My interpretation for this is. God used our heartbreaks as an instrument to make us prepared for a better person. “Paubaya” is one of the step to be in that right person. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ So cheer up everyone. ✌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
The Deeper meaning of Paubaya for me is To Surrender Everything To God. Pinapaubaya niya ang kaniyang sarili Sa Diyos. Siya na ang bahala sa kanyang pusong Nawasak at Nasaktan. Ang Totoong Pinapaubaya nya ay ang kanyang Sarili at hindi ang kanyang Minamahal. Dahil walang relasyon na ginawa dito sa mundong ito na walang katapusan dahil tanging relasyon lamang natin sa Kanya ang panghabang buhay . 🙂
I feel eto po ang totoong meaning ng paubaya song according to moira. When she sang the song in asap, she pointed above when she sang the last line "pinapaubaya ko na sa Kanya" which is God. Kudos sir 👍
@@carmssssclanor yes po its not her na pinapaubaya na nya ang kanyang bf sa babae. its not like that. gagawa sana ako video essay about this song. heheh
"There will come a time wherein you're walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life, you'll realized why it did not worked out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at ipinaubaya mo yung tao na yun sa iba dahil meron pang isa na mas deserve ka." 💛 It's indeed true. It's just a hurtful way to find your true life partner.
@@minawina9494 sabi nga ni kuya darbs, hindi mo siya kelangang hanapin para matagpuan. 💛 In God's perfect timing, dadating siya nang sa buhay mo (or pwedeng matagal na pala siyang nasa buhay mo, iba pa nga lang ang role niya). Yung timing na kayang kaya mo na din siyang mahalin ng buo dahil healed ka na din. 😊 At hindi mo na siya kailangang ipaubaya sa iba.
the song itself is already heart breaking tapos yung explanation mo and the way you digest every single word on the lyrics para mong binudburan ng asin yung sariwang sugat 😭😭😭 good job!
Love without reason lasts the longest. You love not only when it's convenient for you but you love and choose to stay even when you feel and think like the love is not there anymore because real love is constant. It doesn't change. It's not gone. It's still there. Hindi namin kasi yan fairytale. Love is hard work. And that's why love is also a decision. Because no matter what happens, the person will choose to stay. So if someone you love leaves you for someone else, it's okay. Let go. That person is not meant for you. You are not his or her choice. You are meant for someone who is afraid of losing you and will stay with you come what may. The best kind of love is the kind that will bring out the best in you.
the song simply tell us that no matters how much we love someone, at some point, maybe we were just an instrument to guide and lead them to the person they we're really meant to be with🙁🙁🙁
This song represent a selfless love, loving without expecting anything in return,, .. it means we love the person so so much that we want that person to be happy even if it's not with us anymore..that's true love..
Because of your analyzation and interpretation of the song, mas nabubuo na yung decision ko na magpalaya at magpaubaya. Thanks for this. Update: I just received the biggest sign para magpaubaya na talaga. eto na talaga yun. 🙂 edit ko nalang ulit to soon.
Good for you girl, trust me its one of the hardest decision you’ll ever make in your life but at the end it’ll be worthy, PS. 6 months na nkalipas when i made the decision of Pagpapaubaya it still sucks and hurts everyday but Im better now. To everyone you will be too. One step at a time xx
I needed those words.. I loved the wrong person for almost a decade and when this pandemic hit. She suddenly gone cold. Pero hindi kami naging perpekto. Pero totoong minahal ko sya. Behind all the lies, I mustered up everything and accepted it. When I learned the truth, hindi ko ma explain gaano ako nadurog nun. Tama ka sir. Kung kaya kong gawin lahat ng yun para sa maling tao. Pano pa kaya para sa taong nakalaan para sa akin. 💪
It takes a lot for a person to speak his mind but you did and with tears and I’m sure your words have become a blessing to those whose hearts have been deeply hurt and needs to mend. Real talk indeed. Better to build and mag paubaya so that the person who hurt you would stop hurting other people. True love wins.
This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Kailangan kong ipaubaya sa Panginoon ang taong pinakamamahal ko. 😭😭 you know what really point my attention while watching this video, is when he says, bakiy mo ba mahal yung tao? napaisip ako bakit ko pala siya minahal? kung ang dami daming dahilan para hindi ko siya mahalin. pero eto ako lubos na nagmamahal sa kanya. pero hindi ko inakalang may hangganan din pala, kinuha na siya ng Panginoon kaya ipinapaubaya ko na siya sa Panginoon. 😭😭😭
Thank you, Real Talk Darbs for being there whenever I feel down. I feel like I have a bestfriend that telling good advices. Thank you. I don’t know what is the perfect word to describe. But THANK YOU. I’m crying while watching this video. 🥺
Its been 12 yrs. Sa loob nang mahabang panahon.. marami nang nang yari.. kami ang unang pamilya pero sa iba xa nag settle down.. masakit kung babalikan q yung nakaraan pero love is wonderful thing wala aqng galit. Naiintindihan q at tanggap q ang katutuhanan.. for 12 yrs. Napapaniginipan q pa xa. Sa panaginip na masaya ako. Na kasama xa kahit pa sa panaginip q aq laging nag aantay sa kanya aq laging nag hahanp ng way maksama lang namin xa At sa tuwing nagigising aq. Nakakaramdam aq nang lungkot. Alam q god has a planned for me and my daughter. Pero minsa gusto malaman kung ano planned ni god.. tapos sinasabi q kay lord. Na if my time will come let me be with him even if its only a dream. Na sana sa panaginip q buo kami. Na kmi naman.. god knows what inside my heart. But god has a good planned for me.. 😔
While watching Darbs, on how much he got affected by the song, i really got curious about his life..the true him.where all the advices coming from...maxadong malalim..
You are one of those few people who have genuine way of giving reactions based on life lessons...nakakaiyak yung reaction mo pati mga payo mo sir.. tagos sa puso
Bakit ansakit 😭 its been 10 years and hey whenever i hear a song that reminds me of our memories together it still hurts, i always pray that one day will come that the Lord will show me why we didnt end up together,I always pray for you, i know that you’re happy now, I pray the same thing for me.. I pray that my heart heals.
bakit nga ba?minsan ay napaka unfair ang pag ibig,masaya na sila sa iba,pero ito tayo nagmamahal pa rin sa kanila..(me 20 yrs.na pero mahal ko pa rin sya,.)
Having been experienced such heartbreak makes me burst into tears while listening to this song, though it's been 6 years since we split yet I can still vividly recall the pain. hoping that one day I can forget it!
You will never understand unless you personally experienced it. Hindi maiintindihan ng ibang tao ang pakiramdam na , pinalaya mo kahit sobrang mahal mo para maging masaya lang sya. Mararamdaman mo kasi yan pag hindi masaya sayo yung tao. Sobrang selfless nung lyrics. 💯 Minsan nag stay lang kasi kailangan ka pero hindi ka talaga mahal🙂.
Naranasan ko yan, at hangang ngaun mahal ko pa yung taong pinalaya ko, 8yrs na ang nkakalipas at may sarili na syang pamilya, pero sya pa rin ang mahal ko kya single pa rin ako hangang ngayn
@@ramosmarkjayson9179 aww tulungan mo ang sarili mo. Kaya mo yan. Dapat ngayon mas mahal mo na ang sarili mo at nagfofocus ka na sa sarili mo. Easier to say than done, masakit man pero palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa sakit ng nakaraan. Bigyan mo ng chance ang sarili mo na magmahal ulit , buksan mo ang puso mo para makita mo yung mga nasa paligid mo. I feel mabuti ang puso mo kaya for sure meron nakalaan sayo. Basta ipag pray mo yan na dumating at sana mapansin mo sya. Ikaw at ikaw lang din ang tutulong sa sarili mo. Dadating ang tamang tao , pag alam ng Diyos na handa ka na. Girl, sa totoo lang hindi mo makakalimutan ang ex mo kahit ano ang gawin mo , nasa memorya mo na sya , di na yan mabubura dapat tanggapin mo na hindi na sya sayo. Acceptance is the key and only time can heal you🙏🙏🙏
Lalaine Lalaine mahal ko na talaga ang sarili ko. Kaya nga sarili ko na lng mamahalin ko kesa mag mahal ulit ako tpos sasaktan lng ako ulit, for me its better this way. Hindi nko magmamahal ng iba, maliban na lng kung sa Dios mang gagaling.
wow. this is my first time watching one of your vids. and in just a span of minutes, napa-subscribed ako. the substance and your voice. ♥️ usually, ilang vids pa papanoorin ko before ako mag-subscribe.
Men's have emotions too. Sometimes we build a woman just for another man. We've been 5 year's together. Last week of May "okay pa naman" first week of July "this year" she's happy with someone's arm. It hurt's but we need to let go and move on. Not necessarily kahit ako yung nauna pero di ang wakas. 💔💔
Samin po 6 years kami ng sundalo kong bf but naghiwalay kami sa day mismo ng anniversary namin (6th year) (2017) because of another woman na pinili nya over me. He got married in 2018 1 yr after our break up and until now it hurts me but I already accepted the fact that we are not destined for each other.
Wow! This is my first time tuning to your channel. I like how you expounded the song. That is love and respect when you become real and let go. Love and respect for the person and for yourself.
This song really hits me. I was getting married to someone i loved, i was 6 months pregnant that time, when he met someone else. They've become gf and bf. I forgave him and still accepts him, because i was also thinking of our baby. But while planning with our wedding i can feel that he no longer was happy with me. I asked him if he was still willing to marry me. And he said "NO" and i said okay I'm letting you go. I talked to the girls and asked if he really loves him and she said YES. At that time it hurts like hell. Na gusto mo nalng matapis na ang lahat na sana panaginio lang ang lahat. Pero hindi eh, kailangan mong harapin, sinabi ko nalng sa girl ayoko maging kontrabida sa love story nila, na may taong nakalaan pa rin sa akin. At sinabi ko sa kanya na mahalin si ex nang todo. At di na ako mangingialam sa kanila kahit ako ang nauna at kahit na may dahilab ako para magstay dahil buntis ako. Mahal ko siya pero d na ako ang mahal😢.
@@johnpaulangor5123 oo nga naisip ko rin yon. Kaya lang ayoko na ng gulo. At baka sumikat ako😅. Ang importante naka-move on na. At nakakaya ko pa namn suportahan ang anak namin.
Get your baby's right to his father. Di pwedeng happy na sa iba ba bye na. Pano responsibilidad ba bye na rin? Ang swerte naman ni kuya. Di puro love love may responsibilidad din na tinatwagan at kinukuha.
@@annkris15 I did asked some support before pero Sabi nya he will start business with his gf. And now they are already married and have their own child. Ayoko ng gulo. Nasa sa kanya na yon kung magpapaka-ama cya sa anak namin.
This is why I like you, kuya Darbs. You give extended analysis and meaningful observations to issues that matter. Things that some of us may neglect, but your analysis made us realize yung value ng isang bagay at art behind it. Galing!
It's been 10 months since I broke up with him but the pain is still the same. I wish you always the best and happiness in your life. Yeah maybe im in pain right now but soon I know goin to be fine. I still want you but i guess i need to let go. This song really hit me cause why not,right? Every broken people can relate to this song lalo na yung mga naiwan,iniwan at nagpaubaya ng taong mahal na mahal nila.To all people suffering pain rn hope we all heal and be happy for them.Lovelots ❤️
"There will come a time where in when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love you of your life, you'll realize why it did not work out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo ang tao na yun sa iba kasi mero pang isa na mas deserve ka"
"there will become a time when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love of your life you'll realized y it did not worked with anybody else, magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo yung tao na ‘yon sa iba, kasi meron pang isa na mas deserve ka" hanggang ngayon kahit alam kong wala na at hindi na pwede, I‘m still hoping na ikaw ‘yung huling taong makakasama ko.
I dont know why it's been one year but my tears fell down while watching and listening to your review.. Maybe because lahat ng pain nag flashback sa akin.. But of course it's a part of watching your video yung feel what do you really want to tell to your viewers.. I love how you explained each and every lyrics.. How you defined it.. I am already moved on naman na.. What important is the last part that you said.. Tama ka doon dumaan lang sya sa buhay ko para for sure may matutunan din ako para sa next relationship ko mas ok. And yes, if nagawa ko nga sa maling tao. Why shouldn't I sa tamang tao..God bless you
Thanks God lumabas ang kantang ito Paubaya naka recover fully recovered na ako.dumaan ako sa sobrang depressed pero mabuti na lang thank you God matapang ako or else bumigay na.i feel inlove the person pero d nya ako minahal.walang kami(ang labo noh)pero ganun,then nauwi ako ng pinas,pinagluluko lang ako,sobrang depressed ko siguro balde balde yong nailuha ko sa kanya.wala pala ako lang pinaglaruan ang feeling ko,now kaya ko na.ang definition ko sa love,dont hurt someone you loved,support the person you loved regardless of who she is,or who he is,kc kung darating man ang tym sa lantang gulay na sya,d ko sya iiwan,kc doon ako huhugot kong anong tinanim nya sa akin.wala naman talagang ganyan,kc magsisikap ka din na malampasan mo yan.
Dont build the person. Hindi mo responsibility na buohin ang isang tao. Responsibility nya yon at kung tinulungan mo man syang buohin ang sarili nya whether hiningi mn nya o hindi, huwag mong isumbat na tinulungan mo sya. Maging masaya ka para sa kanya dahil buo na sya at handa na sya ishare yung kabuoan niya.
".. Ba't 'di ko naisip na merong hanggan.. Ako yung nauna, pero siya ang wakas.." 7th year anniversary namin nang sabihin niyang hihiwalayan niya ako. Lahat naman may HANGGANAN lalo na sa pagmamahal. Masakit, nakakadurog ng puso, nakakabitter talaga sa umpisa, pero ' ACCEPTANCE' lang naman talaga kailngan para mawala lahat yan. Pray lang lagi para sa ikabubuti ng sarili at para sa 4 yrs old kong anak. Godbless RTD. ♥
This reaction video hit me hard as well host.. Magaling how u addressed the lyrics. My first time to your channel and right now i am a fan nah.. Keep it up. God bless always. ♥️🙏🏻
Same 9 years with my ex who cheated on me for so many times until he broke up with me to be with that other woman. But I’m okay now and engaged to amazing guy who truly deserve me. I wish you all happiness too, soon. ❤️🙏🏻
just saw this vid.. but it helps me a lot to ease all the bitterness iam having for the pain that he gave.. iam now taking the " i build the man for another woman".. thank you darbs! #selfworth #selflove
_".. you build a man for another woman."_ This is what I feared the most. Yes, the uncertainty is vigorous, we can't predict when will/if he/she has a change of heart. _"Mahirap labanan ang tinadhana.."_ Ang panalangin ko lang ay sana tibayan ng puso ko ang mga masasakit na salitang bibitiwan niya. Dahil ayaw kong harapin ang katotohanan na di na kita mababawi pa. Na hindi ko na kayang habulin ang panahon na pwede pa, nagbabakasaling pwedeng magsimula pa. _To that someone who holds his heart and attention, I know one day you will make a great partner in this lifetime. Just please.. wag mo syang saktan, at alagaan mo sya lubos sa mga panahong akin pa sya._
Keep in mind na if your current relationship doesn't work, there's still a person who would want to be with you, it only takes time for you to discover or find that right person for you. Pain is part of our growth, as a person/ individual . Natural lang ang masaktan sa isang relationship kase package yun eh pag may saya meron ding lungkot. Pero it's up to you if you want to enslave yourself sa past mo pero ang ending eh ikaw parin ang masasaktan. Why not let go? Why not move on? Simple, it's because you still love that person, or it's because you can't accept the fact that you don't deserve them. Be a better version of yourself kapatid😁 the right one will come along😊😊👌
Thank you! For making me realize that I did love him. I never thought it was selfless love, you know loving someone even if you are not the end game and wishing him the happiness he deserves. I thought it was just selfishness of me because I define my happiness to be at peace with myself and that includes him not being with me. My peace is seeing him grow to be a better person with someone because I believe everyone deserves that kind of love. Love that will make you a better person.
Letting go is the bravest and selfless thing to do. But the problem is, that person wanted to fulfill that with someone else. Yung may mga plano kang kasama sya, pero mas gusto nyang tuparin sa piling ng iba, PAUBAYA MO NA! Put Him to the person he sees in the future, bago mo tuluyang mawala yung sarili mo. Bago mo durugin ng paulit ulit ang puso mo sa pagkulong sa pangrap na wala na syang planong mananatili pa. Sa oras na ganito na ang situation, isipin mo nalang na GOD BREAKS OUR PLANS TO SAVE OUR HEARTS, OUR SOUL and most importantly OURSELVES. Hindi ka hahayaan ni God sa maling tao, way nya yun to tell you, WRONG WAY kana Anak. Hayaan mong PAUBAYA kita sa tamang tao sa tamang panahon🖤💚❤💋
I find that the purest of love is just selfless. That whatever makes him/her happy, even if that doesn't include you, you're still willing to give it, allow it.
ramdam ko to. napaka-genuine na reaction video. diko mapigil ang luha ko. 🥺😔 masakit, mahirap oo. pero sa pagpaPAUBAYA mo, isang way un para mapunta ka sa tamang tao para sayo.
Started in LDR Fell INLOVE Made Plans Made time Never met 2 months left before we meet and she said le'ts stop this. No formal goodbyes just unfinished talks asked for a chance and the answer is NO maybe i'll just need to be happy even im not the reason why. i just hope everything will be fine i hope for her endless happiness nothing be angry about but still im making my promise till i'll be back even she's not waiting for me anymore. i hope you are happier than before :)
I thought I was okay dahil naka get over na ako sa song yesterday. But, with you Kuya darbs, I was able to feel the pain from yesterday. One year ko na sya pinaubaya tho we have that memories for the last 4 years but the pain was really fresh at nuot na nuot pa ang sakit. Thank you for those encouragements. I hope sa pagpapaubaya ko, makikita ko ang nakatadhana sa akin. A solid fan of you, Kuya. Godbless 😭
Yes I always think before what did I do wrong, Why I'm still not enough? I felt that I am unworthy person that time, but I love him so much so I let him go.
true. Love isn't bound by reasons. It is still loving a person without any reasons. Though at some point it will break ourselves into million pieces. hugs.
“you build a man for another woman” “pinaubaya” sobrang sakit, nakapag move on na kami ng anak ko pero once na maririnig ko ‘tong lines natu. bigla nalang ako masasaktan, nasasaktan ako para sa anak ko na yung papa niya kinasal na sa iba.
Grabe no? Ako nga 14 yrs nag stay 10 yrs old daughter. Nag sama kami walang wala kasi bata pa nung nag asawa 20 tapos nung umangat na hindi pala ikaw....
I so can relate to this song /lyrics. Though the wounds have already healed and I have already moved on, but listening to this music again, brouht me a lot of tears.
nakita ko lang .. and i think your reactions at mga sinabi mo make me cry dude. i literaly watch this 20x yata and for that? im giving this reaction a BIG LIKE. and click that subscribe button. i love this reaction and i think this is the best reaction of all. thanks dude
I felt the song 100% Cause it happened to me. Letting go the person you love for somebody else he love. Ang hirap, ang sakit! Pero d talaga pwd ipilit ang sarili at love. For the sake of what we called dignity. Acceptance sa ngyari is the best. Alamin ang gusto malaman. Kailan? Paano? Sino? Saan? Etc. kahit masakit malaman ang katotohanAn. Coz yan ang paraan na mkamove-on at di magsisi sa desisyonng ipaubaya na xa. Saktan ang sarili til sabihin na it’s enough! Walang paghahabol o ipilit pa na mangyayari. Instead of cursing him for what happened. Smile,laugh while crying. Bring back the memories ang leave a good message for him and his new love. No regrets talaga.
Virtual Hugs sir Darbs 😭💔 Im out of words to say about this kasi when this song plays lahat ng mga kaibigan ko naalala nila ako kasi totoo ito yung nangyari sa akin . It really hurts po sobra💔
U make me realize about what love is..before i always like that..i give my all but in the end i ended with nothing, no respect and no love at all..even i know that they are with me not becoz they love me just bcoz they need me..true! We build in to someone that will ended up to other person..we cant fill the space that someone need..but we will realize in the end is MAGPAUBAYA...MAGPAPAUBAYA na make them happy in the end..u are the one is sad..masakit oo sobrang masakit pro pra sa kaligayahan nya gagawin natin ang lhat pra lng masatisfied mo sarili mo na u make something or someone happy..thats what love is...thank you for this video...its a realization of love, respect and self love...
I wish him well everyday, and may he find the happiness that he no longer felt with me. Mahirap but i'm trying and praying to be ok someday 😭. we may struggling today but life must go on.
Don't worry there will come a time that you will meet a person who will truly love for who you are and wants to stay with you forever. Keep on praying before you know it its just in front of you and haven'tseen it because you are still thinking of him. Good luck!
I agree sa sinabi mo pre.. yes, it should be "Love someone without any reason at all"... kasi any reasons, whatever it is, will fade through time. I had this experience actually, long term relationship, I poured everything to keep us intact, I even sacrificed my career just to keep her with me... but after she left the country, just few months after, someone came in, and ruined everything.. I was shocked and cant believe she would betrayed me... I let time to pass and waited for her to be truthful and tell me about the guy.. but instead I was humiliated, mocked and was blocked from all her accounts... I know about the guy's background, I know exactly how to take revenge, the guy has a wife (broken marraige as he claimed), I could file a case, under the law, its concubinage and both of them is guilty of it... I have the evidence etc etc.... but on the last part when I was about to do it, I realized what will be the consequence, my ex will be deported back to our country and all her dreams will be destroyed.... that is something I cant take... I even message the guy asking him to take good care of her, etc etc... all I received was mockery and more insults.. I was even humiliated to my ex family and friends... Yeah I agree, about this song, loving someone and giving all yoy have is never a guarantee you will keep that certain someone for the rest of your life... however, things happened because someone else worthy enough of your kindness, faithfulness and loyalty. eventually that certain someone will come in time in a very unexpected time.
@@jonathansasi2079 yes, this happened to me years ago, I am with someone now 1yr ldr but worked out perfectly so far... and I am even planning to tie a knot soon... yes God do prepare someone better
Totally agree with everything you said. Ang sakit sakit talaga ng kantang to, if you will analyze the lyrics and you'll put yourself into it, mararamdaman mo yung pain kahit hindi ka heartbroken. (and what more if you really got your heart broken!) In every happy relationship, in most cases, there was this ex na nagpaubaya, na kinayang maranasan ang mga sakit na'to, just to let the love of his/her life remain happy.
My interpretation for this is. God used our heartbreaks as an instrument to make us prepared for a better person. “Paubaya” is one of the step to be in that right person. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ So cheer up everyone. ✌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love is Sacrife♥
Indeed!!!
Sobrang sakit pero true
God is the one making us strong and somewhere out ther God is also building that person to be with you.
Agree :) Nung narinig ko to, may pain na nag-flashback pero di dapat panghinayangan kasi hinanda tayo ni God para sa tamang tao para sa atin.
The Deeper meaning of Paubaya for me is To Surrender Everything To God. Pinapaubaya niya ang kaniyang sarili Sa Diyos. Siya na ang bahala sa kanyang pusong Nawasak at Nasaktan. Ang Totoong Pinapaubaya nya ay ang kanyang Sarili at hindi ang kanyang Minamahal. Dahil walang relasyon na ginawa dito sa mundong ito na walang katapusan dahil tanging relasyon lamang natin sa Kanya ang panghabang buhay . 🙂
Ang galing ng reaction mo sir...
I feel eto po ang totoong meaning ng paubaya song according to moira. When she sang the song in asap, she pointed above when she sang the last line "pinapaubaya ko na sa Kanya" which is God. Kudos sir 👍
@@carmssssclanor yes po its not her na pinapaubaya na nya ang kanyang bf sa babae. its not like that. gagawa sana ako video essay about this song. heheh
@@benchsaldivar9822 thank you
Amen
Our biggest heartbreak is our biggest blessings. Cause it lead us to the person God made for us.
Totally agree..😊
I do agree..
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Truer words were never spoken 👏👏👏
"you build a man for another woman, and its okay because its better to be a builder than to be a destroyer"
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naku yan din ang nagyari sa akin dati at nakakarelate ako jan
The purest form of love, is not a selfish love, you build a man for another woman it is better to a builder than a destroyer.
ang sakeet parin even you look on d brigth side.
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Watch the IPINAUBAYA version po, ang sakit din. Reco ko lang po para damay damay na🥺✌
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love is mutual not one sided kung ayaw sayo let it go wag magpaka martyr marami ka pang makikita na better life is so short
"There will come a time wherein you're walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life, you'll realized why it did not worked out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at ipinaubaya mo yung tao na yun sa iba dahil meron pang isa na mas deserve ka." 💛
It's indeed true. It's just a hurtful way to find your true life partner.
ayy grabe naalala ko dyan ay si P'Bone sa Theory of Love ouch
yes at napakahabng proseso bago mo xa matagpuan thats why we need to preserve ourselves for that special person.
@@minawina9494 sabi nga ni kuya darbs, hindi mo siya kelangang hanapin para matagpuan. 💛 In God's perfect timing, dadating siya nang sa buhay mo (or pwedeng matagal na pala siyang nasa buhay mo, iba pa nga lang ang role niya). Yung timing na kayang kaya mo na din siyang mahalin ng buo dahil healed ka na din. 😊 At hindi mo na siya kailangang ipaubaya sa iba.
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Walang gustong pakasalan ako :-(
the song itself is already heart breaking tapos yung explanation mo and the way you digest every single word on the lyrics para mong binudburan ng asin yung sariwang sugat 😭😭😭
good job!
Ako ang nauna 😂,pero siya ang wakas
" The purest answer if you love a person is, you don't know. " that's exactly what my husband told me when I asked him since we started.
thats also my answer to my husband,..
Love without reason lasts the longest. You love not only when it's convenient for you but you love and choose to stay even when you feel and think like the love is not there anymore because real love is constant. It doesn't change. It's not gone. It's still there. Hindi namin kasi yan fairytale. Love is hard work. And that's why love is also a decision. Because no matter what happens, the person will choose to stay.
So if someone you love leaves you for someone else, it's okay. Let go. That person is not meant for you. You are not his or her choice. You are meant for someone who is afraid of losing you and will stay with you come what may. The best kind of love is the kind that will bring out the best in you.
the song simply tell us that no matters how much we love someone, at some point, maybe we were just an instrument to guide and lead them to the person they we're really meant to be with🙁🙁🙁
Ang sakit pero totoo💔💔😥😥
😐😐😐
Its reality and reality hurts so much...
😭😭😭😭
Huyyyy😭😭😭
This song represent a selfless love, loving without expecting anything in return,, .. it means we love the person so so much that we want that person to be happy even if it's not with us anymore..that's true love..
Letting go is not a weakness...
It is the most courageous act that a loving heart can do....
Kaya I cant blame someone na ayaw ng pumasok sa relationship dahil sa takot na masaktan ulit😢😢😢
I agree...🤗
True 😅
You're right. Kase binigay mo naman ang lahat pero wala pa rin talaga. Ending nagpaubaya ka.
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I agree ... 😑
Because of your analyzation and interpretation of the song, mas nabubuo na yung decision ko na magpalaya at magpaubaya. Thanks for this.
Update: I just received the biggest sign para magpaubaya na talaga. eto na talaga yun. 🙂 edit ko nalang ulit to soon.
Me too🥰
Hirap naman nyan😭😭
Good for you girl, trust me its one of the hardest decision you’ll ever make in your life but at the end it’ll be worthy, PS. 6 months na nkalipas when i made the decision of Pagpapaubaya it still sucks and hurts everyday but Im better now. To everyone you will be too. One step at a time xx
Ipapaubaya ko na rin siguro sya.. sobrang sakit na kasi.. dko na kaya 😢😢😢
Me too. God I'm crying. 😭
I needed those words.. I loved the wrong person for almost a decade and when this pandemic hit. She suddenly gone cold. Pero hindi kami naging perpekto. Pero totoong minahal ko sya. Behind all the lies, I mustered up everything and accepted it. When I learned the truth, hindi ko ma explain gaano ako nadurog nun. Tama ka sir. Kung kaya kong gawin lahat ng yun para sa maling tao. Pano pa kaya para sa taong nakalaan para sa akin. 💪
It takes a lot for a person to speak his mind but you did and with tears and I’m sure your words have become a blessing to those whose hearts have been deeply hurt and needs to mend. Real talk indeed.
Better to build and mag paubaya so that the person who hurt you would stop hurting other people. True love wins.
"It is better to be a builder than to be a destroyer".
Best reaction ever that i have watched😣😣😣💔💔💔
Trueeeee
Sameeee🤷🏻♀️
This is exactly what I'm going through right now. Kailangan kong ipaubaya sa Panginoon ang taong pinakamamahal ko. 😭😭
you know what really point my attention while watching this video, is when he says, bakiy mo ba mahal yung tao? napaisip ako bakit ko pala siya minahal? kung ang dami daming dahilan para hindi ko siya mahalin. pero eto ako lubos na nagmamahal sa kanya. pero hindi ko inakalang may hangganan din pala, kinuha na siya ng Panginoon kaya ipinapaubaya ko na siya sa Panginoon. 😭😭😭
Thank you, Real Talk Darbs for being there whenever I feel down. I feel like I have a bestfriend that telling good advices. Thank you. I don’t know what is the perfect word to describe. But THANK YOU. I’m crying while watching this video. 🥺
Its been 12 yrs. Sa loob nang mahabang panahon.. marami nang nang yari.. kami ang unang pamilya pero sa iba xa nag settle down.. masakit kung babalikan q yung nakaraan pero love is wonderful thing wala aqng galit. Naiintindihan q at tanggap q ang katutuhanan.. for 12 yrs. Napapaniginipan q pa xa. Sa panaginip na masaya ako. Na kasama xa kahit pa sa panaginip q aq laging nag aantay sa kanya aq laging nag hahanp ng way maksama lang namin xa At sa tuwing nagigising aq. Nakakaramdam aq nang lungkot. Alam q god has a planned for me and my daughter. Pero minsa gusto malaman kung ano planned ni god.. tapos sinasabi q kay lord. Na if my time will come let me be with him even if its only a dream. Na sana sa panaginip q buo kami. Na kmi naman.. god knows what inside my heart. But god has a good planned for me.. 😔
There' something about his speaking voice. So soothing. 😍
me too...i cried a lot...matagal ko na pinaubaya si ex.pero nasasaktan pa rin ako.
His diction is 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
While watching Darbs, on how much he got affected by the song, i really got curious about his life..the true him.where all the advices coming from...maxadong malalim..
Oo tama ka grabe ang hugot nacarried away xia dahil relate din cguro but everybody can relate
That "it's better to be a builder than a destroyer" hits me really really hard
You are one of those few people who have genuine way of giving reactions based on life lessons...nakakaiyak yung reaction mo pati mga payo mo sir.. tagos sa puso
Bakit ansakit 😭 its been 10 years and hey whenever i hear a song that reminds me of our memories together it still hurts, i always pray that one day will come that the Lord will show me why we didnt end up together,I always pray for you, i know that you’re happy now, I pray the same thing for me.. I pray that my heart heals.
bakit nga ba?minsan ay napaka unfair ang pag ibig,masaya na sila sa iba,pero ito tayo nagmamahal pa rin sa kanila..(me 20 yrs.na pero mahal ko pa rin sya,.)
huhu same here :( its been 10 years from now hays
While he's explaining, my eyes can't hold the water .
me too...i cried while he is talking ang explaining...matagal ko na pinalaya at pinaubaya si ex pero nasasaktan pa rin ako.
@@rainemacaraeg7312 I FEEL YOU 💔
Ify , sobrang sakit.
@@rainemacaraeg7312 kapit lng. Matatapos din yan.
How heartbreaking but we haveto look forward. GOD is our ultimate comfort n LOVE.
Having been experienced such heartbreak makes me burst into tears while listening to this song, though it's been 6 years since we split yet I can still vividly recall the pain. hoping that one day I can forget it!
You will never understand unless you personally experienced it. Hindi maiintindihan ng ibang tao ang pakiramdam na , pinalaya mo kahit sobrang mahal mo para maging masaya lang sya. Mararamdaman mo kasi yan pag hindi masaya sayo yung tao. Sobrang selfless nung lyrics. 💯 Minsan nag stay lang kasi kailangan ka pero hindi ka talaga mahal🙂.
Totoo 😔
Sobrang totoo 🙂😭
Naranasan ko yan, at hangang ngaun mahal ko pa yung taong pinalaya ko, 8yrs na ang nkakalipas at may sarili na syang pamilya, pero sya pa rin ang mahal ko kya single pa rin ako hangang ngayn
@@ramosmarkjayson9179 aww tulungan mo ang sarili mo. Kaya mo yan. Dapat ngayon mas mahal mo na ang sarili mo at nagfofocus ka na sa sarili mo. Easier to say than done, masakit man pero palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa sakit ng nakaraan. Bigyan mo ng chance ang sarili mo na magmahal ulit , buksan mo ang puso mo para makita mo yung mga nasa paligid mo. I feel mabuti ang puso mo kaya for sure meron nakalaan sayo. Basta ipag pray mo yan na dumating at sana mapansin mo sya. Ikaw at ikaw lang din ang tutulong sa sarili mo. Dadating ang tamang tao , pag alam ng Diyos na handa ka na. Girl, sa totoo lang hindi mo makakalimutan ang ex mo kahit ano ang gawin mo , nasa memorya mo na sya , di na yan mabubura dapat tanggapin mo na hindi na sya sayo. Acceptance is the key and only time can heal you🙏🙏🙏
Lalaine Lalaine mahal ko na talaga ang sarili ko. Kaya nga sarili ko na lng mamahalin ko kesa mag mahal ulit ako tpos sasaktan lng ako ulit, for me its better this way. Hindi nko magmamahal ng iba, maliban na lng kung sa Dios mang gagaling.
Yung vulnerable side kuya darbs ❤️ How genuine this episode. God bless this man
wow. this is my first time watching one of your vids. and in just a span of minutes, napa-subscribed ako. the substance and your voice. ♥️ usually, ilang vids pa papanoorin ko before ako mag-subscribe.
I really love this kind of reaction so pure, you can learn a lot and with wholehearted advice. Make more reaction like these please...
Men's have emotions too. Sometimes we build a woman just for another man. We've been 5 year's together. Last week of May "okay pa naman" first week of July "this year" she's happy with someone's arm. It hurt's but we need to let go and move on. Not necessarily kahit ako yung nauna pero di ang wakas. 💔💔
Samin po 6 years kami ng sundalo kong bf but naghiwalay kami sa day mismo ng anniversary namin (6th year) (2017) because of another woman na pinili nya over me. He got married in 2018 1 yr after our break up and until now it hurts me but I already accepted the fact that we are not destined for each other.
lupet!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😥😥😥
Because of this man, nalaman ko kung ano ang ibig sabihin ng Love...😍 thank you nabago mo pananaw ko..
This made me cry. Explained thoroughly with a heart.
Wow! This is my first time tuning to your channel. I like how you expounded the song. That is love and respect when you become real and let go. Love and respect for the person and for yourself.
Pain is
An opportunity to
Understand yourself and
Being able to
Accept that
You deserve to be
Appreciated;
Self care at its best...
❤
Ganda ng MEANING 😍😍😍😍😭
Couldn't agree more
Wow ! this is so deep
This song really hits me. I was getting married to someone i loved, i was 6 months pregnant that time, when he met someone else. They've become gf and bf. I forgave him and still accepts him, because i was also thinking of our baby. But while planning with our wedding i can feel that he no longer was happy with me. I asked him if he was still willing to marry me. And he said "NO" and i said okay I'm letting you go. I talked to the girls and asked if he really loves him and she said YES. At that time it hurts like hell. Na gusto mo nalng matapis na ang lahat na sana panaginio lang ang lahat. Pero hindi eh, kailangan mong harapin, sinabi ko nalng sa girl ayoko maging kontrabida sa love story nila, na may taong nakalaan pa rin sa akin. At sinabi ko sa kanya na mahalin si ex nang todo. At di na ako mangingialam sa kanila kahit ako ang nauna at kahit na may dahilab ako para magstay dahil buntis ako. Mahal ko siya pero d na ako ang mahal😢.
RTIA na yan maam...ung responsibilidad ng tatay ng anak mo pwde mo pa habulin..
@@johnpaulangor5123 oo nga naisip ko rin yon. Kaya lang ayoko na ng gulo. At baka sumikat ako😅. Ang importante naka-move on na. At nakakaya ko pa namn suportahan ang anak namin.
I feel you...
Get your baby's right to his father. Di pwedeng happy na sa iba ba bye na. Pano responsibilidad ba bye na rin? Ang swerte naman ni kuya. Di puro love love may responsibilidad din na tinatwagan at kinukuha.
@@annkris15 I did asked some support before pero Sabi nya he will start business with his gf. And now they are already married and have their own child. Ayoko ng gulo. Nasa sa kanya na yon kung magpapaka-ama cya sa anak namin.
Hey!!! Explaining this hurtssssss so much more. And kudos to you. U are pure ❤
This is why I like you, kuya Darbs. You give extended analysis and meaningful observations to issues that matter. Things that some of us may neglect, but your analysis made us realize yung value ng isang bagay at art behind it. Galing!
It's been 10 months since I broke up with him but the pain is still the same. I wish you always the best and happiness in your life. Yeah maybe im in pain right now but soon I know goin to be fine. I still want you but i guess i need to let go. This song really hit me cause why not,right? Every broken people can relate to this song lalo na yung mga naiwan,iniwan at nagpaubaya ng taong mahal na mahal nila.To all people suffering pain rn hope we all heal and be happy for them.Lovelots ❤️
"There will come a time where in when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love you of your life, you'll realize why it did not work out with anybody else at magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo ang tao na yun sa iba kasi mero pang isa na mas deserve ka"
_"This is a lost love you wish you would want to have but you were not able to get it."_
The best. Is just cherish all the good moment and let go there’s will always be someone for you
"there will become a time when you're walking down the aisle looking at the love of your life you'll realized y it did not worked with anybody else, magpapasalamat ka at pinaubaya mo yung tao na ‘yon sa iba, kasi meron pang isa na mas deserve ka" hanggang ngayon kahit alam kong wala na at hindi na pwede, I‘m still hoping na ikaw ‘yung huling taong makakasama ko.
"You build a man for another woman"
"It's better to be a builder than a destroyer"
thanks po! nkagaan ng pkiramdam salamat sa mga inspiring words mo real darbs ramdam ko ung sakit kpg ngmahal ka ng tunay at wagas.
Great interpretation. 👌I learned a lot and it is sagad to the bones. Thanks sir. Salute!
I love kuya darbs. He is raw, honest and he isn't scared of showing his emotions he is a breath of fresh air. Keep it up RTD! Godbless! ❤
I dont know why it's been one year but my tears fell down while watching and listening to your review.. Maybe because lahat ng pain nag flashback sa akin.. But of course it's a part of watching your video yung feel what do you really want to tell to your viewers.. I love how you explained each and every lyrics.. How you defined it.. I am already moved on naman na.. What important is the last part that you said.. Tama ka doon dumaan lang sya sa buhay ko para for sure may matutunan din ako para sa next relationship ko mas ok. And yes, if nagawa ko nga sa maling tao. Why shouldn't I sa tamang tao..God bless you
Thanks God lumabas ang kantang ito Paubaya naka recover fully recovered na ako.dumaan ako sa sobrang depressed pero mabuti na lang thank you God matapang ako or else bumigay na.i feel inlove the person pero d nya ako minahal.walang kami(ang labo noh)pero ganun,then nauwi ako ng pinas,pinagluluko lang ako,sobrang depressed ko siguro balde balde yong nailuha ko sa kanya.wala pala ako lang pinaglaruan ang feeling ko,now kaya ko na.ang definition ko sa love,dont hurt someone you loved,support the person you loved regardless of who she is,or who he is,kc kung darating man ang tym sa lantang gulay na sya,d ko sya iiwan,kc doon ako huhugot kong anong tinanim nya sa akin.wala naman talagang ganyan,kc magsisikap ka din na malampasan mo yan.
F*CK!! this analysis brought me down to tears!!!! 😭
Dont build the person. Hindi mo responsibility na buohin ang isang tao. Responsibility nya yon at kung tinulungan mo man syang buohin ang sarili nya whether hiningi mn nya o hindi, huwag mong isumbat na tinulungan mo sya. Maging masaya ka para sa kanya dahil buo na sya at handa na sya ishare yung kabuoan niya.
".. Ba't 'di ko naisip na merong hanggan..
Ako yung nauna, pero siya ang wakas.."
7th year anniversary namin nang sabihin niyang hihiwalayan niya ako. Lahat naman may HANGGANAN lalo na sa pagmamahal.
Masakit, nakakadurog ng puso, nakakabitter talaga sa umpisa, pero ' ACCEPTANCE' lang naman talaga kailngan para mawala lahat yan. Pray lang lagi para sa ikabubuti ng sarili at para sa 4 yrs old kong anak. Godbless RTD. ♥
First, i saw u on tiktok and yes! Real love is selfless. And Yes! It's better to be builder than a destroyer.
This reaction video hit me hard as well host.. Magaling how u addressed the lyrics. My first time to your channel and right now i am a fan nah.. Keep it up. God bless always. ♥️🙏🏻
I came from a 7 years relationship and my ex boyfriend had a girl for a months. That song literally hit me.
Came from a long term relationship
Same💔😢
Same 9 years with my ex who cheated on me for so many times until he broke up with me to be with that other woman. But I’m okay now and engaged to amazing guy who truly deserve me. I wish you all happiness too, soon. ❤️🙏🏻
Same here 💔😔 8yrs💔
same here.. 9 years.. 💔
"Theres a lot of people who thinks your the one for them but thats not the case for you" relate much ako sa sinabi mong to kuya darbs.
just saw this vid.. but it helps me a lot to ease all the bitterness iam having for the pain that he gave.. iam now taking the " i build the man for another woman".. thank you darbs! #selfworth #selflove
_".. you build a man for another woman."_
This is what I feared the most. Yes, the uncertainty is vigorous, we can't predict when will/if he/she has a change of heart.
_"Mahirap labanan ang tinadhana.."_
Ang panalangin ko lang ay sana tibayan ng puso ko ang mga masasakit na salitang bibitiwan niya. Dahil ayaw kong harapin ang katotohanan na di na kita mababawi pa. Na hindi ko na kayang habulin ang panahon na pwede pa, nagbabakasaling pwedeng magsimula pa.
_To that someone who holds his heart and attention, I know one day you will make a great partner in this lifetime. Just please.. wag mo syang saktan, at alagaan mo sya lubos sa mga panahong akin pa sya._
Keep in mind na if your current relationship doesn't work, there's still a person who would want to be with you, it only takes time for you to discover or find that right person for you. Pain is part of our growth, as a person/ individual . Natural lang ang masaktan sa isang relationship kase package yun eh pag may saya meron ding lungkot. Pero it's up to you if you want to enslave yourself sa past mo pero ang ending eh ikaw parin ang masasaktan. Why not let go? Why not move on?
Simple, it's because you still love that person, or it's because you can't accept the fact that you don't deserve them.
Be a better version of yourself kapatid😁 the right one will come along😊😊👌
Thank you! For making me realize that I did love him. I never thought it was selfless love, you know loving someone even if you are not the end game and wishing him the happiness he deserves. I thought it was just selfishness of me because I define my happiness to be at peace with myself and that includes him not being with me. My peace is seeing him grow to be a better person with someone because I believe everyone deserves that kind of love. Love that will make you a better person.
Happy Single day Everyone! ❤️❤️❤️ we’re okay! 🙏🏻🤗
I learn so many lesson everytime I watch your videos!!💜
Letting go is the bravest and selfless thing to do. But the problem is, that person wanted to fulfill that with someone else. Yung may mga plano kang kasama sya, pero mas gusto nyang tuparin sa piling ng iba, PAUBAYA MO NA! Put Him to the person he sees in the future, bago mo tuluyang mawala yung sarili mo. Bago mo durugin ng paulit ulit ang puso mo sa pagkulong sa pangrap na wala na syang planong mananatili pa.
Sa oras na ganito na ang situation, isipin mo nalang na GOD BREAKS OUR PLANS TO SAVE OUR HEARTS, OUR SOUL and most importantly OURSELVES. Hindi ka hahayaan ni God sa maling tao, way nya yun to tell you, WRONG WAY kana Anak. Hayaan mong PAUBAYA kita sa tamang tao sa tamang panahon🖤💚❤💋
I find that the purest of love is just selfless. That whatever makes him/her happy, even if that doesn't include you, you're still willing to give it, allow it.
I love all the words you're saying... You are so open minded person keep it up...
Relate much... crying and crying while watching ur reaction and ur words shared.
"It better to be a builder than to be a destroyer" ❤ I felt that.
Indeed, you really gave the exact words and perpsective with those lyrics Kuya Darbs. Solid. 👊
- agree ✅
ramdam ko to. napaka-genuine na reaction video. diko mapigil ang luha ko. 🥺😔
masakit, mahirap oo.
pero sa pagpaPAUBAYA mo, isang way un para mapunta ka sa tamang tao para sayo.
"At magpapasalamat ka na ipinaubaya mo yung tao nanyun sa iba, kasi meron pang isa na mas deserve ka." 💯🙏
Started in LDR
Fell INLOVE
Made Plans
Made time
Never met
2 months left before we meet and she said le'ts stop this.
No formal goodbyes just unfinished talks
asked for a chance and the answer is NO
maybe i'll just need to be happy even im not the reason why.
i just hope everything will be fine i hope for her endless happiness
nothing be angry about but still im making my promise till i'll be back
even she's not waiting for me anymore. i hope you are happier than before
:)
💔
Awww😥💔💔
Its really hard experiencing LDR seriously!! 😭
Hay naku
I thought I was okay dahil naka get over na ako sa song yesterday. But, with you Kuya darbs, I was able to feel the pain from yesterday. One year ko na sya pinaubaya tho we have that memories for the last 4 years but the pain was really fresh at nuot na nuot pa ang sakit. Thank you for those encouragements. I hope sa pagpapaubaya ko, makikita ko ang nakatadhana sa akin. A solid fan of you, Kuya. Godbless 😭
Yes I always think before what did I do wrong, Why I'm still not enough? I felt that I am unworthy person that time, but I love him so much so I let him go.
true. Love isn't bound by reasons. It is still loving a person without any reasons. Though at some point it will break ourselves into million pieces. hugs.
So timely to binge-watch your vids.
WHEN YOU LOVE HERE ON EARTH.. DISSAPOINTMENT COMES...
ACCEPT.. GRIEVE... AND LOVE AGAIN.❤️
Heartfelt interpretation of the song ❤
I'm happy na nakita ko tong channel na ito...
This is some wholesome content, Thank you Sir, God bless
I couldn't stop myself watching this video over and over again. 😭💔.. Im not brokenhearted but i can feel the pain in every lyrics in every reaction.
"It's better to be a builder than a destroyer "😌💗💗💗
“you build a man for another woman” “pinaubaya”
sobrang sakit, nakapag move on na kami ng anak ko pero once na maririnig ko ‘tong lines natu. bigla nalang ako masasaktan, nasasaktan ako para sa anak ko na yung papa niya kinasal na sa iba.
Grabe no? Ako nga 14 yrs nag stay 10 yrs old daughter. Nag sama kami walang wala kasi bata pa nung nag asawa 20 tapos nung umangat na hindi pala ikaw....
I so can relate to this song /lyrics. Though the wounds have already healed and I have already moved on, but listening to this music again, brouht me a lot of tears.
nakita ko lang .. and i think your reactions at mga sinabi mo make me cry dude. i literaly watch this 20x yata and for that? im giving this reaction a BIG LIKE. and click that subscribe button. i love this reaction and i think this is the best reaction of all. thanks dude
"Pinaubaya mo man siya, meron naman isa na mas deserve ka!"
The perfect answer for the question, "Why do you love me?" is that you don't know, you just loved them.
Love ko talaga tong si Real Talk Darbs.
I felt the song 100%
Cause it happened to me.
Letting go the person you love for somebody else he love.
Ang hirap, ang sakit! Pero d talaga pwd ipilit ang sarili at love. For the sake of what we called dignity. Acceptance sa ngyari is the best. Alamin ang gusto malaman. Kailan? Paano? Sino? Saan? Etc. kahit masakit malaman ang katotohanAn. Coz yan ang paraan na mkamove-on at di magsisi sa desisyonng ipaubaya na xa. Saktan ang sarili til sabihin na it’s enough! Walang paghahabol o ipilit pa na mangyayari. Instead of cursing him for what happened. Smile,laugh while crying. Bring back the memories ang leave a good message for him and his new love. No regrets talaga.
Virtual Hugs sir Darbs 😭💔
Im out of words to say about this kasi when this song plays lahat ng mga kaibigan ko naalala nila ako kasi totoo ito yung nangyari sa akin . It really hurts po sobra💔
This hits me so hard 😭 You just popped up on my TH-cam feed but the way you analyzed and reacted this video. Omg ang sakit😭.
Galing mo talaga.. God bless always. You enlighten me so much.
Gosh, this man’s wisdom. ♥️🙌🏻🙏🏻
“And sometimes, you build a man for another woman.” The accuracy is 🥺😭🥺😭
Likewise.
Totoo yan😭
Prng gs2 q umiyak ng nrinig q to
Ung pngplit k tpoz abhin ms mhal k kysa s bgo
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And he build me... and me? 😭😭💔
"It's better to be a builder than to be a destroyer" ... _kuya darbs.. Salute to you 🤗😊
Yes Kuya darbs. Masakit cya taggapin but better ikaw yon builder.
i love the way you analyze and react every lyrics
U make me realize about what love is..before i always like that..i give my all but in the end i ended with nothing, no respect and no love at all..even i know that they are with me not becoz they love me just bcoz they need me..true! We build in to someone that will ended up to other person..we cant fill the space that someone need..but we will realize in the end is MAGPAUBAYA...MAGPAPAUBAYA na make them happy in the end..u are the one is sad..masakit oo sobrang masakit pro pra sa kaligayahan nya gagawin natin ang lhat pra lng masatisfied mo sarili mo na u make something or someone happy..thats what love is...thank you for this video...its a realization of love, respect and self love...
I wish him well everyday, and may he find the happiness that he no longer felt with me. Mahirap but i'm trying and praying to be ok someday 😭. we may struggling today but life must go on.
Don't worry there will come a time that you will meet a person who will truly love for who you are and wants to stay with you forever. Keep on praying before you know it its just in front of you and haven'tseen it because you are still thinking of him. Good luck!
I agree sa sinabi mo pre..
yes, it should be "Love someone without any reason at all"... kasi any reasons, whatever it is, will fade through time.
I had this experience actually, long term relationship, I poured everything to keep us intact, I even sacrificed my career just to keep her with me... but after she left the country, just few months after, someone came in, and ruined everything.. I was shocked and cant believe she would betrayed me... I let time to pass and waited for her to be truthful and tell me about the guy.. but instead I was humiliated, mocked and was blocked from all her accounts... I know about the guy's background, I know exactly how to take revenge, the guy has a wife (broken marraige as he claimed), I could file a case, under the law, its concubinage and both of them is guilty of it... I have the evidence etc etc.... but on the last part when I was about to do it, I realized what will be the consequence, my ex will be deported back to our country and all her dreams will be destroyed.... that is something I cant take...
I even message the guy asking him to take good care of her, etc etc... all I received was mockery and more insults.. I was even humiliated to my ex family and friends...
Yeah I agree, about this song, loving someone and giving all yoy have is never a guarantee you will keep that certain someone for the rest of your life... however, things happened because someone else worthy enough of your kindness, faithfulness and loyalty. eventually that certain someone will come in time in a very unexpected time.
GOD prepared Someone better for You Pre
@@jonathansasi2079 yes, this happened to me years ago, I am with someone now 1yr ldr but worked out perfectly so far... and I am even planning to tie a knot soon... yes God do prepare someone better
Magandang balita yan pre! GOD Bless to both of you
@@jonathansasi2079 thanks pre.. :)
..Time will heal the wounds and God will give someone that deserve your love ..GBU!!!
Totally agree with everything you said. Ang sakit sakit talaga ng kantang to, if you will analyze the lyrics and you'll put yourself into it, mararamdaman mo yung pain kahit hindi ka heartbroken. (and what more if you really got your heart broken!) In every happy relationship, in most cases, there was this ex na nagpaubaya, na kinayang maranasan ang mga sakit na'to, just to let the love of his/her life remain happy.
Very well explained sir. Sobrang natouch ako sa message mo. Hope to see you soon sir.