This is life on $7.50 an hour

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 พ.ค. 2024
  • Safiyyah Cotton makes $7.50 an hour working at McDonald's. So how does she stretch her budget? With a lot of help from the government. Here's a look inside the life and budget of a low-wage worker.

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  • @levelupwitharie
    @levelupwitharie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7102

    Lord forgive me for ever saying there's nothing to eat in the house when there was a refrigerator full of stuff. I pray this young lady is in a better situation now.

    • @larandle
      @larandle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +219

      I'm trying to tell you. It's humbling as hell

    • @janetyamashige9573
      @janetyamashige9573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@larandle Yes!

    • @MrThinkEncourager
      @MrThinkEncourager 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Snappingturtle 267 You may have a point, but I don't think she knew the dad would get incarcerated. Looking at the price of public schools per student, I don't think anyone would be able to afford a child, lol. Some poor or middle class might could, but after the second and third child, one would be close to being broke from the cost I'm seeing.

    • @levelupwitharie
      @levelupwitharie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Dee M Preach!!

    • @tompain2751
      @tompain2751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She gets food stamps,and other assistance!

  • @lalelulallo
    @lalelulallo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7593

    The real sad part is even if she gets a slightly better job, she will lose all those benefits and be in the same hole again.

    • @lorizline3457
      @lorizline3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +562

      EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!! IT IS A VICIOUS CYCLE!!!!!! ... Stop this world, I wanna get off!!! 😩🙈

    • @dimplez2u228
      @dimplez2u228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +393

      Omg I felt that ! That’s what happen to me , seems like when I got better job more bills and food stamps cut off !

    • @johndavis8457
      @johndavis8457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Bingo 100 right

    • @keyannalee2432
      @keyannalee2432 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      lalelulalo yes

    • @darlenegallegos8908
      @darlenegallegos8908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Right ! I agree with you. Never ends. This is why education is so important. For all our children !

  • @christophm860
    @christophm860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3111

    Personally, I think we should pay our politicians $7.50 an hour and see how quickly they pass a federally mandated wage increase to a living wage.

    • @CRYPTOETV
      @CRYPTOETV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sick politicians don't give money printed FIRCFREE and at will to poor people so they can maintain and increase class difference and keep slaves they can control and exploit at will always..evil GOV

    • @GreenGretel
      @GreenGretel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      That doesn't work. State-level politicians receive relatively low pay (not minimum wage level of course), but all that has lead to is their ranks being filled with rich businessman who can afford to do legislating as a sort of hobby and often fundraise their own campaigns (and make laws that suit the interests of themselves at the expense of the rest of us). You need publicly financed elections and a fundamental overhaul of the lobbying/legalized bribery that dominates the political process to get real change. Constitutional amendment-level overhaul because the corporatist Supreme Court justices were literally appointed _because_ of their willingness to enable/legitimize the bribery, so they'll gut most federal laws meant to change things.

    • @arthurfisher7198
      @arthurfisher7198 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Saddest part about it all is politicians decide their own salaries and also decide when they “deserve” a pay raise

    • @HazyEmpathy
      @HazyEmpathy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Most of the politicians with offices are given a budget higher than the average American salary, SOLEY for furniture. And they get it every year.

    • @PirateCat822
      @PirateCat822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not much will happen as they usually get money from big companies

  • @ruzzelladrian907
    @ruzzelladrian907 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    An advice to everyone in poverty’s, don’t get pregnant or get someone pregnant.

    • @RONEFFECT
      @RONEFFECT ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Preach!

    • @beetlejuice424
      @beetlejuice424 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Who the f*ck penetrated that bitch? That’s my question 🤮

    • @robertmasina7388
      @robertmasina7388 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think this nation doesn't do enough for prevention of unwanted pregnancies with its youth, something European countries do right.

  • @skinnywizard103
    @skinnywizard103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7840

    This is not living, this is existing & it is extremely depressing to watch.

    • @4agony777
      @4agony777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      Yeah fr. If I ever end up like this I’m spending my paycheck on a gun

    • @mistaandason6159
      @mistaandason6159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      To be honest where i live minimum wageis about $3.50 an hour thats $1.75 US.Still people are living comfortable with just that.and mofo around here has 3-5 kids on that salary .

    • @whoisylo
      @whoisylo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      whats the difference

    • @davidwest8375
      @davidwest8375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Go to school or fine a job that pays 15 or 20 and leave small business alone

    • @sophyli3101
      @sophyli3101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @@mistaandason6159 you should consider the living cost.The u.s is expensive .

  • @Ionwonk
    @Ionwonk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6623

    "I’ll rather struggle for him, than him struggle for me." - The love of a mother

    • @dynamichunter843
      @dynamichunter843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      I mean that’s pretty obvious, she’s the one who chose to have him it’s not his responsibility to help his mother, it’s hers.

    • @lilmaster3273
      @lilmaster3273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@dynamichunter843 I agree with u

    • @charlest2858
      @charlest2858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dynamichunter843 Lol

    • @RK-ep8qy
      @RK-ep8qy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Not just the love of a mother, the love of a GOOD mother
      There's mums that berate their kids and abuse them for being a 'burden' then force them to get a job very very young

    • @tlockerk
      @tlockerk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This can be good or bad, depending on the kid; some will work hard, graduate, get a trade or college to take care of Mom. Others will start making money earlier in illegal ways. it's a damn hard way to live, and she's past worry, and feels she has no ability to change her circumstances. She should qualify for WIC, wonder if she applied?

  • @KittyCelestialx
    @KittyCelestialx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I make $16 an hour and that still isn’t enough, and what sucks the most out of it is that the government claims that I make too much to receive assistance such as housing or WIC/Stamps. I have a two year old daughter and in a month we’ll be bound to be homeless due to the whole renting progress being broken as well. I cannot get into a place without somebody telling me that I need a co-applicant, but I don’t have anybody. I don’t care if I have to live in a studio apartment, I just want the best life for my daughter that’s not in a shelter.

    • @brianjones7660
      @brianjones7660 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      a two year old daughter....and your husband does what?
      Oh, I see.....

    • @TinkOutLoud
      @TinkOutLoud หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brianjones7660 Your comment helps her how? Oh, I see.

  • @jermainelatimer804
    @jermainelatimer804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +693

    I'm friends with her on Facebook and she's doing better now.

    • @therealist2000
      @therealist2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      thats very good to hear!

    • @carterburton
      @carterburton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      nice

    • @AdamAdamHDL
      @AdamAdamHDL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thank you for the update

    • @jermainelatimer804
      @jermainelatimer804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@AdamAdamHDL she's alot better than she was during that interview

    • @reesecreatesllc
      @reesecreatesllc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank God 🙏🏾 God continue to bless her & her family !!

  • @abbymora1569
    @abbymora1569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3165

    I hope the broadcasting network gave her some money. I think it would be rude if they just made this story then left her in the same situation

    • @doriildn2170
      @doriildn2170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      abby mora. Exactly

    • @iamcringe.4343
      @iamcringe.4343 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      TrUe because no one wants to be a camera for no reason

    • @princesse0920
      @princesse0920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      abby mora
      Same. I really hope they paid her.

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      No, they didn't. She stated she wanted to show struggle. I'm glad she did it, though. She's better. Check her update on her page.

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Pro Everything Look her up on Facebook.

  • @86bmiller
    @86bmiller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3612

    I wish more people understood that in life you are only a paycheck away from becoming homeless.

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      Not if you plan accordingly, live BELOW your means and invest in something that will create PASSIVE INCOME. I am ALWAYS saving because you never know when you will need it for a rainy day (e.g. car breaks down, medical bills, etc).

    • @ikrame8442
      @ikrame8442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      If you suck at money management and if u have bad luck yea

    • @sammlotshwa2140
      @sammlotshwa2140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

      Yea because some people don't make enough to actually save any of it

    • @armeniajones7873
      @armeniajones7873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      He said I will never leave you or forsake you

    • @mossyteef
      @mossyteef 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      American Creole some people genuinely cannot afford to save any of their money, and have to use their entire paycheck each time they receive it

  • @andrewheffel3565
    @andrewheffel3565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Tough to watch. She works and collects multiple government benefits to barely get by. She seems very responsible. So sad. I spent my 20's in poverty, it was hard. I found a career path in my 30's, and when I had kids at 40 I pushed them hard to take school serious and I put them both through college. They have good careers and didn't have to go thru what I did. I hope her son does well, but the odds are not in his favor.

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      responsible? getting pregnant and the father leaving? she didnt even grad highschool bro. dont feel sad for a bum like this lmfaoo. i wonder why theres no father

    • @Vertekmaster
      @Vertekmaster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@wavylol1 government and CEOs did a good job brainwashing the public to hate anyone that doesn't follow their path to work for their own corporate interests.
      Anyone who doesn't make the same decisions: "lmaooooo screw this bum she should've just followed the latter like everyone else"

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Vertekmaster you mean a girl who did absolutely nothing in life except get pregnant and cry ab working at mcdonalds? youre a 100% Radical left sheep. Lmao.

    • @wavylol1
      @wavylol1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Vertekmaster Brb in a few years when shes covered in tats and selling crack. lmao

    • @Vertekmaster
      @Vertekmaster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@wavylol1 of course the "anyone who disagrees with me is radical leftist sheep" retort anytime someone disagrees with poor living conditions.
      Just how far are you down the "pick yourself up by the bootstraps" rabbit hole?

  • @latisha334
    @latisha334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    She gets almost twice as much money from the government aid than work. Wow.

    • @JC-fd8ho
      @JC-fd8ho 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mariah Lee why?

    • @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751
      @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Mariah Lee you literally cannot save up or get a better job it's not that simple stop being ignorant and close- minded.

    • @latisha334
      @latisha334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 why can’t she get a better job? McDonald’s is literally bottom tier.

    • @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751
      @nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@latisha334 instead of asking people to get better jobs ask the government to raise minimum wage I worked at macdonalds as a 16 year old in England and I got 15 dollars an hour because the minimum wage is higher. Stop shifting the blame onto employees someone has to have these jobs. No job is "bottom tier" She is a essential worker who feeds the community.

    • @Ms9mmBeretta
      @Ms9mmBeretta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nsjhdhdhdbhsudgvdydb7751 the part where you said "no job is bottom tier." THANK YOU FOR SAYING THAT, AND I COULDN'T AGREE MORE. That's people's problem right there. They're brainwashed to think that way, when EVERY job is important. Her condescendingly looking down on this woman for the job she works says more about her than anything else. Smh

  • @hayleykitty401
    @hayleykitty401 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6004

    that's why I don't want kids until I make good money

    • @cris_here
      @cris_here 6 ปีที่แล้ว +475

      you make it sound like she planned this.

    • @diegolopez3434
      @diegolopez3434 6 ปีที่แล้ว +677

      Christin K that's the fucking problem, she didn't and that's what's wrong... telling your boyfriend to put a condom on is way better than 200K through out 18 years shiiii

    • @KrustyKlown
      @KrustyKlown 6 ปีที่แล้ว +241

      Christin K: surely some of these women, do plan for this .. "suicide of ambition" .. the ultimate excuse for not finishing high school, or going to college, or getting a better job .. "I had a kid .. oh well, it happened ..." .. LOL, well ... birth control, abstinence, sex without intercourse, and abortion ..can all "happen" before the 3rd trimester of pregnancy .. there is no justifiable excuse for being such a poor provider for a child. Women & Men can do MUCH better, and by doing so, uplift our entire country.

    • @NUCLEARARMAMENT
      @NUCLEARARMAMENT 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      This is why I'm fucking traps, no need to worry about kids.

    • @92web34
      @92web34 6 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Hayley Kitty kid are expensive I wouldn't want kid

  • @edra2005
    @edra2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4335

    I'd rather my taxes go towards helping people like her than selfish and entitled politicians and millionaires

    • @lauraenright3667
      @lauraenright3667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      I thought taxes went towards schools, public roads, healthcare etc..

    • @edra2005
      @edra2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +268

      @@lauraenright3667 they also go towards politicians and 'government subsidies' aka Elin Musks Space Force

    • @edra2005
      @edra2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

      @@lauraenright3667 don't forget Trump's weekly Golf Trips

    • @lauraenright3667
      @lauraenright3667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      @@edra2005 oh you live in America. Now it all makes sense

    • @iwillnotcomply5475
      @iwillnotcomply5475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Don't vote Democrat. The billionaires support Democrats. Why do the plebs vote against their own interests?!

  • @maryelvis3172
    @maryelvis3172 ปีที่แล้ว +180

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    • @dralfred2400
      @dralfred2400 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @nyreggie
      @nyreggie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.

    • @maryelvis3172
      @maryelvis3172 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @nyreggie
      @nyreggie ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @zombie15ish
      @zombie15ish ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @caitlynwright8526
    @caitlynwright8526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    It breaks my heart that the childcare benefit is more than what she makes a year. At that point she's just missing time with her son :( this is so sad

    • @orlandocarrillo7132
      @orlandocarrillo7132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But she's only 22. There are people who at 22 still make 0 dollars per month because they are studying. He should set apart some time to learn new skills, preferably online. Many times its free, only time and dedication is needed.

    • @myrddinemrys5599
      @myrddinemrys5599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's true for a lot of families. Plenty of stay at home moms until kindergarten because they won't earn enough working to pay for the child care. That's with a second income of course. Single parents or anyone on assistance of course has to follow the rules set by politicians who are convinced everyone is out to game the system. They need her to "prove" she earned the assistance by working, never mind that it makes zero financial sense. She doesn't work she won't qualify for any of the programs, so she works, costing the government more money.

    • @No29999
      @No29999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@orlandocarrillo7132 a real American there. You’re a joke. Have some heart before saying such bs. Egocentric piece of crap.

    • @orlandocarrillo7132
      @orlandocarrillo7132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@No29999 ok, then sorry for saying that. Then she should rather cry and do nothing and accept there is nothing she can do to stop being poor.

    • @No29999
      @No29999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@orlandocarrillo7132 OR fight the state??! Fight for a better life! There are too many sheep, y’all so dumb. Really. You have all the prove in front of you, and y’all can see how USA has shifted to the worse since WW2, yet idiots like you keep blaming the people in the bottom half of society for doing too little. Really?. You’re a joke, but so are many parts of the world. 🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑

  • @melo.472
    @melo.472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6799

    she went from McDonald’s worker to law student now that’s one hell of a comeback story respectable

    • @kevinfowlks7351
      @kevinfowlks7351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      Hell yea 🔥🔥

    • @Pcarnevaaa
      @Pcarnevaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +640

      And now she has 300k law school debt. Much better.

    • @24sirosaydeacker57
      @24sirosaydeacker57 2 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      @@Pcarnevaaa she can probably pay it back

    • @Pcarnevaaa
      @Pcarnevaaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +511

      @@24sirosaydeacker57 HAHAHAHA a law student in 2021 paying back 300k debt? not likely. Unless you graduated a top 3 and working 85 hours a week at a large firm.

    • @itsmause8715
      @itsmause8715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +831

      @UCCNAbAN6f7pLcIuOQ9a6wqg stop being fucking negative you sad fuck

  • @raapo4530
    @raapo4530 7 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    "Whenever you feel like criticizing any one...just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had."
    F. Scott Fitzgerald

    • @rebeccadawson5636
      @rebeccadawson5636 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's an amazing quote

    • @raapo4530
      @raapo4530 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its from the great gatsby... i try and remind myself it whenever i see people struggling

    • @thatperson420blyat
      @thatperson420blyat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +True Music why did the bitch get pregnant in the first place. Typical

    • @komalkaur2620
      @komalkaur2620 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Danny Reyes things happens, MISTAKES happened. Why should one mistake make her life that miserable?

    • @wrany72
      @wrany72 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't know what I think about situations like this. At first you want to criticize and say "don't do this" "don't do that". I have been lucky, but I came from very little. I was also fairly smart, but I worked hard in school and got a doctorate. I'm not sure why some people fail to see the importance of school and others are lifted out by gifts, luck, or opportunity. It's unfornately the reality we live in. If we make it easier to be lazy then more people will be lazy. If we make it harder than we are failing as a society.

  • @jikal9032
    @jikal9032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Boomers be like: "Well, just don't buy shoes or use the heat lol"

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You forgot the quintessential proverb of theirs saying that people are not forced to work in these sorts of conditions in the first place if they're being paid such 💀💀

    • @bm-rf4bc
      @bm-rf4bc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please, compare the two generations in depth. You might uncover the secret to not being worthless.

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bm-rf4bc >young America foundation subscriber
      there is nothing more than could be said here lmfao

    • @bm-rf4bc
      @bm-rf4bc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@khaz8460 the depth of your intellect is unmatched. lol yourself to the food shelf.

    • @khaz8460
      @khaz8460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bm-rf4bc tHe dEptH of YouR iNtellEct is unmatched
      Will do good sir, will do. If that is what it will take to appease to the all too "righteous" conservative ego sphere :))

  • @AR_119
    @AR_119 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm 27, making $75k a year (soon to be 90k) own a home in a good neighborhood, no car payment, no kids, and have a 401k yet still feel like everyone else is making more and has more. I can only imagine how these people feel. Puts things in perspective.

    • @Quit3Cut3
      @Quit3Cut3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I make 47 a year and struggle to get by. My husband does much better than I do, but we still struggle to get by and try to save for a house. It’s really a struggle these days.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Quit3Cut3 It is. The problem is the cost of living. A house in Ga is 365k! That's twice what it was in 2020. This is just sad and frustrating. It's almost impossible for anyone to afford homeownership.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The woman in the video is a licensed CNA, raised 10k in her GoFundMe, and spends time with her son. She's doing well!

    • @alessandrasouza3979
      @alessandrasouza3979 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think this isn’t the best video to flex anything you have tbh

    • @DominantBtch
      @DominantBtch 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@alessandrasouza3979how is it flexing, you sound dumb

  • @gowwf6046
    @gowwf6046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4301

    She is clearly very sad , I pray everything gets better for her

    • @AmberAmbwee
      @AmberAmbwee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Cutie Fruity You can see it in her eyes immediately. :(

    • @oopsiepoopsie2898
      @oopsiepoopsie2898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      That’s not gonna do anything

    • @gowwf6046
      @gowwf6046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Oopsie Poopsie boi stfu

    • @oopsiepoopsie2898
      @oopsiepoopsie2898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Cutie Fruity why it literally won’t do anything there are things you could do. You don’t even have to give her money, a better job, better skills, better education, things for her child, a husband or wife.

    • @joeblack2113
      @joeblack2113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Life is what you make it,
      This is not a 3rd world, she lives in the greatest country in the world.
      She is a flat out loser, and mostly likely her child will be part of the cycle

  • @abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz102
    @abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwyxz102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3324

    It's sad how kids earn millions by flailing their hands on tiktok but people who actually work, like her, don't get a lot.

    • @SamanthaMac912
      @SamanthaMac912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      This is the world we live in 😔

    • @SurrealisticSlumbers
      @SurrealisticSlumbers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

      When I have a child, I will inform them that being a social media star or an influencer is not a real job. If they like the camera, I will arrange for acting lessons so they can become a legitimate actor, or work in broadcast journalism or something along those lines. The day is coming when these platforms will be demonetized (Tik Tok, TH-cam, whatever else is out there) and brands will come to realize that partnering with these "influencers" is hurting their bottom line (well, that and the fact that their products are of cheap quality, vastly overpriced and produced via child slave labor in places like Guatemala). The day of reckoning is upon us. Workers unite!

    • @oliviadinges3255
      @oliviadinges3255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I know its bull and most already rich from there parents

    • @staticfuture251
      @staticfuture251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Lynx Lefay it is a real job though. I’ve got plenty of sponsorships and opportunities because of it. Yeah it sucks because it’s basic shit but in reality that’s just how the world is moving on now. Social media is key, the shit you mentioned is dead af. People do vlogs, and make their own skits and all sorts of shit now. Acting lesson is whatever, the thing about now a days you don’t need to act no more

    • @SurrealisticSlumbers
      @SurrealisticSlumbers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@staticfuture251 Interesting; your channel has no videos.

  • @meeks1201
    @meeks1201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I know she is so tired, the look in her eyes 😢 Privileged folks judge and say things like ‘work harder’ when they have no idea what it’s like to struggle. My heart hurts for her, she’s a great mama doin it all on her own

    • @SquirrelHill
      @SquirrelHill ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just because someone decides not to have a baby out of wedlock doesn't mean they are "privileged." A more accurate word would be "responsible."

    • @IIIII...
      @IIIII... 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@SquirrelHill ​ SquirrelHill
      Even if she was married her situation would still be the same because her son's father is most likely broke.

    • @DanielaBodoh
      @DanielaBodoh 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly, I hate when boomers say crap like "you're not making enough money because you're lazy and don't work hard!!!!!" when people like this woman bust their tails off working at retail stores or fast food places (I've worked retail before and it is NOT easy and you are on your feet all day, so don't even start with the laziness thing) and they still don't make enough money to survive. It's not that people aren't working hard, it's that companies aren't paying people living wages.

  • @mrrayonsplayz350
    @mrrayonsplayz350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    i can't lie i feel really bad for her i hope she gets a better life :(

    • @sombitmukhuti2660
      @sombitmukhuti2660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why would you lie about that

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She raised 10k in her GoFundMe, licensed CNA, and spends family time.

  • @terracottabrown4178
    @terracottabrown4178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1563

    She looks sad, depressed, stressed, mentally and physically exhausted but she needs to survive for her son..

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Update: she raised in her Gofundme 10k and is licensed in CNA and working to make a better life for herself.

    • @jammysandwich4079
      @jammysandwich4079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@shimmer4771 where’s the update story

    • @christopherkeller6367
      @christopherkeller6367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She should have thought it through before having a kid with some low life dude.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@christopherkeller6367 How about we show compassion and kindness? She's a person and deserves empathy. 🙂

    • @ughwhatever6380
      @ughwhatever6380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@christopherkeller6367 stfu white boy

  • @kimberlyruiz8643
    @kimberlyruiz8643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3686

    Don't make fun of other people's struggles because God will humble you so quick.

    • @Abjecthda
      @Abjecthda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Facts! Some of the comments on here smh they don't understand the struggle.

    • @michaelcager6449
      @michaelcager6449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@Abjecthda The struggle is real but not impossible to overcome. There are many factors that can make the struggle harder then what it is. One is by having kids out of wedlock at a young age. Two is by engaging in criminal activity resulting in a built up criminal record. The 1964 War On Poverty Bill passed by President Lyndon B. Johnson give poor Americans huge opportunities to rise up the economical latter.

    • @lana_6336
      @lana_6336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @kimberlyruiz8643
      @kimberlyruiz8643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @Shinobu Kawajiri You must havr never struggled in your life. Godbless your ignorance.

    • @kimberlyruiz8643
      @kimberlyruiz8643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @Shinobu Kawajiri you're fucking weird lmao

  • @sophieseverson8465
    @sophieseverson8465 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    People need to stop having kids when they are not in a position to take care of them financially. Having a child is a major life decision. But too many people don't plan responsibly for one (let alone multiple kids). It's truly mind-boggling.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Her son is already here. What should she do now?

    • @goldfishcrackers9419
      @goldfishcrackers9419 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her situation of how her son got there might not have been that simple. Considering that she's alone should say enough. Don't judge a situation you don't understand.

    • @robertmasina7388
      @robertmasina7388 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      European countries do a good job of teaching unwanted pregnancies with its youth, why can't the US do the same thing?

  • @jennaguig
    @jennaguig 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Sophia,
    I hope you're doing well. I hope you and your son are living the life you both deserve. You're a great, hardworking mom, and I have tons of respect for you ❤️

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She's doing better now. She is licensed as a CNA, spends time with her son, and doing well.

    • @SRP3333
      @SRP3333 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shimmer4771that is such good news I remember watching this video a couple years back and I randomly thought of it and her and had to come back to rewatch and check comments and see if there’s was an update. So happy to hear that, thank you for sharing!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SRP3333 She raised 10k in her GoFundMe.

  • @29xs19
    @29xs19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +594

    Dear lord, please watch over this mother and son. In the name of Christ please help this mother and son though life. Please, please give this mother and son what they need to survive.

    • @Clavin_
      @Clavin_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You are a wonderful person

    • @29xs19
      @29xs19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you sir.

    • @jacobdsouza5581
      @jacobdsouza5581 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I wish you could like comments more than once.

    • @danielbaxa8118
      @danielbaxa8118 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes please lord

    • @29xs19
      @29xs19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you kind people

  • @grubhubguy9629
    @grubhubguy9629 7 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    This woman chooses to get pregnant with a dead beat whose in jail, and is complaining about her living situation? Sorry, you made your bed, now you gotta sleep it. And before you attack me, saying I'm a privileged white man... Listen to this.
    Grew up dirt poor. Had no one but my parents. Both my parents worked retail jobs at the mall. They always told me to study hard and stay in school, to stay away from drugs and make friends with the right people. I listened to EVERYTHING they told, and I'm glad I did.
    When I got old enough, I started working to help my parents out with bills. We couldn't afford a car, so we took the bus everywhere. I used to stay up until 3a.m doing homework and sleep about 4 hours. High school was hell for me, but I was the first in my family to graduate.
    Couldn't afford university, so I went to my local community college. Fell in love with Biology and decided to pursue a career as a Registered Nurse. Took me 5 - almost 6 years to complete my Associates Degree because I had to work 2 jobs just to support myself and my parents. Now, after 26 years of busting my ass, it's all paid off.
    Currently a Registered Nurse, making close to 70k a year. Saving money to attend university and complete my BS to further my career. Nothing was handed to me. I worked my ass off for everything.
    It pisses me off when people like this woman here, who makes all these shitty choices, then expect other hard working people to help them out because they're too damn lazy to get an education. I grew up with nothing. Now look at me. I started from the bottom. You make the bed you sleep in. Listen to parents. Stay in school. Don't have kids until you have a career. And don't expect people to hand you anything.

    • @spookyshark29
      @spookyshark29 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm 20 an I'm self employed

    • @spookyshark29
      @spookyshark29 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      College Dropout

    • @wanyasmith2443
      @wanyasmith2443 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Napoleon that's what I'm saying a little, why are you putting your life on the internet like people care about your mistakes on life, LOSER!!!!

    • @datboidego
      @datboidego 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      good for you son. this makes you immortal and it also let's you have superpowers.

    • @IBZI7
      @IBZI7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Careful with trying to motivate people on TH-cam , they will send you death threats. I liked your story though.

  • @metv4254
    @metv4254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was in her position and I was homeless many times. In the end...I moved back in with my parents and went to the career center and got a good job. I never stopped striving for a better career.

  • @lifematch
    @lifematch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My parents both worked minimum wage job so that my siblings and I can have a better life. Now we are all pretty successful in our career thanks to my parents. It was very difficult for my parents to raise us, so i cannot image what she is going through as a single mother.

  • @RobWillx
    @RobWillx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3719

    She sounds so defeated. Nobody should have to live like that. 😓

    • @andreagreen1133
      @andreagreen1133 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Robyn Williams this struck me as well i pray her life gets better she looks so young (to me) and she’s lost her smile and her spirit is broken

    • @ryman1933
      @ryman1933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      No one did this to her except her. She made bad choices and now others have to pay for her bad choices.

    • @tehagan37
      @tehagan37 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Robyn Williams. She has no hope left. She probably has a family she can't depend on. Some people are blessed to have a strong support system.

    • @ryman1933
      @ryman1933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      damien neimad Pretty good advice.

    • @septembersapphire347
      @septembersapphire347 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Sadly millions of people live like this.

  • @dhouston1451
    @dhouston1451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1989

    Having a college degree doesn’t guarantee you’re going to make more than minimum wage. Don’t believe the hype.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

      That is why you don't get useless degrees like sociology or any other liberal arts degree. Go for a STEM program.

    • @dhouston1451
      @dhouston1451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Miguel Bermudez , or Business Administration and Economics apparently.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@dhouston1451 unless u get an MBA and go work as a restaurant manager to become an area supervisor or something like, they are useless.

    • @dhouston1451
      @dhouston1451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Miguel Bermudez , true. I wish I knew that beforehand. I have a son now along with tons of student debt. I can’t afford to get an MBA at this point. I’ve came to terms it was all a big waste of time and so I will not push my son to put in the waste of time as I did. Anymore it’s all about who you know. College doesn’t matter.

    • @miguelbermudez5426
      @miguelbermudez5426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@dhouston1451 yeah i regret studying political science and getting $30K in debt.

  • @andrewdean4359
    @andrewdean4359 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Startıng early is the best way of gettıng ahead
    to build wealth, investıng remaıns a priorıity.
    The stock market has plenty of opportunities
    to earn

    • @russellwilliamson2147
      @russellwilliamson2147 ปีที่แล้ว

      you're right, the importance of multıple
      stream of income, unfortunately having
      a job doesn't mean financial ,freedom or
      Security

    • @martinadangana8954
      @martinadangana8954 ปีที่แล้ว

      speakıng of been successtul. I know l
      am blessed if not I wouldn't have met
      someone who is as spectacular as Mrs Stacy Griffin Kartn I wouldn't have met
      someone who is as spectacular as Mrs Stacy Griffin Kartner

    • @oliviaanderson5389
      @oliviaanderson5389 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been surviving through my
      fr with her, AM so glad I
      Invested when I did. I'm earring
      $25,000 weekly wth her

    • @kathleengeorge5516
      @kathleengeorge5516 ปีที่แล้ว

      Investment is that thing Iine that
      Separates the rich from the poor

    • @nankardomyil7783
      @nankardomyil7783 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so happy trading with I'm so happy trading with her

  • @SPtheGREAT
    @SPtheGREAT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is WHY I COUNT MY BLESSINGS...my ❤️ goes out to her...

  • @jasminewilliams8064
    @jasminewilliams8064 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1332

    Wow that's pretty sad. I understand this 100% because I make 8.50 an hour and I still live with my mom and that's still not enough at all. My prayers go out to her and her son.

    • @rebeccaatkins6299
      @rebeccaatkins6299 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Why didn't you plan your life out? If you are a teenager ignore this but if you are over 20 and out of college it is your fault.

    • @jasminewilliams8064
      @jasminewilliams8064 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      rebeccaatkins_ um I'm 18

    • @rebeccaatkins6299
      @rebeccaatkins6299 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jazzi Williams I said if you are under 20 ignore this.

    • @jasminewilliams8064
      @jasminewilliams8064 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      rebeccaatkins_ okay well don't reply to my comment then. State your opinion independently please. Otherwise I think your talking about me.

    • @jackiemontrose1279
      @jackiemontrose1279 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jazzi Williams z

  • @NatsuoxOkami
    @NatsuoxOkami 5 ปีที่แล้ว +823

    "I'll struggle for him so he doesn't have to struggle for himself."
    "I don't want him to struggle like me and I want him to get a good paying job."
    Those are the most heartwarming things to say. She truly is a good mother, I hope she gets a higher paying job to better support herself and her son.

    • @sofiasalas1336
      @sofiasalas1336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      kommisar try living in her shoes

    • @rubenescalante7998
      @rubenescalante7998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @kommisarYou need a reality check!!!!!

    • @vavale13
      @vavale13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm sorry Kamisar, but in what Alice in wonderland alike world you are living in? People don't plan to life like this, life wasn't easy on her and if you lived in her shoes for two days you would run to mommy for sure. It's about being brave and giving your best to do everything that is possible due to the situation you're in, and she's doing it, with every single right to complain about what she struggles with in a >interview< made exactly for that

    • @sofiasalas1336
      @sofiasalas1336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      kommisar that’s not what I meant stupid. What I meant was people weren’t expecting to live like this and for you to say that is disrespectful is an awful human being. So shut your mouth and remember this. Ps making a homemade food is over her budget

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vavale13 Thank you! Someone who gets it! She's doing better now, she raised money and trying to find another job. She seems to be having a little trouble finding a place.

  • @ladderup6584
    @ladderup6584 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The strength of this woman to navigate so much injustice is awe-inspiring. What an incredible mother. I’ve always tried to be nice to fast food workers, but now I 100% will commit to leaving them with a smile and whatever kindness I can offer them.

  • @user-cz9mj7od3k
    @user-cz9mj7od3k 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Crazy we allow McDonalds and these horrible businesses to pay such an unacceptable wage.

    • @Editzz2024
      @Editzz2024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In the uk mcdonalds workers get paid quite well

    • @BerryKind
      @BerryKind หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

  • @melissas6446
    @melissas6446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1272

    Breaks my heart. She’s trying and feels hopeless. I hope she is blessed in some way.

    • @lovelythomas8837
      @lovelythomas8837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Bless you for saying such kind words I hope she is in a better place now

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for such kins words... many commentators are very mean and harsh... she's trying to do better! She raises 10k in her Gofundme. She's trying to do better.

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bitch Pudding where is this information?

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Bitch Pudding and those are very harsh words. It doesn’t change the fact that she doesn’t deserve an easier life. There are so many in her situation. It’s truly sad and the innocent children that are put in the middle

    • @melissas6446
      @melissas6446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bitch Pudding that’s sad. I really do wish her the best. I get what you’re saying just seemed harsh.

  • @filthysaltine3368
    @filthysaltine3368 7 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    Minimal wage is made from teenagers not adults.

  • @swenzybeatz3156
    @swenzybeatz3156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bruh she only works 16 hours a week…. seems like the problem is deeper rooted

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro you cant work full time when you got a child and no other person to watch out for them

    • @raymondreddington9788
      @raymondreddington9788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@xiscaw who told her to open her legs then?

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@raymondreddington9788 it doesnt matter how she got the child, the fact is that she has a child now

    • @raymondreddington9788
      @raymondreddington9788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xiscaw yeah yeah perfect idea bring child to the world and then cry about how life turned about to be

    • @xiscaw
      @xiscaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@raymondreddington9788idgaf about what youre talking about you're completely off topic from what i was saying to this guy

  • @JohnHernandez-uu1id
    @JohnHernandez-uu1id ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Make better decisions in life and you don't have to worry about min. wage.
    1) graduate from high school
    2) don't do drugs, which includes marijuana
    3) don't have kids until your married
    4) if you get a min. wage job you can always show up 10 minutes before start time, look professional, work hard and get promoted!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Waiting till marriage to have children doesn't mean the father will be involved nor does it mean you will be well off.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว

      The woman in the video studied law school and raised 10k in her GoFundMe and enjoys spending time with her son. She's doing well now. 😌

  • @nikoflowers1635
    @nikoflowers1635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    The pain in her face and eyes. I pray blessings for her.
    The sad part is this is reality for a lot of individuals in this country.

    • @moisesfrias1117
      @moisesfrias1117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      due to been irresponsable...

    • @stephaniezuniga5835
      @stephaniezuniga5835 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moisesfrias1117 exactly

    • @michaelg7251
      @michaelg7251 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's gas from eating Popeye's sandwiches. Mamm!es love thugs and fast food.

    • @tonycash5550
      @tonycash5550 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      May The Lord bless you Safiyyah. I will pray for you sister. I'm glad that you and your sister help each other out every month.

  • @LeeyaAre
    @LeeyaAre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2092

    This hurts my heart man. She is depressed but has to survive

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LiayahR Not anymore she’s rich now check her fb

    • @KadrinaA
      @KadrinaA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Glicks Prod. Fr ? What does she do

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Champagne K She got married to a doctor 👨‍⚕️

    • @sumirekakei6999
      @sumirekakei6999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Glicks Prod. can you send me the link?

    • @Isoye
      @Isoye 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sumire Kakei Nah

  • @Jaytee1765
    @Jaytee1765 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    CAN YOU IMAGINE $7.50/hr in 2022? This is criminal.

  • @dankkeesha7279
    @dankkeesha7279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is why you don’t have kids until your financially ready to do so

    • @lunax8068
      @lunax8068 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes, yes it is lol.

  • @AshzxQuidYT
    @AshzxQuidYT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    This video was 7 min long but it felt like 7 hours, my heart breaks for her. By sharing her story I know she’s got to be in a better place financially. God bless you wherever you are!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She raised 13,000 in her Gofundme. She's trying to finish school or get a better job. She really is working her hardest to make a better life.

    • @aparnapolisetty9571
      @aparnapolisetty9571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi
      Can you share her go fund me page

    • @fixmepainreliefyogamhac4563
      @fixmepainreliefyogamhac4563 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope the GoFundMe is in someone else's name or something
      They can take insurance or assistance away

  • @tamekamccain5594
    @tamekamccain5594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    This girl sounds tired and defeated.. almost to were she has given up.. I pray things get better for her and her son💜

    • @Starfish6
      @Starfish6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I do too😭😭😭

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Thank you. The more she works, the higher her rent will be. The racist commentators don't understand struggle. She raised 10,000 in her Gofundme. She's trying to finish college. I'm glad you understand.

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      if god cared, she wouldnt be poor

    • @analisae4233
      @analisae4233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Spartan 91 like god says the last will be first and the first will be last god sees everything

    • @ilovebeingamomgomez9394
      @ilovebeingamomgomez9394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Juan Shaft Patel people tend to forget that theres also a devil.....

  • @metallizationofficial980
    @metallizationofficial980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How could a Billion Dollar Company pay the backbone of there money that low

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People do the best they can and you tell she loves her baby. Apparently, there are people in the comment section who do not understand welfare.

  • @pennylane611
    @pennylane611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1915

    shes not looking for pitty just giving us an idea of what life is like at $7.50 an hr

    • @Sonia-iy3rj
      @Sonia-iy3rj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Tel F Don't be a rude bitch

    • @pennylane611
      @pennylane611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Tel F WHOs talking to you!

    • @competetodefeat4610
      @competetodefeat4610 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Maybe you missed the part where she mentions her 2 week earnings indicating she's working part time. This is NOT a representation of working for $7.50 an hour it's a representation of somebody working PART TIME making 7.50. She needs to work full time, get a second job to get more hours or a combination of both. And here's a thought how about going after the deadbeat dad. She also chose to have a child in what i promise you was with some complete loser. Seems to be that basically ALL of her issues she brought on herself and it's complete and utter bullshit to claim this is a representation of what it's like to live on that wage because she is only working, again, part time.

    • @bmxmyth166
      @bmxmyth166 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      +Vicious Circle she can't work full time because *she has a fucking kid to look after*, did you even watch the video? And her boyfriend is in prison (for all we know he could be in there for something as harmless as cannabis possession)... think before sounding like a condescending dumbass.

    • @2georgiamom
      @2georgiamom 7 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      At the end of the day, who's responsible for her situation? (Hint: it's not McDonald's, the government, or me).

  • @Tony-gt1ow
    @Tony-gt1ow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2416

    Give her the money this video earned

    • @jenna3937
      @jenna3937 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Tony Lopez good idea

    • @Tony-gt1ow
      @Tony-gt1ow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      im.superman101 yeee

    • @NybKww
      @NybKww 7 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      a lot of channels get paid by the amount of views. Its not just ads.

    • @jayyyayyy7712
      @jayyyayyy7712 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      나서린이 channels don't get money for views it's the advertisements of products that do idiot

    • @Tony-gt1ow
      @Tony-gt1ow 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jayyy Ayyy but vids bring subs and those subs see other vids related to the channel and those have adds so it's her help as well tht they gain subs money and views so why can't u just help her out just a little at least any help is better than no help

  • @southernbeauty36
    @southernbeauty36 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember living this way for years. I wanted to off myself. Stress on top of stress and people don’t understand why Im so humble and work the way that I do. Scared to go back to living this way. I hope she is doing better now.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She raised 10k her GoFundMe, she's licensed CNA, and enjoys family time with her son. She's doing well! 🎉😊

  • @kyriakimbler8183
    @kyriakimbler8183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I struggle time to time making $12 an hour with no kids So I can Only Imagine What she had to endure making $7.50

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep. In Philly, too. Poor girl, she's struggled so much. She raised 10k in her GoFundMe, licensed as a CNA, and enjoys spending time with her son.

  • @scooters47
    @scooters47 5 ปีที่แล้ว +751

    America we can't be proud of the way we treat our citizen's. $7.50 an hour 16 hours a week how the hell does she survive and our priority is giving the super rich a huge tax break.

    • @Casinodemedici
      @Casinodemedici 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Catch Amazon

    • @bigmeatyclawzz
      @bigmeatyclawzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @Teddy James you tried to blame feminism, a movement created by women who want equal treatment as men receive, on the reason why america has wage shortages. pure comedy.

    • @bigmeatyclawzz
      @bigmeatyclawzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Teddy James then you could've said women, not fucking feminism LMAO

    • @shreksboyfriend2572
      @shreksboyfriend2572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Why cant she work 8hours a day?

    • @sh0rtyb0yp1mp
      @sh0rtyb0yp1mp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      sh0rtyb0yp1mp
      1 second ago
      minimum wage is for kids going to college until they are done and are able to get a better job , it is not ment to raise a family , this is why we must show our kids that they need to better them selves before starting a family , be able to pay for child care , food , rent , and insurance , if not you fall into this type of situation on foodstamps housing assistance childs assistance , and once you fall in its is one of the hardest things to come out of it could take generations or never happen, but the youth doesnt listen as didnt i and had to learned the hard way ,

  • @bougelaal
    @bougelaal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1040

    This is the side of the USA that social media doesn't show... Only Lambos, Palm trees and yachts

    • @ivyrainbitch
      @ivyrainbitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes they do

    • @nicoleharrington9086
      @nicoleharrington9086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Im South African, I thought all Americans are rich.

    • @justsumteennn6778
      @justsumteennn6778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@nicoleharrington9086 lol

    • @vinukabest3
      @vinukabest3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@nicoleharrington9086 It is like every other country. You have people struggling like this in every nation. Not just the US.

    • @icemike1
      @icemike1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@vinukabest3 yeah but every other country's not fronting

  • @rkotitan10
    @rkotitan10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Reasons like this make me feel better about tax time. You deserve help! You’re a hard worker and keep your head up. Hope everything is better since the video

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว

      She raised 10k in her GoFundMe and is licensed as a CNA. She's doing well!

  • @matteotarantino758
    @matteotarantino758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Love how this was uploaded 6 years ago and the minimum wage is still the same

  • @naeemahbadia4266
    @naeemahbadia4266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    Aww we went to high school together and she’s so cool and silly, and I I’m happy to say she’s doing a lot better than she was when this cane out

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Are her parents alive? Why is she not getting any assistance from her family members so that she can try to go to school? I really feel for her and I hope that she can move out of that job to something better.

    • @naeemahbadia4266
      @naeemahbadia4266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      American Creole she has an associate degree, and her mom is Alive but her mom has responsibilities too, everyone’s mom isn’t the same

    • @americancreole6299
      @americancreole6299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@naeemahbadia4266
      Understandable. I know it can be tough without family support. I hope that she continues to move on to bigger and better things.

    • @saucesfc8946
      @saucesfc8946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      wow the american school system is great for spelling

    • @NBA_Z0
      @NBA_Z0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Why the fuck you lyin? Why you always lyin? Mhmm oh my god! Stop the fuckin lyin!

  • @lisasteadman619
    @lisasteadman619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5027

    Such sadness in her eyes. Hope she is doing better today. Much respect for even working.

    • @marisoltorres9027
      @marisoltorres9027 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Yes exactly, at least she was trying God willing she is doing better today

    • @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy
      @TheLatinoRedneckCowboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      Well maybe she shouldn't have wasted time with poor relationships & instead of getting knock up. She could've went to schooling first ! Trade school

    • @fordgalaxiefanclub7733
      @fordgalaxiefanclub7733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +383

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy u speaking facts but atleast have some humanity

    • @amaliasafaryan4256
      @amaliasafaryan4256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy True we women have like eight different types of birth control most of them are free LOL we don't live in the 1800s anymore we have options

    • @adamk9677
      @adamk9677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@TheLatinoRedneckCowboy this is why school is ver important and listen to your parents.

  • @liam2246
    @liam2246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's up to the government to increase minimum wage. In Australia, our minimum wage, for a 22 year old and older, is USD$15 if you are part-time/full time which includes paid leave, sick leave and guaranteed number of hours per week, or USD$20 if you are a casual employee. Both include a bonus 10% on whatever you earn which goes towards your retirement fund. This is all legislation. It's up to the government. Why would McDonalds want to voluntarily pay more money!? They don't gaf about their employees. McDonalds is a business. They want to earn as much profit as possible.

    • @ashotofmercury
      @ashotofmercury 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This! And American's still yap on about it being 'the greatest country in the world!' Erm, compared to where?!..... 🤷🏻‍♀️🙄 Maybe it was in the 1950s, but those days are looooooong gone! 🤨

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashotofmercury Ah, Jim Crow era.

  • @Aly-hk6mg
    @Aly-hk6mg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    its been almost 7 years from when this video was made to today. i hope she is doing better financially, emotionally, mentally, and physically.

  • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
    @JaneDoe-cy3nc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2449

    The fact that people are judging this women is beyond me. Put yourself in her shoes. No one wants to live like that, what if one day you find yourself in her shoes cause something terrible happens? Don't say "That would never happen to me" because life is so, so unpredictable say "I hope to never find myself in this situation." I pray for nothing but better for this lady and her son.

    • @jrenae4057
      @jrenae4057 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Exactly!!!

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 8 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Nobody's stopping her from changing her life. There's only about a billion different scholarships and grants available to low income single mothers. She's working 16 hours a week, she could easily find a second job or go to school.

    • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
      @JaneDoe-cy3nc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      +VegasGirl35 all we know is a 6:42 video about this women. If it was more in depth and it came to light she was just doing this cause she wanted to, then I would say maybe you should try a little harder for a better life for you and and your son.

    • @oo-eu6qz
      @oo-eu6qz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Why would you allow yourself to become pregnant to include another life into your shitty one? People like this deserve SHAME!

    • @JaneDoe-cy3nc
      @JaneDoe-cy3nc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      +o¿o no, they do not. Shame on you for saying that! Like I said, you don't know her story and even so she had her son and she is doing what she can for him. Let her be and if you have a better life be thankful.

  • @emmasmith5676
    @emmasmith5676 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1565

    She may not live the high life but she has her mind straight for her son so he doesn’t need to struggle,in my book she’s a good person and mother

    • @Jaisee14
      @Jaisee14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She's a good mother but she cannot give him what he needs. She should have put the baby up for adoption so that he could have the life she cannot give him. I was adopted and I am grateful for my parents who gave me the life I knew my parents could not nor did they care enough to do so.

    • @jrkarmagetugud
      @jrkarmagetugud 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Your lucky to have been adopted, not every child that goes into that system does.

    • @agramon9940
      @agramon9940 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      emma smith If she has her mind straight for her child she wouldn't be in that situation. She's lazy and lacks discipline. Words don't mean anything until you put it into action.

    • @PlaceholderDoe123
      @PlaceholderDoe123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Chris LaVey What I'm wondering is why she doesn't get a second job...

    • @kimberlythunert6968
      @kimberlythunert6968 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Chris and Victoria...if she got a second job, who would pay her child care for those hours? And lazy? I see a young mother struggling to do the best she can for her child. Perhaps you're missing the point. NO ONE can live on $7.50 hour!

  • @thomasd9237
    @thomasd9237 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shouldn't be making babies if you cannot afford to take care of them properly

  • @gaibriellahunter4173
    @gaibriellahunter4173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I feel that look in her eyes, I’ve been there. Glad to hear she’s doing better!

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is. This is what determination does for someone.

  • @kstrimm8014
    @kstrimm8014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1464

    The sadness in her eyes is heartbreaking...I wish i could give her a hug and tell her it's going to be OK!!!

    • @tylermccall2584
      @tylermccall2584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      A Mc let’s say she does the udemy course and does find them on sale.... wow she got anther job making 12 bucks a hour😱. Oh shit I lost health care, shit food stamps are gone or practically nothing.... back to the same shit hole again..... gotta love America

    • @kstrimm8014
      @kstrimm8014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @A Mc well this information is not useful to me...why don't you inform her

    • @killaa1028
      @killaa1028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      A Mc it’s not always the persons fault, you’re clearly too privileged to understand that

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hugs dont help telling ur man to use a condom and her going on birth control helps boo..

    • @killaa1028
      @killaa1028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Jesus will Judge birth control is dangerous for a lot of women, and you never know she could’ve been using a condom they don’t always work.. and often times people don’t know that they are pregnant until after the fact, you were probably an accident yourself

  • @amberndavid53
    @amberndavid53 6 ปีที่แล้ว +873

    She's a Good Mom, I hope everything works out for her. God bless Her in every which way possible.

    • @acrossgames4347
      @acrossgames4347 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amber Alegria Amen

    • @dogdoggman4971
      @dogdoggman4971 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Amber Alegria single moms are not good moms.

    • @dk-vo3tr
      @dk-vo3tr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      dog doggman just as bad as the one that raised you.

    • @chergilles
      @chergilles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      dog doggman lol what?
      What if the father died?

    • @nickobrien2478
      @nickobrien2478 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      not really, she has a baby by a criminal and is a societal leech

  • @reposter6434
    @reposter6434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Mad how I'm only 18 and get paid more than this woman, makes you think about life more.

    • @lmd1034
      @lmd1034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When this came out she was making more than you and she probably does to this day now

    • @mohawk4759
      @mohawk4759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lmd1034 what

    • @wallyy6223
      @wallyy6223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      inflation

    • @BigBoiTurboslav
      @BigBoiTurboslav 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao I get paid half of this woman, why is she complaining

    • @monicawilson8075
      @monicawilson8075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BigBoiTurboslav doing what and what region of the world.

  • @thehollyannrose
    @thehollyannrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I still don’t understand why Medicaid doesn’t have better dental benefits. I used to have it and they wouldn’t even deep clean my teeth when they were coated in plaque from years without cleanings or help cover the cost of a crown when I fractured my tooth!! 🥺🥺

    • @GTAIVisbest
      @GTAIVisbest 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't cope over our healthcare system anymore. I keep trying to cope and say "well, it's not so bad, you just have to keep your max yearly OOP in an HSA and.... and...." before I remember a max yearly OOP is like $4,000 and most people live on federal minimum wage paycheque to paycheque. Goddamn it

  • @JessicaGail
    @JessicaGail 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1895

    She said she makes $230-$240 every TWO weeks. That’s $115-$120 per week... And $436 per month. Oh my god. I made that at my first job at a grocery store and I can attest to the fact that it’s nothing. I didn’t even have bills at the time, I just lived at home. I can’t imagine the stress of trying to support yourself and a child on this amount of pay. Our system is so broken and it breaks my heart. I hope they paid her well for this interview and I hope she and her child are doing better now. I wish we could get an update. Also social programs are a lifesaver, we need more of them in this country.

    • @FlansyLinny
      @FlansyLinny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I didn't even know places gave that little of hours even at part time. At the very least she could find a job paying a little more, even $10 an hour isn't hard to find and would increase her income a lot.

    • @Faeborn
      @Faeborn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      And I thought 1600 a week was very little

    • @GLAMZARAM
      @GLAMZARAM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Minimum skill minimum wage

    • @Faeborn
      @Faeborn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Arrow Right 🤣 I make 1600 and my husband makes the same. So 3200 a week.

    • @mayymayy6822
      @mayymayy6822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@FlansyLinny this video was shot 5 years ago. No one was paying minimum wage at 10 an hour

  • @normatobias328
    @normatobias328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +860

    That's why I open a daycare where I charge you according to what the parents can afford because some moms have it really tuff

    • @maddisonmichellets
      @maddisonmichellets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      God bless you

    • @briannab2490
      @briannab2490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      That’s beautiful

    • @joshlasky8138
      @joshlasky8138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Kick ass homie. Keep it up

    • @CW-ts9eo
      @CW-ts9eo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Norma Tobias thank you ❤️

    • @diamondsfurez7456
      @diamondsfurez7456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You probably don’t profit off that business then

  • @domc5849
    @domc5849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hope she is in a better place.i live in Philly as well n it's definitely hard out here.stay strong sis it will get better keep pushing n never give up!!

  • @MTTT19
    @MTTT19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whenever someone says that the minimum wage rate is fine and enough for people to live off, this just proves how wrong they are.

    • @vanillapinkfluff3477
      @vanillapinkfluff3477 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's depressing the way the money and work force operates.

    • @giggoty4926
      @giggoty4926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shes alive has a place to live and clearly able to feed herself and her kid. thats more then a ton of people get

    • @robertmasina4610
      @robertmasina4610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Matt Thornton. The way to get to a "livable wage" job is for one to graduate high school and after that get an education or learn a job skill.

  • @dixiekongfan1
    @dixiekongfan1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    I bet you she works 100x harder than some of these youtubers that get paid thousands of dollars a week just to talk to a camera and basically do nothing

    • @kevinc4123
      @kevinc4123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      you make it sound like youtubers don't have to do anything except talk to a camera

    • @kristalnicole118
      @kristalnicole118 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So now you have to "have it hard" in order to deserve a living pay. ? lots of youtubers struggled before they became "famous" lots of them STILL struggle. it's not that black and white. And there's much more to TH-cam than just vlogs.

    • @carmelocepeda4563
      @carmelocepeda4563 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      if only you new how hard it is to be a youtuber

    • @nodnarb6171
      @nodnarb6171 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's just McDonalds not that hard

    • @freekodak3387
      @freekodak3387 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Her jobs easier....

  • @michealthomas2624
    @michealthomas2624 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2556

    This is the type of life is where the child will be something big when he grows up or he will be a bum

    • @GreenChica12
      @GreenChica12 8 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Yep, that is so true. It all depends how he is raised at home!

    • @zachsahni7282
      @zachsahni7282 8 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      +ymarty1990 All I know is this lady is trying her best :)

    • @YungJhay22
      @YungJhay22 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      damn... u right asf tho

    • @taylors.2546
      @taylors.2546 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +zach sahni Absolutely!

    • @YungJhay22
      @YungJhay22 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ***** shut yo bitch ass up

  • @TheJimprez
    @TheJimprez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    McDonalds pays 16$/h here. WTH is wrong with the USA? It's not Capitalism, it's slavery...

  • @robloxglowiee4315
    @robloxglowiee4315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Shame there are millions just like her. If I see anyone struggling like this I want to help and make difference to their life.

  • @Dreaming875
    @Dreaming875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Awe she looked so depressed :/

    • @mimineabdou7852
      @mimineabdou7852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mel takes on the world so Tired

    • @Dreaming875
      @Dreaming875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mimine Abdou that too :(

    • @jspurs22
      @jspurs22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But she pick to be with an idiot who made her depressed

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@jspurs22 There's nothing she can do about her past mistakes, all she can do is try to do better now. There's no going back. But, she's working, taking care of her son, and doing it all on her own. She's not a bad person, so stop judging her. You aren't in her position. Not everyone is going to technical college, as mentioned. But, does that mean she shouldn't be able to make a good life for herself? Should she work like a slave? Should her son suffer. Bottom line, people shouldn't be punished for mistakes. They still have to survive.

    • @iamdavid2372
      @iamdavid2372 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Roblox Player 2013 What the, kind of comment is this, how hateful Look ur 7 years old and u shouldn't discriminate at such a young age. Ppl of all ages and diversity shouldnt discriminate in general so pls love all and not hate because of color

  • @iamtroll2487
    @iamtroll2487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    She looks so exhausted. I feel so bad for her omg

    • @InSaN3ViSioN
      @InSaN3ViSioN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exhausted working only 16 hours a week. Meanwhile, Elon Musk works over 100 hours a week and is changing our world with 4 revolutionary companies. Says a lot about people's mindsets.

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@InSaN3ViSioN Or, she can't work more than that or else her rent will be too high or her son won't have a babysitter. (She can't work weekends, holidays, or without daycare.) Her foodstamps would be cut, leaving her with NO money, and her benefits would be cut. Some people have disadvantages. Doesn't mean they're a bad person. Just saying.

    • @BurningMoonlight
      @BurningMoonlight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ice Cream Lover At least someone understands.

    • @skip031890
      @skip031890 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@shimmer4771 Thank you for nicely pointing out how welfare, ultimately, does not allow people to progress in life. She's going to be perpetually stuck in a system of poverty if she doesn't make the right choices for her own life. Government assistance is not the answer, but that's all she probably knows; sadly.

    • @rosegoald
      @rosegoald 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      S3 XY just because she doesn't work alot of hours at her job doesn't mean she can't be exhausted. She's a single mom. Work is never done

  • @manestage5403
    @manestage5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She broke my heart because I've been there before. I reflect sometimes and don't even know how I and my son have come far now. 🙌🏾

  • @goldenhourss
    @goldenhourss หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Her blank expression.. omg I pray for things to get better for her. She deserves better❤

  • @KittyCandyCupcakes
    @KittyCandyCupcakes 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    My husband and I both work full time and still couldn't afford dental care if it wasn't for our work benefits.
    There's something wrong with the system.

    • @kassieedwards9678
      @kassieedwards9678 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg you have to pay $900 for rent?! THE NERVE! No Washer/Dryer?!?! Preposterous! Yea those section 8 ppl, damn them! *eyeroll*

    • @moezhoney6078
      @moezhoney6078 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +RikaDreamer you're a fucking idiot

    • @moezhoney6078
      @moezhoney6078 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +RikaDreamer you're with the wrong company moron or something I don't know one broke account lol I know two personally one move to Dubai with a great job offer and is making good money to support a family 5 living the high life in December Dubai plus his parents completely depends on him also ,plus he owns his home here in new York city that he is still currently paying for , the other person is doing wonderful as well just got married , brought a new house , new car in a upper class Area I mean do see the problem here ? stop complaining and go get a better job or something and since you can't afford shit and you're struggle go apply for some government help it looks like you need it at this point since shit is so bad smh

    • @redrum4139
      @redrum4139 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      deepa zaki You know 2 ppl like that and if it's so easy, why aren't you that person??? Having 2 full jobs in a family basically is a automatic denial for assistance. Man this world is full of ppl with 0 empathy and the person who posted didn't even sound like they have it bad and you're going hard w/ all this bs about 2 friends that have a life you don't even have and like it's so easy to move to effing Dubai like if everyone can.get an offer similar/closr to that. The person who posted was simply sharing their story and showing empathy for another person struggling.

    • @majestyarchives16
      @majestyarchives16 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      RikaDreamer I live with my mom and 2 brothers, we have a 2 bedroom apartment. My mom has to pay 1,700+ and she's only a nurse.

  • @mursalarabia
    @mursalarabia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +684

    I was in her shoes not a long ago.. darkest time of my life.. I knew I had to make changes.. no company or corporation will look after you.. you have to be actively looking for another job or another skill to learn.. get yourself out of the hole .. the longer you wait the harder it gets.

    • @cdm386
      @cdm386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      mursalarabia what did you end up learning?

    • @mursalarabia
      @mursalarabia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      cdm386 IT.. I worked as an IT guy for a home care agency for awhile.. and I ended up learning how they do their scheduling and doing payroll.. today I'm one of the managers( not bragging) .. if it wasn't for me willing to learn stuff I had no business learning I wouldn't be here or improved my situation.

    • @docfabz
      @docfabz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@mursalarabia congrats to you, not everyone's situation is the same however but congrats

    • @jasmine-dq5vc
      @jasmine-dq5vc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mursalarabia same

    • @vanessayoung4396
      @vanessayoung4396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      GOD BLESS YOUR DAUGHTER WHERE SHE GO TO school TO GET SOME SKILLS FOR SHE CAN MAKE AWAY BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMEN TOUCH HER FINANCE

  • @CrazyAlienLady051
    @CrazyAlienLady051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It makes me sick that the majority of our money is going to greedy old millionaires and politicians and not people like her. Every year, the rich get richer as we all grow poorer. Ugh, I’m sick of it all.

  • @janadalby7519
    @janadalby7519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "This is life when you have a premarital baby and don't graduate high school"

    • @mars_bars3428
      @mars_bars3428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      not you blaming this on her.. regardless of her situation, 7.50 an hour is absolutely ridiculous and not ok.

    • @robertmasina4610
      @robertmasina4610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One should know that even when one is in high school that if one doesn't graduate, a future of low skilled, low paying jobs awaits one.

  • @__gemoftheeast
    @__gemoftheeast 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1672

    I've been there. That min wage life is no joke. This year at 22,my bf and I found out I was pregnant and knew it was the last time I'd ever work min wage jobs. I made 110 every week working full time at Planet Fitness. But I enrolled myself in a Dental Assistant course and graduated in 4 months. No dental or non related dental job wanted to hire me because I was pregnant, but I never gave up. Just 3 weeks ago when I was about to give up, the Department of Community Health called me saying they had my resume and would like for me to start asap in the Board of Pharmacy&Dentistry. I was worried cuz I was pregnant and they didn't know but it didn't phase them and at almost 8 months pregnant I got my first career ! Now I make in a week what I used to make in a month at Planet Fitness, I work in a respecful and stress free office environment&I love what I do. No one's getting worked to death and whining for hrs, we all work Mon thru Fri 8 to 5. I can't wait to be promoted and continue my education to make more money and get my degrees. I didn't want my child to struggle and I made sure to make it happen! It's not easy, but you've got to be driven! If you want a career, make it happen. My goal is to have a successful life where me and my child will never struggle again and I'm on that path. Strive for a career, min wage was never meant for adults to raise kids or survive on. Believe in yourself 😊

    • @Tom_Samad
      @Tom_Samad 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Really proud of you sister. Keep going.

    • @__gemoftheeast
      @__gemoftheeast 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      +Lester B Thank you! And I can thank my child, she's still yet to be born but she was my motivation to to do better for she and I. Cuz I refused to be a statistic !!!

    • @__gemoftheeast
      @__gemoftheeast 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Tom Samad Thank you 😊 And that's all I can do, I've come along way in less than 9 months. Can't ever give up. Life is what you make it at the end of the day!

    • @PhucTran-oj2yp
      @PhucTran-oj2yp 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good Job !!

    • @markusemmons6457
      @markusemmons6457 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      sounds to me you trapped a man with child birth so you can further your career. well played.

  • @opinionated
    @opinionated 7 ปีที่แล้ว +834

    She seems so tired and depressed. I can't wait for her to have a success story.

    • @kinglongdong9820
      @kinglongdong9820 7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That or she blows her brains out.

    • @vannagonzalez7690
      @vannagonzalez7690 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +KingLongDong Jesus Christ!!! smh

    • @poppyseed1000
      @poppyseed1000 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      You're right. People don't want to talk about it, maybe it crosses the line into the subject of mental illness but so many people commit suicide because their financial situations make them feel like there is no other way out. It's a shame, all that wasted potential.

    • @elu5334
      @elu5334 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She probably on some drug 2 calm her down

    • @yourstruly_777
      @yourstruly_777 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I agree, msleilani15. I though she seems so defeated. I'm sure she's quite depressed about her situation, and thats understandable, but she keeps on pushing.

  • @zimtheinvaderofficial
    @zimtheinvaderofficial ปีที่แล้ว +4

    money is the key to happiness

  • @helenapereira8547
    @helenapereira8547 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I also told the dentist to pull one tooth out because I couldn't afford the treatment 😞

  • @indicababez
    @indicababez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3389

    This makes me grateful for everything that I have

  • @cocokissas4359
    @cocokissas4359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    Damn I felt that! "I'll wear the struggle so he can live."😭😭😭

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Black women gotta stand strong as no one else cares for our struggles! 💯

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She raised 13,000 in her Gofundme. She also has an Associate's degree. 😄

    • @nickabbott319
      @nickabbott319 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Princess Emerald you a black women too,ohh

    • @TheColumbiakid
      @TheColumbiakid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yall gotta stop fucking with losers. Dudes with no future no skills just want to sell drugs

    • @shimmer4771
      @shimmer4771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheColumbiakid i kmow for a fact no woman or man wants to struggle. You have to remember that women aren't meant to work hard jobs, we're not like men... nor are we built like them. No woman plans on being a single mother. Trust me, most women choose a man thinking he's a good one and then he leaves/ abusive. How about we teach women to choose good men and men how to treat a woman? No man who doesn't respect women will get respected. I can promise you that.

  • @alexh6767
    @alexh6767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I remember being offered an internship for less than 3 dollars an hour, 30 hours a week for 6 months. I refused and got told to grow up

  • @jacksonowens8216
    @jacksonowens8216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That’s why you have to be grateful for even the smallest things in life

    • @vmobile890
      @vmobile890 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always live in a trailer in a nice safe nice community with elders .Always stayed on a budget and bought cheapest nice things worked as good as expensive things . Life has and is rewarding and good . Moved to nice trailer park in upscale town with expensive homes very low crime . Plenty of stores close no shortage of food nice people .

  • @esonon5210
    @esonon5210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    I really wish her the best. Hearing stories like this scare the shit out of me because this can happen to anybody. Life can hit you in so many unexpected ways.

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I graduated from college in 2019, with a degree in business... I plan on returning next year. I've even decided to become a Cardiovascular technician or a dental assistant... at least I won't work a job I hate that doesn't pay much. No hate to anyone that does.

    • @esonon5210
      @esonon5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@keishasims3192 why did you get a 4 year degree when you could have gone to a trade school to get into those types of careers?

    • @keishasims3192
      @keishasims3192 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@esonon5210 I went to a community/ technical college. I changed schools again and now I'm n going to university.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I work also minium wage at McDonalds. And I am 30. As a women you have one advantage. It does not affect your love life.
      As a man and minimum wage worker women dont see a potential partner in you. I tried dating, and tinder, no matches. When i changed my job, I got matches!
      I am alwasys alone and lonely (my full life). No kiss, no hug, no friends. I am sick and tired. Overhours. I can barerly meet end needs.

    • @esonon5210
      @esonon5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ceooflonelinessinc.267 Lol I'm a gay man so I don't care if the ladies are into me or not but thanks for sharing.

  • @oliviatashti4475
    @oliviatashti4475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1143

    when the federal miminum wage doesn't increase a PENNY since 2009, THAT IS SCARY..yet everything has gone up. absolutely ridiculous.

    • @bubbarts8021
      @bubbarts8021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Rent in California is 2000-3000 and people don’t get paid that much an apartment in the tenderloin in San Fran cost a lot just to live by homeless people,poopy sidewalks,and a street full of needles they don’t thin about minimum wage families or elders they want money and that’s it you’ll be lucky to not find a slumlord

    • @mr16325
      @mr16325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It should go up, but we have to be careful how much. If it skyrockets, then companies might stop hiring unskilled people and go to cheaper machines

    • @ja-is1dt
      @ja-is1dt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The problem is the constant increase in cost of liveing every year.

    • @crab2195
      @crab2195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Minimum wage is the “minimum” for a reason, it’s not meant to be lived off of... you can’t pay bills making $7.50 an hour, and it’s set up that way for a reason.

    • @alisagraham6513
      @alisagraham6513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      INCREASE minimum wage! That makes sense. People could make a decent living.

  • @callumgardiner8469
    @callumgardiner8469 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bad choices , but her choices none the less

  • @tiarrasmusic
    @tiarrasmusic ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My question is: is this video supposed to show the benefits of no educational training, a baby out of wedlock, and still able to survive with govt assistance or to expose the sickening reality of being a laborer at McDonald's? Thankfully, working in fast food with a wage like that has gotten better since this video. HOWEVER, people are still struggling financially out here and living on benefits.