in the sea of celebs & influencers who seem to be swapping partners like playing musical chairs and indulging in promiscuity...Jon is such a rare breed. better to be down-to-earth, loyal and matured, than just a hunk or a flaky guy surrounded by hot gals talking about flaky topics. men, watch and learn.
John, sincere qns. 1. How long do u think your marriage will last? 2. Will u ever be happy being monogamous? To be going against ur innate nature to spread ur seeds? 3. Why does gender roles matter or not matter in your marriage?
Decent content for a local creator, I hope your channel blows up and overtake the ones with no substance. Break the mold, Singaporean. Shatter the "influencers" influence over the easily influenced minds.
10:53 - I love that argument and funny how I've nv thought about that before. That being financially stable balances the relationship creates an even ground in various situations! Great stuff!
Wow wasn’t expecting to glean this much from this convo! Really enjoyed Jon’s sharing! Only wish the ep was longer.. and that I still had a relationship to work things out for the better :’
Really enjoying the channel, especially today's episode. Keep it going! You know it's worth watching when you actually have your dinner while digesting all this juicy information!
It’s a conscious decision to stay loyal because marriage is a social construct. It’s not just about following your feelings and letting it tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. We were made to reproduce and move on, not get hitched and stay with one partner for life.
I have done worst thing of ghosting girls after sleeping with them and gaslighting then when they want a relationship, I started doing this after my first ex girlfriend cheated and when she asked for forgiveness, pretended all is forgiven and then revenge cheated with someone close to her life that I manipulated then dumping my ex coldly when she caught us. In the end I think all the pain and suffering I have caused women, I will not be married or having a family but I guess by the time am older, I will be totally dead inside with denial and narcissism that I don't think I will be able to function normally anymore or even care about anyone. Till this day while I won't say I regret what I done, I might have been able to not have this sociopathic tendency if I just ended the relationship and not focus on the hatred and hurt that made me this person.
There's so many TH-cam content nowadays with "open" conversation however this one takes the cake
Thank you for the love! 😘
We love cake! We are glad that you've enjoyed the episode! 🥰
in the sea of celebs & influencers who seem to be swapping partners like playing musical chairs and indulging in promiscuity...Jon is such a rare breed. better to be down-to-earth, loyal and matured, than just a hunk or a flaky guy surrounded by hot gals talking about flaky topics. men, watch and learn.
Thanks for having me! ❤️
♥️♥️♥️ good catching up with you!!
John, sincere qns.
1. How long do u think your marriage will last?
2. Will u ever be happy being monogamous? To be going against ur innate nature to spread ur seeds?
3. Why does gender roles matter or not matter in your marriage?
I see John I like, then only I watch..
Great insights, John!
Love the mature and meaningful insights that you have provided in this video!
"if you're triggered that means we're not talking about you" - john2021 -
best line in the video
really loved how Jonathan rephrased marriage as a legal and religious pledge to have the person's back for life
It should be that way.
He truly gets it.
"If you're fighting about chores, outsource!" - John 2021
John is really so coherent with his words and mature in his thinking as a life partner :)
the part about supposed ‘loyalty’ hindering growth is so relatable
agree with john i’ve been with my partner for more than 6 years and sex is separate from relationship, it’s honest not needed
John is seriously such a keeper
Fax kid
"hold hand and fight" - johnathan chua 2021
Decent content for a local creator, I hope your channel blows up and overtake the ones with no substance. Break the mold, Singaporean. Shatter the "influencers" influence over the easily influenced minds.
10:53 - I love that argument and funny how I've nv thought about that before. That being financially stable balances the relationship creates an even ground in various situations! Great stuff!
Wow wasn’t expecting to glean this much from this convo! Really enjoyed Jon’s sharing! Only wish the ep was longer.. and that I still had a relationship to work things out for the better :’
We are so happy you enjoyed the episode! We do have an uncut version that is slightly longer on Spotify as well so make sure you check that out! 😊
John puts loyalty in a very good perspective in 6:50.
What is the quote trying to say? Can anyone explain to me?
@@walaoma loyalty applies to the right person. If not you just wanna get out of the relationship to fill up that gap.
Always happy to hear Jon speaking his mind in podcasts 😊🎉
It was a really awesome talk for today's episode. Topic was great, on point and clarity. Keep up the good work!
Thank you for enjoying this episode!
Love the insights John gave!!! Really lots of food for thought
Great conversation here, thanks for the sharing!
Really enjoying the channel, especially today's episode. Keep it going! You know it's worth watching when you actually have your dinner while digesting all this juicy information!
Thank you so much!!!
i’m enjoying this content so much
I really enjoy this series! Love Sonia and Johnathan too :)
😘😘
@@heyasoniachew 🙆🏻♀️🙆🏻♀️!
This channel is a hidden gem. Can really relate to John :D
"Falling in love is EASY righttt"
Me getting rejected 5 times in a row: I seee
Like what you shared John.. very honest responses from both of you...
Great video, great perspectives
Do you guys believe in "Once a cheater, always a cheater?" Or do you believe in learning from your mistakes and changing for the better?
I believe once a cheater always a cheater. Its a character thing...
@@vex942 i agree
Super love this series and the honest conversations! thank you for your honest sharing. keep it coming!
love the content here today, i subscribed to this channel after watching this episode. Good job!
I really love these podcasts! Really gives an insight rarely heard before! Even for someone not in a relationship
Great episode! Timely for me. How do you get your partner to go for couples counseling if they are resistant?
Insightful and hilarious la, need to follow this john
love these episodes!!
I use this channel to practise my singlish listening, I also speak Chinese with my Singapore friends,….
And it’s great
Loving the series! Awesome host and great guest that comes along each time!
Great episode. Enjoyed this a lot
I really like this episode, thanks
WHY john look so scared HAHA I LOVE IT
17:48 john's sneaky face hahaha
20 years in 20 minutes... wish there was more time for more context.
Yikes, sounds like red flags🚩waving everywhere. Hope it passes 4 years.
falling in love is easy ? what ? how ?
I really enjoyed watching this🤍🤍
Amazing podcast
yay John Chua!!!!!!
It’s a conscious decision to stay loyal because marriage is a social construct. It’s not just about following your feelings and letting it tell you what you should or shouldn’t do.
We were made to reproduce and move on, not get hitched and stay with one partner for life.
Met a narcissistic personality in the comment box.. Please dont get married you cruel minded shit 🙏🥲
Great content
john air force is sickkk
Mine is the 95/5 rule
lol so sonia has been around the block la. feel bad for the husband
I feel she definitely cheated before
This one call potong jalan hahhaah
EH NV SIA. I waited for it to end
I’m tryna holla
I have done worst thing of ghosting girls after sleeping with them and gaslighting then when they want a relationship, I started doing this after my first ex girlfriend cheated and when she asked for forgiveness, pretended all is forgiven and then revenge cheated with someone close to her life that I manipulated then dumping my ex coldly when she caught us. In the end I think all the pain and suffering I have caused women, I will not be married or having a family but I guess by the time am older, I will be totally dead inside with denial and narcissism that I don't think I will be able to function normally anymore or even care about anyone. Till this day while I won't say I regret what I done, I might have been able to not have this sociopathic tendency if I just ended the relationship and not focus on the hatred and hurt that made me this person.
Is that the girl whom appeared in a SG video that addressed racism ?
She needs to be a better listener and stop interrupting when her guest is speaking.
"again".. something must have happened before. AHAHAHA
When u have 2 person too young to know about a topic talking about a topic... That's insanity
No offense... But i cannot stand this accent... Its making my ears bleed