this is still coming from a perspective of mum needs to help dad do xyz. Assume that dads are out working and mum has responsibility of the household including all mental load. How about dads take up more of the mental load so that they know what is expected for the household and their children. Rather than expecting to be told what to do and to be rewarded for "doing well". Who's telling the mums what to do and rewarding them for doing what everyone takes for granted?
相信很多人隊友都在廁所30分鐘以上~
媽媽已經很辛苦了,不想再多教一個小孩耶!
好的爸爸會讓辛苦孵出小孩的媽媽很快忘記懷孕的累願意生二胎🫶
可能因為媽媽作為主要照顧者,餵奶、換尿布、幫小孩洗澡、陪小孩子玩、哄睡再日常不過,爸爸也會是應該的,或許不是單方面鼓勵爸爸或媽媽,而是夫妻在育兒的過程,更要注重伴侶的情緒,瞭解伴侶是重要的,才能更即時掌握照顧者的需求,也或許應該拿掉神隊友這個形容(標籤),才不會打擊努力育兒的爸爸們😂
看孩子吧,母親也可鼓勵孩子跟父親互動。像我先生比較嚴厲,我就會鼓勵我兒子睡前去找爸爸抱抱,讓雙方做個和解,也讓兒子知道爸爸也很愛他。
我相信這是一個思想混亂的問題,很多人不知道男人是什麼,女人是什麼,婚姻是什麼,家庭是什麼,加上現代育兒理論實在是紛繁複雜,很多新家庭根本無法明確知道到底怎麼樣才是“養育”,不知道要怎麼面對生命,所以最簡單的“方法”就是逃避咯!
吸引力法則哈哈哈哈哈
我家爸爸是神隊友,早上他上班時間比較晚,所以挖小孩起床+穿衣吃早餐+送幼兒園都是他一人搞定雙胞胎 🎉🎉🎉
請問統計抽樣的方法?
💕👍😊
this is still coming from a perspective of mum needs to help dad do xyz. Assume that dads are out working and mum has responsibility of the household including all mental load. How about dads take up more of the mental load so that they know what is expected for the household and their children. Rather than expecting to be told what to do and to be rewarded for "doing well". Who's telling the mums what to do and rewarding them for doing what everyone takes for granted?
比馬龍效應欸
原來教先生跟帶班教學生是一樣的事情
古人說北京的牛牽到哪還是牛,台灣的豬呢?ㄣ⋯⋯
所以好隊友都是別人家的…
工作时间中断一下很辛苦吗🙄
爸爸真的很常用工作為藉口