Handling Verbal Abuse From Children
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 มิ.ย. 2024
- Nowadays, children are becoming more and more aggressive towards their parents if they don't get their way. In this video, I'll share essential parenting tips for handling verbal abuse from children and what you can do to effectively fix this behavior!
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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government
Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
00:45 Rising Trends In Parent-Child Relationships
02:09 How Entitlement Encourages Verbal Abuse From Children
03:04 Negative Effects Of Coddling Children
04:20 How Children Are Becoming More Disrespectful & Close-Minded
06:16 How Children Are Being Trained To Be Emotional & Combative
07:33 How To Avoid Power Struggles With Your Child
08:51 Helpful Resources For Parents
11:01 4 Basic Self-Government Skills To Teach Children
12:28 Importance Of Calmness For Parents & Children
13:36 Benefits Of Learning How To Drop A Subject
14:43 Benefits Of Learning How To Disagree Appropriately
15:35 Learn More About Calm Parenting
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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?
Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system - Teaching Self-Government - can help you turn chaos into calm.
"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.
Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.
In 2009, Nicholeen and her husband starred in the BBC reality TV show, “The World’s Strictest Parents”. She became an overnight sensation by turning around two out-of-control teenagers from England after just one week - without shouting, threats or manipulation. Her amazing success comes from the positive parenting techniques of using calmness, effective communication and principles of self-government.
Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.
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“My husband and I have started implementing some of your techniques, and our house has been so different!”
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“I feel that my children respect me more. I will be eternally grateful for what I have learned from Nicholeen Peck.”
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“If you want to forge the strongest family bonds possible, to repair damaged relationships, and redeem a child that seems completely lost, then this program IS for you.”
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This is a great course for adults that don’t even have kids. Tons of adults out there that their parents never taught them how to self govern themselves and this is great education. Never too late to learn to be a better person
As someone who’s in education, ultimately, I believe the disrespect increase goes much deeper. Technology has greatly taken over our lives.
Parents are addicted to phones and so are children. Children are so desensitized that to everything. Parents are stressed out with the current living situation, they don’t want to deal with their children when they get home, so they just give in and give them the tablet. Children act out and get their way, it’s a learned behavior from parents.
This is a way all too common occurrence nowadays
Great thoughts! Absolutely agree. I've seen that many parents simply don't have the skills needed to communicate effectively (to themselves and their children/family), so they resort to emotional reaction (waiting for it to happen to take care of it) and conflict evasion instead of acting in a calm, consistent, predictable way. Acting out is definitely a learned behavior, but calmness can be a learned behavior also, if parents are willing to adopt it.
teachingselfgovernment.com/calm-parenting-toolkit/
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I’ve just discovered your channel a few days ago and love it!
You are amazing even with if I struggle to understand all steps
I ordered your book to at least start with something
I’m really amazed at how much you have changed over the years 😊 you lost so much weight! Amazing
I hope that it goes along with greater health 🌞 I am a nutrition specialist but parenting is the whole different subject 😂 thank you for your work
Thank you so much! I'm so glad that you're getting a good start. And yes! Lots of good changes with my weight! We discovered it was a hormonal imbalance and took the necessary steps from there.
You're welcome!
I can’t believe you’re not more popular. I love this so much!!
Well, I only have so much control over my popularity. :) I'm so glad you enjoyed the video!
You just said something controversial! Tell me why people are always talking about the entitlement of kids but never where they learn it from 😹 this is a fantastic point. Parents are 'allowed' to be entitled and they pass that attitude right to their kids. It's definitely not just about socialization although entitled kids can rub off on other kids the bigger problem is parents being or excusing entitlement themselves
Gabriel said, "Inform me about the Hour." He (the Prophet) said, "About that the one questioned knows no more than the questioner." So, he said, "Well, inform me about its signs." He said, "They are that the slave-girl will give birth to her mistress…”
it is a metaphor towards the widespread of disobedient children who mistreated their parents just like the treatment of a master towards his slave.
So good! We’ll said!
I am really enjoying reading your book Roles. How do you handle the steps when the interaction is over the phone?
Amen!!
What do you do about a teen who will not look at you and either goes silent or goes up to their room and damages his hand because he hits the wall?
Great question! I have a few other videos that address specific skills and principles to help teens (and people in general):
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They needs skills and consistent correction, as well as calmness in themselves and in their parents.
I hope these help!
What do you do when you have an ex spouse and Grandmother who spoils and rewards the bad behavior? My ex hates me and tells my kids he wishes I would die so he can get them a new mother. How do you deal with a toxic ex spouse and a toxic mother spoiling my kids when they behave bad?