husband is a very lucky man to have you as a wife. You are not only a beautiful wife.
You are educated, intelligent and above all you have a good heart.
God bless you Barrister Neze for saying the truth without caring whose ox is gored.
You are a rare gem.
Unfortunately, Very Few women in Nigeria have these qualities that makes a good wife.
May your days be long for not supporting bad behaviour and for loving your mother in-law wholeheartedly. Amen 🙏
After watching this video, something changed in me and it's a positive change.
Thank you, Barrister Neze❤❤❤❤❤❤
Neze you are lucky to have a good hearted mother -in -law
Mamaville is also lucky to have a good hearted daughter in law.
NOT ALL DAUGHTER IN LAWS ARE GOOD
Neze you're lucky and blessed, you can never buy genuine acceptance and love. Where there's no acceptance from the beginning, you can't do otherwise. Mamaville is answered prayers.
Who press the like button before listening say i..😂
I did.
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Me oooo😂
Mee tooooo
As in ehhh . I love this sister Neze and her mother- in -law
One thing is obvious; you have respect for people. The problem most DILs have with their inlaws stems from the fact that they don't even respect their parents. You are selfless and very tolerant.
Every woman who wishes to be a daughter in law or mother in law pls watch and learn because it is a blessing to have a healthy relationship as it brings peace in our lifetime. It it is a great legacy to leave behind.
Rice and banana is a match made in heaven. You’re missing out oh Neze 😂😊
I just watched the other video where you gave your MIL her flowers… I get it why you feel this way about her and MIL in general. She is a rare gem who accepted you without judgement or MIL shenanigans. Her acceptance of you bore good fruit. Of course you are also a good DIL. Congratulations to you two.
My mother in law loved me more than her only daughter, but unfortunately death took her away😭😭😭 from us late year, I was a TTC mother then, and she made one prayer for me and she said in the prayer she transferred her womb to me spiritual that month I got pregnant, I was the one that took care of her before lost her to the cold hand of death through cancer 😭😭😭when I watched your first video about mother in law I cried and miss her, she do what she couldn’t do for her only daughter for me😭😭😭
Neze !! Ma you said it all,tolerance and endurance that was what I used to win my mother in laws heart
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I have an untold story about my mother in law, well I give birth to a pretty baby girl one week before her death but she didn’t set her eyes on her because my husband took her back to the village when my baby bump became heavy and we were advised to leave her in the village because of the new baby, she couldn’t walk,💔💔💔breast cancer ♋️ is a “bastard “she suffered so much pains😭😭😭 if you have ever been around a cancer patient you will know what am talking about and we spent millions but to no avail 😭😭ma, when you talked about the love your mother in law and your husband shares, I could relate because that was the exact thing between my mother in law and my husband,duo my husband is not her only son,she had five boys but in all she loved my husband more and it was so noticed that her other sons fells so jealous of my husband, I wish, I could share my in laws story someday, in all I still have my mother in law as my daughter😄😄✌️❤️🩹because she is her look alike and she sometimes behaves like her which makes my husband to love her and calls her his mother 😃🥰
Wow........ you are just great by all standards.
Keep on keeping on. ❤❤❤
To be very candid I'm not a fan of social media. Surprisingly I'm glued to watching and listening to your channel because you're such a smart, intelligent and overly wise
Chai!
I di egwu Nnem
Welldone my dear
My mother is that mum that will refuse a gift if I don’t buy same for my mother in law.
Please ooo I think we need to have a option of liking vedios 50 times.
Thank you for this video. Younger ladies needs to know this things.
Neze , you make me miss my Mother Inlaw a lot. She was an angel.
Hmmm, my brother's marriage is just 2yrs but hmmm, my brother has turned all of us into what I don't know. Thanks be to God he is not the 1st but among the last child. I wonder what would have happened if my brother was the 1st or the elderly ones. His wife is behind his sudden change.
I opened my arms to my mother-in-law and she broke my heart 😢. She was 2 faced until God made me see her true colors.
so sad ❤️
Same here. Gave all i had. She only came for herself. Never for me. So i had to say enough is enough...
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Neze, you’re just lucky. Listen I am just like you. I came in with open mind, I do so much for them and still, these people still don’t like me. I lived for 15 years doing everything to please them and it didn’t work. I got tired and right now, I’m done pleasing.
So there are people you can’t please for some reason, my in-laws are one of them. There’s no amount of gifts and money you give them that is enough.
So Neze, you’re just lucky you have good husband and good mother in-law.
Neze, for you, Let’s just say good person met good person. It breaks my heart that a good person like me ended up with bad in-law. Everyone around me knows I’m kindhearted.
My in-laws don’t even know my kids name. I carry my kids go their house thinking we are all one and my kids are treated like not part of the family. My kids are being referred as “your son”
I have left everything in God’s hands.
Now it makes more sense to me now, we're going to be mother in-law someday. I pray that I love my mother in-law when I get married. We should all learn to tolerate people
Ada, you're very wise. Thank you for this wisdom 😊.
All I have to say is, "God bless you immensely"
You really did well by celebrating your loved 🥰 ones alive, showing pple how much you love ❤️ them and care for them is very special and important x it actually shows the type of person you are 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️
You guys really need to write that book. These talks are eye opener
Neze de Neze😍, you never disappoint! Aww I am so happy you talked about your deeds as a DIL! Indeed it takes 2 to dance tango💃💃!! Hearts for you ❤❤❤❤
Thank you Neze for everything... Tolerance is very important when it comes to in-laws
U are such an intelligent woman thats why u were able to accept ur mother in law, but I believe its from ur back ground, I pray our girls of today will learn from this video. Thank u so much Neze.
You should say girls of tomorrow because Neze is among girls of today na 😂
Her mother in law opened her arms to her & she was smart enough to accept her.
You should watch the other video she referenced. Her MIL FIRST accepted her without conditions. Neze responded positively and they became a match made in heaven.
And I think her SIL stayed in their lanes. They are all probably married and have their own fish to fry. Some SIL will come into your kitchen and put sand in your fish 🙄
I had to stop and send this to my brother because he is not talking to us because of his wife and we are a close knit family who support each other. I always thought you were entertaining but today I know you are a deep soul with wisdom beyond your years. May God bless you and I pray your fmgift reaches all those God has destined you to reach. Respect!
Wonderful. You have done well. I watched the two related videos and learnt quite a lot. You have said it all. It's unfortunate the ladies of today have made up their minds to be detached from those who really wanna love them and pamper them. Well, I boldly say it's their loss. Thanks a lot for this wisdom pecks.
Barrister Neze's buba is giving .The African look is top notch.
Thank you for this. It is easy to have this type of mindset with all the stories on social media. We need stories like this for us single ladies
What a beautiful relationship 👍👍👍
Awww Neze bless you,, i can see the joy in her face you people even look so much alike, one will think she's your biological mother.
Barr Neze you are an extremely wise woman. I do all these and more, I'm glad I'm not alone. As long as you see your MIL as your mum, you'll treat them right no matter what they do to you. I appreciate that some people are unlovable, you just do your part as a DIL and leave the rest to God. Most times you get what you give.
You just made a pertinent statement. " Discuss sincerely with your spouse before doing certain stuff creates a relationship of trust and mutual respect.
I mean both ways.
I will definitely love to read a book from you Nez
Hi Neze, the only peperempe worldwide, international peperempe! 😘🤎 See this beautiful dress, it sure compliments your natural beauty! 💛😍 Thanks for this encouragement and enlightenment, as you share your story of your Mom in love! 💌 God bless you for edifying Mama and others, you are so beautiful inside out. 💯
Nez everything you said, I dey check am well sha! 👍🏼 Yes o, I will read a book from you two! 💞📖😍
you are a bundle of knowledge Neze
21:30 woaaa i admire your patience and tolerance level ❤❤❤
You are just embodiment of knowledge and wisdom. I have learnt a lot from you cus as a man I am coming from ur point of views of life.
Neze you’re one in a million.
You’re videos are always unique, with sense of maturity. First I congratulate you for your new location.
Another thing, to appreciate you and your mother in law. She’s a good lady and you too that’s why God brought both of you together. I’m sure with time as the Lord keeps her she will be joining you there soon. I was imagining how wonderful it would have been if your father in law is a life. The good pace your mother in law has set will continue and will be articulated to your children and on and on. It is a blessing. She’s a wonderful and jolly woman. Thank you Neze for being the best daughter, sister, wife and daughter in law you chose to be. Aren’t you enjoying it right?
Isn’t it what they do say as you make your bed, so you’ll lie on it?
Finally we’ll be inviting you for a conference later in the U S hopefully you would’ve settled.
This not what to discuss here anyway.
God bless your home as always.
You are a very wise woman ❤
Mehnnn I'm learning alot! Im not married and I'm thankful for this teaching.
Neze I am watching from Jamaica. Your video was suggested to me based on a search and now I can't stop watching. I love your family and your personality.
Neze, you have said it all & I wish I can love this video a million times 🤩👍.
Neze I will gladly like to read your book. You know so much and am seeing you to be a consultant soon on family matters.
The "one day" to write the co-authored book starts now!❤
Blessings to you, Mrs. Neze. You are a woman of wisdom. Please keep teaching these truths. I am originally from Jamaica, and when my mother met my husband from the US, she wanted to know if my husband loved and cared for his mother. My mother believed that if my husband loved his mother, he would also love his wife. The relationship with the mother is a different relationship with his wife. Therefore, a daughter in law should not be jealous of her mother in law relationship with her son.
I just love the fact that there is something new to learn, thank you for sharing 🎉
This is serving as a reminder to me, God bless you neze.
No wonder you look so happy and comfortable all the time. You are a very smart woman. Good job.
Indeed a good woman build up her home. You may have a house but not a home. House are built by human hands, homes are built by human hearts. Good one Neze! May home remain blessed for life.
That book will help set straight some of our "modern" daughters in law who enforce the husband to leave/forsake his mother for her. God bless your rich source of knowledge Neze nwam. God bless lady Ngozi and the womb that conceived you plus the parents that nurtured you.
This is Gold. I am not married, but I hope to apply this wisdom one day. Thank you for sharing, Neze
Neze you are also lucky to have a young, understanding and polished MIL.
I wish you had made this video on Monday because I just lost my mother in-law early Tue morning this week. She was wonderful in her own way, sewing clothes for my kids and never expecting too much from me, but I feel I didn't do enough for her because I never bought her clothes before she passed, although I bought her foodstuff at different times and encouraged my husband for us to visit her more and also take care of her especially when he wasn't planning it. I really wish I could have done more for her. I will try to be a good and caring mother in-law to my son's wife, if Jesus tarries. Thank you for sharing your story, Neze.
Rice and banana is the sweetest. Your Mil is coded.
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Those are words of wisdom thank you. Some daughter in laws are agents of division and darkness
OMG I cried watching this video I'm still wondering how Neze did all of this without shedding one tear... My dear you're a stronger woman I love the relationship you and your parents have it's awesome may the good Lord keep them all alive and give you all you need to keep them happy and support them
Your hair is giving!
Please, I will sign up for masterclass about relationships, marriage, raising children. I am ready for all the books. Pre- sale oooo. Please don’t wait too long ….. 😂
Neze, God bless you abundantly for this.
May God grant you the grace of beautiful aging with your husband and your own children 's wives will give you joy.
You will have peace of mind and body in your old age.
God bless you for loving your mother-in-law and your in-laws
God bless you❤️
love this video so much. love and respect should be reciprocal.
God bless you so much Neze and Mamaville.
May your love last forever
you are really a wise woman. Lovely nuggets. I enjoyed watching,
This is your hair is giving me joy
I love you to the moon and back Neze you are awesomely amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Very inspiring video,I think I have learnt a thing or two from this video
Thanks Ma'ma 🥰 your girl is learning, thank you so much ❤❤❤
Awesome. Neze, you are a wise woman. Am in my 60s, and l learnt a lot from this video and am sharing it with my children. Bravoo nne❤
Your dress is GIVING!!!!!!.... WAWUUUU
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Dear Neze Peperempe , kudos to this explanations on sisters, brothers and daughters inlaws. Most of our women want to claim their men to themselfs alone forgetting that she will make her family's and one of this days will also be a mother inlaw too other young ladies. To crown it all, you will also love your own children to be united together but forgetting that you are distroying the family you came into.
Is a good example to be a mother too in other fir you to compare all your doings to others. The Bible says, do to others as you wish them to do unto you.
Most people don't think before taking any actions. What they No is me, me and me alone and refussed to see their failures big mistakes. They are allways right, others are allways wrong. She us the best. Madam too know.
I believe all relationships needs to be cultivated and nurtured and that is exactly what you and mamaville have done and that why you both are enjoying each other. I pray that DILs listenbto this chat because you have said a lot of wisdom her3 and in the other video too
Because you have the Spirit of God dwelling in tou❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This video is so good, I had to comeback to rewatch it.
Some daughters in law have left the group chat and blocked the admin.
I love how you touched almost every side. I learnt a lot from this video. Thank you beautiful Neze ❤ Thank you Mamaville ❤️
Just started watching, and it’s already a worthwhile watch👏🏽👏🏽❤️. lemme continue watching .
My hubby has been living with her mom for years and have even forgotten about his nuclear family. They're some that will never appreciate it. Your mother in law is a human angel. They're just rare to find. Much love for her. May God gives me wisdom to raise my sons like hers
You spoke very well about the role of daughter in laws.
You so right my sister. I have 2 daughter in-laws which I have close relationship with. They are my friends and daughters. There is no jealousy and competition. There is enough love to go around 😀infact I take their sides more than my sons.
Neze in Canada giving us rich aunty vibes with her bụbu even more than those us of in Nigeria... Beautiful outfit
CONTENTMENT IS KEY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP.
GOD BLESS YOUR MOTHER IN LAW FOR HER BEAUTIFUL HEART, AMEN.
SHE'S A BEAUTIFUL AND HAPPY PERSON .
I ALSO LOVE MY MOTHER IN LAW, GOD BLESS HER, AMEN.
SOMETIMES, THE PROBLEMS COMES FROM THE SIBLINGS OR EXTENDED FAMILIES OF THE MAN TO MAKE LIFE HARD FOR THE WIFE AND HER HUSBAND.
Absolutely! Some parents-in-law don't have time for trouble. The siblings do.
Neze you are a gift to that family
Neze oil dey your head! You are indeed a true daughter of your father. Bless you sis!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I cannot love you less Neze. You are very apt. Lack of wisdom to handle issues is usually the problem. ❤❤❤❤
I just love positive vibes. I love unity, peace and love. May the love and bond you share with your mom in-love and the other in-laws continue to grow. Where there is love, unity and peace, no devil can penetrate. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Whaooo, Neze, you are a gift to women and I know you are very honest with your submissions. Hope women will learn from you.
Nice one Neze I love this ppimt The energy you put imto a relatiomship is the emergy ypu get. Looking fotwatd to reading the book you amd mamaville will write.
Thank you Neze for this video. Some women just assume based on other people's bad experience & hear say. As you said, be open & tolerant!
Thank you for this. God bless you 🙏
So much wisdom.
You have such a good heart Neze. God bless you
Great job Neze you made me cry.mine was so sweet may her soul rest in peace.I totally agree with you.I can't claim i love a man but yet hates his family. This life is so short to waste it fighting.All is vanity.like you rightly said what we give out is what we receive.
My most prettiest, most gorgeous, most amazing, most beautiful, most educated and most extraordinary Nigerian Igbo sister. I bring greetings from Liberia 🇱🇷 and I say thank you 🙏 very much for this topic under discussion.
U are blessed to have a good muminlaw. May God keep her for u and ur husband..
She is blessed to have me too
We are blessed to have each other.
*wink
Thank you Neze! And yes, I'd love to read a book from you and mamaville.
You nailed it! NEZE the sage!!
Thank you!!!
Neze, God has bless you with wisdom. Thank for sharing it with us Nne.
Speak my dear beautiful lady. All the evil daughter in-law needs to watch this video. God bless you babe girl. U are beautiful inside out. God bless you.
Wow.
Honestly, you are a fantastic woman. Many Nigerian ladies are not this good. They are not accommodative and loving as you are .
Please continue to teach Igbo girls especially about this good attitude of caring for mother inlaws.
Some new wives and ladies see the mother inlaws as competitors.
Thank you for all you do.
Meanwhile, I sent my fiancee away permanently because of insult and disrespect for my parents
God bless you my dear, you are wonderful & blessed.your daughter in laws will call you blessed because for the love you share to your mothers and every one you meet. Love always.
If you love me ,I will over love you for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you are full with words of wisdom .
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God bless you, Neze. Every woman who has a mother inlaw needs to hear this. Some women forget that this man had a family before marrying them. I strongly believe that even when your mother inlaw rejected you initially you can love them into loving you. You can't claim to love your husband when it's obvious you resent his mother. Remember you too has sons who will get married in future.
BEAUTIFUL VIDEO and your husband is LUCKY to have you.