Yoh hai kodwa it's really hard for some of us to even just go out to events and try meet new people. And it's not even that you don't like people it's like just meeting them and getting out of that comfort zone that's the problem. I'm such an introvert sham..I could live alone in a city and be fine with it..as long as I've got God ke Shap..but I need to do better. To us trying just a bit harder❤️
I started working at 23, I’m now 30. I wish someone had told me to budget sooner and be besties with my spreadsheet much earlier. Just some elderly advise 😂🤗💥
*I’m a senior account manager in bitcoin mining I’m involved with a Bitcoin mining company, which deals with the investment and mining of coins and pays weekly profit. You can earn $5000 weekly.*
Adulting can feel like you're in a constant state of drowning then you wonder, "isn't this when my air runs out". The journey is very personal indeed and one needs to remember you're not defined by your failures or your problems
As a 20 year old, still in varsity. I tend to check for job opportunities in my career and try to figure out how adulting is...i have conversations with my parents and people around me. One thing they emphasize is that things do not fall in place instantly. Patience and being wise about your money gets you to the level that you want to be in.
My twenties were hard. One book that helped me through was 7 things that steal your Joy by Joyce Meyer. Your twenties will teach you perspective, not to compete or compare with friends or others & honestly stay humble cause God loves us all.
I started working at 23. I’m 30. As an elderly I’d say I wish I started with my spreadsheet earlier. Do best youngins and plan, tract and be on your money 💰
God controls timing, I liked that 😭. Everything happens accordingly to God's timing. We often allow ourselves to control everything and to panick when certain things don't work out and forget it's all God doings. All we have to do is believe, have faith and pray for our success.
Julia Roberts said on Pretty Woman that its so easy to believe the bad stuff than it is the good. And in that i learnt a huge lesson cause we feel like we deserve the bad stuff and undeserving of all the good and positive stuff.
I am here for all if it...speak on it sisters. We forget to pat ourselves on the back for how far we've come that we end up forgetting ukuthi what we have and where we are NOW is what we prayed for THEN!!
Gugu 💗💗🌸💐The comments section!!! Such heavy girl gang. The love and support for one another💗💗😢. You've created a community here. Thank you so much Gugz🌸Well done
I almost gave myself whiplash agreeing to the facts on facts in this chat. This conversation is so powerful and needed, we need more of it, thank you ladies 🌼
Literally been talking to God about being wealthy in friendship. Rich in love, via my community, supporting one another and holding each other accountable to work hard at being and becoming our ideal selves. Dankie Sis Gu for coming through with that realness.
*Honestly when I found out I had herpes\cancer, I was completely lost because I didn't know what to do and I worried about how the incident would affect my relationship. Not until I came in contact with Dr kojo who helped me gain my health back and save my relationship You're the best sir thanks*
This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. I LOVE LOVE this girl chat. We all go through our own different problems but having friends and family to lean on is so so important. ❤️
When Zinah spoke about the Tribe and knowing what she knows about this friendship 🥺😭❤🥰 The types of friendships we all need. I'm grateful I have that in my circle.
I feel like your videos are specifically ment for me especially the previous one and this one because "coincidentally" you uploaded both of them at the right time and explaining exactly how I'm feeling at that time. .. lately I've been feeling like I'm stuck and not achieving my goals and that demotivates me so much so I needed the reminder to look back and acknowledge what I've achieved so far no matter how little it is🥺 THANK YOU GUGU🙏🏻
*I’m a senior account manager in bitcoin mining I’m involved with a Bitcoin mining company, which deals with the investment and mining of coins and pays weekly profit. You can earn $5000 weekly.*
Notification Gang Gang! I’m regards to Relationships in every aspect ,we as women tend to put so much “worth” into Quantity instead of Quality Not getting to the point of saying we spent 5 years together and not seeing whether or not those 5 years brought you anything in terms of building yourself emotionally,mentally or in any aspect Is a conversation on its own But regardless love love love this video !Love the different topics you bring!!! #Uncomfortable Growth 🙇🏽♀️🙏🏾
The most relatable channel in SA. Thank you for making a random person in their 20s feel its okay with the season you are in. Adulthood is a challenge on its own and it's fine to figure it out everyday because no one is doing it right.
Thoroughly enjoyed this video , I absolutely found it so relatable especially because I’m in my twenties approaching late twenties. Wanted to like it so many times 😂❤️. Y’all also look so beautiful 😊
I FEEL SEEN!!! 😭🙏🏾 LITERALLY have no idea how, when, where, what, who or why. But we keep going, growing, trying and learning. Thank you guys for this beautiful video! You have no idea how much of an impact you are making, by just reminding us we're not alone and we are doing better than we think. 💜💜💜
I’m a month into this channel and I must say this channel is truly relatable. I’m currently at the stage of life where I don’t feel like I’m doing anything with my life . Yes I’m graduating 2weeks from now but I just don’t think I’m doing enough .
Thank you Gugu for this video , I'm learning so much .Even with relationships I've always been one to shy away from them cause I'm scared of getting hurt .But after watching this video ,I want to build relationships. Enkosi Gugu❤️❤️💖💖💖
“When you are empty, it gives God an opportunity to fill you up again” Preach. I felt that 😌
🔥🔥🔥
Gugu I must say you are wise for you age!!May God continue to bless you ,you surely have a sound mind yaz.🙏🙏🙏🙏
To us who find it hard making friends but still try 💕 you will find your people :)
To us 💃
it is really hard and i'm so lonely, all i need is good friends by my side
@@lethabosibeko 😁😁😁
@@mosidilebogang217 Yeah it is , the way I do it is attending events that interest me and meeting like minded people there 😉
Yoh hai kodwa it's really hard for some of us to even just go out to events and try meet new people. And it's not even that you don't like people it's like just meeting them and getting out of that comfort zone that's the problem. I'm such an introvert sham..I could live alone in a city and be fine with it..as long as I've got God ke Shap..but I need to do better.
To us trying just a bit harder❤️
I started working at 23, I’m now 30. I wish someone had told me to budget sooner and be besties with my spreadsheet much earlier. Just some elderly advise 😂🤗💥
*I’m a senior account manager in bitcoin mining I’m involved with a Bitcoin mining company, which deals with the investment and mining of coins and pays weekly profit. You can earn $5000 weekly.*
Adulting can feel like you're in a constant state of drowning then you wonder, "isn't this when my air runs out". The journey is very personal indeed and one needs to remember you're not defined by your failures or your problems
As a 20 year old, still in varsity. I tend to check for job opportunities in my career and try to figure out how adulting is...i have conversations with my parents and people around me. One thing they emphasize is that things do not fall in place instantly. Patience and being wise about your money gets you to the level that you want to be in.
Wow
"Timing is nothing that you can control, but something God controls." Eyyy, felt this
Can we just have a MOMENNNT for how beaut all...ALL..all of Sis Gu's mates are🤌🏾🥲♥️🔥
My twenties were hard. One book that helped me through was 7 things that steal your Joy by Joyce Meyer. Your twenties will teach you perspective, not to compete or compare with friends or others & honestly stay humble cause God loves us all.
The fact that I'm a guy and I just watched a whole girl chat video, goes to show that y'all were spitting straight FACTS!
Zinah’s voice is SPLENDID 😍
"& then the expenses just riSE and rISE and RISE!!!!!" I felt that!
I started working at 23. I’m 30. As an elderly I’d say I wish I started with my spreadsheet earlier. Do best youngins and plan, tract and be on your money 💰
“Every journey is so personal” that hit home
"YOU CAN'T GIVE WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE" preaaaaachhhhh sis!!!! ♥️
“We think we are undeserving of those compliments, of those affirmations” I felt that 🥲
God controls timing, I liked that 😭. Everything happens accordingly to God's timing.
We often allow ourselves to control everything and to panick when certain things don't work out and forget it's all God doings.
All we have to do is believe, have faith and pray for our success.
Y’all see how alluring beauty with brains is!✨🧘🏽♂️❤️
I love Gugu's friends honestly wow 😍
Julia Roberts said on Pretty Woman that its so easy to believe the bad stuff than it is the good. And in that i learnt a huge lesson cause we feel like we deserve the bad stuff and undeserving of all the good and positive stuff.
Beautiful. Absolutely beautiful.
When she spoke about timing man.........
I am here for all if it...speak on it sisters. We forget to pat ourselves on the back for how far we've come that we end up forgetting ukuthi what we have and where we are NOW is what we prayed for THEN!!
this kind of friendship
I’m 29 and I can totally relate to this ❤️ Thank you ladies!
“When kids cry people panic”😭😭
Gugu 💗💗🌸💐The comments section!!! Such heavy girl gang. The love and support for one another💗💗😢. You've created a community here. Thank you so much Gugz🌸Well done
Iyasi drapa I Adulting guys 😕😘 but we move, loved this Convos ladies ❤️
I almost gave myself whiplash agreeing to the facts on facts in this chat.
This conversation is so powerful and needed, we need more of it, thank you ladies 🌼
I needed to hear this, much love all the way from Atlanta, Georgia.
Yessseeessss😭😭🔥🔥🔥!!! This is definitely the kind of content I wish most people would opt for !!! Sooo fruitful !!!
Oh. Wow, Pearl's goals when she was younger sounds so much like what I had set for myself.
Pearl is GORGEOUS haiboo
I subscribed a few days ago and I can say I'm in the right place❤
GREAT CHAT LADIES😩❤️🔥 Thank you so much for this!!!!
And you are sooooooooooo Beautiful Gugu Aaaaaargh😍😍😍💕
Literally been talking to God about being wealthy in friendship. Rich in love, via my community, supporting one another and holding each other accountable to work hard at being and becoming our ideal selves.
Dankie Sis Gu for coming through with that realness.
I ALSO SBWL GENUINE AND LOVING FRIENDSHIPS hl....
I just turned 16 and this was so helpful. ❤ Motivation!!
I felt when one of them said "Prayed for" I am already in my 30's and I learnt so much from you young Queens. Thank you
I’m 19 but I related to everything that was said in here.❤️
Same 😓
@@zamangcongo5265 same
definitely need a part2 please ma'am
i felt that "i'm not struggling, i'm tired."😭😭😭ande sibancane nkosJesu
I was passing by but I ended up clicking the subscribe button.🥰❤❤❤
*Honestly when I found out I had herpes\cancer, I was completely lost because I didn't know what to do and I worried about how the incident would affect my relationship. Not until I came in contact with Dr kojo who helped me gain my health back and save my relationship You're the best sir thanks*
Welcome home❤
There’s so many 23 years old that are going through this. I am one but we must thank God for blessing us for what we have right now🙏🏿
This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. I LOVE LOVE this girl chat. We all go through our own different problems but having friends and family to lean on is so so important. ❤️
When Zinah spoke about the Tribe and knowing what she knows about this friendship 🥺😭❤🥰 The types of friendships we all need. I'm grateful I have that in my circle.
Adulting is absolutely ridiculous. Thank u for this video, it's nice to know we're going through this all together.
You Channel Gives Me Life Chilee!😭😻❤️❤️❤️
Every adult in me needed this chat
I feel like your videos are specifically ment for me especially the previous one and this one because "coincidentally" you uploaded both of them at the right time and explaining exactly how I'm feeling at that time. .. lately I've been feeling like I'm stuck and not achieving my goals and that demotivates me so much so I needed the reminder to look back and acknowledge what I've achieved so far no matter how little it is🥺 THANK YOU GUGU🙏🏻
Yho adulting sucks, and trying to be positive all the time can also be exhausting. But I'm learning to trust the process. I love this video ❤️
DEFINITELY DID NOT SIGN UP FOR THIS! Adulting is A LOT!
*I’m a senior account manager in bitcoin mining I’m involved with a Bitcoin mining company, which deals with the investment and mining of coins and pays weekly profit. You can earn $5000 weekly.*
Y’all are amazing👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Beautiful girls.🥺❤️❤️
I thought I was the only one "23"🙋 am no where near that.
Totally relatable
Notification Gang Gang!
I’m regards to Relationships in every aspect ,we as women tend to put so much “worth” into Quantity instead of Quality
Not getting to the point of saying we spent 5 years together and not seeing whether or not those 5 years brought you anything in terms of building yourself emotionally,mentally or in any aspect
Is a conversation on its own
But regardless love love love this video !Love the different topics you bring!!!
#Uncomfortable Growth 🙇🏽♀️🙏🏾
Start saving as soon as you start working, no matter how little, a wise woman once told me, hope it helps you all as well!
For sure! We need to pat ourselves on the back, we’ve come a long way honestly
Thoroughly enjoyed this! More please 😘
Enjoyed this so much
This video is sooo short😭😭 . I learned so much and enjoyed this . Thank you guys🥺❤️
LOVED THIS! This conversation!!!
Love you guys! Yes I agree, I wish at school we were taught about adulting too.
Loooooooved this. Thank you so much Ladies ❤️
OMG Gugu this was amazing 👏😍, absolutely loved it ❤
When you said when kids cry things happen… Sis? I felt that 😭
at the end of the day we're really just trying our best
The most relatable channel in SA. Thank you for making a random person in their 20s feel its okay with the season you are in. Adulthood is a challenge on its own and it's fine to figure it out everyday because no one is doing it right.
I felt every part of this video😭😭SOMEBODY SHOULD HAVE WARNED US!
Thank you Gugu 🙏♥️🥺 for this clip
I honestly enjoy these talks 🥰.
❤️🙌🏼This
The conversation I definitely needed to hear ☺️🙌🏾🤞🏽
Same “ I’m not confused, I’m tired “
Thoroughly enjoyed this video , I absolutely found it so relatable especially because I’m in my twenties approaching late twenties. Wanted to like it so many times 😂❤️. Y’all also look so beautiful 😊
I FEEL SEEN!!! 😭🙏🏾 LITERALLY have no idea how, when, where, what, who or why. But we keep going, growing, trying and learning. Thank you guys for this beautiful video! You have no idea how much of an impact you are making, by just reminding us we're not alone and we are doing better than we think. 💜💜💜
I’m a month into this channel and I must say this channel is truly relatable. I’m currently at the stage of life where I don’t feel like I’m doing anything with my life . Yes I’m graduating 2weeks from now but I just don’t think I’m doing enough .
😭😭😭😻this video was beautiful- IT GETS BETTER WITH TIME
Adulting!!! I so needed this ❣️
Shuuu what a packed video 🔥thank you for dropping these 💎 super insightful, love to see black intelligent women sharpen each other 💜 🇳🇦
I really appreciate how real and honest this is.
I love this!! Thank you♡
I needed to hear this🥺❤️. Thank you
Zinah❤❤❤🥺
Gugu this one was so necessary. thank you to you and your friends. xx
“ The things you focus on, will centre you “ -Gugulethu
I got so much comfort from this vid 🥺 listen Gugu, Pearl and Zee, I appreciate y'all ❤️
It's so crazy how I always feel like I've learnt something to adjust in my life after watching Gugulethu's videos. Insane
I absolutely enjoyed this video, just what I needed. Thank you Gugu ♥️
Yoh this chat is necessary 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😭🔥
I ENJOYED THIS SO MUCH, WE LEARN EVERYDAY. I JUST WISH GOD BLESSES ME SUCH GENUINE FRIENDSHIPS....YOH I NEED FRIENDS
Kore everyday ke "me, myself and I" ke lapile🥲🥲🥲
Notification genge!.. 🤟😍
Not me staring at Gugu’s braids the time🕯🥺🥰
This was so beautiful to watch 😭😭♥️ I am truly inspired
Growing up is hard. 🙆🏾♀️
Argghhhh this was beautiful to watch ❤️
Zinah is amazing 😊❤
That "yohh" @17:03, I felt that
Thank you Gugu for this video , I'm learning so much .Even with relationships I've always been one to shy away from them cause I'm scared of getting hurt .But after watching this video ,I want to build relationships. Enkosi Gugu❤️❤️💖💖💖
Beautiful ladies😍😍😍😍😍
Notification gannngggg!!! ❤️❤️Anise bahle!!!!
This was so informative, enjoyed it so much! ❤️