This Dude Really Ghosted His Pregnant GF?? | MTV's Ghosted
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- On this episode of ‘Ghosted: Love Gone Missing,’ Russell has enlisted the help of Rachel and Travis to help track down his ex-girlfriend, Destiney, who he ghosted after finding out she was pregnant. After ghosting her, Destiney returned the favor, and now, Russell is desperate to reconnect.
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Ghosted: Love Gone Missing helps distraught people track down former friends or lovers who suddenly cut off all contact with them. Hosts Rachel Lindsay and Travis Mills meet the haunted and come up with theories about the cause behind the ghosting. Then the hosts look for leads in order to track down the ghost. Finally, the truth is revealed during a confrontation between the two parties.
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This poor woman got ghosted when she was pregnant. Lost her baby. Then she had to go on this show and relive it again.
I hate being that dude, but she agreed to all of it lol. She could have kept it pushing
War leader from the hilly land this is a fucking lie.
@War leader from the hilly land You're just plain outright stupid.
@War leader from the hilly land actually they do a scan as soon as you make it known to your gp that you may be pregnant. After a positive pregnancy test, the sonogram comes soon after
I agree, except for the "Had to go on the show" part. They don't force anyone to be on the show afaik.
she probably had many sleepless nights wondering why he just disappeared
That's probably how she lost her baby. Poor thing
@@jereline100 dam s.m.h
That will definitely cause a miscarriage smh stress is like one of the number one causes. I can relate....I had 3 of them back to back to back....undescribable pain smh 😞💔
That is a HUGE narcissist trait to "ghost" someone and do the "silent treatment" thing. I still have slight PTSD from a previous relationship doing that after years of being together.
And than blocked her. That's a slap in the face smh.
A woman never forgets the way a man treated her while she was pregnant..
100%!
Facts
Yup real shit
Courtney Fuller THIS!
You can say that again ....
being gay isn’t an excuse for being a low down , deadbeat , cheater smfh . he really did her wrong i feel really bad for her
@Kingdrago101 how exactly did SHE do wrong??
@Kingdrago101 makes no sense but k?
How he a deadbeat where’s there’s no baby
The whole community of abclgbt what ever they are now, will cheat and sleep around ,bc they think someone else will do it to them,that community is sad and needs help🤔
Kingdrago101 how is she “throwing her kid on him” when he was the father of it? Lol
I can’t imagine losing the father of my child and then losing my child on top of it....
this is heartbreaking
Its probably his faught she lost it. Or had an abortion but didnt want to say it on tv.
You cant just say that yes have an opinion but if your opinion is something like that then keep it to yourself
This happened to me in a way. I had a miscarriage with my ex and it was very difficult and hard on me and he dumped me soon after (for another girl, of course the one he said to not worry about)
And wouldn't speak to me.
I can tell you it was the worst feeling ever. I felt like "no one wants me.. not even my own baby wanted me as a mom".
😓
Also, when we had found out i was pregnant, that girls response when he told her, was "omg kill her lol" .
😒
majalind ewwww you deserve better girl
she turned away his gift and the first thing he says is “me being gay has nothing to do with me being a dad” wheeeewwww the INSECURITY JUMPED OUT
Wanting to make her out to be the bad person, as if she's a homophobe.
I caught that too...
@@kim_ber_leigho6959 Unfortunately I do agree with you. He jumped STRAIGHT ON THAT BUS with that outrageous remark. He once again made it all about HIM. It was as if he was waiting for a opportunity to scream it out. Pffttt.....
he’s a very manipulative person. I hope Destiny and his bf abandon him. Russel is the type of man that needs to be alone.
It was like throwing out a race card
And she went through that miscarriage by herself...
ceara nicole Exactly. The pain, the emotional trauma, the depression, the despair, etc. It had to be hard listening to him talk about the child in the present tense, to remember that he wasn’t there for any of it and to see that gift that couldn’t be given.
Broke my heart
That’s the worst part!!😪
ceara nicole I read this comment first and I still cried
My sister had a miscarriage over a month ago it hurts me not to know my niece/nephew .we didn’t even find out a gender
Sometimes an apology isn't enough. This is one of those times . She went through something traumatic all alone.
Tell him to kick rocks
I’m saying
She just over it. She ain’t here for it. She tired of the emotions and betrayal.
Danielle Taylor yes deff like why now
I know! I love her. Such a strong, powerful lady.
If she was of it she wouldn't be crying, or even be there.
BEEBEE are you stoopid? She wanted to talk to him and listening to what he wanted to say like a strong womman smh
@@ebbablomqvist9287 Strong women don't cry.
Destiney gives me such powerful vibes. She was respectful, honest and through this whole horrible ordeal.
LaMiseria yeah she’s so strong. Wow.
More like bitter, hurt, and heartbroken.
@@lionobjs even if that was the case…wouldn’t it be justified for her to feel that way ?
She has every right to seem heartless , i don’t think I’ll ever forgive something like that. Wow I’m glad she is happier but i don’t want her to go back to russel
If he's admitting he's gay why would that happen?
@@hiigh5025 yea
hi igh stranger things have happened lol.
@@Jstwatching fair enough lol
sunnny Tee he’s gay she ain’t trying to be with him
He wanted his sexuality to be the reason he couldn’t be a father so bad 🙄. Only person I’m sorry for is the woman who got ghosted and that unborn angel.
kk simmons it's a fake buddy .
Right? The way he acted when she revealed there was no baby. "Is it because I'm gay?!?!?!?"
Poor woman. Having to deal with all of that by herself.
Being gay has nothing to do with being a deadbeat.
Exactly
No I think he just had internalised homophobia, so he was struggling with his identity as a person as well as his sexuality.
How is a deadbeat when she lied to him about the kid and he came back to co parent
But that's why he left her tho.....
Jarian Warren doesn’t matter he’s still a deadbeat
NOTE : Her Sister a real one and a great example of what 2 do when people being nosy !
I agree! I would have done the same thing!
ProdbyMuseic facts💯
i agree
It's their job to ask questions...but those answers definitely weren't hers to give..so yes kudos to sis
Lmaooooo right
She she said “I had a miscarriage” and he started crying and she started crying.........
I did too
I dont care about him crying cuz he a little bitch, but dude I felt her tears in my soul I cried too lol
Angelica C yesss
I cried
Shevii Blu I did too
I cried for her too 😭
As someone who was ghosted after finding out I was pregnant, I cannot sympathize with her enough. He got off WAY too easily. His sexuality has nothing to do with it smh
How did you get through that situation? I’ve been ghosted for a month now. 9 wks preg. He called just to ask me why I said hurtful things to him. 😢
These clowns are man enough to do the dirty deed, but they ain't man enough to raise their kids. smh Sorry you had to go through that, hun.
I’m going thru the same thing right now 😭
Him being a god-awful human had everything to do with it! God!
@@YellaRoseBliss i’m so sorry :( stay strong sis
No one cares about the fact that he’s gay, it’s about how he treated Destiney. He’s a horrible person.
I hate how easy he’s getting off. He ghosted the mother of his child while she was pregnant. That’s messed up regardless.
Nadine R exactlg
Yes I agree
KAT make up for it. Tf? You actually sound dumb. No man nor woman should get off easy if you disappear on ya child’s life or if you S/O is pregnant
@KAT not ghost the mother of your child?
KAT wtf are you okay?
“In my head being gay was wrong.”
But ghosting your pregnant girlfriend is right? Lmao.
Val White ... oh the logic of it all😂
He later said he thought he would be an embarrassment as a father because of his sexuality. He also didnt have a father growing up. What he did was really wrong but he has a lot of healing to do.
@@raic3283I hear u but No excuse. I understand the trauma behind his decision.. but he left more because he didn't want to ruin his new relationship.. not all of this stuff u talking about
This a pathetic excuse and not taking his side but in the black community to some, it’s still worst to be gay than to ghost a pregnant girlfriend. I pray they both find the closure they need and heal for their own sake.
Exactly. So fucking self absorbed.
She obviously had the miscarriage AFTER he ghosted her!! Therefore she had EVERY single gotdamn right to ghost him back!!!
PERIOD!!
Imagine ghosting your pregnant GF and come back to know she lost your child maybe because of the stress you put her through
You would be surprised ppl do worse
These dudes don't care. My daughter's father did the same thing. Then came back acting all sad. Chiiile gtfoh I held it down for 6 years. Got a master's degree and started a business. Kickrocks biiiiiiitch *adjusts 👑* #nocommentforabitchnicca
@@AN-gq8zr same girl and this comment is life
Lolo Life Gorl I’m proud af of you!!! I’m on that path of renewal now . I lost my son this year, He was stillborn. I miss my Lawrence and will never forget him! You’re inspiring girl!!!
That happened to me and my ex ended up losing all of his children and then the stress he put me through I lost my child so now we have nothing!
cheat on her, get her pregnant, ghost her, now moving the blame on to your sexuality? sorry no.
Zoe Belle exactly. It’s the lack of responsibility is the problem not his sexuality.
Actually girl he tried to put the blame on sexuality and her
Ok so no him being gay isn't the reason he did it
It’s not an excuse by coming out but he needs to show responsibility and be a father tbh
I think he's simply a coward. But not in a bad way. Some people are just cowardly because they can't handle stuff. He got overwhelmed, and I think that's okay. What wasn't okay, is only showing up 2 years into your child's life about it.
I know what it’s like to loose a baby, the fact that he ghosted his pregnant GF and then she had to grieve and mourn without him.....he got off easy
K Swizz super easy she looks like she wants to wwe slam him during their confrontation
LOUDER 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
K Swizz RIP to your little angel, I myself lost a child 2yrs ago. It hurts so much. You’re not alone Beautiful.
Too easy I swear .. men
And girl I feel you on another level.
Lose*
That stress induced that miscarriage. He should be ashamed of his self.
Jerry Hilliard oh for sure. That’s so upsetting.
He should be but he's not...
i get stress could’ve impacted the miscarriage it you cannot just blame him. it broke my heart that she was in so much pain tho when she said it. it was so sad.
Yeah, i agree, horrific.
Happy Thoughts because how are you going to blame him for her body rejecting the baby? or the baby not making it?... it’s not like he beat her. it’s not like he physically forced her to miscarry. it was a miscarriage. ACCIDENT. yes, stress maybe played a part... but again.
I hate that it's all about him. That he cheated and made himself the victim, then she tells him what she went through and he still acts like the victim.
Right sick
I do not blame her for ghosting what he did is inexcusable
Same!!!!!
Unlabelled Glass Jar u sound dumb. She didn’t say anything because he ghosted her. He didn’t care about that baby at the time
@Unlabelled Glass Jar your an asshole
Unlabelled Glass Jar how was she supposed to say smth about the baby when she was blocked? What’s not clicking?
Unlabelled Glass Jar
My bad, just watched the whole thing. Still, she did not owe him any information about the baby when he chose to step out of her life without a closure.
dang I feel bad that she had to deal with that alone :/
I instantly began sobbing when she said it. I've never gone through a miscarriage but damn it tore me up to hear her say that she went through that all alone without the father of the child being there for her with his fuckboi ass!!
Well not alone, she had her sister and I am sure more family as well. But I get what you mean, it is different because it is the father of the baby. Very sad. 🥺
Jasmine Rudish oh yeah I just meant without the father. That’s gotta heart even more - especially since he ghosted her.
i started balling when she said i had a miscarriage i been tho 2 of them in 4 years. i know the hurt of miscarriage physical emotional. but it least i had my bf. there trying to pull me up. the worst news for me was when i went back for my check up they told me i have less then 10% chance of getting pregnant again. -_-. i hope she can go on and have kids with a better man that treats her right
Miss Kitty My deepest condolences for your loss. I wish you all the best in your future. I’ll pray for you! 🌸🖤
Dudes a waste of space. He didn't care about her feelings, his were tears for himself, he got back in contact coz he decided he wanted a kid and was only upset because he didn't get what he wanted.
100 percent my friend.
side note she’s so pretty and strong after overcoming what she’s been through
lets say it louder for those in the back👏🏻
I have a hunch that he’s kinda manipulative... guys can have a massive breakdown in front of you and still be lying.
Avadonia That shit is so sad and hurtful
Avadonia realest thing I’ve read all day.
He made himself the victim throughout all of it.
Clearly he’s manipulative.
He actually had the nerve to ask her why she ghosted him.
Such a clown.
Girl yess, destiny did the right thing ,hid the baby from his boyfriend cause he didn't want to lose him , and she lost a baby.
right. like nigga if you don’t wipe those damn tears off your face
She is so strong. Hold your head high Queen, don't let your crown fall.
April A . Beautifully said ! 👏🏽👏🏽
It was never about her it was about him finding his child
@@jarianwarren69 I never alluded to what it was about, but I also didn't discount his role. The fact that he walked out speaks volumes. I was giving her props you can tell she was holding back by the way she broke down.
I Absolutely HATE this guy for the fact that he's trying to use his sexuality as an excuse and/or trying to make it all about him.
same
My ex ghosted me and I found out he was gay, it didn’t hurt me that he’s gay it hurt me to be ghosted and ignored like I meant nothing. Don’t make other people collateral damage when you are trying to figure out yourself. It’s hard to be truthful and vulnerable but it’s worse to ignore someone like they don’t mean shit
Yes girl
Sorry u had to go through that:(
Sometimes ghosting isn’t about the person ghosted.
I’ve been ghosted- and then I found out that facing me was scarier than they thought.
I can’t be mad at all ghosters. Sometimes there is some sad shit happening and being alone is what is needed.
However, some people ghost cause they’re assholes.
And I feel you on all that.
Exactly. Well said!
This might be the only real response here.
I would have slapped the shit out of him.... this is an emotional episode
Autumn Sylise I’m glad someone agrees
I truly think that if the cameras werent there, he would of.
That miscarriage is the best thing that could have happened. Now she’s free of him and his lies. She can find a man that loves her and have a baby with a man that wants to be a dad.
@@Goddessofmydestiny but having a fear of losing another baby will affect her
LMXAO
He’s selfish and I don’t feel bad for him at all. What he did was horrible.
Unlabelled Glass Jar false
Kareema York Facts
@Unlabelled Glass Jar saying she has a inhospitable womb is a horrible and disgusting thing to say.
And that’s on peridot
Unlabelled Glass Jar Wtf is wrong with you he would have known what happened to the baby if he hadn’t left her. How was she even supposed to communicate that to him if he was ghosting her and blocked her on everything? He’s the selfish one if he felt he wanted to adventure with his sexuality he should have told her that and ended it but no he decided to string her along and when she got pregnant disappeared.
I feel like him ghosting her caused the miscarriage smh
Honestly I agree
Me too
Yeah stress can cause miscarriages when a women is pregnant they must MUST be at peace for the baby to be ok
Same
All the stress that she had
the black and white filter is so dramatic 😭😭
HE IS VERY BEAUTIFUL TO ME!! 💀💀💀💀
the b&w does some of these people SO dirty it looks so unflattering
It’s like that exes video that went viral.
Yup
armyyyyyyy💜
He’s a manipulative narcissist. Being gay isn’t an excuse to be a deadbeat. He had zero sympathy for her
Yall are on fucking CRACK
Taura JK this is coming from a straight person perspective 🤦🏾♀️
Ur um...delusional.
@@shesocute9613 That's bullshit there was a baby involved he was wrong period!!!
Y’all saying “this is from a straight perspective blah blah” stfu fr being gay is not excuse to just ghost your then gf AND your baby wtf yous are delusional lmao there are so many parents that had a baby then found themselves and just talked it out with the then partner. NO EXCUSE
She probably had a miscarriage because of the stress of being ghosted
That's sooo true
EXACTLY SHE WAS SUPER STRESSED HER BF JUST DIPPED RIGHT AFTER SHE SENT HIM A SONOGRAM. You can see it in her attitude that she is very hurt and I feel for her, cause he affected her life very negatively
This scripted. I feel like they practice him finding out.
quarterb08 or abortion and called it a miscarriage 🤨
@PatronSaintOfTroll also can be caused by stress so yeah
“Ghosting” is actually called Stonewalling in the psychology world. It’s actually a form of manipulation, which is why it’s so hard to reconcile afterwards. Someone silenced you and made themselves unreachable
jazzmyn abrams and it’s the fuxking worst
What if someone’s toxic and you just block them lol
nami sami
I think that’s different in the sense that usually there’s tension forming before, and people can tell if you don’t want to talk to them. So if you block them for an actual good reason, then you wouldn’t be manipulating. (At least I think so)
@@namisami6761 OK but wouldn't you tell them that? I've had to get rid of a couple of toxic people in my life and I didn't just hide from them lol. I let them know that they were too toxic to continue being in my life. One of them is my sibling.
@@rebeccaspratling2865 You don't owe toxic people an explanation especially since they can just use it to manipulate you further.
They made it seem like he was the victim. Poor woman
HE, made it seem like he was the victim. Everyone looksd at him like he was crazy tbh.
He’s a narcissist
Alphabet people ALWAYS are the victim in their minds eye. Hes a selfish piece of shit.
damn this was lowkey sad...
I thought it was pretty damn funny..
It really is and this lowkey hits home
peachy. Low key--- Shit that was crazy af sad
Tineka Palmore Oh so it’s funny to lose a child? That shit is tragic. I’m upset for her because she had to deal with the loss of her baby by herself. I don’t cry often and this shit hurt my heart. I’m glad she decided to ghost. I would too. He forced her to do all this by herself and she lost the baby in the process. You can hear how hard it still is for her. That shit is not even remotely funny. Like Fuck you dude.
peachy. highkey 😔🤦🏾♂️
This is actually sad, I pray she heals and meet the man of her dreams and have a bunch of kids!!! And he’s a horrible person
I don’t why the hosts are acting like she made the wrong decision. You can’t just get someone pregnant and ghost her and then try to come into her life. It must’ve been hard for her.
I have serval ppl walk out of my life, then years later want to come back in. Nope
It's because he's apparently gay. Gays can do no wrong. 🙄
He made everything about him NEXTTTTTTTT !
I would of spit in his face
no seriously! i was like did he just miscarry
Promoting gay agenda and using black women as the bait. Fuck mtv
I know everyone cried when she said she had a miscarriage, because I know I did. :(
I def did after going through 3 myself I couldn't hold back the tears
right i got chills and everything
Girl i reared up myself i was waiting for her to say it wasn’t his baby or something
Girllllk i cried 😭
Spoiler ALERT
These interviewers are being so unprofessional and rude. Just randomly meeting her during her shift of work. Asking her personal questions. Then he has the nerve to say that was the weirdest interaction hes had.
Shady Lady I agree, there’s better ways to approach the situation.
I totally agree. It just felt like one of those situations where Black women aren't allowed to have moments of fragility. If we do, then we are rude, aggressive, disrespectful, or ghetto. In this case, it's a "weird interaction". Yes, it's weird! you are a stranger, accosting this woman on her job about her personal business for your own personal gain! What do you expect?
Right. She’s still grieving and it’s hard to process everything that happened to her and they wanna shove cameras in her face? Ugh and they had the nerve to force her to meet with him.
And the disrespect at her decision!!! Like you don’t get to come back in someone’s life just because you’ve apologized!!!!! He has no right to be upset. Your actions have consequences and not everyone has to welcome you back even if you’ve changed.(even though she did at the end)
You realise they’re not just “randomly” meeting their subjects, right? Everything is pre-planned, pre-approved. She needed to sign a waiver first, have lights/cameras/make-up set up, get filming permits to film in an open public space. If it looks unprofessional to you, then that’s because the producers want it to......
THIS IS SO SICK LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONE SHE'S HEALING
you’d have to pay me to sit and talk to someone who doesn’t care about me (or I don’t care for) I’m tv
she was paid
A lot of money at that!
They do get paid
@@TheIntrovert83 i wouldn't say alotttt but a decent /ok amount
Exactly pay me tf
What a beautiful, strong and mature young woman! She handled the whole thing so gracefully. I would have literally hit him with my car. Smh
gurl staaap lmfao I cant
Me too...I know it's bad to say
he broke her heart so bad she had a miscarriage
Yep
tsc
Nope she couldn’t sexually satisfy him like most women theses days can’t please a man, that’s why theses aren’t getting long term relationships or marriage, a broken heart doesn’t kill a baby that’s stupid stop and think about your child’s life, In the end he care back no he didn’t want anything with her but wanted to co parent and give gifts but she lied 🤥
Jarian Warren Youre looking at this very one sided. He’s gay, why is it a need to a man to be satisfied when a relationship consist of two people. Sex is apart of the relationship but it’s not the key to having one. You’re putting this on her because she didn’t “satisfy” him. She satisfied him enough cause she’s pregnant. Yes, a broken heart doesn’t harm the baby, but excessive stress does. Maybe thing of the bigger picture instead of picking a side.
@@jarianwarren69 are you gay if so that's cool because your comments seem narcissistic and defensive ...you seem to hate women as well I am curious 😐are you saying men can only satisfy men I am a bit confused
I wonder if him ghosting her caused her to miscarriage... the stress and pain of it all...
stephaniesmith91ss has to be
I was physically and emotionally abused by my sons father during my pregnancy and I didn’t miscarriage but maybe that would be why she did. I feel so bad for her
@@lizbonita5289 Hope you're okay and safe now x
I’m actually really glad that she ghosted him. He deserved it. Know your worth.
As someone who's suffered 2 miscarriages, my heart breaks for her.
May God comfort you
Angela Johnson thank you❤️
@@kirawalrus_ttv you're welcome
Godbless you I’ve been in your shoes , I pray he blesses the fruit of your womb . ❤️ you are loved! I’m sorry for your lost.
@@grimm6176 god isn't real u delusional sheep
Russel got on my nerves with the dramatics... throwing the gift down when she didnt want it? Even if the baby WAS here... she did not owe him any immediate acceptance back into her life wtf... he SERIOUSLY wronged her and she needed time after JUST seeing him again after 2 years. He should have been beyond humble...
👍❤️ I agree
Yea its some shit a bitch'll do so not surprised he did it
EXACTLY!!! I was like wtf 🙄 he’s full of shit. She doesn’t owe you a damn thing.
No one can tell me a woman isn’t strong. She went thru HELL and still remained a queen.
Girl she put herself through hell 🤣 you telling me it’s not clear as day that he’s gay? Come on now
He is a sissy
Honestly this man seems like an emotionally manipulative narcissist
EXACTLY
Definitely a Narcissist move
awesomeirlable agreed he gives gays a bad name
🎯🎯🎯
awesomeirlable 👌🏾and it’s textbook 📚 for a narcissist to ghost because of THEIR own needs.
she probably had a miscarriage because of stress caused from him ghosting her.
Brittany Love she should keep her panties on if she can’t handle a break up because I know she’s trash in bed because he turned gay
@@jarianwarren69 he could have kept his drawers on if he knows he would be a deadbeat pos, based on your logic. Stop blaming her, she wasn't in the wrong.
@@jarianwarren69 responding on every comment trying to back up this pos..
cc rexa right I see that too he must be gay bc he keeps blaming everything on women
@@Deex338 exactly ...like take that mysogenic shit elsewhere. "Bad in bed" like that's the best he can do. Stupid man, u know he would abandon his children too.
He cried, had a breakdown and ran out of the room. She was crying and HE had to run away. Enough.
Exactly! This is too much. He made that moment about him. I'm so over it. Be gay but all that isn't called for 🙄
@@ebbyf294 gay dudes are dramatic asf and do too much
@@khaliyahliyah6444 exactly
@@khaliyahliyah6444 my brother is gay but would never do such a thing
Scripted.
When she said the gift didn’t matter she didn’t say anything about his sexuality, he spun his own narrative
I’m disturbed by how he claims this child as his and gets upset when she seemingly won’t let him be apart of the child’s life after abandoning her for 2 years. Like he decided he’s finally ready to be a parent and thinks saying “I’m sorry” and a $5 teddy bear grants him the right to co-parenting just like that. Fuck outta here.
Kelsey M. It’s so many dads out there like that . Thinking a baby check is going to make up for the past years and get mad when it doesn’t go their way
Especially considering he blocked her number and blocked her on all forms of social media.
She had no way of contacting him. He’s trash.
Entitled clown abandons a pregnant woman and then thinks he has some right to parenthood two years later?
Wtf?
But it does
Kelsey M. Atleast he “man” enough for stepping up
Right? I'm confused. He's the one that ghosted her while she was pregnant. For those two years, he knew she was pregnant and finally his guilt got him to step up.
And I disliked how the hosts of the show handled the confrontation with the woman. Treating her uninviting demeanor as if it wasn't justified. I'd have my guard up and be pissed too if a guy bailed on me while pregnant, blocked me, and intentionally abandoned me for years too. Only to use being gay as a cushion for the tongue lashing he should've gotten. 🙄
He is playing victim. It’s sickening .. “being gay has nothing to do with a dad”
He a whole bitch for that period!!!!
My heart hearing her say "I still have the pictures, the ultrasounds" absolutely broke.
Brianna Vingless boy I cried when she said it
Yesssss goodness 😩
Brianna Vingless☹️ it hurt me
Same!! I can’t even imagine that kind of hurt. God bless her!! She’s a very strong woman!!
Heartbreaking
Damn, Destiney and her sister seem like two damn impressive people.
This made me so sad for her. My daughter passed away the week before her due date. I had to give birth to my fully developed lifeless newborn. And I couldn't imagine having to do that all by myself w noone by my side :(
My deepest condolences..😢
😔😢😢 I'm sorry... I'll be 🙏 for you and your family
I am sorry you had to go through this
So sorry to hear that. My condolences 💔
S Banuelos I’m so sorry love. I hope you feel better
*I totally feel for her, she got ghosted and had to go through a miscarriage on her own with no one by her side* 😭😭😭💔💔😓
he ghosted her and then reached out to the show........"They do anything for CLOUT!"
Rebelliouslydej but he made fake profiles to get to her and drove by her house
@@jarianwarren69 yet never told his boyfriend anything
She probably misscarried because of the pressure of him ghosting her
dude needs therapy first and foremost... he did her soo wrong!!! he prolly has no idea how much she was hurt... miscarriage is a really hard thing to go through. not to mention his boyfriend had no idea he did all this, this is so messed up... when the dude went "now im ready to be a father!!" i rolled my eyes
Yooo those noodles in your profile pic are my favorite 🤤
He thought wrong but he made a mistake he's young and he's gonna fix it
you me exactly miscarriage is so hurtful it’s somthing that a lot of people like myself have to carry with themselves for the rest of their lives...
Wtf
@@kardashiansd6402 I mean, how's he going to fix it though?
He’s so dramatic, narcissistic and fake to me 🙄🙄🙄🙄. She had to go through an entire failed pregnancy all by herself ... that’s awful.
And the male cohost is very disrespectful!
Girl yes he is. Like travis is wack too
Yeah this guy is fake and cringe with those crocodile tears.
K. Nicole girl he acted like he was more affected than her.
This nigga said "I need some air now" what?? u been having air for 2 years now bruh
She wouldn't have if she would have told him she had a miscarriage an not went on tv to do it
“We have a child now”
Um no.
She has a child. You don’t.
👏👏👏...exactly‼‼‼‼💯...u left so therefore u lost that right..u jus a fukn sperm donor
tee peters 💯💯
There is no baby 😂
And that's PERIODT he is now irrelevant
PERIOD SAY IT FOR THE PEOPLE IN DA BACKK SISTER 👏👏👏
That’s what’s called a stress-induced miscarriage. Loving someone for so long and then all of a sudden they’re just ripped out of your life. So much emotional damage I can’t even imagine that
I would have ghosted him too. I feel like he died when the baby died, and being around him would bring me back to the time in my life where he abandoned me for selfish reasons.
That’s some straight bs she should’ve spoke first said what she needed to say and left and not let him explain a thing .... just because your gay doesn’t mean you can’t be a dad
quala1989 hello there are so many gay fathers in the world and woman because of their past . The child is innocent
I think she wanted answers. No matter how much you rant you always want clarification and won’t rest till you get that clarity. She definitely should have bounced and never forgave him for what he did. Childish excuse by him!
Ashlee Williams exactly so him skipping out because he is gay is some BS.... nothing but a dead beat and she had a miscarriage so I wouldn’t have said a thing to him.... she don’t owe him nothing
He dipped when he found out about thr baby. She owed him no explanation. A real father see about his child. Gay or not
quala1989 fuck him he left she ain’t gotta tell him shit
He’s so selfish, his tears were not even real for like first minutes of apology...he should take care of himself and not hurt her anymore..
Natalie Y EXACTLY!!
Cheated on her and ditched their potential family
NeickhaSuPRA I hate that even when she came to talk, he started yelling like it was her fault, like she’s ghosting him because he’s gay...projecting his issues on her - not okay.
He said “I’m so sorry I COULDNT be there for you..” uh no, change that to “I’m so sorry I WOULDNT and WASNT there for you...” smh
Right!
He wronged her and now is acting all dramatic.
He didn’t know what to do he didn’t have parents he was in the system and was struggling. That man was trying to fix it
Crocodile tears
Nokuthula Tana blaming it on being gay.
Typical Narc
Yeah when he flung the gift on the floor i was done 🙄
This is not about him being gay. He is just a terrible person it’s that simple.
Exactly cause he's selfish. Him being gay has nothing to do with this you try to dodge a bullet
He’s not right
If i had been his gf I would have been hella upset and distrustful too, that is the worst time to leave a woman hanging... for 2 years. And as someone who has had 3 miscarriages I know how hard it can be. I am glad she got peace.
He still came back to try and stop being a deadbeat
TRF Ice That don’t mean anything timing is everything He chose to walk away when it counted the most. Being there don’t mean anything now.
This boy is a master manipulator... seriously. 🤦🏼♀️ pretends to cry when you can clearly tell he is faking it.
Facts dafaq.. how can people not see thru those crocodile tears..
And by people i mean those 2 idiot host
@@Celinestu333 it's because like the rest of the entire community they're scared of upsetting the ABCLB community.
OMG! That was my first thought, like where's the tears lol
People are stupid and want to believe a black gay man otherwise they are going to be classified as a racist homophobic
Y'all f0rget this is entertainment. This is TV.
Augh when she said “I still have the pictures and the ultrasound”. The she said it just breaks my heart every time
And the nerve of the host to assume that she was possibly with someone else and he may not be the father.. that’s disgusting!
Agreed..
Mia Chapman yeah he didn’t assume she was lying about the entire thing
right...
BUT WHAT happened if she was tho
Hunter Orr she wasn’t & that’s the point. He had no evidence to assume she was cheating yet they jumped to every assumption they could instead of focusing on the real issue. A gay man, led a woman on, impregnated her, then left to be with his lover, and didn’t think twice about how she was gonna survive with the child.. but she was the problem 😒 only in today’s society is this ok!
I’m Gay but if I get a girl pregnant I wouldn’t leave her because I’m gay wtf bro that’s your Child!
Prince Leonel 👏🏾❤️. Whatever your sexuality is your child still needs you. At least you’re a real man and when the time comes you’ll be a great father
Let's have us a baby then. You'll be a good dad
Ty Love thank you I wanna me a dad but I’m still too young tho😅😂
@@stay_low_key lmao hahahaha period
Gay or Bi or Trans whatever you don’t have to ghost anyone just come out and be there for you’re child
Why do I feel like him finding out there was no baby was more of a relief for him?
Wow i should've kept watching before i read this
He left staged and cried and before he knew cried, the relief would be him continuing to ghost her but he went back to her house, made fake profiles, called tv show but she lied to the producers and tv so she could get embrassed I guess I don’t know why she it but he was ready to co parent
Yep
Gr8ful 1 especially black men ? Stfu please. U sound ignorant asf.
She should've just stuck with the decision to keep him out of her life. She doesn't need that drama
Me crying after she said that she had a miscarriage! I thought she was going to say she cheated or something but wow 🥺☹️
abby iglesias same so sad
It really hit me hard when she said she had a miscarriage that she had to deal with all on her own. My pregnant ass is sitting here crying over this damn episode
I cried too when she said that.
I feel like him and his boyfriend probably talked about adoption and he thought why adopt if I got a kid out there somewhere....
So true he fill of it
🤣🤣🤣 hit thr nail right on the hammer
Plot twist🤭
Or possibly marriage 🤭
“Re-kindle the friendship that we lost”
You mean the RELATIONSHIP you THREW AWAY and THE CHILD that you turned your back on
LMAO the audacity honestly
He's definitely a ass 😤
The fact that she was respectful and wasn't flipping out shows she has a lot of strength. Good for you girl 💜
This show look fake as hell lol they shouldve got max and nev as the host
Naw they're too authentic for this shit
Agreed fake af
Agreed & Destiny played her role lol
This isnt catfish so-
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Y'all fooling me this a gotdamn Tyler Perry movie
Britrany Everett lmao
Britrany Everett way better than a TP movie!
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@Sanape Thornes 😭😭😭💀💀💀
You left your pregnant girlfriend and she went through hell to the point she miscarried
He walked out on her twice technically, when he found out about the miscarriage
He is soooooooo selfish. He was thinking about himself the whole time. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Danie Bella like you wouldn’t
Reminds me of my 11 year old. Did he never grow up?
Rodney Anderson Not really.
SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH HELL. THIS IS THE WORST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN.
I'm not trying to be mean or anything , but being cheated on with a confused man has got to be the nastiest feeling ever ! 😩🤢
Girl for real. I feel bad she had a miscarriage but at least she doesn't have to deal with a gay baby daddy.
Taylor Made yes
It is
@@Meatball-p2s right . I just can't imagine OMG 😭
fineassnaee ...right😂 I would’ve been insulted!
When she said she had a miscarriage you could tell how alone she felt....especially with someone she loved who was supposed to be there....ghosting you thinking that’s also your fault
Russell made this women lose herself and her child
Naiyala Marie he didn’t make her lose nun yo slo asf god said it wasn’t right
Proper spelling is nothing, you, and slow and my comment is my opinion....thank you
Naiyala Marie Honestly the best thing in this situation... this drama is no place for a kid to grow up in.
Kennedy’s Liffe JR so all the shit happening in the world and God decides *that* is what he wants to take control of?
Kennedy’s Liffe JR yes he did
She needs to move on with her life. He's clearly untrustworthy.
He is such a hypocrite.
He is playing a victim, it's just ..
No.
I’ve had 2 miscarriage so I totally understand why she ghosted him. That’s a pain nobody understands unless you’ve lived it.
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2?! my heart breaks for you :( i’m so sorry
@@avad1631 thank you 🙏🏽
This 🗣🗣🗣