A reason I have just thought of why it might not be a good idea for some people to have kids. Is because some people don't like there kids. Becoming more grown up and independent and having there own life. Parents should be OK with that or ready for it
Because birth control dosen't all ways work. Sometimes it might not really be by choice sometimes it could be because they can't have kids with out knowing it
It could depend on how much the person dosen't want kids. Or how much the person wants kids. Because some people don't stick with it because of who they get married to or how there partner is. It might change some people might want kids more then others. Some people might not want kids more then others
Because it's possible to quit if they really want to or try hard enough. I think a caring mum would stop smoking when pregnant or even before they get pregnant
When they say that people like bad news. Well if someone is Facebook free or partner free people might like to hear the bad side they have and why they want to be free from them things or why they stopped
Maybe some people just think they want kids but they don't really want kids that much. Because some people who really want kids. Might still have a child even if it's not the right man or the right man dosen't come along
Someone out there for everyone sounds as if they thnk. Everyone should be with someone and know one shoud be partner free. Maybe it's because it's different some people might possible think someting is wrong with them if they are partner free or want to be
@@a.medved Because birth control dosen't all ways work. They might not all ways really be chilffree by choice. Sometimes it could be because they can't have kids with out knowing it
In this kind of way they don't make a good parent. If they don't like or can't eccept there kids becoming more grown up and independent and having there own life
About childfree by choice people they could say. What about if there was no such thing as birth control? Or they could say with out birth control there would be no such thing as childfree by choice
As well as thinking that some people shouldn't have kids. Or shouldn't of had them. Some people might all so think that some child free people should have kids. Or that they are selfish
A long time ago before they had birth control. It was probably true that something was wrong with them if they was childfree stayed that way. Because it was probaably mostly people who couldn't have kids. Or people who was gay or lesbian who didn't have kids what some people might have seen as something wrong with them or seen as bad. But it's not like that with childfree people anymore
There can be lots of ways how people wouldn't make a good parent what they don't even think about. Like smoking when pregnant or in the house around there kids that is selfish
Maybe they didn't really change there mind. Maybe just when they was younger some people didn't realise they didn't want kids maybe they wasn't fully thinking
Because it's something what they can manage with out. And they have been managing with out there hole life. And having kids is a change and a big responsibility. Someone wanting to be child free and staying that way. Might not even really have much of a impact on there partner even if there partner wants them. Having kids could have more of a impact then not having kids. Like with money and other things and even a baby keeping them up. So wanting to be child free and staying child free. Might not even really have that much of a impact on there partner
The only person who said really possible have a problem with them wanting to be childfree. Is possible a long time girlfriend or boyfriend. Because they may want to have kids and some leave them because of it. Other then there partner is has no impact on anyoe else
Because it's better with two parents partner free and childfree kind of go with each other. If they are partner free and don't really stay with people. They might be better of being chilfdree
Depending on how much they don't want kids or how much they want kids. Some people who didn't want kids have got married to someone who wants kids and ended up having kids. And some people who want kids have got married to someone who dosen't want kids and ended up not having kids. It could depend on how much the person dosen't want kids or how much the person wants kids.
Smoking when pregnant or in the house around there kids is selfish. There can be lots of ways how people wouldn't make a good parent. What they might not even think about
Maybe it happens a lot by accident because lots of people don't use a condom or a cap or talke the pills. Even tho they don't want kids maybe lots don't think about it
Before the had birth control being childfree and staying childfree. Could have possible been a reason why some might not have liked gay people. Or had against gay people. Even tho that is not by choice. Even tho it can't be helped long long ago they could have said what about if your parents was gay then you wouldn't be hear.
If they are selfish and they don't bother with there parents or siblings. I dosen't look like it would be a good ides for them to have kids. Possible not even a partner
Maybe it's because they just thnk about 1 or the other some people don't understand me. But it's possible for some people who don't want kids to not be able to have kids. Maybe with out knowing it and because birth control dosen't all ways work on every person. Some people might not really be childfree by choice. Most of the time it probaby is by choice because normally birth control works. But it's possible for it to be because some people can't have kids with out knowing it
I have read that in Sweden there is almost no violent crime or criminal gangs or drugs issues. So that news is Wrong, the reason for not having crime it is said that due to equality and social security. It is sad that even in Sweden there is violent criminal gangs and violent Crimes. Sweden is said to one of the safest and peaceful country to live in.
@@Fan-zx1lz well, I have witnessed a lot of shit in Sweden.. my friend got knife robbed (got a stab wound in the leg) when he went grocery shopping.. there are a lot of shootings, explosions etc
I haven't looked :) so I have no idea to be honest. I have only focused on my self-development and my passions, so I have honesly not felt the need to date and find someone new
@@bennewman4675 for now I'm pretty happy to be partnerfree because that means I can finally only focus on my dreams. I have always put other people first previously, so this is the first time that I put myself first, and I like it. But I will not close the door if something good comes along of course.
i don't want them, kids are a lifetime's hobby. I am not interesting in having kids and I certainly don't want pregnancy, childbirth breast feeding, breast pumps and stress and debt and lack of freedom uk
Because of spending more money pain giving birth and baby possible keeping them awake. Them wanting to be childfree and syaying childfree. Might not even really have that much of a impact on there partner. Even if there partner wants them
The world is nasty is the reason I don't want to have kids. I don't want to bring them into this world of drugs, gangs and all other things which makes Life unbearable.
Making birth control shows that people can have a choice. It's kind of a same that people didn't all ways have that choice
A reason I have just thought of why it might not be a good idea for some people to have kids. Is because some people don't like there kids. Becoming more grown up and independent and having there own life. Parents should be OK with that or ready for it
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my neighbour is rich and she has 4 kids and her mother lives thousands of miles away in australia
All the reasons mentioned in the video are absolutely true. Great video. Thank you.
Thank YOU for listening
For me, too much anxiety and very limited natural resources.😔
I'm so sorry to hear about the anxiety :(
what is your opinion on the philosophy called anti-natalism?
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Because birth control dosen't all ways work. Sometimes it might not really be by choice sometimes it could be because they can't have kids with out knowing it
It could depend on how much the person dosen't want kids. Or how much the person wants kids. Because some people don't stick with it because of who they get married to or how there partner is. It might change some people might want kids more then others. Some people might not want kids more then others
Because it's possible to quit if they really want to or try hard enough. I think a caring mum would stop smoking when pregnant or even before they get pregnant
When they say that people like bad news. Well if someone is Facebook free or partner free people might like to hear the bad side they have and why they want to be free from them things or why they stopped
Maybe some people just think they want kids but they don't really want kids that much. Because some people who really want kids. Might still have a child even if it's not the right man or the right man dosen't come along
If some childfree people regret it. There could all so be a chance they would have all so have regreted it if they had kids as well
Someone out there for everyone sounds as if they thnk. Everyone should be with someone and know one shoud be partner free. Maybe it's because it's different some people might possible think someting is wrong with them if they are partner free or want to be
It's brave of people who want to be childfree to speck out about it. Because if they speck out about it some people might have a problem with it
yeah, this will be triggering for some people
@@a.medved Because birth control dosen't all ways work. They might not all ways really be chilffree by choice. Sometimes it could be because they can't have kids with out knowing it
well done for stand up to the disabled bullies. one tends to think of sweden as fairly life... thanks for about about the real life there
thank you for listening! Sweden has a lot of good things going on, but it is definitely not perfect
In this kind of way they don't make a good parent. If they don't like or can't eccept there kids becoming more grown up and independent and having there own life
It would be nice to see you doing some videos on other topics.
I will :) I promise!
About childfree by choice people they could say. What about if there was no such thing as birth control? Or they could say with out birth control there would be no such thing as childfree by choice
As well as thinking that some people shouldn't have kids. Or shouldn't of had them. Some people might all so think that some child free people should have kids. Or that they are selfish
If your all so Facebook free or partner free and want to be. It would be interesting to all so see a video about that and about why
A long time ago before they had birth control. It was probably true that something was wrong with them if they was childfree stayed that way. Because it was probaably mostly people who couldn't have kids. Or people who was gay or lesbian who didn't have kids what some people might have seen as something wrong with them or seen as bad. But it's not like that with childfree people anymore
There can be lots of ways how people wouldn't make a good parent what they don't even think about. Like smoking when pregnant or in the house around there kids that is selfish
Maybe they didn't really change there mind. Maybe just when they was younger some people didn't realise they didn't want kids maybe they wasn't fully thinking
Do I see a Rottweiler in the background? I’m a crazy dog lady and have a Maltese X Shihtzu of my own
That is accurate :D that is my rottie! Oooh your dog sounds like a fluffy cuddleball
@@a.medvedhe sure is :) what’s your rottie’s name and age ?
@@ShwetaRamkumar His everyday name is Garm, and his pedigree name is Falkline's Gamer, he is 3,5 years old :D what is your dog's name?
@@a.medvedBuddy boy aka shithead he’s 8 years old, he’s in the thumbnail pic of one of my videos
Because it's something what they can manage with out. And they have been managing with out there hole life. And having kids is a change and a big responsibility. Someone wanting to be child free and staying that way. Might not even really have much of a impact on there partner even if there partner wants them. Having kids could have more of a impact then not having kids. Like with money and other things and even a baby keeping them up. So wanting to be child free and staying child free. Might not even really have that much of a impact on there partner
The only person who said really possible have a problem with them wanting to be childfree. Is possible a long time girlfriend or boyfriend. Because they may want to have kids and some leave them because of it. Other then there partner is has no impact on anyoe else
Do some women not think about the pain giving birth?
everything is great in this video except sound: very quiet
Oh, thanks for the feedback! I'll look through the settings for the next video! Thanks for letting me know :D
If they haven't had them by the time there 30 or 40. They might be less likely to still want kids or not want them anymore
Because it's better with two parents partner free and childfree kind of go with each other. If they are partner free and don't really stay with people. They might be better of being chilfdree
Depending on how much they don't want kids or how much they want kids. Some people who didn't want kids have got married to someone who wants kids and ended up having kids. And some people who want kids have got married to someone who dosen't want kids and ended up not having kids. It could depend on how much the person dosen't want kids or how much the person wants kids.
Smoking when pregnant or in the house around there kids is selfish. There can be lots of ways how people wouldn't make a good parent. What they might not even think about
Maybe it happens a lot by accident because lots of people don't use a condom or a cap or talke the pills. Even tho they don't want kids maybe lots don't think about it
Before the had birth control being childfree and staying childfree. Could have possible been a reason why some might not have liked gay people. Or had against gay people. Even tho that is not by choice. Even tho it can't be helped long long ago they could have said what about if your parents was gay then you wouldn't be hear.
my education is poor but i refused to have kids
Yes ofc that is also true, I just mentioned what studies show :)
If they are selfish and they don't bother with there parents or siblings. I dosen't look like it would be a good ides for them to have kids. Possible not even a partner
Are you all so Facebook free and partner free?
I have other social media, but I'm not very active there. I try to reduce my screentime :)
Maybe it's because they just thnk about 1 or the other some people don't understand me. But it's possible for some people who don't want kids to not be able to have kids. Maybe with out knowing it and because birth control dosen't all ways work on every person. Some people might not really be childfree by choice. Most of the time it probaby is by choice because normally birth control works. But it's possible for it to be because some people can't have kids with out knowing it
I have read that in Sweden there is almost no violent crime or criminal gangs or drugs issues. So that news is Wrong, the reason for not having crime it is said that due to equality and social security.
It is sad that even in Sweden there is violent criminal gangs and violent Crimes. Sweden is said to one of the safest and peaceful country to live in.
@@Fan-zx1lz well, I have witnessed a lot of shit in Sweden.. my friend got knife robbed (got a stab wound in the leg) when he went grocery shopping.. there are a lot of shootings, explosions etc
@@a.medved Ohh. That's sad. I hope your friend is alright now.
@@Fan-zx1lz he is, it happened 7 months ago
@@a.medved But what a traumatic experience to go through.
@@Fan-zx1lz Yeah… thank god he didnt bring his daughter that time
Have you find it hard to find a partner who all so dosen't want kids?
I haven't looked :) so I have no idea to be honest. I have only focused on my self-development and my passions, so I have honesly not felt the need to date and find someone new
@@a.medved Do you all so like to be partner free? Thanks for your reply
@@bennewman4675 for now I'm pretty happy to be partnerfree because that means I can finally only focus on my dreams. I have always put other people first previously, so this is the first time that I put myself first, and I like it. But I will not close the door if something good comes along of course.
i don't want them, kids are a lifetime's hobby. I am not interesting in having kids and I certainly don't want pregnancy, childbirth breast feeding, breast pumps and stress and debt and lack of freedom uk
I toooootally agree with you! 👊 I feel the same
Because of spending more money pain giving birth and baby possible keeping them awake. Them wanting to be childfree and syaying childfree. Might not even really have that much of a impact on there partner. Even if there partner wants them
The world is nasty is the reason I don't want to have kids. I don't want to bring them into this world of drugs, gangs and all other things which makes Life unbearable.
@@Fan-zx1lz agreed 110%
Yep the world has changed but not in a good way unfortunately
Yeah.. unfortunately :( it is very sad