Don't have a child with a dude who's not fit to be a husband or father is a completely rational view. Regrettably, David Hume was right on the money, when he noted that we humans are driven more by our passions than we are rational thought
Women communicate to “feel better” about the problem, not necessarily resolve the problem. This is why they operate in their emotion and refuse to take logical advice. Heres the phrase: “i feel like...” how often do you hear men you respect say that vs how often do women who expect your respect say it.
“First off. Let me take that word out your vocabulary.” Settled? Someone is settling for you. Someone raising another mans child is settling for you.” “You have a child by another man. YOU are no prize.”😳☕️
@@natashajones4298 its not the same thing at all. First of all a female isnt high value in a sense where she can just be saying no to dudes who have resources. secondly what youre saying applies to average/broke dudes and the subject here is high value. Most of what goes on here is broke girls/ average girls with kids wanting a rich guys lifestyle basically and the situation isnt the same if you flip the script.
major problem in black community single women giving relationship advice to married or other single women.. Advice on issues they have no experience in
A O But that’s just it. The typical experience is what some women are trapped in right now and trying to get out of. Heck, just 2 weeks ago a married man thought he was gonna have me as a side chick and found out that he’s not, bcuz I don’t go with married men. And my sympathy goes out to his wife. I’ll never understand why women stay with men like that. So I’m not looking to married women or women in some kind of desperate relationship with a man telling me about a relationship. Single people are the best people to listen to on the subject.
Are single, or divorced, males more qualified to dish out "relationship advice" to black women? Do we really need another a Steve Harvey or Derrick Jaxn?
Female bait and switch. Like telling you that she's not like other girls, then flagrantly disproves that. It's to get the man to lower his guard for an easy attack
@@flicndills123 that isn't even scientifically true. A girl's first teachings, directly and indirectly, in regards to how she sees herself, her self worth, and what she accepts from others are learned from who??? Her mother.
I believe Pastors don't want the church women married. She is emotionally attached to the pastor and is willing to pay for it. A strong husband interfers with that money flow.
God probably already sent these woman a husband back when they were age 18-25 but these ladies threw these men back in the pond. These woman decided those men hadn’t proven themselves yet because they were still in college or just graduated. And because of that these woman now to get to reap what they’ve sown. A life of singlehood. These men have already moved on and married someone else.
Hill Jimmy true points. I got married at 24. My husband was 25 and not established in his career path yet. Thankfully I had the sense to know that we would have to build together and hopefully by our 30’s we would reach our ideal income bracket. And we did. However, I look at my single counter parts in their mid 30’s and wonder how many opportunities did they pass up? You can’t tell me they didn’t come across at least one man who would have been worth building together with?
Ms. Natasha tellin them. These ladies he is talking are not in reality. Anybody going around thinking God should send them a men is immature. Most are them are not marriage material any way.
I’m blue collar corporate, 53, 175k+, have children and I refuse to take care of another man’s child. I advise any man to never date women with children who cannot give custody to the fathers.
Glad you are doing well for yourself sir! I wish the best for the children in those situations, often I feel their needs are overlooked by all this playing around going on out here.
I feel what are saying, but had it not been for my father who the world would call my stepfather, i don't know where i would of been. Salute to the Father's who aren't the biological Father's out there.
If there was no incentive to have children as far as child support or gov assistance alot of women wont be single mothers. If laws were written that when a child is born both the mother and father have equal custody, both have rights to claim the child on taxes and both were made by the court to equally support the child. They wouldn't have children unless it's in a marriage.
Still don’t understand why won’t these BW find them a solid BM making $50k-$70k who would love them and treat them right. Instead they want a high value man and their chances of getting one is virtually zero. I guess BW don’t want a solid or average BM.
I can only speak for myself, however I do believe that most BW just want a man who is respectful, alpha and a good communicator that loves and adores her. Again I could be wrong and this could be a small population of BW that feel this way, but the conferences and groups I’ve attended are filled with women who are not seeking millionaires. If that type of high value man presents himself hey she lucked up but cancelling good average guys in hopes that you come across a baller that is not truly happening across the board.
@@Tannabdat1 too many women judge alpha off stereotypes....I keep telling people this is what Alpha is going to be looking like down the line and you better hope you have it. th-cam.com/video/NI55NX6p7gQ/w-d-xo.html
@@Tannabdat1 Too many BM are too wrapped up in their insecurities to hear what you are saying. Meanwhile, I've known BW who were doctors and were married to blue collar brother BM. The lawyer was married to a construction worker. And the marketing executive was madly in love with an over-weight, balding electrician! I can give more examples. Bottom line. A hardworking, decent, kind and loving BM will NEVER have a problem finding a suitable mate. If he does then he needs to look within.
“The world may not say you have to lose weight, but the world sure does treat you like it did” FACTS! POINT BLANK NOTHING BUT TRUTH. When I stopped doing pageants at a very young age and my parents couldn’t afford for me to go to dance classes and but somewhat active, around 2nd grade, everything changed . I had to outlearn what I was taught and brought up when it came to food. My mom is skin and bones (literally anorexic ) and my dad was obese. The diet in the household was fast food 4 days out the week. Not understanding why you’re getting picked on, a mom that has you on diet pills that didn’t work at the age of 9, verbally saying you’re getting too big but not changing my diet or gettin game into cardio activity. Not to mention school. It took me my first job (senior year in college) to finally have that power and control to change my life style. Not to mention being in a mentally unstable family environment. After my dad passed I was already taking steps to change. YOU HAVE TO BREAK YOUR OWN CYCLE, for the future kids not to go through what you did, and if you want your child to go through that BS you went through, seek therapy fast (no I don’t have any kids).
Well said, and valuable information and advice. Saddling children with what is often the lifelong disease of obesity is child abuse. No parent with any sort of education should ever do this.
One of the many points that Kevin makes women should pay attention to is how men evaluate women. In general, men don't care about a woman's advanced degrees or high powered career. High-powered career women equal microwave dinners and sex only once or twice per week for many men.
"Once or twice a week?" Try once a month. For most women. It would be great if high powered women earned family money...nope. They earn, but don't want to pay for anything. So, where's the value in that "high paying career?" For men, there isn't any, so men prefer less career orientated women.
When I was dating my wife, I was looking for the skills of homemaker. And she has them in spades, she grew up on a working dairy farm, learned to cook garden and can from her mother and grandmothers. The only traditional skill she didn't pick up was sewing. In the fall of 2018 we'd been together about 4-5 months, she came down while we were butchering pig's she put together 2 big pans of lasagna, and immediately jumped into helping, cutting up lard, keeping knives and other tools washed, helping to package and vacuum seal the meat, and helping with the canning. My family quickly approved of her, and her family quickly approved of me, and from very early on
What a lot of people, especially women, need to understand, is that not all mistakes are equal: You can clean up spilled milk. You can't undo the fact that you chose to share GENES with a bum. That is permanent damage to your record, and shows poor decision making. No High Value Man with Assets to lose is going to sign up for that drama.
First they need to go and reread and actually follow the Word of The Most High! None of these broads reads The Bible! They can not stay on the narrow path that he sets before them!
Landy Chapman Wow always playing the victim, you should be tired of blaming all your life's problems on everyone else, instead of taking responsibility for your actions! And my God, said you suffer for the lack of Knowledge!
I agree 100%... Women don't/wont seem to grasp the concept that Men do NOT prefer baby mamas nor single mothers...! The higher the Man's value the more matter of fact this becomes.
I am willing to marry a single mother a divorcees. I would never marry a baby momma it shows she is child like to have kids without marriage. I recommend my 2 teenage sons to marry a childless woman. You can't build anything with a woman with a ready made family
He got that lady. It’s typical for women to want to jump into conversations that they aren’t qualified to speak on. She’s not in church, not a Christian, and not married but wants to give advice on all 3. I appreciate KS for that.
@@getjoshnow huh....so basically you’re saying it’s better to stay in something horribly miserable rather than recognizing a person is not for you and moving on regardless of how many times you have to do so. Yeah that sounds dumb and desperate. It’s better to move on. Eventually you’ll get it right. I’m not dealing with anything that cause my mental health harm. If something isn’t working “it’s on to the next one” jay z Voice
@@lindseys6052 there is no"getting it right" no one is perfect. And that person CHOSE to marry them. Through thick and thin. Old ppl married for 50 years say we had a bad year or DECADE... but we made it through. Today's gen has no endurance, strength, commitment. At first sign of trouble. They flake on their own decisions. And commitments.
He hits the tags at the right time. “Danger zone” while she was talking😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂. He was funny AF. Damn 😢ima miss my dawg. I keep thinking he alive because he has so many videos. 🤦🏾♂️
@2:08:40...strong case for waiting till marriage to have sex. This woman was in a relationship for 10 years, the dude proposed to her 7 years into the relationship, she ended the engagement because she said she already knew she wanted something different. Why were they together during this whole time, then? Now she's in her 30s and single. In 1st Corinthians Chapter 7, the Bible explains that's why you should get married. It's not just for raising children, but to control our sexual desires. These Bible principles were put in place to help us. Yeah, getting laid and having sex with whoever you want, anytime you want sounds nice...but in the long run, it robs you of a more fulfilling relationship that brings stability, security, and prosperity.
In about three decades I have not hear a single pastor tell women to drop feminism and become feminine. Neither have I heard them telling women to avoid becoming baby mommas.
@@Hulk-mc7bp they don’t want to stop that “Pastor Offering” from increasing. Most Pastor these days refuse to tell the women in their congregation the truth. For example, in my opinion doing virtual church was probably the best thing for my church right now. Long story short: We have a plethora of single women, some old and single, that volunteered for roles within the church. We have a male pastor and he stays aggravated at how those women, who suppose to be Christians, keep up the most sh*t...literally. It’s like they are bitter and mad at the world and constantly bickering between themselves. I have yet to see an elder man or young man have a dispute or disagreement that could not be ironed out within 20-30min of adult conversation. With the women they stay mad and draw lines in the sand for months and even years!! Then they wonder why their personal lives are all jacked up. Smdh. Being that we are still virtual the morale is better and it seems that things that pertain to the church growing is getting better and better by the month. Amazing what can happen when those type of women are not intermingling with other people on a constant basis.
Omg, too funny - "praying to the white Jesus for the chocolate Boaz who makes 6 figures, has a 6 pack....and all the other 6x he's supposed to have" Comedy gold!
Kevin's videos are actually food for the soul for me it's educational because most if not all of what he says is exactly what a father of a household wud say to his daughters that they need to hear unapologetically!
Boaz married Ruth, who was a widow. It wasn't Ruth's fault her first husband died. Moreover, Ruth's submission to God was so strong that she followed her mother in law to be closer to God. These women use the story of Boaz to justify riding the C. C. and lowering their worth living worldly, and then expect God to have the same mercy on them, as he had towards Ruth who was faithful.
Spot on Kevin! My 26th Birthday i was concerned...thankfully I met my Husband 5 months later, we married in 3 months...he was 32 years old. We just celebrated our 34th Wedding Anniversary!
This man is still so needed. He was slowly but surely getting the correct message across. I fear now that things will go backwards again rather than forward. RIP Godfather.
Yes, Kevin these girls mess these men up early and when a woman who is ready for marriage comes around they are hurt and scared to commit. Us ladies need to get real and honest and not play with these men.
It ain't fear, it's common sense. Don't go in the woods and bitch slap a bear. Don't go in the ocean and twerk in front of a shark wearing a bloody penguin suit. For every man who a woman divorces (80% divorces initiated by women) there are fifty people saying [like Indiana Jones picking the cup of life] He chose... poorly.
I know KS is a high value man, but he dropped the Creed Aventus bomb! I’ve been wearing that for years and love it. I can’t count how many women that have approached and opened me asking about what I’m wearing. This guy has great taste, as if anyone needed me to tell them that. Btw, if you order from any of the Creed stores, they’ll send you free samples, or at least the store from NYC. Hats off to Creed. I’m not affiliated with then either. I’m just a very happy customer.
I have been buying Creed for 20 years. From what I understand that the company began as the personal perfumery of the King of England. That's it's pedigree.
@@Muk310 I believe they’re the oldest perfume and cologne company in the world. Til this day, they’re still family owned as well as privately owned by the family. The owner / CEO is the 4th or 5th generation. Even though they cut back on the bottle size and increased their prices a few years back, 1-bottle of Aventus still lasts me well over a year.
I had one friend who said she was seeing men to practice for dating. I was like....you cant practice for dating. And a few years later, watching this episode and Kevin says the same thing! 🙌
You got it from the giddy up....I figured it out after catching him after Will & Jada's 🐂💩. He was God sent and it will finally dawn on our folks he was a critical key to our healing and restructuring. May he Rest In Paradise.
Spilling the truth every day. Kevin helps us see through the lies we live in, both men and women. The truth hurts but the results from fixing all our lives will be very nice.
The glowing theme of each of these calls; is that the women have put themselves on a high level; and when they talk to Kevin; he makes them realize..."from which you value yourself...men don't necessarily value"! So they are confused..the mentality of ..."Yo Go Girl"...and Black Girl Magic"...and "If he don't like you he's a fool"...talk! Has lead women down a road of being the least married demographic in America! This is really hard to watch my beautiful women...plummet to reality with such a great velocity! Black Women PLEASE realize what you value in a partner...is not the same as what we(MEN) value in a partner!
An attitude of gratitude goes far! Humbleness can cause unexpected results, not over valuing yourself but being grateful for every blessing not thinking your so much better then anything or anyone
All I know is as a working man (electrician) it's so obvious that these women view me as "dusty" but that's all right with me cause it saves me the trouble of having to weed them out or worse end up in a relationship with one and find out the hard way about their treachery. The day is soon coming in this country when these same women will end up like women of previous generations who were happy just to have a man with a job but by that time men like myself will have learned to spot women like them and see their fake as femininity and dissatisfaction.
Kevin has got so good And so many women have picked up his message that he can’t even get disagreements or smoke anymore it’s a beautiful thing i love to see my Black people out here doin the work and getting right
Women we have to stop confiding in other women (especially unmarried women - but women period) about our relationships. Keep things private. Keep it between you and him.
@1:13:00 was astounding. A woman who's not a Christian, not married, and doesn't go to church, calls into the show to give the other women advice. He asked "Who are you that they should listen to you?"
Any woman who does not understand the importance of following simple instructions does not deserve a high value man. How many times does Kevin have to say mute the TH-cam channel in the background so that it doesn’t echo? Yet you still have women calling in without doing it. Most of them don’t want actual advice. They just want to hear themselves on a live show.
The Ruth and Boaz story is one where the woman worked to impress her man. She slept at his feet to get chose. Many modern women in church don't think they even need to be pleasant to attract a man.
Not knowing being a baby mama is a detriment until being a baby mama is like walking across the street and getting hit by a car and realizing u need to look both ways after you get hit by the car.
Great job KS!...I'm turning you on to my 22 yo daughter and her friends to teach them to make better choices in life not just in men...I've been preaching what you been saying since the 90s but I was way ahead of my time and everyone thought I was the crazy one...I'm close to 60 and I had it together since my 30s...even if I die alone at least I'll have my sanity...
Man keep pounding that baby mama and single mama topic. Women really don’t understand that it’s hard to get a honest working dude with one kid let alone multiple kids. Hell I know women that are taking on dudes with multiple kids like it’s normal and some of the dude are leaving them😳. I had a kid when I was 19 and I still didn’t seriously date women with kids. Yea I smashed but I wouldn’t even do that at this. Younger women with no kids protect that with your life!! I keep speaking with my nieces and I will once my daughter gets of age. Don’t no real man wants to take care of another mans responsibility period.
Teach young men not to recklessly spread their seed around, "smashing" everything that moves. Abstinence should not be viewed as an impossible endeavour. Don't PLAY if you have no intention to STAY. Case, legs, zipper closed!
LEE “women control the access to sex , men control the access the relationships- The God Father” if the women say no outside to rap sex don’t happen. So that’s on her! Taking on bad relationships is on the guy!🤷🏾♂️
@@LUX_8 abstinence is not a workable solution. Its has been preached for years and failed. Protection and educating young people on this issue is the solution imho.
Too many women are wishing on a star for the simp fairy to send them a Russell Wilson scenario. But many forget that Ciara,although a baby momma, is still an person that has made over a million dollars & they can't get into her circles to rub shoulders with high value men.
Russel Willson and Cierra is rare exception to the run. She got lucky and gave a lot Baby mamas false hope. J.A.B. said in the live chat in the best way. Russell Wilson is the Highlander of stepfathers. 🤣🤣🤣 There can be only one, let it be Russell Wilson McLeod...
1 Corinthians 7 "Now to the unmarried[1] and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion." The rhetoric of being married to jesus is dumb because what Paul speaks about it is better to not get married is the call to celibacy by which you devote yourself 100% to the lord and if you marry you have to devote yourself to your spouse if you cannot control your urges. These women are not virgins nor celibate and not 100% devoted to Christ or else they would not be on this show. They all want a husband and that married to Jesus nonsense is just an excuse for their inability to find and keep one.
Wooo amen, come on in here somebody! This is what I told a few women and my own sister. These women say Jesus is there husband but yet they are having sex, have kids, and are not fully devoting their life to Christ.
Dude you are roasting these women with the truth.... They got nothing to say ... Short circuit their brains.... Hope they figure things out for their sake.... Lol
When will women realize that the MORE PROPOSALS you’ve had and NEVER been actually married, the LOWER YOUR VALUE is... WHY? Simple: You are effectively HORRIBLE at selecting suitable candidates to date long term. Otherwise, why would you NOT accept their proposal if they were great catches? 🤔😯
These callers need to learn to accept criticism, listen to the advice being given, and apply it. No need to be defensive. It shows that you're not truly open to the reality of it all. Calling this show means..you're ready to face FACTS.
When I read that the latest bachelorette, a white chic, quit the show 2 weeks into shooting because she recently met a former football player....I knew it could only have been a Brother🤣🤣🤣 And show nuff...😆 She 39 and said she got her man and smooth walked away from the show with the quickness!
so basically "most" women are overvaluing themselves and absolutely refuse to settle for a normal guy with a regular job to make this worst the women with kids seem to think they are "settling" for less if they got with a normal guy, how incredibly sad for them, Kevin thank you, brother I knew this for some time now but its a breath of fresh air seeing someone expel the demons out of some of these women & then to acquire the social status that you have for doing so, I absolutely love it keep it up.
Prayer ALWAYS works, Kevin, but it must be followed up with works. Ladies need to work on themselves in the meantime on their attitudes, self esteem, etc
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If he's not marriage material then you don't have a CHILD with him!!!!!
@Hill Jimmy He wanted to be committed to her and all her friends.
Don't have a child with a dude who's not fit to be a husband or father is a completely rational view. Regrettably, David Hume was right on the money, when he noted that we humans are driven more by our passions than we are rational thought
Women don't understand that, he cute.
@@truthteller6929 Males don't understand the need to be protectors and providers. Fat behind clouds their judgement.
@@LUX_8 majority of men provide...smh
Young women want young men to produce like older men this brother is deep
@Hill Jimmy yep!
I agree we older guys have the experience. We been there with jobs half performing no experiences..Minimum wage jobs then we reached reality...
And that's their problem
Some younger women that date younger men that make quick money get spoiled and think all younger men should have that same cash flow.
These women don’t want solutions, they want to argue. The argument is the solution for women
I swear that's all they do...argue against logic and facts....smh
Unfortunate, most will try to get a
High Value Dawg like me, because they will die alone 🪦 🐕🦺
Women communicate to “feel better” about the problem, not necessarily resolve the problem. This is why they operate in their emotion and refuse to take logical advice. Heres the phrase: “i feel like...” how often do you hear men you respect say that vs how often do women who expect your respect say it.
@Pippi Bernstein deep and powerful
Sadly true
So glad KS promotes natural hair and healthy body weight. We need to hear these things.
One of the reasons why I like him so much
@Albert If you don't have atleast 100K a year or you're a brother under 6 foot they honestly don't care what we like.
Evan Thomas stop being bitter. You are sounding very effeminate. Go with the ones that like you and leave the others be 🙄
All natural, all day.
Sis, BW have been speaking on those topics BEFORE the days of TH-cam! 😁
"God is not a Cosmic Suger Daddy." That's some of the greatest logic I've ever heard. Beautiful, yet simplistic intelligence.
*sugar
“First off. Let me take that word out your vocabulary.” Settled? Someone is settling for you. Someone raising another mans child is settling for you.” “You have a child by another man. YOU are no prize.”😳☕️
stone truth is harsh...
Same applies for men with children, especially if you’re paying a large amount of your income to child support or have baby mama drama.
@@natashajones4298 It doesn't...........
MelvinMadeDx ok
@@natashajones4298 its not the same thing at all. First of all a female isnt high value in a sense where she can just be saying no to dudes who have resources. secondly what youre saying applies to average/broke dudes and the subject here is high value. Most of what goes on here is broke girls/ average girls with kids wanting a rich guys lifestyle basically and the situation isnt the same if you flip the script.
major problem in black community single women giving relationship advice to married or other single women.. Advice on issues they have no experience in
@Trav more like the blind leading the blind deaf and dumb.
@HunnidRoundsGaming or experiences they see on Tyler Perry movies..
I’ve been married 9 years and get advice from
Single women. How are you going to give me advice when you can’t even keep a man?
A O But that’s just it. The typical experience is what some women are trapped in right now and trying to get out of. Heck, just 2 weeks ago a married man thought he was gonna have me as a side chick and found out that he’s not, bcuz I don’t go with married men. And my sympathy goes out to his wife. I’ll never understand why women stay with men like that. So I’m not looking to married women or women in some kind of desperate relationship with a man telling me about a relationship.
Single people are the best people to listen to on the subject.
Are single, or divorced, males more qualified to dish out "relationship advice" to black women? Do we really need another a Steve Harvey or Derrick Jaxn?
I started wearing my natural hair because of Kevin and I’ve never felt more beautiful. Received more compliments and my husband appreciate me more.
💯💯💯
👍
Why didn’t your father raise you to wear your natural hair?
@@bigtuneslive ask him
Your husband should have never allowed it in the first place.
Notice how all the callers say KS says nothing wrong, then argue the points😂
I know! It is like that with every caller. Lol
It is a constant apparently
It’s hilarious 😂
Female bait and switch.
Like telling you that she's not like other girls, then flagrantly disproves that.
It's to get the man to lower his guard for an easy attack
It’s cause they listen to respond, not to hear !
Reality should not hit like a ton of bricks if women would just be honest with self.
They won’t, cause that would mean they have to accept accountability of their life
Honesty is the best policy
Well I know that I am messed up and time is limited but want to get my holdings hands partner forever.
It’s men’s fault the way women view themselves as well
@@flicndills123 that isn't even scientifically true. A girl's first teachings, directly and indirectly, in regards to how she sees herself, her self worth, and what she accepts from others are learned from who??? Her mother.
Single mothers don't settle. The men who wife them are settling. Is he not spitting hot fire?
DaddyFury yo...that was savage...kev is the truth
....Hot fire he is spitting my brotha! Lol. You can tell that was her first time hearing the real deal truth.
I believe Pastors don't want the church women married. She is emotionally attached to the pastor and is willing to pay for it. A strong husband interfers with that money flow.
Agree
Absolutely!!!!
In fact some of these women continue to be emotionally attached to these 'pastors' even when they find a good man and get married.
Yep. Women keep the church running. Who would be at church to keep it running it if all the women had husbands and were at home listening to them?
You are on to something. Lol
God probably already sent these woman a husband back when they were age 18-25 but these ladies threw these men back in the pond. These woman decided those men hadn’t proven themselves yet because they were still in college or just graduated. And because of that these woman now to get to reap what they’ve sown. A life of singlehood. These men have already moved on and married someone else.
Hill Jimmy true points. I got married at 24. My husband was 25 and not established in his career path yet. Thankfully I had the sense to know that we would have to build together and hopefully by our 30’s we would reach our ideal income bracket. And we did. However, I look at my single counter parts in their mid 30’s and wonder how many opportunities did they pass up? You can’t tell me they didn’t come across at least one man who would have been worth building together with?
Amen!!
Powerful points
Ms. Natasha tellin them. These ladies he is talking are not in reality. Anybody going around thinking God should send them a men is immature. Most are them are not marriage material any way.
Wise words ma’am. Blessings to you
I humble myself, even at 54, Kevin you are opening up my eyes, teaching me the truth!
This man so talented. He let the audience choose the topic and still dropped a masterpiece. Salute 💯
“You best thinking has only gotten you were you are” powerful advice - we all need help to better ourselves
Straight out of 12 Step programs, and great advice.
I don't blame sisters for everything but I am not about to treat a grown person like they're a child no ma'am.
I’m blue collar corporate, 53, 175k+, have children and I refuse to take care of another man’s child. I advise any man to never date women with children who cannot give custody to the fathers.
Salute!
I will have to agree with you
You brother have great wisdom
Glad you are doing well for yourself sir! I wish the best for the children in those situations, often I feel their needs are overlooked by all this playing around going on out here.
I feel what are saying, but had it not been for my father who the world would call my stepfather, i don't know where i would of been. Salute to the Father's who aren't the biological Father's out there.
If there was no incentive to have children as far as child support or gov assistance alot of women wont be single mothers. If laws were written that when a child is born both the mother and father have equal custody, both have rights to claim the child on taxes and both were made by the court to equally support the child. They wouldn't have children unless it's in a marriage.
They truly won't
Yes and I'm sick of supporting through my tax dollars their bastard children, year after year.
Just now watching this episode after your death brother Kevin! RIP and the legacy of what you started lives on.
Still don’t understand why won’t these BW find them a solid BM making $50k-$70k who would love them and treat them right. Instead they want a high value man and their chances of getting one is virtually zero. I guess BW don’t want a solid or average BM.
I can only speak for myself, however I do believe that most BW just want a man who is respectful, alpha and a good communicator that loves and adores her. Again I could be wrong and this could be a small population of BW that feel this way, but the conferences and groups I’ve attended are filled with women who are not seeking millionaires. If that type of high value man presents himself hey she lucked up but cancelling good average guys in hopes that you come across a baller that is not truly happening across the board.
@@Tannabdat1 too many women judge alpha off stereotypes....I keep telling people this is what Alpha is going to be looking like down the line and you better hope you have it.
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Hill Jimmy A few can’t speak for the majority. All BW are not toxic nor suffer from indecisiveness. Peace and love to you brother ❤️
Hill Jimmy I wish you the best love! I hope you marry a woman who has all the qualities you desire and I hope that makes your heart smile.
@@Tannabdat1 Too many BM are too wrapped up in their insecurities to hear what you are saying. Meanwhile, I've known BW who were doctors and were married to blue collar brother BM. The lawyer was married to a construction worker. And the marketing executive was madly in love with an over-weight, balding electrician! I can give more examples. Bottom line. A hardworking, decent, kind and loving BM will NEVER have a problem finding a suitable mate. If he does then he needs to look within.
“The world may not say you have to lose weight, but the world sure does treat you like it did” FACTS! POINT BLANK NOTHING BUT TRUTH. When I stopped doing pageants at a very young age and my parents couldn’t afford for me to go to dance classes and but somewhat active, around 2nd grade, everything changed . I had to outlearn what I was taught and brought up when it came to food. My mom is skin and bones (literally anorexic ) and my dad was obese. The diet in the household was fast food 4 days out the week. Not understanding why you’re getting picked on, a mom that has you on diet pills that didn’t work at the age of 9, verbally saying you’re getting too big but not changing my diet or gettin game into cardio activity. Not to mention school. It took me my first job (senior year in college) to finally have that power and control to change my life style. Not to mention being in a mentally unstable family environment. After my dad passed I was already taking steps to change. YOU HAVE TO BREAK YOUR OWN CYCLE, for the future kids not to go through what you did, and if you want your child to go through that BS you went through, seek therapy fast (no I don’t have any kids).
Well said, and valuable information and advice. Saddling children with what is often the lifelong disease of obesity is child abuse. No parent with any sort of education should ever do this.
One of the many points that Kevin makes women should pay attention to is how men evaluate women. In general, men don't care about a woman's advanced degrees or high powered career. High-powered career women equal microwave dinners and sex only once or twice per week for many men.
Big K True.
I don't think EITHER of you have dated "High Powered" women. 😁
"Once or twice a week?" Try once a month. For most women.
It would be great if high powered women earned family money...nope. They earn, but don't want to pay for anything. So, where's the value in that "high paying career?" For men, there isn't any, so men prefer less career orientated women.
When I was dating my wife, I was looking for the skills of homemaker. And she has them in spades, she grew up on a working dairy farm, learned to cook garden and can from her mother and grandmothers. The only traditional skill she didn't pick up was sewing. In the fall of 2018 we'd been together about 4-5 months, she came down while we were butchering pig's she put together 2 big pans of lasagna, and immediately jumped into helping, cutting up lard, keeping knives and other tools washed, helping to package and vacuum seal the meat, and helping with the canning. My family quickly approved of her, and her family quickly approved of me, and from very early on
@@spiritquests6222 What is old cliche'? "Your money is our money, and MY money is MY money."
What a lot of people, especially women, need to understand, is that not all mistakes are equal: You can clean up spilled milk. You can't undo the fact that you chose to share GENES with a bum. That is permanent damage to your record, and shows poor decision making. No High Value Man with Assets to lose is going to sign up for that drama.
Preach
@Q Lock MOST
She likely thought that Man would marry her because of the child. Which means she's likely a bum too.
Faith without works is dead. Alot of women need ALOT of work.
First they need to go and reread and actually follow the Word of The Most High! None of these broads reads The Bible! They can not stay on the narrow path that he sets before them!
@@igbokwenu4934 ooooffffff stop eitttttt brothaaaaaa! Right in the feels.
@@igbokwenu4934 Excellent quote! James was an active positive man.
@@thesurvivalist. reading? That's white supremacy talk. You must be a Trump supporter.. (sarcasm)
Landy Chapman Wow always playing the victim, you should be tired of blaming all your life's problems on everyone else, instead of taking responsibility for your actions! And my God, said you suffer for the lack of Knowledge!
I agree 100%... Women don't/wont seem to grasp the concept that Men do NOT prefer baby mamas nor single mothers...!
The higher the Man's value the more matter of fact this becomes.
I am willing to marry a single mother a divorcees. I would never marry a baby momma it shows she is child like to have kids without marriage. I recommend my 2 teenage sons to marry a childless woman. You can't build anything with a woman with a ready made family
@DogEatDog 😂😂😂
@DogEatDog False. Most women in that position will SETTLE for whatever they can get.
@@charlesirby1643 Are you instructing and admonishing your sons not to "CREATE" future baby mommas?
@@LUX_8 Get a life DUMMY
He got that lady. It’s typical for women to want to jump into conversations that they aren’t qualified to speak on. She’s not in church, not a Christian, and not married but wants to give advice on all 3. I appreciate KS for that.
Everything that glitters ain’t gold. I don’t look at anyone’s relationship and wish I had “that” cause we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors
#truestory
Facts
But a single person closed door, I bet is much worst. Revolving door of men.
@@getjoshnow huh....so basically you’re saying it’s better to stay in something horribly miserable rather than recognizing a person is not for you and moving on regardless of how many times you have to do so. Yeah that sounds dumb and desperate. It’s better to move on. Eventually you’ll get it right. I’m not dealing with anything that cause my mental health harm. If something isn’t working “it’s on to the next one” jay z Voice
@@lindseys6052 there is no"getting it right" no one is perfect. And that person CHOSE to marry them. Through thick and thin. Old ppl married for 50 years say we had a bad year or DECADE... but we made it through. Today's gen has no endurance, strength, commitment. At first sign of trouble. They flake on their own decisions. And commitments.
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He hits the tags at the right time. “Danger zone” while she was talking😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂. He was funny AF. Damn 😢ima miss my dawg. I keep thinking he alive because he has so many videos. 🤦🏾♂️
Is it just me or is it getting crazier out there.
It is sweetheart, it is not just you...
It's just the truth coming to light. I'm not surprised by any of this, sadly.
Trust me it not you .run and keep running brothers take care of yourself .
It is not you. It is getting crazier out there and very delusional.
It's not you we have been in the Twilight Zone for a long time now maybe you just speaking up on some things that you know are not right🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
They asked for advice, when they received it they get mad cuz their delusions are dismantled by realistic questions. Way to go
Kevin
Well spoken I like that I need to borrow this lol 😂 it 😂😂peace and blessings upon you
@2:08:40...strong case for waiting till marriage to have sex. This woman was in a relationship for 10 years, the dude proposed to her 7 years into the relationship, she ended the engagement because she said she already knew she wanted something different. Why were they together during this whole time, then? Now she's in her 30s and single. In 1st Corinthians Chapter 7, the Bible explains that's why you should get married. It's not just for raising children, but to control our sexual desires. These Bible principles were put in place to help us. Yeah, getting laid and having sex with whoever you want, anytime you want sounds nice...but in the long run, it robs you of a more fulfilling relationship that brings stability, security, and prosperity.
God helps those who help themselves, helps others and who listens. Do not blame God for your situation, that is a super cop-out.
He dropping GEMS I found his youtube 3 days ago and damn I'm glad I found his channel
Share it.
God Helps those who Help Themselves. These shows are Highly needed in Black Society.
Yup. Faith without works is dead.
@@pinktourmaline4930 indeed. It's like sitting around eating cake in the hope that you lose some weight lol.
AMEN!!!!!!
Kevin, you are doing GOD’s work. Thank you very much for your voice, platform, & point of view!!!
You"re addressing a subject a preacher will avoid. You are on the money.
In about three decades I have not hear a single pastor tell women to drop feminism and become feminine. Neither have I heard them telling women to avoid becoming baby mommas.
@@Hulk-mc7bp they don’t want to stop that “Pastor Offering” from increasing. Most Pastor these days refuse to tell the women in their congregation the truth. For example, in my opinion doing virtual church was probably the best thing for my church right now. Long story short: We have a plethora of single women, some old and single, that volunteered for roles within the church. We have a male pastor and he stays aggravated at how those women, who suppose to be Christians, keep up the most sh*t...literally. It’s like they are bitter and mad at the world and constantly bickering between themselves. I have yet to see an elder man or young man have a dispute or disagreement that could not be ironed out within 20-30min of adult conversation. With the women they stay mad and draw lines in the sand for months and even years!! Then they wonder why their personal lives are all jacked up. Smdh. Being that we are still virtual the morale is better and it seems that things that pertain to the church growing is getting better and better by the month. Amazing what can happen when those type of women are not intermingling with other people on a constant basis.
@Hulk I've heard it myself, but it is extremely rare. We need a revival in churches that teach and practice what the Bible says.
Omg, too funny - "praying to the white Jesus for the chocolate Boaz who makes 6 figures, has a 6 pack....and all the other 6x he's supposed to have" Comedy gold!
damn kevin, you are breaking this women just by asking simple basic question...Good video as always, no accountability by women
KEVIN!!!... MAN!!! This needs to be taught in singles ministries EVERYWHERE!
So much feminist doctrine everywhere sadly
When these women are ready to choose a guy, it's like a voice tells them "you can find someone better, keep looking."
Kevin's videos are actually food for the soul for me it's educational because most if not all of what he says is exactly what a father of a household wud say to his daughters that they need to hear unapologetically!
Wish this info was avail to me in my 20s.
Boaz married Ruth, who was a widow. It wasn't Ruth's fault her first husband died. Moreover, Ruth's submission to God was so strong that she followed her mother in law to be closer to God. These women use the story of Boaz to justify riding the C. C. and lowering their worth living worldly, and then expect God to have the same mercy on them, as he had towards Ruth who was faithful.
How about Tamar?
True👌
It’s Masonic deep! I get it Kevin
@Pippi Bernstein most off them dress up now as harlots if you catch them with make-up face down you wouldn't know them face to face
Fritzed. Up location
Spot on Kevin! My 26th Birthday i was concerned...thankfully I met my Husband 5 months later, we married in 3 months...he was 32 years old. We just celebrated our 34th Wedding Anniversary!
Super cool!! Congratulations to you guys
This man is still so needed. He was slowly but surely getting the correct message across. I fear now that things will go backwards again rather than forward. RIP Godfather.
Dont sleep on UPS drivers. Top rate in the US is $40 per hour. With overtime we clear $100k easily
In a union with good benefits too!
They don't want a good man, they wants a good FOOL...period.
Yes, Kevin these girls mess these men up early and when a woman who is ready for marriage comes around they are hurt and scared to commit. Us ladies need to get real and honest and not play with these men.
Amazing!
Well said...kudos
Cairo A. Thank you 😊
It ain't fear, it's common sense. Don't go in the woods and bitch slap a bear. Don't go in the ocean and twerk in front of a shark wearing a bloody penguin suit.
For every man who a woman divorces (80% divorces initiated by women) there are fifty people saying [like Indiana Jones picking the cup of life] He chose... poorly.
Lol sounds good but we too far off.. a reset is coming soon
I hate to say this: lots of women telling lies.
Don't hate to say it, you said it.
@@truthteller6929 Exactly!
@@alienvibes5405 And he's right.
@@truthteller6929 Hahahaha
@zion Why didn't you make her a WIFE before making her a baby momma?
Very smart man and I have gotten a reality check love this show. Thanks Kevin.
Damn man, Kevin allow these women to expose themselves on this show from young to old. And to think they always make it seem like it’s only the men.
I know KS is a high value man, but he dropped the Creed Aventus bomb! I’ve been wearing that for years and love it. I can’t count how many women that have approached and opened me asking about what I’m wearing.
This guy has great taste, as if anyone needed me to tell them that.
Btw, if you order from any of the Creed stores, they’ll send you free samples, or at least the store from NYC.
Hats off to Creed. I’m not affiliated with then either. I’m just a very happy customer.
I have been buying Creed for 20 years. From what I understand that the company began as the personal perfumery of the King of England. That's it's pedigree.
@@Muk310 I believe they’re the oldest perfume and cologne company in the world. Til this day, they’re still family owned as well as privately owned by the family. The owner / CEO is the 4th or 5th generation. Even though they cut back on the bottle size and increased their prices a few years back, 1-bottle of Aventus still lasts me well over a year.
I hope you guys are sharing this Channel.
I had one friend who said she was seeing men to practice for dating. I was like....you cant practice for dating. And a few years later, watching this episode and Kevin says the same thing! 🙌
Our people gotta protect this brother at all cost. He is vital to our community. Such a special brother
You got it from the giddy up....I figured it out after catching him after Will & Jada's 🐂💩. He was God sent and it will finally dawn on our folks he was a critical key to our healing and restructuring. May he Rest In Paradise.
Spilling the truth every day. Kevin helps us see through the lies we live in, both men and women. The truth hurts but the results from fixing all our lives will be very nice.
No lie...you inspired me to invest on some sharp suits and just go to random places looking suited and booted.
The glowing theme of each of these calls; is that the women have put themselves on a high level; and when they talk to Kevin; he makes them realize..."from which you value yourself...men don't necessarily value"! So they are confused..the mentality of ..."Yo Go Girl"...and Black Girl Magic"...and "If he don't like you he's a fool"...talk! Has lead women down a road of being the least married demographic in America! This is really hard to watch my beautiful women...plummet to reality with such a great velocity! Black Women PLEASE realize what you value in a partner...is not the same as what we(MEN) value in a partner!
An attitude of gratitude goes far! Humbleness can cause unexpected results, not over valuing yourself but being grateful for every blessing not thinking your so much better then anything or anyone
All I know is as a working man (electrician) it's so obvious that these women view me as "dusty" but that's all right with me cause it saves me the trouble of having to weed them out or worse end up in a relationship with one and find out the hard way about their treachery.
The day is soon coming in this country when these same women will end up like women of previous generations who were happy just to have a man with a job but by that time men like myself will have learned to spot women like them and see their fake as femininity and dissatisfaction.
Amen to that. Even in Church, the only questions some women seem to be curious about is what I do for a living, which is in the trades
Even though this hurts some because I realize more and more that I was set up for failure, I need this truth serum
Kevin has got so good And so many women have picked up his message that he can’t even get disagreements or smoke anymore it’s a beautiful thing i love to see my Black people out here doin the work and getting right
I can press the likes button a million times he deserve it more
And I say again. The culture needs this man. 👊🏿
Just found this channel and I listen everyday while driving to work. Quality entertainment🤣.
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No it’s Real Out here..Women will die alone.🤔
@@rickeywatts9447 More black men are dying alone because they abandoned their families. Look at Black Rob.
@@harmony3279 No your making shit. It’s not about men dying alone it’s about women stay on the topic..
@@harmony3279Well if 80/100 of divorce are initiated by women your story is anecdotic ....
Women we have to stop confiding in other women (especially unmarried women - but women period) about our relationships. Keep things private. Keep it between you and him.
@1:13:00 was astounding. A woman who's not a Christian, not married, and doesn't go to church, calls into the show to give the other women advice. He asked "Who are you that they should listen to you?"
Any woman who does not understand the importance of following simple instructions does not deserve a high value man. How many times does Kevin have to say mute the TH-cam channel in the background so that it doesn’t echo? Yet you still have women calling in without doing it. Most of them don’t want actual advice. They just want to hear themselves on a live show.
The Ruth and Boaz story is one where the woman worked to impress her man. She slept at his feet to get chose. Many modern women in church don't think they even need to be pleasant to attract a man.
They would call her a " pick me".
Crabs in a bucket.
She was also a widow not a baby mama or divorcee. Not the same thing at all.
You just got yourself another subscriber with this video sir. Honest facts here. I'm an average guy and I don't want to raise another man's children.
Thanks KS ✊🏾
Not knowing being a baby mama is a detriment until being a baby mama is like walking across the street and getting hit by a car and realizing u need to look both ways after you get hit by the car.
Still re-watching all his content, somehow missed this one and picked up a few more gems and Fragrances!
Why do women think that a high value men would want to take on their mistakes and regrets
Great job KS!...I'm turning you on to my 22 yo daughter and her friends to teach them to make better choices in life not just in men...I've been preaching what you been saying since the 90s but I was way ahead of my time and everyone thought I was the crazy one...I'm close to 60 and I had it together since my 30s...even if I die alone at least I'll have my sanity...
Bless you. Normal people are treated poorly by the culture.
Man keep pounding that baby mama and single mama topic. Women really don’t understand that it’s hard to get a honest working dude with one kid let alone multiple kids. Hell I know women that are taking on dudes with multiple kids like it’s normal and some of the dude are leaving them😳. I had a kid when I was 19 and I still didn’t seriously date women with kids. Yea I smashed but I wouldn’t even do that at this. Younger women with no kids protect that with your life!! I keep speaking with my nieces and I will once my daughter gets of age. Don’t no real man wants to take care of another mans responsibility period.
Wow I am waiting for marriage to have kids. I might never get married. It seems like the women without kids are hiding its very hard to find them 😆.
Teach young men not to recklessly spread their seed around, "smashing" everything that moves. Abstinence should not be viewed as an impossible endeavour. Don't PLAY if you have no intention to STAY. Case, legs, zipper closed!
@Mr.11. Do more than "speak" to your daughters and nieces.
LEE “women control the access to sex , men control the access the relationships- The God Father” if the women say no outside to rap sex don’t happen. So that’s on her! Taking on bad relationships is on the guy!🤷🏾♂️
@@LUX_8 abstinence is not a workable solution. Its has been preached for years and failed. Protection and educating young people on this issue is the solution imho.
Too many women are wishing on a star for the simp fairy to send them a Russell Wilson scenario. But many forget that Ciara,although a baby momma, is still an person that has made over a million dollars & they can't get into her circles to rub shoulders with high value men.
Russel Willson and Cierra is rare exception to the run. She got lucky and gave a lot Baby mamas false hope.
J.A.B. said in the live chat in the best way. Russell Wilson is the Highlander of stepfathers. 🤣🤣🤣
There can be only one, let it be Russell Wilson McLeod...
1 Corinthians 7
"Now to the unmarried[1] and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
The rhetoric of being married to jesus is dumb because what Paul speaks about it is better to not get married is the call to celibacy by which you devote yourself 100% to the lord and if you marry you have to devote yourself to your spouse if you cannot control your urges. These women are not virgins nor celibate and not 100% devoted to Christ or else they would not be on this show. They all want a husband and that married to Jesus nonsense is just an excuse for their inability to find and keep one.
come on man, only Kevin is allowed to speak the truth!!
"Go 'way now!" -Critical Drinker voice
Wooo amen, come on in here somebody! This is what I told a few women and my own sister. These women say Jesus is there husband but yet they are having sex, have kids, and are not fully devoting their life to Christ.
Kathleen Bonne-annee lukewarms have their priorities wrong and need to repent. Seek God first and he’ll provide smh
Another classic! Thank KS!
Wow this guy is straight talk! *Subscribed*
bless you
Boom! young ladies no excuses. You are responsible for your actions!
Dude you are roasting these women with the truth.... They got nothing to say ... Short circuit their brains.... Hope they figure things out for their sake.... Lol
KS you Preached this here sermon my brother. Rest in Power!
Kevin thank you for this classic gem.. High quality men must respect their time to elavate when it comes to dealing with women
When will women realize that the MORE PROPOSALS you’ve had and NEVER been actually married, the LOWER YOUR VALUE is... WHY? Simple:
You are effectively HORRIBLE at selecting suitable candidates to date long term. Otherwise, why would you NOT accept their proposal if they were great catches? 🤔😯
These callers need to learn to accept criticism, listen to the advice being given, and apply it. No need to be defensive. It shows that you're not truly open to the reality of it all. Calling this show means..you're ready to face FACTS.
Seen women in church in the position you said, keep talking the truth...
Are they really getting their itch scratched by someone out there?
When I read that the latest bachelorette, a white chic, quit the show 2 weeks into shooting because she recently met a former football player....I knew it could only have been a Brother🤣🤣🤣 And show nuff...😆 She 39 and said she got her man and smooth walked away from the show with the quickness!
Lol. Ste lucked out!
Disappointing
😂🤣🤣
so basically "most" women are overvaluing themselves and absolutely refuse to settle for a normal guy with a regular job to make this worst the women with kids seem to think they are "settling" for less if they got with a normal guy, how incredibly sad for them, Kevin thank you, brother I knew this for some time now but its a breath of fresh air seeing someone expel the demons out of some of these women & then to acquire the social status that you have for doing so, I absolutely love it keep it up.
RIP KS. We will you so much!
God, I miss this guy.
This was legendary 🫡 the 33yr old @1:31:52 says she don’t want a man for their income but for stability 🤷🏾♂️
Faith without work is dead.
SMH at these women STILL calling in and lying.
They're probably paid actresses.
Steve Harvey's wife stays fit and fine and his daughter Lori Harvey does as well... So our women better pay attention to what men like
Prayer ALWAYS works, Kevin, but it must be followed up with works. Ladies need to work on themselves in the meantime on their attitudes, self esteem, etc
So, is it the Prayer this does the work? Or is the action (works) that makes things happen? I say it is the latter.
@HunnidRoundsGaming The preacher is laughing behind close doors
Your attitude is your everything no high value man wants a woman that can't control her mouth
HunnidRoundsGaming 😆😆😆
@HunnidRoundsGaming Absolutely
Luv u brother kevin. Keeping it real. Ima a high value man with no kids at 42 years old so i feel you my brother.
Amazing when Kevin catches them in their lies that silence from them is GOLDEN!! Truth hurts like Motha
Hes so good at it