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  • @jbb8261
    @jbb8261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1030

    Smartest thing I did was leave my single, feminist friends. One of them was a man-hater to her core, the other had a guy paying her rent while she flew off to other states to bang a guy she was actually into. Those things don’t morally align with me. They think my life is ruined because I got married at 25, while they’re still paying rent and flexing for instagram 😂

    • @Mo-fd7qd
      @Mo-fd7qd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Thats disgusting 🤮 stories like this make me want to screw over every girl I get with to get back at them.

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@Mo-fd7qd if it helps the one who was flying out got dumped and the guy she was cheating WITH has a real gf now lmao. They always get their karma

    • @gizzellemcleish1837
      @gizzellemcleish1837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Preach 🤣

    • @scotttracy9333
      @scotttracy9333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@jbb8261 You won the race already. They may not see it yet, but they will. Keep yourself fit and trim, be his peace, and he'll stick around.
      These same women will try and steal your guy in time. Don't give him reason to leave you

    • @zeuslife1016
      @zeuslife1016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Realcaramelli
    @Realcaramelli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2599

    I’m a white guy, I had no idea how similar the issues black guys face in the dating world. The media really does isolate us from one another

    • @blu7544
      @blu7544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      Crazy right

    • @booneboone9705
      @booneboone9705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

      Damn is it that bad for white too???🤔🤔

    • @he--ru362
      @he--ru362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +369

      Us guys are in this together,cheers 🍻

    • @sage_comics
      @sage_comics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

      @@booneboone9705 When you chat to different race of women some are far worse, you wouldn't believe the nonsense they come up with or believe, and what's worse is, they don't even know why

    • @zvengeancezealot3540
      @zvengeancezealot3540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Don’t blame the media for some people choosing to lack knowledge,insight,the need to learn more and to think outside the illusion that is in front of them.

  • @DeadlyKitten90
    @DeadlyKitten90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    Kevin’s advice has helped me in my marriage. I was contemplating divorcing my husband over an issue when I found Kevin’s channel. His advice actually helped put things into perspective and realize that the issue I was dealing with my husband wasn’t worth divorcing and ruining my child’s life and my life over. Me and my husband are actually happier than we’ve ever been in our entire marriage. Thank you Kevin!

    • @Yerenj
      @Yerenj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What was the issue

    • @DeadlyKitten90
      @DeadlyKitten90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      He decided to exercise his options

    • @gregorylightbody255
      @gregorylightbody255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@DeadlyKitten90 Nothing wrong with exercising his options if he's a high value man

    • @Liz-ic6jb
      @Liz-ic6jb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@gregorylightbody255 Oh there is definitely something wrong with that with any married man if this was not agreed upon before marriage.

    • @gregorylightbody255
      @gregorylightbody255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Liz-ic6jb If you're going to be dealing with a high value man then you should already know he's going to cheat on you because High Value men have an abundance of options when it comes to women

  • @ShellyRoKnows
    @ShellyRoKnows 3 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    @Kevinsamuels you saved my marriage and in effect, my life.
    I stumbled upon your channel while I was in the process of getting a divorce and was preparing to be a working, single mother of two.
    I was in my masculine energy and was falling into the modern woman/feminist trap when I started to see parts of myself in the women that would call into your show. Scared the crap out of me and I didnt want to end up stressed, depressed, bitter-and alone.
    Happy to say we never did sign those divorce papers and I’m still married. I decided to hold myself accountable, go back to therapy, embrace my feminine energy and let my husband lead because of your shows.
    I’m now a better woman, wife and mother.
    I’ve learned valuable lessons to pass down to my kids and it’s all thanks to you sir! My family and our next generations to come have you to thank. You’re truly a blessing!!!! 🙏🏽😍

    • @bandiddid8583
      @bandiddid8583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      👍👍

    • @yannickmukendi4364
      @yannickmukendi4364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Happy for you!!! This is great 🙏 more blessings.

    • @henrijeune
      @henrijeune 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How do I repost this.....????

    • @Deebo100
      @Deebo100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dope to hear! 💪🏽

    • @washingtonnganga4272
      @washingtonnganga4272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great!! Very important man in this times.

  • @winstonthomas4576
    @winstonthomas4576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +478

    My wife openly expressed her joy for sitting across the table from me at one of our first dates. She said she could not believe that my previous wife left the relationship to miss out on the sight of me across a dinner table. One of the best compliments ever. Now I have no problem taking my wife to nice dinners. I just love the way she stares at me to this very day. I see the love and marvel in her eyes. She loves the ground I walk on and I have no problem giving her my best.

    • @professionalpookie
      @professionalpookie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What does this have to do with anything????

    • @jonathanmarvens
      @jonathanmarvens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      @@professionalpookie Lol. Let that man have his moment 😄

    • @AniMeLoVeR23451
      @AniMeLoVeR23451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@professionalpookie im sure he will love the way she looks at him in court for divorce once she gets everything from him

    • @seanieddavilar2463
      @seanieddavilar2463 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙄

    • @__mikee03
      @__mikee03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@AniMeLoVeR23451 😂😂🚀

  • @mhailey123
    @mhailey123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    My dad gave me some of the greatest marriage advice ever. He told me that "in the beginning, you want each other. In the end you need each other. There is this long time in between where you neither want nor need each other and that is the time you have to get through. It is your and her duty to get through it." He and my mom celebrated their 55 year anniversary and I'm on my 20 year anniversary.

    • @mighty1738
      @mighty1738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thanks for sharing.

    • @imanidiamondz1975
      @imanidiamondz1975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🥰🙏🏾

    • @user-xw4vg1vy5e
      @user-xw4vg1vy5e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This is great! I took a screenshot lol

    • @briansumner800
      @briansumner800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Blessed!!

    • @Jpillow24
      @Jpillow24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congrats on 20 years and thank you for sharing.

  • @barbaras178
    @barbaras178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    Love your "get off social media, get in the gym" quote! I deactivated all my social media platforms in February and haven't returned and it's been the best thing for me. I'm also in the gym now at least 4-5 times a week. Godfather proves he knows what he's talking about once again!

    • @blacksonbikescycling
      @blacksonbikescycling 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      All praises

    • @SugedaBoss1
      @SugedaBoss1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💪🏾

    • @kennethmcdonald6524
      @kennethmcdonald6524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello Kim

    • @clmk28
      @clmk28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Awesome, I have also followed many of his tips and the results have been over flowing

    • @FrescoTexas
      @FrescoTexas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You already a prize based off deleting social media alone, you a rarity👏🏾

  • @jayhiryu2139
    @jayhiryu2139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1261

    Shirley had some nerve saying she dumped her BF because he wasn't health conscious when she 5' 4" over 200 pounds breaking the BMI limit. I sleep.

    • @johnny_skill
      @johnny_skill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      So she was ‘trying’... but after she broke the relationship up... she put more weight on? So what was happening to trying? I sleep too

    • @Rotkop
      @Rotkop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Wake me up.... when September ends....

    • @davyjones2032
      @davyjones2032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Man I'm always with Kevin but I think this was a rare case where I think the woman wasn't wrong to not find obvious things she did. I had a co-worker like her once. It's pretty obvious that she is just a big girl and is socially awkward and probably low self esteem. I can't imagine she has options so her biggest issue is the weight.
      Dude was smashing her for four years while probably riding her whip, cheating and then kept it moving. The worst thing she probably did was ask why they don't go out in public or something like that.
      The dude deserves an L for just fucking ANYTHING unless he actually cared about her. She did play herself saying the other dude wasn't health conscious.

    • @shadyshinichi2JZ
      @shadyshinichi2JZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Big Burly Shirley! 💀😂😂

    • @patrickchula
      @patrickchula 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She shoulda honest the weight from the jump

  • @oscarp2629
    @oscarp2629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    Kevin: "DID YOU HAVE SEX IN THE LAST 5 YEARS??"
    Her: Yes
    Kevin: "Then you should have had a relationship!" 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @brownskinbunny3722
    @brownskinbunny3722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1430

    I don’t get why the girls don’t come on looking their best . If I ever called Kevin I would be on on point like I’m going to a job interview 😂😂😂😂

    • @YACKYSNACKY
      @YACKYSNACKY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I know that's right.

    • @samanthabenard4137
      @samanthabenard4137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Right!! They know he's going to go in on them!! Blows my mind!! What are they thinking!!😩🤦🏾‍♀️😂

    • @andreaa.1393
      @andreaa.1393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly 😂

    • @yonce2347
      @yonce2347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      For real. They are way too comfortable. Do they not realize that hundreds of thousands of people are watching them? I aspire to have that level of confidence in myself.

    • @chandlerc4606
      @chandlerc4606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Exactly!! My grandma would say these women don't have no pride in themselves.

  • @maliklewis7477
    @maliklewis7477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    “Your a 220 pound woman and you talking about a mans not health conscious , yeah I’m gonna end this before this gets out of hand ” I’m dead asab 😂😂😂

    • @mindofmantae8288
      @mindofmantae8288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @michaelbrown8861
      @michaelbrown8861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Man you can’t make this shit up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mrmichaelgilmore9176
      @mrmichaelgilmore9176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣 💀💀💀

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She was 275 or maybe 300 200 was in high school

    • @johnbrowntheprophet
      @johnbrowntheprophet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@GETBIG4WARD - Yeah, there’s no way she was any less than 250 or 260 lbs.

  • @shreddedmetal2526
    @shreddedmetal2526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    Kevin, you have haters because "no one is hated more than he who speaks the truth" - Plato.

    • @jeremiahsams2848
      @jeremiahsams2848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      'When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar you're only telling the world that you fear what he might say'. --George R.R. Martin

  • @londie6555
    @londie6555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    I’m 44 and can’t get enough of this. This is the only podcast I listen to while working or when I have free time to watch TV for the past 2 months...I’m working on myself and on my relationships... The truth hurts but I’m focused on results... Thank You Mr. Samuels...

    • @doggystyledave
      @doggystyledave 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm 40 and have my shit together but still have zero luck with online dating (probably because my opening line isn't "You got Cashapp?").
      Meeting someone in person is a completely different story- I have a chance... We can exchange smiles, words, non-verbal communications, smells LOL...
      I've been putting bitches in their place for years-- they hate that shit.

    • @kenishabogans7081
      @kenishabogans7081 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too, I listen while I work from home

    • @cyncity8772
      @cyncity8772 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @londie Same

  • @myyoutubeaccount8323
    @myyoutubeaccount8323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    I’m glad I discovered Kevin’s channel. I’m always so bombarded with the whole “I don’t need a man” mentality and it’s not a good mindset for me to be around.

    • @antonydrossos5719
      @antonydrossos5719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      You know what Kevin would tell you; "Fire your single friends"

    • @HHH-r1x
      @HHH-r1x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Fire all your single friends 🤣

    • @michaelbrown8861
      @michaelbrown8861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I have seen it all the time .and can’t understand how women don’t seem to understand this ...single woman keeps other women single 🤦🏿‍♂️🙆🏽‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @BlakJakk
      @BlakJakk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kick those dusty bches to the curb

    • @mj7335
      @mj7335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Read: Laura Doyle
      First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors and then put it into
      practice.

  • @Hubtones1
    @Hubtones1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I'm genuinely happy for this guy's success. We need more people that'll speak the truth without a bunch of fear of consequences

    • @Goodgame32
      @Goodgame32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’ve been doing it all my adult life. It’s my way or they pay me!

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts!!!

    • @SheilaTrueLove
      @SheilaTrueLove 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      BM who only like light and pale skin women should get a taste of their own medicine. People should start FIRING them off their jobs and KICKING them out of their Residents because they are NOT their PREFERENCE. Let these owners say they DON’T PREFER DSBM because they make people feel UNSAFE and they look THREATENING, also they've decided to start treating them the way they treat BW. Tell BM (especially if they have brown, dark or black skin) that people just don’t PREFER them. BM who treat their own race and nation of women this way are no better than the KKK. Let them get a taste of what COLORISM feels like. When they get KICKED out of places, I want the people to tell them they don't like brown or dark skin BM because they are not PREFERRED in their Establishments. I am so sick and tired of seeing BM trying to tear their own nation and race of women down. It's DISGUSTING. They will rant and rave about RASCISM, but bring up COLORISM, and they stand in SILENCE looking STUPID. No more putting them in videos, movies, magazines, or putting BW with them in shows....Why? Because they are NOT A PREFERENCE. Put Italian, Asian, White and Spanish men in all the videos, movies, magazines, etc with BW. Marketing and Advertise BW with any other race but a BM. That will show it's not about RASCISM...No more DSBM!

    • @wordtothewise1735
      @wordtothewise1735 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SheilaTrueLove
      You sound like a hater

    • @JoshuaMichael1122
      @JoshuaMichael1122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SheilaTrueLove ma’am, with all due respect..what does your husband have to say about this?

  • @PrepareHisWay
    @PrepareHisWay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +695

    "The weight didnt keep you from opening up your legs!"
    💀💀💀

    • @CArsonVevo
      @CArsonVevo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      She felt stupid when he hit her with that one😂

    • @i_have_spoken
      @i_have_spoken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      she needed that dose of reality

    • @473sgpm2
      @473sgpm2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      HAAA! GOTTEEEM!!!

    • @corneliusb1671
      @corneliusb1671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      😬🤣🤣🤣

    • @qp1212
      @qp1212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      And she’s going to think a man willing to have sex with her translates into men as a whole desiring her for anything more than a quick coitus 😂

  • @the_lifeoftimbo
    @the_lifeoftimbo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    To the woman who said she’s 230 lbs now, he didn’t commit to you because you didn’t compete to keep him. You were probably attractive at 150 lbs then when you were at 180 lbs he didn’t see as attractive anymore and went to go find another more fit and attractive woman.

    • @gregoryking4796
      @gregoryking4796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Plus she continued to gain afterwards. She let herself go and took him for granted.

    • @northcoast2469
      @northcoast2469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@gregoryking4796 and This is what women need to stop doing... keep yourself in shape.

    • @gregoryking4796
      @gregoryking4796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@northcoast2469 as long as they have social media to post selfies and get likes and instant gratification, it will never change

    • @northcoast2469
      @northcoast2469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gregoryking4796 EXACTLY so social media definitely plays a big part in this.

    • @stephangeffen
      @stephangeffen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gregoryking4796 Precisely!

  • @JustTanoe
    @JustTanoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I told my then boyfriend that I would not move out of stae until I was engaged. Tough discussion to have but necessary. He proposed and now we've been married for 9 years and 3 kids.

    • @xmochix604
      @xmochix604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good for you! 👏👏👏

    • @jeremiahsams2848
      @jeremiahsams2848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Smart woman 👏👏👏

    • @liecrusher3506
      @liecrusher3506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Make sure you keep being a GOOD wife.

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's not an ultimatum that gets them it's the standard. U gave him a choice but you also made a choice. Good job sis.

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not an ultimatum that gets them it's the standard. U gave him a choice but you also made a choice. Good job sis.

  • @Foreverislife
    @Foreverislife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    Cant believe this lady is 220 lbs and she talking about HIM being unhealthy ! Smh the entitlement of modern women today is sad and outrageous

    • @tylercouture216
      @tylercouture216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's a understatement

    • @davyjones2032
      @davyjones2032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I took it as her saying he was overweight himself and probably not best for her since she already big as hell without a tag team partner. Also she clearly doesn't have many dating options if at all. She doesn't come off as entitled as all. More like any dude that shows her attention and looks halfway decent finna get a whip co-signed 🤣

    • @blast4me754
      @blast4me754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Average men are way more accepting of average women than in vice versa ....

    • @An337766
      @An337766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Correction she was 180 or 190 at the time 😂😂 talking about him being unhealthy now she’s 30 pounds heavier which is worse!

    • @tailoredbynature6984
      @tailoredbynature6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Remember, you can't see what you don't know.

  • @omnikrauzer4191
    @omnikrauzer4191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    If a woman can deactivate and delete social media, live of her own self, face her demons and be accountable while developing herself mentally, physically and spiritually, she has fully clocked the game.

    • @King-ru9ve
      @King-ru9ve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      You just described a man’s journey.

    • @captainsonypony2709
      @captainsonypony2709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And avoided the wall

    • @cashisclear
      @cashisclear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Women CANT do this lol you can wish and dream all you want. Sharks don't walk on land and it would be foolish to expect "one of them" can

    • @popa213
      @popa213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      If women could live without attention (because that’s all social media offers) they could all be married in my opinion or at least be in a polygamous marriage to build.

    • @oryan7420
      @oryan7420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That'll never happen.

  • @LipGoddess68
    @LipGoddess68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This was epic!!!!! I swear, after each video that I watch, I leave away thinking, "why didn't I have this kind of Truth 30yrs ago". I'm 53, and if I could say anything to my younger self, it would be "you can have your husband and everything else too". Women of my time were told to focus on going to college, getting an education, and having a career *so that you don't have to depend on anyone* "You can get married later".....pssshhh🙄 "it'll be easier that way" "you won't have to struggle"...... To a degree, that may be true. But what if the right man came along, married you, saw your desire to get an education and nurtured that vision. I wish I could've had an *Uncle Kevin* back then.

    • @NotEnuff8
      @NotEnuff8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No disrespect but thats the exact opposite of the statement at hand. The overall tone is you can't have everything, you must respect sacrifice and discipline of building with someone else. Its all choices and living with what you get.

    • @LipGoddess68
      @LipGoddess68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Mike Seork absolutely 👌🏾

  • @trfaison
    @trfaison 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Thank you Kevin.I appreciate how you presented to the caller that having sex was still relating. Just not in a girlfriend capacity. I often have discussions with other women about how we devalue ourselves by making oneself available for sex but not real relationships. Doesn't make sense to me to say "you're worthy of my body but not my time and emotional dedication". All this casual sex isn't actually liberating

    • @truthteller6929
      @truthteller6929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are so correct.

    • @markouljancic975
      @markouljancic975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      it is... for men, just the opposite 4 wimen though

    • @kuestudio882
      @kuestudio882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Those women don't even value their bodies in the first place. They think they do but give it up so easily to Chads and Rays without any resistance

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @marcus3672
      @marcus3672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tira keep spitting facts. Let your friends know about this🤝

  • @vickinicole
    @vickinicole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Thanks for being kind to me Kevin.

    • @ToyManFlyer1100
      @ToyManFlyer1100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Believe me... HE was very nice to you....Normally, he don't take no prisoners....

    • @jaredjames1989
      @jaredjames1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      He only gives what ppl put out so thank you for not acting a fool and interrupting him when you called in. ❤️

    • @missbecka331
      @missbecka331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Thank you for being so transparent. I hope you find what your looking for ❤️

    • @ThurstMETV
      @ThurstMETV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Best wishes to you on your journey

    • @H1GHD3FF
      @H1GHD3FF 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Appreciate you being honest. All of us are learning

  • @kcblack3621
    @kcblack3621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    He counseled that woman from Dallas like it was his daughter. Much respect💪🏾

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes💙

    • @christianhutchinson4559
      @christianhutchinson4559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I mean someone im her family ain't tell her you don't get on the plane back home unless you have an engagement ring.
      Dude drops 6 Gs on a ring, best believe that chick ain't going nowhere.
      Me and my wife got engaged...I still think about the money she running around with on her hand...and how long I had to work/save to buy it.

    • @kcblack3621
      @kcblack3621 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christianhutchinson4559 that's real bruh!

  • @daware4653
    @daware4653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    Social media has given women an over inflated sense of their worth!!

    • @marvinmj7075
      @marvinmj7075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That should be on a shirt

    • @JAHDEEZmusic
      @JAHDEEZmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Big facts

    • @lrrussellrussell8227
      @lrrussellrussell8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because WOMAN try to keep up with social media. And do what they are going as far as Looks and Wants 🤔

    • @ProsperNyawuza
      @ProsperNyawuza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That ❤ button on the gram has these women wildin'

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hasn’t social media inflated men’s sense of their worth ? 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @mikhailabdurrachman2443
    @mikhailabdurrachman2443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    If they reject you when they are still mesmerizing, then you must reject them when they have become mediocre 💪

    • @robtyler2128
      @robtyler2128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s Terrible advice, pump and dump.

    • @DreScope
      @DreScope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@robtyler2128 😂😂😂lmao

    • @backstabingpike
      @backstabingpike 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💪💪💪💪💪

  • @jordyCRoss
    @jordyCRoss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Kevin’s advice has really helped me as a young lady. Being 24 years old,I didn’t really have the guidance I needed when it came to men and relationships. Family pushed for education but never a marriage. 🤷🏾‍♀️ ALL FROM UNMARRIED, BITTER WOMEN 😂😂😂 I’ve learned so much over the past few weeks! It is so informative and refreshing. My current relationship is much healthier and I’ve had better outcomes with him because of this channel. Thanks Kevin! And those single friends have been kicked to the curb! 😂😂 *Hasta la vestaaaa” 😂😂

    • @CEWIII9873
      @CEWIII9873 ปีที่แล้ว

      "vista"
      How is life as a baby mama, BTW?

  • @KolorsbyKel
    @KolorsbyKel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    **Thank you so much Kevin.... I am 37 and married for 20 years; your content have show me how bless I am!!! I couldn’t image being out here in the dating world.. My husband just retired from the military! ( yes I was able to stay home with all 3 of our children) I didn’t realize how that was a privilege 🥰
    Some Women may need to change their mindset cater to your men

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏💯

    • @cpt.arctourus7950
      @cpt.arctourus7950 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You where married at 17?

    • @lrrussellrussell8227
      @lrrussellrussell8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Trust me your in a good place. Because it’s crazy out here, and woman are out of control. True facts and I’m a woman who was married 16 years...

    • @KolorsbyKel
      @KolorsbyKel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@cpt.arctourus7950 yes married and grad 👩‍🎓 high school the same day

    • @KolorsbyKel
      @KolorsbyKel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@skinfanjay oh I was NOT pregnancy 🤰🏽 before I was married

  • @jasmineeichelberger699
    @jasmineeichelberger699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    I’m 26 and I definitely needed to hear this, I was raised to be an independent woman who don’t need a man… but in actuality I do want a man 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @ThurstMETV
      @ThurstMETV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Good to hear you're changing your mindset. Where are you from?

    • @solidman7510
      @solidman7510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey great job u will be a great wife 👍

    • @BlakJakk
      @BlakJakk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      At least you not 36 deciding to finally be honest with yourself... because it's over for those women.

    • @jimmythemuscle9612
      @jimmythemuscle9612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      The actuality should be that you “Need” a man.....you’re still on the fence by saying you “want” a man.

    • @ThurstMETV
      @ThurstMETV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jimmythemuscle9612 from The spot? Lol

  • @ankhenaten2
    @ankhenaten2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    If a woman says she wants to marry but not now maybe later:
    Translation: she doesn't love nor want you she is looking for a upgrade

    • @demetrijackson5357
      @demetrijackson5357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Great and real talk
      It means you are the contingency plan.

    • @reup317
      @reup317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And she wants to get ran through before she does so

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅

  • @Armand_yo
    @Armand_yo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Kevin out here spittin, these are bitter harsh horse pills, and this applies across the board not just the black women, know a lot of latina sisters and some are my relatives with the same issues, they drank the feminist poison 😤

    • @cpt.arctourus7950
      @cpt.arctourus7950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know the white woman ain't much better granted I'm a dude I'm just saying what I'm seeing

    • @ninjanerdbjjandfitness9544
      @ninjanerdbjjandfitness9544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      White women are all feminists now. Even here in Kansas.

  • @noelwebley1970
    @noelwebley1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Young men out there please listen to him. You are surprised the women out here aren't the prize. Stay on your purpose just like he said. Thanks again Mr Samuel

    • @clmk28
      @clmk28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Its really the only way tp win

    • @SS-sy4uu
      @SS-sy4uu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      An old dude once told me when I was young, You can loose money chasing women, but you will never loose women chasing money. Stay on that grind young blood! Your perfect wife will present herself out of nowhere.

  • @JLynnDsMyoosik
    @JLynnDsMyoosik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Kevin is literally out here simply telling folks that the sky is blue, and his detractors are like:
    1. “I find the word ‘blue’ offensive. He should’ve used ‘cobalt’ instead. He must hate skies.”
    2. “Who is he to be talking about the sky? He’s not a pilot!”
    3. Some refuse to believe the sky is blue at all because they’ve seen pictures of a Hawaiian sunset, and it looked orangeish-pink. So they *wrongfully* conclude that since the sky *has been* non-blue at a point and time, this means that it’s not blue. Therefore, they can hold out on hope that they’ll catch that Hawaiian sunset one day and prove him wrong - despite never having been to Hawaii and not being able to afford a trip there.
    4. When none of the above works, and his message and platform continue to rise exponentially, they start grasping for straws in effort to discredit him. Not having found anything, they try to use meaningless, arbitrary things from his past against him, hoping it’ll prevent ppl from listening to him. “He fell off the swing in the 3rd grade y’all, don’t listen to him!” 😂😂😂
    Disclaimer: posted this under a previous video, and was advised to continue sharing my analogy. Y’all be blessed.

    • @bigsteppnalex
      @bigsteppnalex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bruh this is exactly what happens 😭😭😭 be honest is this shit original or not?

    • @JLynnDsMyoosik
      @JLynnDsMyoosik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bigsteppnalex I don’t know whether to be insulted or impressed by the fact you’d think I plagiarized a long ass (but well thought out) TH-cam comment. 😭 I have nothing whatsoever to gain from lying about something as trivial as this. But to answer your question:
      1. I’m not a “bruh”. 2. This is 💯 my original thoughts/post, though it’s the 2nd time I’ve ever posted it (with very small edits). First time being under the “Seriously, What’s going on?” video
      I do appreciate that it resonated with you, though. Much love.

    • @bigsteppnalex
      @bigsteppnalex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JLynnDsMyoosik my bad miss, did not mean to offend you 💯 you’re describing ad hominem and hasty generalization fallacies, idk the rest tho tbh 😂 but I understand and it makes perfect sense. Unfortunately, kevin isnt the only person/speaker that faces these obstacles. World would be a much better place if nobody did what you described.

    • @JLynnDsMyoosik
      @JLynnDsMyoosik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bigsteppnalex No offense taken. It’s all love. And I agree. The world would be an amazing place if ppl could just eat the meat, and spit out the bones when it comes to powerful and factual information. There ain’t a scandal salacious enough that Kevin could get caught up in that would undo the accuracy of his message. If the people who support his message are also doing the work to apply it, we will have a much different black America in 5-10 years. You be blessed. 💕

    • @longbeachmaumba7059
      @longbeachmaumba7059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JLynnDsMyoosik
      You hit the nail on the head. That's exactly what's happening.

  • @tyronebiggums1
    @tyronebiggums1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +419

    Wait, so she was dating a guy while she was 190 lbs and "trying" to lose weight and her guy wasn’t health conscious, so she dumped him. Now she’s 200+ lbs and single? Bruh, you can’t make this stuff up 😂

    • @Joann5
      @Joann5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂

    • @MissyRichmond
      @MissyRichmond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Incredible... HOW does she lack so much self awareness? Godfather let her keep talking, and sure enough, she showed her true self. Good grief.

    • @michaelbrown8861
      @michaelbrown8861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The excuses they come up with to break up theirs relationships is just stunning 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Mrs.Rhoden
      @Mrs.Rhoden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In her defense she may want to have a man who wants to be on a similar path. If their not on the same page in the health and fitness department the relationship will eventually fall apart anyway 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @jonathanmarvens
      @jonathanmarvens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@Mrs.Rhoden If she really wants to work on her weight, she shouldn’t be out there subjecting any man to deal with her. If she wants to date while she’s that size, then she doesn’t get to have those standards

  • @CArsonVevo
    @CArsonVevo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    I think a lot of these women who didn’t have fathers or father figures are taken back or offended by the things The Godfather says because his tone and demeanor is that of a strong black father. Those that had one know what it is💯

    • @ZackSuru
      @ZackSuru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      So true.

    • @clmk28
      @clmk28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Facts

    • @KardiFan2000
      @KardiFan2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@AP-vo2mp Sadly, a lot of those protective fathers were brainwashed by the feminist mindset of "where are all the good men?"

    • @ThurstMETV
      @ThurstMETV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      FACTS!! I was just telling my best friend this who coaches football. He was telling me how stressed out he is having to raise these kids and coach them. Most not having fathers in the home aren't use to the way he talks to them. It's disheartening

    • @SteppinRazor76
      @SteppinRazor76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I go through that with my wife. Her dad wasn’t around either. Sometimes she thinks I am yelling or getting loud when I am just being direct. But she sees that now

  • @moniquehewlett1634
    @moniquehewlett1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Yes, my relationship is gotten so much better since I started watching Kevin videos. I’m learning how to keep my good black man, I seeing a lot of things that I was doing wrong. I’ve seen the ways I could lose him, an that’s not what I’m trying to do. So thank you Kevin an hopefully I’ll be married sooon 🙏🏾

    • @LOKOFOE
      @LOKOFOE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This needs millions of upvotes

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙏💯💜

    • @abrahamgustavoguitiperez-m2937
      @abrahamgustavoguitiperez-m2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How old are you? What state do you live in? Do you have a degree? How tall are you? How much do you weigh? Do you have children? How long have you been with him?

    • @moniquehewlett1634
      @moniquehewlett1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abrahamgustavoguitiperez-m2937 Iam 31 I live in Tennessee, No degree Iam 5’2 142. We have 2 daughters together an we have been together 8 years.

  • @jaredbraggs1
    @jaredbraggs1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    How deranged do you have to be to pretend to be a twin. We just watched a bad soap opera just so this girl can get attention. This is what us men got to deal with out here? Lord get her some help.

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts

    • @insuchaway
      @insuchaway 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      G I pray that I never encounter anything like her in any scenario.
      I can see her getting grilled by Detectives for some nefarious shit.

    • @jaredbraggs1
      @jaredbraggs1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@insuchaway I think we all already have, a woman suddenly changing and being someone else just to get you, then going back to who she really is once she got you and stops trying.

    • @insuchaway
      @insuchaway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jaredbraggs1 G when you put it like that... SHIT.
      That's one to think about.

    • @rafaelphillips6995
      @rafaelphillips6995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are not lied.

  • @jonvibes1k
    @jonvibes1k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    I like this talk because even when he’s talking to women he’s subconsciously saying men step our game up too. What he’s saying can essentially be applied to anyone that’s truly trying to better themselves.

    • @ayaction
      @ayaction 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

    • @mdotbeedot
      @mdotbeedot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Speaking as a man getting his shit together & making progress, this is why I fux with KS. Personally would feel like a hypocrite to urge the ladies to do better and I'm not doing the same for myself.

    • @purorichard6770
      @purorichard6770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He’s always saying that .

    • @purorichard6770
      @purorichard6770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mdotbeedot well said .

    • @TJ-100
      @TJ-100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did, I reflected on myself years ago and now I have a nice house, nice car and great job. But I see no change with women so I’m a savage until I die.

  • @lm3729
    @lm3729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I work at a gym. I’m listening to this while I’m getting ready for work. I believe social media is toxic. I keep TH-cam because that’s where I can observe other trainers and expand my knowledge. Also I’m foreign, so I get to learn how to pronounce words that are spelled one way, but pronounced completely different.

    • @senabox8084
      @senabox8084 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like the word "read"

    • @lm3729
      @lm3729 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@senabox8084 yes that would be an example. But mostly body and muscle related. Still can’t pronounce most of them. But on the plus side, I’m not the only one :)

  • @t_2_da_y
    @t_2_da_y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    When Kevin said is your son gonna have to take care of you at retirement age, I felt that all thru my spirit. I’m doing that shit now as we speak smh

    • @insuchaway
      @insuchaway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Make sure you maintain your relationship life outside that role, feelings be dammed.
      always think - "if this shit stopped tomorrow, what would I be doing next week?"

    • @dominiquelawson9819
      @dominiquelawson9819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ain’t your problem focus on yourself, comeback for her when your doing better

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m telling my mom to get it together now because she’s so clueless .

    • @BlakJakk
      @BlakJakk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Smh I feel for you. Mothers can be very selfish

    • @bugsyalexander
      @bugsyalexander 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Man brother I’m doing the same 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @VidzByRaj
    @VidzByRaj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    why is kevin’s channel lit! he got his own dancer for the intermission!!! KEVIN!!!! 😂😂

    • @MrMannface
      @MrMannface 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Are you a dancer. If so submit a video.

    • @mark84g5
      @mark84g5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      You must be new here

    • @MrMannface
      @MrMannface 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, found him before he went viral

    • @roolyfe
      @roolyfe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Money 💰 world 🌍 girl!

    • @olliwest7341
      @olliwest7341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's the MWG

  • @msqueenlyminded7579
    @msqueenlyminded7579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Kevin helped me improve my relationship, I am so glad I found his wisdom. My ring is on the way! Women must be accountable for our decisions, must be intentional about actions and image in the world, and must understand the value in our feminine 💕🙏🏽

  • @qui-gonjinn5567
    @qui-gonjinn5567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Took Kevin's advice and went to the botanical gardens in my city last weekend and met a really nice lady.

    • @novaseven1804
      @novaseven1804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yay!! There are many nice women out there! Just don’t look for them on social media or Insta hoes haha

    • @nobunaga4720
      @nobunaga4720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aight, I am happy for you but be careful.

    • @ToyManFlyer1100
      @ToyManFlyer1100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Way to go , bro...Gives the rest of us hope...

    • @thefolliclefight
      @thefolliclefight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Plant those seeds bro 😂

    • @captainsonypony2709
      @captainsonypony2709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gorgeous feminine women are there especially the Brooklyn Botanical gardens

  • @splendadaddy2898
    @splendadaddy2898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    "The weight didn't stopped you from opening your legs" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @xmochix604
      @xmochix604 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂🤣🤣

  • @KENZYmode
    @KENZYmode 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    “ You don’t move for a man who’s not a Fiancé “ - KS

    • @caligulamaximus9100
      @caligulamaximus9100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      100% right!

    • @technopirate304
      @technopirate304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When my girlfriend and I relocated to Atlanta 26 years ago, she had my ring on her finger. I was never going to ask her to change her life like that without some type of commitment.
      We are still married to this day.

    • @RearviewWisdom
      @RearviewWisdom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@technopirate304 yo I love that there’s some older couples that are in these comments. It brings such a balance . When it’s just us millennials it gets messy. I am 28 and married for 7 years but it’s wonderful hearing people who’ve been married for decades affirm what’s being said

    • @technopirate304
      @technopirate304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RearviewWisdom One thing I have learned is that nobody cares about your marriage if you don't. Focus on your spouse and forget about outside people's opinions.

  • @Curly.Leigh23
    @Curly.Leigh23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Get off of social media and get in the gym.... best advice for 2021 so far❗️❗️❗️

  • @xander-with-a-z
    @xander-with-a-z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    When someone Shows you who they are , Believe them , the First time...

    • @johnbrody738
      @johnbrody738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Spot on! Most people tell you a lot about themselves without even uttering a word.

    • @johnbrody738
      @johnbrody738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Zah C Exactly! What a great show. It is revealing to see some people on both ends of the spectrum.
      You have the dirt balls that treat people like crap and it is gratifying to see the undercover boss fire them.
      Then you have the amazing folks that really work hard and take their job seriously and get rewarded for their efforts!

  • @elgatoconbolas
    @elgatoconbolas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Truth, after truth, after truth. You are a great man Kevin by helping people inside and outside your community. Thank you.

  • @QKZuou
    @QKZuou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Glad to see him drinking more water

    • @OwolabbyAzeez
      @OwolabbyAzeez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ahlie 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bmoreinurmouth
      @bmoreinurmouth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Its different types of water.

    • @omari_styles
      @omari_styles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Too much R.B

    • @PassportG
      @PassportG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@bmoreinurmouth better than redbull right?

    • @itsruffoutchea6636
      @itsruffoutchea6636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@PassportG having to deal with most of these nuts calling in. I'm surprised he's not drinking red bull and liquor to cope.

  • @outerspaceman7534
    @outerspaceman7534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I love it when Kevin shows these women for like three seconds to show us what they look like.

    • @vanhuvanhuvese2738
      @vanhuvanhuvese2738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      its not like that its a "glitch " in the system

    • @lrrussellrussell8227
      @lrrussellrussell8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because these woman come on to argue and boost there social media page. Not for help and or real questions 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @outerspaceman7534
      @outerspaceman7534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lrrussellrussell8227 they fail at being women.

  • @DefiesAllStereotypes
    @DefiesAllStereotypes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm generation X and always refused to date single mothers. I never outright expressed it when I was single, I just never gave single mothers a second glance. I believe men of the past were more open to being step fathers because single mothers were the exception not the rule. Single mothers also knew that they were at a disadvantage and in turn appreciated the men who were willing to marry them despite their child. Now we have the exact opposite. Single mothers have become the norm not the exception and they expect men to be okay with them having children (often multiple children by multiple men). The answer to that expectation is No, and men aren't wrong for feeling this way. Being a step father is a stressful, thankless job, with no reward. Children are a man's legacy and men want their own legacies. Men want their own families and to use their resources to take care of their own families. It is good that women are hearing and more seem to be listening to how much of a turnoff it is to have so many single mothers in the dating world.

    • @CEWIII9873
      @CEWIII9873 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      meh
      Pump and dump
      simple

  • @KadeemJames
    @KadeemJames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Yes Fellas Stop Telling Women What They Wanna Hear , And Tell Them The Truth … They’re Grown , They Won’t Break 💪🏿

  • @superstevey5
    @superstevey5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    A Guy that is trying will be taken for granted even ignored... But a guy that isn't will be given countless opportunities to repeat the same mistakes not only for himself but the women open to helping him repeat those very same mistakes

    • @STeroidsnicca
      @STeroidsnicca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Overextending yourself turns women off.

    • @The280zkid
      @The280zkid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Some of the realest shit I’ve ever heard.

    • @JuiceIVStat
      @JuiceIVStat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s because they’re imprinting on the wrong guys. For guys that aren’t her usual type, she demands a steeper price.

  • @rochstan123
    @rochstan123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As a brother in the UK, I wish I had someone like KS telling me this stuff back in the 90's.

    • @CEWIII9873
      @CEWIII9873 ปีที่แล้ว

      You had Thatcher
      Same difference

  • @JacobColson34
    @JacobColson34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    "While you're listening to me you should be doing crunches" LMAO 🤣 💀💀

    • @lrrussellrussell8227
      @lrrussellrussell8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Something 🥲😂🤣

    • @gemini8620
      @gemini8620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m on number 25 😉

    • @Likexner
      @Likexner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why not? I lift weights while listening to KS.

  • @dh7731
    @dh7731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Kevin seems like he’s gotten more patience with these callers.

    • @ayaction
      @ayaction 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts 💯

    • @Jaywilly24
      @Jaywilly24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      He got everyone's attention now it's more important for him to drive the message home.

    • @ThurstMETV
      @ThurstMETV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Jaywilly24 Yep

    • @Seyestaxx
      @Seyestaxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’ve been thinking that for a lil while now

    • @NowioFel
      @NowioFel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      A dose of full night sleep and a growing supportive audience seems to do good for ones mood 👍

  • @miguelfiallos7234
    @miguelfiallos7234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I'm a 44 year old latino..
    Love your show. You say it like it should be said. Keep doing your thing brother..

    • @dumillion23
      @dumillion23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your icon is priceless... love it!

  • @debrasmith5752
    @debrasmith5752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I sure do wish that I would have had this man when I was younger! I'm a senior and everything he says is correct and deep.

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    All women love to get married but very very few want to be wives.

    • @evidenceofthefall9997
      @evidenceofthefall9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Stop being a bot and posting quotes you didn't even invent 💀💀💀

    • @christianvaldez755
      @christianvaldez755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@evidenceofthefall9997 he wants views but his videos are crappy

    • @evidenceofthefall9997
      @evidenceofthefall9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@christianvaldez755 Bro I'm sick of seeing this beta idiot leech off of RedPill channels for FREE. Create better content, find a niche and be original, contact more prominent creators for collaborations, pay for TH-cam ads, etc. Put some ACTUAL WORK in to grow your channel like EVERYONE else did SMMFH‼

    • @novusordoseclorum1915
      @novusordoseclorum1915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@evidenceofthefall9997 💀💀

    • @evidenceofthefall9997
      @evidenceofthefall9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@novusordoseclorum1915 It's getting pathetic at this point. Dude makes generic stolen quotes on damn near every RedPill video with less than mediocre content Smh If he put even half of this wasted time into his purpose in real life, bro would be wealthy by now 🤡

  • @bambam9690
    @bambam9690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    "Fat woman broke up with boyfriend because he was out of shape" lol

    • @WonZZY2003
      @WonZZY2003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fake compliments from there girlfriends make them entitled for that ripped and 6ft+ man 😂

  • @robertrivera5597
    @robertrivera5597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Crazy a woman calls KS calls her out says she's been on the show before she says no I'm her twin sister. You can't make this shit up.

    • @GeminibBorn
      @GeminibBorn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Insane, just insane.

    • @nemonemo3898
      @nemonemo3898 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Insanity 💯💯💯💯

  • @discocarol3348
    @discocarol3348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Your content helped me unlearn and relearn (and I lost some close toxic female relationships in the process)... my future husband led me to your videos! Thank you.

  • @fitness4mentalhealthLLC
    @fitness4mentalhealthLLC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Speaking my language for sure get in the gym, lift weights, eat right stay focused!! 👏🏾💪🏿💪🏿

  • @tonyparka78
    @tonyparka78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Damn that one caller in Miami didn’t know her man’s age; talking bout she’s confident she’s getting married. smh

    • @lrrussellrussell8227
      @lrrussellrussell8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ya right and that’s the next question your supposed to ask besides their name 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah that was a weird exchange. I also wondered if maybe he's 37 and was telling her to lie and say he's 32. She said they've known each other 10 years and she's in her early 20's so I had questions about that

    • @fxfxwc
      @fxfxwc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      "Well, what had happened was...."

    • @alfredschnozzenstein1657
      @alfredschnozzenstein1657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Brah, is it’s Alexis we are talking about, she was on Fresh and Fit a few days ago. Did anyone peep that?

    • @my2cents361
      @my2cents361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah I caught that too lol

  • @romeoo5272
    @romeoo5272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    The best show on the internet hands down 💪

  • @bmotlow
    @bmotlow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I will definitely say that things have turned around for me since i started listening. And ladies , the gym is a great place to meet men. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙏💯💜

    • @nerob22
      @nerob22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @scrateshooter
      @scrateshooter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Men, build home gyms.
      MGTOW
      Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

    • @Anna-dh4ut
      @Anna-dh4ut 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good idea! Maybe a dumb question but how do you start conversations there? I'm a little bit shy and don't know where to start

    • @bmotlow
      @bmotlow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Anna-dh4ut I never go with the intent to meet someone. I just happened to meet a few people there from time to time. Usually if someone sees me consistently and I simply say hello, they approach at some point.

  • @jamirhubbard6525
    @jamirhubbard6525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Kevin be putting us on to some bangers during the intro ngl

  • @craigevans6736
    @craigevans6736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Kevin, great work. You are blessing our community one caller at a time. African American women should actively listen and learn how to become wives. I love this show. I can’t wait for Kevin to hold Oprah Winfrey and all those accountable for ruining our women mind set, about the false notions of abuse and toxicity. Kevin’s popularity is outstanding. It shouldn’t be long, before Kevin is known World Wide. He is already known in Milan. THE MAN.

  • @wisdomandy9361
    @wisdomandy9361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I respect the hell out of your show and what you've been and are doing. Being a 32 year old (white) man working on my game, my wealth, my fitness, my health, my mind. It's frustrating to see what most women have come to in todays world. I haven't given up by any means but I'm not willing to budge on the basic needs and understands that are needed between a man and women to work in the way that works best for both. The RP message is becoming more well known every day. Keep the message going brothers! ( And sisters )

  • @jonathanmarvens
    @jonathanmarvens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    I can’t wait to find my health-minded 200lbs+ wife 🤗☺️🤗

    • @1lafchris
      @1lafchris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂

    • @DA_AUTOCRAT
      @DA_AUTOCRAT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I believe that's called a Linebacker, sir.

    • @jaysaiuniverse8628
      @jaysaiuniverse8628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @MN C if your belly is filled when you come home, mind at rest, and balls empty... Then what is there to complain about?

    • @gregory22193
      @gregory22193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @JimmyStruthers1000
      @JimmyStruthers1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@jaysaiuniverse8628 Her getting diabetes, having a heart attack and dying early leaving you to raise the kids by yourself

  • @noelwebley1970
    @noelwebley1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    You made a big giant point right there. I never saw any woman in United States while I was going to school or anyting teaching daughters how to treat a man right. Wow that is a big-time eye-opener never thought of that. We've been trained how to treat a woman right period but for the mothers for young girls. They never been taught how to treat a man right.

    • @ZackSuru
      @ZackSuru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They re not interested in that. They cannot keep a man to save their lives.

    • @noelwebley1970
      @noelwebley1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @urbancommute5239
      @urbancommute5239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That just goes to show how calculated this scheme has been for several decades, and that means that men in general in this society has been set up to be used then thrown away. Smh. especially black men!

  • @staceym.6052
    @staceym.6052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Glad to be 25 and have found you Kevin💯

  • @triciatucker_83
    @triciatucker_83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm addicted to your shows!! Thanks to Soonie Blanks! 🥰

  • @AllFather-TheStoicGod
    @AllFather-TheStoicGod 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    *"A true king is neither husband nor father; he considers his throne and nothing else."* ~ Pierre Corneille | Stay on your *purpose* and the rest will fall into place. 💯🔥

  • @thehalfrican1386
    @thehalfrican1386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Kevin needs to get that sound bite of yoda. "Do or do not, there is no try."

    • @damrhy
      @damrhy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was trying to remember the line. 😂

    • @thehalfrican1386
      @thehalfrican1386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@darrylrevok9936 And yet i have yet to run into a girl that didnt enjoy the attention. 🤔

    • @mDOTgomez
      @mDOTgomez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol i have this sticker on my car 🤣 right on

    • @thehalfrican1386
      @thehalfrican1386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mDOTgomez I mean as much of a meme it is. Solid life advice from an alien far far away. 😩👌🏿

  • @Ruckerpark98
    @Ruckerpark98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    I told y’all these women would rather be side chicks to HVM than wives of average men😂😂. That ship has sailed sis🤷🏾😂

    • @ericnjoroge5813
      @ericnjoroge5813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Facts 👏👏

    • @insuchaway
      @insuchaway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She was a Common Law Sidepiece (10 years?); now she wants marriage...?
      She's delusional at BEST.

    • @lrrussellrussell8227
      @lrrussellrussell8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True and Truth with no since of “
      Morals “

    • @Ruckerpark98
      @Ruckerpark98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Very rarely would they wake up before time is out. I actually know one that did wake up at 25 and got married to her a man. But these women basically give up their prize possession for free and turn around and look for someone to pay for a prize that’s not there..lol

    • @valerie.
      @valerie. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      of course. How would high value men be able to exercise their options?

  • @MikeLitirous
    @MikeLitirous 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    34:04 “Ohhhhh, there go Kesha!” LMFAOO, Kevin is a comedian for that 🤣🤣💀

  • @kerplunkety
    @kerplunkety 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everyone needs to listen to this man.

  • @daudajabani9831
    @daudajabani9831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    "But the weight ain't kept you from opening your legs" 😂😂😂 this man is a surgical scalpel

  • @smckinney314
    @smckinney314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    You’re gonna be at 1M subscribers in a month Uncle Kevin!! They love to hate you 😂😂

    • @he--ru362
      @he--ru362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maybe in a week....2days ago he was 648ksubs....KS is just on another level!!!

    • @nobunaga4720
      @nobunaga4720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@he--ru362 I remember nearly 3 months ago, he was at 617 I subs

    • @mileswrider6622
      @mileswrider6622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Black men must ride for KS!

    • @brucepower3429
      @brucepower3429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@he--ru362 2 days? That's a lie

    • @he--ru362
      @he--ru362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brucepower3429 lol..

  • @IAmSomaliChannel
    @IAmSomaliChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    27-35 Happy to be here. Thank you Godfather 💕

    • @kwwerwnustife1095
      @kwwerwnustife1095 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.
      Comments really appreciated.
      Make a note to my broker Mr.Jaydan on B-T-C/ETH investment idea.

    • @kwwerwnustife1095
      @kwwerwnustife1095 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      W••H••A•T••S•A•A•P or T•√E••X••T
      Plus one(1) nine(9) seven(7) three(3) six(6) four(4) six(6) four(4) three(3) two(2) two(2).

    • @kwwerwnustife1095
      @kwwerwnustife1095 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do well to let him know I reffered you to him his strategies are top Notch✔️.

  • @606Goldie
    @606Goldie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    How many more ladies are gonna read that sign on the 6th floor of "The Husband Store"?...

    • @PandaCoasters
      @PandaCoasters 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I understood that reference.

    • @rodom9195
      @rodom9195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Goat Talk

  • @stephanievelazquez240
    @stephanievelazquez240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi, from Vieques, Puerto Rico!! 🙋🏻‍♀️
    I am 28 years old. Thank you for sharing this content. Following your advice has lifted a lot of weight from my shoulders and my relationship has definitely gotten to a very good place. 🥂🍾

  • @triedwithfire4042
    @triedwithfire4042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Omg! This is so funny and truthful at the same time, I’m grateful for you unc....My father passed away earlier in my teens, I learn so much from you and how it is to be a man in my 30s, You have definitely been a father figure to me. Keep going! 👊🏾

  • @danamonet77
    @danamonet77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Right Kevin! Listening to you during a workout IS more motivating than music 31:30

  • @DapoIbrahimTV
    @DapoIbrahimTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This was another Damn Good Show hosted by the GodFather Undefeated... Yeeaaaahhhhhhhh!

    • @1lespaulfreak
      @1lespaulfreak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      All kinds of Godfather action

  • @witchvoxful
    @witchvoxful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He right about that social media.

  • @EPFForsyth
    @EPFForsyth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The value of Family is so under valued now, and it is so sad...almost two entire generations are gone, I hope this starts to change. OMG the young woman Rosario is a train wreck waiting to happen...I feel so sorry for her boyfriend...Run Young man RUN!

  • @tailoredbynature6984
    @tailoredbynature6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    Accountability is like kryptonite to so-called modern women.

    • @novaseven1804
      @novaseven1804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Accountability for what exactly?

    • @donovan6482
      @donovan6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@novaseven1804 For their ACTIONS what else do you think were talking about ?

    • @Aplestamatos2
      @Aplestamatos2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@novaseven1804 for the outcomes that they are getting... you already knew the answer you just wanna find somebody to argue with to get your rocks off just like Kevin always talks about. cant make it up

    • @MrPingaw0790
      @MrPingaw0790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@novaseven1804 KS literally have hours of content which covers this and you still ask shit like 'for what exactly?" 😅😂

    • @novaseven1804
      @novaseven1804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Aplestamatos2 oh you mean no good men ? Etc? Yes that’s an accountability issue. Some part at least.

  • @chrmdbtch
    @chrmdbtch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a relief to hear this man broadcast this info, these double standards keep getting swept under the rug. But this man straight up threw out the rug

  • @LOKOFOE
    @LOKOFOE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I just ask "what do you think you could have done better in the relationship?" It's subtle but powerful

  • @davidtolbert716
    @davidtolbert716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    KS, Thank You!👊✊👍 Alot of these women can't Hide anymore and no more Excuses!

    • @Aplestamatos2
      @Aplestamatos2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      nice vette!

    • @clmk28
      @clmk28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its not the red pill exposing women its social media + their arrogance

    • @stephanieoates1935
      @stephanieoates1935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree women are looking for someone to take care of them while bringing little to nothing to the table, however I’d also love to hear what he says to men. There are lots of women who are good, wife material but men have issues too but admittedly women do play far more games for sure! What’s the deal with the high value man mentality anyway? There are so many good men who work regular jobs and do well for themselves snd have great credit. Personally I’d prefer that guy 😌

    • @davidtolbert716
      @davidtolbert716 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clmk28 It's not about red pill or blue pill that's even more confusion!This is a deeper Justice that will be revealed in time!

    • @davidtolbert716
      @davidtolbert716 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephanieoates1935 Yes, things will get back into divine order!

  • @damarismoulterie4349
    @damarismoulterie4349 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, I needed to hear this. Thank you KS rest in Heaven ❤

  • @kaymolefe4528
    @kaymolefe4528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great show. Keep drinking the water and just ease up on the Red Bull. We care about your health KS.

  • @CGEbyÆ
    @CGEbyÆ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    She was trying to be healthy. So it had to end. Was 190. Now she’s 200+. She didn’t want to be healthy either. She’s a whole smoke screen. Every woman he asks about weight and they are morbidly obese, they end up saying immediately they’re ‘working on it though’ like that statement alone exonerates them. 😑

    • @redpillredpill3216
      @redpillredpill3216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah he probably lost weight and started looking and feeling better and decided to dump her because she was lazy.

    • @gideonakpara9915
      @gideonakpara9915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You really can’t make this shit up

    • @freudianslip2192
      @freudianslip2192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because in everyday life that’s how they side step the question. Friends and family just accept that excuse.

  • @audiofeinz5754
    @audiofeinz5754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I must admit I was skeptical but upon actually checking your podcast out and listening I must say you are objective and you speak the truth. Keep doing your thing g

  • @melissapowellwright3097
    @melissapowellwright3097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "Sex comes after a relationship starts...." Real talk.

  • @Passport-X
    @Passport-X 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    132k views in an hour. Wow! Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈🍾

  • @LovebyJesus
    @LovebyJesus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I accidentally stumbled across this Channel yesterday. I've been binge listening. Some videos such as this one is cracking me up. Interesting the way Mr. Samuels interviews and zones into the things that are the many "blind spots." . I as a female can see myself in my early 20s and the mistakes I made. I left a great relationship thinking I would get an even better deal. I'm 49 and now married. I'm inspired to work out listening to these videos.

    • @theeises6053
      @theeises6053 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching.
      Comments really appreciated.
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