I wonder of any of them ever woke up in a puddle of blood, realizing you just had a miscarriage even though you didn’t know you were pregnant. It’s not just a period; it’s a monthly hormonal and fertility cycle that needs CONSTANT managing. It’s not cute, it’s a huge responsibility.
Its even worse than them appropriating female suffering for validation because for most of them its a fetish rollplay. The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria. Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs. Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay the whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
@Laneace Webster separatism is inevitable, I know that makes you nervous, but white LGBT even the unproblematic ones are done with your anti-white crap.
Yeah. A man I used to work with found out he had a form of cancer when he noticed blood in his urine. Men or MTF's should never just slap a pad on their skivvies and wait 5-7 days before becoming alarmed.
Periods are literal hell, its not just imaginary mood swings, its literal physical pain, messy, embarrassing, you have no control, you want to cry, it hurts, blood everywhere. THIS IS NOT FUN!
@@user-qv1vb4qo2x yeah blood seeped through my mattress and now if I am washing sheets it looks like someone got murdered even if I use stain remover it’s still always there and yeah it sucks but it’s fine embarrassing tho
and they romanticize it because it’s “validating” for them like wtf…..periods are awful and miserable. it’s our own bodies causing us repeated inconvenience, misery, and pain. and they glamorize it almost like it’s fun for them 💀
Do these "trans" people claiming they have period pains realise that the cramps come from your UTERUS... NOT your stomach muscles! Thank you for being so level headed, honest and realistic about these topics, Blaire. As a woman I genuinely appreciate your voice of reason!
That was literally my thought when I saw her reach for the heating pad! Like...ya can't have 'menstrual cramps' if you don't have a uterus that is actively contracting to help shed the endometrium?! I just can't.
52:28 A comment for Blair: people in the Middle East have Internet and they have access to TH-cam, so get out of your American bubble, you sound severely ignorant and you should implement your own critique towards Whoopi Goldberg and not talk about something you don’t know about. No need to ho on “roundabout” way to watch you, we just search you on youtube or come across you on the internet, common sense.
Decades ago, my mother said, "If men had a monthly period, it would be considered a sacrament that all of society would have to bow down to." I'll bet she never thought it would look like this!
That is how real periods should be respected. In fact through out history that was a woman's power over men . In some tribes men were afraid of their weapons being touched by a woman on her period. Some temples women can not go in during that time . Jewish women go through a cleansing after that time. Through out the world it was considered a strong and powerful thing. Time to teach that to the young girls.
@@tashavolovsek9115well I don’t think the examples you just mentioned are really that positive to teach others about… it is more of a "dirty" thing. In some countries women aren’t even allowed to sleep in their normal bed (also in jewsism) and some have to sleep on the floor instead. Their periods aren’t seen as "powerful" or respected but rather as dirty and unholy. That’s why they have to go trough thorough cleansing and aren’t allowed to visit certain temples.
It's rich that they called out of work for "period cramps" when cis women go to work, raise children, etc all while in absolute fkn pain from periods. It's a slap in the face to laugh and make a mockery of those of us who have to deal with periods.
Please can we not say CIS women. I totally agree with your point but I think it's fucking offensive that people can't just assume unless otherwise classified...women are WOMEN.
Truly a slap in the face. I've never ( amongst all women) once been given a pass for having Hella cramps, ones that had me doubled over in tears ( although it isn't necessarily right that we don't even get to rest on our periods when it's what our bodies need). We have jobs, children to raise, gyms to hit, and we are told to get over it and get thru it
These deranged men will never even know the deep embarrassment of your period "showing up" unexpectedly during your high school physical education class, let alone the pain and discomfort... If these people knew about endometriosis they would "claim" it too.
Yeah rolling around on the ground, shaking, passing large clots and feeling like puking bc it hurt so bad is something to smile about and pretend happens to you bc your a ‘woman’ now….I am disgusted, Blaire you rock for calling this out- would love to see you dissect how the feminism pendulum and sexism pendulum has swung so far the other way that bow men who are ‘trans’ are stealing our PAIN for attention….unreal.
Ran into a couple of those tiktoks. A lot of them like to preface it by saying something like 'of course I don't bleed' or 'I don't menstruate'. 'I get moody around this time of the month' counts to them as a period. That's not a period - that's never been a period. We all get moody at times, that's called being a human. A period IS menstruation, so if you don't menstruate, you don't get periods.
(grammar hopefully fixed 🤦🙇) So when I was 15 I got asked what my period was like cuz I know with women there are differences based on genetics, environmental factors that affect hormones and diet. I basically told him to picture getting food poisoning and slowly bleeding to death. The look on his face was so sad I kind of regretted saying it instantly. Now I think it needs to be said.
@@Varghalur I would imagine that means you're a little more stable in certain areas, genetics or diet, who knows? I mean I solved almost the entire cramp issue with Beano. So I guess Gabriel Iglesias style gas also qualifies as what it feels like. Hopefully people in the comments know that shrek routine.
@@Varghalurno matter how you feel it, you are still bleeding, so you are a woman. (And if you are a woman and don’t naturally have period you are still a woman cause you were born as one, don’t twist this)
A lot of Trans women are envious of us bio women. Periods are PAINFUL!!! I one time was in so much pain and discomfort and I was ugly crying!!! Periods are not as easy as they think
Well it only makes sense that they would... I'm sure majority of women with complete androgen insensitivity syndrome envy women as well as similar conditions. That envy comes from a place of wanting to be normal
one time I even throwed up because of period pain. I WAS 12! Not saying this is normal tho but men do not have to deal with any periods at all, and DO NOT say " yEs tRanS meNNNNN" well girl THEY ARE biologically WOMEN! Their hormones' don't take away their uterus??
What do you mEaN?! Arent periods just a couple belly twinges and, I dunno, like, needing to wear a pad for a few hours? Dont even know why you need a pad though, why not just hold it in until you go to the bathroom? We allllllll know mood swings are fake & just excuses for women to be mean! 🙄as someone who has endometriosis & fibroids & the accompanying adhesions (& once in my 30s those mood swings kicked in so hard I checked myself in, thinking I was gonna self-delete...two months in a row, then realised "I should track this ish")...GTFOH with faking period cramps.
This is exactly how they are on TikTok. So many famous trans girls on there complaining about having “period cramps” when they don’t even have uteruses, lol. Laughable as a cis woman.
mental illness is real out here. these men thinking they are women is hilarious 🤣 I like the over exaggeration of how men think a woman behaves. its sad too
@@starlette7820Blaire also doesn’t give a shit if people use the correct pronouns (he/him). He accepts he’s a biological male, and admits to being a man and a trans-woman (not a woman).
As a cis woman who is fairly liberal- I am shocked at how we’ve just allowed people to mock our bodily functions. There’s so many sane trans people with a grip on reality…and then there’s people like those on tik tok. Women have already been mocked throughout history for periods, and now those who supposedly understand women the most are contributing to it. Periods are not mood swings. That’s PMS. Unless your uterine lining is shedding- it’s not a period hun.
Calling yourself a "cis" woman is just giving them another snowball to roll down a hill. If you're a WOMAN there is no prefix to that necessary. Sorry but that made up bullshit insult was created specifically as that. An insult. And it gains traction with the MEN trying to pretend they magically get periods because they "want to be" women.
This is a huge slap in the face to those who have periods or worse (endometriosis). Periods are awful to have and yes, we do have to "power through" most times. It's not something to be glamorized, it's something we just have to get through. I'm super hormonal right now because I'm actually PMSing 🤣🤣
Ugh…I have endo and it’s an everyday struggle. I also have pcos on top of that, so I’m in pain more days of the month than not. And yes, having days off from work bc of ur period isn’t a thing, so we just have to work through it. I wish they would just take out my uterus already!
@@mamasam5180 not sure what stage endo you have.. I had 4, had surgery 13 months ago n they've started growing back again... I thought a hysterectomy would help but for me they've grown everywhere... might be worth looking into a bit more... good luck with your treatment whatever you decide
Seriously. I have PMDD in which my hormones genuinely make me want to commit s*icide every month before my period. But artificial cramps are TOTALLY comparable, sure. 👌🏽
I had endometriosis for years and years and PMDD on top of that. I had been dealing with ridiculous gyno issues since I was 11 and I'm 41 now. That's a long time and when people pretend they understand it is very insulting. Before my surgery this past summer I was bleeding 2-3 weeks out of the month, in pain every single day almost all day, and then I had PMDD for 1 or 2 weeks too. It was absolutely miserable. Miserable.
Endometriosis as well here! It’s really not that fun having a 5-6 cm endometrioma on your ovary, wouldn’t recommend to anyone wanting to have periods .
As a conservative woman, I never even wanted anything to do with the trans world. Your honest, straight forward explanations have helped me understand and find compassion. You are changing lives. Please don’t grow tired of doing good.
There are a ton of trans people who agree with us and people like Blair. It's just hard to speak out about it because we all get our comments and accounts removed or banned on social media platforms. The problem isn't real trans people (who just want to fit in, get a job, and live their lives and be left alone)-- it's mainstream trans activism that's the problem.
Imagine if someone says "I never even wanted anything to do with the cis world, but I found compassion". It's a very unhealthy attitude. If you demand respect, start showing respect to other people that may or not may be different from you.
Imagine being a real woman having to deal with these real types of issues like having a period And you still have to go to work. No matter how tired and exhausted you are.
Yeah..and we do it for ages without announcing it to everyone and crying on the internet about it, matter of fact if someone at school or work told you that you're on your period it usually wasn't a thing to be proud of or celebrate like this dudes do, it was probably because of stains, bad odor,etc and not a thing to be proud of... Delusion
Trans women believing they have periods reminds me of The Handmaid's Tale when the wives sit behind the handmaid giving birth and pretend they're giving birth and they're in pain. 🤣
I'm starting to think that they're making fun of woman. Like why are they so obsessed with that kinda stuff, it's creepy af. You can't menstruate just like we can't produce sperm. This is getting out of hand, people's ignorance and delusions are insane
I meet a trans woman 10 years ago and she had the bottom surgery and she said to me we can go shopping for tampons and pads together. You can show me which ones to buy for my period, and I said honey, you don't have a uterus or ovaries. You can't get your period It's physically impossible, she straight up look like I punched her in the face. She looks so sad but I had to tell her the truth couldn't let her walk around thinking she was going to get a period
Wtf?? Howwwww was that person able to go through all the prep (like psychological work) prior to getting a MAJOR surgery like that, and not have the basic knowledge that uterus+ovaries=periods, and MtF surgery does NOT=these two things???! I feel like someone with that much of a childish misunderstanding about these basic facts should not be given such a serious and irreversible surgery...
@@LetsSingTheDoomSong Its stuff like this that makes me feel bad for them. (Or at least some of them.) So many people are being gaslit into this it's unreal. It's no wonder why there are so many detransitioners in misery right now. I had a friend (went crazy, not friends anymore) who was trans and claimed to have shrunk a few inches. Hormones can't change your height.
Reminds me of Mr Garrison on South Park after he got his sex change. He was all excited to get a period, went shopping for pads and tampons, super happy about it... but the period never came. Finds out that normally when women miss their period, it means they are pregnant... so then he thinks he's pregnant and gets all excited to go have an ab or tion. Everything comes crashing down for him when the doctor explains that he can't get an abrtion because he can't get pregnant.. because he doesn't have periods.. because he doesn't have a uterus. We're literally living in a South Park episode.
Trust me, periods are nothing to be excited about. You gotta worry about a bloody mess when you wake up, deal with awful cramps and headaches, and become an emotional mess.
This is a slap in the face for us who suffered painful cramping and heavy bleeding monthly FOR YEARS. I finally had a doctor who took the time to investigate the issue and it turned out I had bad endometriosis. Thankfully, I was able to get a partial hysterectomy (no uterus anymore) but I remember that PAIN. It's not something to make fun of.
The female reproductive system is absolutely incredible: life-creating, putting you in a world of pain, and incredibly sacred… and we have people APPROPRIATING it for their own fetishes and victim mindset. None of these bio-men have had PCOS, heavy periods, a miscarriage, a late term stillbirth (like I have).. they don’t know the power of the reproductive organs that they’re appropriating
@@marlonbundo4324 Yes, Blair's followers do know that, and if they don't then they're not paying attention because Blair points it out regularly. If you're asking why people give Blair respect when she speaks on these topics, it's because Blair does so with respect herself, and isn't deluded or entitled enough to claim that she suffers from period cramps or that she deserves a womb transplant so that she can carry children. Blair made the video to point out how wrong all of this is, so I might have missed the point you're trying to make, or you might have missed the point that Blair is making?
@@marlonbundo4324 Blaire never claimed to have a uterus or periods? She is and has always been openly trans and open about her trans experiences and she has never talked over women. What is the point of your comment?
We had a trans temp at my job for a while and she was talking about how she was leaving her tampons on top of the bathroom garbage and her roommate asked her to cover it up. She was going on about how sexist he was and then I asked her if she got a uterus transplant, she said she didn't. Then I said well you should talk to a doctor because you shouldn't be bleeding. She went to the boss and said I was being transphobic! OMG if you don't have a uterus and you are putting tampons in you and they are getting blood on them go to the hospital because, something is wrong.
I'm sorry to tell you this, but he was probably just rollplaying his fetish with you and you burst his bubble. That's why he was big mad. The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria. Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs. Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
Classic crybully, pushing people to the point where they complain, so he can then play the victim. This movement is so unhealthy. We can't just "live and let live" because these activist types are actively harming the people around them.
I'm on my period now and it's not just ouch this hurts 🙊🤪🤭 it affects my skin, my emotions, appetite, fertility, iron levels and other things. It's a serious thing. And it's not cute to be sexist towards biological women.
I'm a Conservative Christian and I'm watching your videos to have a better understanding of what Trans really is, especially after watching this parody from Dylan Mulvane. If an adult decides they need to take hormones and have surgeries to feel better in their own skin, I don't think any less of them. I feel compassion for people who don't feel comfortable in the body God gave them. My outrage is with the fast tracking of kids to start transitioning before their brains are mature enough to understand the consequences.
Major props to take the time to learn from someone so honest and real as Blaire I've watched Blaire since priot to leaving the Dem party. I always want to get perspectives from all sides and learn more. Blaire and trans women like this have my respect. This game that some others are playing or feeding this to youth is not an accurate portrayl of LGBT folks. They're making this so much less acceptable.
As a real female, I was fascinated with the concept of periods when I was 10-11 before I hit puberty. Because I wanted to grow up and I knew it was a sign of growing up. Unbeknownst to me I would be a very late bloomer and wouldn’t get my period till I was 15. Never did I act like this. And now I’m a 30 year old woman struggling with PCOS and fertility, doing IVF. But I’m so glad that a trans person can pop some pills and all of a sudden they have the same biology as me. We women are so silly, aren’t we? Like we’re so easy to act like, so easy to adopt our biological makeup. Oh yes, I forgot makeup. Slap some makeup on and all of a sudden you have period cramps.
as a “real” trans woman, i dont just “pop pills and slap makeup on” and all of a sudden im the same gender as you? im transsexual, i will always be biologically male but being trans my brain does not identify with my body (could explain it more but i dont want to) why are you even here if you talk like trans people are idiots? Blair is trans and informing you otherwise. think.
You can't please anyone these days. If you have straight facts and evidence; a woman's period involves the pituitary gland and ovaries, releasing estrogen, causing a female's menstrual cycle, yet these morons keep saying they have cramps and bleed, but we're transphobic? The last thing I'm scared of is a trans person, and since I'm a tomboy, I have played hockey for the last 35 years, I guarantee I'm more masculine than these dudes! But again, if I could give these "women" my severe period cramps and bleeding heavily for 12 day's, they can have all of it! Best of luck to you on your IVF journey! I know it's not easy, but the payoff will be spectacular!!
Periods and ovulating are hell. Some of us get excruciating ovulation pain, then a horrible period follows. Literally alternating every two weeks. It’s shit. If these clowns want periods, then they can take ours! Thank you for being the logic and sanity amongst this circus Blaire 🙏
Funny thing-from the time I was a toddler until I was nine I was confused about gender; I played dolls and dress up with my sisters and their friends, my first friends were girls, and I even recall saying things like Jazz Jennings is alleged to have said. However my parents told me the truth: I was a boy, and nothing could change that. I didn't even really associate with other boys until I started school, and I had difficulty relating to them-I wasn't into sports or cars, I didn't like the things they joked about, ect. I still was confused, until I saw my sisters go through PMS-and once I realized what that meant I EMBRACED my masculinity.
Can we talk about how insulting this Crossdressers faking periods are to women with serious pain during menstruation? When I was younger I often wasnt able to walk anymore, fainted, puked from the pain. I was literally crawling over the floor while not being able to stop loud whinig like a dog whishing I was dead
Same. I actually thought I was dying the first time it happened to me at 12-years-old because girls are not even educated about our own bodies and what might happen to our bodies when we start our periods. No warning from my mother, sex Ed or anywhere, so I i was shocked when my horrendous cramps felt like I was literally drying becsauee there was no explanation for such agony...I’m sure this is the same experience for countless girls.
Same here. It was awful. I knew the worst of it was over on the first day after I puked. But the cramps were insane. Most people didn't know how to help me. And every 25 days it was gonna happen again.
@@threefreaksonaleash6619 SAMEEE tbh my mom or my grandma didn’t educate me about period and when i finally got my period I thought I was legit dÿing and I thought I had cancer or smthg 😭😭😭😭
I was 9 when mine started. I knew about periods. I asked my mom if I was starting my period. She told me I was too young. My much elder sisters started at 13/14 like my mom. So, for weeks, I though I was secretly dying of cancer..lol Until I told my sister in law. (I am the much youngest of 7 kids) My sister in law was the one that helped me and went to speak to my mom. I am 42 and have endometreosis and the word escapes me at the moment, some other one that is inflammation related. I still throw up, upset tummy, I have fainted at school..(.off a stage )... I miss work, school, events, ... I sometimes can barely walk because I feel like my legs are weak and shaky because of the nerve pain in my hips and thighs... My period last 7 days and the first 3 or 4 days I am pretty much useless. I have been given a NSAID that finally works...but I am not keen on meds and the tablets are really expensive. Holidays, trips, everything is planned around when I am down. I fight through it and cant wait to have menopause. I have fettility issues. Thankfully we have one child. This BS really gets me annoyed. Imagine, next a doctor will transplant some of those rough cells (endometriosis is cells in the wrong place) inserted all over their nerve endings. Then they can feel it. The world has gone mad.
Exactly. As a teenager the physical pain was huge. The PMS caused a seven-pound weight gain and bloating every month in addition to, depression. After giving birth, the physical pain for me disappeared but PMS intensified. Then the fabulous peri menopausal era with heavy volume. I remember often changing tampons AND pads then sneezing and I had to replace everything immediately. Then menopause. Good God. It took me a decade of constant sweats and mood swings before I was done. I am so happy to be in my 60s and it is all behind me. I celebrate my femininity but, would have been happy to avoid that aspect.
@@10418 I am so sorry. The pain can be all-consuming and EVERY month? Grrrrr I did experience relief from the physical pain after childbirth but, I do not think that works for everyone. I was told being on the pill would provide relief but it really did not help. I hope you get some relief. Unfortunately, I tried many herbs and remedies to no avail.
They happily gloss over PMS which for me is worse than the pain. I’m actually relieved when I get my period because I realise I’m not as depressed, anxious, and just crazy that I thought I was.
I’ve had absolutely terrible menstrual cramps since I was 16 - I’m 41 now. Several months ago I started taking Nigella Sativa (black cumin seed) oil - organic,cold pressed, & unfiltered, it should be dark & thick. Shake the bottle well before using, them take a teaspoon orally daily. You can take up to 3 teaspoons, ideally 1tsp 3x a day, especially of you have other health issues, inflammation or any kind of infection. You can take it only during your period - 1tsp every 12hrs - but it’s better to take it more often as it helps with not just cramps but hormones, skin, hair & more. It’s seriously a miracle. It’s the only thing I’ve found to cure 90% of my cramps. I had to take ultra high dose ibuprofen & the strongest opiates before, for the record! Nothing else helped at all. Now I only need the NS oil & sometimes a little ibuprofen. My fertility has been boosted too. Everyone I’ve recommended it to has benefited as well, so I highly recommend everyone with any of the aforementioned issues check it out. I don’t get PMS but friends who do were helped by NS oil.
Same. Since I got my PCOS sorted I don't have painful periods. However PMS comes every month without fail. I particularly hate that I gain 3-4 lbs and swell up so much I can't wear pants or rings. The swelling starts a week before my period and only goes away a few days after it finishes.
Right?! I have PMDD and the week leading up to my period can be hell for me and my whole family because I become a different person. It is also a relief once my period comes, but after giving birth to my kids it is now so heavy that I barely want to leave the house. So yeah dude… it is awful 🙄
For me its a double edge sword of feelings of: "yah, that's why i have been feeling a mess: and "Damn, i'm making a mess now I will have to preteat my laundry while I'm in physical agony."
Blaire, I am a middle aged, Christian, right wing conservative and I have no problem with you. You are a person who is just living life. You’re not walking around wearing your trans on your sleeve or going around telling kids they might be trans. You know what the difference is between you and the radicals? You’re comfortable being you. I get the same feeling from people like me who act like idiots. I like to think that the people making all the noise with their craziness are the vocal minority. The rest of us are just enjoying life with our friends and family.
Beautifully stated. I was just thinking why is being Trans often a person's entire identity? Our gender, skin color, and sexuality are actually the most boring things about ALL of us.
Is crazy to think that while we are suffering with period symptoms there are guys actually siting back secretly envious and wanting that for themselves 🙃
Its just gas and stomach cramping caused by the hormonal imbalance they're inflicting on themselves. Mood fluctuation can also be caused by hormonal imbalance. The rest is placebo or lying because they want to be part of the thing and.... A whole lot of fetichism. The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria. Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs. Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
@@deldarma4509 IT is just a bold faced lie. They fake it. If they were really in pain, they wouldn't be dramatic over it. Sure, things you listed are side affects of the things they do. But they are faking the whole thing.
You know men are just better at most physical tasks, but bleeding for 7-14 days straight and surviving that is the borderline life or death experience we really seek.
I had to diplomatically go off on a close friend of mine once, who is a trans woman, about a discussion we had just had. I had my heaviest periods after my first and only child, brain fog, and severe iron deficiency- I have an aortic stenosis as well ( prenatal cardiac medical condition) so it is very hard on me. In passing, I complained about how much pain I was in that day and just having a rough day... Instead of sympathizing whatsoever, they made it about themselves and how lucky I am to have a period and how much they wish they got a period... Listen. My sister has Von Willebrand disease ( blood does not clot properly) and has been in the hospital several times for hers- I cannot imagine what it must be like to nearly bleed out from a monthly occurrence, that as women, we need in our monthly hormonal and fertility cycle, but struggle with. It is an immense responsibility, it is not cute, fun, or something that you feel you have the right to have just because you identify as a woman. It's revolting. My sister has been through so much, and it takes away her voice, and from her trauma to make it about themselves. These insensitive narcissists need to get over themselves.
As someone who experiences extreme hormonal changes every month during my period, seeing someone pretend to have one is mockery. I don’t get easily offended so I’m like ok people can do whatever, but I can definitely recognize when someone is mocking me. Seeing a trans woman pretending to have a period rings exactly the same as a man making fun of me for struggling during my period.
Watching these kind of videos while suffering PMS or being on my period, is hard. I get REALLY mad! The week before is so hard on me emotionally and when it comes to my energy. The day before the start of my last period I literally was SO exhausted because of the hormone changes I had to take a 3 hour nap!!! And then to watch some man say he's a woman?! They have NO clue! And then after my periods end I'll have to deal with menopause!
Its even worse that them appropriating female suffering for validation. For most of these pretenders its a fetish thing. The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria. Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs. Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
As a woman who is currently menstruating (day 2), bloated AF, cramping, sore boobs, lower back pain, and physically tired, and emotional, I cannot fathom why anyone would want to get a period. It just goes to show how unaware they are about periods and all the pain that comes with them. It honestly makes me see how much trans women long to be real women. I’m kinda sad for them tbh but I will not deny biology. Granted, men tend to be more nice to me when I’m on my period lol Maybe, trans women want the sympathy or attention?? Also, men are subconsciously more attracted to women who are ovulating, due to pheromones and due to our skin glowing during ovulation. Periods are more than blood and cramps, it’s about mating and reproduction! Make BIOLOGY real again!
I could not agree more 👏🏼🩸🥴 If I could remove the option of having blood spew out of me and give me an insane amount of pain and bodily discomfort every damn month…I, without a doubt in my mind, would lmao
I had to have a hysterectomy 7 years ago for medical reasons. When I got periods they were just as horrible as the OP describes above. I don't miss them, but my one ovary left gets very angry! I still get cravings, some soreness on that side and only what I describe as mini pms. I wish I still could have kids, but the no periods is nice I guess.
Exactly! And, if it were possible for them to experience cramps like we do, then why aren’t any of them claiming to have them twice a month? Because many women also have cramping when they ovulate so if they were caused only by hormonal changes, then at least some of them would also have ‘mid-cycle’ cramping. But they are clueless to real women’s bodily workings because they are not women and cannot experience things that happen because of ovaries and a uterus 🤦🏼♀️
The only reasons I smile when my period comes is because 1. My boobs look amazing during PMS and 2. I know I’m not pregnant hah. Everything else is horrible, particularly my low back pain.
As someone who had to quit going to school when I entered 8th grade due to horrible periods (I had too many absences and it was easier to be homeschooled) it’s disturbing to me to see so many people act out a period like it’s some fetish dream come true.
I'm sorry you went thru that. I hope you managed to make it less painful. Periods are not supposed to hurt, it's a sign that something is wrong with your health.
@@plagueangelNot necessarily, some women have heavy painful periods and others don't. I have very painful heavy periods but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my body (I checked multiple times) and it's just how it is
I have a friend who is a transwoman. She once said to me that she found the female puberty to be much more smoothe and chill than male puberty. Like..... Yes, you get the exact same amount of the exact same hormones. There is no flooding and chaos like in a natural puberty..... And you still found the boobs coming in to be quite painfull, imagine it came in waves where even just wearing a tshirt was quite painfull. And also, all that without having to worry about embarrassing yourself by bleeding out in public, waking up in a whole bloodbath.... I still like her, i just think sometimes its a lot to fathom for them all in how many ways you might not be able to relate to a afab Woman.
I literally suffer on my period. I can’t even stand up sometimes. I’m essentially bedridden for 2 days. If I have to work, I need to stop to catch my breath ALL DAY. There was a time I could barely afford my bills and having to buy tampons was such a strain on me now these people who DO NOT GET PERIODS are buying tampons?!?! Is there a mass delusion going on right now?
@Victoria Swift please talk with your doctor if you are having such severe periods. My cousin had to have a hysterectomy because her uterine lining was shedding too quickly for her body to be able to clot. She was rushed to the emergency room in the middle of the night because her husband felt wet and when he turned on the light and she was unconscious in a pool of blood. Thank God she's okay but she literally could have bled to death in her sleep. Before that incident she had always had heavy periods, sometimes staying home from work because she felt so weak. I'm not trying to scare you, please don't think that such severe symptoms are normal and something that you have to endure.
I hope you've had this checked out. I had periods very similar to what you're describing. It ended up being an endometrioma and tons of endo that caused my uterus to become glued to my back which caused severe back pain. :( I hope you're okay...
@@amy010276 I’m so glad your cousin is ok! My mom had to have an endometrial ablation so this runs in the family. I’m talking to my doctor about it already and I’ll probably need one too. It’s scary how much can go wrong.
AND fallopian tubes, AND ovaries, AND the unfertilized egg that causes the bleeding every month. IF ALL of those components were removed from a woman & she [obviously] has only her vagina left, that biological female will not have a period...or after her last egg has dropped, even though ALL of the 'parts' are still present.
@@kathrynerwin1252 No, I don't think it'd be a similar feeling. I'm just as unsure as you are, but if you'd provide some information on this, I'd love to understand it with you
I find it absolutely hilarious how many women in the comments are mad about trans women invading their spaces. But when women have invaded men's spaces for decades, you gaslit us and called us misogynistic for having the AUDACITY to have men's spaces. Now that the tables are turned, it's a crisis. Yeah, I'll be sipping my water watching the mess unfold.
@@ryanthomas49 as a woman I have been realising how bad the double standards are and how it’s encouraged to vilify men and their emotions. Hope this stuff doesn’t get you too down
@@imaginationturtle5447 “as a woman”… that’s how you know a pickme female is about to say something misogynistic about her own gender. Nobody’s treating men unfairly. Men have had 100% of the power for all of history. Men do not need to be defended. Stop adding to the problem
I remember the first day of my first period being terrifying and physically painful, and I could not stop shaking. What followed was 40 years of unusually heavy bleeding, pain so bad I couldn't go to school, college or work, and mental issues that were directly exacerbated by my period. Add to this countless episodes of embarressment when I would bleed through light colored pants, awkward gym classes, and the unsexy side effects of "that time of the month." And then, there's the embarrassment of bleeding unexpectedly in the middle of sex, and APOLOGIZING for it!! In other words, all girls and women have their horror stories, and for many of us, menstruation was a medical problem. I don't know any female, even those with typical periods, who didn't suffer. So for a transwoman who acts like a Tampax commercial is reflective of real life (skipping through a field of flowers!), who delights in it and acts like its fun and lovely without having to go through it, makes me furious! P.S. I share your feelings about friendships with liberals. I have had some friendships with libs that survived Covid, but most didn't and in each case, I wasn't the one to walk away. These were people I knew from my youth. Sad, but that's what liberal tolerance looks like.
I can't imagine that women have anything to do with creating ads for menstrual products. I remember those "have a happy period" ads for Always. Like you, I had 40 years of horrible, heavy periods. I had endometriosis and fibroids. Thankfully, I had a relatively easy menopause. As for having a "happy period?" Bitch, please. I wanted to strangle whoever wrote those stupid ads!
I’ve had absolutely terrible menstrual cramps since I was 16 - I’m 41 now. Several months ago I started taking Nigella Sativa (black cumin seed) oil - organic,cold pressed, & unfiltered, it should be dark & thick. Shake the bottle well before using, them take a teaspoon orally daily. You can take up to 3 teaspoons, ideally 1tsp 3x a day, especially of you have other health issues, inflammation or any kind of infection. You can take it only during your period - 1tsp every 12hrs - but it’s better to take it more often as it helps with not just cramps but hormones, skin, hair & more. It’s seriously a miracle. It’s the only thing I’ve found to cure 90% of my cramps. I had to take ultra high dose ibuprofen & the strongest opiates before, for the record! Nothing else helped at all. Now I only need the NS oil & sometimes a little ibuprofen. My fertility has been boosted too. Everyone I’ve recommended it to has benefited as well, so I highly recommend everyone with any of the aforementioned issues check it out.
It's called the paradox of intolerance. If you are a hateful, intolerant bigot as many conservatives tend to be, then we don't tolerate you. Simple as.
This right here. I purposefully take birth control to not only help avoid getting knocked up, but to AVOID my awful periods as well! If I had it my way I'd get rid of that ability for myself forever.
Haha! I love this "If your bleeding, call 911" Yes, please do that. I'm pretty sure, even if you're on hormones, they do not help grow a uterus where there wasn't one in the first place.
28:00: The golden age you're talking about was when the entire narrative was "Some people have a disorder that makes them feel they're the opposite sex, and they try to live as the opposite sex, and it would be nice if we could treat them as equals, with compassion and decency." So easy to accept. You don't even have to understand the person's struggle or participate in it, just accept that there's a person like you living through something difficult. It's even a natural extension of the golden rule. Somehow that morphed into a vicious cult that ruins people's lives for daring to question any of its beliefs or practices, no matter how delusional or harmful.
The same thing happened in feminism as it transitioned to gender studies: It went from ‘there are some ways in which women are oppressed by men in society, and we should extend the same rights to women’ To:: ‘Gender pervades every discourse in society , gender is socially constructed and nothing but an illusory fabrication, therefore women are socially constructed and males can be women, but also there is no male or female, unless it’s a trans identified person then their gender is a fact that has to be taken seriously and everyone must engage in the performance’
I’m a transsexual and I don’t entertain lies- some may say to me that I am not a “real man,” and I say, “I’m a real transman!” But I don’t support the claim by some that they can get women pregnant- thank goodness it isn’t really transmen that spout lies about themselves but to be transwomen and claim you have periods is just the same as a trans guy lying when he says he can impregnate women- we cant
@Al Vincente I've always thought it interesting that there are so few trans male voices out there. There are a few detrans voices and of course Transpa Buck Angel, but their voices aren't very loud. I wonder why. Trans women on the other hand are numerous and even threatening in person.
I know why. Because transmale individuals were once women. Whether for positive reasons or not, studies in grammar schools have shown that boys are more likely to shout out answers to a teacher's questions that are wrong, while girls are less likely to answer quickly, and only answer questions when they feel certain they know the answer. I feel like that is somehow connected....
I used to have way more sympathy for trans people in general. Having gender dysphoria sucks, and I want to help gender dysphoric transitioners feel comfortable in public. However, the more trans people I’m meeting, the more I’m realizing that the majority of them just envy the opposite sex, especially mtfs. I’m so uncomfortable how they seem to ENVY getting pregnant and having periods. I recently had to deal with an mtf ending our friendship because I didn’t believe he had a period. Seriously. In person
I was 100% supportive of individuals with gender disphoria as well. My mother was severe paranoid schizophrenic, institutionalized by the state oh Ohio from the time she was 22 yrs till she passed at the age of 45 yrs old. I do believe that it's plausible that a person can be born with a mental health issue that they truly believe, due to chemical imbalances, that they are are living in the wrong body to which they were born. I personally lived my whole life, she was institutionalized when I was a little over a year old, watching my mother talk and see people that you couldn't begin to try to convince her that they weren't real. If you attempted to talk to her about her voices and people it'd create immense anxiety which on multiple occasions would cause my mother to become physically violent. So, I think it's extremely ignorant to not believe that gender disphoria exists. That being said, the ridiculous increase in the amount of cases per the capita population that they find statistically is beyond proof in itself that what were seeing our youth go through isn't truly GD. We're witnessing a fad, the desire to be different and be as different as possible and better than the next to the level of those desires to be noticed is the actual contagion and gender disphoria, woke ideologies, and other gender studies topics are the easiest and readily available to every child in America. The route of transmission is social media platforms and the internet in general. To say that we're in for some lean times in the next 30-50 years because of the fads we're bearing witness to today will be unprecedented and extremely sad as well as regrets. Today I know that those feelings will never be something I'd risk my child going through due to the senseless mutilation of their bodies as children and I'll forever stand on that! Everyone who has children and have sold their children to these children's hospitals and gender affirmative health care, I pray you don't live to watch your children experience the worse pain, anger, hate, regret, loss, and when they are feeling despair knowing mistakes were made that's irreversible and the only person they look toward in attempt to question the why and how they'll want to look at you, the only parents who could have known better!
@@megannoe2057 I too agree to this in some extent. However not to get into the "conspiracy" theorist realm. Because the number of these cases are WAY TOO HIGH. I can't help but wonder that due to indoctrination, via schools teaching this at young ages, schools applauding kids who are " different " thus creating positive reinforcement. Celebrities, Media, News also applauding stunning and brave reinforcement. That the younger generation easily slips into this LGTBQ fad. It's common that most humans feel the need to tribalize and fit in, in some way. Most younger ones don't want to fit into their parents or older folk. Being drawn to what we consider counter-culture. Back int he day it was Punk, then Goth, Grunge, Emo, Scene now this. I also think to some degree that perhaps there is something in our food, diet, perhaps a side effect of a vaccine, that is also causing the hormonal side-effects that leads to this gender dysphoria. Most newer drugs and perservertives, the effects of GMOS, probably haven't been tested for potential "long-term" side-effects. Ultimately, in a time where we have many on the left who fear that overpopulation would leave to either global warming or food shortish supply. Men like Bill Gates who open believe this and are now in the vaccine game. Elites who can afford to build monuments like the Georgia Guidestones. I can't help but wonder if they are promoting this because they know that the hormones, the transitions attempts, will lead to infertility thus ultimately lowering the population like they always desired.
I got my first period very young, about 8-9 years old. They were so painful it was hard to walk, I'd get nauseous, faint at times. I was a rough n tumble Tom boy and it would just crumble me. As i got older it got better but i think more due to my pain tolerance increasing with exposure to the pain. I was diagnosed with PCOS at 36 after years of being told by my ex husband that i was a hypochondriac and that i was creating irregular periods with my mind. During the divorce I finally pushed drs and went through a cancer scare and was blessed to find out i don't have cervical cancer and that i do have PCOS. Now im edging into early menopause. Its been a struggle, its been painful, its been scary at times and embarrassing many times getting unexpected very heavy periods and ruining clothes. I work in the construction and had many embarrassing moments on my way to diagnosis. These people are delusional to believe biological males can have a period and i find it offensive. Thank you BW for being a good person and calling this bad behavior out. Thank you!
I hate getting my period. It's messy, it's painful, it's irritating, and can ruin good clothes, and comforters, WHY would anyone want to have periods!? It's like a trans male wanting experience erectile dysfunction? Why?
I'm a trans man and even I don't want to experience erectile dysfunction. Thats weird to want that. I don't get aunt flo anymore bc I've been on testosterone for over a year.
You really wanna know why? Its because, for most of those pretenders, pretending to have a period is a fetish thing. The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria. Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs. Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
You're right about people doubling down on both sides. Look at these "all ages" drag shows. There was a time not too long ago when people would've easily recognized that these shows weren't kid-friendly. But now, libbed out parents are so concerned about virtue signaling that they are sexualizing their children. Those kids will not get that innocence back, all in the name of "inclusivity" and "acceptance." Heart-breaking. 💔
What I think is so funny is that the cramps come from the uterus...not the stomach or ab muscles. So they're just showing that they don't even know how women work😂
As a blind woman the whole Transabled thing frustrates me. I would give anything to be able to see and I found a clip about a woman so proud of herself because she found a psycho doctor to blind her a few years ago.
Why is that a thing? That woman and the doctor are legit insane wtf?? I'm also disabled and the trans-abled thing makes me so mad. I wish my disabilities had a cure 😢 Hope you are doing okay!
I find it so degrading to women how some trans are making a mockary of menstrual cramps and women's sports. Its like they hate bio-women. love you Blaire! 🥰
@@unisophia sex and gender do have some differences tho. Bc gender also deals with psychology while sex has nothing to do with anything other than biology
“Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right, here I am, stuck in the middle with you” came to mind when you were talking about feeling like you’re in the middle of all of this craziness.
I'm trans, haven't transitioned yet, hope to soon. However I've been plugged into the conversation for a long time, at least 10-12 years, since I remember some of my earliest memories of using the internet was to research being trans and learning all about it. You are so right when you say that Trans women used to be completely different. They would make fun of this kind of overly delusional stuff and I remember there was never this whole "trans women are women" thing. It was always understood that trans women were men who live the social role of women and transitioned medically and physically to fit that role as much as possible. Nowadays that sort of thinking is just out the window. There was also this general sentiment that Trans people needed a backbone since they were inevitably going to deal with people being awful throughout their lifetime. Now Trans people have no backbone and just bitch and moan to get what they want. I miss the old trans community where it was uplifting and kind but always actually understood what gender dysphoria is. I'm really glad to see someone nowadays still being able to remember that time too.
As a trans man who just recently stopped getting periods and has endometriosis, why would anyone fake/want that? I’ll be the first to stand with trans women, but I don’t see why anyone would fake or sexualize periods, maybe we’re just different
@@DippyFreshhhh A lot of people who claim to be a trans-woman as of now are in fact suffering from autogynephilia (they only dress like women cuz it's just a fetish to them)... I'm an old school lesbian & we dunno what happened to LGBTQ?! Trans people have always existed & the old school trans people do not appreciate the current wave of fake "trans-women" appropriating biological women... As a trans-man, do you go around & tell biological men how to be men? No, you probably don't... That is why so many people have a major problem with these fake "trans-women." They've taken it too far to where it's become a problem... There have literally been ZERO problems with trans-men cuz trans-men are not trying to re-write the rules of society...
I think the overwhelming majority of private trans women (not influencers or wannabe influencers) would also make fun of these lunatics. I’ve never met an adult trans person, in person, who believed that biologically male bodies can get periods. But then again these people who believe biologically male bodies can get periods are also the same people who believe there’s no such think as male/female bodies… which completely eliminates the need for people to transition…. 🤔 the arguments unravel themselves, really. Interesting stuff.
I don't understand why anyone would even want to pretend to have cramps or have their period. It's the most uncomfortable feeling and it sucks. I hate TikTok I can't even go on it anymore. These people need serious help
Right who wants to pretend this weirdo… not to mention that’s not how girls act during periods or cramping we are very discreet and subtle about feeling like a oversized squishy grape who got hit by a freight truck in the middle…. And omg u can’t fake that bottom pressure that seems to defy all logic like tf is that feeling!!!! Who wants to pretend this
I am a transgender male, I HAVE PERIODS I HAVE A UTERUS! The fact they want a period is crazy to me? Like they are painful and the mood swings are horrible. It's not a flex or anything????
I'm so horrified right now. You explained that estrogen intensifies range and depth to feel emotions if taken for transwomen. So if someone is unstable then taking the estrogen to me would be like pouring gasoline onto a fire. There should be a mental assessment and follow up before handing out this type of hormonal treatment especially if this is something for transpeople to be on for the rest of their lives. I'm a real biological woman and I stopped taking birth control because of its side effects.
I've been hearing studies of it recently. I've been recommended to be on birth control just because I'm more of a hairier female like my mother. I don't get full facial hair, but I'm getting her whiskers. From what I hear, it can change someone mentally as well as their preferences for a partner (more similar looking people to them while on it). It can affect scent which has its own role in selection.
bc messed me up, too. and i started on it at 24. full consenting adult. it infuriates me how there's no legitimate long term studies accessible. i feel like they should at least be testing your hormone levels before throwing a pill/patch out at you
There use to be… I remember my Tran-friend had to go thought few years of therapy before they could even go through any kind of Tran process! Let’s get back to that this new woke shii is harmful for Everyone ! It’s dumb and dangerous.
Agreed! I know someone who thought they were trans and was on estrogen the WEEK THEY FINISHED HIGH SCHOOL, and they just got more mentally unstable until last year they attempted s**cide. Thank God they're ok. But they even said to me about a year ago, "I don't think I'm a trans woman" but as far as I know they're still on estrogen despite this (like many detransitionsers before them, they're going down the "non-binary" route). To make matters even worse, they were diagnosed with a bunch of mental issues OVER A YEAR after starting estrogen...This is someone I love dearly so I really am not saying any of this to talk smack, it's just another example of doctors and psychologists COMPLETELY FAILING vulnerable people in our society. It has to stop.
As someone who has had HORRENDOUS periods (aka extremely severe dysmenorrhea) all my life, to the point of passing out from pain/heavy blood loss, throwing up, missing school etc. and planning to have surgery soon to make them lighter because they are completely debilitating & I can't take birth control, this is ridiculous to me. If they had to live ONE day in the shoes of women like myself, they wouldn't be so desperate to menstruate. They carry around pads and tampons like they're some kind of cute accessory. I can guarantee you, if you actually had to use them for your horrible periods, you wouldn't see them as a fun accessory anymore. It is so bizarre to me. Ask any biological woman who has/has had periods. We'd give just about anything not to. And btw, no amount of hormones is going to make a biological man have periods or period symptoms because THEY DON'T HAVE A UTERUS 🙄🙄 I can't believe this is even a discussion or debate, honestly. This trend just fucking baffles me... EDIT: wow, so many awesome women in these comments! I hate how many of us have these awful periods! Wanted to add a pro tip for my ladies with bad cramps and back paid: TAKE ALEVE!!! It's the best over the counter med for period pain. It has Naproxen in it, which is a prostaglandin inhibitor, and therefore can help period cramps. During your period, your body produces prostaglandins when it breaks down endometrial cells, which can make your uterus contract & therefore restrict the flow of oxygen to your muscles, causing cramps. So Aleve is perfectly designed for period cramps!!! It's WAY better than Tylenol, I promise! It actually used to be a prescription medication, my mom was prescribed it when she was young for her awful periods and she put me onto it! So glad it's over the counter now! Also, don't sleep on heating pads! Invest in one, it's absolutely worth the money! Get one that plugs in so you don't have to constantly keep getting up to heat it in the microwave. Heat dilates the blood vessels to increase blood flow, which can help sore/tight muscles relax. And it just feels so nice! Between those two things, I think it could really be a game changer for y'all, ESPECIALLY THE ALEVE!!! But do NOT exceed more than 3 pills a day, so spread them out! Hope this is helpful! Much love ❤️❤️❤️
Its just gas and stomach cramping caused by the hormonal imbalance they're inflicting on themselves. Mood fluctuation can also be caused by hormonal imbalance. Wanting to fart is not a period thought. The rest is placebo or lying because they want to be part of the thing and.... A whole lot of fetichism. The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria. Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs. Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
I agree. I just got my uterus out due to blood clots passing, bigger than my hand snd they would pass painfully. My uterus couldn't take it anymore that I bled 2months straight. Hence why they took it out as I was bleeding out slowly. It is not fun being a woman we literally earned being female. People with dysphoria are getting out of hand and it needs to stop.
@@natashalovett7134same. Blood clots the size of lemons, maybe one week a month NOT bleeding. Saying good-bye to tampons and pads (since I’d have to use both and would still bleed through at times) after my hysterectomy was one of the most liberating and joyful experiences in my life. They think they’re fun “girl toys”. They aren’t.
If that person was indeed having cramps, they need to talk to their doctor about it. Stomach cramps that bad on HRT is NOT a good thing! It's frightening they don't have the full knowledge of accurate side effects about the medications they're taking and then romanticize a side effect that can be FIXED.
I suffered with endometriosis for 15 years. Had surgery twice and then finally a hysterectomy at 38. I resent anybody playacting that they are suffering with something they clearly are imagining or playacting.
@@jamba622 I started getting really bad cramping after I had my daughter. It's horrible. But it's definitely not the same as the stomach /abdominal cramping this person MIGHT be experiencing. Women who require HRT can also get this side effect and it has (obviously) nothing to do with PMS. It's alarming that they weren't told about these possible effects and that they shouldn't happen.
@@snowps1 Could be, or could be the side effect women can also have on HRT for medical reasons (but understand the difference in pain). The fact they are pretending it's PMS and fetishising it is annoying.
Period cramps are definitely not the same as having a tummy ache 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ And I am SOOO thankful i don't have a period anymore. Anyone that WANTS to have periods and bleed every month are 1,000% insane.
I try to tell people that PCOS exists and is a thing.. so when people base someone's "womanhood" based off their reproduce ability alone I'm like.. ok.. But as well, PCOS is a hormonal imbalance. Imagine not being able to cure or even alleviate PCOs (I don't think it is a "cure" type of thing) because of the batshit insane legislature that's coming out lately??? All it does it make things harder for real people with real problems... like hopefully you're old enough to get the hormones you need for dealing with PCOS
Every period I've had after giving birth to all three of my children we're absolutely horrific and painful. Curled up in the fetal position crying. Why would anyone want that?
Usually that means you're hormones are off, if cramps are bad and you have heavy blood flow. You might want to go to the Doctor and make sure your ok! 🌻🌷🌻🙏🏻👍🏻
I cannot get over this 😂 cramps aren't caused by hormones! Cramps are in the uterus and are caused by the shedding of the uterine lining 🤣 if you don't have a uterus, you might be cramping but it's not your hormones and you probably just need to pass gas
Actually the same chemical that causes some menstrual cramping causes diarrhea, which is why a lot of women get increasingly terrible diarrhea during thier periods. If trans identified males are taking HRT, they may be producing more of that chemical than they normally would, and a gender affirmative doctor may be telling them thier gastrointestinal distress is similar enough to period cramping that they can say it's the same. I personally think that's awful medical advice, but I think that's a part of gender affirmative medicine 🤷♀️.
@@erinlikesacornishpasty4703 NO the shedding of the lining specifically CAUSES prostaglandin buildup aka the hormone-like acid that causes period diarrhea, not the other way around. Also if hrt caused periods women would be menstruating 24/7, as trans women have normal levels of estrogen, periods are caused by not only low levels of estrogen but also higher levels of testosterone which trans women on hrt do not produce. Now outside factors can cause high levels of prostaglandins but that can only happen if the uterus is already shedding. I'm so fed up and offended with this whole discourse (not you in general).
@@frizmagnet2246 I understand. I'm not sure you understood what I was saying. I'm pretty sure we agree, but you're looking for someone to have an argument with. I was just pointing out that women often have cramping that isn't just uterine cramping, but IS gastrointestinal, and that males also get gastrointestinal cramping. As another person suggested, peppermint tea helps 🤷♀️. Additionally males who identify as women and get bottom surgery most likely experience a lot of that type of cramping because they literally have neovaginas created out of thier colons. It sounds absolutely hellish. I personally would prefer suffering from the mental distress of gender dysphoria than have those particular complications.
@UCk68sJBfosyAZFBpPTk4tJg ok, well as I said, I agree with you. And I know estrogen isn't the chemical that causes gastrointestinal distress. I supposed I believed it was possible males also make the same or similar chemicals because they too experience gastrointestinal distress, but you explained that women who get gastrointestinal cramping get it because of a chemical exclusively produced by females, which I did not disagree with because that makes sense. I was told by a doctor that my gastrointestinal distress during a period was normal and no different than any other gastrointestinal cramping so I suppose I assumed it wasn't really female specific 🤷♀️. Did you understand that I was trying to say that gender affirmative care isn't good medical care for just that reason?
I just got more period products from the store the other day because I was almost out of them and they were so expensive. It’s sad how this trend is so normalized when there’s so many women who can’t afford period products nor access them.
@Lauren ORourke EXACTLY! That crap is expensive and I’m tired of seeing period products go to waste! Like how about instead of playing with medical supplies as if they’re toys, they DONATE it to women’s and homeless shelters. But they won’t do that😒they need content for TikTok😂
Psst, I totally recommend period panties if you have a light-to-mid flow. Or if you tend to spot for a while afterwards. They’re way more comfortable and you don’t need to keep buying pads. (I personally still get tampons for when I’m heavy/just in case but I don’t use them as much anymore.)
I am a 42 year old WOMAN who had a hysterectomy 7 years ago... Doc prescribed estrogen (since they took my ovaries) and I don't have cramps or periods anymore because I don't have a uterus!!! This shit is getting so bizarre and WHERE DID THEY ALL COME FROM??? 🤦🏼
I'm a trans man and my cycle stopped happening a long time ago now, and let me tell you - men have NO idea how lucky they are to wake up every day without ever bleeding, cramping, feeling like theyre going to sh*t themselves or throw up. And , at least for me, that was the EASY part of having a cycle, the worst part was the mood swings - the crippling suicidal depression on the days leading up to it. The weight fluctuations. It's not just 'a period', it's a whole 28 day hormonal cycle that changes your mood, energy levels, sometimes even your sexuality, and is vastly different to the 24 hour cycle a bio male has. They have it so, so easy, and don't and will never understand. And to add, bio women won't realise how much it affects them unless they happen to be trans and go on T like I did.
thank you for saying this, truly! I've had a trans woman saying to me she wished she had periods and I'm still like "BRUH NO YOU DON'T BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THAT IS"
On the transabled thing, when I was a school kid there was a girl we were convinced was using crutches and faking a sprained ankle for a week just for attention. This is it. It's the attention.
The story about the protester in Iran that was in his early 20s and hung as punishment, made me bawl my eyes out. It’s just a quick reminder that many people out there are built stronger than most. This young person knew that the penalty for speaking out could lead to death, and still continued to speak out for what was right anyways 😭 I feel a combination of Intense pride & broken heartedness. I’ll make sure to count my blessings in life & not take my freedoms for granted moving forward.
Yea i remember in middle school, a girl in my class got her period & she wasn’t prepared at all… she left every seat bloody & tied her jacket around her waist … by mid day the inner lining was sagging past the outer lining & literally dragging on the floor…. I was SO embarrassed for her… horrified…. But also confused as to why she didn’t do something…. Like make a pad out of TP or Paper towel… go to the nurse… I don’t know.. she was only there 1/2 the day… so maybe that’s why… but boy… I’ll never forget that…. Those are one of a kind experiences & worries that men know nothing of…. I hate the woman face stuff… honestly… I’m all outta tolerance
Poor girl was probably too scared to ask for help and didnt have supplies to deal. I was luckily thirteen when my endometriosis was symptomatic, but still its hell and I have to be on IUD to prevent more endometriomas from growing inside me. :(
And why are we constantly imposed on to have tolerance and patience when these types are so disrespectful to us? It feels like being slapped across the face again and again and then screamed at with white hot rage by a dollar store psycho if we tell them they hurt us. Or the full creepy Dylan and Jeffreys tell us in a patronising tone, that we have no right to feel upset and we're being transphobic and only their feelings matter.
Trying to be compassionate to those who are truly lost in their own body is hard when you get those in the group that claim to be women but at every hurdle degrade, insult and mock what it is to be a biological woman. But I think you’re amazing Blaire for being a true representative of trans and being a voice for those who are getting silenced. The trans community need more people like you who actually live in the real world ❤️
I appreciate you so much Blaire. I’m usually quite liberal but have moved center because I can’t stand how crazy the extremes have gotten on all sides of politics. Thanks for opening my mind to acceptance of truly trans people and seeing the difference between people like you and the others masquerading. Thank you again.
Same I used to be a huge SJW on tumblr 2011-2015 era and now I literally cant stand the left as well as the right I hate all of it and theyre all insane
Also the exercise, my husband got Covid. I was worried he wasn’t gonna make it. I read that outdoor exercise will help symptoms. Granted my husband was on the verge of death, we are not talking man cold, I men I was scared. I made him get up every 2 hours and walk outside. The next day he was at least 25% better, and every day he just kept getting better and was able to walk farther and farther! I’m totally saying that the outdoor exercise was what saved his life
I’ve also heard of studies on sunlight, both the vitamin D-stimulating afternoon ultraviolet and the clothes-penetrating morning and evening near-infrared radiation, having beneficial effects on recovery; so yes, those outdoor walks were probably therapeutic in multiple ways! I don’t think I was as bad as your husband, but I too found sun basking and getting outside even just to walk a small circle to be an important part of my covid recovery.
Thank you for saying what cis women can’t. I LOVE supporting people finding their happiness, but this feels like a mockery of what women deal with. Being a woman isn’t about nail polish and tampons. I could go on forever about the unique experiences women face but you’re doing a pretty good job of it already. Thank you!
Females can say it, the problem is that we let grow the presumption that only LGBTQ people can provide opinions about gender, sexuality and sex. EVERYONE have a gender, sex and sexual preference, and everybody can provide opinions about those themes.
I’m at the point where I think it is protective to my emotions and mental health to just ignore mostly all trans people. It’s just so offensive to women!
It’s sad that this is what happened. They are people also. And I pray most of them are not like this (the weirdos)…. But it’s not looking like that these days. I think you should give everyone a chance before deciding to ignore them though. They could be a great person unlike the freaks regardless of being different.
as a Trans Woman I find it ridiculous that some Trans Women pretend that they experienced menstruation. Yeah I get it.. they are curious but faking it just makes them and the rest look bad. it's embarrassing to say the least.
I work in children's mental health. On cloth masks, I have noticed an increase in young girls wearing them to cover their faces when they either didn't have time for makeup in the morning or if they don't like their faces. It's tragic in its own way
••watching this while experiencing major cramps (endometriosis) I feel like my ovaries are going to fall out and razor blades are being dragged around my insides. Now I just want to PUNCH my tv. Thanks Blaire for keeping it real.
at 30.55, the absolute ignorance of thinking women have 1 day per month that they have to deal with period pain! There’s pre menstruation pain, actual period pain then ovulation pain plus many other instances in between these times. Only 1 day per month (or 12 days per year) - where do I sign up? also, I’m guessing the ‘pain’ they are feeling is a side effect of the oestrogen they’re taking (stomach pain), it happens to women on HRT too, they probably need their dose adjusting x
"If I have to do thise every month, I am going to be So. UPSET! I have to power through???" Um... yeah.... We women have had to do it by the time we were at least twelve years old, and will ALWAYS be having EVERY. SINGLE. GOD. DAMN MONTH.... until in our forties or fifties... And we have to power through.... We have to smile and bear. We have to take painkillers and stash extra pads or tampons in our bags and purses and pray that they're enough for the day. You will not understand the ANXIETY... The almost *FEAR* in realizing we are low on our stashes and need to buy more... PRAYING our brand or size is still in stock. I realize Blair is so awesome and she serves as a wonderful example that no, not all trans women act like this. She is the only reason I can't truly say I hate all trans. Blair is amazing, and I hate Extremists and stupid trans women behaving in such misogynistic manners.
Not only i experience painful periods each month where im an emotional mess, have mood swings, have cramps in my stomach, legs and AASHOLE, eat like a pig and cry, i also experience PMS week before. Pimples all over face, mood swings, irritability, swollen boobs and depression. So basically i'm only "ok' for 2 weeks each month. No, YOU DO NOT WANT A PERIOD.
OMG the asshole pain!! And period poops AND the period poops feeling HOT because my internal temperature is like the belly of a volcano and I'm hot and sweaty 😭
whoa, that sounds terrible. I usually just get a really bad migraine for 2 days which also sucks (sometimes I need to throw up because the pain is that intense) but at least it´s not this... I´m sorry that this is your experience.
I feel for you going through this, I am a mom of three adult daughters, my youngest daughter suffered really bad like you describe. She found ( after a lot of trial and error) that evening primrose oil helped. And then when she got a bit older ( she is a nurse) she did a lot of research into it and now takes an anti depressant ( serlan/ seretraline) at a 25mg dose for two weeks each month before her period ( from ovulation day to period day). She has said she finds this life changing and can function better. I just wanted to pass on this to you, of course everything needs to be ok with a Doctor. But if you dont want to go down that route, I highly recommend evening primrose oil capsules. 💖
I’ve had absolutely terrible menstrual cramps since I was 16 - I’m 41 now. Several months ago I started taking Nigella Sativa (black cumin seed) oil - organic,cold pressed, & unfiltered, it should be dark & thick. Shake the bottle well before using, them take a teaspoon orally daily. You can take up to 3 teaspoons, ideally 1tsp 3x a day, especially of you have other health issues, inflammation or any kind of infection. You can take it only during your period - 1tsp every 12hrs - but it’s better to take it more often as it helps with not just cramps but hormones, skin, hair & more. It’s seriously a miracle. It’s the only thing I’ve found to cure 90% of my cramps. I had to take ultra high dose ibuprofen & the strongest opiates before, for the record! Nothing else helped at all. Now I only need the NS oil & sometimes a little ibuprofen. My fertility has been boosted too. Everyone I’ve recommended it to has benefited as well, so I highly recommend everyone with any of the aforementioned issues check it out. I’m posting this in reply to any relevant comments but it’s not spam. I hope someone is helped by this info.
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I wonder of any of them ever woke up in a puddle of blood, realizing you just had a miscarriage even though you didn’t know you were pregnant. It’s not just a period; it’s a monthly hormonal and fertility cycle that needs CONSTANT managing. It’s not cute, it’s a huge responsibility.
And excess estrogen can give you fibroids, and bleeding when it's not your time.
I’m sorry. Miscarriages make for really complicated emotions. I hope you’re doing okay. Indeed, with great power comes great responsibility.
Its even worse than them appropriating female suffering for validation because for most of them its a fetish rollplay.
The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria.
Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs.
Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay the whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
Ok you’re reaching now.. no one talking about miscarriages
@@Xxsorafan hun…she is. She don’t need to a whole group of ppl to tell her story with her. Disrespectful asf smfh
🚨MEN IF YOU ARE BLEEDING FROM YOUR GENITALS GO TO THE HOSPITAL 🚨
Men, if you agree to let women have the right to vote, you deserve to be in a mental hospital.
Exactly, it’s really scary you actually had to write this. It should be a no brainer
DED. ☠️
@Laneace Webster separatism is inevitable, I know that makes you nervous, but white LGBT even the unproblematic ones are done with your anti-white crap.
Yeah. A man I used to work with found out he had a form of cancer when he noticed blood in his urine. Men or MTF's should never just slap a pad on their skivvies and wait 5-7 days before becoming alarmed.
Periods are literal hell, its not just imaginary mood swings, its literal physical pain, messy, embarrassing, you have no control, you want to cry, it hurts, blood everywhere. THIS IS NOT FUN!
Yeah waking up in sheets that look like you were murdered during the night is so fun. Don’t get it, never will.
Amen to that
@@user-qv1vb4qo2x yeah blood seeped through my mattress and now if I am washing sheets it looks like someone got murdered even if I use stain remover it’s still always there and yeah it sucks but it’s fine embarrassing tho
and they romanticize it because it’s “validating” for them like wtf…..periods are awful and miserable. it’s our own bodies causing us repeated inconvenience, misery, and pain. and they glamorize it almost like it’s fun for them 💀
they get off on our suffering, it's a fun game to play pretend for them
Do these "trans" people claiming they have period pains realise that the cramps come from your UTERUS... NOT your stomach muscles! Thank you for being so level headed, honest and realistic about these topics, Blaire. As a woman I genuinely appreciate your voice of reason!
That was literally my thought when I saw her reach for the heating pad! Like...ya can't have 'menstrual cramps' if you don't have a uterus that is actively contracting to help shed the endometrium?! I just can't.
You know they don't believe in biology 😂 biology is transphobic duhh 😂😂
The pain is comming from their imagination.
@@rinzler9775for real 😂
In " Tom Sawyer", Tom convinced himself his toe was dying.
Are these people just horribly envious of women? "Anything you can do, I can do better" is the vibe. Thank you for your sanity, Blaire.
Yes! Perfectly said!
its a fetish. theyre not born in the wrong body, they have a woman-fetish. thats why all their "feminine" traits are over the top.
I think they hate us and are just making fun
@@ElanaVital83 Yep it's mockery. All the times we are told to "just cope" after they claim a period makes this clear.
52:28 A comment for Blair: people in the Middle East have Internet and they have access to TH-cam, so get out of your American bubble, you sound severely ignorant and you should implement your own critique towards Whoopi Goldberg and not talk about something you don’t know about. No need to ho on “roundabout” way to watch you, we just search you on youtube or come across you on the internet, common sense.
Decades ago, my mother said, "If men had a monthly period, it would be considered a sacrament that all of society would have to bow down to."
I'll bet she never thought it would look like this!
She was a smart woman ❤
That is how real periods should be respected. In fact through out history that was a woman's power over men . In some tribes men were afraid of their weapons being touched by a woman on her period. Some temples women can not go in during that time . Jewish women go through a cleansing after that time. Through out the world it was considered a strong and powerful thing.
Time to teach that to the young girls.
@@tashavolovsek9115well I don’t think the examples you just mentioned are really that positive to teach others about… it is more of a "dirty" thing.
In some countries women aren’t even allowed to sleep in their normal bed (also in jewsism) and some have to sleep on the floor instead.
Their periods aren’t seen as "powerful" or respected but rather as dirty and unholy.
That’s why they have to go trough thorough cleansing and aren’t allowed to visit certain temples.
@@lenibeni7421 then you have personal issues you need to deal with
@@tashavolovsek9115 Functional literacy is at an all time low.
It's rich that they called out of work for "period cramps" when cis women go to work, raise children, etc all while in absolute fkn pain from periods. It's a slap in the face to laugh and make a mockery of those of us who have to deal with periods.
And for only 12 days, That poor poor man. Meanwhile, we bleed for 90 days out of the year.
Please can we not say CIS women. I totally agree with your point but I think it's fucking offensive that people can't just assume unless otherwise classified...women are WOMEN.
Absolutely
Don't use the word cis anymore. Its time we boycot that word because they are using it to insult people now.
Truly a slap in the face. I've never ( amongst all women) once been given a pass for having Hella cramps, ones that had me doubled over in tears ( although it isn't necessarily right that we don't even get to rest on our periods when it's what our bodies need).
We have jobs, children to raise, gyms to hit, and we are told to get over it and get thru it
These deranged men will never even know the deep embarrassment of your period "showing up" unexpectedly during your high school physical education class, let alone the pain and discomfort... If these people knew about endometriosis they would "claim" it too.
Yeah rolling around on the ground, shaking, passing large clots and feeling like puking bc it hurt so bad is something to smile about and pretend happens to you bc your a ‘woman’ now….I am disgusted, Blaire you rock for calling this out- would love to see you dissect how the feminism pendulum and sexism pendulum has swung so far the other way that bow men who are ‘trans’ are stealing our PAIN for attention….unreal.
Mine started when I was 9 in class
Sshhh Dont give em ideas 😂😂
@@ruthevans1249 🫢
Can confirm as someone who has been diagnosed with endometriosis.
These people have no clue
“You can have our periods lmao. It’s not like we want to have it.” -every single woman who suffered like hell through period
Yes they can
Yyyyep. I've probably had as many kids as my body can spit out, so if these goobers want it, I'd gladly give it to them.
O yay! My periods have arrived early randomly I'm so happy!
Said no woman ever! 😂
They want it? Then they should just kick themselves in the balls continuously until their pissing blood for 5 days.
@@CrankyBarista 5 days... I wish 😂
"You're not having period cramps. Take a sht. Sounds like you're backed up!" You just killed me! 🤣😅😆😂
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Ran into a couple of those tiktoks. A lot of them like to preface it by saying something like 'of course I don't bleed' or 'I don't menstruate'. 'I get moody around this time of the month' counts to them as a period. That's not a period - that's never been a period. We all get moody at times, that's called being a human. A period IS menstruation, so if you don't menstruate, you don't get periods.
Literally 👏
(grammar hopefully fixed 🤦🙇) So when I was 15 I got asked what my period was like cuz I know with women there are differences based on genetics, environmental factors that affect hormones and diet. I basically told him to picture getting food poisoning and slowly bleeding to death. The look on his face was so sad I kind of regretted saying it instantly. Now I think it needs to be said.
So if I get a period but dont get moody, is it really a period? Am I a fake woman? Help
@@Varghalur I would imagine that means you're a little more stable in certain areas, genetics or diet, who knows? I mean I solved almost the entire cramp issue with Beano. So I guess Gabriel Iglesias style gas also qualifies as what it feels like. Hopefully people in the comments know that shrek routine.
@@Varghalurno matter how you feel it, you are still bleeding, so you are a woman. (And if you are a woman and don’t naturally have period you are still a woman cause you were born as one, don’t twist this)
A lot of Trans women are envious of us bio women. Periods are PAINFUL!!! I one time was in so much pain and discomfort and I was ugly crying!!! Periods are not as easy as they think
Well it only makes sense that they would... I'm sure majority of women with complete androgen insensitivity syndrome envy women as well as similar conditions. That envy comes from a place of wanting to be normal
one time I even throwed up because of period pain. I WAS 12!
Not saying this is normal tho but men do not have to deal with any periods at all, and DO NOT say " yEs tRanS meNNNNN" well girl
THEY ARE biologically WOMEN! Their hormones' don't take away their uterus??
i was 9 crying in immense pain on my bed, i couldnt even move because i was so dang uncomfortable and they want this shit??
What do you mEaN?! Arent periods just a couple belly twinges and, I dunno, like, needing to wear a pad for a few hours? Dont even know why you need a pad though, why not just hold it in until you go to the bathroom? We allllllll know mood swings are fake & just excuses for women to be mean!
🙄as someone who has endometriosis & fibroids & the accompanying adhesions (& once in my 30s those mood swings kicked in so hard I checked myself in, thinking I was gonna self-delete...two months in a row, then realised "I should track this ish")...GTFOH with faking period cramps.
@emmaxolovesrats Same. My very first period I threw up the whole time bc my body wasn't used to the pain. I'm used to it now.
As a woman, I've never played with tampons. Why does Dylan think we do that?! Ew.
I've literally only ever seen guys play with them, if they found some their girl left over.
yep. I am a woman, never used a tampon, ever. Always was scared lol. Always pads were my choice...
Because he is mansplaining periods and what it is to be a woman.
It's theater
because he's got a f3tish
“Help me, muscles I don’t even have in my body are cramping boo hoo”
These people are beyond odd lol
This is exactly how they are on TikTok. So many famous trans girls on there complaining about having “period cramps” when they don’t even have uteruses, lol. Laughable as a cis woman.
mental illness is real out here. these men thinking they are women is hilarious 🤣 I like the over exaggeration of how men think a woman behaves. its sad too
You should see the trans Reddit lmao
@@samcaranol4102 lol I’ve seen snippets lol I try to stay away from twitter/Reddit/TikTok for the sake of the remaining brain cells I have lol
@@BenThomas13 Lmao I agree but I just can’t believe it 🥴💀
Only men could take being a woman away from women..
You do realize that Blair White is also a trans woman who goes by she/her right lol
@@starlette7820 whoosh 😅
@@starlette7820except blair knows shes a man
@@starlette7820 so but she still think what Dylan and others who think they're getting a period is weird as shit 😂😂
@@starlette7820Blaire also doesn’t give a shit if people use the correct pronouns (he/him). He accepts he’s a biological male, and admits to being a man and a trans-woman (not a woman).
As a cis woman who is fairly liberal- I am shocked at how we’ve just allowed people to mock our bodily functions. There’s so many sane trans people with a grip on reality…and then there’s people like those on tik tok. Women have already been mocked throughout history for periods, and now those who supposedly understand women the most are contributing to it. Periods are not mood swings. That’s PMS. Unless your uterine lining is shedding- it’s not a period hun.
Calling yourself a "cis" woman is just giving them another snowball to roll down a hill. If you're a WOMAN there is no prefix to that necessary. Sorry but that made up bullshit insult was created specifically as that. An insult. And it gains traction with the MEN trying to pretend they magically get periods because they "want to be" women.
This is a huge slap in the face to those who have periods or worse (endometriosis). Periods are awful to have and yes, we do have to "power through" most times. It's not something to be glamorized, it's something we just have to get through. I'm super hormonal right now because I'm actually PMSing 🤣🤣
Ugh…I have endo and it’s an everyday struggle. I also have pcos on top of that, so I’m in pain more days of the month than not. And yes, having days off from work bc of ur period isn’t a thing, so we just have to work through it. I wish they would just take out my uterus already!
@@mamasam5180 not sure what stage endo you have.. I had 4, had surgery 13 months ago n they've started growing back again... I thought a hysterectomy would help but for me they've grown everywhere... might be worth looking into a bit more... good luck with your treatment whatever you decide
Seriously. I have PMDD in which my hormones genuinely make me want to commit s*icide every month before my period. But artificial cramps are TOTALLY comparable, sure. 👌🏽
I had endometriosis for years and years and PMDD on top of that. I had been dealing with ridiculous gyno issues since I was 11 and I'm 41 now. That's a long time and when people pretend they understand it is very insulting. Before my surgery this past summer I was bleeding 2-3 weeks out of the month, in pain every single day almost all day, and then I had PMDD for 1 or 2 weeks too. It was absolutely miserable. Miserable.
Endometriosis as well here! It’s really not that fun having a 5-6 cm endometrioma on your ovary, wouldn’t recommend to anyone wanting to have periods .
"You don't have cramps, Take a shit." must be my new motto for the new year
Came here to say that!
It really should be a t-shirt
😂😂😂
As a conservative woman, I never even wanted anything to do with the trans world. Your honest, straight forward explanations have helped me understand and find compassion. You are changing lives. Please don’t grow tired of doing good.
Blaire is a wonderful, sensible person.
There are a ton of trans people who agree with us and people like Blair. It's just hard to speak out about it because we all get our comments and accounts removed or banned on social media platforms. The problem isn't real trans people (who just want to fit in, get a job, and live their lives and be left alone)-- it's mainstream trans activism that's the problem.
I love this ❤❤❤
Imagine if someone says "I never even wanted anything to do with the cis world, but I found compassion". It's a very unhealthy attitude. If you demand respect, start showing respect to other people that may or not may be different from you.
@@carlosblanco5975it's not the same thing
Imagine being a real woman having to deal with these real types of issues like having a period And you still have to go to work. No matter how tired and exhausted you are.
For real, we women power through this shit
Yeah..and we do it for ages without announcing it to everyone and crying on the internet about it, matter of fact if someone at school or work told you that you're on your period it usually wasn't a thing to be proud of or celebrate like this dudes do, it was probably because of stains, bad odor,etc and not a thing to be proud of... Delusion
As a woman with endometriosis, its enraging watching a biological male pretend to have cramps and complain about not having time off work..
AND get mocked by men for 'faking it' or told to suck it up, it's just a little blood. I HATE IGNORANCE. ❤BLAIR!
Trans women believing they have periods reminds me of The Handmaid's Tale when the wives sit behind the handmaid giving birth and pretend they're giving birth and they're in pain. 🤣
That is exactly what it is 😭😂😂
YESSSS!!!!
@@moonlightbae5425 Right!? 😂🤣
No foreallll though 🤣🤣
Damn this sht needs another season 😂
“You’re not having period cramps… take a sh*t” got me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Along with if your bleeding call 911!
It's not a period. It's hemorrhoids
That line got an ACTUAL lol out of me too.
I love how she didn’t even wanna watch the 3rd one
She has the best comebacks! I love her!! 😂
saying women are “gatekeeping” periods is like saying men are gatekeeping testicular cancer😭😭😭😭
so true but you kinda cant compare periods to cancer
I'm gatekeeping my womb lol. That I never asked to have, just like they never asked to have what they have.
it's quite ridiculous, i must agree
I'm starting to think that they're making fun of woman. Like why are they so obsessed with that kinda stuff, it's creepy af. You can't menstruate just like we can't produce sperm. This is getting out of hand, people's ignorance and delusions are insane
I meet a trans woman 10 years ago and she had the bottom surgery and she said to me we can go shopping for tampons and pads together. You can show me which ones to buy for my period, and I said honey, you don't have a uterus or ovaries. You can't get your period It's physically impossible, she straight up look like I punched her in the face. She looks so sad but I had to tell her the truth couldn't let her walk around thinking she was going to get a period
Wtf?? Howwwww was that person able to go through all the prep (like psychological work) prior to getting a MAJOR surgery like that, and not have the basic knowledge that uterus+ovaries=periods, and MtF surgery does NOT=these two things???! I feel like someone with that much of a childish misunderstanding about these basic facts should not be given such a serious and irreversible surgery...
@@LetsSingTheDoomSong Its stuff like this that makes me feel bad for them. (Or at least some of them.) So many people are being gaslit into this it's unreal. It's no wonder why there are so many detransitioners in misery right now. I had a friend (went crazy, not friends anymore) who was trans and claimed to have shrunk a few inches. Hormones can't change your height.
Reminds me of Mr Garrison on South Park after he got his sex change. He was all excited to get a period, went shopping for pads and tampons, super happy about it... but the period never came. Finds out that normally when women miss their period, it means they are pregnant... so then he thinks he's pregnant and gets all excited to go have an ab or tion.
Everything comes crashing down for him when the doctor explains that he can't get an abrtion because he can't get pregnant.. because he doesn't have periods.. because he doesn't have a uterus.
We're literally living in a South Park episode.
@@Crackpot_Astronaut Exactly 🤣
You did the right thing.
Trust me, periods are nothing to be excited about. You gotta worry about a bloody mess when you wake up, deal with awful cramps and headaches, and become an emotional mess.
AND you go on a binge of eating junk food too😂
Take magnesium gylcinate
It amps up my mood swings!~ Yikes!
Get yourself together then because periods are not bad at all. Being a woman is WONDERFUL
That's true
This is a slap in the face for us who suffered painful cramping and heavy bleeding monthly FOR YEARS. I finally had a doctor who took the time to investigate the issue and it turned out I had bad endometriosis. Thankfully, I was able to get a partial hysterectomy (no uterus anymore) but I remember that PAIN. It's not something to make fun of.
*deep ass voice* "If anyone says welcome to womanhood I'm gonna lose my sh*t"....trust me bro....no one is saying that
The female reproductive system is absolutely incredible: life-creating, putting you in a world of pain, and incredibly sacred… and we have people APPROPRIATING it for their own fetishes and victim mindset.
None of these bio-men have had PCOS, heavy periods, a miscarriage, a late term stillbirth (like I have).. they don’t know the power of the reproductive organs that they’re appropriating
I agree but do you realize Blair’s also a bio man and doesn’t experience real female problems
@@marlonbundo4324 Yes, Blair's followers do know that, and if they don't then they're not paying attention because Blair points it out regularly.
If you're asking why people give Blair respect when she speaks on these topics, it's because Blair does so with respect herself, and isn't deluded or entitled enough to claim that she suffers from period cramps or that she deserves a womb transplant so that she can carry children.
Blair made the video to point out how wrong all of this is, so I might have missed the point you're trying to make, or you might have missed the point that Blair is making?
@@marlonbundo4324 Blaire never claimed to have a uterus or periods? She is and has always been openly trans and open about her trans experiences and she has never talked over women. What is the point of your comment?
@@brosef5033 yeah exactly. I mean I guess she has never claimed to have a "womans" experience either.. just a transwomans experience
@@brosef5033 He.
We had a trans temp at my job for a while and she was talking about how she was leaving her tampons on top of the bathroom garbage and her roommate asked her to cover it up. She was going on about how sexist he was and then I asked her if she got a uterus transplant, she said she didn't. Then I said well you should talk to a doctor because you shouldn't be bleeding. She went to the boss and said I was being transphobic! OMG if you don't have a uterus and you are putting tampons in you and they are getting blood on them go to the hospital because, something is wrong.
You mean “HE”
I'm sorry to tell you this, but he was probably just rollplaying his fetish with you and you burst his bubble. That's why he was big mad.
The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria.
Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs.
Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
Classic crybully, pushing people to the point where they complain, so he can then play the victim. This movement is so unhealthy. We can't just "live and let live" because these activist types are actively harming the people around them.
Wow, so why was she bleeding of course it wasn’t period blood bc she’s biologically male
Or when you see ppl with masks and they’re driving alone
I'm on my period now and it's not just ouch this hurts 🙊🤪🤭 it affects my skin, my emotions, appetite, fertility, iron levels and other things. It's a serious thing. And it's not cute to be sexist towards biological women.
Same
a period is a full BODY MIND & SPIRIT EXPERIENCE lmao. they look like clowns :(
I had a trans friend in college in the early 00’s. It was a non issue and we all went about our lives. How I miss those times 20 years ago.
I'm a Conservative Christian and I'm watching your videos to have a better understanding of what Trans really is, especially after watching this parody from Dylan Mulvane. If an adult decides they need to take hormones and have surgeries to feel better in their own skin, I don't think any less of them. I feel compassion for people who don't feel comfortable in the body God gave them. My outrage is with the fast tracking of kids to start transitioning before their brains are mature enough to understand the consequences.
Major props to take the time to learn from someone so honest and real as Blaire
I've watched Blaire since priot to leaving the Dem party. I always want to get perspectives from all sides and learn more. Blaire and trans women like this have my respect. This game that some others are playing or feeding this to youth is not an accurate portrayl of LGBT folks. They're making this so much less acceptable.
Lovely sentiment ❤
I fully agree with this
Yeah I am as well, I watch her to try to understand TRUE Trans, I love everyone it's the sin we are supposed to hate, the Bible makes it very clear.
THIS.
As a real female, I was fascinated with the concept of periods when I was 10-11 before I hit puberty. Because I wanted to grow up and I knew it was a sign of growing up. Unbeknownst to me I would be a very late bloomer and wouldn’t get my period till I was 15.
Never did I act like this.
And now I’m a 30 year old woman struggling with PCOS and fertility, doing IVF.
But I’m so glad that a trans person can pop some pills and all of a sudden they have the same biology as me. We women are so silly, aren’t we? Like we’re so easy to act like, so easy to adopt our biological makeup. Oh yes, I forgot makeup. Slap some makeup on and all of a sudden you have period cramps.
Misogynistic.
BTFO
as a “real” trans woman, i dont just “pop pills and slap makeup on” and all of a sudden im the same gender as you? im transsexual, i will always be biologically male but being trans my brain does not identify with my body (could explain it more but i dont want to) why are you even here if you talk like trans people are idiots? Blair is trans and informing you otherwise. think.
@@intheredcold9216 how is what she said misogynistic?
You can't please anyone these days. If you have straight facts and evidence; a woman's period involves the pituitary gland and ovaries, releasing estrogen, causing a female's menstrual cycle, yet these morons keep saying they have cramps and bleed, but we're transphobic? The last thing I'm scared of is a trans person, and since I'm a tomboy, I have played hockey for the last 35 years, I guarantee I'm more masculine than these dudes!
But again, if I could give these "women" my severe period cramps and bleeding heavily for 12 day's, they can have all of it!
Best of luck to you on your IVF journey! I know it's not easy, but the payoff will be spectacular!!
Periods and ovulating are hell. Some of us get excruciating ovulation pain, then a horrible period follows. Literally alternating every two weeks. It’s shit. If these clowns want periods, then they can take ours! Thank you for being the logic and sanity amongst this circus Blaire 🙏
Funny thing-from the time I was a toddler until I was nine I was confused about gender; I played dolls and dress up with my sisters and their friends, my first friends were girls, and I even recall saying things like Jazz Jennings is alleged to have said. However my parents told me the truth: I was a boy, and nothing could change that.
I didn't even really associate with other boys until I started school, and I had difficulty relating to them-I wasn't into sports or cars, I didn't like the things they joked about, ect. I still was confused, until I saw my sisters go through PMS-and once I realized what that meant I EMBRACED my masculinity.
I started getting ovulation pain about a year ago and it fucking sucks.
Literally im so happy i only get cramps the first 3-4 days of my period 🌸🌹💭🌺💘🎀
Truly!
"Everyone's stupid."
I feel this so much.
Can we talk about how insulting this Crossdressers faking periods are to women with serious pain during menstruation?
When I was younger I often wasnt able to walk anymore, fainted, puked from the pain. I was literally crawling over the floor while not being able to stop loud whinig like a dog whishing I was dead
Same. I actually thought I was dying the first time it happened to me at 12-years-old because girls are not even educated about our own bodies and what might happen to our bodies when we start our periods. No warning from my mother, sex Ed or anywhere, so I i was shocked when my horrendous cramps felt like I was literally drying becsauee there was no explanation for such agony...I’m sure this is the same experience for countless girls.
@@threefreaksonaleash6619 Same!!
Same here. It was awful. I knew the worst of it was over on the first day after I puked. But the cramps were insane. Most people didn't know how to help me. And every 25 days it was gonna happen again.
@@threefreaksonaleash6619 SAMEEE tbh my mom or my grandma didn’t educate me about period and when i finally got my period I thought I was legit dÿing and I thought I had cancer or smthg 😭😭😭😭
I was 9 when mine started. I knew about periods. I asked my mom if I was starting my period. She told me I was too young. My much elder sisters started at 13/14 like my mom. So, for weeks, I though I was secretly dying of cancer..lol
Until I told my sister in law. (I am the much youngest of 7 kids)
My sister in law was the one that helped me and went to speak to my mom.
I am 42 and have endometreosis and the word escapes me at the moment, some other one that is inflammation related. I still throw up, upset tummy, I have fainted at school..(.off a stage )... I miss work, school, events, ... I sometimes can barely walk because I feel like my legs are weak and shaky because of the nerve pain in my hips and thighs...
My period last 7 days and the first 3 or 4 days I am pretty much useless. I have been given a NSAID that finally works...but I am not keen on meds and the tablets are really expensive. Holidays, trips, everything is planned around when I am down.
I fight through it and cant wait to have menopause.
I have fettility issues. Thankfully we have one child.
This BS really gets me annoyed.
Imagine, next a doctor will transplant some of those rough cells (endometriosis is cells in the wrong place) inserted all over their nerve endings. Then they can feel it. The world has gone mad.
Why someone would actively want a period is insane to me, if I had a choice I’d never have one lol.
Exactly. As a teenager the physical pain was huge. The PMS caused a seven-pound weight gain and bloating every month in addition to, depression. After giving birth, the physical pain for me disappeared but PMS intensified. Then the fabulous peri menopausal era with heavy volume. I remember often changing tampons AND pads then sneezing and I had to replace everything immediately. Then menopause. Good God. It took me a decade of constant sweats and mood swings before I was done. I am so happy to be in my 60s and it is all behind me. I celebrate my femininity but, would have been happy to avoid that aspect.
@@debcollins8231 can’t wait to be 60, I’m 25, period kills me every time
@@10418 I am so sorry. The pain can be all-consuming and EVERY month? Grrrrr I did experience relief from the physical pain after childbirth but, I do not think that works for everyone. I was told being on the pill would provide relief but it really did not help. I hope you get some relief. Unfortunately, I tried many herbs and remedies to no avail.
Same 😂
After 3 babies and indometriosis since a teen, at 30 I got my hysterectomy. Freedom I'd bliss.
I'm 66, never missed it a day!
They happily gloss over PMS which for me is worse than the pain. I’m actually relieved when I get my period because I realise I’m not as depressed, anxious, and just crazy that I thought I was.
I’ve had absolutely terrible menstrual cramps since I was 16 - I’m 41 now. Several months ago I started taking Nigella Sativa (black cumin seed) oil - organic,cold pressed, & unfiltered, it should be dark & thick. Shake the bottle well before using, them take a teaspoon orally daily. You can take up to 3 teaspoons, ideally 1tsp 3x a day, especially of you have other health issues, inflammation or any kind of infection. You can take it only during your period - 1tsp every 12hrs - but it’s better to take it more often as it helps with not just cramps but hormones, skin, hair & more. It’s seriously a miracle. It’s the only thing I’ve found to cure 90% of my cramps. I had to take ultra high dose ibuprofen & the strongest opiates before, for the record! Nothing else helped at all. Now I only need the NS oil & sometimes a little ibuprofen. My fertility has been boosted too. Everyone I’ve recommended it to has benefited as well, so I highly recommend everyone with any of the aforementioned issues check it out.
I don’t get PMS but friends who do were helped by NS oil.
Same. Since I got my PCOS sorted I don't have painful periods. However PMS comes every month without fail. I particularly hate that I gain 3-4 lbs and swell up so much I can't wear pants or rings. The swelling starts a week before my period and only goes away a few days after it finishes.
Right?! I have PMDD and the week leading up to my period can be hell for me and my whole family because I become a different person. It is also a relief once my period comes, but after giving birth to my kids it is now so heavy that I barely want to leave the house. So yeah dude… it is awful 🙄
@@lynncrf Try the oil I mentioned above! It’s great for any kind of swelling. Soaking in a hot bath with 2lbs of MgCl will help too.
For me its a double edge sword of feelings of: "yah, that's why i have been feeling a mess: and "Damn, i'm making a mess now I will have to preteat my laundry while I'm in physical agony."
YALL WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE FEELING OF THESE AWFUL CONTRACTIONS THAT PERIODS GIVE BIO WOMEN! THANK YOU FOR CALLING THEM OUT, BLAIRE
“youre not having period cramps…take a shit.” girl i love you.
😂😂😂
Blaire, I am a middle aged, Christian, right wing conservative and I have no problem with you. You are a person who is just living life. You’re not walking around wearing your trans on your sleeve or going around telling kids they might be trans. You know what the difference is between you and the radicals? You’re comfortable being you. I get the same feeling from people like me who act like idiots. I like to think that the people making all the noise with their craziness are the vocal minority. The rest of us are just enjoying life with our friends and family.
I definitely agree, I was just thinking the same thing. Love you girl 🤗
Beautifully stated. I was just thinking why is being Trans often a person's entire identity? Our gender, skin color, and sexuality are actually the most boring things about ALL of us.
I love your comment😊, im more neutral myself and all I want is to just live my life without being trans taking over my whole identity 🐸
Why they need Blaire as a way to be in a way . Love her
@@debcollins8231 I agree.
Is crazy to think that while we are suffering with period symptoms there are guys actually siting back secretly envious and wanting that for themselves 🙃
its really not that crazy. Men have been fetishizing women, women's suffering and womens pain always.
@@belaad That is not what this is though.
Its just gas and stomach cramping caused by the hormonal imbalance they're inflicting on themselves. Mood fluctuation can also be caused by hormonal imbalance.
The rest is placebo or lying because they want to be part of the thing and.... A whole lot of fetichism.
The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria.
Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs.
Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
@@deldarma4509 IT is just a bold faced lie. They fake it. If they were really in pain, they wouldn't be dramatic over it. Sure, things you listed are side affects of the things they do. But they are faking the whole thing.
You know men are just better at most physical tasks, but bleeding for 7-14 days straight and surviving that is the borderline life or death experience we really seek.
I had to diplomatically go off on a close friend of mine once, who is a trans woman, about a discussion we had just had. I had my heaviest periods after my first and only child, brain fog, and severe iron deficiency- I have an aortic stenosis as well ( prenatal cardiac medical condition) so it is very hard on me. In passing, I complained about how much pain I was in that day and just having a rough day... Instead of sympathizing whatsoever, they made it about themselves and how lucky I am to have a period and how much they wish they got a period... Listen. My sister has Von Willebrand disease ( blood does not clot properly) and has been in the hospital several times for hers- I cannot imagine what it must be like to nearly bleed out from a monthly occurrence, that as women, we need in our monthly hormonal and fertility cycle, but struggle with. It is an immense responsibility, it is not cute, fun, or something that you feel you have the right to have just because you identify as a woman. It's revolting. My sister has been through so much, and it takes away her voice, and from her trauma to make it about themselves. These insensitive narcissists need to get over themselves.
As someone who experiences extreme hormonal changes every month during my period, seeing someone pretend to have one is mockery. I don’t get easily offended so I’m like ok people can do whatever, but I can definitely recognize when someone is mocking me. Seeing a trans woman pretending to have a period rings exactly the same as a man making fun of me for struggling during my period.
If there was any justice in the world the period fairy would curse them with actual periods, really bad ones.
Watching these kind of videos while suffering PMS or being on my period, is hard. I get REALLY mad! The week before is so hard on me emotionally and when it comes to my energy. The day before the start of my last period I literally was SO exhausted because of the hormone changes I had to take a 3 hour nap!!! And then to watch some man say he's a woman?! They have NO clue! And then after my periods end I'll have to deal with menopause!
Its even worse that them appropriating female suffering for validation. For most of these pretenders its a fetish thing.
The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria.
Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs.
Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
@*pinkshiny* there's one for labour contractions too and I'd love to see that because some of them think they can get pregnant too
@*pinkshiny* PLEASEEE they wont even be able to stand up, and then a bio woman shows them how much we can handle
As a woman who is currently menstruating (day 2), bloated AF, cramping, sore boobs, lower back pain, and physically tired, and emotional, I cannot fathom why anyone would want to get a period. It just goes to show how unaware they are about periods and all the pain that comes with them. It honestly makes me see how much trans women long to be real women. I’m kinda sad for them tbh but I will not deny biology. Granted, men tend to be more nice to me when I’m on my period lol Maybe, trans women want the sympathy or attention?? Also, men are subconsciously more attracted to women who are ovulating, due to pheromones and due to our skin glowing during ovulation. Periods are more than blood and cramps, it’s about mating and reproduction! Make BIOLOGY real again!
I could not agree more 👏🏼🩸🥴 If I could remove the option of having blood spew out of me and give me an insane amount of pain and bodily discomfort every damn month…I, without a doubt in my mind, would lmao
Literally, same here girl, as she post this I'm on day two as well. I hope u feel better soon, it can be tough!
I had to have a hysterectomy 7 years ago for medical reasons. When I got periods they were just as horrible as the OP describes above. I don't miss them, but my one ovary left gets very angry! I still get cravings, some soreness on that side and only what I describe as mini pms.
I wish I still could have kids, but the no periods is nice I guess.
Exactly! And, if it were possible for them to experience cramps like we do, then why aren’t any of them claiming to have them twice a month? Because many women also have cramping when they ovulate so if they were caused only by hormonal changes, then at least some of them would also have ‘mid-cycle’ cramping. But they are clueless to real women’s bodily workings because they are not women and cannot experience things that happen because of ovaries and a uterus 🤦🏼♀️
The only reasons I smile when my period comes is because 1. My boobs look amazing during PMS and 2. I know I’m not pregnant hah. Everything else is horrible, particularly my low back pain.
As someone who had to quit going to school when I entered 8th grade due to horrible periods (I had too many absences and it was easier to be homeschooled) it’s disturbing to me to see so many people act out a period like it’s some fetish dream come true.
I'm sorry you went thru that. I hope you managed to make it less painful. Periods are not supposed to hurt, it's a sign that something is wrong with your health.
@@plagueangelNot necessarily, some women have heavy painful periods and others don't. I have very painful heavy periods but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my body (I checked multiple times) and it's just how it is
I have a friend who is a transwoman. She once said to me that she found the female puberty to be much more smoothe and chill than male puberty. Like..... Yes, you get the exact same amount of the exact same hormones. There is no flooding and chaos like in a natural puberty..... And you still found the boobs coming in to be quite painfull, imagine it came in waves where even just wearing a tshirt was quite painfull. And also, all that without having to worry about embarrassing yourself by bleeding out in public, waking up in a whole bloodbath....
I still like her, i just think sometimes its a lot to fathom for them all in how many ways you might not be able to relate to a afab Woman.
I literally suffer on my period. I can’t even stand up sometimes. I’m essentially bedridden for 2 days. If I have to work, I need to stop to catch my breath ALL DAY. There was a time I could barely afford my bills and having to buy tampons was such a strain on me now these people who DO NOT GET PERIODS are buying tampons?!?! Is there a mass delusion going on right now?
EXACTLY! It’s not a fucking fad
@Victoria Swift please talk with your doctor if you are having such severe periods. My cousin had to have a hysterectomy because her uterine lining was shedding too quickly for her body to be able to clot. She was rushed to the emergency room in the middle of the night because her husband felt wet and when he turned on the light and she was unconscious in a pool of blood. Thank God she's okay but she literally could have bled to death in her sleep. Before that incident she had always had heavy periods, sometimes staying home from work because she felt so weak. I'm not trying to scare you, please don't think that such severe symptoms are normal and something that you have to endure.
Yes there is. Have you tried rubbing deep heat on your lower back? And have you been checked for endometriosis?
I hope you've had this checked out. I had periods very similar to what you're describing. It ended up being an endometrioma and tons of endo that caused my uterus to become glued to my back which caused severe back pain. :( I hope you're okay...
@@amy010276 I’m so glad your cousin is ok! My mom had to have an endometrial ablation so this runs in the family. I’m talking to my doctor about it already and I’ll probably need one too. It’s scary how much can go wrong.
Period cramps are literally uterine contractions. You need a uterus to get them.
I think you can simulate a similar feeling by inducing bladder spasms?? Idk though, just guessing
AND fallopian tubes, AND ovaries, AND the unfertilized egg that causes the bleeding every month. IF ALL of those components were removed from a woman & she [obviously] has only her vagina left, that biological female will not have a period...or after her last egg has dropped, even though ALL of the 'parts' are still present.
I had a man once “correct” me in a comment section by saying his wife’s period cramps were from back pain & uterine cramps weren’t real….oooo boy
@@kathrynerwin1252 bladder spasms?? Tf??
@@kathrynerwin1252 No, I don't think it'd be a similar feeling. I'm just as unsure as you are, but if you'd provide some information on this, I'd love to understand it with you
Yet again we have men needing to be in the Center of attention and have power. Because this is seriously what it is!
How is this not sexist towards men?
I find it absolutely hilarious how many women in the comments are mad about trans women invading their spaces. But when women have invaded men's spaces for decades, you gaslit us and called us misogynistic for having the AUDACITY to have men's spaces. Now that the tables are turned, it's a crisis. Yeah, I'll be sipping my water watching the mess unfold.
@@ryanthomas49 as a woman I have been realising how bad the double standards are and how it’s encouraged to vilify men and their emotions. Hope this stuff doesn’t get you too down
THANK YOU
@@imaginationturtle5447 “as a woman”… that’s how you know a pickme female is about to say something misogynistic about her own gender. Nobody’s treating men unfairly. Men have had 100% of the power for all of history. Men do not need to be defended. Stop adding to the problem
I remember the first day of my first period being terrifying and physically painful, and I could not stop shaking. What followed was 40 years of unusually heavy bleeding, pain so bad I couldn't go to school, college or work, and mental issues that were directly exacerbated by my period. Add to this countless episodes of embarressment when I would bleed through light colored pants, awkward gym classes, and the unsexy side effects of "that time of the month." And then, there's the embarrassment of bleeding unexpectedly in the middle of sex, and APOLOGIZING for it!!
In other words, all girls and women have their horror stories, and for many of us, menstruation was a medical problem. I don't know any female, even those with typical periods, who didn't suffer.
So for a transwoman who acts like a Tampax commercial is reflective of real life (skipping through a field of flowers!), who delights in it and acts like its fun and lovely without having to go through it, makes me furious!
P.S. I share your feelings about friendships with liberals. I have had some friendships with libs that survived Covid, but most didn't and in each case, I wasn't the one to walk away. These were people I knew from my youth. Sad, but that's what liberal tolerance looks like.
I can't imagine that women have anything to do with creating ads for menstrual products. I remember those "have a happy period" ads for Always. Like you, I had 40 years of horrible, heavy periods. I had endometriosis and fibroids. Thankfully, I had a relatively easy menopause. As for having a "happy period?" Bitch, please. I wanted to strangle whoever wrote those stupid ads!
I’ve had absolutely terrible menstrual cramps since I was 16 - I’m 41 now. Several months ago I started taking Nigella Sativa (black cumin seed) oil - organic,cold pressed, & unfiltered, it should be dark & thick. Shake the bottle well before using, them take a teaspoon orally daily. You can take up to 3 teaspoons, ideally 1tsp 3x a day, especially of you have other health issues, inflammation or any kind of infection. You can take it only during your period - 1tsp every 12hrs - but it’s better to take it more often as it helps with not just cramps but hormones, skin, hair & more. It’s seriously a miracle. It’s the only thing I’ve found to cure 90% of my cramps. I had to take ultra high dose ibuprofen & the strongest opiates before, for the record! Nothing else helped at all. Now I only need the NS oil & sometimes a little ibuprofen. My fertility has been boosted too. Everyone I’ve recommended it to has benefited as well, so I highly recommend everyone with any of the aforementioned issues check it out.
Yep, I remember to
It's called the paradox of intolerance. If you are a hateful, intolerant bigot as many conservatives tend to be, then we don't tolerate you. Simple as.
This right here. I purposefully take birth control to not only help avoid getting knocked up, but to AVOID my awful periods as well! If I had it my way I'd get rid of that ability for myself forever.
Haha! I love this "If your bleeding, call 911" Yes, please do that. I'm pretty sure, even if you're on hormones, they do not help grow a uterus where there wasn't one in the first place.
28:00: The golden age you're talking about was when the entire narrative was "Some people have a disorder that makes them feel they're the opposite sex, and they try to live as the opposite sex, and it would be nice if we could treat them as equals, with compassion and decency."
So easy to accept. You don't even have to understand the person's struggle or participate in it, just accept that there's a person like you living through something difficult. It's even a natural extension of the golden rule.
Somehow that morphed into a vicious cult that ruins people's lives for daring to question any of its beliefs or practices, no matter how delusional or harmful.
The same thing happened in feminism as it transitioned to gender studies:
It went from ‘there are some ways in which women are oppressed by men in society, and we should extend the same rights to women’
To::
‘Gender pervades every discourse in society , gender is socially constructed and nothing but an illusory fabrication, therefore women are socially constructed and males can be women, but also there is no male or female, unless it’s a trans identified person then their gender is a fact that has to be taken seriously and everyone must engage in the performance’
This
I’m a transsexual and I don’t entertain lies- some may say to me that I am not a “real man,” and I say, “I’m a real transman!” But I don’t support the claim by some that they can get women pregnant- thank goodness it isn’t really transmen that spout lies about themselves but to be transwomen and claim you have periods is just the same as a trans guy lying when he says he can impregnate women- we cant
@Al Vincente I've always thought it interesting that there are so few trans male voices out there. There are a few detrans voices and of course Transpa Buck Angel, but their voices aren't very loud. I wonder why. Trans women on the other hand are numerous and even threatening in person.
I know why. Because transmale individuals were once women. Whether for positive reasons or not, studies in grammar schools have shown that boys are more likely to shout out answers to a teacher's questions that are wrong, while girls are less likely to answer quickly, and only answer questions when they feel certain they know the answer. I feel like that is somehow connected....
Genuinely love you Blaire. Never stop calling out the BS. You're one of the only people that makes sense anymore.
blair is part of the propaganda machine making this acceptable. he is a man taking a biological woman spot.
same i can only watch her bc she clears my brain fog !! like everything’s clearer bc she MAKES SENSE
I used to have way more sympathy for trans people in general. Having gender dysphoria sucks, and I want to help gender dysphoric transitioners feel comfortable in public.
However, the more trans people I’m meeting, the more I’m realizing that the majority of them just envy the opposite sex, especially mtfs. I’m so uncomfortable how they seem to ENVY getting pregnant and having periods.
I recently had to deal with an mtf ending our friendship because I didn’t believe he had a period. Seriously. In person
I was 100% supportive of individuals with gender disphoria as well. My mother was severe paranoid schizophrenic, institutionalized by the state oh Ohio from the time she was 22 yrs till she passed at the age of 45 yrs old. I do believe that it's plausible that a person can be born with a mental health issue that they truly believe, due to chemical imbalances, that they are are living in the wrong body to which they were born. I personally lived my whole life, she was institutionalized when I was a little over a year old, watching my mother talk and see people that you couldn't begin to try to convince her that they weren't real. If you attempted to talk to her about her voices and people it'd create immense anxiety which on multiple occasions would cause my mother to become physically violent. So, I think it's extremely ignorant to not believe that gender disphoria exists. That being said, the ridiculous increase in the amount of cases per the capita population that they find statistically is beyond proof in itself that what were seeing our youth go through isn't truly GD. We're witnessing a fad, the desire to be different and be as different as possible and better than the next to the level of those desires to be noticed is the actual contagion and gender disphoria, woke ideologies, and other gender studies topics are the easiest and readily available to every child in America. The route of transmission is social media platforms and the internet in general. To say that we're in for some lean times in the next 30-50 years because of the fads we're bearing witness to today will be unprecedented and extremely sad as well as regrets. Today I know that those feelings will never be something I'd risk my child going through due to the senseless mutilation of their bodies as children and I'll forever stand on that! Everyone who has children and have sold their children to these children's hospitals and gender affirmative health care, I pray you don't live to watch your children experience the worse pain, anger, hate, regret, loss, and when they are feeling despair knowing mistakes were made that's irreversible and the only person they look toward in attempt to question the why and how they'll want to look at you, the only parents who could have known better!
@@megannoe2057 I too agree to this in some extent. However not to get into the "conspiracy" theorist realm. Because the number of these cases are WAY TOO HIGH. I can't help but wonder that due to indoctrination, via schools teaching this at young ages, schools applauding kids who are " different " thus creating positive reinforcement. Celebrities, Media, News also applauding stunning and brave reinforcement. That the younger generation easily slips into this LGTBQ fad. It's common that most humans feel the need to tribalize and fit in, in some way. Most younger ones don't want to fit into their parents or older folk. Being drawn to what we consider counter-culture. Back int he day it was Punk, then Goth, Grunge, Emo, Scene now this.
I also think to some degree that perhaps there is something in our food, diet, perhaps a side effect of a vaccine, that is also causing the hormonal side-effects that leads to this gender dysphoria. Most newer drugs and perservertives, the effects of GMOS, probably haven't been tested for potential "long-term" side-effects.
Ultimately, in a time where we have many on the left who fear that overpopulation would leave to either global warming or food shortish supply. Men like Bill Gates who open believe this and are now in the vaccine game. Elites who can afford to build monuments like the Georgia Guidestones. I can't help but wonder if they are promoting this because they know that the hormones, the transitions attempts, will lead to infertility thus ultimately lowering the population like they always desired.
Umm maybe she was more upset cause u aren’t using the correct pronoun? Idk just a guess here lmao
@@Xxsorafan unlikely since it was a one on one conversation and I wasn’t using gendered pronouns
Autogynephilia maybe?
I got my first period very young, about 8-9 years old. They were so painful it was hard to walk, I'd get nauseous, faint at times. I was a rough n tumble Tom boy and it would just crumble me. As i got older it got better but i think more due to my pain tolerance increasing with exposure to the pain. I was diagnosed with PCOS at 36 after years of being told by my ex husband that i was a hypochondriac and that i was creating irregular periods with my mind. During the divorce I finally pushed drs and went through a cancer scare and was blessed to find out i don't have cervical cancer and that i do have PCOS. Now im edging into early menopause. Its been a struggle, its been painful, its been scary at times and embarrassing many times getting unexpected very heavy periods and ruining clothes. I work in the construction and had many embarrassing moments on my way to diagnosis. These people are delusional to believe biological males can have a period and i find it offensive. Thank you BW for being a good person and calling this bad behavior out. Thank you!
I hate getting my period. It's messy, it's painful, it's irritating, and can ruin good clothes, and comforters, WHY would anyone want to have periods!? It's like a trans male wanting experience erectile dysfunction? Why?
Facts
I'm a trans man and even I don't want to experience erectile dysfunction. Thats weird to want that. I don't get aunt flo anymore bc I've been on testosterone for over a year.
You forgot embarrassing when it leaks through.
@@kellysouter4381 also having to appear not to be in pain because you still have to go to work.
You really wanna know why? Its because, for most of those pretenders, pretending to have a period is a fetish thing.
The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria.
Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs.
Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
You're right about people doubling down on both sides. Look at these "all ages" drag shows. There was a time not too long ago when people would've easily recognized that these shows weren't kid-friendly. But now, libbed out parents are so concerned about virtue signaling that they are sexualizing their children. Those kids will not get that innocence back, all in the name of "inclusivity" and "acceptance." Heart-breaking. 💔
@@WNT2BLV There is a drag queen who is a contributor for gays against groomers named Kitty Demuir who talks about how this isn't a place for children.
This is so funny to me because so many men have tried “period cramps” & couldn’t go pass the first few levels😂😂
For real
@@tiba2603 and when given use of the same device, women don’t even register that they’re being giving period cramps
Any woman ever tried it to see if it’s accurate?
@@MochiFam yea, I seen a clip where women were doing it and they were fine, it was crazy in comparison
What I think is so funny is that the cramps come from the uterus...not the stomach or ab muscles. So they're just showing that they don't even know how women work😂
As a blind woman the whole Transabled thing frustrates me. I would give anything to be able to see and I found a clip about a woman so proud of herself because she found a psycho doctor to blind her a few years ago.
oh my God. I'm honestly sorry you were exposed to that. People are revolting sometimes.
Why is that a thing? That woman and the doctor are legit insane wtf?? I'm also disabled and the trans-abled thing makes me so mad. I wish my disabilities had a cure 😢 Hope you are doing okay!
"Everyone's Stupid."
SUCH A PERFECT RESPONSE TO THE MADNESS WE SEE IN THIS WORLD.
I seriously love you, Blaire. Thank you for your voice.
I find it so degrading to women how some trans are making a mockary of menstrual cramps and women's sports. Its like they hate bio-women.
love you Blaire! 🥰
I feel like they're trying to create a difference between menstruation and "having a period" when they're the same thing 🤦🏼♀️
Excellent point 👍 they've done that with other words: birthing parent, chest feeding etc.
@@CJ-CANADA also woman, man and now marriage. I don't know why any one would buy a Cambridge Dictionary now.
like the difference between sex and gender? :) lol
They're trying to devalue women's experiences and appropriate some if not all to themselves and that's is NOT RIGHT
@@unisophia sex and gender do have some differences tho. Bc gender also deals with psychology while sex has nothing to do with anything other than biology
“Clowns to the left of me, jokers to the right, here I am, stuck in the middle with you” came to mind when you were talking about feeling like you’re in the middle of all of this craziness.
I'm trans, haven't transitioned yet, hope to soon. However I've been plugged into the conversation for a long time, at least 10-12 years, since I remember some of my earliest memories of using the internet was to research being trans and learning all about it. You are so right when you say that Trans women used to be completely different. They would make fun of this kind of overly delusional stuff and I remember there was never this whole "trans women are women" thing. It was always understood that trans women were men who live the social role of women and transitioned medically and physically to fit that role as much as possible. Nowadays that sort of thinking is just out the window. There was also this general sentiment that Trans people needed a backbone since they were inevitably going to deal with people being awful throughout their lifetime. Now Trans people have no backbone and just bitch and moan to get what they want. I miss the old trans community where it was uplifting and kind but always actually understood what gender dysphoria is. I'm really glad to see someone nowadays still being able to remember that time too.
As a trans man who just recently stopped getting periods and has endometriosis, why would anyone fake/want that? I’ll be the first to stand with trans women, but I don’t see why anyone would fake or sexualize periods, maybe we’re just different
@@DippyFreshhhh A lot of people who claim to be a trans-woman as of now are in fact suffering from autogynephilia (they only dress like women cuz it's just a fetish to them)... I'm an old school lesbian & we dunno what happened to LGBTQ?! Trans people have always existed & the old school trans people do not appreciate the current wave of fake "trans-women" appropriating biological women... As a trans-man, do you go around & tell biological men how to be men? No, you probably don't... That is why so many people have a major problem with these fake "trans-women." They've taken it too far to where it's become a problem... There have literally been ZERO problems with trans-men cuz trans-men are not trying to re-write the rules of society...
Why/how do you think it changed?
You’re awesome! 🫶
I think the overwhelming majority of private trans women (not influencers or wannabe influencers) would also make fun of these lunatics. I’ve never met an adult trans person, in person, who believed that biologically male bodies can get periods. But then again these people who believe biologically male bodies can get periods are also the same people who believe there’s no such think as male/female bodies… which completely eliminates the need for people to transition…. 🤔 the arguments unravel themselves, really. Interesting stuff.
I don't understand why anyone would even want to pretend to have cramps or have their period. It's the most uncomfortable feeling and it sucks. I hate TikTok I can't even go on it anymore. These people need serious help
Right who wants to pretend this weirdo… not to mention that’s not how girls act during periods or cramping we are very discreet and subtle about feeling like a oversized squishy grape who got hit by a freight truck in the middle…. And omg u can’t fake that bottom pressure that seems to defy all logic like tf is that feeling!!!! Who wants to pretend this
@@asiad7175 don't forget your boobs swelling the week before (not sure if that happens with everybody but God it sucks). These people are weirdos
they pretend to have it for views/money/attention but really it's mocking women and offensive.
@@jessicaC8083 yea I try to forget that one lol
Agreed! You guys will love this! All trans men claiming period pain should have to do this once a month:
th-cam.com/video/PuiWm2Lb-hk/w-d-xo.html
Stares in Uterus. NO.
My womanhood is not a costume.
I wouldn't wish my period on ANYONE.
I am a transgender male, I HAVE PERIODS I HAVE A UTERUS! The fact they want a period is crazy to me? Like they are painful and the mood swings are horrible. It's not a flex or anything????
I'm so horrified right now. You explained that estrogen intensifies range and depth to feel emotions if taken for transwomen. So if someone is unstable then taking the estrogen to me would be like pouring gasoline onto a fire. There should be a mental assessment and follow up before handing out this type of hormonal treatment especially if this is something for transpeople to be on for the rest of their lives.
I'm a real biological woman and I stopped taking birth control because of its side effects.
Same!
It aint candy ppl!
I've been hearing studies of it recently. I've been recommended to be on birth control just because I'm more of a hairier female like my mother. I don't get full facial hair, but I'm getting her whiskers.
From what I hear, it can change someone mentally as well as their preferences for a partner (more similar looking people to them while on it). It can affect scent which has its own role in selection.
bc messed me up, too. and i started on it at 24. full consenting adult.
it infuriates me how there's no legitimate long term studies accessible. i feel like they should at least be testing your hormone levels before throwing a pill/patch out at you
There use to be… I remember my Tran-friend had to go thought few years of therapy before they could even go through any kind of Tran process! Let’s get back to that this new woke shii is harmful for Everyone ! It’s dumb and dangerous.
Agreed! I know someone who thought they were trans and was on estrogen the WEEK THEY FINISHED HIGH SCHOOL, and they just got more mentally unstable until last year they attempted s**cide. Thank God they're ok. But they even said to me about a year ago, "I don't think I'm a trans woman" but as far as I know they're still on estrogen despite this (like many detransitionsers before them, they're going down the "non-binary" route). To make matters even worse, they were diagnosed with a bunch of mental issues OVER A YEAR after starting estrogen...This is someone I love dearly so I really am not saying any of this to talk smack, it's just another example of doctors and psychologists COMPLETELY FAILING vulnerable people in our society. It has to stop.
As someone who has had HORRENDOUS periods (aka extremely severe dysmenorrhea) all my life, to the point of passing out from pain/heavy blood loss, throwing up, missing school etc. and planning to have surgery soon to make them lighter because they are completely debilitating & I can't take birth control, this is ridiculous to me. If they had to live ONE day in the shoes of women like myself, they wouldn't be so desperate to menstruate. They carry around pads and tampons like they're some kind of cute accessory. I can guarantee you, if you actually had to use them for your horrible periods, you wouldn't see them as a fun accessory anymore. It is so bizarre to me. Ask any biological woman who has/has had periods. We'd give just about anything not to. And btw, no amount of hormones is going to make a biological man have periods or period symptoms because THEY DON'T HAVE A UTERUS 🙄🙄 I can't believe this is even a discussion or debate, honestly. This trend just fucking baffles me...
EDIT: wow, so many awesome women in these comments! I hate how many of us have these awful periods! Wanted to add a pro tip for my ladies with bad cramps and back paid: TAKE ALEVE!!! It's the best over the counter med for period pain. It has Naproxen in it, which is a prostaglandin inhibitor, and therefore can help period cramps. During your period, your body produces prostaglandins when it breaks down endometrial cells, which can make your uterus contract & therefore restrict the flow of oxygen to your muscles, causing cramps. So Aleve is perfectly designed for period cramps!!! It's WAY better than Tylenol, I promise! It actually used to be a prescription medication, my mom was prescribed it when she was young for her awful periods and she put me onto it! So glad it's over the counter now! Also, don't sleep on heating pads! Invest in one, it's absolutely worth the money! Get one that plugs in so you don't have to constantly keep getting up to heat it in the microwave. Heat dilates the blood vessels to increase blood flow, which can help sore/tight muscles relax. And it just feels so nice! Between those two things, I think it could really be a game changer for y'all, ESPECIALLY THE ALEVE!!! But do NOT exceed more than 3 pills a day, so spread them out! Hope this is helpful! Much love ❤️❤️❤️
Its just gas and stomach cramping caused by the hormonal imbalance they're inflicting on themselves. Mood fluctuation can also be caused by hormonal imbalance. Wanting to fart is not a period thought.
The rest is placebo or lying because they want to be part of the thing and.... A whole lot of fetichism.
The autogenyphilia is out of control in the trans community. The ones getting off on playacting a degenerate male Idea of womanhood are more numerous than the ones suffering from dysphoria.
Autogenyphilia/AGP means getting off on pretending to be female or being treated as a woman. Like stealing or wearing underwear or skimpy clothes, being a "Sissy" - being degraded and sexually used by males and called slurs.
Or being in female spaces and being adresses as a woman. Even infiltrating women support groups and getting off on imagining themselves as rape victims (yes, they do that). And.... Period fetish is one of them. A trans woman even went further and playacted a whole pregnancy and stillbirth with a doll, infiltrating Facebook pregrancy groups to rollplay thé whole charade (the women in the fb group were very weirded out but many thought it was a dysphoria/suffering thing because they dont know Its a fetish). Its fucking repulsive and i've seen all those above examples.
I agree. I just got my uterus out due to blood clots passing, bigger than my hand snd they would pass painfully. My uterus couldn't take it anymore that I bled 2months straight. Hence why they took it out as I was bleeding out slowly. It is not fun being a woman we literally earned being female. People with dysphoria are getting out of hand and it needs to stop.
@@natashalovett7134same. Blood clots the size of lemons, maybe one week a month NOT bleeding. Saying good-bye to tampons and pads (since I’d have to use both and would still bleed through at times) after my hysterectomy was one of the most liberating and joyful experiences in my life. They think they’re fun “girl toys”. They aren’t.
@@natashalovett7134 that is horrible
I hope you are better now
@@k.stacey7389 damn I hope you are better now as well
If that person was indeed having cramps, they need to talk to their doctor about it. Stomach cramps that bad on HRT is NOT a good thing! It's frightening they don't have the full knowledge of accurate side effects about the medications they're taking and then romanticize a side effect that can be FIXED.
I suffered with endometriosis for 15 years. Had surgery twice and then finally a hysterectomy at 38. I resent anybody playacting that they are suffering with something they clearly are imagining or playacting.
He was probably constipated and having gas pains.
this person wasn’t at all in pain. it was just s piece of embarrassingly bad acting, nothing more.
@@jamba622 I started getting really bad cramping after I had my daughter. It's horrible. But it's definitely not the same as the stomach /abdominal cramping this person MIGHT be experiencing. Women who require HRT can also get this side effect and it has (obviously) nothing to do with PMS. It's alarming that they weren't told about these possible effects and that they shouldn't happen.
@@snowps1 Could be, or could be the side effect women can also have on HRT for medical reasons (but understand the difference in pain). The fact they are pretending it's PMS and fetishising it is annoying.
Period cramps are definitely not the same as having a tummy ache 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
And I am SOOO thankful i don't have a period anymore. Anyone that WANTS to have periods and bleed every month are 1,000% insane.
I suffer from endometriosis and PCOS. I would love to see these nutcases to go through that pain for 15 days straight! My record was 21 days.
I try to tell people that PCOS exists and is a thing.. so when people base someone's "womanhood" based off their reproduce ability alone I'm like.. ok..
But as well, PCOS is a hormonal imbalance. Imagine not being able to cure or even alleviate PCOs (I don't think it is a "cure" type of thing) because of the batshit insane legislature that's coming out lately??? All it does it make things harder for real people with real problems... like hopefully you're old enough to get the hormones you need for dealing with PCOS
Part of me wants to see them put on a "cramping simulator". 12 times a year.... lol a period is a lot longer than a day a month. Just wow.
These transwomen only have periods after turning on their webcam. As soon as the few minutes for their tiktok is over the cramps are gone.
Every period I've had after giving birth to all three of my children we're absolutely horrific and painful. Curled up in the fetal position crying. Why would anyone want that?
F*tlsh.
Usually that means you're hormones are off, if cramps are bad and you have heavy blood flow. You might want to go to the Doctor and make sure your ok! 🌻🌷🌻🙏🏻👍🏻
@@stardustgirl2904 or that's just what the first period after having a baby is like
@@inkedxbabydoll I have had four son's and I never experienced that,but I guess everyone is different! 🌻
@@stardustgirl2904 your first period after not having one for months wasn't extremely painful cramps?
That was Awesome! 😂 "Take a Sh*t sounds like you're backed up." My Mom really needed a smile today, so thank you for that!🤩
I cannot get over this 😂 cramps aren't caused by hormones! Cramps are in the uterus and are caused by the shedding of the uterine lining 🤣 if you don't have a uterus, you might be cramping but it's not your hormones and you probably just need to pass gas
Actually the same chemical that causes some menstrual cramping causes diarrhea, which is why a lot of women get increasingly terrible diarrhea during thier periods. If trans identified males are taking HRT, they may be producing more of that chemical than they normally would, and a gender affirmative doctor may be telling them thier gastrointestinal distress is similar enough to period cramping that they can say it's the same. I personally think that's awful medical advice, but I think that's a part of gender affirmative medicine 🤷♀️.
I suggested on another comment section these people need to drink mint tea.
@@erinlikesacornishpasty4703 NO the shedding of the lining specifically CAUSES prostaglandin buildup aka the hormone-like acid that causes period diarrhea, not the other way around. Also if hrt caused periods women would be menstruating 24/7, as trans women have normal levels of estrogen, periods are caused by not only low levels of estrogen but also higher levels of testosterone which trans women on hrt do not produce. Now outside factors can cause high levels of prostaglandins but that can only happen if the uterus is already shedding. I'm so fed up and offended with this whole discourse (not you in general).
@@frizmagnet2246 I understand. I'm not sure you understood what I was saying. I'm pretty sure we agree, but you're looking for someone to have an argument with. I was just pointing out that women often have cramping that isn't just uterine cramping, but IS gastrointestinal, and that males also get gastrointestinal cramping. As another person suggested, peppermint tea helps 🤷♀️. Additionally males who identify as women and get bottom surgery most likely experience a lot of that type of cramping because they literally have neovaginas created out of thier colons. It sounds absolutely hellish. I personally would prefer suffering from the mental distress of gender dysphoria than have those particular complications.
@UCk68sJBfosyAZFBpPTk4tJg ok, well as I said, I agree with you. And I know estrogen isn't the chemical that causes gastrointestinal distress. I supposed I believed it was possible males also make the same or similar chemicals because they too experience gastrointestinal distress, but you explained that women who get gastrointestinal cramping get it because of a chemical exclusively produced by females, which I did not disagree with because that makes sense. I was told by a doctor that my gastrointestinal distress during a period was normal and no different than any other gastrointestinal cramping so I suppose I assumed it wasn't really female specific 🤷♀️. Did you understand that I was trying to say that gender affirmative care isn't good medical care for just that reason?
I just got more period products from the store the other day because I was almost out of them and they were so expensive. It’s sad how this trend is so normalized when there’s so many women who can’t afford period products nor access them.
If you use tampons, I highly recommend natural sea sponges. Reusable & so much more comfortable, can be fit to size.
@Lauren ORourke EXACTLY! That crap is expensive and I’m tired of seeing period products go to waste! Like how about instead of playing with medical supplies as if they’re toys, they DONATE it to women’s and homeless shelters. But they won’t do that😒they need content for TikTok😂
Psst, I totally recommend period panties if you have a light-to-mid flow. Or if you tend to spot for a while afterwards. They’re way more comfortable and you don’t need to keep buying pads. (I personally still get tampons for when I’m heavy/just in case but I don’t use them as much anymore.)
I am a 42 year old WOMAN who had a hysterectomy 7 years ago... Doc prescribed estrogen (since they took my ovaries) and I don't have cramps or periods anymore because I don't have a uterus!!! This shit is getting so bizarre and WHERE DID THEY ALL COME FROM??? 🤦🏼
I'm a trans man and my cycle stopped happening a long time ago now, and let me tell you - men have NO idea how lucky they are to wake up every day without ever bleeding, cramping, feeling like theyre going to sh*t themselves or throw up. And , at least for me, that was the EASY part of having a cycle, the worst part was the mood swings - the crippling suicidal depression on the days leading up to it. The weight fluctuations. It's not just 'a period', it's a whole 28 day hormonal cycle that changes your mood, energy levels, sometimes even your sexuality, and is vastly different to the 24 hour cycle a bio male has. They have it so, so easy, and don't and will never understand. And to add, bio women won't realise how much it affects them unless they happen to be trans and go on T like I did.
thank you for saying this, truly!
I've had a trans woman saying to me she wished she had periods and I'm still like "BRUH NO YOU DON'T BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THAT IS"
On the transabled thing, when I was a school kid there was a girl we were convinced was using crutches and faking a sprained ankle for a week just for attention. This is it. It's the attention.
"I've been getting these awful stomach cramps" bestie period cramps are in the uterus LMFAO
That's what I'm thinking. I'm a Biological male, and so I can confirm that all he needed to do was take a shit.
The story about the protester in Iran that was in his early 20s and hung as punishment, made me bawl my eyes out. It’s just a quick reminder that many people out there are built stronger than most. This young person knew that the penalty for speaking out could lead to death, and still continued to speak out for what was right anyways 😭 I feel a combination of Intense pride & broken heartedness. I’ll make sure to count my blessings in life & not take my freedoms for granted moving forward.
This should be top comment.
My family is from Iran. The US has its issues but I'm so grateful that we moved here. A lot of people in the US take our freedoms for granted.
If ghosts exist, I hope he went and haunt all of them before move on.
“Take a shit! Sounds like you’re backed up!” Lmfao i freaking love you Blaire 😂😂😂 you’re so funny
"My constipation *IS* my period! Waaaah!"
“Everyone’s stupid.”
I love you Blaire 😂
Yea i remember in middle school, a girl in my class got her period & she wasn’t prepared at all… she left every seat bloody & tied her jacket around her waist … by mid day the inner lining was sagging past the outer lining & literally dragging on the floor…. I was SO embarrassed for her… horrified…. But also confused as to why she didn’t do something…. Like make a pad out of TP or Paper towel… go to the nurse… I don’t know.. she was only there 1/2 the day… so maybe that’s why… but boy… I’ll never forget that….
Those are one of a kind experiences & worries that men know nothing of…. I hate the woman face stuff… honestly… I’m all outta tolerance
Poor girl was probably too scared to ask for help and didnt have supplies to deal. I was luckily thirteen when my endometriosis was symptomatic, but still its hell and I have to be on IUD to prevent more endometriomas from growing inside me. :(
And why are we constantly imposed on to have tolerance and patience when these types are so disrespectful to us? It feels like being slapped across the face again and again and then screamed at with white hot rage by a dollar store psycho if we tell them they hurt us. Or the full creepy Dylan and Jeffreys tell us in a patronising tone, that we have no right to feel upset and we're being transphobic and only their feelings matter.
Trying to be compassionate to those who are truly lost in their own body is hard when you get those in the group that claim to be women but at every hurdle degrade, insult and mock what it is to be a biological woman. But I think you’re amazing Blaire for being a true representative of trans and being a voice for those who are getting silenced. The trans community need more people like you who actually live in the real world ❤️
I appreciate you so much Blaire. I’m usually quite liberal but have moved center because I can’t stand how crazy the extremes have gotten on all sides of politics. Thanks for opening my mind to acceptance of truly trans people and seeing the difference between people like you and the others masquerading. Thank you again.
I just can't stand other liberals... 😂 I definitely can't stand Republicans... Libertarians are crazy... Touche
I’m center too (:
Same.
Same I used to be a huge SJW on tumblr 2011-2015 era and now I literally cant stand the left as well as the right I hate all of it and theyre all insane
I used to feel like I was very liberal. I’m definitely more center, slightly left
Also the exercise, my husband got Covid. I was worried he wasn’t gonna make it. I read that outdoor exercise will help symptoms. Granted my husband was on the verge of death, we are not talking man cold, I men I was scared. I made him get up every 2 hours and walk outside. The next day he was at least 25% better, and every day he just kept getting better and was able to walk farther and farther! I’m totally saying that the outdoor exercise was what saved his life
I’ve also heard of studies on sunlight, both the vitamin D-stimulating afternoon ultraviolet and the clothes-penetrating morning and evening near-infrared radiation, having beneficial effects on recovery; so yes, those outdoor walks were probably therapeutic in multiple ways!
I don’t think I was as bad as your husband, but I too found sun basking and getting outside even just to walk a small circle to be an important part of my covid recovery.
Thank you for saying what cis women can’t. I LOVE supporting people finding their happiness, but this feels like a mockery of what women deal with. Being a woman isn’t about nail polish and tampons. I could go on forever about the unique experiences women face but you’re doing a pretty good job of it already. Thank you!
Females can say it, the problem is that we let grow the presumption that only LGBTQ people can provide opinions about gender, sexuality and sex. EVERYONE have a gender, sex and sexual preference, and everybody can provide opinions about those themes.
Stop calling yourself a cis woman for a start
Why can't we say it?
Yup!
@@PL-up5ig last time I checked we honor free speech here
As an female Iranian American who is bisexual, your take on this was so perfect, it’s seriously makes me so happy someone understands
yes same
Blaire is literally the voice of reason.
I agree wholeheartedly. But I saw this comment while she was talking about getting into a fist fight on spirit airlines.
@@patricgillespie2128 lmfao 😂
She doesn't know much about covid, but other than that..
You mean the voice of a man
If you were able to sit through more than 3 minutes of her ramblings, you are a more patient person than me.
I’m at the point where I think it is protective to my emotions and mental health to just ignore mostly all trans people. It’s just so offensive to women!
I don’t disagree, it’s just sad right? It’s gotten so crazy, we are going backwards with acceptance, and that sucks.
Blaire tried to warn the trans community that this ridiculous behavior would push people away and she was right!
It’s sad that this is what happened. They are people also. And I pray most of them are not like this (the weirdos)…. But it’s not looking like that these days. I think you should give everyone a chance before deciding to ignore them though. They could be a great person unlike the freaks regardless of being different.
as a Trans Woman I find it ridiculous that some Trans Women pretend that they experienced menstruation. Yeah I get it.. they are curious but faking it just makes them and the rest look bad. it's embarrassing to say the least.
The only trans I will follow is blaire. And of course the trans comedians from Thailand 😂
If a trans woman is cramping/bleeding, prob should seek medical attention.. must have busted a stitch or need a smaller dilator… 🧐
Its probably hemmorhoids
@@karen5916 ok karen
@@Xxsorafan How’s your grande triple shot espresso caramel Frappuccino, Bethany?
@@karen5916 not the same without pumpkin spice :(
@@Xxsorafan that’s very true 😩
“We won a WAR so we didn’t have to care about the ROYALS.” KILLED ME
I work in children's mental health.
On cloth masks, I have noticed an increase in young girls wearing them to cover their faces when they either didn't have time for makeup in the morning or if they don't like their faces. It's tragic in its own way
Before covid I wore masks occasionally if I had a big zit or something
it was such a comfort when i was in classes
The semi-anonymity can be nice.
This hurt so much to read. 😔
I bought one last year to hide a sore on my lip.
••watching this while experiencing major cramps (endometriosis) I feel like my ovaries are going to fall out and razor blades are being dragged around my insides. Now I just want to PUNCH my tv. Thanks Blaire for keeping it real.
Stage 3 endo, sorry you have it too.
I had surgery for it...its everything you said and more🤢
@@candace3493 Ty! Same to you !
@@JackieBlue838 I haven’t been a candidate yet.. so now I’m just waiting on menopause! Lol glad you got rid yourself of this curse!
at 30.55, the absolute ignorance of thinking women have 1 day per month that they have to deal with period pain! There’s pre menstruation pain, actual period pain then ovulation pain plus many other instances in between these times. Only 1 day per month (or 12 days per year) - where do I sign up?
also, I’m guessing the ‘pain’ they are feeling is a side effect of the oestrogen they’re taking (stomach pain), it happens to women on HRT too, they probably need their dose adjusting x
"If I have to do thise every month, I am going to be So. UPSET! I have to power through???"
Um... yeah.... We women have had to do it by the time we were at least twelve years old, and will ALWAYS be having EVERY. SINGLE. GOD. DAMN MONTH.... until in our forties or fifties... And we have to power through.... We have to smile and bear. We have to take painkillers and stash extra pads or tampons in our bags and purses and pray that they're enough for the day. You will not understand the ANXIETY... The almost *FEAR* in realizing we are low on our stashes and need to buy more... PRAYING our brand or size is still in stock.
I realize Blair is so awesome and she serves as a wonderful example that no, not all trans women act like this. She is the only reason I can't truly say I hate all trans. Blair is amazing, and I hate Extremists and stupid trans women behaving in such misogynistic manners.
Not only i experience painful periods each month where im an emotional mess, have mood swings, have cramps in my stomach, legs and AASHOLE, eat like a pig and cry, i also experience PMS week before. Pimples all over face, mood swings, irritability, swollen boobs and depression. So basically i'm only "ok' for 2 weeks each month. No, YOU DO NOT WANT A PERIOD.
OMG the asshole pain!! And period poops AND the period poops feeling HOT because my internal temperature is like the belly of a volcano and I'm hot and sweaty 😭
whoa, that sounds terrible. I usually just get a really bad migraine for 2 days which also sucks (sometimes I need to throw up because the pain is that intense) but at least it´s not this... I´m sorry that this is your experience.
I feel for you going through this, I am a mom of three adult daughters, my youngest daughter suffered really bad like you describe. She found ( after a lot of trial and error) that evening primrose oil helped. And then when she got a bit older ( she is a nurse) she did a lot of research into it and now takes an anti depressant ( serlan/ seretraline) at a 25mg dose for two weeks each month before her period ( from ovulation day to period day). She has said she finds this life changing and can function better. I just wanted to pass on this to you, of course everything needs to be ok with a Doctor. But if you dont want to go down that route, I highly recommend evening primrose oil capsules. 💖
Oh, those shooting pains down my thighs! I don’t miss that!
I’ve had absolutely terrible menstrual cramps since I was 16 - I’m 41 now. Several months ago I started taking Nigella Sativa (black cumin seed) oil - organic,cold pressed, & unfiltered, it should be dark & thick. Shake the bottle well before using, them take a teaspoon orally daily. You can take up to 3 teaspoons, ideally 1tsp 3x a day, especially of you have other health issues, inflammation or any kind of infection. You can take it only during your period - 1tsp every 12hrs - but it’s better to take it more often as it helps with not just cramps but hormones, skin, hair & more. It’s seriously a miracle. It’s the only thing I’ve found to cure 90% of my cramps. I had to take ultra high dose ibuprofen & the strongest opiates before, for the record! Nothing else helped at all. Now I only need the NS oil & sometimes a little ibuprofen. My fertility has been boosted too. Everyone I’ve recommended it to has benefited as well, so I highly recommend everyone with any of the aforementioned issues check it out.
I’m posting this in reply to any relevant comments but it’s not spam. I hope someone is helped by this info.