Why bad things happen to good people | Buddhism In English I Inner Guide Special Video

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  • @darshanad10
    @darshanad10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3478

    The best revenge is no revenge. Just forget they exist.😊Don't take revenge.Let karma do all the works 😊.Never give up great things take time.👍Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @na-ra8701
      @na-ra8701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      Wise man man once said, don't take revenge, rotten fruits will fall by themselves,that's what I remembered when I read your comment😊

    • @darshanad10
      @darshanad10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@na-ra8701 Everything will fall into place.Be patient.Silence is sometimes the best answer.😊👍

    • @na-ra8701
      @na-ra8701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@darshanad10 definitely. Patience is a virtue❤

    • @darshanad10
      @darshanad10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Great things take time.Bro just believe in yourself. 👍😊

    • @gerardzabalza4894
      @gerardzabalza4894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Let karma do it? Forgive it,there are beautiful words .How and to whom are you going to say this?People in painful existence(mourning a daughter whose been raped and killed by bad guys in one Western country)Just tell them to forgive? They will look at you weirdly? And you will be lucky if no-one takes a pump shot gun, and run after you.🌹 🕉🙏

  • @thekagifret
    @thekagifret ปีที่แล้ว +407

    If you focus on the pain, you will start to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will grow 💕🌸

    • @priyankapriya4636
      @priyankapriya4636 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Tq u so much 😄 this inspires me to be better bcz I gone through so much bad and negative experiences since my childhood, bcz people comparing me with my younger sister in everything

    • @ebazileyes1475
      @ebazileyes1475 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      First tou have to know what thr lesson is. Lesson don't miraculously say hey " I am the lesson". People go through a lot in life and still have no idea why can't see the reason or lessons. Maybe others can that too depends how your mind operate, belief, faith etc

    • @Robert47779
      @Robert47779 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@priyankapriya4636

    • @bernadettekelly8165
      @bernadettekelly8165 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen ❤❤❤❤

    • @LUX_BXDDIEE-dg2qm
      @LUX_BXDDIEE-dg2qm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Deep man ❤
      :) you’re very right! 💕

  • @MsMochakiss123
    @MsMochakiss123 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    I was crying when I listened to this. My husband broke my heart after loving him faithfully. I asked myself, why me?! Thank you for sharing this video. Thank you for enlightening my mind.

    • @adishegokar
      @adishegokar ปีที่แล้ว +12

      everything is gonna be fine. god is with you.❤

    • @MsMochakiss123
      @MsMochakiss123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adishegokar thank you

    • @shantachopra7267
      @shantachopra7267 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very nicely explained

    • @chithranair890
      @chithranair890 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Don't worry dear everything will be fine... Some people come to our life to teach us great lessons.. Life is uncertain everyone has their own struggles... So be happy and take life as it is let us focus on what we have let us be more great full so that more good things will happen in our life.. Trust me..

    • @deepikanarasimha6009
      @deepikanarasimha6009 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes .my husband after 21years is hurting me so deeply😢i don't know what to do😢

  • @meerabsohail8889
    @meerabsohail8889 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    *_I'm a pure muslim, and i respect all the religions, i really appreciated your style of motivating others_*
    Thnx a lot sir 😊

    • @bapibapi61
      @bapibapi61 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thanks To U sir.... Respect for Ur Thinking

    • @meerabsohail8889
      @meerabsohail8889 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bapibapi61 *Welcome dear but I'm not a sir* 😁😊

    • @bapibapi61
      @bapibapi61 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@meerabsohail8889 this type of thinking deserve a Title Sir

    • @meerabsohail8889
      @meerabsohail8889 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bapibapi61 *wow, THANKS bro* 😁

    • @ansilajaleel4246
      @ansilajaleel4246 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😌🙌🙌🙌

  • @darshanad10
    @darshanad10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1276

    What HURTS you today makes you STRONGER tomorrow.😊❤We all here for reason.Stop being a prisoner of your past😊.Become the architect of your future.Always try to be positive in any situation.😊👍Namo buddha .🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @7660jk
    @7660jk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +938

    Words are easy to be said. Who is going through it knows how difficult it is.

  • @dash_knowledge_1M
    @dash_knowledge_1M ปีที่แล้ว +263

    I am a hindu guy but i really love the way of his explanation , and after hearing one of his teachings I get my energy charged. Thank you Guruji.

    • @jeewanbhatt5741
      @jeewanbhatt5741 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am also Hindu bro I always heard him because he is only merrar of the bhudaa

    • @baburamkc7189
      @baburamkc7189 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too ✋️

    • @krishnapriyasoorajkumar9465
      @krishnapriyasoorajkumar9465 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes , that's true

    • @engineeringka14da
      @engineeringka14da 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Likewise

    • @leekc2574
      @leekc2574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A good doctrine or concept should be applicable to all humanity, irregardless of race, religion.....

  • @afghanatheist813
    @afghanatheist813 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    Guys I am ex Muslim but I really love Budisim 🙏 oh soo sweet Dharma ❤️ love from Afghanistan 🙏 namo Buddhay

    • @jeewanbhatt5741
      @jeewanbhatt5741 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love you bro you are loyal and party people I think

    • @thep.sakdaintnanchai1993
      @thep.sakdaintnanchai1993 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      🌿⚘🌿from Thailand💐

    • @praxd9778
      @praxd9778 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Welcome to the world of freedom and liberation! Hope you are safe wherever you are.

    • @tharushaliyanage-cw9vf
      @tharushaliyanage-cw9vf ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats because u hve buddhism hidden in ur genes over generations.❤ Afghanistan was a buddhist country 😢

    • @shusambarua4196
      @shusambarua4196 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bro!Once Afghanistan was jewel of the Dhamma. Namo Buddhay from Bangladesh

  • @singhachang7630
    @singhachang7630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    1) Life is unfair
    2) You will grow through what you go through
    3) Focus on the positive.
    Thank you very much for helping us to get through life without giving up.

    • @NNA1984
      @NNA1984 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sometimes life is fair, sometimes life is not. Over generalization is not correct.

    • @plaguedoctorblackmaskx8489
      @plaguedoctorblackmaskx8489 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life is unfair i think it's because of these four countries America, Israel, Russia And China. Nobody should love Israel. Everyone should love Iran over Israel.

    • @stephaniejordan9066
      @stephaniejordan9066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is true

  • @norlanylaniog5142
    @norlanylaniog5142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    I am Roman Catholic but i love watching & listening to your video, good motivation in life. Thank you🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️.

    • @akakikundaolivia2993
      @akakikundaolivia2993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Catholic as well

    • @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441
      @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല.
      എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും?
      ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.

    • @adhi2826
      @adhi2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 Kazhinjo?? Ithokke english il ezhuthiyal alle ayalk manasilakoo

    • @thegospelmessenger1corinth634
      @thegospelmessenger1corinth634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Norlany Laniog - how to be saved?
      Romans 1:16 - King James Version
      16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. (The Letter of Paul to the Romans)
      Romans 5 - King James Version
      18 Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life. (offence of one - Adam's one trespass, one sin, led to the condemnation of all men - the righteousness act of one was Jesus' death on the cross to pay for human sin)
      Salvation is not getting your sins forgiven, it's believing they already are!
      We are all sinners and fall short in God his glory - how to be saved - this is the gospel of salvation - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4 by trusting and believing the gospel of salvation you are saved and sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise till the day of redemption and nothing can pluck you out of the Father his hand - (In whom we have redemption through his blood , even the forgiveness of sins: (Colossians 1:14 - King James Version) - eternal security is a free gift - it's a promise and God Almighty cannot lie!!! Have a blessed day!
      This is the gospel of salvation - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4
      Witnesses of Christ's resurrection. 1) Moreover,brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2) ''By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4) And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures.
      IT IS FINISHED... Paid in Full !!! But, You Must BELIEVE IT - 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV.
      2 Timothy 2
      King James Version
      15 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
      Romans 2:16
      King James Version
      16 In the day when God shall judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ according to my gospel. (Paul's Gospel - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4).
      KJV - Bible verses about Jesus is God
      John 1:1 - In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
      John 1:14 - And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.
      John 10:30 - I and my Father are one.
      Isaiah 9:6 - For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.
      John 20:28 - And Thomas answered and said unto him, My Lord and my God.
      John 8:58 - Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Before Abraham was, I am.
      For solid bible study please visit 'Truth Time Radio' - learn the truth and unlearn the lies!

    • @angelofgod5418
      @angelofgod5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This man will be better for the people if he only he discovered JESUS the One and True Living God...

  • @nilukshianuththara7982
    @nilukshianuththara7982 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    තෙරුවන් සරනයි 🙏🙏🙏🙏
    I'm buddhist.I'm from srilanka ❤️🇱🇰
    So I'm very happy about it .🙏

  • @nanasang9976
    @nanasang9976 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I am a Roman Catholic but i really love and listen your teaching... Thank you brother.

    • @Blessedbyuniverse77
      @Blessedbyuniverse77 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This teacher is a buddhist monk . So let's call him " bhanthe " . It's more respectable .😊😊

    • @SUBHARATHITV
      @SUBHARATHITV ปีที่แล้ว

      It is not problem

  • @pavithravijayan6683
    @pavithravijayan6683 2 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    whenever I asked my mom why always we suffer when people doing wrong enjoy their lives happily and my mother used to reply that it's because God loves us so he is making us stronger. When she left the world her words helped me and I always said to myself God is making me stronger. And yes it made me strong Always beleive that the bad days are making you stronger because you are his creation

    • @deepikashrivastava2098
      @deepikashrivastava2098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Is your life better now?

    • @deepar2226
      @deepar2226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mom chose the wrong path as she wanted to enjoy and wronged me.i told her i didnt want to be like her and left her

    • @RS-sr6nu
      @RS-sr6nu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Satyakee Sarkar Hinduism is not a religion. It's just a culture.

    • @smartthink3035
      @smartthink3035 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tq😊

    • @annarasmus8737
      @annarasmus8737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pffffttttttt

  • @tishanidewmini6428
    @tishanidewmini6428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    "Bring your focus from the negativity to the positivity and don't expect the fairness from this unfair life" Thank you so much
    NAMO BUDDHA YA

    • @hinashah1288
      @hinashah1288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is also negative thought 💭 bcz if we see life is good we see positive things and we see it is unfair life then we will not grow and not move to good things

    • @travelfoodandfun....withru1112
      @travelfoodandfun....withru1112 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      there is so many things to learn from this video.... Namo Buddha

    • @sliva7938
      @sliva7938 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Re your first sentence - so, live under the bridge with a bottle of booze and be happy? How convenient for the governments.

  • @georgiaramirez4484
    @georgiaramirez4484 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    This is what I needed this time. I hardly accept people do bad things to me when I had done many good deeds to them. I hardly get good sleep thinking why these are happening. With your teachings I am starting to let go and be positive. I know God will bless me abundantly maybe not now but just wait. I thank you for waking me up and accept the reality of life and continue to moving on with God beside me.

    • @MeditationWithElsa
      @MeditationWithElsa ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi! Have you watched his video about how to deal with toxic people? 😊

    • @SweetUniverse
      @SweetUniverse ปีที่แล้ว

      May life's abundance be yours 🙏🙏🙏

    • @a.s2118
      @a.s2118 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't expect god to bless you or you may be disappointed again ❤

  • @blackberrybunny
    @blackberrybunny 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am an American, and we are worlds apart when it comes to our heritage and ethnicity. Regardless, wonderfully, your teachings, the words you use, your gestures and expressions, and the way you tell these teachings are so beautiful that sometimes you literally make me cry. I am going through one of the hardest times of my life. I just lost my Mom. She died two days before Christmas. I am blind, and have no siblings, and am so overwhelmed and confused and I don't know what to do. I try to watch one of your videos every day to motivate me to keep going. I send love to you. Lovingkindness. And wholehearted "thank you"s over and over. You are helping me spark happiness every day through my grief.

  • @sangeetanair3643
    @sangeetanair3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    "Learn to Let go" to be happy.. Nothing is permanent

  • @mr2gbffyt735
    @mr2gbffyt735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Life is like a book
    When we are reading a book
    We go through sad chapters
    We go through happy chapters
    We go through adventures chapters
    But if someone met a sad chapters and he stopped reading that book and keep it away because it was a sad chapter
    You cannot enjoy the whole essence of the book
    Life is also like that
    When we are living our life there will be happy chapters
    There will be sad chapters of our life and also there will be adventurous chapters
    But if we stop in the sad chapters
    Of our life what will happen
    We will never make our life successfull

    • @rebinalaishram7867
      @rebinalaishram7867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life is like a journey we go through many roads up and down ,, tragedy accident death heaven , hell is the destination

    • @jacquelinehillson9589
      @jacquelinehillson9589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Some people’s life don’t have any happy chapters, it just so happens that perhaps ours have, we only think in the context of our life’s naturally, or the majority, it’s not true for everyone sadly.

    • @erasedshallbehisname5100
      @erasedshallbehisname5100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jacquelinehillson9589 Thanks for acknowledging us who don't, in difference to 99,9% of all the comments here.

  • @vikingsailorboy
    @vikingsailorboy ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This guy is beautiful inside and out. Cutest smile and dimples. Plus most importantly, his heart and soulful wisdom.

    • @bessk8847
      @bessk8847 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hes the most chill monk ❤

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He is very handsome to me

  • @zindagilive7620
    @zindagilive7620 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I m going thru a v v difficult time in my life.. I suffrd domestic and emotional abuse frm my husband and inlaws from last 2 year's.. but now I hv decided to get out of it.. enough is enough.. God gv me the strength to live a respectful life ND financially independent.. your words are gvng me healing n strength

    • @spiritualworld3947
      @spiritualworld3947 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/RBoW_iCa-0c/w-d-xo.html

    • @chippyflippy
      @chippyflippy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There definately comes a point when enough is enough. How are things with you now? 🙏

  • @simmisimmi8942
    @simmisimmi8942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Nothing is in our control from birth to death...but sometimes it's difficult to find the ray of hope....

    • @febee5285
      @febee5285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes .

    • @mnayak9348
      @mnayak9348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Keep doing right thing then whatever happens. Expectation from life is uncertain so why worry

    • @namehere4954
      @namehere4954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We 100% control our perspective (thoughts/emotions) of events. You choose the world you see. You don't need to find hope, you need to find acceptance. Finding hope is saying I reject reality and want it to be different - well it may never be different. YOU need to be different not reality.

    • @flirtyflo6216
      @flirtyflo6216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And you can't even escape with suicide if there's an afterlife.

    • @12347873
      @12347873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The population in this world is getting higher than in Jesus Christ time.Birth can be control by condom,it is because of mother n fucker enjoy super wild orgasm that the young one had to came to this world suffer food,shelter,hardship, unhappiness, accident,disaster, covid n more.Where can u say it a rebirth?

  • @shraddhapawar
    @shraddhapawar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    As Buddhist, even before learning the basics of Buddhism I knew this theory naturally. And believe me, no one taught me this. I just knew it naturally that good humans do no take revenge or blame destiny. Good people forgive and FORGET. Good people do not let their soul get stained with such worthless things. Good people stay silent and move ahead. 🙏

    • @tenzinsangpo2221
      @tenzinsangpo2221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The key is to forget , forgeting you don't have to forgive a thing. You you are able to keep away the faults, you don't need to forgive a thing, then you will forget them.

    • @marifujisawa2942
      @marifujisawa2942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But what if they don’t forgive and you’re living in this sad life just waiting for a break like it’s taking forever?

    • @carlospina6843
      @carlospina6843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true

    • @marifujisawa2942
      @marifujisawa2942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As it’s happening to me and hubby for the past 10 years now. We haven’t been able to see touch or even feel our beloved daughter after my son separated frm his wife..the law in japan doesn’t allow parental joint custody, etc. we tried reaching out now that she’s much older to no avail… how can you move on from this?
      We’ve forgiven, we take each day like our last, but we’re sad and lonely.

    • @charlotterockel-kennedy8913
      @charlotterockel-kennedy8913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marifujisawa2942 sending you prayers , love, light and strength to see you through this terrible ordeal . That must be so heartbreaking. Trust that these things happen for a reason and believe in a positive outcome. All the best for you 💖

  • @kushanchamod2661
    @kushanchamod2661 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Now I’m a happy person than past me because Lord buddha’s says and lessons turn me good side.I’m soo happy to be a buddhist Namo Buddaya 😊🙏🏻❤️

  • @vq8gef32
    @vq8gef32 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I am going through lots of things at the moment. Lost my personal life and struggling like a ship in a heavy storm. Last Friday I reached to 0, I want to be dead .. till I found you .. I know now what it means to be 0 and have no one around you to help you to get up. Thanks for this video ... and I wish no one get into what I am going through, Amen.

    • @portiabrown2913
      @portiabrown2913 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This phase will pass and you will blossom again 😊

    • @fatema-tuzzohara8918
      @fatema-tuzzohara8918 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you okay now?

    • @c.c1940
      @c.c1940 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Praying for your healing process

  • @yashjadhav8919
    @yashjadhav8919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    For me, loneliness and my social anxiety are the antagonists of my life. Whenever these two aspects take over, I get depressed. But with time, I started believing that loneliness is not a flaw, it's a gift. I take it as an advantage to build myself, with an hope to lead a happy and prosperous life ahead 😌😇 Never give up guys everybody who go through tough times deserve a better life.

    • @MF-xp9tq
      @MF-xp9tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May you know great joy, great companionship, great peace!

    • @darlingchloe88
      @darlingchloe88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very well said😇😇

    • @sunshineshining4167
      @sunshineshining4167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hope you are on the right path

    • @yashjadhav8919
      @yashjadhav8919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MF-xp9tq Thank you for your wishes 😊

    • @yashjadhav8919
      @yashjadhav8919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@darlingchloe88 Thank you 😊

  • @hibiarumusteku3917
    @hibiarumusteku3917 2 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    Mashallah, what a great video!. I was a Moslem, and I tolerate other religions. This video has illuminated me so much 😄. I'm really thanfull for the words, he was so calm, and speaking in a soft tone. This really lifts up my pain and burdens in my heart 😫😄💐‼. Thank you so much 🙏💐💐💐‼.

    • @fsxmantra
      @fsxmantra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You said 'I was a Moslem' meaning you're no longer of that faith?

    • @findwithpeedee9707
      @findwithpeedee9707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Be a buddhist 🙂 be a human. Not a slave of a magical god 🙂

    • @friendship9904
      @friendship9904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Each religion means something like Muslims means fast and help the poor with food and we should be grateful for what we have like food water health survival
      Christan means forgive and give a hand to someone who's down
      Buddha means spirit from the inside not the outside it's what's the inside not outside like how U feel not how U look
      Those 3 real regilous groups understands each other because never judge others culture or regilon fellow Ur hearts it will help us

    • @TheAswathraman
      @TheAswathraman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@friendship9904 Truly said. I believe all rivers end up in A ocean, that means all religion will end up to one god the almighty.

    • @yvettetorres7829
      @yvettetorres7829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Tolerate??? Interesting

  • @Betterversion09
    @Betterversion09 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time..

  • @Derrickbernardbba
    @Derrickbernardbba ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If you focus on the pain you will start suffering. But if you focus on the lesson, then you will start learning lessons.

  • @michelnimesh1630
    @michelnimesh1630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I was so depressed and after watching this it’s really give me a reason to live. Because I’m a really a good person too and always bad things happen to me

    • @suvadeepghosh4459
      @suvadeepghosh4459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't worry sir.. by the end of ur life, ur life would be scripted well by God if u learn and be stronger and does good karma...so just take care yourself..

    • @chamanipunchihewacp
      @chamanipunchihewacp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm sure there will be many good chapters in your life too 😌

    • @ddbala
      @ddbala ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You must be in a sad chapter of your life. Expect a happy chapter coming soon for you!! The cycles keep going for all of us. At least we have found spiritual sources like this channel. God bless you!!!

    • @talltree4252
      @talltree4252 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you proceed to say think always bad things happen to me then they do...you have to dig deeper into your way of thinking the way you carry yourself to transform your life

    • @lifeislivinglove9073
      @lifeislivinglove9073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The person that can bring you to path of your life as it was before
      You want to know right
      It's👉 You yourself 👈
      Remember the happiest happiest moment till now , guess🤔 the feeling ❤🧡💛what you were feeling
      Compare ⬅️it to now⬇️
      Forget whatever any one done to you forget absolutely
      Then remember you would be feeling successful😇 and hardships😊 payed off right or anything you were enjoying ☺️😊😄😃😀
      This was you ,This is you ,This will be always you

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis5034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Sometimes we have to end unhealthy toxic relationships and negativity out of our lives. We can love truly but that doesn't mean that they love us. Let go of the negativity and all chaos out of our lives.

    • @kimberlydavis5034
      @kimberlydavis5034 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Jokes Apart Not everyone is fortunate enough to have good parents. Some people have terrible parents. Some people's parents have abused their children. So if you have loving parents feel blessed because not everyone has good parents.

    • @spiritualworld3947
      @spiritualworld3947 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/RBoW_iCa-0c/w-d-xo.html

    • @leekc2574
      @leekc2574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Try to see the good in them, and if u still can't find any, then u probably just have to let go.....

    • @chippyflippy
      @chippyflippy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was nodding my head reading your comment, I totally agree 🙏

  • @joyontibarua9102
    @joyontibarua9102 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bondhonna bhante Im Buddhist . From Bangladesh. 16 years old .give me bless bhante

  • @snehapatil1607
    @snehapatil1607 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This channel is better than others😊

  • @LessonsInLife
    @LessonsInLife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for and you're capable of doing anything in this world. I believe in you.

    • @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441
      @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല.
      എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും?
      ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.

  • @sujatashroff6385
    @sujatashroff6385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Your voice is very soothing. Life is unfair to me since last 38 years. No career, no money, no marriage, divorce. Only good thing is I can connect with God. No materialistic life. No relationship. Only betrayal for me.

    • @jayeshkam123
      @jayeshkam123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don't Accept all this , just Move forward....

    • @geetikasethi2752
      @geetikasethi2752 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also 'only good thing' as written in comment may be the best thing....

  • @karenlacy8950
    @karenlacy8950 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can’t let negativity consume you. Always be positive through it all. Lovely video. Namaste

  • @mithunsarkar7002
    @mithunsarkar7002 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is very hard to forgive bad people. It is very hard to not take revenge.But if we succeed to forgive others by not taking revenge then we can get peace in the way of Lord Buddha. We should forget the bad people from our life.Namo Buddhay.Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu.

  • @oskarumesh2394
    @oskarumesh2394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Delivering sermons in English is a good thing so that everyone in the world can realise this valuable Buddhism and It is pleasure to see srilanken Buddist monks delivering sermons in English .

    • @shiranigunawardena9211
      @shiranigunawardena9211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sadhu--sadhu--sadhu.

    • @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441
      @enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല.
      എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും?
      ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.

  • @bettywho67
    @bettywho67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I only ask why innocents suffer. I understand pain is an opportunity to learn and grow. Explaining that to the abused, the sick and those in unbearable pain sounds like empty useless words and platitudes. 🌻

    • @gerardzabalza4894
      @gerardzabalza4894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 👍 💯 🌹

    • @funloving969
      @funloving969 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There's a theory in buddhism.
      Every thing happening has a cause.
      There are 5 causes and anything that happens under the sun comes under any of these 5.
      1. Beeja niyamaya (these terms are in paali and they cannot be exactly translated in to english terms that gives sense) it is like seeds. Reason for it to be a mango tree is because the seed was a mango seed. Sth like it. It explains the origin of things.
      2. Uthu niyaamaya
      It is weather. If your cultivation destroys due to rain, the reason is weather. If you got sunburns, its because you walked in the sun. Sth like that.
      3.kamma niyaama. Cause is your actions. What you have done in this life or what you have done in your previous lives. Your merits and sins from previous life, helps or harms you in this life. And if the merits and sins are very strong, you will recieve the effects in the same life itself.
      4. Damma niyaama
      5. Chittha niyama.
      Im not good at explaining these theories they are deeper than this. You can ask that question from a buddhist monk and he'll explain clearly

  • @damayanthiwickremeratne9785
    @damayanthiwickremeratne9785 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    That’s exactly what I do never let the negativity get the better of me. Through my practice of Buddhism I have learnt to let go of bad people bad vibrations and live in the moment of happiness come what may.

  • @truckindawg1
    @truckindawg1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have to say I really enjoyed this video. I’ve never in my life listened to anything regarding Buddhism. But I was searching TH-cam for no good deed goes unpunished and this is what I came across. What a great message.

  • @moniquetheobald5559
    @moniquetheobald5559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am CoE, I am so interested in Buddism, thank you for your love and kindness. 🙏

  • @sandrawhelan9159
    @sandrawhelan9159 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    It’s hard to move forward when you lose loved ones, even though I know they have gone to a better place. It doesn’t stop you from feeling loss and pain. You know what you must do , to let go , to move on. Just saying it’s very difficult.

    • @sweetadversity
      @sweetadversity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We have to move forward and think of how much joy and pleasure it would give our departed loved ones to see us genuinely living, genuinely loving all of the beauty and wonder of this world. We honour the dead by living life to the fullest! 🙏

    • @dianakasteleijn5042
      @dianakasteleijn5042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree Sandra

    • @SaptarshiSyam
      @SaptarshiSyam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When a baby is born they cry…sleep 16 hrs a day and cry when hungry…. But no one knows what happens when we die…. Every people has their own version of after life… i ve read several books on this yet so many difference in the opinions…. That makes us wonder whether the departed souls are really in a happy place or not? We miss the person and mourn the inability to spend time with them…. But we would be happier if there was a universal opinion on life after death which unfortunately is not there….

    • @Sam-nb8ev
      @Sam-nb8ev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SaptarshiSyam I also used to think on similar lines like you. However, I changed my views after having what I can call ' very very pleasant extrasensory experiences '. But words aren't enough to describe these experiences.

    • @rengigihearts
      @rengigihearts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Grief is the love continues after they are gone. Shows how much love there is for them but the good part is to be grateful they were part of your life and shaped you by their kindness and lessons 😢

  • @wathsalananayakkara1825
    @wathsalananayakkara1825 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I listen to your videos daily. They helped me get through my darkest moments in life and helped me to have positive mind no matter what life throws at me. I’m very grateful. Thank you very much. Theruwan saranai!

  • @aniyadesilvafrancis91
    @aniyadesilvafrancis91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Whatever i do goodthings to people but i used to get bad responses. It hurts me lot.kind hearted people always get hurt.in this sermon i leant lot of lessons.thank you sadu for encouraging us.sadu sadu sadu

  • @charlotterockel-kennedy8913
    @charlotterockel-kennedy8913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Thank you for this beautiful video. Your aura and your character are shining with pure love and happiness. I feel so much lighter and happier just by watching you. You are truly a beautiful person, from the outside and inside and the world would be such an amazing place if we could all shine like you 💖💖💖🙏

  • @ranganimadushanikamanathun5874
    @ranganimadushanikamanathun5874 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am reading a very sad chapter of my life these days. Because my sister passed away. She was so young and good. I was thinking that life is so unfair. This teaching helps me a lot. So much greaful for all the teachings Swaminwahansa 🙏🙏🙏

  • @neinkalando2519
    @neinkalando2519 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for your words of compassion and wisdom, I have never heard that from a Christian in my 58 years

  • @cityismychurch143
    @cityismychurch143 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a kind man. He puts me at ease with just his voice.

  • @definitelynotRiz
    @definitelynotRiz ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Sometimes pain doesn't makes you stronger bc if you know you were already strong then it hits you more and more. it would weaken you. Sometimes pain is not really helpful at all. It just gives people anxieties, hardcore depressions and a distraction from being already stronger But even if you suffered. Good news is: there is always a sunshine after the rain. 🤗

    • @vaish87
      @vaish87 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly my case😐

    • @erasedshallbehisname5100
      @erasedshallbehisname5100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with everything except the last sentence.

    • @bonitatorres5543
      @bonitatorres5543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is the exact reason for the video. Listen to it a few times until it registers.

    • @douvtkitchen9775
      @douvtkitchen9775 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@erasedshallbehisname5100it is not like that there is always sunshine after rain it is ur mentality u have to change more negative we think more it attracts try to be positive
      Nd this change depends from person to person sometimes
      It will take time but slowly and steadily try to make positive changes in ur life love ur self u will see difference God bless you

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sometimes pain cause memory loss though,which makes you lose empathy if no one guides you how to heal from it and your frontal lobe will be affected

  • @Tani-kb2xg
    @Tani-kb2xg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This video became the turning point of my weekness of focusing on negativity. Now I learnt how to grow positively without regretting on them
    Bohoma pin pinwath swaminwahansa 🙏🙏. Namo Buddhaya

  • @Be_FeliZ_01
    @Be_FeliZ_01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello Everyone,I am not from any religion but I am the human being who is suffering in my life ,which is unexpected..
    And this question comes to my mind that " why only me" ,why these problems are coming in my life..but after listening to this ,I can say everything happens for a reason.|| Namo Budhaya 🙏🙏||

  • @Annu-Ambili
    @Annu-Ambili 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am going through a very horrible time. I am a devotee of Krishna(Guruvayoorappan). I was asking god why this always happens to me. I can't take it anymore. I have been strong for a long time. But today I am unable to control my tears. One of the worst days in my life.After hearing your words my heart feels lighter🙏🏻

  • @tikagurung9338
    @tikagurung9338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    🙏🙏🙏Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Mangalam!!!From Nepal

  • @gabykappscomposermariagabr749
    @gabykappscomposermariagabr749 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am following Buddhist practices, of mindfulness, relinquishing the ego, kindness, compassion, acceptance and meditation. It has opened new and beautiful horizons in my life.

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 773 subs and > 300 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @haseenafathima4365
    @haseenafathima4365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You will grow through what you go through !!!!

  • @na-ra8701
    @na-ra8701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Thank you so much thank you so much🥺this helped me a lot to get rid of the stress which I currently dealing with.
    Namo Buddhaya !
    Everything will be fine,
    Believe in yourself,
    Sun will shine for you oneday and roses will bloom in your path
    😊❤

    • @darshanad10
      @darshanad10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Always keep smilng and be happy bro😊👍Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @suvadeepghosh4459
      @suvadeepghosh4459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks u sir .ur written speech also inspires me alot.. thanks alot.. take care sir..

    • @spiritualworld3947
      @spiritualworld3947 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/RBoW_iCa-0c/w-d-xo.html

  • @buddhinieyapadahanayake5169
    @buddhinieyapadahanayake5169 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Forgive and forget! It’s hard to practice. But believe me , you can do it too !

  • @Blessedbyuniverse77
    @Blessedbyuniverse77 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I also went through a very tough time in my life for the past two years . One day when i'm scrolling through YT shorts , i saw a short video from this channel and after watching it i watched all short videos from this channel. It's almost months ago but i still watch all short videos again and again because .... life's full of ups and downs and when i feel down , all i want is to watch a short video from this channel. Namo buddhaya 🙏 theruwan saranai 🙏

  • @MamaCancer23
    @MamaCancer23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    So glad this channel was suggested to me! Such great wisdom. Exactly what I need. Thank you so much for sharing ✨

    • @mahe4102
      @mahe4102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So happy to hear you found this channel by chance. Wishing you continue to learn about the truth of life. It gives you strength and inner happiness 😊

  • @joey_bruno
    @joey_bruno 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    So true!! I’d actually learned a lot frm the past 2 yrs,I’m like totally thrown into a deep black hole but I’m grateful things happened,it makes me realised how strong I am!I can go through every single problems frm physically to mentally and surprisingly my life is slowly moving frm worse to good! Always be grateful,be blessed,be patient,believe and don’t blame others!!

  • @CoachAmardeep
    @CoachAmardeep 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My life's lesson: Life is unfair and unpredictable...what you go through you grow through that..if stop reading the sad chapter you'll not experience the good chapter...focus on.the bright side...focus on.the lesson learned through the problems...Namo buddhay 🙏

  • @littletips6927
    @littletips6927 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "This is not a fantasy, this is not a movie, this is not a dream.This is real life" ස්තූතියි ස්වාමින්වහන්ස ඒ අනගි ඔවදනට.

    • @finncollins5696
      @finncollins5696 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      budu dahama mithyawal

    • @brandonnelson-ey5mt
      @brandonnelson-ey5mt หลายเดือนก่อน

      Life is actually just a dream, may I quote the old nursery" roll roll roll your boat gently down the stream merly merly merly merly merly life is but a dream.

  • @sk9968032
    @sk9968032 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Very insightful..
    Namo Buddhay.
    I am passing through my life's bad chapters today as you told I will wait for bright future.
    Namo Buddhay

  • @satarupadatta9661
    @satarupadatta9661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My mind becomes peaceful everytime I watch your videos.. 😌😌😌😌😌😌

  • @antonietamariainaciagomes4230
    @antonietamariainaciagomes4230 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dear Buddha, we should always think possitive. Then only we r happy in our lives. U r absolutely 💯 true. I love ur teachings. 💗 bcz they r exactly 💯 true. No body will get bed of roses. We have to make them. God bless you dear Buddha 🙏 ❤️

  • @suzannakato6091
    @suzannakato6091 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh my God, so drawn by your videos. They heal, comfort and teach me how to behave while still on this planet earth.

  • @aartman2
    @aartman2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO EVERYONE...
    AS FOR GOOD PEOPLE:
    GOOD PEOPLE CARE!
    BAD PEOPLE DO NOT!
    THAT IS WHY GOOD PEOPLE TAKE NOTE & SAY:
    WHY DO BAD THINGS ALWAYS HAPPEN TO ME!
    IS BECAUSE YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON & HAVE THE GIFT OF A GOOD HEART & BAD PEOPLE DO NOT!
    SO NEXT TIME YOU FIND YOURSELF ASKING THIS QUESTION, REMEMBER, YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON! ❤

    • @olgatrilogymartin3143
      @olgatrilogymartin3143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said

    • @richardkerr6091
      @richardkerr6091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well we think it’s bad I believe the experience can be turned into an asset and when a woman gives birth There is Pain involved but the reward is a Beautiful child

    • @erasedshallbehisname5100
      @erasedshallbehisname5100 ปีที่แล้ว

      Makes sense.

  • @rewagarcha5527
    @rewagarcha5527 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Yes so true.. You will grow through what you go through.. We should learn from the pain,the hard times.. Thank you so much sir.. Namo budhaye🙏

  • @Krishna-yq6vr
    @Krishna-yq6vr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everything happens for a reason and the resaon is always best for you ❤

  • @bettyderilon8061
    @bettyderilon8061 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amen for this messages. Once I was hurt I prayed to forgive and pain will gone.

  • @venerablemanshing6350
    @venerablemanshing6350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sarva Mangalam! Thank you my brother. For this precious teaching.

  • @abhijeetgaikwad7174
    @abhijeetgaikwad7174 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I always had this question but since I practice Vipassana, & listen to such videos. I cope with it better . Namo Buddhay !!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @maximelagace
    @maximelagace ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Every experience is a lesson. Every loss is a gain." -Sathya Sai Baba

  • @jayabinoli3273
    @jayabinoli3273 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Whenever i see your video i personally feel motivated and great .Namo buddha🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanku for today lesson ..

  • @mjhmr8
    @mjhmr8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This made me feel better
    I was in a car accident two weeks ago and I feel fear and also scared when I’m in a car. I have ptsd because of the incident, but after listening to you , you gave me a sense of comfort.
    Thank you

    • @mahe4102
      @mahe4102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Learning the truth gives inner (true) happiness. Keep learning and practicing the teachings and it will help you more and more! :)

    • @olgatrilogymartin3143
      @olgatrilogymartin3143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Face your fear head on u will squash it eventually step by step

    • @trenaoelschlager3981
      @trenaoelschlager3981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was in a car wreck years ago...and remember feeling the fear you have been experiencing. BUT in time..it will fade and not be so troublesome. Time will heal all.

    • @mjhmr8
      @mjhmr8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trenaoelschlager3981 thank you ❤️

  • @shannonpmitchell
    @shannonpmitchell ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I try to remember that bad things happen to other good people too and sometimes it’s even worse. We have to forgive, accept, learn and keep going on.

  • @mohansequeira3236
    @mohansequeira3236 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    just count the blessings and you will know how much God has blessed you....everyone should think on these lines

  • @amitdaswani6922
    @amitdaswani6922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Life is unpredictable
    Life is unfair
    Life can be lost at any second
    Life is like will Smith: one slap and all the endorsements are off

  • @pauleenmaynard7702
    @pauleenmaynard7702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yes I am so much stronger than I think.and thank you for reminding me. Blessings to everyone.

  • @suepuig707
    @suepuig707 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a Sri Lankan Buddhist living in Australia. Thank you for sharing your valuable thoughts and wisdom dear Venerable Thero following Lord Buddha’s teachings and to look at the bright side of our lives, really means so much and I appreciate you taking the initiative to share your thoughts and Budu Sarani 🙏🙏

  • @antheadelmotte9473
    @antheadelmotte9473 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautifully simplified. Thank you. Clear person.

  • @sandelic7529
    @sandelic7529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I start everyday watching your videos. It helps me a lot to get over the tough time. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya.

  • @shamugapriyasundarrajan6515
    @shamugapriyasundarrajan6515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Life is unfair and never expect fairness from it... Focus on blessings and shift attention from negativity to positivity... We have to experience goodness as well as bad... It's all about accepting everything and keep going with positive thoughts.. Tough times gives us experiences and move ahead with having gratitude for what God has blessed us....

  • @myllasupatan7530
    @myllasupatan7530 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for such an enlightening words, I love listening to your calm voice,positive outlook from Buddha, I'm a catholic but your teachings are so reassuring

  • @winesap2
    @winesap2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm glad to hear you explaining the reality of life. So many people that are into mystical thinking and new age thinking think the world and the things that happen to us are all part of some grand scheme, as if our lives are the center of the universe and the universe is playing out some plan for each of us. The universe is random. We obviously can control some things that happen to us in our lives, but when things happen, it's not for some greater purpose. Things just happen. Good things happen to horrible people, and horrible things happen to good people. It's too bad, but this is the evidence that there is no higher purpose. Things just are.
    I know people that will think worse of themselves for things that happen in their life that are completely random. They think the universe is punishing them for something. It's not. Things don't work that way. And this is the way that new age thinking is so damaging to so many people.

  • @hepcat5199
    @hepcat5199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “Nothing is either good or bad but thinking makes it so.” William Shakespeare

  • @ashamim5750
    @ashamim5750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Forgiveness makes miracles. Forgive all, u will attain peace. Afterall every ones ultimate goal is peace. This is what all religious preach.

  • @richardl772
    @richardl772 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bad things happen to good people. This reminds me of the saying “Thinking that life will treat you well because you’re a decent human being is a bit like thinking a bull won’t charge at you because you’re a vegetarian”. 😊

  • @LaNereNere
    @LaNereNere ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow!!! This is great!!! We have to read all the chapters, we can't stop, awesome!!!...♥️

  • @imlady50
    @imlady50 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Suffering is enlightening! Learning from hurting past experiences make one stronger, and one doesn't need to repeat the lesson and stay stuck or continue repeating the circle until the lesson is learned! I know that from experience! Excellent and beautiful message ❤️ 😊

  • @kushanisenanayaka8699
    @kushanisenanayaka8699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you
    You really turned my life around
    Theruwan saranai

  • @joydeep_editz
    @joydeep_editz 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    whenever I watch his video, That's when every single time he says new something to us , he trys to share new things with us. We know our life is unfair, unpredictable, uncertainty, as well as we also know that Happening bad or good thing is part of life . Our real life is not under control by our hands never. We can be happy to think our good times or happy moments. But meanwhile, we always focus and stay with our bad times and Be upset, Frustrated for those. After knowing that, life is like a bulk , in the world whatever power you have whatever person you are , karma doesn't about that . Because Something good thing's can happen t with good person and bad things can happen with him. We have to bring the actual positivity and happiness of our life from our negativity and others bad moment. Which he has said very well. We have to overridden all kind of miserable things in our life.

  • @lavanyak.s8898
    @lavanyak.s8898 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very useful and mind get relaxing while hearing his speech....

  • @Yashoda113
    @Yashoda113 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    namo Buddhay. proud to be Buddhist ❤

  • @freetube508
    @freetube508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Unaccepted & unexpected happenings or people actually helps us to awakening & cleansing our soul energy

  • @rosenavan2861
    @rosenavan2861 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES! EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS TRUE AND SO ENLIGHTENING. THANKS AND KEEP SMILING GIVING LIGHT TO THE DARK HEARTS. GOD BLESS..

  • @shine5499
    @shine5499 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Recently discovered your videos. Your teachings are helping and changing me and thus changing my life for the better. Grateful. Thank you.

  • @adventurousthilina9795
    @adventurousthilina9795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Every action has a real reaction….
    That’s what I know exactly…
    If you can do good ,reaction also will be good 👍
    If you do bad reaction will be bad .
    Knowing truth of this life ….do always good .
    Thanks for sharing this video,many thanks 🙏
    May lord Buddha bless you!!!

  • @christinagarneysnaturalmys9738
    @christinagarneysnaturalmys9738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Son I am from Sri Lanka. Been living in London for the past 58 Yeats I have been back and fourth. Now that I have retired I would love to have my dream and return for Good. I was raised a Catholic. Although my heart has always been humble and simple but wise. I am so glad that I subscribed as although I believe there is only one creator
    word in English name God who nows. The most high one the creator of all life forms living..
    So listening to son makes me inner stand the mantra's. As I did not know before so not so .I all grateful for all what I l have learnt taken in and yet to watch and listen bless my dear one of en.-inlightment.enlighten the darkness of what I did not understand. Now I am up I do inner stand
    Christina Garneys one love most high blessings

    • @neoenglish5545
      @neoenglish5545 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Great. understanding the difference between knowing and believing would open a new path of thinking.