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Mom caught in multiple lies by Pro Se Dad in Custody Hearing, Wild Accusations & Crazy Story
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ส.ค. 2023
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I apologize for the ending being abrupt!! There is a Part 2 coming soon (timing depends on what happens tonight when the storm). Then there are several more hearings coming up that I will cover...so please consider this TO BE CONTINUED...
Thank you! Stay safe in the storm ⛈️
What a cliffhanger!!!!!
I was about to comment HEYYYY over the course of the day, I watched this whole video…only to get left hanging at the very end??! But lol ok I’ll wait for part 2…AND who can dispute that the pup cam also made it worth it!! 🐾❤️
Can’t wait for past 2! Praying your safe in the storm and I think someone else has the spring hearing. I’ll let you know if I find it.
Is part 2 out?
Can a lawyer PLEASE reach out to this man!!! He NEEDS your help! This woman is lying and trying to keep his children from him all while he has to financially support her!!
@@crystala8020 I agree. She is clearly lying. She hurt her back previously and blamed it all on this man.
Grandpa’s not putting up with and poop. I love him for the way he talked to the attorney. He gives zero effs. He has his son’s and grandchildren’s backs. You go gramps.
Grandpa is the only one I like in this family so far.
Speaks volumes
You know what,I don’t care how it goes,dad should be happy he has Grandpa…he said you have made me the most proud of all my kids…you can’t buy that endorsement
He sure shut down that snotty attny at the end there. 😊
Any Mother that moves the children 1200 miles away is not wanting to co parent. She knew exactly what she was doing by moving so far away and this is the courts fault for allowing a parent to do this.
I'm surprised Michigan allowed this too. I couldn't when I got divorced in Mi. You better have a very sad darn good reason to move that far away from the father.
"We'll it's the truth! I don't care who's heresay it is"😂 grampa is awesome ❤
I loved grandpa! Sad that they aren’t seeing the kids ☹️
He needs legal counsel to help him get his children. This woman is dangerous! She lies with impunity.
IMO they are both probably exaggerating. But according to the evidence presented, it took him five days to all about his son. I'm sorry but if my child is on life support, screw five days...I would be heading to the airport at 4am THAT DAY! She told him when he went to the hospital, it's not her responsibility to keep messaging him when he doesn't seem to care to ask.
@@carolwaller5689 is this B4 she moved far away . Was it court order
I want Mr. Shanks as my grandfather! What a wonderful man. Sounds like he helped raise a good man who turned his life around. Poor kids.
I was thinking the exact same thing! ♥️
I wish I had a dad like that.
Shame on Mom for not allowing Dad and grandparents to see the kids. 😡.
Shame on her for taking the kids so far away and THEN acting like he can just fly to TX every weekend for an hour. It's BS...
I despise women who lie about domestic violence, sexual violence etc!!
Oh that is the new weapon…you have an argument about the weather and they will call you an “Emotional abuser”…at this point you need to sign a survey and set up a camera before you have sex with a woman
Oh, my heartstrings are being pulled for grandpa. Why would a mother want to keep her children from their grandparents?
Her anger is more important to her than her kids' feelings and best interest.
There are so many reasons why A mother (not speaking about THIS mother in the video) would keep her children from their grandparents;
Abuse
Untreated mental illness
Narcissism
Neglect
Unsafe home
The list goes on and on. Not all grandparents are good grandparents... sadly.
This mother is not a good woman
@@brandibailey7110 Absolutely.
@brandibailey7110 of course, there are always extenuating circumstances that would make a protective parent want to keep their children away from harmful people, regardless of whether they are grandparents or not. But like you said, I don't think that is the case in this situation. The vibe I get from this mother is that she can't bring herself to budge on anything her ex wants because she is too angry.
"He's up there shitting all over the hallways of the complex" 🤣 grandpa is a trip lmao! And that mom is SUCH a LIAR!
Yessss and nobody say anything cause he's 80yrs old and he said it so effortlessly that it sounded respectful 😂
@@rondajackson300 I THT THE SAME THING!! 😆😆
This man has reached the age that he can say what the hell he wants and I love that for him!!
This woman sounds like she’s afraid of losing her payday. She doesn’t want her husband having the kids at all, or she risks losing that child support.
Divorcing is the best for these two, but moving the kids that far away from the father is wrong!!
I hate it when they say the man was the provider financially but not there for the children in the same sentence,like it's a point to the mother 😡, maybe she should have got a job then dad could have spent more time with his children🤷
Agree. I feel so bad for men. They are actually the abused ones in family court.
Exactly! Untili was in middle school my dad worked 2 jobs then made supervisor but working 2 jobs we barely seen him. That didn’t make me think less of him as my dad. He worked hard for US! My mom took care of us, the house cooked everyday.(very okd fashioned) but nowdays its hard on one salary. Men are out providing for the family yet the bitter moms want to attack that. She don’t want to attack that child support i bet.
Exactly!!!
Double edged sword... working time spent away from kids held against him but not working is also held against her. It's a crap slinging fight to see who gets less on them
Sometimes, yes. There are some "dads" who are worthless, but enough good ones who are unfairly treated to be noted. @@sherrisRN
I love the grandfather he is speaking the truth!
He's adorable🤗
He’s pretty sharp considering his age! Wow!
I really appreciate the judge here, he was fair and informative to the father. I hope this guy prevails over this horrible woman.
Maybe Mom should get a job like the rest of us!!
Grandpa was epic
She lives in her moms house but her mom doesn’t live there? She refuses to state how much money she makes, on food stamps, doesn’t work. Sounds like she’s a freeloading kinda gal. Also, how many times does she have to say her child had a tube down his throat. Drama Momma!
Children have tubes placed down their throat when they have any operation, like removing tonsils (she likely "embellished" into having an abscess drained)!
They need to get the hospital records, from the hospital, not the mother, who could forge them.
She never explained a diagnosis, even when asked a few times. She wants it to sound like he was dying!
Lie to me once, lose my trust forever!!!
Right lmao she had to lay in his bed next to him and hold his hands down so he wouldn’t tear out his iv and breathing tube. If he was in icu for three days with a tube down his throat he would have been on some sort of sedation even if it was mild to make him comfortable for those 3 days.
And the aching pain it causes a Father to know his child is in the hospital or was in the hospital and he was unable to be there for him. She uses it, as a weapon to hurt him. Because it would. Greatly.
She is full of trauma & fear. I've dealt with many men like him in my life of work. He doesn't ask about his kids, just her. He wants to control her. He does not want to pay child support.
I live in a house my dad owns, but he doesn't live with me. I pay rent, but I doubt she does.
I sure hope Dad gets an attorney. His ex is lying - one lie after another. A good attorney will tear her apart and she absolutely deserves it!
I wish he had a lawyer, he could have been so much direct and request clear answer.
This man needs a lawyer ASAP, I hope people in his life see this and tell him how important representation is, especially when you’re being railroaded by a woman like this
An atty for custody is so expensive because the cases are so lengthy and messy imo, not In everyone’s ability to afford 50-200k+
He’s doing a better job by himself than her godawful lawyer is.
The only thing worth commenting on is what a POS this mother is. What a classless woman (and trust me I use that term sparingly). She was caught several times straight out lying to the court. She doesn’t give a hoot about her children…only about how bad she can hurt him. She shouldn’t have a goldfish much less children.
What about the fact that he couldn't be bothered to ask about his son for five days?
Grandpa was a hoot, he must have been a lawyer in a previous life. 😆 ❤
Its stunning how quickly the Mom hops from one lie to another.
Grandpa sounds like Hank Hill. I was waiting for a "Dang it, judge"
This woman is THE WORST! I can’t even finish this. Poor kids to have a mother like this
Just because you tell the police something doesn't mean it's true. It irritates me that she's living off of him + food stamps while dabbling in self employment with no certain income. Self employment is fine but if you have kids, you need to support them. Being self employed while not making money is more of a hobby.
He needs to support them too. He is horrible & isn't even concerned about his kids. He doesn't send cards or bday gifts to his own kids
This mom definitely should be helping to financially support their children. That’s every parents responsibility. She doesn’t seem credible in her testimony. she seems to be lying about him trying to alienate their children as a means to punish him and his family. I wish my children’s dad had been there for them. When my youngest was 2 months old, I was no longer able to be a stay at home mother and I loved it, but when me & my husband separated, & divorced, I never received child support, was a single mother of 3 and rather than fight over in court and put my children through this crap-I thought I am not wasting my valuable time trying to get a man to do do the right thing. i made a plan to become self employed, for being able to be there for my children & take off for my children without worrying about losing my job. It took a year, but became a licensed hairdresser & retired after 27 years; however, the first 5 years had to work a night job, too until I became financially established enough to support my children solely with my day job. My choice to become self employed when my children was younger was to be able to make my hours around there needs; doctor appointments, school activities, ball practice…. After 5 years of working my butt off, loosing sleep from working day and night, it paid off & I opened my own beauty/barber and tanning salon right next door to our home, on a small piece of property in county on a well traveled road, and built my business within the first year, I was free. And my children could get off the bus, come to the shop before walking right next door home, get a snack, while they did homework or stay at the shop if they wanted. I flipped that open -closed sign on Sunday and at anytime that I needed to for hair services, while leaving the shop door unlocked for the tanning clients for their own self service tanning. My children all graduated, & now I’m a grandma, who loves spending time with my grandchildren and working on my small farm. I sure prayed a lot to get through those hard early years and still do, God is so good. I pray grandpa gets to see his grandsons and these children have peace & both parents.
@@kristy2236he's supporting her and them as her only real income. She couldn't even say how much she made for her 3 days of work.... she's evades answering questions that bust her but she adds on digs and gives lengthy answers if she thinks it will help her case
I'm dying to know the outcome of this. Absolutely ridiculous that her attorney kept on repeating "his REFUSAL to see his children" OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS?!?!?!?!
Right like he can just easily hop on over to Texas! With little money since she won't work.
Hopefully the judge caught that! She suggested he go on the weekend...but how does he know his work schedule?
She wants him to travel 1200 miles, (not sure if that's one way, or there and back), but he'd either have to miss work on Friday, to spend time with them on Saturday, and return home Sunday!
How did she get permission to move to Texas? That doesn't see fair to the noncustodial parent. She likely did it to make it impossible for him to be in their lives!
@@lisagrafton2529that would shorten her cs. Normally if the judge allows mom to stay in another state that she move to without court permission and dad has to travel to get his parenting time then that reduces support bc it’s moms choice so it’s at moms expense. And should be. How would he fly to tx for a 2hr supervised visit? On top of cs leaving him broke? His cs needs to be reduced so he could travel for his visits or mom needs to return to mi so dad can have his parenting time. That she don’t want no matter what state there in, she don’t like him asking questions, i don’t see a problem dad asking who they have been around since he had no idea what goes on in there lives. if he really did call her a whore to them no that’s not good but she has no real credibility so
@@kimberlylozano2881nobody realizes what a scam child support is. I don't pay child support and I DO think a man should provide for his family. However, you know the federal government (you and me) match dollar for dollar all the money that goes through child support services? Now knowing that and knowing some places do 50/50 custody and make each parent "pay" the other on child support cards... so I give you 200 you give me 200. That means we paid nothing to each other....but we paid 400 to the child support administration
@@abundantlove2194 I’m almost certain that even if he did make it to Texas she would refuse/put up every roadblock possible to prevent him from seeing his kids
She is full of it. Sadly she will retain custody. It disgusts me that women like this retain custody. My mother was just like her.
She “severed” her arm when she punched the gun cabinet 😂 hope she got it sewn back on!
Dude is on point! Go dad i pray you get your babies!
If my mom ever tried to keep me from my grandparents, I would never speak to her again. There’s nothing more precious to a child than their grandparents. I lost mine in 2021 and I’m still absolutely heartbroken. My Grammy and Pawpaw passed away 5 days apart. What I wouldn’t give to have another day with them.
The issue is when the kids aren’t even aware that this is being done or are told that they don’t want to see them. Some woman are absolutely evil
Dad is a better lawyer than Moms lawyer. Kids are in school why isn't mom working. Mom sounds vengeful
Mom is minimizing and hurting the kids by making this a battle, and dad sounds like a lunatic too. So…. Like always, I’m just sad for the kids.
Are you basing that opinion off of her story about the domestic violence? Because I would probably hesitate to believe that story. There is a lot of manipulation going on. That story is jarring to hear. So that's why they told it, and that's why they told it the way they told it... there Is a reason they told that story in particular, because it made him look as bad as they could possibly make him look. Most men don't report domestic violence on their wife. They just take it and live with it. So we don't know what this relationship was like. Because they're both spinning things to make themselves look Better of course. But what she is doing is she is manipulating. Everybody, and she's got everybody wrapped around her little finger. So that tells me she's probably super toxic. And just by her comment about him. When he left, she basically acted like he leaves, And that's just what he does. Well, she wasn't understanding that he leaves because, like most men, you don't want things to escalate. Leaving is de-escalating the situation. But if you stay, you're giving her exactly what she wants so that she can continue to push your buttons and force you to get to a point where you say something or do something that will hurt you.
@@danshotguns4226I get that it's her word against his but why not hesitate to believe him? Why not assume he's lying? I think they are both probably exaggerating things to be honest, like many people do in divorce. But DV aside, it took him five days to ask about his 3 year old son who was on life support.
@@danshotguns4226not to mention there was an incident where she slapped him with a gun so hard he went to check on his teeth in the mirror before he left.
Dad sounds like a lunatic? Sure. If you listen to her fictional account of things.
This mother is unsufferable! she wants to make visits with Dad as difficult as possible and continue to collect Child support!
My brother had a wife like this. She would tell half lies. Darn near ruined him, but his friends and customers backed him 100%, and they were right to do so. Our parents divorced when I was 17 and until the day my father died, he Never once said one word against my mom. My mom would reinforce that he was our dad and would always be there for us.
My mother walked out on us five kids leaving Dad to raise us when I was about seven and even though she made his life a living hell and refused to pay child support for years he never said a bad word about her ..she belittled him every chance she got and regularly told us what a terrible man he was and how she never wanted to marry him but she was pregnant with my eldest brother and felt trapped, however she chose to have five more children with him so he couldn’t be that bad . As I got older I understood what a narcissistic person she was and when she decided to cease all contact with all of us it was actually a relief.. my Daddy was always there for me and I miss him tremendously since he died many years ago.
This judge is so good at explaining everything. I can tell Mom is lying just because I'm a mom... She's pulling everything she can it's so frustrating 😢
My wife was a single mom who actually TRIED to get her daughters' father to have a relationship with them. Sadly, he couldn't/wouldn't and later passed away. She was watching this just SCREAMING at the mom.
I am a mom of 4, and been a single mom too. 2 of my kids dad refuses to have anything to do with them it’s been about 6 yrs since he’s even seen the kids our youngest is 8. My husbands who would do anything to see his kids but his ex wife refuses to let him see them or talk to them and has done everything she can to turn them to hate him making them believe he’s just not wanting to be in their lives. I just don’t understand why some women are just so evil “ in my opinion” of course
@@Not_that_kind_of_Drmy kids haven’t seen their dad in two or three months, and it breaks my heart. Visits were sporadic at best before that too. They’re older, our daughter is 17 and she doesn’t really want to go there. But our son is 15, he’s at an age where he very much needs his dad’s influence and guidance. Try as I might to be everything he needs, I just can’t replace a father for a 15 year old boy. He said he “hit hard times” so he hasn’t been able to have them over. He has another kid who’s about 3 years old, and I’d bet money he’s still having that child over to visit on the weekends. The only reason he’s had our kids over in the last year or so was to babysit the younger one so he could work. He seems to put our kids second to his other child, and I very much hope they don’t feel that too.
He’s the kind of guy who always talks about how he’s going to die young, that he’s not going to live to be an old man. When we were married I would stop him from saying that in front of the kids, but I have no idea how many times he’s said that around them in the last 6 years we’ve been divorced. I truly hope our kids don’t think of that, and wish they could see him more.
Bottom line, sorry for the long reply, and I understand how your wife feels.
Oh it's manipulation 101 she has everybody wrapped around her little finger
She creeps me out. He needs a lawyer.
I agree. That said, even though I’m not liking her much, I have to say that HER lawyer sucks.
I agree, I can’t articulate why, but mom and her lawyer give me bad vibes. The facts as stated are not great for the dad, but somehow I’m not buying moms story.
Yes he got super lucky with her having a crappy lawyer which I’m sure is coming out of his paycheck. But I def would have loved watching a lawyer who knows what their doing tear her n her lies apart and make her actually answer the question and stop trying to say whatever u want after the fact.
He is better than her lawyer
I see what he did here…some things are bigger than winning or losing a case,..sometimes just setting the record straight and clearing your name is enough.
As a grandparent who’s seen this same thing happen to my grandsons other grandparents I can tell you it does effect the children. My sons ex got mad at her dad and cut him out of her sons life. He couldn’t understand why he couldn’t speak to his grandpa and he was terrified that she would do the same to me. So yes children are effected by the cruel actions of inconsiderate parents!
“Wait sell yourself?” LITERALLY the words that came out of my mouth 😂🤣 that’s why I love it here you think what I think 😂😂
Omg this woman is super frustrating!!! I applaud dad for catching her in so many lies, however, I would have loved to see him have an attorney that would rip her apart for her nonresponsive answers. That woman is so toxic . I wish the dad and those children the absolute best. 🙏
Could you tell me which lies he caught her in? I'm not saying they aren't there, I'm just saying I'm having trouble finding them. Both parents seem fairly awful from what I've heard.
Dad is an abuser and didn’t really catch her in any lies, just made assertions.
@@DIEGOSHAY That's what I felt, too.
Agree 💯. I see right through her. Go Dad and get a lawyer. 😊🎉
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"Dad" admitted he did stupid things before having kids. She acts like she never did anything wrong, but abused drugs, lost custody of another child, and it's not easy to take a child from, especially their mother!
She danced around the diagnosis question, after implying their child was at deaths door. I won't believe he was in ICU, unless an ICU Dr testifies that he was there. The father needs to get the medical records, directly from the hospital, not her. I don't trust that she wouldn't forge them.
Then, she said she did give the children gifts, his parents sent for them, but I believe the children did tell his grandparents that they didn't get any gifts from them! I really hope the judge asks the children about that! I am concerned that the mother, and perhaps her lawyer, will groom the children into lying, by telling them their father only wants them to hurt them, and that their daddy wants to hurt or kill mommy, so they need to tell the judge that daddy hurt them, and they don't want to see him or grandma and grandpa!
That lawyer alleged things not proven, but were only told to her, by the mother! Those were just a few of the lies the mother told!
As for CPS...I have absolutely no trust in anything they do!
She is a piece of work. She knows damn well he is not going to hurt his kids! She is just drama queen
Epiglottis is an anatomical structure, not a medical diagnosis 😂😂
Yes, but swelling of the epiglottis is called epiglottitis, so I can understand her getting it confused.
It’s the little dangling thing in the back of your throat. I believe that mom didn’t say the problem correctly, but I melted at epiglottis. Almost everyone has one.
@@darcyc5476That is actually called the uvula. The epiglottis is the membrane at the top of the trachea that closes when you swallow to prevent food/liquids/foreign objects from entering the lungs. 🙂
The only thing worse than an abuser is someone who lies about being abused and ruins it for DV survivors!
Sounds like she may be poisoning the kids against dad and grandparents. She certainly doesn't have anything good to say about them. Almost everything she has to say raises the hair on the back of my neck. He needs an attorney. She creeps me out quite honestly. I don't find her credible.
Watching the pups eat SAVED me!
Haha that was amazing when he called her out for lying about the hospital!! I knew she was a liar! My opinion of her stands she is GROSS!
Mother didn’t listen that he has a job! Child support is for sure why she wants full custody.
Travel from Michigan to Texas for a 3 hour supervised visit? If the courts agree to that they will be complicit in taking a father away from his children. This couple were obviously a bad match from day one of their marriage, especially if the honeymoon was over in a month. It takes two to tango, and neither one of them can claim to be an outstanding human being.
I absolutely love dad’s dad
Mother moved fromMichigan to Texas. The courts should STOP this.
I believe strongly that this woman is a master manipulator who used law enforcement to help achieve what she would ultimately be setting up for in the courts. She doesn’t remember details that would be unforgettable, she slipped up and said the man that would not help her and her husband previously said to have ran away took her to the hospital and when called on it claimed she was mixed up?!? Nearly everything she said was not backed by evidence that should exist or called into question on redirect by her own conflicting statements.
The things he is asking are relevant because it proves she is a liar.
"I pulled out a gun, gun jammed trying to keep him away" now call me crazy but how would you know the gun jammed unless you puller the trigger at him..that sounds a bit more like get him away 6 ft under.
Facts.
Why are court proceedings not showing the litigants? This is happening more and more often. I like to see who's testifying.
My guess is because people were being doxxed.
I know! Body language tells alot!
I’m pretty sure it’s when they call in by phone and not video, that u can’t see them.
Did she say severed her arm? So she has a missing arm now? What?
I don't know about anybody else, but something isn't right with these stories- mainly on her part
This is getting confusing trying to figure out the lies also
And the lies keep coming- some of these lies are outrageous
Right if she punched a glass cabinet to get the gun n dash to safety she would 100% have pictures of that broken glass cabinet along with her bloody arm or missing arm since she said severed Lmaoo or pictures of all that scarring she also has lmao this lady is a joke n continues to lie about the dumbest shit under oath
Did this woman's attorney check the authenticity of the criminal charges and the outcomes of same? If not she is lacking in her duty to the court in not producing false information. Using children as a weapon and making it difficult for the other parent to see the children is not being a good parent, it is being a selfish poor human. Living off Child Support is illegal, the money is for the children's living costs not the receiving parent.
She’s a piece of work ,she doesn’t want him in the kids life but has the gall to say he should feed them ,cloth them and support them. This is typical of her type. She should be in jail for taking his children out of his life and him out of theirs.
Actively preventing their kids from seeing their grandparents has got to be against some law. I’d be heartbroken as a grandparent.
I actually live that. And the grandkids are my daughter's children. All because we don't agree on how to parent. Such as, I believe children should have friends and be able to go outside and get dirty if they're safe (or at least as safe kids can be...lol)
Some grandparents don’t deserve the grandchildren. Especially when they actively enable their children and their negative behaviour as a parent. I thank god there aren’t those weird laws here in Canada or at least my province about grandparents rights
My husband's cousin died in his sleep at 33. She didn't want an autopsy and because there wasn't any suspicious circumstances he didn't have to have one. She wanted him cremated so they had him cremated and about four days after he died they had a funeral after the funeral his family wasn't invited back to the house but his parents went back to his house to try to get some of his personal things that she had put out by the road and she had a boyfriend already and they were driving around the property in his dead cousin's truck. Her family was appalled that she was making out with this guy and her husband's funeral just ended about an hour earlier and she's already making out with the guy.. the grandparents my husband's aunt and uncle were never allowed to see the children again. They adopted two children kids were seven and 5 years old and up until about 8 months before he died they lived right next door to his parents they saw the children every single day and we're in their lives a lot and she refused to let them see the grandparents. And they took her to court and the judge upheld her right to not allow them. Because she was his wife she got $1million in life ins and she got the estate worth about $250k it was a small town in the guy that she was dating was was the nephew of the sheriff. Pretty sick
@@annmarygarcia1321 sorry to hear that! That’s awful, and I don’t know how you do it and stay sane. Keep fighting, I’m sure that kid will appreciate one day. And I hope things turn around.
@@itssyagirld8727 And some parents lie through their damn teeth, saying anything they can to keep the other parent and family away from the kids.
Grandpa told her that he has a hard time hearing and she continued to talk like she was reading bedtime stories which annoyed me.
She is a lawyer, not a voice actor. Grampa had what he wanted to say and did not want to listen to mom's lawyer anyway. Gramps seemed in dark to criminal history of his golden chikd son too.
We seriously need to start a Go Fund Me & send this Dad to Law School!!! He is AMAZING!!!
Can't stand the attorney I do NOT BELIEVE THE MOM
But her job is to work for her. I don’t like the mom and I’m sure the attorney can’t secretly stand her. I think she would have defended him too
I hate things like this because all the BS and lies, especially from the attorney
I think the Mother is getting into some Hot water here, ladies and gentlemen.
😢😢😢 PawPaw almost broke my heart
He seemed very sweet/good guy but MAN did it give me serious flashbacks to my own custody (and about 10 court cases since) where my exs dad sat on the stand and lied through his teeth to try and take my kids away. Even now exs father has sent me threatening letters (if you ever send my son to jail again i will call mayor, cps, hoa, prop standards etc) and threatening letters to our judge. So thats all i could think about when i heard this guys dad testify 😢
The judge looks like gileroy Lockhart from Harry Potter! Great hair!
I was thinking exactly the same thing! 😁
She is a STRAIGHT UP LIAR!!!! 😩🤦🏽♀️
Mom moved out of state w/o court permission, shes willing to drive 40mile to give him his visitation. How nice of her🙄 while he has to go from Mi to TX for a 2hr supervised visit 1 day a wk, ludicrous !They put supervised visits on a man that lives in Michigan when mom took off to Texas 🤔 ya that makes sense. Mom needs to go back to MI so dad can have his parenting time. Or his child support should be reduced to allow funds for travel to get his parenting time. It’s moms choice so it’s at moms expense
If you listen to the closing comments, she left with permission of the court.
Or dad can move to Texas
If she is so willing to "do anything to have the kids have a relationship with dad" as she stated, why doesn't she meet him half-way? She said that, financially she's "doing just fine" so it shouldn't be a problem.
Oh my! I swear the more the mom lied, the more her "southern twang" came out! I know her type to well! Gross!
I think there are some issues on the fathers side, but more on the mother’s side + I think she purposely pushes the father’s buttons.
She should be made to work full time! These are school age children, not babies or toddlers.
@@MearnieToon"pushing buttons" is a turn of phrase for instigating amd the courts even weigh instigation.
Abuser is a cringe word. It's assault not abuse the mom isn't a child. Grow up
Pushing buttons with complete lies. I hope the Judge sees right thru her lies.
This whole hearing just made me angry. I was married for 24 years, and my ex and I were solid when it came to custody and parenting. Friend of the court was surprised (I also live in MI). He and I are friends and still are. He could come over whenever to see the kiddos as long as he texted first so that he could find out if they were home. We both were very involved with their HS activities and even volunteered together to make sure we didn’t miss a thing. Both kids are adults (one in the home stretch of college), and I still keep him informed of every little text I get from either of our two children and he does as well.
The main thing we decided before we had children was if something happened and we divorced, we would never use children as pawns, and we’d never speak negatively of the other or manipulate them. This is why you have to have a good friendship first. We just can’t live together. Lol
That’s because u all cared more about ur children’s well-being then yourselves
I love ref. Hagen! I’ve been in court before him in the past and he is a very VERY fair referee! Thank you for doing this video!
This is just tragic. Although he has made huge mistakes the children need both parents.
My advice would be relocate to Texas establish well behaved consistent visitation. Record everything. Eventually joint custody will prevail.
In my opinion, if he can avoid provocation, she will be the one to mess up before he does.
If I were pro-se, I would have raised scores of objections to Sheldon's leading assertions.
Women try hurting the father for their own short comings. Playing the Abuse card is a horrible slap in the face to"true" victims. Her lawyer is using her knowledge to facilitate her clients lies
She’s so smug he can just go to another state to visit anytime he wants; like it’s that easy in today’s economy.
Thank you...I pick up on smugness from her.. not abuse victim! God forgive me if I'm wrong
Seriously she doesn't know where ir when her kid broke his arm ??? Really
How could he be there for the children when she moved them from Michigan to Texas!!!!!!!!! This was so wrong!
This lady is such a lier. What she is doing to this man and his children is disgusting.
She isn’t the only parent! She’s alienating that dad
That mother and her lawyer seem to be manipulative, and the lawyer suggesting he chooses not to visit his children, who she moved 1200 miles away, and she refuses to work, makes me believe she only wants the children, to collect money, that she uses to live on!
I hope he can get evidence from the hospital, as his father, about why he was there, and if he was in ICU for three days. He needs to call the company that facilitates contact, to get printouts of exact times she sent emails, and if the system was really down, or did she tamper with it. She was asked a few times about a diagnosis for her son's hospital stay, and she kept dancing around the answer. He needs to get someone to find out if she actually stopped smoking, or was she lying about that too. The mediator needs to ask the children, if they got presents from his parents, her grandparents, or did she tell them it was from her. I would believe she did that. How is she paying for a lawyer??? The lawyer saying his parents supporting their son, was beyond disgusting. He admitted he did things before having children, but she acts like she never did anything wrong. The mediator/judge needs to require an unannounced drug screen, via hair follicle test, and test for nicotine as well. She needs to get a job, and stop having babies, with different men, just to collect child support, she lives on. Taxpayers are likely paying for everything else. Abusers of the system, become experts on how to manipulate the govt assistance programs, to "steal money", without working! If they are discovered and cut off of State assistance, they move to another state, and do the minimum, to steal assistance money and housing, from that state. They become professional victims!
OurFamilyWizard is rock solid. It's so strange. I've never heard of them "whoopsie didn't deliver messages." If he can OFW to deny it for the record to the court, it would impeach her testimony.
Test for nicotine?? Cigarettes are legal
Everything you said...I. agree 💯 She's off and certainly doesn't come out like a victim to me. Her smirking tone and excessively long answers while evading the questions is annoying and frankly the judge should have stopped the evasion. I do think the judge was otherwise being fair though, but man does this guy need a lawyer!
@aurorasfamilyproductions8484 it would prove she was lying about quitting over two yrs prior. He's her source of "income", I mean child support....and she shouldn't be buying cigarettes while on government assistance
His adopted father and mother I actually know and are amazing wonderful people and frankly he would tell the courts bluntly and honestly if he thought his son wasn't doing good or right he would say it clearly without hesitation to courts never covering for him or anyone else he actually testified against his son and told the courts he needed a good whooping and some time behind bars to see what his lif was facing if he didn't change and he was one that turned his son in when cops didn't know who committed crime and found out it was his son.
When she says "we built a house." She means "he built a house with his money and I benefited from it."
he needs an attorney
I have never been so mad at a custody case like this one. That dang lawyers closing statement was full.of lies it made me sick. This woman was caught in so many lies. I believe she didn't gave car seats. Loaded guns in truck . For money. In what world does a judge allow the mother to leave the state . Have husband pay child support and let him see the kuds 3 hours a month. # I'm for the underdog!!!
Agree with you 💯 % and may God forgive me if I'm wrong. She's the worst kind of woman if I'm reading her correctly... despicable!
My first thought as I saw the judge was "Is this Gilderoy Lockhart??? He looks just like JK Rowling described!" lol I'm literally not even 5 minutes in and can't stop giggling at how similar they are. 🤭
I had to look that up. Everyone kept commenting it and I didn’t get the reference!! Duh!
Lol i didn't nt see how he could, she gets all his money, he can barely buy lunch much less go to texas to pay someone to supervise his parenting time.
I believe it! These poor men, get run up and down.
My nephew just told me in my brother that his mom's boyfriend was punching him in the back all the time. My brother went to his lawyer, and his lawyer told him he really" doesn't have enough and moms are more important than Dad's. "
Disgusting
Dad… please get a Lawyer
Women like this make it really difficult for those who actually need help with DV and mental health issues. The lawyers versions of who prevails at the end is appalling.
So if that isbwhat happened, why did you go back to him?
This woman is a professional victim. This man needs an atty. It wasn't a fair arrangement that she moved across the country.
I've heard several judges tell couples say use family wizard because it's monitored to avoid harassment.
You do not put a tube down anyones throat without sedation.
This woman is condescending and evasive. She hadn't been forth coming to any question ask. Please tell me how she doesn't have to work by choice and gets over $600 a month?
She wants him to pay for her to sit home? Wow
If it's an NG tube no sedation is given prior to insertion. If someone code blues and has a breathing tube intubation there's no sedation given. I've dropped/placed more tubes in my career than I can actually count. Never sedated prior to insertion of any.
I remember when I got Child Support. 1, I had to get a full time job, not sit at home living off of CS.2 , You could always use the CS toward day care- that's what I did, so I could work. 3, When I had a 4 bedroom house and job in another state,the judge said I couldn't leave the state. I had to stay for visitation. Also so the drive wouldn't be so long. You want the child support to keep coming but fail to understand that he has to work in order for the CS. Driving across the country would make him lose the job for just a few hours of visit. Your attorney isn't thinking either. You guys need to work it out, and I must say shame on you mom for putting unreasonable demands on dad to see his children
I left an abusive relationship 25+ years ago. To this date I can tell you everything that occurred on each occasion.
I’m not defending this woman at all, but I left an abusive relationship and I cannot recall all of it - I would dissociate and black out large swaths of time. Everyone is different.
Wow! The mother’s lawyer speculated the father had mental issues ??
I 've watched this attorney prop up other women and unfortunately they aren't all worthy of her efforts. This one certainly isn't.
Just in case you expected an ending, there isn’t one! So, if you can’t handle getting invested in a case, but not hearing what happened, you’ve been warned.
It is To Be Continued... Sorry, poor editing on my part. Next hearing is in a couple weeks
Thanks for the heads up. I personally don’t mind, however, it would be nice to know beforehand from the “Podcaster”…gives ya a tad bit of CREDIBILITY. A little blip of “Part 1 of….” doesn’t take much time and you won’t potentially loose sub’s. But I’m not a Podcaster…so maybe there is much more to that….????
@@thinbluedispatcher9119 there is a pinned comment and a note in the description. I forgot to add the ending and it took a week to get the video approved, so it’s not realistic to edit it.
I had an ex with no interest in his kids. He never contacted me because he didn't care. This man is trying to see his kids as are the grandparents that means they care. Mom is lying through her teeth. If he abused her she would remember what happened because it is traumatic but she has no details just well it happened a lot. A police report means nothing unless they are charged and found guilty. I've had vindictive neighbours call the police but other then their word there was nothing to back up their claims. Because there was nothing done
@@thinbluedispatcher9119 such a Rude tone.
Mom is a liar and she better be careful. Those kids could very easily grow up with a whole lot of resentment against mom for alienating dad and his side of the family.
Dad should have got a lawyer. Mom does not seem very credible. The fact that she said she couldn’t escape when he was gone for multiple days at a time, negates that statement.
I wish Dad had a lawyer like you just said it would of went in his favour his lawyer if it was a good one would of wiped the floor with mam and her lies would of literally went through her for a shortcut called her out on all her games and lies and parental alienating that she is doing.
If he’s willing to take polygraph on the DV and she/lawyer refuse it’s bc she’s lying. On top of him catching her in multiple lies fe the falling on ice breaking tailbone yet in prev court hearing blaming her back issues on his dv. Also her claiming to have to argue w him while sitting in the hospital while there son has a tube down his throat when dad didn’t even get the msg/respond til 5 days later(the msg dates prove that) when they were out the hospital. It shows how not credible she is and she’s pulling every trick out the hat to keep him from having visitation w there kids. Moving out of state 1200 miles and requesting supervised visits based on the lies she told she got and acts like she’s doing him a favor willing to drive 40miles to a place.🙄 these women! If cops were involved throughout there entire marriage why did none of the charges ever stick? He wasn’t convicted of any? Its fishy. Alot of dv victims don’t call the cops so there’s no documentation to bring charges vs this case if police were involved there would 100% been charged/convictions bc the courts are pretty tough on they don’t need victims to prosecute dv they will pick it up and try the case. She’s terrible for what she’s doing he may not have been perfect but she admitted she don’t worry about abuse or neglect w dad and kids. Oh bc he asked questions of who they are around, ya most parents want to know that. I don’t find that bad. She has total control, they are pawns to her to use against dad. She sure ain’t mad about the cs. Which he should ask to be reduced due to needing to travel to have his parenting time. A court would grant that. Lawyers are good in that sense of helping in those areas
Many abused women fail polygraphs due to severe fear & trauma. If you've worked dv cases you could see he clearly is an abuser.
@@kristy2236she doesn't at all sound or act like a victim. He sounds angry and if all she's saying isn't true any him, then he should be angry.
@@meganvenegas7632 I was a survivor of severe DV and no one knew. I never acted like a victim. I could see & hear the fear in her. Unless you have been there yourself or around survivors, you just don't know.
Thanks, Meg, looking foreword to the conclusion. This Dad is on fire and spot on,
"well it's the truth, I don't care who's hearsay it is" go grandpa! 🤣
I think both sides are lying. He definitely needed a lawyer. I guess she is paying for hers with all his money. 😂 i don't know that his dad being a witness was very helpful, at least towards the end. Probably why he didn't Subject his mom to being on the stand.
The mom lied so much. It was so obvious. Idk how her worker didn’t notice.