Are men just doing the bare minimum in love or simply unromantic? | Men, Explain
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- Quite commonly, men have been described to be “unromantic” or accused of “not putting in enough effort”. But perhaps men and women are just expressing and receiving love differently. In this episode of Men, Explain, let’s discuss what being romantic means in a modern relationship and how much media consumption has affected the way we perceive relationships.
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It's hilarious to read the comment section and see all the salty, immature boys trying to justify not putting effort into a relationship because "women will leave us anyway". Women leave you because of your negative "woe-is-me" energy sweetie. We don't want to be around men who have zero confidence. We are not signing up to be your mother. Go back to your own and stay single - saves the trouble for the rest of us.
It's not hard to be romantic. For some people, it can be a cultural thing where they lack being able to be affectionate or romantic. Some people just lack experience or just do the bare minimum. People afraid of the girl leaving them have insecurities they need to address and shouldn't date.
Yup, agree. I mentioned to my friends, my idea of a relationship is a 'working partnership with a dash of romance'. I was briefly mocked, to which i replied, 'you just haven't thought about it yet', something along that line.
Such great insights! Absolutely loved this episode. So relatable 😂💯 Wish it was longer. Please invite them back on the show to talk about other aspects of relationships/marriage. All 3 of you are so eloquent and engaging
Deborah and Fabian are so eloquent! and i guess love just works when your values in life aligns with your another half, which is what debs and fabian portrays!
Romanticism shd be 2 way street, don't expect 1 party to do all the job... and people are not mind readers, communicate what u want to ur partner and be understanding
Sometimes we do a lot also one day the girl will walk away.
What I'm trying to say is that we cannot control a way a person thinks and feels. We can give a person the world, but up to what point they will be able to accept and reciprocate is subjective to that person.
You can be extremely loyal, loving, romantic and go extreme lengths for a person, but if the person in question just can't find it in themselves to return your feelings, there's really nothing you can do if they eventually walk away. When that happens, you're going to regret doing the maximum and being romantic towards them because your efforts didn't last.
Will you regret not trying?
@@456seven8 it's 2 ways. If I don't try and if I do too much.
There’s no regrets when you give your all.. stop self sabotaging. You get into a relationship to give. If the other person doesn’t appreciate it or reciprocate, and leave then it’s their loss not yours.
They give you the gift of finding true happiness with someone who not only appreciates but also gives just as much back in return. Win win.
Haha yeah it's either they love me more than I do or they can take the highway. Just stay single , spend on yourself date many girls and hv fun. Loving it so far.
Guys, Be in control be it in a rs/single/married
@@456seven8 risk to reward is just not worth it
this episode is so good
34:25 about there, the point is, to be aware AND intentional around each other's thoughts and actions, then consciously appreciating those little things. That, is love. Many confuse it with the initial 'passion' and hormonal rush, that will give way to the everyday, ordinary moments. It's what you make of it.
Woah Sonia looks really good in this image concept. 👍👍
seems like an ENTJ to an INFP/ENFP hahaha
am an INFP, and i had an love interest who is an ENTJ, and in the past another who was an ISFP.
Exhausted from working 45hrs a week and still have to fork out our energy to be romantic not knowing when they will leave you or change... rip modern men
Sorry too blunt.. once baby in the picture give another few more years, that’s where the challenge cones either you make it or she resent which end up divorce
It’s a cycle
Don’t worry, sugar daddy provides lol
so wholesome. This is nice.
Why do ppl determine others' way by their zodiac sign? I never understood.. And I felt this episode a bit irksome, Sonia keeps having this little jabs through out esp towards fabian..
Fabian is in love
I can feel the tightness on her neck slowly strangling away.
Why put effort and time into romance that will be unappreciated and undervalued by the other person? Just listen to both women saying they planned to be single but never did. Women just want to feel wanted and valued. They are the one that need validation the most. They don't care about connection all that stuff. Just give her attention and treat her, that's enough.
Know why many girls cheats when their men are away and not by their side? Because attention and feeling wanted. Don't believe anything women say. They most often than not contradict their own self.
If shes not getting attention, affection and gifts from her boyfriend or spouse, she obviously will try to get it from someone else in the end blame still fall on the guy for not doing better. Maybe relationships was just built on material. He was made to be a trophy boyfriend because he has to for her to progress in the social circle among her girlfriends. Maybe the MGTOW(man go their own way/seperate ways) group was right all along.
Why would a guy live on the competition with other men just to win her heart, seems awfully stressful even with dating apps and social media she can easily replace you if she wants.
I mean if you are single you dont have to worry so much what your partner and spouse thinks and what she appreciates, and u can save money which can be put to better use for yourself, parents or your self-improvement (enrichment courses)
Men don’t care all this.. men are power and money..
Why need to show love/romance??? Kinda waste of time.