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0:50 Holt sheite mate. That's some next level genocide. Literally Third Reich's wettest dream right there 👆 Animalistic vengeance as detached from civil society as humans can get. Ancestry's membership in some country affecting dating advice is as valid as some ancestor banging a donkey invalidating one's driving skills. Reality has become a dream where the ABSOLUTE state of alternative reality some people operate on shows more about themselves than those they point their finger at. Bonkers.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created.
This girl told me she had been with 24 dudes. I must say, she was upfront and seemed to be honest, no hesitance. But my whole view of her changed. In football terms, that's the entire defense, offense, head coach and the water boy.
I was dating this girl and she said “idk… like 100-120?” With no hesitation whatsoever! And all of that was in the span of 2 years as she claims she had boyfriends for a total of 4 years and she was sexually active for 6.
#2 and #3 ... doesn't apply if you leave the country (which I've known many guys to do, even sending their ex's messages after they've left stating that the woman won't receive a dime from him.)
Bingo. Be extremely careful. I’ve come across some extremely covert manipulative women. Who got a roster longer than a football team over a 10 year period. Seriously. They can be downright dangerous.
This is exactly why most people used to get married and start a life together in their early twenties. Nobody wants to marry someone who has been getting run through for 15-20 years by various people.
Amazing how men's advice to each other is centered around self-improvement while women's advice is about dodging accountability. Seriously, look at what they're _against:_ prenups, paternity tests, notch count revelation, explaining why they keep picking Chads/Tyrone's... Also, imagine if a man wrote a self-help article on how ways a men can hide their true financial status?
That’s easy, just dress cheap but clean... Wear K-Mart or Walmart drip... use cheap beaters for cars... and never splurge on dates... it makes you seem poor/like a tightass. Helps you avoid cancerous people... or keep you single (fuck it’s great being single)
Had a chick tell me that she was sleeping with a guy she knew was married but she said "It's not MY bad...IM not the one who's married".....and I was like DAMN that's rationalizing shitty actions 101
To be fair, she wasn’t the one that made a promise to the wife, he did. So that’s on him, not her. It’s still ethically debatable, but I’ve been with enough married women and also think, well if it’s not me, it’ll be some other guy. Moral of the story, just don’t bother getting married
I dumped a woman once because she said "um, I dunno, 12 or 15" It wasn't just the number, it's because she knew it was bad and couldn't just be straight up. Here's the door.
12-15 actually isn’t that much these days and that’s what’s sad. To us men it makes us feel sick but the problem is man it’s what you have to expect these days unless you get lucky. Believe me with your chick is hot, she’s played her cards and been around.
The worst ones are the best at manipulating. Be extremely extremely careful!! Especially if you have saved it for a special someone. Some of these woman are so good at hiding it. It’s actually scary.
Hoho... I'm a very observant and lean back type of guy because i don't dig all this non-sense whit casual ho ok ups and stuff. I'm a guy that's secure enough in himself so i don't need validation from seggs like other guys and as well i don't like to be that intimate w a mare stranger.... Been whit few Girls here and there which i regret till this day. I even had a 2 year RelationShip, best Girl ever. Unfortunately didn't work out.That Girl was, i don't have words to describe her. Compared whit these muppets nowadays. She was Heaven. For sure all Womens which been ran thro ugh are mentally and emotionally unstable and they lack any kind of shame and empaty because they are jaded. As well they are very idk how to say, they have a very strange energy around them which raise ur anxiety lvls. Always acting suspicious, and dishonest. They keep they're whole persona as a mistery. They don't talk much about themself, only if they are asked. From age of idk 23 maybe. Always when a Girl showed interest in me in a place where we would see eachoter often. For example Uni or Work.. I would just lean back. Let them show me how they move. I will just specify. A Women whit a hb usually does these. 24/7 male attention and validation. Has multiple male "friends". Very good at manipulating and always but always they are a social butterfly(the list is way longer). Smily and flirty whit everyone around them, so you can't see they're really f up personality, but when you unmask them... Like a monster, is easy to do that, don't give them what they want.Had this Girl at work... When she first come, seen her few times, didn't pay attention to her. Time passed by and we start working close to eachother due to the fact that she start putting herself in my area. She would give me the intense eye contact and smiles and touched me few times on the arm. She would act like an Angel around me. After 1 week from when she got in my radar, i asked her out. We start sleeping together after like 1 week from when we first went out. She was very closed, almost looking like shy. Was not that, she was just hiding who she was. I caught fast on it. Around 2 weeks in... I started pushing her buttons. Not calling/talking/ not cuddleing after seggs. She went mentaI and let her true colours out. Stayed w her another 3 weeks maybe then i cut it lose. I was in my head, maybe i been to harsh and so on. My gut feeling always told me that smth is wrong about her. In a spawn of 8 months she banged w another 7 coworkers, mean while she would trie to get back w me. I deleted her existance from the first day when i let her go. At work i would act like she ain't there. She tried to trigger me few times, didn't work out, but boy.😂 Made my life a living hell, could care less anyway.For me is just crazy how damaged they have to be to just let almost anybody clap em che eks. I seen dudes like this as well. Even for us Men is damagind to sleep around. But we as Men don't get conquered and in a lot of cases seggsually humiliated.... Guys that are players usually are gettin they're nutt thru humiliating seggs because they themself are damaged as well most likely they're heart been broken so now they take revenge on any Women that falls for them... These Womens that go thru all that, specially if is they're first, will associate that whit normal and maybe even pleasure due to the fact that they are traumatised in that process... This is how you get in this mess whit Womens that gettin like 100+ bodies by age of 25-30 and they are soul less. Is really sad what is currently happening. As well damaged Womens encourage other non damaged Women in such behaviour. Telling them how cool it is, how smart they are that they are players and so on... Is really f up.
You hit on a good point about how girls who lose their virginity at a very young age are quite often crazy and mentally damaged (unless they married their high-school sweetheart and lived happily ever after). Every girl I know who lost her virginity at age 15 or younger was messed up and unable to stay loyal and viewed our relationship as a transaction. Because they've been with so many men that now they view men as a means to getting free stuff as opposed to looking for true love and a life together.
I would agree with most of what you said except the 'true love' part. Women never seek 'true love' - quite frankly, I don't believe there is such a thing. Romantic love in a relationship has only become mainstream in the past 50 years. Men and woman 'love' differently and if we are talking about an idealistic love, one that is built upon loyalty and trust, well that is actually what guys want in a women, not vice versa. Women only love conditionally...it has and will always be that way...of course there may be exceptions.
@@user-ku7pm9zv4m Although there is much truth in what you said, you also added that there may be exceptions at the end of your comment. My wife, who I am now separated from, was a virgin when I met her. When we met I was only working a minimum wage job, but she didn't care. She dated me and we fell in love and got married. She was always doing cute and romantic things for me, like writing messages on a blackboard for me like, "Dear Matthew, I love you so much. You are my only reason for being alive." And she would clean our apartment and cook my dinner when I got home from work each evening. We fought a lot later on though. Because she wanted a lot of love and attention and I was totally worn out from working my miserable job, and when she'd complain I would snap at her. She left me in January, and it's sad that she's gone, and I know that had I had more energy and a less stressful job I would have been able to give her the love and affection she needed from me. She said after the first time we had sex that I would be her "first and last" man she would be with. It's heartbreaking that we parted ways.
I've never heard anybody ever use the phrase "being creative with the truth," which is probably the most childish way to avoid saying "I'm telling a lie"
Women have a complicated relationship with the truth, in that they care more about their feelings, their reputation and the overall feeling of contentment through the use of self-delusion, far more than the truth. (edited)
It’s usually “withholding” the information they don’t want you to know. If they don’t tell you because you will get mad, they were doing something wrong. Withholding is the same as a lie in my book. Women will be “creative with the truth”, and men will “make a boring story more interesting”!
The entire article Rich referenced was just about lying. #1 was to ask a guy about his count, but every point after that was a variation on how to lie.
Seriously, but then they manipulated institutions to give them free scholarships and job positions purely for being a woman... So they even have an unfair advantage
Yea but this is why we win in the end. They get old and lose their primary value, meanwhile we only increase our value with age. Their only hope is in swindling us into marriage.
Having 304 phase, children outside marriage with random strangers, one night stands completely disqualifies a woman from HVM. Women want a man with discipline when she maintained no discipline in her life.
I am continuously surprised at how good women are at leaving out important information in their communication. If they didn't say it, does NOT mean they didn't do it.
Broke up with my ex over her body count and the lies she made around it. she started with 4... then 9, the 15, ended up saying it was 30. She said she thought i meant "how many boyfriends?" not "how many times you f*cked". So she blamed it on misunderstanding and me being worried about other guys shes been with... never took any accountability
Met someone who was incredibly compatible on every level, intelligence, spiritual and physical attractiveness but when I found out that she is casually seeing someone until she finds someone who is marriage material it suddenly completely turned me off. I thought, if she wanted a man who is marriage material why is she wasting time with this other man. Filling the void with someone until you find “the one” is such a turn off. Both men and women should be more sexually selective and disciplined but I was shocked how turned off I was by this woman when she revealed to me her dating/ sexual strategy. All the other qualities went out the window.
Are you watching the trial on Fox right now? I've never seen a Johnny Depp movie in my life, never really interested, but got hooked quickly within minutes watching it today. Fox News is carrying it. It's worth watching!
Never never divulge your notch count to a woman. As far as theirs go, you can infer based on how strong their relationship is with their father and how many tattoos they have.
@@farqfarq2225 🤣🤣🤣 if you find a NICE chick who is good looking and only has 3 bodies to her name and you like her alot... You have all of our permission to marry her cause she is def a 🦄 in 2022....
My husband had a roommate in college (he was a dude) who lied about his body count. The girl he was seeing was a virgin, waiting for marriage and expected the same behavior from him. He had slept with a previous fiancée and then immediately dumped her. I was buddies with my husband’s other roommates and then we all discovered what this one roommate was doing. We confronted him because he was now engaged to her and still lying. We gave him two days to tell her or we would. So he told her, and the relationship didn’t immediately fall apart but that was the beginning of the end. The core of the issue is lying and securing a person under false pretenses. Encouraging dishonesty of this level is just evil.
He should have been straight up, because the vast majority of women don’t consider body count as a deal breaker, which is correct. Stats have shown that a body count of three or more for women absolutely ranks their odds of maintaining a stable marriage. For men, there doesn’t seem to be a statistical correlation between body count and divorce rate. One example is that my body count is five, and my wife’s is two, including me. Statistically our marriage should not be negatively affected by those counts. If it was reversed, we’d likely be divorced already, or never married at all.
@@americandissident9062There is a statistical correlation for men as well, it is in the exact same studies. Men on average are affected by body count 5-10% less than women, which is peanuts of a difference. Any educated on this matter woman, who is interested in a long stable relationship, will never get into a relationship with a man who has a high body count, but fortunately for men overwhelming majority of women have no idea.
@@bazyl3357 5-10 percent is not peanuts, first of all. It would show the existence of some very specific differences in the male and female outlook. Second, I still have not see the correlation proven for men. I’d assumed that as long as we aren’t talking about men with 500 bodies, there is no correlation. A woman with 3 bodies and a man with 8, the studies show the women with 3 is going to end up divorced.
Something crazy to me is that these woman will not count one night stands and sometimes on a more extreme level won’t count the men if they used a condom with them. This video is 100% truth
@@Muy_chingon the initial number changes after u keep poking and prodding. "Those 5 guys didn't count, it was only a bj!" "This guy didn't count, he didn't even finish inside me!"
A woman with a high body count is like driving a rental car. 100's of other people have had fun driving it. You're going to have fun driving it, but you're damn sure not going to buy it when it comes up for "sale."
This video has pretty much nailed it for me. I caught my ex with her new partner at her home when I was dropping our 5 year old daughter off at her home. She was trying to get him out of her house as quickly as she could in her car. She basically took no responsibility and made every excuse for her behaviour. Then…her mother tried to do the same for her! Toxic role modelling, no values, poor parenting and poisonous environments all contribute to this nonsense. ‘Always offended but never ashamed’.
a women will die before speaking truth ever. believe your instincts. This is how female speacy has been surviving from ancient times. deceiving and playing victim is in her DNA
@@MrTimjm009 immediate red flag. They can only ho so much in their area before everyone knows her tricks and reputation. Like the snake oil salesman that moves to a new town when everyone buys his useless product and comes after him with pitchforks.
That strategy is not efficient and they don’t have to cross towns to bang more men. They simply tell you ambiguous stuff like “Oh, I hate these guys that send me DMS on IG” or one way or the other lets you know by her actions that she likes attention from men.
My wife was a virgen when I met her🙌 . I was 26 she was 22 with a very good conservative family. I’m 34 and we’re happily married. My advice for young men is that when you are finally ready to settle down think of women the way you would think of buying a car. How many miles? How many previous owners? It’s best to get a brand new car than a beat up used one.
Problem is most girls are starting younger, and younger. Some in JR. High. It is much harder to find a virgin then it was in the past. Most of the cars are used by the time they are marriage age. Finding a virgin who is marriage age is like finding a unicorn.
God damn, this video is such an EYE OPENER to my younger self. My first gf (now ex gf, of course) had a promiscuous past and she told me about it, and i was ok with this because i never had a gf before and i was lonely as fuck. Don't ignore this red flags, fellas.
The first generation of true hosebags are now in old folks homes. It dawned on me, while visiting an old family friend in a home, there must be a certain percentage of real teeth out, choking on wood, deep throaters in this building. As I walked through I chuckled as I tried to discern which ones had new knees from being on them so often, years ago.
Even Marcus Aurelius writes in his "Meditations" something along the line off "Thank God I didn't lose my virginity too early" I'm not against young people having sex, but it tends to leave scars for many, specially for women where it becomes a destructive thing.
The funny part is that none of this will really work against a guy who is paying attention. Even if you brief your friends, they can't really be expected to know every single lie you've told so discrepancies and gaps will quickly appear. It will be even more fragile if the guy actually is looking for this information, finding gaps, and inquiring about them. And then you have a women who is doesn't just have a bad past, but a monstrous present as she's actively manipulating you. Pay attention and don't be a victim.
Well it's not quite THAT bad, but the number is almost always (much) higher. Unless she's one of those who are somehow proud of it (as if it was difficult for any woman who isn't downright hideous) in which case you'll already get a (often shockingly) high number to begin with.
If she claims shes dated a bunch of abusive men in her past that speaks more about her ability to judge character and the drama she brings that it does about the purported abusers....next
It's another lack of accountability thing. When she doesn't get her way, or someone doesn't put up with her shit, it's abuse. If your dating her, you'll be next on that list for sure.
Im going through this with my girlfriend of 9 months i just discovered she had been lying about being with only her ex for 17 years. I should have known it was too good to be true. I looked at her social media at the beginning to see if there were any red flags and there were just in another way. She posted only wholesome things on her wall but her real activity was the things she commented on and liked that were very sexual in nature. It was always very specific accounts she would comment on. And it just so happens those specific accounts were the ones she had encounters with. Always trust your gut fellas. The notch count is always up there with females like this
Rich absolutely nailed it. Women know that high body counts are unappealing which is why they conceal or lie about it. If you know it's bad, maybe avoid having a high body count?
But then they can’t fill a void they refuse to address and will receive less dopamine and “tea” from their friends, which is the worst thing for a hypersocial 304
As a newly single dad whose ex has a past so disgraceful i can barely think about it without puking in my mouth, this video really hits home and shines light on the huge mistake i made years ago by giving her a chance! I have ausbscribed!
We men have to not settle for less by vetting women better... A only date foreign women who B are Virgins, and only court C through respectable families And the solution to send the message to these whhores, potential whhores, and deluded sluts is... X insist sex only after marriage, n blood on sheet hymen6 broke Y only date 18to 29yr holds who are spiritual, faith based upbringing, with intelligence Z never date a women unless met n seen her friends conduct behaviour lifestyle
I don’t ask wamen about their sexual past. Why? You’re only get one of two things: a lie or you’re gonna hear some shit you don’t want to hear. I’ll never remarry so I just assume they’ve all been run through even if they haven’t and treat them accordingly. Probably bad advice but I don’t plan on remarrying. Ever.
This! I basically tell young dudes this all the time. Most guys have no clue how much women get around these days. 90% of single chicks over 25 are in double digits. And the 10% that aren't are either moonlighting at sea world or have a guy wish list a mile long. Ideally, I would be happy with a chick under 20. Even that's pretty hard to find.
I agree, most would make it seem like they have only had 1 or 2 previous partners so they don’t sound like a 304. And hopefully you will see them as more valuable. Guaranteed if they do give you a number it will be higher than you expected.
@Endless Nameless 200!?? And you're acting like her lawyer talking her up..look getting laid as a woman is easy but i don't think the majority are at triple digits. Guys, feel free to correct me if you think that's not the case!
A person's past is very important, it's not 'nothing'. What you are is a result of the interactions of all the people so far. And sex is a very powerful interaction.
Yes but people learn,change and mature. If they are honest and talking about their mistakes with relationship details and what they have learned that means a lot to me. I was married a long time and had to save my life by leaving. This is all so new to me. Seeing someone I like very very much. Tried sex with her once and it was like I was talking one language and she was talking another language. We are ok and of course are going to figure it out but me being with one woman for so long is making the transition hard.
I was with a hot brunette for 2 years and literally knew nothing about her past. She never mentioned anything. Was so weird I tried asking but she was so defensive about it. I’m so glad we’re not together anymore she had bags of issues and I should have left it at the beginning. You live and you learn.
Tbh majority of women get defensive over that because they know it's wrong what they have done lol...no need to be literally whores my friend@@rhuiden4086
I once had a FWB type of "friendship" and that girl had a huge number of past dudes (no surprise sex was great) and while we're meeting occasionally, she started and finished two "relationships". Once they cross the line, there is no way back!
There is something wrong with her. Like maybe sexual or emotional abuse... Otherwise she wouldn’t feel this deviant need to have sex with multiple men. Probably some daddy issues, which scrambled her brains into thinking that sexual attention = love.
I'm listening to all these women's confesions and i am literally sick to my guts. I am really concirn over my sons' future in this perspective. Keep up this work, thank you and cheers from Russia
Eastern European women actually possess some critical thinking skills on average and are more traditional minded. If I had to do it all over, I'd have gotten a passport in my early twenties and made a live outside the "west".
Are mainstream Russian women also westernized? Is prostitution widespread in Russia? Is it possible to find a good wife in Russia? Or only among Old Believer communities? What about other Slavic countries, Servia maybe? I'm asking because I am Russian by blood but I have never lived in Russia ever.
Fortunately for you, this is only in the West where this is being instigated. However in the East, you could help find your sons some women and perhaps assign them a marriage, and they might thank you later. The East is loaded in wisdom, and the West is loaded in hoes. Но оставайтесь сильным, всё будет хорошо!
@@kabilo5072 lol. You sure? I’ve seen at least 2-3 other people with my pfp so it could be them. But yeah I do watch Young Don. He just started posting again
Not gonna lie, I’m just focused on myself and my career. But sometimes I’ll hop on YT and watch these videos again to remember why I threw away women and relationships behind. Needless to say I’m not regretting a thing. These women will do everything but be good human beings. It’s gotten to the point where it’s just sad, like it’s pathetic how they can just wake up each day and build a life of lies just to salvage some face. I look at women these days and wonder to myself how they can even function with all that nonsense
You don't need to remove them from your life completely. Just don't make them a priority. When you have spare time, shoot your shot, if in that time someone appears, try to pump and dump asp, and then return to your priorities. Spend only bare minimum with the date or hookup. Me, maximum I'll spend are a couple of drinks (regular ones, not fancy), cheap hotel or motel or if theres an evening in house I'll buy the groceries or I'll see if she buys them and I cook. Everything else is on their dime.
I ended up in a relationship with a woman who told me her " cheating" ended her marriage..... She didn't tell me it was with hundreds of men..... I have felt like a fool since and have NO trust or actual interest in women since...
American Pie said it best: Any number a girl gives, multiply by 3 and that's the real number. Any number a guy gives, divide by 3 and that's the real number.
Yikes. These modern women. Yikes. Virgin while married. Rocking sex life with my husband. So glad I follow Christ and not the crappy ways of this world.
Unreal. I've seen this organized deception firsthand with my ex and her friends, now they're just saying the quiet part out loud on the internet. Never, ever had a male friend ask me to prop up their lying b.s. like that.
Women will easily lie and deceive for each other. Its like a compulsion they have. I've been on the receiving end plenty of times whether it be their friends or female family members. I've never had a male friend ask me to straight up lie to their partner. The closest thing I've experienced is being asked to not say anything about something that happened. That's very different compared to coming up with a mutually concocted plan to deceive a person. That's some next level sociopath shit right there. Exactly what I'd expect from a gaggle of broads.
Guys look at a woman's social media, all of it. There will be many clues to what happened in her past. The older the woman, the more problems there will be with this. This is actually an argument to support getting married young.
It just amazing how far they are willing to go with this way, just to hide how many times they get pumped. So, they know they are not good, and they know they will be rejected because of this past, Fantastic.
1. The turn off the social media; 2. They move from their old place to avoid the people who know them; 3. They have friends who protect them by keeping it secret;
Totally agree. High body count is unacceptable. I always make sure to ask within the first 3 dates, or soon after smashing; whichever comes first. This one may go long but I’ll share how I go about acquiring this info. Even before you ask, there are indicators that her body count is likely high. Having many guy friends, lifestyle (ie.partying, drinking, trips, etc posted to her socials), age, occupation, & appearance, for example. PREFACE: if she’s hesitant to answer ANY of the following questions, you can assume her body count is higher than you’ll be comfortable with, and that she’s accustomed to hiding that & other info from guys. Also, don’t ask these in rapid-fire succession because she’ll realize what you’re getting at. Pepper them throughout the date or even - better yet - over the course of different conversations. This’ll arouse the least suspicion. Firstly, I’ll disclose to her when my last relationship ended, then ask how many long term relationships she’s been in. (Girls are more comfortable sharing if you share first. Makes it feel less like an interrogation). It seems innocent enough but this’ll give you the baseline of her body count. If she’s had 5 long terms relationships that’s at least 5 bodies. Later on in the convo. (& This next Q is usually the kicker). I’ll make a phony story about a friend who’s only ever dated women of “X” ethnicity, which is something I find weird. She’ll naturally agree, to which I’ll ask “so like aside from the long term relationships you mentioned, what ethnicities have you dated? And we won’t count just 1-2 dates.*smile* (keep it light) Let’s say dated for more than a 2 months”. Girls put out well before 2 months of dating, but this’ll give you the “for sures”. Add this number to the long term relationship count. The third question: “out of curiosity, do you care about a guy’s body count?” Her answer’s irrelevant, but she’ll like follow up with “..but it shouldn’t matter.” You say “I agree” to her statement then say “I do find that I have better physical chemistry with women who are more sexually experienced”. You’re obvi baiting her here. You then ask “how many guys have you had sex with?”. She may turn it around on you first, so if she does, I’d say something in the high 30’s. (Obvi make the number believable based on what she may already know about you). If whatever answer she gives is less than the number you’ve calculated based on the previous 2 questions above, she’s lying & the TRUE number is rly high and you’ll never know it. I’ve used this technique several times without fail. Like I said, for best results, ask the questions over the course of afew different convos to arouse the least suspicion. But as rich has also said, whatever number you DO get will be underestimated by a factor of two, so double it, at the least.
@@TGP109 He says that he asks about body count no later than 3rd date, or after smashing if that comes first and if it does, it's honestly all you need to know that the number is HIGH and she won't be a long term material.
There is one thing that tells you everything and they are not able to hide: a womans age. A 25+ "single" woman hasnt just been knitting the last 7 years
I find that most women will spontaneously tell you their true notch count if you don't give her a judgemental vibe on female promiscuity. Just let her talk and tell her stories, don't make her feel ashamed.
Nonsense. How would you even verify that she's being completely honest? They will match energies, yes, but they have a genuine vested interest in downplaying their body count. It's hardwired into their operating firmware by evolution.
A leopard never changes it’s spots, it’s easy to see the lies when you confront your G/F about this, you will also know the answer by her words and actions over time.
I'm beginning to understand why some cultures minimize the role of women. It like they reached a dire point and realized that women lack self-control and other qualities like honestly and responsibility. To preserve their culture, they had no choice but to limit their involvement in important social matters.
Part of the Chad chasing cycle, is to make a girls friends jealous, envious or impressed, even when they know it is damaging to themselves personally... the validation from girlfriends negative or positive is of huge value to women that go down this path. Playing with Chad is worth a lot of hypothetical imaginary points, marrying a Chad is worth the most, settling down with a rich loser worth this.... they even get friend validation for the the "I acted so freakin' crazy and he still didn't kick me out" episode... You think they are crazy when they do this.,.. its done with full intentions sometimes to test you, sometimes just to make you angry but ALWAYS so they can tell their girlfriends and have a laugh and feel better from the validation and man hate..
bro they are so competitive with each other its crazy. Some chicks will fuck their friends boy friends just to feel like "yeah thats right he picked me over you"
Knowledge is power. This Is why the backdoor to electronics are used. Just go see for yourself and keep quiet or have a desperate prostitute do it. They are always down for a home invasion. It's wrong AF.
Regarding the sisterhood thing, even my own mother sided with ex-girlfriends and my ex-wife, and betrayed me. Not only is there no brotherhood of men but men (unplugged alphas excepted) will usually side with women and betray each other, even when she’s blatantly in the wrong and there’s no evidence of his wrongdoing. It’s the white knight syndrome or they’re hoping they’ll get between her legs.
Happened to me too. On some level I think mother saw something in that girl that reminded her of when she was young. She could relate to her so she defended her as if reliving her own past through her. It's true..
My mom and sister turned on me too and sided with my two ex wives so when they came to me about men doing them wrong wanting me to do something I took the man's side and asked them what they did to cause the man to react how he did. They got BIG mad at me and couldn't believe I was taking his side. They don't come to me anymore and I don't introduce my girlfriends to them anymore.
I’d break off the relationship quicker by hiding things from me before I’d break it off by having a higher body count. If you violate my trust by hiding things then I can’t be with you. If the trust isn’t there then we have nothing.
Yup. It's current era and the only virgins are still drinking from sippy cups. The hymen has no bearing on whether a female will bring chaos or contentment to your house. It's a better decision to find a woman who knows that sex is transactional and that if she wants the benefits then she's got to put in the work.
@@AotO_DJ thanks for that amazing insight! Now women will lower their standards to meet your delusional opinion. Either you accept that hypergamy is a natural phenomena or you get robbed by a hypergamist woman. Sex is 100% transactional. Would you feel cheated if the woman you were banging stopped you just before you nutted and said that she's done? Just because under ideal situations, sex is mutually rewarding, does not make it any less transactional. Just look at all the money most guys waste trying to get sex. So put away that incel thinking and start looking at women like stock portfolios. Either they're going to mature and enrich you or they're going to crash and take your finances down with them. 😂
My ex girlfriend legit told me without hesitation “ummm 100-120? Idk not that many… just average for someone at 25” I lost my shit man… the way she downplayed it too… Apparently she accumulated all those bodies in just 2 years. She claims she was in relationships for a total of 4 years and sexually active for 6. She said that most of those guys were 1 night stands, just guys she’d meet at the bar or the club. It was hard to respect her after that honestly. Like this girl was sleeping with more than 1 new guy a week. Sometimes already sleeping with 3-4 guys a week then meeting a new one on the weekend to add to the rotation. I honestly felt disgusted to my core and she shamed me for feeling the way I felt and said that I was insecure and a misogynist. When we would be out in public she would often say hi to her ex hookups with zero hesitation. Go hug them and talk to them then introduce me as her boyfriend… Yea I never felt more disrespected in my life and I never will allow myself to put myself in a situation like that again.
yup, it's incredible how many women can rack up that body count. Dated a girl like that some time ago. She looked super sweet but admitted she was hitting the bars since she was 16, fucking guys left and right for 8 years straight, traveled and bit and also fucked around. I acted unfazed and jokingly said she must have had a body count of upward 100, but she was comfortable enough with me to say "I guess it's more than that, never really counted that kind of thing". A week later I ghosted her. Not dealing with a woman with that kind of mileage.
Dude, I almost went out with a woman who revealed to me that since age 15, she started going to clubs with her girlfriend (she lived with her father who gave her a lot of freedom), she was quite attractive so very easy to get picked up, she said she slept with 3 to 5 guys a week. She had very few steady relationships. She was around 35 when I met her, I did the math, I was stunned that she had slept with 2 to 3 THOUSAND guys. I completely lost interest, she accused me of judging her. I live in a big European city, it is so common these days with all the hookup apps for young chicks to rack up improbable numbers. It's only going to get worse and worse.
@@palerider2890 gosh damnnnb mannn that’s wildddd 😮😮😂😅 dude Naah these days chick by the time their 19 or 20 they have a body of at least 15-20 their saying for the average female at least & that’s sad for the next generation honestly man we’re doomed
I'm 50, still no kids, still never married, still live life on my terms. I'll tell you now... Do I regret it. Do i wish I'd had kids with birds when I was younger!? No! Absolutely not.
@@residentevilfreakk55When your body becomes fragile, no kids, no grandkids will visit you, you will die alone… you will be in the hospital alone after a heart attack…
@@ruin1619 a worse fate would be enduring a miserable, nagging wife for the next 50 years and still ending up in that same situation. Choose your hard.
gents, get to know these ladies and her parents really well before you invest yourself into them. a lot of us will shy away asking about uncomfortable subjects like her previous relationships, sexual history, and her relationship with her parents especially the dad. she will tell you stuff that is comfortable for her to divulge and it's up to you to piece the puzzle and detect the unspoken lies she is not telling you. if she has a lot of male orbiters and refuses to give them up, move on. these male orbiters in her life usually indicate that she didn't have strong adult figures (mainly weak dad) in her life and don't really have any guidance while she was growing up, thus producing a daughter with no guard rails and lacks value.
Red flags Ive noticed. 1.) women that often have a phone with a smashed screen, means alcoholic/irresponsible. 2.) yoga pants, but theyre not fit, sloot. 3.) women that do a lot of drugs but dont have a job (sells body for drugs) 4.) women that are vague about their past. 5) women that are criminals or hang out with criminals. 6.) Women that cant keep a job for more than a couple of months (possible mental illness). 7) women that constantly need validation. Women use their p...ssy to get it. 8) Woman raised by single mother. 9) woman that hates her father. 10) Women that cant accept when theyre wrong/argumentative. 11) Women who get angry when you ask them to do simple things for them, pass you your drink, bring ice from the kitchen and put it in your drink, simple stuff like that. 12) women who hate their family. 13) women that have large credit card debt. 14) OF account 15) huge social media presence, 16) women who are needy see 7. 17) Women that have a lot of guy friends only. 18) women that live alone. 19) women that travel or talk about travelling. 20) air hostesses or nurses.
Yesterday I spoke to a daddy's girl kinda chick. She is super feminine and is a Christian. All green flags but she opened up about her time in undergrad when she was drinking and smoking weed like there was no tomorrow. She felt selfish, depressed and empty and found God one night in her dorm room. She was raised Christian so she found God again I guess. She's 24 so this phase lasted approximately 2 years by my count. I think she is a catch by all modern standards. I think she has done far less then most girls but she did not say how many dudes she slept with during this time so that hangs over her. She will make a good wife someday but not for me, I will wait for the chick that never did lose God in the first place even if it means I must raid an Amish village to get her. Let us raise our standards men please🙏
@@josetheman239 if she tells you that she went to parties, has more guy friends than gals, and prefers guys over girls to hang out with, stay away. females are comfortable talking about how many friends, the gender ratio of her friends, and why she prefers to hang out with dude or gals. you get these info from her, it will tell you lots about her.
@@rickai9945 She doesn't have a lot of guy friends. She's the real deal man but all I'm saying is that I want more and I encourage men to also want more. If men rejected promiscuity, even for girls who had 1 week of partying, there would be zero promiscuous women in the world.
I was with this woman for a few weeks. Lost touch. Ten years later I ran into her. She stopped my in a parking lot. I didn't recognize her till she revealed her identity. She was totally emaciated and she was thin when I met her. I said what happened to you. She wouldn't reveal any information. Just wanted to say hello. I dumped her because she was promiscuous way back then. I guess it caught up with her. Glad I did what I did, when I did it.
I gave an uber ride to this sweet midwest next door neighbor looking girl going to the courthouse. She told me she was just in town to take care of her soliciting charges she picked up the las time she was here.
Oh some many do ,IV worked with so many that had such a high count if their guys found out they would walk in a flash ,nothing worse for a guy to walk into a bar , restaurant and seeing other guys smirking laughing know the girl your with was the town or city bike.
Lol my married friend was telling me how she never date me. But after she married my other friend she realized he was a dickhead. She would get drunk and start telling me how she should been with me and asking if there is hope
One of the responses from my ex wife after I've found out she was banging a few "just very close, good friends" and I should have found female friends on my own in the similar manner... wow
How ironic the same feminist talking point about glamorizing promiscuity and how it's "empowering" also pushes this article about how to hide it. You can't make this shit up.
The thing women run into is that many men don’t want to date someone who refrains from sex (waiting to get to know them well first or til marriage), which contradicts their desire for low notch count. I grew up in purity culture, so it’s hard to shake that Christian guilt even over 2 partners. I steered clear of guys who were known for sleeping around, because I always felt like they were less trustable overall, so some women are opposed to men with a high # too. The thing about purity culture is that it creates a lot of shame around sex/nudity in general whether you’re married or not, so it has unintended consequences. I’ve dated a few guys who were pushy about getting physical so I ended it…not a good fit. So, if men want the women who are selective about sex, then they need to expect that she will likely wait to sleep with you too. No harm in making sure you are a good fit before taking it further. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Good girls likely won’t just jump into bed with you right away, or at least that’s what I’ve seen over the years.
Most dudes are willing to make that compromise the issue is the duplicity how a girl can act like a virgin for her husband but a prn star for some random bad boy stranger or their bad boy ex. Women do by in large do this to men put them in two distinct categories and than lie about it so even when a dude runs into a good girl like you he has to wonder how authentic that is that your not just playing the game. Doesn't help that women actively lie about this and it's not like some innocent oh I messed up got peer pressured this is the average strategy and it's very deliberate. Dudes are just not interested in taking the risk.
That's understandable. The thing with today's women who want to settle down is they had 200 one night stands with all the Chads in 100 miles around but now they are witholding sex from their beta partners since they are not really attracted to them. That's one more reason to find out the body count of your new partner.
And u know what u got a point there I would just say that , sex for a man is like food to a degree I'm trying tosay essentially its not a negotiable, maybe u don't understand because you are not a man , but lets say he does wait , then they start having sex , u think any man wants to be waiting in a relationship for sex, once the door is open for sex it has to be consistent,he wants it all the time sometimes2,3 times a day , and when u get pregnantu think his urges go away, i get a man has to restrain himself also to not be constantly spilling his seed but , wedont wanna hear, not oh I just don't want to right now, if yàll are in a relationship , and then you see the countless stories of how girls they've done everything with everyone In the past but wants to make a good man who will wait pay for her not restraining herself, giving a good man less enthusiastic sex the man whose supposed have your back for life and he gets the scraps,,, so u think a man should wait when she's given other men sex In the same day of them meeting or u think the girl should vet better men and then give more ,,, I have an even better idea how about we arrange our sons and daughters to get married as virgins , seems to work way better for men and women
@@fredcavalcante1887 girls usually have a friend circle that they had since their teens quite often. One of them if you get to know them abit, preferably over some alcohol, could possibly rat on her past. Especially if you flirt with one of her friends and she has interest in you she will 100% rat on her.
Lemme just finger around in her vjj and look for a piece of skin before I say I do. The irony is y'all are very unfamiliar and inexperienced with a woman's reproductive organs so u wouldn't be able to find it even if u had a map of her pssy 😂
I'm a virgin and I understand why men want a virgin wife... But my opinion is if a guy wants a virgin but he's got a really high body count that's a big red flag for me... A high body count tells me a person lacks self control, doesn't wanna commit, and is more likely to cheat regardless of gender!
true, i am a 22 virgin guy and looking sround me i only see people whose values don't align with mine (both gebders). It feels isolating, alienating and I'm losing hope in finding a girl like me.
@@hattoraxu8957 It's so refreshing to see a male who wants a virgin but is a virgin himself... I just wish there was a community of virgins like us that think similarly... Do you have a discord?
Yeah, I completely agree. I think sleeping around is bad regardless of your gender. Makes people crave more, negatively compare their current partner, more likely to cheat or be unhappy in the relationship, and makes people shallow. Frankly, I kind of wish I was still a virgin, and I’ve only been with two women before.
@@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 yes i do, try searching for Hatrax113. Do you wanna talk about these things, it's ok for me. I am not a native English speaker though, just saying.
13 at 23!!!!! -> In a situation like this the best way to determine roughly the number is by how long she was single over the course of her life. If she’s had nothing but short relationships (& by that I mean 2 years or less) while she’s 30+ you can suspect that number is WELL & I mean WELL over 10. I would count at least one guy for every roughly 3 months she’s single. The only women I know with numbers as low as 2/3 have had 0 “single time” -> Perhaps dated the first guy for 5/7 years the second guy for 10+ years etc. If she’s been “dating” on/off & is 30+ that number is MINIMALLY 20+. So Long story short ask about their long-term relationships deduct those years then count 3/4 for every year she was not in a serious relationship. I would even say employ some of the tactics they use. Please make comments that lead them to believe that you’re a guy who doesn’t care about the actual number. The “shit test.” Be aware of how long it took for her to be intimate with you. Use your deductive reasoning to determine a realistic number. I would even go as far as saying tell her “oh that’s not a bad number at all” -> even when it is. Tell them you’re breaking up or ending the relationship for a different reason. This way she’ll be more likely to be comfortable expressing the real number to the next man. Just be sure to not immediately end it. Take her for a few new spins and give her back the whole “it’s me not you I’m just not ready” blah blah blah.
maybe. but, how is she any better if she is having 2 to 3 year relationships until age 30. Obviously, she has probs making a relationship works. I always think that high notch counts have something to do with her strong adult figures in her life especially the attention she receive and how strong a male figure her dad is.
Buddy who's looking for the mother of their children at age 30??? 19-22 is the age range that gives you her best years and higher chance of lower notch count.
@@rickai9945 it has more to do with her friends, I have known women who grew up with great home life's and are 304's bc their circle of friends are "living their best lives." Now they are all 30+ and absolutely miserable looking for any guy to commit. In reality they are just perpetuating the circle of misery they live with by pursuing guys who will not commit to them bc they are past their prime. Women tend to follow and if their friend group is one way they will be that way too. Not all women follow bad behavior from friends, but the ones who dont are very low statistically and outliers for a reason. Its simple if your dating a woman the first things you should vet are her friends, family life, and then her past relationships IMO.
Inevitably, in my experience, if you simply observe her behavior with some discernment without reaction but just observing .. it takes less than 3 months for the red flags to start popping up … ignoring such things is not good .. I have noticed after they think they ‘have’ you the facade drops away and the damage that has affected their personality starts showing up … in the last ‘case’ the drama queen showed up and interrogations of my “emotions” or “lack of placing her on some pedestal” really became unbearable and the insults when I had to drop having a ‘conversation’ just to feel some peace
Correct, she'll give you enough signs in 2-3 months if you're not judgmental and she doesn't actively start repressing them. The bigger problem imo is that many guys choose to ignore red flags.
"I have noticed after they think they ‘have’ you the facade drops away and the damage that has affected their personality starts showing up". Best comment and I agree. Have noticed this myself.
i wont.. but question? is rock conserts, jewerly, small tats, and piercings ALWAYS a red flag? I may be in love with a future witch, and I need to know if I need to sever this link..
Her friends are her friends not your friends , having a job that helps her being promiscuous, realestate rep always showing houses to new clients, there job aligning with there social media , friends covering for each other, minimising everything and say your over acting. Either play the same game or move on , don’t get logical by illogical behaviour.
Ya i learned this a while ago and saw the game for what it is. I date when I want to, and do what I want. Trying to find a "wife" is not a viable option in my lifestyle.
The true purpose of mentioning "abusive past relationships" is to build a barrier to further inquiry. Gentlemen will naturally be reflexively uncomfortable, asking about such past relationships.
I have to agree. Women look out for each other and there is a common understanding between them that men are the enemy. Guys look out for no.1, naturally competing against their brother man. Women (as a collective) understand this and use it to their advantage. This is why the current feminist movement has gained so much traction.
Nah. The sisterhood is just a facade for the most part. And even if it is real in some cases, tight female bondage can explode into pieces at the drop of a hat over the smallest of situations.
Yes my ex was at 13. Blames exes, older men and being assulted but she continued over her years into adulthood and 4 kids by 2 dads and 2 husbands. But not me. She said she got smart lol.
Every woman I knew who lost her V card at an early age and/or had a high notch count was always unstable and didn’t qualify for GF material. I dated women from all over the world and in my experience, western women are the hardest to date long term. The liberal view may sound nice but it’s unrealistic. My ex gf who is German and dumped me so she can live her youth in Cancun basically screwed herself since her value is decreasing and mine is increasing.
The girl I was going out with refused to take a picture with me At the top of a mountain hiking. Means, she sees me as a Backup option, not as the priority. She doesn’t even have pictures with her exfiancee. i am beginning to think they were never really engaged. She is so narcissistic that she has never been in a long term relationship. Deceive past: no pictures, lie…
If your gf wont take pictures with you, leave. If shell take pictures with you, posts somewhat regularly on social media and wont post you, leave. If youre just dating her and she wont take pictures with you, dont leave but never commit to her either
@@se7964 true, but what if you are a virgin who wants to find a real connection and see all these girls who don't take sex as seriously as you? I'm disgusted honestly and also losing hope in finding a girl whose morals align with mine.
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your friend went missing in Ukraine...
0:50 Holt sheite mate. That's some next level genocide. Literally Third Reich's wettest dream right there 👆 Animalistic vengeance as detached from civil society as humans can get. Ancestry's membership in some country affecting dating advice is as valid as some ancestor banging a donkey invalidating one's driving skills. Reality has become a dream where the ABSOLUTE state of alternative reality some people operate on shows more about themselves than those they point their finger at. Bonkers.
so true
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created.
Oh my God you have got to be kidding, you should have titled it "being happy with dysfunction", or, "the health benefits of terminal blue balls" lol
Never under estimate a woman’s ability to rationalize bad behavior and avoid all accountability
bingo!
NEVER!
Never
You can just end the sentence after "woman".
@@Tod_oMal your right women and girls
This girl told me she had been with 24 dudes. I must say, she was upfront and seemed to be honest, no hesitance. But my whole view of her changed. In football terms, that's the entire defense, offense, head coach and the water boy.
I was dating this girl and she said “idk… like 100-120?” With no hesitation whatsoever!
And all of that was in the span of 2 years as she claims she had boyfriends for a total of 4 years and she was sexually active for 6.
It depends. Sometimes number is 37. All women cheat one way or another. But not always they bring lasagna to you.
@@whizkid235 definitely for the streets. You dodged a bullet
😂😂
This has to be the funniest comment i've read in months
"If she's interested in your future, you should be interested in her past." Sage advice!
That sage must be promiscuous
yep
1) Marriage is IPO for women
2) Divorce is cashing out.
3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government
Damn what a great analogy 👌🏾
Holy shit
lmao wow, this is too good
#2 and #3 ... doesn't apply if you leave the country (which I've known many guys to do, even sending their ex's messages after they've left stating that the woman won't receive a dime from him.)
@@realismatitsfinest1 unfortunately the guy forfeits social security in the process.
Remember guys, a woman only counts guys she was in a relationship with, not hook ups, Friends with Benefits, one night stands or sex with an ex.
This is gut wrenching
Sad but true 😂
@@mini_rupsje Yeah, but they often also don't consider this cheating...
They don't even include sex with a condom lol they're ridiculous
Bingo. Be extremely careful. I’ve come across some extremely covert manipulative women. Who got a roster longer than a football team over a 10 year period. Seriously. They can be downright dangerous.
This is exactly why most people used to get married and start a life together in their early twenties. Nobody wants to marry someone who has been getting run through for 15-20 years by various people.
This is an underrated comment bro, facts facts
100% brother. This should be the top comment in this thread!
Best comment in the comments section. After a certain number of dudes, women are no longer the feminine women that men want, and it shows!!
Imagine being such a loser you believe body count matters.
@@BrockLanders nowadays they are already ran through in 20s
Amazing how men's advice to each other is centered around self-improvement while women's advice is about dodging accountability. Seriously, look at what they're _against:_ prenups, paternity tests, notch count revelation, explaining why they keep picking Chads/Tyrone's...
Also, imagine if a man wrote a self-help article on how ways a men can hide their true financial status?
@@yazid3046 100 percent right.
Do you have a link to the article about hiding the financial status?
It will be a satire probably 😂😂
So true. Great comment.
That’s easy, just dress cheap but clean...
Wear K-Mart or Walmart drip... use cheap beaters for cars... and never splurge on dates... it makes you seem poor/like a tightass.
Helps you avoid cancerous people... or keep you single (fuck it’s great being single)
When they say "it doesn't matter" run for the hills!
yuppppppppppppppppppppppppppp
She saying it doesnot matter to her about how may guys she had slept with. SO it won't matter even if she do it being in relationship with you.
Its sick how often they use that line. I have lost count. Truly eye opening.
Running from women who aren't chasing u I guess that's the true definition of going your own way 😂
You can either love women or Understand women. And once you understand women you never wanna love them the same again.
Underrated comment. Guess not many understand, except women :)
Great comment. However I would take 'wanna' out of that statement. I would say understanding them will help you find and love the right one(s) more.
@@mattwoods478 it would make men much more aware. But i understand what you're getting at.
@Liberal Culler smh lol @ "wisdom"
Kevin's comment is moronic & sad
@@mattwoods478 The "right ones" to love as you put it don't really exist. There are just some less bad ones.
Had a chick tell me that she was sleeping with a guy she knew was married but she said "It's not MY bad...IM not the one who's married".....and I was like DAMN that's rationalizing shitty actions 101
She's a victim. Poor dear.
I've heard that one SOOOOO many times, it's ridiculous.
To be fair, she wasn’t the one that made a promise to the wife, he did. So that’s on him, not her. It’s still ethically debatable, but I’ve been with enough married women and also think, well if it’s not me, it’ll be some other guy.
Moral of the story, just don’t bother getting married
@@madams989 or an allegory for that state
I think Lucifer is female.
I dumped a woman once because she said "um, I dunno, 12 or 15"
It wasn't just the number, it's because she knew it was bad and couldn't just be straight up. Here's the door.
12-15 actually isn’t that much these days and that’s what’s sad. To us men it makes us feel sick but the problem is man it’s what you have to expect these days unless you get lucky. Believe me with your chick is hot, she’s played her cards and been around.
@@AnointedOne4God if it was an unsure "12-15" it was definitely at least 20.
@@burtongrimes2227 if it was an unsure "12-15" it was definitely at least 20.
Hell they all have that same reaction.
Basically the entire high school or college football team have railroaded some of them.
The worst ones are the best at manipulating. Be extremely extremely careful!! Especially if you have saved it for a special someone. Some of these woman are so good at hiding it. It’s actually scary.
Hoho... I'm a very observant and lean back type of guy because i don't dig all this non-sense whit casual ho ok ups and stuff. I'm a guy that's secure enough in himself so i don't need validation from seggs like other guys and as well i don't like to be that intimate w a mare stranger.... Been whit few Girls here and there which i regret till this day. I even had a 2 year RelationShip, best Girl ever. Unfortunately didn't work out.That Girl was, i don't have words to describe her. Compared whit these muppets nowadays. She was Heaven. For sure all Womens which been ran thro ugh are mentally and emotionally unstable and they lack any kind of shame and empaty because they are jaded. As well they are very idk how to say, they have a very strange energy around them which raise ur anxiety lvls. Always acting suspicious, and dishonest. They keep they're whole persona as a mistery. They don't talk much about themself, only if they are asked. From age of idk 23 maybe. Always when a Girl showed interest in me in a place where we would see eachoter often. For example Uni or Work.. I would just lean back. Let them show me how they move. I will just specify. A Women whit a hb usually does these. 24/7 male attention and validation. Has multiple male "friends". Very good at manipulating and always but always they are a social butterfly(the list is way longer). Smily and flirty whit everyone around them, so you can't see they're really f up personality, but when you unmask them... Like a monster, is easy to do that, don't give them what they want.Had this Girl at work... When she first come, seen her few times, didn't pay attention to her. Time passed by and we start working close to eachother due to the fact that she start putting herself in my area. She would give me the intense eye contact and smiles and touched me few times on the arm. She would act like an Angel around me. After 1 week from when she got in my radar, i asked her out. We start sleeping together after like 1 week from when we first went out. She was very closed, almost looking like shy. Was not that, she was just hiding who she was. I caught fast on it. Around 2 weeks in... I started pushing her buttons. Not calling/talking/ not cuddleing after seggs. She went mentaI and let her true colours out. Stayed w her another 3 weeks maybe then i cut it lose. I was in my head, maybe i been to harsh and so on. My gut feeling always told me that smth is wrong about her. In a spawn of 8 months she banged w another 7 coworkers, mean while she would trie to get back w me. I deleted her existance from the first day when i let her go. At work i would act like she ain't there. She tried to trigger me few times, didn't work out, but boy.😂 Made my life a living hell, could care less anyway.For me is just crazy how damaged they have to be to just let almost anybody clap em che eks. I seen dudes like this as well. Even for us Men is damagind to sleep around. But we as Men don't get conquered and in a lot of cases seggsually humiliated.... Guys that are players usually are gettin they're nutt thru humiliating seggs because they themself are damaged as well most likely they're heart been broken so now they take revenge on any Women that falls for them... These Womens that go thru all that, specially if is they're first, will associate that whit normal and maybe even pleasure due to the fact that they are traumatised in that process... This is how you get in this mess whit Womens that gettin like 100+ bodies by age of 25-30 and they are soul less. Is really sad what is currently happening. As well damaged Womens encourage other non damaged Women in such behaviour. Telling them how cool it is, how smart they are that they are players and so on... Is really f up.
Your spot on.
Most of them will hide it. Only way finding out is if you get to know their old friends that would rat on her for one or another reason.
Play the good girl, that puts control on you , and after married she's bored with you
They have to stick to the script.
You hit on a good point about how girls who lose their virginity at a very young age are quite often crazy and mentally damaged (unless they married their high-school sweetheart and lived happily ever after). Every girl I know who lost her virginity at age 15 or younger was messed up and unable to stay loyal and viewed our relationship as a transaction. Because they've been with so many men that now they view men as a means to getting free stuff as opposed to looking for true love and a life together.
I second that, one hard relationship is all it takes to turn her into a damaged person. I can assure you.
I would agree with most of what you said except the 'true love' part. Women never seek 'true love' - quite frankly, I don't believe there is such a thing. Romantic love in a relationship has only become mainstream in the past 50 years. Men and woman 'love' differently and if we are talking about an idealistic love, one that is built upon loyalty and trust, well that is actually what guys want in a women, not vice versa. Women only love conditionally...it has and will always be that way...of course there may be exceptions.
Well hopefully those 304s taught you love doesn’t exist
@@user-ku7pm9zv4m Although there is much truth in what you said, you also added that there may be exceptions at the end of your comment. My wife, who I am now separated from, was a virgin when I met her. When we met I was only working a minimum wage job, but she didn't care. She dated me and we fell in love and got married. She was always doing cute and romantic things for me, like writing messages on a blackboard for me like, "Dear Matthew, I love you so much. You are my only reason for being alive." And she would clean our apartment and cook my dinner when I got home from work each evening. We fought a lot later on though. Because she wanted a lot of love and attention and I was totally worn out from working my miserable job, and when she'd complain I would snap at her. She left me in January, and it's sad that she's gone, and I know that had I had more energy and a less stressful job I would have been able to give her the love and affection she needed from me. She said after the first time we had sex that I would be her "first and last" man she would be with. It's heartbreaking that we parted ways.
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I've never heard anybody ever use the phrase "being creative with the truth," which is probably the most childish way to avoid saying "I'm telling a lie"
Joseph Jones, you've never heard of "alternative facts" coined by the dreadful Kellyanne Conway?
lol
Women have a complicated relationship with the truth, in that they care more about their feelings, their reputation and the overall feeling of contentment through the use of self-delusion, far more than the truth. (edited)
It’s usually “withholding” the information they don’t want you to know. If they don’t tell you because you will get mad, they were doing something wrong. Withholding is the same as a lie in my book. Women will be “creative with the truth”, and men will “make a boring story more interesting”!
The entire article Rich referenced was just about lying. #1 was to ask a guy about his count, but every point after that was a variation on how to lie.
Men: go to the gym, work on your financial situation and dress better
Women: here's how to lie to Men
No bs😂
Women never need help with lying.
Seriously, but then they manipulated institutions to give them free scholarships and job positions purely for being a woman...
So they even have an unfair advantage
If men weren't dangerous and hypocrites, there might be a different way
Yea but this is why we win in the end. They get old and lose their primary value, meanwhile we only increase our value with age. Their only hope is in swindling us into marriage.
Husband to Wife: "Dear, am I the only one?"
Wife to Husband: "Yes, the others were nines or tens!"
Excellent.
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U gotta be smart to get that from her damn mind.
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Truth
Having 304 phase, children outside marriage with random strangers, one night stands completely disqualifies a woman from HVM. Women want a man with discipline when she maintained no discipline in her life.
What does having 304 phase mean?
@@pattygravs6354 304 means h o e.
@@pattygravs6354 write 304 on on paper, turn it upside down.
@@IDNHANTU2day oh🙄
my dude said "304 phase" dead LOL
I am continuously surprised at how good women are at leaving out important information in their communication. If they didn't say it, does NOT mean they didn't do it.
If you ask how many people she’s slept with and she responds with “uhmmm…” that usually tells you everything you need to know.
At this point, you have to pick a hoe and tell her to stop, there are no women
Speaks volumes, right there.
it means shes thinking up a lie
@@BOG0690 it means she’s thinking up of a number she thinks you’ll find acceptable
@@XanVicious
That's called lying
Broke up with my ex over her body count and the lies she made around it.
she started with 4... then 9, the 15, ended up saying it was 30. She said she thought i meant "how many boyfriends?" not "how many times you f*cked". So she blamed it on misunderstanding and me being worried about other guys shes been with... never took any accountability
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How much time did you spend with her before you broke up ?
Lmfao they always lie
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Her cavernous sinkhole should have been a dead giveaway, especially the echo!
Met someone who was incredibly compatible on every level, intelligence, spiritual and physical attractiveness but when I found out that she is casually seeing someone until she finds someone who is marriage material it suddenly completely turned me off. I thought, if she wanted a man who is marriage material why is she wasting time with this other man. Filling the void with someone until you find “the one” is such a turn off. Both men and women should be more sexually selective and disciplined but I was shocked how turned off I was by this woman when she revealed to me her dating/ sexual strategy. All the other qualities went out the window.
They are all like this. Sleeping with chad while looking to find a man to marry.
No way
@@heimstaden4588how can u say ur sexually disciplined if no women wanna have sex w u
Just admit it on a dry spell😂
Filling the void is normal behavior for men or women. Why save yourself for someone that may or may not turn up.
Your woman’s past is the key determinant of your future outlook. Ask Johnny Depp...
IM A BUCCANEER!
Was his ex wife a whore all her life?
Are you watching the trial on Fox right now? I've never seen a Johnny Depp movie in my life, never really interested, but got hooked quickly within minutes watching it today. Fox News is carrying it. It's worth watching!
"This is the tale of Capt'n Jack Sparrow...!"
and kanye and dr dre and.... yeah, y'all get the point
Never never divulge your notch count to a woman.
As far as theirs go, you can infer based on how strong their relationship is with their father and how many tattoos they have.
True very very true.
A woman that asks you first, has a BIG notch count. The women that only have 3 or less, wont think to ask.
@@silentwitness536 3 or less. You are sweet. What year is it where you are. 1850. Bless.
@@silentwitness536 My experience has actually been the opposite.
@@farqfarq2225 🤣🤣🤣 if you find a NICE chick who is good looking and only has 3 bodies to her name and you like her alot... You have all of our permission to marry her cause she is def a 🦄 in 2022....
My husband had a roommate in college (he was a dude) who lied about his body count. The girl he was seeing was a virgin, waiting for marriage and expected the same behavior from him. He had slept with a previous fiancée and then immediately dumped her. I was buddies with my husband’s other roommates and then we all discovered what this one roommate was doing. We confronted him because he was now engaged to her and still lying. We gave him two days to tell her or we would. So he told her, and the relationship didn’t immediately fall apart but that was the beginning of the end. The core of the issue is lying and securing a person under false pretenses. Encouraging dishonesty of this level is just evil.
He should have been straight up, because the vast majority of women don’t consider body count as a deal breaker, which is correct. Stats have shown that a body count of three or more for women absolutely ranks their odds of maintaining a stable marriage. For men, there doesn’t seem to be a statistical correlation between body count and divorce rate. One example is that my body count is five, and my wife’s is two, including me. Statistically our marriage should not be negatively affected by those counts. If it was reversed, we’d likely be divorced already, or never married at all.
@@americandissident9062There is a statistical correlation for men as well, it is in the exact same studies. Men on average are affected by body count 5-10% less than women, which is peanuts of a difference. Any educated on this matter woman, who is interested in a long stable relationship, will never get into a relationship with a man who has a high body count, but fortunately for men overwhelming majority of women have no idea.
@@bazyl3357 5-10 percent is not peanuts, first of all. It would show the existence of some very specific differences in the male and female outlook. Second, I still have not see the correlation proven for men. I’d assumed that as long as we aren’t talking about men with 500 bodies, there is no correlation. A woman with 3 bodies and a man with 8, the studies show the women with 3 is going to end up divorced.
@americandissident9062 that's false. A lot of us do care.
@@Edelweiss635 Stats seem to show that most of you don’t consider it a deal breaker, like I said. NAXALT is not a legitimate point.
Something crazy to me is that these woman will not count one night stands and sometimes on a more extreme level won’t count the men if they used a condom with them. This video is 100% truth
So true. My first girlfriend tried to rationalize that I took her virginity because her ex never made her cum during sex. Ridiculous
They have no integrity. They're perfectly comfortable lying to others, AND themselves.
How can u verify that claim if they won't tell the truth anyway and if u know they won't tell the truth then why ask the question in the first place
@@Muy_chingon lol dude
@@Muy_chingon the initial number changes after u keep poking and prodding. "Those 5 guys didn't count, it was only a bj!" "This guy didn't count, he didn't even finish inside me!"
A woman with a high body count is like driving a rental car. 100's of other people have had fun driving it. You're going to have fun driving it, but you're damn sure not going to buy it when it comes up for "sale."
And the tail pipe needs replacing!
It's never had premium fuel put inside it either. No premium oil either, just the cheap stuff.
@@EadsB7002 Men with high body counts will still be desirable to women. Women with high body counts will never be desirable to men. It is what it is.
@@EadsB7002 You're overlooking the basic FACT that women desire experienced men, so it's not a double-standard.
@@francisdashwood1760 not all women...
This video has pretty much nailed it for me. I caught my ex with her new partner at her home when I was dropping our 5 year old daughter off at her home. She was trying to get him out of her house as quickly as she could in her car. She basically took no responsibility and made every excuse for her behaviour. Then…her mother tried to do the same for her!
Toxic role modelling, no values, poor parenting and poisonous environments all contribute to this nonsense.
‘Always offended but never ashamed’.
a women will die before speaking truth ever. believe your instincts. This is how female speacy has been surviving from ancient times. deceiving and playing victim is in her DNA
She was your ex at the time ?
"responsibility" ? "caught her" ? "excuse" ? Dafuck u talking bout ?
Is she not allowed to date after your relationship ended?
@@nochso6835 Maybe not on a day when he drops their child.
The strategy that they implement the most is move to a new city where there are unsuspecting victims that have no knowledge of her past.
So when you find out she´s moved address alot and there isnt any real reason why she would do so ....
@@MrTimjm009 immediate red flag. They can only ho so much in their area before everyone knows her tricks and reputation. Like the snake oil salesman that moves to a new town when everyone buys his useless product and comes after him with pitchforks.
That strategy is not efficient and they don’t have to cross towns to bang more men. They simply tell you ambiguous stuff like “Oh, I hate these guys that send me DMS on IG” or one way or the other lets you know by her actions that she likes attention from men.
Know her hometown her college and if she was in sorority. Ask what she was doing in a certain year.
which will not work at all if you left all your thottery up on social media
My wife was a virgen when I met her🙌 . I was 26 she was 22 with a very good conservative family. I’m 34 and we’re happily married. My advice for young men is that when you are finally ready to settle down think of women the way you would think of buying a car. How many miles? How many previous owners? It’s best to get a brand new car than a beat up used one.
Cool story, boomer.
Be an Entrepreneur Car!
@@redpilljesus Thank you youngster.
@@redpilljesus millenial
Problem is most girls are starting younger, and younger. Some in JR. High. It is much harder to find a virgin then it was in the past. Most of the cars are used by the time they are marriage age. Finding a virgin who is marriage age is like finding a unicorn.
God damn, this video is such an EYE OPENER to my younger self. My first gf (now ex gf, of course) had a promiscuous past and she told me about it, and i was ok with this because i never had a gf before and i was lonely as fuck. Don't ignore this red flags, fellas.
loleliness is a fellow warrior's doom. Stay firm
Yes, almost made the same mistake.
Yep. Same. I'm worried I'll never find a good girl.
You may but she may not be a hottie. Think positive but be realistic.
You don't have to hide your promiscuous past if you don't have a promiscuous past.
I know right? Just don't be h0e and everything is solved
That's why ur an honest person when u show ur lack of experience 😂
As you read this, I kept thinking: this is how psychopaths think and operate.
Welcome to women. Is this your first time?
The first generation of true hosebags are now in old folks homes. It dawned on me, while visiting an old family friend in a home, there must be a certain percentage of real teeth out, choking on wood, deep throaters in this building. As I walked through I chuckled as I tried to discern which ones had new knees from being on them so often, years ago.
Even Marcus Aurelius writes in his "Meditations" something along the line off "Thank God I didn't lose my virginity too early" I'm not against young people having sex, but it tends to leave scars for many, specially for women where it becomes a destructive thing.
Yeah, and how he was really thankful for the people who advised him against it
When a woman says she's been abused, it just means she was used.
Accountability = a woman's cryptonite 👌
It means she's lying.
Not really
Ya know what that's not completely true.
@@chopstyx141 not completely, but mostly.
The funny part is that none of this will really work against a guy who is paying attention. Even if you brief your friends, they can't really be expected to know every single lie you've told so discrepancies and gaps will quickly appear. It will be even more fragile if the guy actually is looking for this information, finding gaps, and inquiring about them. And then you have a women who is doesn't just have a bad past, but a monstrous present as she's actively manipulating you. Pay attention and don't be a victim.
It’s a logarithmic scale, guys: if she says 3, it is actually 1000, since log(1000) = 3
Excellent thesis.
Solid math 🎉 thank you 😂
Well it's not quite THAT bad, but the number is almost always (much) higher. Unless she's one of those who are somehow proud of it (as if it was difficult for any woman who isn't downright hideous) in which case you'll already get a (often shockingly) high number to begin with.
Ha
hoe math
If she claims shes dated a bunch of abusive men in her past that speaks more about her ability to judge character and the drama she brings that it does about the purported abusers....next
Add delusion
Maybe she's abusive one. No accountability
@@joserodolforamirez8773 Lol my ex claimed that her ex abused her and she turned out to be one of the most psycho abusive women ive ever met
It's another lack of accountability thing. When she doesn't get her way, or someone doesn't put up with her shit, it's abuse.
If your dating her, you'll be next on that list for sure.
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Im going through this with my girlfriend of 9 months i just discovered she had been lying about being with only her ex for 17 years. I should have known it was too good to be true. I looked at her social media at the beginning to see if there were any red flags and there were just in another way. She posted only wholesome things on her wall but her real activity was the things she commented on and liked that were very sexual in nature. It was always very specific accounts she would comment on. And it just so happens those specific accounts were the ones she had encounters with. Always trust your gut fellas. The notch count is always up there with females like this
Rich absolutely nailed it. Women know that high body counts are unappealing which is why they conceal or lie about it. If you know it's bad, maybe avoid having a high body count?
But then they can’t fill a void they refuse to address and will receive less dopamine and “tea” from their friends, which is the worst thing for a hypersocial 304
Being f*cked feels good, that's why they do it, it isn't rocket science lol
Maybe stop with the double standards unless your count is low as well?
@@TGP109Nope
@@TGP109you airhead a man’s body count does not matter women themselves don’t care about a man’s body count
Getting #'s is easy. Right out of the gate explain monogamy isn't your thing. This will cause her to drop her guard and be honest.
Exactly. Always best and easiest to let them bury themselves.
Good idea. I’m using that.
bruhhhh 6D chess
Don't make it too obvious though, or she will catch on.
@@Rose-mysticso we have to lie to make you reveal the truth that you'd lie about otherwise makes us demons?
As a newly single dad whose ex has a past so disgraceful i can barely think about it without puking in my mouth, this video really hits home and shines light on the huge mistake i made years ago by giving her a chance! I have ausbscribed!
High triple digits?
@@HenrySomeone who knows.
@@MatthewStJames-pd3xy glad you are out of that mess. Keep moving forward. We've all been there, and it gets better with time. May God bless you!
We men have to not settle for less by vetting women better...
A only date foreign women who
B are Virgins, and only court
C through respectable families
And the solution to send the message to these whhores, potential whhores, and deluded sluts is...
X insist sex only after marriage, n blood on sheet hymen6 broke
Y only date 18to 29yr holds who are spiritual, faith based upbringing, with intelligence
Z never date a women unless met n seen her friends conduct behaviour lifestyle
I too am glad to see a brother out of that mess. Clean your mind brother, and move forward to better terrains
I don’t ask wamen about their sexual past. Why? You’re only get one of two things: a lie or you’re gonna hear some shit you don’t want to hear. I’ll never remarry so I just assume they’ve all been run through even if they haven’t and treat them accordingly. Probably bad advice but I don’t plan on remarrying. Ever.
This! I basically tell young dudes this all the time. Most guys have no clue how much women get around these days. 90% of single chicks over 25 are in double digits. And the 10% that aren't are either moonlighting at sea world or have a guy wish list a mile long. Ideally, I would be happy with a chick under 20. Even that's pretty hard to find.
I agree, most would make it seem like they have only had 1 or 2 previous partners so they don’t sound like a 304. And hopefully you will see them as more valuable.
Guaranteed if they do give you a number it will be higher than you expected.
@Endless Nameless 200!?? And you're acting like her lawyer talking her up..look getting laid as a woman is easy but i don't think the majority are at triple digits. Guys, feel free to correct me if you think that's not the case!
Yup every women have a high body count just don't commit to these 304
@Endless Nameless Is it even possible for a woman with 200 sex partners to still pair bond with a new man?
A person's past is very important, it's not 'nothing'. What you are is a result of the interactions of all the people so far. And sex is a very powerful interaction.
Yes but people learn,change and mature. If they are honest and talking about their mistakes with relationship details and what they have learned that means a lot to me. I was married a long time and had to save my life by leaving. This is all so new to me. Seeing someone I like very very much. Tried sex with her once and it was like I was talking one language and she was talking another language. We are ok and of course are going to figure it out but me being with one woman for so long is making the transition hard.
I was with a hot brunette for 2 years and literally knew nothing about her past. She never mentioned anything. Was so weird I tried asking but she was so defensive about it. I’m so glad we’re not together anymore she had bags of issues and I should have left it at the beginning. You live and you learn.
Someone that defensive abt their past is most likely a call girl or escort. This happened to my friend who found out his ex was a call girl
@@rhuiden4086Imagine finding out that your woman is a prostitute... truly depressing.
Tbh majority of women get defensive over that because they know it's wrong what they have done lol...no need to be literally whores my friend@@rhuiden4086
I once had a FWB type of "friendship" and that girl had a huge number of past dudes (no surprise sex was great) and while we're meeting occasionally, she started and finished two "relationships". Once they cross the line, there is no way back!
There is something wrong with her. Like maybe sexual or emotional abuse... Otherwise she wouldn’t feel this deviant need to have sex with multiple men. Probably some daddy issues, which scrambled her brains into thinking that sexual attention = love.
Dirty
Legend
The way to go
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Yes it permanently screws with their headspace and they have fallen into the abyss with no ladder to climb out of it with period ie no exceptions
Dutty Gyal! 🤣
I'm listening to all these women's confesions and i am literally sick to my guts. I am really concirn over my sons' future in this perspective. Keep up this work, thank you and cheers from Russia
It's sad on the west, indeed.
Teach your sons the RP way, and don't let them watch Walt Disney/Hallmark movies.
Eastern European women actually possess some critical thinking skills on average and are more traditional minded. If I had to do it all over, I'd have gotten a passport in my early twenties and made a live outside the "west".
Are mainstream Russian women also westernized? Is prostitution widespread in Russia? Is it possible to find a good wife in Russia? Or only among Old Believer communities? What about other Slavic countries, Servia maybe? I'm asking because I am Russian by blood but I have never lived in Russia ever.
@@jasonb6315 lol
Fortunately for you, this is only in the West where this is being instigated. However in the East, you could help find your sons some women and perhaps assign them a marriage, and they might thank you later. The East is loaded in wisdom, and the West is loaded in hoes. Но оставайтесь сильным, всё будет хорошо!
They’re so comfortable with being absolutely disgusting
You watch young don reborn?
@@kabilo5072 yeah
@@datboi42 yeah, we friends now. I've been seeing your pfp wherever I'm at
@@kabilo5072 lol. You sure? I’ve seen at least 2-3 other people with my pfp so it could be them. But yeah I do watch Young Don. He just started posting again
@@datboi42 Nah its you i remember your name too. Datboi something. Been watching Don even during the whole free grace fiasco 😂time really does fly
Not gonna lie, I’m just focused on myself and my career. But sometimes I’ll hop on YT and watch these videos again to remember why I threw away women and relationships behind. Needless to say I’m not regretting a thing. These women will do everything but be good human beings. It’s gotten to the point where it’s just sad, like it’s pathetic how they can just wake up each day and build a life of lies just to salvage some face. I look at women these days and wonder to myself how they can even function with all that nonsense
How did you throw them away?
jak tam kolego witam
It’s actually sad. I guess go back to basics. We build and survive. If we choose to reproduce that’s all they can do.
Lmao agreed man. I don’t even flinch at what I see & hear now
You don't need to remove them from your life completely. Just don't make them a priority. When you have spare time, shoot your shot, if in that time someone appears, try to pump and dump asp, and then return to your priorities. Spend only bare minimum with the date or hookup. Me, maximum I'll spend are a couple of drinks (regular ones, not fancy), cheap hotel or motel or if theres an evening in house I'll buy the groceries or I'll see if she buys them and I cook. Everything else is on their dime.
One method I definitely use to reprogram my mentality of logic “It not my lady it’s only my turn”
Nice
I ended up in a relationship with a woman who told me her " cheating" ended her marriage..... She didn't tell me it was with hundreds of men..... I have felt like a fool since and have NO trust or actual interest in women since...
American Pie said it best: Any number a girl gives, multiply by 3 and that's the real number. Any number a guy gives, divide by 3 and that's the real number.
Wasn't it 2?
@@TheScaryGermanGuy I believe it was. I just couldn’t remember. I meant to put “the American pie series”
i like that one and if she says "ummmmmm" you know anything after ummmmm is a lie
because of thot inflation, we need to now multiply it by 5
That was in '99. Now multiply by 5-10 for girls
Yikes. These modern women. Yikes.
Virgin while married. Rocking sex life with my husband. So glad I follow Christ and not the crappy ways of this world.
You mean virgin until married, right? But yes, that's the way to go. Christ is king!
@@LeventeM96 Christ is jesus (messiah)right?
All those that have sex outside of marriage are engaging in sin. Sex magic.
Yikes. I dont feel the need to shame others because they dont do what I do. Yikes.
@@ewoman3584 pfft! Keep your legs closed
Some women simply don't know how high their body count is. After a certain point, she sort of lost count.
Unreal. I've seen this organized deception firsthand with my ex and her friends, now they're just saying the quiet part out loud on the internet. Never, ever had a male friend ask me to prop up their lying b.s. like that.
Women will easily lie and deceive for each other. Its like a compulsion they have. I've been on the receiving end plenty of times whether it be their friends or female family members.
I've never had a male friend ask me to straight up lie to their partner. The closest thing I've experienced is being asked to not say anything about something that happened. That's very different compared to coming up with a mutually concocted plan to deceive a person. That's some next level sociopath shit right there. Exactly what I'd expect from a gaggle of broads.
@@AnointedOne4God they're in competition covertly but overtly work together
Guys look at a woman's social media, all of it. There will be many clues to what happened in her past. The older the woman, the more problems there will be with this. This is actually an argument to support getting married young.
Amanda
Are you fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?
@@EightFrancs Crickets... you've got your answer, lol
@@EightFrancs Men don't even fight for those things. When men start fighting then more women will join along.
@@francisdashwood1760
You shouldn't comment when you clearly lack knowledge.
It just amazing how far they are willing to go with this way, just to hide how many times they get pumped. So, they know they are not good, and they know they will be rejected because of this past, Fantastic.
Crazy how this guy knows how all my relationships and marriage imploded without knowing me or the situations. Each video is like a game break down
If you ask her number and she says "Why does it matter?!?", Just walk away bro
You should respond: "That high?"
It's not only the amount, it's also the things that happened
1. The turn off the social media;
2. They move from their old place to avoid the people who know them;
3. They have friends who protect them by keeping it secret;
They go by a name that they came up with instead of their government name
Totally agree. High body count is unacceptable. I always make sure to ask within the first 3 dates, or soon after smashing; whichever comes first. This one may go long but I’ll share how I go about acquiring this info.
Even before you ask, there are indicators that her body count is likely high. Having many guy friends, lifestyle (ie.partying, drinking, trips, etc posted to her socials), age, occupation, & appearance, for example.
PREFACE: if she’s hesitant to answer ANY of the following questions, you can assume her body count is higher than you’ll be comfortable with, and that she’s accustomed to hiding that & other info from guys. Also, don’t ask these in rapid-fire succession because she’ll realize what you’re getting at. Pepper them throughout the date or even - better yet - over the course of different conversations. This’ll arouse the least suspicion.
Firstly, I’ll disclose to her when my last relationship ended, then ask how many long term relationships she’s been in. (Girls are more comfortable sharing if you share first. Makes it feel less like an interrogation). It seems innocent enough but this’ll give you the baseline of her body count. If she’s had 5 long terms relationships that’s at least 5 bodies.
Later on in the convo. (& This next Q is usually the kicker). I’ll make a phony story about a friend who’s only ever dated women of “X” ethnicity, which is something I find weird. She’ll naturally agree, to which I’ll ask “so like aside from the long term relationships you mentioned, what ethnicities have you dated? And we won’t count just 1-2 dates.*smile* (keep it light) Let’s say dated for more than a 2 months”. Girls put out well before 2 months of dating, but this’ll give you the “for sures”. Add this number to the long term relationship count.
The third question: “out of curiosity, do you care about a guy’s body count?” Her answer’s irrelevant, but she’ll like follow up with “..but it shouldn’t matter.” You say “I agree” to her statement then say “I do find that I have better physical chemistry with women who are more sexually experienced”. You’re obvi baiting her here. You then ask “how many guys have you had sex with?”. She may turn it around on you first, so if she does, I’d say something in the high 30’s. (Obvi make the number believable based on what she may already know about you). If whatever answer she gives is less than the number you’ve calculated based on the previous 2 questions above, she’s lying & the TRUE number is rly high and you’ll never know it.
I’ve used this technique several times without fail. Like I said, for best results, ask the questions over the course of afew different convos to arouse the least suspicion.
But as rich has also said, whatever number you DO get will be underestimated by a factor of two, so double it, at the least.
Most practically useful comment. Wish there were more of these.
Honestly, better assume any girl over 25 has at least 50 and work from there up.
Dude, bitches are being smashed since junior high, all this is unnecessary, they all have 20+ bodies.
So, ''soon after smashing''...You're part of the problem you decry.
@@TGP109 He says that he asks about body count no later than 3rd date, or after smashing if that comes first and if it does, it's honestly all you need to know that the number is HIGH and she won't be a long term material.
There is one thing that tells you everything and they are not able to hide: a womans age. A 25+ "single" woman hasnt just been knitting the last 7 years
I just assume they all have a promiscuous past so there are no surprises
So never having a LTR or ok with being with a promiscuous girl?
That's the spirit
Especially when they’re 30+ years old and singles lol 😆
Just don't get married.
I find that most women will spontaneously tell you their true notch count if you don't give her a judgemental vibe on female promiscuity. Just let her talk and tell her stories, don't make her feel ashamed.
Nonsense. How would you even verify that she's being completely honest?
They will match energies, yes, but they have a genuine vested interest in downplaying their body count. It's hardwired into their operating firmware by evolution.
Yes!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Has a woman ever lied to you and you found out? They're good good!
Those stories are lies my friend,clearly you’re still plugged in! Get back to reality !
Same. Come at them like their past doesn't matter much and they spill. Ive had moments where I thought "holy shit I cant believe she told me that" lol
A leopard never changes it’s spots, it’s easy to see the lies when you confront your G/F about this, you will also know the answer by her words and actions over time.
When a women says she is dating .... She basically saying she is sleeping with multiple men.
Be a man and stop caring. Be a man and find happiness on your own, not with someone else. Be a man and be successful on your own.
Best advise on here yet. Your on your own always was that way.
@@helmutsecke3529 🙄
Having a GF is like having a car loan with none if the transportation benefits.
Having a wife is like having a knife at your throat
Be a m3n and be friends with the m3n who has the mindset as you.
I'm beginning to understand why some cultures minimize the role of women. It like they reached a dire point and realized that women lack self-control and other qualities like honestly and responsibility. To preserve their culture, they had no choice but to limit their involvement in important social matters.
Women will choose their friends over their husband. I’ve lived it. I’ve seen it with other marriages.
Chaos, creative truth telling, and dysfunctional dynamics are the content & depth of EVERY woman. Never forget who designed a woman. Period.
Same sht bro i told her she was turning into her stripper friend and she blocked me 😂 i guess i pushed a button
@@samrapheal1828that's why chaos is a feminine nature.
100%
Part of the Chad chasing cycle, is to make a girls friends jealous, envious or impressed, even when they know it is damaging to themselves personally... the validation from girlfriends negative or positive is of huge value to women that go down this path. Playing with Chad is worth a lot of hypothetical imaginary points, marrying a Chad is worth the most, settling down with a rich loser worth this.... they even get friend validation for the the "I acted so freakin' crazy and he still didn't kick me out" episode... You think they are crazy when they do this.,.. its done with full intentions sometimes to test you, sometimes just to make you angry but ALWAYS so they can tell their girlfriends and have a laugh and feel better from the validation and man hate..
This is so true tho 🤣
bro they are so competitive with each other its crazy. Some chicks will fuck their friends boy friends just to feel like "yeah thats right he picked me over you"
Why is Chad always associated with being an a hole ? You can be a good looking guy and still be respectful and polite...so what's the deal ?
@@Zouka-sq9tu Thats part of the package. Good and nice are boring to them. It doesnt give them the drama they crave.
Listen men, don’t bother asking her. She’s never going to tell you the truth and you don’t really want to know anyway.
that's stupid. at least hear her say it, you'll get a sense. if she fails dump her why are you with her?
Knowledge is power. This Is why the backdoor to electronics are used. Just go see for yourself and keep quiet or have a desperate prostitute do it. They are always down for a home invasion. It's wrong AF.
Regarding the sisterhood thing, even my own mother sided with ex-girlfriends and my ex-wife, and betrayed me.
Not only is there no brotherhood of men but men (unplugged alphas excepted) will usually side with women and betray each other, even when she’s blatantly in the wrong and there’s no evidence of his wrongdoing. It’s the white knight syndrome or they’re hoping they’ll get between her legs.
Happened to me too. On some level I think mother saw something in that girl that reminded her of when she was young. She could relate to her so she defended her as if reliving her own past through her. It's true..
Pussay paoower
@@dukewilliam3660 Wow! That's deep.
I would never
My mom and sister turned on me too and sided with my two ex wives so when they came to me about men doing them wrong wanting me to do something I took the man's side and asked them what they did to cause the man to react how he did. They got BIG mad at me and couldn't believe I was taking his side. They don't come to me anymore and I don't introduce my girlfriends to them anymore.
I’d break off the relationship quicker by hiding things from me before I’d break it off by having a higher body count. If you violate my trust by hiding things then I can’t be with you. If the trust isn’t there then we have nothing.
say it again
Yup. It's current era and the only virgins are still drinking from sippy cups. The hymen has no bearing on whether a female will bring chaos or contentment to your house. It's a better decision to find a woman who knows that sex is transactional and that if she wants the benefits then she's got to put in the work.
Totally agree with you
@@d3m0n54in7 Sex is never transactional. You’ve lost your touch out of life.
@@AotO_DJ thanks for that amazing insight! Now women will lower their standards to meet your delusional opinion. Either you accept that hypergamy is a natural phenomena or you get robbed by a hypergamist woman. Sex is 100% transactional. Would you feel cheated if the woman you were banging stopped you just before you nutted and said that she's done? Just because under ideal situations, sex is mutually rewarding, does not make it any less transactional. Just look at all the money most guys waste trying to get sex. So put away that incel thinking and start looking at women like stock portfolios. Either they're going to mature and enrich you or they're going to crash and take your finances down with them. 😂
My ex girlfriend legit told me without hesitation “ummm 100-120? Idk not that many… just average for someone at 25”
I lost my shit man… the way she downplayed it too…
Apparently she accumulated all those bodies in just 2 years. She claims she was in relationships for a total of 4 years and sexually active for 6. She said that most of those guys were 1 night stands, just guys she’d meet at the bar or the club.
It was hard to respect her after that honestly. Like this girl was sleeping with more than 1 new guy a week. Sometimes already sleeping with 3-4 guys a week then meeting a new one on the weekend to add to the rotation.
I honestly felt disgusted to my core and she shamed me for feeling the way I felt and said that I was insecure and a misogynist.
When we would be out in public she would often say hi to her ex hookups with zero hesitation. Go hug them and talk to them then introduce me as her boyfriend…
Yea I never felt more disrespected in my life and I never will allow myself to put myself in a situation like that again.
yup, it's incredible how many women can rack up that body count.
Dated a girl like that some time ago. She looked super sweet but admitted she was hitting the bars since she was 16, fucking guys left and right for 8 years straight, traveled and bit and also fucked around. I acted unfazed and jokingly said she must have had a body count of upward 100, but she was comfortable enough with me to say "I guess it's more than that, never really counted that kind of thing". A week later I ghosted her. Not dealing with a woman with that kind of mileage.
Dude, I almost went out with a woman who revealed to me that since age 15, she started going to clubs with her girlfriend (she lived with her father who gave her a lot of freedom), she was quite attractive so very easy to get picked up, she said she slept with 3 to 5 guys a week. She had very few steady relationships. She was around 35 when I met her, I did the math, I was stunned that she had slept with 2 to 3 THOUSAND guys. I completely lost interest, she accused me of judging her. I live in a big European city, it is so common these days with all the hookup apps for young chicks to rack up improbable numbers. It's only going to get worse and worse.
There’s hookers with less bc 🤣🤣
@@palerider2890 gosh damnnnb mannn that’s wildddd 😮😮😂😅 dude Naah these days chick by the time their 19 or 20 they have a body of at least 15-20 their saying for the average female at least & that’s sad for the next generation honestly man we’re doomed
Oooff
I'm 28, single, and with no kids, alpha mindset. Thank you, entrepreneur, in cars, for your information.
I'm 50, still no kids, still never married, still live life on my terms.
I'll tell you now... Do I regret it. Do i wish I'd had kids with birds when I was younger!? No! Absolutely not.
@@Rose-mysticyeah, no…..
@@residentevilfreakk55When your body becomes fragile, no kids, no grandkids will visit you, you will die alone… you will be in the hospital alone after a heart attack…
@@ruin1619 a worse fate would be enduring a miserable, nagging wife for the next 50 years and still ending up in that same situation. Choose your hard.
@@residentevilfreakk55 Not all women are like that…
gents, get to know these ladies and her parents really well before you invest yourself into them. a lot of us will shy away asking about uncomfortable subjects like her previous relationships, sexual history, and her relationship with her parents especially the dad. she will tell you stuff that is comfortable for her to divulge and it's up to you to piece the puzzle and detect the unspoken lies she is not telling you. if she has a lot of male orbiters and refuses to give them up, move on. these male orbiters in her life usually indicate that she didn't have strong adult figures (mainly weak dad) in her life and don't really have any guidance while she was growing up, thus producing a daughter with no guard rails and lacks value.
Red flags Ive noticed. 1.) women that often have a phone with a smashed screen, means alcoholic/irresponsible. 2.) yoga pants, but theyre not fit, sloot. 3.) women that do a lot of drugs but dont have a job (sells body for drugs) 4.) women that are vague about their past. 5) women that are criminals or hang out with criminals. 6.) Women that cant keep a job for more than a couple of months (possible mental illness). 7) women that constantly need validation. Women use their p...ssy to get it. 8) Woman raised by single mother. 9) woman that hates her father. 10) Women that cant accept when theyre wrong/argumentative. 11) Women who get angry when you ask them to do simple things for them, pass you your drink, bring ice from the kitchen and put it in your drink, simple stuff like that. 12) women who hate their family. 13) women that have large credit card debt. 14) OF account 15) huge social media presence, 16) women who are needy see 7. 17) Women that have a lot of guy friends only. 18) women that live alone. 19) women that travel or talk about travelling. 20) air hostesses or nurses.
Yesterday I spoke to a daddy's girl kinda chick. She is super feminine and is a Christian. All green flags but she opened up about her time in undergrad when she was drinking and smoking weed like there was no tomorrow. She felt selfish, depressed and empty and found God one night in her dorm room. She was raised Christian so she found God again I guess. She's 24 so this phase lasted approximately 2 years by my count.
I think she is a catch by all modern standards. I think she has done far less then most girls but she did not say how many dudes she slept with during this time so that hangs over her. She will make a good wife someday but not for me, I will wait for the chick that never did lose God in the first place even if it means I must raid an Amish village to get her. Let us raise our standards men please🙏
@@josetheman239 if she tells you that she went to parties, has more guy friends than gals, and prefers guys over girls to hang out with, stay away. females are comfortable talking about how many friends, the gender ratio of her friends, and why she prefers to hang out with dude or gals. you get these info from her, it will tell you lots about her.
@@rickai9945 She doesn't have a lot of guy friends. She's the real deal man but all I'm saying is that I want more and I encourage men to also want more. If men rejected promiscuity, even for girls who had 1 week of partying, there would be zero promiscuous women in the world.
You are spot on!!
I was with this woman for a few weeks. Lost touch. Ten years later I ran into her. She stopped my in a parking lot. I didn't recognize her till she revealed her identity. She was totally emaciated and she was thin when I met her. I said what happened to you. She wouldn't reveal any information. Just wanted to say hello. I dumped her because she was promiscuous way back then. I guess it caught up with her. Glad I did what I did, when I did it.
Legend
AIDS
I dated a 9/10 for 6 months, fell in love then she told me that 7 years earlier she was a prostitute. A dumped her immediately!!
But the body count (in the 000's) from that doesnt count, it's just work! ;)
@@notenoughholidaysfor a prostitute? that has to be in thousands.
Fk hell man, i feel bad
I gave an uber ride to this sweet midwest next door neighbor looking girl going to the courthouse. She told me she was just in town to take care of her soliciting charges she picked up the las time she was here.
Oh some many do ,IV worked with so many that had such a high count if their guys found out they would walk in a flash ,nothing worse for a guy to walk into a bar , restaurant and seeing other guys smirking laughing know the girl your with was the town or city bike.
I love the classic "he is just a friend" or "he is like a brother to me" then we find out the real truth.
Lolol yes I know that one well
Turns out the brother is from Alabama
Lol my married friend was telling me how she never date me. But after she married my other friend she realized he was a dickhead. She would get drunk and start telling me how she should been with me and asking if there is hope
One of the responses from my ex wife after I've found out she was banging a few "just very close, good friends" and I should have found female friends on my own in the similar manner... wow
Play cousins who paid their rent and sent love letters when deployed.
How ironic the same feminist talking point about glamorizing promiscuity and how it's "empowering" also pushes this article about how to hide it. You can't make this shit up.
The thing women run into is that many men don’t want to date someone who refrains from sex (waiting to get to know them well first or til marriage), which contradicts their desire for low notch count. I grew up in purity culture, so it’s hard to shake that Christian guilt even over 2 partners. I steered clear of guys who were known for sleeping around, because I always felt like they were less trustable overall, so some women are opposed to men with a high # too. The thing about purity culture is that it creates a lot of shame around sex/nudity in general whether you’re married or not, so it has unintended consequences. I’ve dated a few guys who were pushy about getting physical so I ended it…not a good fit. So, if men want the women who are selective about sex, then they need to expect that she will likely wait to sleep with you too. No harm in making sure you are a good fit before taking it further. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Good girls likely won’t just jump into bed with you right away, or at least that’s what I’ve seen over the years.
Most dudes are willing to make that compromise the issue is the duplicity how a girl can act like a virgin for her husband but a prn star for some random bad boy stranger or their bad boy ex. Women do by in large do this to men put them in two distinct categories and than lie about it so even when a dude runs into a good girl like you he has to wonder how authentic that is that your not just playing the game. Doesn't help that women actively lie about this and it's not like some innocent oh I messed up got peer pressured this is the average strategy and it's very deliberate. Dudes are just not interested in taking the risk.
That's understandable. The thing with today's women who want to settle down is they had 200 one night stands with all the Chads in 100 miles around but now they are witholding sex from their beta partners since they are not really attracted to them. That's one more reason to find out the body count of your new partner.
good, if he won't date you because you refrain from sex then you just vetted a bad guy
And u know what u got a point there I would just say that , sex for a man is like food to a degree I'm trying tosay essentially its not a negotiable, maybe u don't understand because you are not a man , but lets say he does wait , then they start having sex , u think any man wants to be waiting in a relationship for sex, once the door is open for sex it has to be consistent,he wants it all the time sometimes2,3 times a day , and when u get pregnantu think his urges go away, i get a man has to restrain himself also to not be constantly spilling his seed but , wedont wanna hear, not oh I just don't want to right now, if yàll are in a relationship , and then you see the countless stories of how girls they've done everything with everyone In the past but wants to make a good man who will wait pay for her not restraining herself, giving a good man less enthusiastic sex the man whose supposed have your back for life and he gets the scraps,,, so u think a man should wait when she's given other men sex In the same day of them meeting or u think the girl should vet better men and then give more ,,, I have an even better idea how about we arrange our sons and daughters to get married as virgins , seems to work way better for men and women
No, it's actually her friends that will hint that she's no good. I've seen countless female friendships fall apart because of such issues.
That age old warfare between them for a man the deem valuable. They don’t use physicality so reputation destruction it is.
I know your comment is a year old, but could you please elaborate?
@@fredcavalcante1887 girls usually have a friend circle that they had since their teens quite often. One of them if you get to know them abit, preferably over some alcohol, could possibly rat on her past.
Especially if you flirt with one of her friends and she has interest in you she will 100% rat on her.
No hymen, no diamond.
Only if you're a virgin too.
Lemme just finger around in her vjj and look for a piece of skin before I say I do. The irony is y'all are very unfamiliar and inexperienced with a woman's reproductive organs so u wouldn't be able to find it even if u had a map of her pssy 😂
I'm a virgin and I understand why men want a virgin wife... But my opinion is if a guy wants a virgin but he's got a really high body count that's a big red flag for me... A high body count tells me a person lacks self control, doesn't wanna commit, and is more likely to cheat regardless of gender!
true, i am a 22 virgin guy and looking sround me i only see people whose values don't align with mine (both gebders). It feels isolating, alienating and I'm losing hope in finding a girl like me.
@@hattoraxu8957 It's so refreshing to see a male who wants a virgin but is a virgin himself... I just wish there was a community of virgins like us that think similarly... Do you have a discord?
Yeah, I completely agree. I think sleeping around is bad regardless of your gender. Makes people crave more, negatively compare their current partner, more likely to cheat or be unhappy in the relationship, and makes people shallow. Frankly, I kind of wish I was still a virgin, and I’ve only been with two women before.
@@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 yes i do, try searching for Hatrax113. Do you wanna talk about these things, it's ok for me. I am not a native English speaker though, just saying.
@@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 yes try with Hatrax113
13 at 23!!!!! -> In a situation like this the best way to determine roughly the number is by how long she was single over the course of her life. If she’s had nothing but short relationships (& by that I mean 2 years or less) while she’s 30+ you can suspect that number is WELL & I mean WELL over 10. I would count at least one guy for every roughly 3 months she’s single. The only women I know with numbers as low as 2/3 have had 0 “single time” -> Perhaps dated the first guy for 5/7 years the second guy for 10+ years etc. If she’s been “dating” on/off & is 30+ that number is MINIMALLY 20+. So Long story short ask about their long-term relationships deduct those years then count 3/4 for every year she was not in a serious relationship.
I would even say employ some of the tactics they use. Please make comments that lead them to believe that you’re a guy who doesn’t care about the actual number. The “shit test.” Be aware of how long it took for her to be intimate with you. Use your deductive reasoning to determine a realistic number. I would even go as far as saying tell her “oh that’s not a bad number at all” -> even when it is. Tell them you’re breaking up or ending the relationship for a different reason. This way she’ll be more likely to be comfortable expressing the real number to the next man. Just be sure to not immediately end it. Take her for a few new spins and give her back the whole “it’s me not you I’m just not ready” blah blah blah.
maybe. but, how is she any better if she is having 2 to 3 year relationships until age 30. Obviously, she has probs making a relationship works. I always think that high notch counts have something to do with her strong adult figures in her life especially the attention she receive and how strong a male figure her dad is.
Lol
A Lie Detector is pretty good too Lol
Buddy who's looking for the mother of their children at age 30??? 19-22 is the age range that gives you her best years and higher chance of lower notch count.
@@rickai9945 it has more to do with her friends, I have known women who grew up with great home life's and are 304's bc their circle of friends are "living their best lives." Now they are all 30+ and absolutely miserable looking for any guy to commit. In reality they are just perpetuating the circle of misery they live with by pursuing guys who will not commit to them bc they are past their prime. Women tend to follow and if their friend group is one way they will be that way too. Not all women follow bad behavior from friends, but the ones who dont are very low statistically and outliers for a reason. Its simple if your dating a woman the first things you should vet are her friends, family life, and then her past relationships IMO.
Inevitably, in my experience, if you simply observe her behavior with some discernment without reaction but just observing .. it takes less than 3 months for the red flags to start popping up … ignoring such things is not good .. I have noticed after they think they ‘have’ you the facade drops away and the damage that has affected their personality starts showing up … in the last ‘case’ the drama queen showed up and interrogations of my “emotions” or “lack of placing her on some pedestal” really became unbearable and the insults when I had to drop having a ‘conversation’ just to feel some peace
Correct, she'll give you enough signs in 2-3 months if you're not judgmental and she doesn't actively start repressing them. The bigger problem imo is that many guys choose to ignore red flags.
@@danesovic7585 yes .. exactly .. discernment without reaction but respond with discernment to avoid further entanglement .. if that makes sense
"I have noticed after they think they ‘have’ you the facade drops away and the damage that has affected their personality starts showing up". Best comment and I agree. Have noticed this myself.
I'm old now but if there one thing I would tell young men about the dating game its this: Never, ever, believe what a woman tells you. Ever.
i wont.. but question? is rock conserts, jewerly, small tats, and piercings ALWAYS a red flag? I may be in love with a future witch, and I need to know if I need to sever this link..
@@0RDERVsCha0ss I'd be careful if I were you. Coming from a 28-year old male. Take care of yourself out there champ!
Her friends are her friends not your friends , having a job that helps her being promiscuous, realestate rep always showing houses to new clients, there job aligning with there social media , friends covering for each other, minimising everything and say your over acting. Either play the same game or move on , don’t get logical by illogical behaviour.
Ya i learned this a while ago and saw the game for what it is. I date when I want to, and do what I want. Trying to find a "wife" is not a viable option in my lifestyle.
good observation
Similarly to FA's (flight attendants) duplicities. It's part & parcel of that lifestyle.
Long term bar or restaurant work is also a red flag.
It's so funny because i dumped a girl yesterday when she said 20
Why
Oh okay. I thought age!
@@ThePhoenix109 cuz she is a 304
How old is she?
@@jackwhite8238 whats a 304?
The true purpose of mentioning "abusive past relationships" is to build a barrier to further inquiry. Gentlemen will naturally be reflexively uncomfortable, asking about such past relationships.
Great
The sisterhood Uber allies is sooo true. Its everywhere, unfortunately men are at each other’s throats constantly. We’re divided & their unified
It's quite the opposite ,woman have no real friends....
I have to agree. Women look out for each other and there is a common understanding between them that men are the enemy. Guys look out for no.1, naturally competing against their brother man. Women (as a collective) understand this and use it to their advantage. This is why the current feminist movement has gained so much traction.
@@isaacnickel Truth. Women only have superficial capacity for friendship content and depth.
Nah. The sisterhood is just a facade for the most part. And even if it is real in some cases, tight female bondage can explode into pieces at the drop of a hat over the smallest of situations.
Bullshit, women are even bigger snakes amongst their own kind. The teen movie Mean Girls is a perfect example
They should leave them… as they should! Why can’t modern women just respect themselves?? How hard is that
Why should they? Have you see our Vice President she’s been ran through by everyone including Montel and they still gave her the position
@@handsomebarber424 not my vice president
@@handsomebarber424 Lol they should, so this country and families can thrive again, but I get your point
look bro we are all insecure... why can't modern men respect themselves and quit porn? How hard is that
Nobody wants to wife a 304 it’s not about being insecure. You can wife a ComeDumpster but I’m good
Yes my ex was at 13. Blames exes, older men and being assulted but she continued over her years into adulthood and 4 kids by 2 dads and 2 husbands. But not me. She said she got smart lol.
Every woman I knew who lost her V card at an early age and/or had a high notch count was always unstable and didn’t qualify for GF material. I dated women from all over the world and in my experience, western women are the hardest to date long term. The liberal view may sound nice but it’s unrealistic. My ex gf who is German and dumped me so she can live her youth in Cancun basically screwed herself since her value is decreasing and mine is increasing.
Truth.
Let me guess......her name was Hanna??
@@RhodesianSAS-gn4qpor Emma 😂
The girl I was going out with refused to take a picture with me At the top of a mountain hiking. Means, she sees me as a Backup option, not as the priority. She doesn’t even have pictures with her exfiancee. i am beginning to think they were never really engaged. She is so narcissistic that she has never been in a long term relationship.
Deceive past: no pictures, lie…
If your gf wont take pictures with you, leave. If shell take pictures with you, posts somewhat regularly on social media and wont post you, leave. If youre just dating her and she wont take pictures with you, dont leave but never commit to her either
Then you should have done the world a favor and push her off that mountain...
If you use women casually for sex, you have no right to complain to about them having high body counts. Accountability swings both ways.
@@se7964 very good point, but red pillers hold themselves to a different standard. So you are talking to deaf ears.
@@se7964 true, but what if you are a virgin who wants to find a real connection and see all these girls who don't take sex as seriously as you? I'm disgusted honestly and also losing hope in finding a girl whose morals align with mine.
@@hattoraxu8957 Then that's completely understandable to feel that way... I'm disgusted by men who are really s3×u@||y promiscuous but I'm a virgin...
100% you cant bemoan high body counts when you're body for many women yourself
@se7964 Actually we do have the right to complain. Because men with bodycounts can still love unconditionally.
Rich's reactions to this nonsense is comical AF. Genuine stuff
Great stuff brother. Keep them coming!