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  • @SibasRoom
    @SibasRoom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    You have no idea how this came at me when I needed it most 😭 your channel is honestly such a safe space

  • @boitshepomaleka4953
    @boitshepomaleka4953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Can we talk about the importance of this channel guys💁‍♀️Like this is what I've needed in my life. I love u Gugu😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @UncomfortableGrowth
      @UncomfortableGrowth  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love youuu ❤️❤️

    • @BeeMore95
      @BeeMore95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree sis Gugu is a friend we all need in life 💙💙💙

  • @lusandatsilana8890
    @lusandatsilana8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I wish I had friends. I’m such a socially awkward person. I’ve decided to pray for it. Pray for meaningful and uplifting friendships

  • @khanyag6092
    @khanyag6092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Friendship break-ups are the worst yoh

  • @tshidiso_xo
    @tshidiso_xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    " your friends have to be your safe space " 😢

  • @mmathapelojeaneth8608
    @mmathapelojeaneth8608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are the same as me. Friendship means the world to me, 💞❤💞much love

  • @rainne5049
    @rainne5049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I've decided to end a 12 year old friendship. It was no longer serving its purpose and I have decided that we are better off without each other. I don't want to reconcile because of how things ended. Kept giving her chances but the last incidence made me realize that Ke sharp

    • @tshidiso_xo
      @tshidiso_xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😔💔 yhoo, one of the hardest things ever. Especially when you feel like no matter how much you address certain things, they will never change.

    • @khunindlovu3310
      @khunindlovu3310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Rainne bruhhh same but we move we really move

    • @UncomfortableGrowth
      @UncomfortableGrowth  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so sorry you went through this, but it was for the better ❤️

  • @pre-eminencenkomo3698
    @pre-eminencenkomo3698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    No ways😭
    My friend and I were talking about friendships last night and tweets about friendships have been popping up on my TL. Now this video!?!? Surely the universe is speaking to me🥺🥴

  • @bushbabyyy
    @bushbabyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    FRIENDS ARE CHOSEN FAMILY . 💓💓💓💓💓

    • @lebz752
      @lebz752 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      “ ”

  • @TamandaXO
    @TamandaXO 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Shem, I used to be the cool friend😭💔 Im glad I left that behind and found myself friends who give me the same energy I give them!

  • @lewm7474
    @lewm7474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I liked the video the moment she said "Akukho mali" Now that ladies and gents is what we call authenticity.

  • @naima-suhaila2871
    @naima-suhaila2871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Gugulethu is so beautiful in pictures, but seeing her in motion is a different experience. Literally mezmorised by her face!🥺 Joh!!

    • @owethungcobo6480
      @owethungcobo6480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brooo!!! I literally CANNOT get used to how beautiful she is yeses!

    • @UncomfortableGrowth
      @UncomfortableGrowth  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @olwethungodela
    @olwethungodela 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I definitely agree that we have friends for different "reasons". It's so important though to have a friend or friends that you can do everything with. Those are the true friendships🤞🏾

  • @nqobilemlangeni149
    @nqobilemlangeni149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your Ted talk was such a needed chat ❤️. Honestly and truly though , support and reciprocation have to be the most important things for me in platonic and romantic relationships. Because without on or the other , you can't build any form of relationship.
    Shout-out to your friends for pushing you to start this channel ❤️ , you have no idea how you've changed our perspective on so many things in this life thing man. I just want to say thank you to you and to them. You videos have shown so much light on conversations we never even knew we had to have. Thank you once again 🤗❤️

  • @milaniinalim3357
    @milaniinalim3357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We tend to neglect our friendships and don’t pour into them as much as we do our romantic relationships!

    • @KashTau
      @KashTau 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Milani Inalim I AGREE WITH YOU!! And romantic relationships also involve friendship so I don’t understand when friends are abandoned. Kahle kahle what friendship is being pursued in the relationship that makes one abandon a five to how ever long friendship.

    • @milaniinalim3357
      @milaniinalim3357 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kgolaganyo Tau eggzactly!

  • @_siyabongambatha
    @_siyabongambatha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your content is amazing. You are so true to who you are and inspire people like me as a small TH-camr to just keep being myself and the rest will follow.
    Major love Genge 💕

  • @btmtv6856
    @btmtv6856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I take friendship serious,I'm very committed

    • @mmathapelojeaneth8608
      @mmathapelojeaneth8608 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      u are like me. If u don't give me the same feeling that I do, I leave.

  • @TheGoldRose-pz5nc
    @TheGoldRose-pz5nc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your friends are blessed to have a friend like you. You're such a sweetheart

  • @nyibibaa
    @nyibibaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Really love how you love your friends

  • @btmtv6856
    @btmtv6856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Every Sunday I'm in my room to watch the videos I've missed and the latest 😊

  • @OrianeVansy
    @OrianeVansy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I keep coming back to this video 🥺

  • @amiliabogalho1398
    @amiliabogalho1398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yooohhh this video spoke volumes nje! I am so glad I came across this. That feeling of not reciprocating the same energy and not feeling appreciated is the realest shizz ever I definitely needed to watch this video thank you so much ❤

  • @sinqobilemakhathini
    @sinqobilemakhathini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gugu is actually a good rapper 🔥🔥 i really enjoy it , one of my fav things about this channel

  • @sinqobilemakhathini
    @sinqobilemakhathini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ngithi 20K around the corner or what🔥🔥🔥

  • @maseabikapa643
    @maseabikapa643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your content matters hey, I feel seen by you and how relevant you are be it showing us the power of friendship through your friends coming on and stuff. Just amazing

  • @yoliswamaphiri
    @yoliswamaphiri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your are the only reasons why I buy data if it's not for school u are the best and your videos really help the girl ❤❤❤

  • @sharonpaida9541
    @sharonpaida9541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Gugulethu ! She honestly has taught me some things about life ! 💜💜💜

  • @tumitshandu5873
    @tumitshandu5873 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    nothing hurts more than realising you’re investing so much of your self into ppl who aren’t reciprocal but that too, just proves how some ppl aren’t there for long. coming to terms with that makes things a little bit easier. grateful, however for my real niggas❤️

  • @sinekhethelomthethwa9279
    @sinekhethelomthethwa9279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Genuinely appreciate this channel so so much 😭 you're going far sis ❤️❤️!

  • @ratavelapi4387
    @ratavelapi4387 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts!. Learn to trust your gut! TRUST & BELIEVE - GUT WILL SAVE YOU!

  • @luthongqondi3223
    @luthongqondi3223 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    DUUUDE you literally poured out what's beeen in my heart

  • @aphiwezwane9182
    @aphiwezwane9182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    KEEP THE SAME ENERGYYYY!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Rosee7196
    @Rosee7196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Definitely uncomfortable growth. I love you ❤️

  • @nompumelelozulu5448
    @nompumelelozulu5448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your personality so much ❤️

  • @BAXBARA
    @BAXBARA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Not everyone you know is your friend. Hard facts 😭.

  • @mayenziwensibande1413
    @mayenziwensibande1413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love love love your vibe

  • @nomveloshinga7207
    @nomveloshinga7207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    True say Gugu❤️
    I've learnt so much from this channel.

  • @khwezimadlala
    @khwezimadlala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely needed this. You never miss Gugu❤️

  • @hercrown1318
    @hercrown1318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finding good authentic friends can be a challenge. You're blessed to have the support system you have.

  • @sinqobilemakhathini
    @sinqobilemakhathini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Please don't skip the ads👑

  • @taymadiba8297
    @taymadiba8297 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video made my realize that I'm the cool friend, thank you so much Gugu I'm currently working on my friendships and because of this I'll do better✨

  • @fit2fablifestyle_za
    @fit2fablifestyle_za 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay first of all your book collection🙌 thanks for this!!

  • @azusamthembu272
    @azusamthembu272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I literally enjoy watching your videos I've learnt so much 😭😭😭❤❤❤❤you're an amazing person 🤞🏽❤❤

  • @KEABRUH
    @KEABRUH 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your channel ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ chef’s kiss !

  • @rutendomasunda9515
    @rutendomasunda9515 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Genuinely a lot of people needed to hear this and it’s amazing 😩❤️🔥

  • @dellashanice
    @dellashanice 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The timing of this video!!!!!! Also, That thing of friends making their relationships take precedence over their friendships is horrible! Specially when suddenly they start trusting the gent’s judgement more than yours

  • @GuguSkincareGuru
    @GuguSkincareGuru 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haaibo facts facts no cap 💯 💯. It's everything for me.
    Relatable content. #RoadTo20K

  • @wanderingcucamber7082
    @wanderingcucamber7082 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos so much, as I have gotten older I am very selective of who I let into my space. I was the cool friend for way too long in my teens and so glad I left that version behind.

  • @nolwazimthethwa7296
    @nolwazimthethwa7296 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this chat, I feel like we need more chats like these, so many times we overlook our friendship relationships because we are looking for love but it's so important to have healthy friendships with the people that are close to you, I'm definitely learning

  • @Tshiamiso.Molefe
    @Tshiamiso.Molefe 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I throughly enjoyed this video 🥺. So insightful🙏🏽

  • @mamitselamakhothi7215
    @mamitselamakhothi7215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This content 😭❤️ >>>
    I honestly loved this video and I needed to hear this 🥺

  • @carolbaby1428
    @carolbaby1428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lalela I needed this 😭😭

  • @oleratomorewane3515
    @oleratomorewane3515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subbie 🤍 Love love your energy already. You’re the sweetest most genuine TH-camr Ever

  • @sandolikathemba1138
    @sandolikathemba1138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    : I’m grateful that I have such supportive friends, and that I have never encountered toxicity in friendships😭❤️My friends and I love your channel so much, we just understand each other and it’s always Vibesss😌💗🥺Thank you for this video❤️

  • @minenhlenxumalo824
    @minenhlenxumalo824 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber and absolutely love your channel! This particular conversation has had me thinking about a lot of situations I've put myself in and gave them a 'friendship' title but weren't really genuinely fulfilling friendships. Hence it made me see friendships in a negative light. Not only does it have me appreciating the food friends I've had but it also had me thinking if I've been giving out the same energy I want in friendship?

  • @zinhlemathenjwa238
    @zinhlemathenjwa238 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love the way you are..

  • @mecaylamaseka2556
    @mecaylamaseka2556 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been binge watching your binge watching your channel since this morning❤❤

  • @yolanisishuba2214
    @yolanisishuba2214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I felt that "akho mali" 😭😭

  • @aphiwezwane9182
    @aphiwezwane9182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    but you're so PRETTYYYYY😭😭🤩

  • @basie_gama
    @basie_gama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so needed, I truly resonate with all you’ve shared.😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @sanelisiwelurai6031
    @sanelisiwelurai6031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sho Genge🤘🤙🤟

  • @nondumisolephoto3865
    @nondumisolephoto3865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shhhhhoooo gennnge🤘

  • @khosii.m
    @khosii.m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was once the cool friend, it’s not worth it.🥺

  • @bushbabyyy
    @bushbabyyy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GENGE ! 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓

  • @keamogetswemathe2352
    @keamogetswemathe2352 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely loved this ❤️🥺Sis always spitting facts !😭🔥

  • @phuthulogangmakgato9885
    @phuthulogangmakgato9885 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Haaaa!!!! Gugu spitting factssssssss at us just like thattttt

  • @lesegokgomotso3147
    @lesegokgomotso3147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yho I wish I could click the Like button more than once!
    #Genge

  • @naledimatlakala
    @naledimatlakala 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Time to feel understood and seen.🥺

  • @rethabileramosebi3012
    @rethabileramosebi3012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Liking before I even watch ❤️

  • @hervisualdiary
    @hervisualdiary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great vibes. Great video ❤

  • @nomamachakaire3612
    @nomamachakaire3612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Definitely was a cool friend for some time

  • @tashatanyachafanza245
    @tashatanyachafanza245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hhad to like bfre I watch because the guarantee is that Favs never disapoints

  • @NtokozoBee
    @NtokozoBee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sho genge!🤘

  • @EverythingVee
    @EverythingVee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes yes and yes again 🥰 loved this

  • @lakhe6239
    @lakhe6239 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your content is so real 🤞🏽

  • @chef_irv
    @chef_irv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    And remember a friend of a opp is a opp as well. (Opp - enemy, opponent)

  • @vuyiswatsautse3585
    @vuyiswatsautse3585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We're on 16k subbies🎉🎉🎉🎉👏👏

  • @prudence_mathipa
    @prudence_mathipa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly never trust anyone who gossip or talks about other people when they with you

  • @michellemdebuka19
    @michellemdebuka19 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber! Really enjoying your videos beb

  • @KB-zp8bs
    @KB-zp8bs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Been there, done that and got a T-shirt" can you make this some merch ?? 😂

  • @asacungwa3567
    @asacungwa3567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sho genge! 🤘🏼

  • @sinokuhlekwili1030
    @sinokuhlekwili1030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this Gugs.❤

  • @nomvelomsibi2121
    @nomvelomsibi2121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    really needed this 🥺you’re amazing 💗💗

  • @ThandwefikaTanzie
    @ThandwefikaTanzie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your channel is ELITE 😻😻😻

  • @khanyamahlanyana6538
    @khanyamahlanyana6538 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Gugu , I just wanna say big ups to you for always having such wholesome content.❤❤❤ I literally binge watch your videos oko & honestly love being member of "igenge"😂😂😂 so much love!!

  • @prudencematjee5717
    @prudencematjee5717 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uncomfortable growth!!❤️❤️

  • @SpheshylMbatha
    @SpheshylMbatha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sho genge 🤘🏽😛😎

  • @mayenziwensibande1413
    @mayenziwensibande1413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Someone had to say this. Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @donotatme8072
    @donotatme8072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    HEH sana, that seafood been expensive hahaha I absolutely get you

    • @UncomfortableGrowth
      @UncomfortableGrowth  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @donotatme8072
      @donotatme8072 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@UncomfortableGrowth Tried to get it, for my birthday this Sunday and I could not even get through. After saving so long-I was brutally hurt. So be prepared to order it a month ahead or so

  • @anittanxusa
    @anittanxusa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Every damn thing was ON PERIOD!

  • @ntobekoshabane8124
    @ntobekoshabane8124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Registration genge

  • @anna_patjane
    @anna_patjane 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you never miss, Never ❤️

  • @merlynjagger8080
    @merlynjagger8080 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    New faaaavvvv!

  • @khumothage4629
    @khumothage4629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Vibez.

  • @lebz752
    @lebz752 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are like my mentor! 🤪❤️

  • @paballo_exploring
    @paballo_exploring 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very relatable!!!

  • @fashioninspo2.0connie75
    @fashioninspo2.0connie75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was definitely a cool friend for a while 😒😪

    • @somilaify
      @somilaify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same!! I'm still slowly unlearning that BS. What was your breaking point?

    • @fashioninspo2.0connie75
      @fashioninspo2.0connie75 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The LOCKDOWN 🙌
      people's true colours were shown to me 😒 ,yours?

    • @somilaify
      @somilaify 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fashioninspo2.0connie75 I don't think I've really had a breaking point, just a slow realisation. I've also started going to therapy and that's definitely helping me learn things about myself. Phew, the journey is long.

  • @Ewe_bih
    @Ewe_bih 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much gugu 🖇😭♥️

  • @tshepisorapudi9319
    @tshepisorapudi9319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we all agree that Gugu ke star

  • @thecazatwins
    @thecazatwins 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaaaaaaa sengifikile