Are Jamie’s Jokes Too Dirty? | First Dates New Zealand

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  • Arna has struggled with dating in the past, as she comes across as a high maintenance 'princess'. In reality however, Arna's just a down to earth kiwi girl looking for a nice kiwi guy. Meeting Arna this evening is Care Coordinator Jamie. Jamie has been on three disastrous blind dates in the past, so is understandably approaching the evening with a little caution.
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  • @craigreeves5465
    @craigreeves5465 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    They have a knack for finding THE most insufferable people for this show. It's actually pretty amazing. Their casting people are super talented!

    • @DistopianUtopia
      @DistopianUtopia ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Spot on

    • @x00582
      @x00582 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      its a freakshow

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Reminds me of the American version, in which every episode featured a poorly matched couple, deliberately put together for the entertainment effect.

    • @regant.cameron8237
      @regant.cameron8237 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Why do I feel like she practices every move in the mirror for hours 😅

    • @alexaf2744
      @alexaf2744 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      If you’re picked to participate in this show, you know you have a problem

  • @poorhai9321
    @poorhai9321 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    the girls voice the laugh and posture reminds me of a 1950's mistress 😂 for some reasons

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lol. Yep.

    • @poorhai9321
      @poorhai9321 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MissX33 are you high 🤣

  • @Georgie14
    @Georgie14 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    She’s so into herself it’s nauseating and she’s not that hot. Humble goes a long way sweetheart.

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      At least she didn't talk about herself. She spent a lot of time trying to look good.

  • @walkwithmeASMR
    @walkwithmeASMR 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Omg the way she expected the waiter to take off her jacket. Step back into reality woman.

  • @LoloO42
    @LoloO42 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Elegance is effortless. She's not that. Why does she keep posing? I don't think she needs to worry about folks perceiving her as posh. 😆
    Picking her teeth with her nails at the table was a classy move, too.

    • @aleonflux1138
      @aleonflux1138 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed, her demeanour seemed unnatural and pretentious.

    • @NancyFoshee-cl1rl
      @NancyFoshee-cl1rl 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ...LOL...!

  • @davidyardley512
    @davidyardley512 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I got to the 7-minute mark and couldn't handle any more of this.

    • @sterlingforbes3872
      @sterlingforbes3872 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      haha i made it to 4 before i started reading comments

    • @NancyFoshee-cl1rl
      @NancyFoshee-cl1rl 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ...you didn't miss a thing...

  • @TheScotThomas
    @TheScotThomas 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    She’s 26? She lyin, she’s at least 30

  • @user-xz6vf7gk6v
    @user-xz6vf7gk6v ปีที่แล้ว +54

    She’s too Phoney

    • @vickygraham2444
      @vickygraham2444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She's a legend in her own mind

  • @TimCaruana
    @TimCaruana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    One line jokes on a first date is the true sign that you were meant to be single, forever..

    • @zacatkinson3926
      @zacatkinson3926 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      oh bs

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@zacatkinson3926 I'm no prude but that was a disgusting joke. shows poor judgement.

  • @cinnamongirl4896
    @cinnamongirl4896 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I kept shutting one eye watching this, her constant posing was so so cringe!!!!!!! so weird! she is way to into herself to find love with anyone else.

  • @CKD3332
    @CKD3332 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    She is way too pretentious. No way.

  • @MamawithAtude-ib4em
    @MamawithAtude-ib4em 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Jamie; put the jokes away; not so funny. you need to show your own personality. You come across as creepy. Period.

  • @ianlaccohee7180
    @ianlaccohee7180 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’ve never heard anybody say “yeah, sure,” but their body language says a very positive, no way.

  • @hilberryable
    @hilberryable 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Unrefined "jokes" by men is a deal breaker. Do you really want to live with someone who tells that type of joke for the rest of your life?

    • @perasima6533
      @perasima6533 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Short answer: Yes.
      Long answer: Hell, yeah!

    • @grinchoi1
      @grinchoi1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@perasima6533😂 facts

    • @zacatkinson3926
      @zacatkinson3926 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Relax!

  • @MichelleSullivan
    @MichelleSullivan ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Well matched - two attractive, painfully insecure people. Sad to see, really. I hope they come to feel comfortable being themselves.

  • @truthteller99999
    @truthteller99999 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    "People think I'm a bit of a prunciss"
    I don't think you're a prunciss, I think you're a can't.

  • @davidjones4772
    @davidjones4772 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    That guy had the monotone voice ever. Sounds like he’s dead inside.

  • @TT-se4uw
    @TT-se4uw ปีที่แล้ว +62

    She's much more attractive than he is and his personality was surprisingly juvenile. The dirty joke should have been saved for his guy friends; treating a really beautiful woman like one of the guys was the wrong move.

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I'd say looks wise they are evenly matched

    • @labbie1148
      @labbie1148 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@TomNook.yeah i agree looks wise they are the same

    • @zacatkinson3926
      @zacatkinson3926 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      “ beautiful “

    • @rachelbailey-no2pp
      @rachelbailey-no2pp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's not always about the looks. It's how you both connect and get on well with.

    • @zacatkinson3926
      @zacatkinson3926 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rachelbailey-no2pp Yes it is

  • @NeedAdvice2010
    @NeedAdvice2010 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm embarrassed for her watching her trying to be something she's absolutely not.........

  • @Jonty161
    @Jonty161 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Im so getting that "I want the pool boy" vibes off her. This guy defs dodges a bullet here.

  • @ScousersWife
    @ScousersWife ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is the only episode of FD that I didn't make it through. I don't know what it was. She seems pretentious. He seems aloof. Maybe it's me :) I just couldn't finish it.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can see why you say that.

    • @chriskoltys9271
      @chriskoltys9271 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I feel like she is “trying” to be high end - your 26 - just be 26 not 46

    • @41Gecko
      @41Gecko ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@chriskoltys9271That’s the first thing I thought. She’s trying very hard and just needs to relax.

    • @angelawilliams4239
      @angelawilliams4239 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s not you,I couldn’t stand it either. She was so annoying,trying way too hard.

  • @tracyleekley1353
    @tracyleekley1353 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Interesting that so many of the comments noticed Arna was posing, it was so obvious & weird & Jamie's nasty jokes are not for anyone but maybe his younger brother. Arna's need for attention on camera is embarrassing. Can'r believe she opted to go on a 2nd date w/ him.

    • @meredithr9824
      @meredithr9824 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I noticed that but, do you think she's masking?

  • @aliciamonroe615
    @aliciamonroe615 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm getting some serious bad vibes off this man.

  • @tsambikatsa926
    @tsambikatsa926 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Picking her teeth and telling her she had something in her teeth. He is dry .. and she wasnt interested in him st all
    Wonder if these are paid acfors?? So untral

  • @lindaacosta2435
    @lindaacosta2435 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Her posing is nauseating. He is adorable!

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nothing special about him imo, but she is over the top. I have a sibling like her.

    • @NomNomGirl1
      @NomNomGirl1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They ask everyone to pose what was she supposed to do

  • @mattneillninasmom
    @mattneillninasmom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Both of them rather cardboard cutouts with not much substantial going for them. Nope.

  • @anneedrupt11
    @anneedrupt11 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He's creepy and she gives me the ick feeling🤮

  • @bahiras
    @bahiras 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    They deserve each other

  • @liznicolas272
    @liznicolas272 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Eek is my best word at the moment 3:54

  • @kaputfretudy
    @kaputfretudy ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She was a generous listener, showed interest in him, and I thought sincere and quite lovely. She has a few old world graces, which are probably from her family culture, and I don’t think should be interpreted as phony by commenters. Not surprised he found love at work, surrounded by so many women!

  • @leigh7507
    @leigh7507 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Off topic - but is that a wig?

    • @amoralasfragancias9048
      @amoralasfragancias9048 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      a covering for the head made of real or artificial hair, typically worn by people for adornment or by people trying to conceal their baldness or in England by judges and barristers in courts of law.

  • @SongBillong
    @SongBillong 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He's obviously heard that women like funny blokes, but he's trying too hard. Seems like a nice fella, though. She's clearly very self-absorbed.

  • @sigma8995
    @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Gents, this response at 8:45 is NOT what you want to see when dating a girl. It's the response of a girl who has low interest level in you. She should have a burning desire and say, "DEFINITELY!"
    In the end, she reveals her low interest again with the hesitation. Although she says yes, her unspoken language says no. Listen to the latter.
    In situations like this, the guy just need to step it up and next the girl. Find another one to date to save him time, heartache and potential trouble down the line.

    • @aron.gortman
      @aron.gortman ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Or being a kiwi the women should say "DEEEEFINITELEEEEY"

    • @ITzzDecort
      @ITzzDecort ปีที่แล้ว +9

      her body language from the start was screaming "NOOOOOOOOOOOO"

    • @goldengalsclazy
      @goldengalsclazy ปีที่แล้ว +6

      he ended up dating a colleague at his work..

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@goldengalsclazy As he should.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aron.gortman Too funny. I watch FD enough to actually hear the kiwi accent.

  • @vambo13257
    @vambo13257 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This guy is creepy af

  • @JB-hb7fd
    @JB-hb7fd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What's with her posing like shes in a photo shoot 🤣 SO CRINGE

  • @spiritedaway99
    @spiritedaway99 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    they're both sooo lame omg,great match

  • @jessicamoceri3308
    @jessicamoceri3308 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So cringe!!!
    First Date UK is so much better!

  • @deborahstevens9587
    @deborahstevens9587 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's their acting debut.

  • @unnadud9114
    @unnadud9114 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    she doesn't have blue eyes

  • @martarousselet6432
    @martarousselet6432 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I found him sweet and good looking. Normal to be nervous, especially when on camera and when on a date with a perceived attractive person.

  • @darkerbinding6933
    @darkerbinding6933 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Arna, this is a lesson in "you snooze, you lose". Too often women think they are in the driver's seat but fail to realize that good men are in high demand. Better luck next time... don't pause.

    • @jay-lm4we
      @jay-lm4we 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good men? The poor chat is a few sandwiches short of a picnic

  • @CarolineMosesComedy
    @CarolineMosesComedy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I see a lot of similarities in myself with the guy. I tend to have major trouble with blurting out the first thing that comes to my mind, which is often a crude joke, and I also have trouble identifying the time and place for said jokes. I hope to take this as a learning opportunity.

  • @dynamicforce8051
    @dynamicforce8051 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Why th does she behave like someone on the side streets at 3am?? Even while she’s sitting at the bar not talking to anyone! Jeez lady give it a break 🤮

    • @MaverickLee11
      @MaverickLee11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      either that or she on OF

  • @terminallyonline280
    @terminallyonline280 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I thought they hit it off. maybe I'm clueless

  • @fatcatontario
    @fatcatontario ปีที่แล้ว +9

    After seeing quite a few of these dates and based on my experience it is safe to assume that if a man likes you he will insist on paying. Anyone who wants to split are not interested. As I've thought.

    • @moeezS
      @moeezS 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Disagree. Full pay or splitting isn't an indicator of interest to me. I split with my wife when it was dinner dates, and fully paid when it was coffee dates. Some people like conservative gender roles, so they want a man to fully pay but doesn't mean they're into the guy necessarily. But if you're progressive and believe in gender equality, you will be fine with splitting.

  • @Johnny.bar99
    @Johnny.bar99 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    he's 32?!

  • @zenguidancetarot
    @zenguidancetarot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ughh.. decent guy.. she's level 10 annoying

  • @Skeezer66
    @Skeezer66 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    At least they were both over 22! That said, is she REALLY only a bartender? The way she posed, and 'dropped her napkin', it felt like she's used to using her looks to get attention, maybe a stripper? There are people who 'frown' on that, so I can understand her not telling. Were they a match? LMAO!!!! Of course not!!

  • @julesnorton2138
    @julesnorton2138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    it might just be me. but if i knew I wasn't going to be going on a second date, there is no way I'd let the man pay the whole bill. 50/50 all the way

  • @genebigs1749
    @genebigs1749 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She is physically attractive, but she knows it and acts a little superior. He's a bit juvenile and talks like a robot. Not a good match. She needs a take charge kind of alpha male to knock her down a few pegs.

  • @sparra3819
    @sparra3819 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In terms of looks, I found them to be a really good match. I rather agree, she could turn down the posing, but it does match her flirty personality. And, well, he ruined dessert, just saying..

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Funnily enough when a woman states the specifics he said hair eyes strangely most guys criticize her.

  • @elcristoph7380
    @elcristoph7380 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wouldn't be keen on seeing her again..

  • @zacatkinson3926
    @zacatkinson3926 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    26 ?she looks 36

  • @Dutchmadness1
    @Dutchmadness1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just tell them you are filthy rich and watch what happens.

  • @cliveargyle5237
    @cliveargyle5237 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome to New Zealand.

  • @berenicehickey9755
    @berenicehickey9755 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She needs to relax.

  • @michelleroselilley4637
    @michelleroselilley4637 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Is she truly 26? 😶

  • @SteganDaMallion
    @SteganDaMallion ปีที่แล้ว +8

    His voice is dry….

  • @bobiden2859
    @bobiden2859 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how his farts are so loud the audio distorts, dude is a walking propane tank..

  • @lilywilde3955
    @lilywilde3955 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's the year 2023, split the freaking bill!!!!!!

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When are we going to see a successful First Date New Zealand episode again? Really, I am getting quite frustrated by the number of episodes lately that are duds in the end, that don't lead anywhere! Can't the show hire a professional matchmaker who can accurately match compatible people, who are both genuinely looking for a serious relationship? Is it really that difficult to do? Or is the problem fundamentally that this is at its core a reality TV show whose main (or sole?) purpose is entertainment and high ratings? (Side note: I found the woman to be very hot in her tight dress and all dolled up with her hair and makeup. I may have to emigrate to New Zealand from Canada, if all the kiwi women look at least this good! The guy was ok, with a sense of humour that probably puts off a lot of people, but can be a total winner with someone who appreciates his jokes.)

    • @MaverickLee11
      @MaverickLee11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its because negativity sells sadly and people want to be entertained

  • @tracyleekley1353
    @tracyleekley1353 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Jamie - I would love to give you a makeover:
    redo your teeth (braces, whitening, etc),
    different haircut,
    change up wardrobe,
    3 months of weekly therapy to rev up his confidence level, and he could be a real hunk.

  • @raymondmuller6072
    @raymondmuller6072 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why are these Kiwis so awkward? Darn it must be difficult to have a conversation with any of them. I think its living amongst all those sheep that does it !

  • @eijonasson
    @eijonasson 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The silly faces she keeps pulling is questionable behavior.

  • @thecoldhardtruth1390
    @thecoldhardtruth1390 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i guess someone likes awkward dates then

  • @beckymaggie4606
    @beckymaggie4606 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She's so pretentious

  • @berenicehickey9755
    @berenicehickey9755 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is much prettier without makeup...

  • @harrysaladfingers1515
    @harrysaladfingers1515 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    oh i fell-
    ~excellent 💅🏻

  • @briannakisisa5636
    @briannakisisa5636 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He had me 13sec in, hahe

  • @karenstieglitz3443
    @karenstieglitz3443 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't understand why people take so long to either commit to a second date or decline. So immature, and downright cruel to your date. Grow up, be a gentleman or a lady, make up your mind, and answer definitively! Jeez!

  • @jaumepp1975
    @jaumepp1975 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a beautiful and charming lady!

  • @manilkasheran2934
    @manilkasheran2934 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She looks and acts like the mistress he is cheating on his wife with!

  • @CharlieParadise
    @CharlieParadise 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It seems like the woman interviewed at the beginning is a totally different one to the poser that struts into the restaurant… what happened?? Also, he seems to speak at about half speed to anyone i’ve ever heard!

  • @thebrinksf69
    @thebrinksf69 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good for Jamie. She was just going to say no.

  • @annajames9682
    @annajames9682 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That was disgusting

  • @asavannah7439
    @asavannah7439 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They’re both pretending to be something they’re not. Very awkward to watch

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They both gave me the creepy sick vibes.

  • @deerheart87
    @deerheart87 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She looks good

  • @Vyrkgrl
    @Vyrkgrl หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why so much issue with her?
    He just kept talking and talking and talking and talking.

  • @annecoll5140
    @annecoll5140 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I can’t watch it’s painfully awkward! 🤔

  • @Eveedeans33
    @Eveedeans33 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can’t watch her omg😂

  • @MissMilly321
    @MissMilly321 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    do you all see the big bruise on her knee at 9:35 wonder what that can mean 🤔

  • @metime4325
    @metime4325 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's too charming for such a guy who makes dirty jokes.

  • @pcharm3711
    @pcharm3711 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cringe with all the bad jokes. 😮

  • @stevemorse108
    @stevemorse108 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is gorgeous.What off color jokes to tell a beautiful young lady a fortiori on a first date. His height seems to have outweighed this handicap.

  • @americanlostinvietnam3721
    @americanlostinvietnam3721 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dark hair and dark lipstick? Yikes

  • @CraigMansfield
    @CraigMansfield 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't like the look of him from the outset. Wrongun alarms

  • @junelee5975
    @junelee5975 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    seems there are many tall guys in NZ.

    • @TomNook.
      @TomNook. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ...who apply for First Dates

  • @Freelythoughtful
    @Freelythoughtful ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im ashamed to be a nzer, the dates have been awful, the people shallow or with questiinable character trraits 🫣