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I love being childfree, praise Jesus Christ for such a life. It's so great not to have the burden of being a parent

As well as saying people are selfish for not having kids. They could all so say that people are being selfish for not dating some people and letting some people be single who want a partner

Maybe a childfree by choice person being an egg Donner or a sperm donor could depend on why they don't want kids. Some just might not want to look after kids but some might not want to bring kids into the world full stop.

Like they say there 2 sides to everyone. They could surprise me but I just wouldn't expect a childfree person to be a sperm donor or a egg Donner. Maybe it depends on why they don't want kids some just might not want to look after them. But some just might not want to bring kids into the world full stop

Because they just might not want to look after kids or bring them up. Maybe some childfree people would be a sperm donor or a egg donor

Surprisingly some people who are child free or come across like that could be a sperm donor or a egg doner. Maybe some of them just don't want to look after kids or bring them up

Would you get with a partner who has young kids ?

If this is the case for them when they are young and dumb. Maybe some people might not realise if they probably wouldn't make a good parent.

As I have got older I want kids less then when I was younger now I feel it's something I can let go of

yes

Honestly, if these boys want to see our capacity for autonomous decision-making as red flags, more power to them. The more vocal they are about their stance, the easier it is for us to see them coming and give them a wide berth.

Because they might not be young and dumb anymore. I think some people who have kids when they are 28 or 30 or older might truly want kids

Maybe it could sometimes be a mix of young and dumb and some people being programmed to want them. Why some people might not realise they don't want kids or think they want them when they don't

I understand something now some people truly want kids but some people don't truly want kids. Some people think they want kids but they are not thinking about what comes along with having kids. If they don't want kids anymore when they are older maybe they never truly wanted kids in the first place maybe they just didn't realise they didn't want them

I think some people can realise they don't want kids because of the saying young and dumb. But I don't know if people can really realise they want kds maybe that would just be changing there mind. Maybe this is just me but it seems more likely to realise they don''t want kids then to realise they want them

Because of the saying young and dum maybe sometimes it's not really changing there mind. Maybe it's just realiseing they don't want kids. Maybe because of some people possibly being programmed to. But if they don't want kids and then they do want kids maybe that's a bit different maybe that is often changing there mind

Maybe some people who don't have kids and till a lot later in life. Didn't use to want them or maybe they wasn't sure

I'm not saying this is the case for all of them. But I think some people who don't have kids and till they are 30 or older then 30 possible 40 might not have really wanted kids that much because other why's they could of had them by now. And it could even be possible that some of them people changed there mind

Maybe some people just don't realise they have never wanted kids. Because when they was younger they might not have thought about it. And when they was really young some people might have thought they wanted kids when they didn't really want them

I'm a guy and I'm actually relieved that there are women that don't want kids. My whole life I heard from my parents that all women want kids and that made me sad since I wanted to date and be in a committed relationship but not have kids. Of course I'm aware that there are women who are childfree by choice and single by choice, but at least I can still find a woman that does want to be in a relationship but doesn't want kids.

Control 🚩🚩🚩🚩

These same man can't remember their own child's birthday.

You hit the nail on the head, it's down to control. Men like that want to baby trap women. As for red flags, the definition can vary. For me, a red flag is a sign that the relationship won't work, subtle or not.

I'm almost 50 years old and live alone in a brand new city where no one knows me. It's been awesome and refreshing however, people assume that I'm a single childless woman by choice 😂 Yes, I'm single by choice because I'm happier that way however, I have two grown sons in their late twenties. Are they still supposed to be living with me? Am I still supposed to be supporting and taking care of them? Because I very much enjoy having my own life and living alone for the first time EVER!! 🎉

do u want ur kids to be grist for the corporate mill??...if not, then dont have them...

He probably also hates single women with kids.

Parenting is tough and selfless it's not for everyone,if you don't feel like taking that responsibility don't do it

Im noticing that people in the comments don't understand what "red flags" are. Red flags are things that are BAD about a person and could lead to trouble later on, like lying for no reason or being impulsive to a fault. The term the commenters should be using is "Deal Breaker", these are not bad but are incompatibilities that you can't overcome. Like not wanting to be with someone who smokes, drinks or doesn't want kids. The fact the guy in the video is using Red Flag is an insult and a judgement on women for no reason and that's why he's getting criticism.

Seems like you are damned if you have kids and damned if you don’t. Some of these damn “men” don’t even help take care of the kids they say they want and keep creating broken homes. All the work falls on women. People can say whatever they like regardless so I’m going to continue to live my BEST child free life! 💯💯💯

It’s thoughtless?? To not want kids?? I think a lot of women put a lot of thought into this. If men were to get pregnant they would be hella careful too!! Women are protective of our wombs! Men are wasteful. They will shoot you or your future kids if he has no empathy. He will gladly knock up you & several other women. And he won’t be there for the women when they give birth or if they want an abortion. He thinks women shouldn’t have sex for the reason of soley pleasure. It goes against their logic. They think that all women are just baby making machines that pop out little worshippers to these narcissistic men. Men think they are Gods and they want everyone to follow after them & worship them. They want all our babies and toddlers to worship them. And do their dishes & clean up after their disgusting mess

Men have been stuck on the past ever since women got rights & money & the freedom to choose. Almost every single man wants to be “the only man in HER life”. And they want that for SEVERAL WOMEN! It’s all about control. They are out of control in their own lives so they feel the need to control other women. Women can still have kids & be married but it shouldn’t be ALL women!!

Men have been stuck on the past ever since women got rights & money & the freedom to choose. Almost every single man wants to be “the only man in HER life”. And they want that for SEVERAL WOMEN! It’s all about control. They are out of control in their own lives so they feel the need to control other women. Women can still have kids & be married but it shouldn’t be ALL women!!

Stop over rationalising. He's speaking from the perspective of relationships and you're triggered because you feel singled out lol. Randomass video of the day.

Choices if you want your legacy to live on you have children if you dont care that your legacy lives on you dont have children

Not wanting to have kids says a tremendous amount about you. You subscribe to an ideology which is against the production of life. You are too afraid or selfish to accept the workload of rearing children. Pets, nieces, nephews are a poor simulacrum of your own children. This guy is completely correct, you really are thoughtless. The silver lining is that people who think like you will soon be gone from our societies simply by the fact that you are not reproducing... The future will be defined by those who show up (my children and their children and so on). Im sure this guy is worried that a girl like yourself (old, haggard, depressed) has a red flag for guys like him, LOL.

Good men want to have kids. Its really that simple.

Demeaning from the start, she states "red flags about women" from a man! get over yourself! women have been demanding from men for years about everything, and now we are doing it. Hope you like it.

Hi! Man here 1. Most guys want kids, so he is speaking in general tense. If both parties do not want kids then great! (I know a couple) but he speaks in general sense. 2. She does not want to be married. This is not as much as a red flag, but rather fear of the unknown. To men who want to have fun, this is a green flag, but I can understand why relationship oriented men would treat this as such. 3. Birth control. Not healthy for the body, but hey it's only your business. Not a red flag in my opinion. 4. Antidepresants, drinking, smoking. As a european i only have problems with Antidepresants. Every girl I know who is on AD, that is the least of their problems. It's the dysfunctionality that usually comes with it (my experience 100% of the time unfortunately) 5. Wanting Children. Yes, men can tell a lot about a woman who says "I want to be a mom" vs "I don't want to be a mom". It does not necesarily have to be true, but more often than not, women who do not want kids tend to be more self centered. Which is a red flag if a guy DOES want children (you are not on the same page in the first place) If you do not want kids, give her a chance. 6. Constantly going out. Applies to both men and women 99% of the time. I'm seeing it with some of my friends in real time.

This video is profoundly unserious commentary mixed in with poor attemps at gaslighting men who have strong standards. Much of it is also just shaming rhetoric to shame men into compliance with what women like this gal want. Here's the thing : this is obvious cope, everyone knows this is cope and everyone knows that everyone knows this is cope. There is no parallel universe where this is not cope.

Who cares what men say

That's ok because women hate men

It sounds to me like he wants a woman who wants to put HIS wants first. And if any woman doesn't share HIS wants, then that's thoughtless of her, and not sharing HIS wants are red flags? At least that's how I'm translating this man's nonsense. Like tell me you're a misogynist without telling me that you're a misogynist, ya know??

how hard you get triggert as a PET MOMMY , obviously without children, by his first sentence - let him speak out and explain himself before you interrupt - shit modern feminist crap of a women.

I wouldn't be surprised if hes on the spectrum and he has not received treatment.

I dont consider myself precisely a leftie but in this case Im with you They are not ok with single mothers- "they're a mess" They are not ok with childless women Whats left? Living locked in jail?

Because men want to keep their legacy going...so if they want to do that they need a woman that isn't anti children. Few men don't want children so a woman who doesn't want to perform her biological function is a red flag like hell. It the same reaction to when you meet a man and he doesn't work and still lives with his parents. You feel immediately repulsed by it because a mans biological role is to provide and protect which he isn't able to do neither. Imagine a vegan lion, you would think that is weird as hell and so would all the other lions. Also you don't get to define what a red flag is for men, what you chose to do may go against the grain but that doesn't mean we have to accept it or consider it normal. We MEN set our red flags for women not YOU.

Any woman who uses the term "childfree" to describe herself is liberal trash. A normal woman simply says, "I don't have kids".

If having children is a priority for the man...this would OBVIOUSLY be a red flag. How could it not?

Yes you are correct people have different values so that also means he has a right to live out what is valuable to him. That doesn’t make him a bad man. Also, women who monetize off of talking about men are just as much of a problem as the men they think they talk about. You would not have anything to talk about if it weren’t about your perception of men and your preference to make that your main idea.

90% of Man thinks exactly like this guys. No. It's a red flag. And it is a narcissistic behavior. Name it however you want. It simply means you cares only for herself in a way. Cope however you want. And you know that the stuff you do is fucked up, that's why you made this cope video. Also you're upset because the dudes are hot. Having a "pet" in not the same, you don't understand man at all.