She's Fooling Everyone | Jada Pinkett Smith | Real Psychologist Reacts

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  • Oh boy - Jada Pinkett Smith is back in the spotlight - and she's dragging Will with her. This is my reaction to Jada's recent press tour.
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  • @roz805
    @roz805 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1132

    “I find her so exhausting.” That statement resonates 🙌🏼

    • @sula1529
      @sula1529 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      And she used the word bread crumbs... narcs always bread crumb... I didn't know much about this woman but the few clips I've seen she seems to hurt everyone around her to the core and its all about herself. Jmo

    • @morningglory3644
      @morningglory3644 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      She constantly talks in circles. I saw her interview with Hoda Kotb and Hoda was trying to clarify her idea of her marriage. She claims they have been separated for 6 years, but they are not divorced on paper. Hoda was trying to make sense of her ideation, but she kept dominating the conversation with word salads like "No, we're solid!" "Our relationship is stronger than ever!" "I didn't go to the Oscars with him as his wife, bit I knew after the slap that I would stand by him as his partner." This is all BS & doesn't make any sense. She even smirked at Hoda with her Duper's delight & looked smugly at her, "I'm not the one that is confused." Jada is completely arrogant & pompous. She doesn't care if she makes any sense with her fluff, she only looks to dominate other people & have them validate her nonsense. She is someone who is very exhausting to talk to!

    • @katricejohnson6164
      @katricejohnson6164 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I feel the same way 😮

    • @d3w3yd3c1m4l
      @d3w3yd3c1m4l 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So do the rest of us. That's why her career never took off.

    • @peachynation9754
      @peachynation9754 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Best comment to describe listening to this evil woman speak.

  • @lilyblossom1240
    @lilyblossom1240 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1682

    Jada: I was forced to get pregnant
    Jada: I was forced to stay pregnant
    Jada: I never wanted kids or marriage. I was forced!
    Jada: I was forced to get married
    Jada: I was forced to be in a relationship that just lead to cheating
    Jada: I was forced to get a divorce but not really a divorce 7 years ago
    Nothing is ever her fault and she has zero agency.

    • @clairemacauliffecarroll263
      @clairemacauliffecarroll263 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

      I feel bad for the kids if she said that

    • @jo5820
      @jo5820 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Well said

    • @SerafinaTorgul
      @SerafinaTorgul 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Toxic Feminist Woman Mindset wants:
      Authority of a Man
      Advantages of a Woman
      Accountability of a Child

    • @emdee390
      @emdee390 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

      100%. She made a lot of choices with Will. She's just afraid to lose her paycheck.

    • @familyschneiderat3918
      @familyschneiderat3918 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      😂

  • @neeshirey
    @neeshirey 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    Nothing gives Jada more joy than talking about her own suffering - she literally lights up!

    • @lb1798
      @lb1798 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      But then says GIVE US OUR PRIVACY!!

    • @pwood6532
      @pwood6532 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is a narcissist.she is lighting up bc she is receiving fuel...also known as narcissistic supply.meghan markle is the same.

    • @joyabia682
      @joyabia682 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A true victim narcissist

    • @margaretcollins9382
      @margaretcollins9382 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She absolutely does.

    • @sayafuddin7656
      @sayafuddin7656 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What suffering August fixed her suffering remember!! He fixed her, go to August now.. lol

  • @hanantayeb7760
    @hanantayeb7760 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    100% agreed! When I heard the “we haven’t been married since 2016” I laughed. Such manipulation… and people are falling for it. Crazy!

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Noone is falling for it, you ain't the only one with brains...

  • @littleangel18
    @littleangel18 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1050

    She’s not fooling anyone. She’s exposed herself to the entire world as disturbed, smug, arrogant and cruel narcissist. She’s not winning any awards w this behaviour. She’s setting her career on flames.

    • @jansmith3126
      @jansmith3126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

      Her career been over a long time ago she’s just trying to stay revenant!

    • @lashurediscussion4970
      @lashurediscussion4970 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      @@jansmith3126 in my opinion she knows that and only stay relevant being will Smith wife so she not letting him go for that reason.

    • @laurastortoni-hager1510
      @laurastortoni-hager1510 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      WHAT CAREER???!!!!!!

    • @sonn13
      @sonn13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What career? SHE HAS ABSOLUTELY NO TALENT!!!

    • @MomandBuggs
      @MomandBuggs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      I believe she's a covert narcissist. She threw her whole family under the bus.

  • @fledge1234
    @fledge1234 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1812

    "She's doing therapist cosplay." Perfectly stated.

    • @annehunt787
      @annehunt787 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      Agreed! And also, she’s not the plumb line for mental health.

    • @babydew8759
      @babydew8759 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      This was my favorite line lol.

    • @spr0ut1ng3m
      @spr0ut1ng3m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      🤜💅🤕🔨👍

    • @Lolas_World1
      @Lolas_World1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      BINGO! She iratates my soul.

    • @9Gin9
      @9Gin9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Agree. This accurately describes what she is doing.

  • @amynanos7756
    @amynanos7756 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Thank you for referencing Jada’s mentioning “how she felt like killing herself”. I agree with you 💯. It was not only dishonest but also very flippant the way she, as you said, suddenly found a cure for it through diet. I’m tired of people using suicide simply for attention or for shock value.

    • @DNLDVID
      @DNLDVID 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Diet?! She drank a hallucinogenic, not a "plant medicine" like LSD!

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you as a person with endogenic clinical depression that sometimes drive me to those thoughts I am infuriated when people throw these words around and exploit this ILLNESS for their selfish PR purposes (when in actuality she did NOT have depression, at leaast not a serious one because it's not treated by ''plant medicie'' or whatever she took)

    • @erinpurdey
      @erinpurdey 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trigger Warning
      My mom was a bipolar narcissist and made my life miserable. When I was 17 she died by suicide in our home in a place where she knew I would find her as her final coup de gras.
      Listening to Jada speak makes my skin crawl. Everything is a word salad that is meant to sound brilliant and enlightened but if you listen closely it's all bs.

    • @amynanos7756
      @amynanos7756 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@erinpurdey so sorry to hear about your mom. I lost my younger brother to suicide as well. Some (sick) people feel like because we’ve gone through this, we’re easily manipulated into sympathy. Not me. If you’re going to throw that in my face, knowing what I went through, I’m just going to inform you of the many options you have to choose from in order to get the job done! (It works!)

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman หลายเดือนก่อน

      "suddenly found a cure for it through diet"
      And Tom Cruise did it with vitamins.
      Small world.
      I love these rich famous people graciously sharing their "secret to happiness" with us little people... worse than SNL.

  • @danielaspitz3052
    @danielaspitz3052 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    She even described one of her own tactics:Breadcrumbing

    • @KyleeDoucette
      @KyleeDoucette 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Immediately was like wow when she said that

  • @clairetschirley2684
    @clairetschirley2684 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +639

    She didn’t want her children to think she committed suicide but she is willing to have her children watch her rip their father to shreds every time she can.

    • @franciet99
      @franciet99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      On top of that, she broadcasts this to the world and has no qualms about how traumatic it could be for her children.

    • @Catlady07
      @Catlady07 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Precisely.

    • @d3w3yd3c1m4l
      @d3w3yd3c1m4l 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Those kids are messed up.

    • @montamiddleton9318
      @montamiddleton9318 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Well, she claimed she kicked their son out if the house when he was a young teen. Then later said he moved into a house next door so she could keep an eye on him all the while being his maid and cook, kinda like he had his own personal assistant but not wanting to act like a mom. She disqualified herself as a mom and a wife years ago.

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      WHEN?!!! NAME THE TIME! THERE ISNT ONE! READ BOTH BOOKS OR STAY IGNORANT!

  • @LouisaWatt
    @LouisaWatt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +426

    So… she cured herself through recreational drugs and an affair with a troubled kid…? Sounds super wise to me 🙄

    • @puddincup9879
      @puddincup9879 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      😂😂😂

    • @angelaangela6875
      @angelaangela6875 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      An affair with her son's friend...... let's remember how far she took this.....

    • @SerafinaTorgul
      @SerafinaTorgul 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      and she also cured her supposed alopecia

    • @emdee390
      @emdee390 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yup! Exactly the life coach lessons everyone should get (major eye roll).

    • @katrinat.3032
      @katrinat.3032 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@SerafinaTorgul that she never had

  • @SavedByJesus-pi3yu
    @SavedByJesus-pi3yu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    When you said it’s like Jada is trying to do a psychiatrist cosplay... you my friend, hit the nail on the head. That is exactly how she acts. No one wants her advice yet she stirs there and tries to use big words and talk slow and give advice like she is so wise beyond her years. That is exactly how she tries to portray herself and it’s a joke.

  • @ladonnahylton8768
    @ladonnahylton8768 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    💯% agree! She is a narcissistic, attention seeking, unaccountable sad person. Will lost himself trying to make her happy. The best thing he could ever do, is move on.

    • @C.C-os1cz
      @C.C-os1cz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think Will also had a chance to escape from this. I personally don’t know the nature of their relationship and what is making him stay but when I talk to guys they think she’s very manipulative. Especially when she went on live tv and said she cheated on him. You could hear a pen drop. She has someone that loves her and she can’t see it.

  • @sandramooney589
    @sandramooney589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1883

    David,you nailed it.
    It is all about her. She wants to be relevant, she doesn't care who she hurts. Everything she says is the most important info you will hear 🤦‍♀️If she wasn't married to Will, she would have faded into obscurity years ago.
    Love your channel.

    • @funsizedazzy6708
      @funsizedazzy6708 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It is a interview about her and she did put all her dreams on the side so will can be will maybe she needs a selfish moment but not publicly she needs to go back into acting a focus on that

    • @sandramooney589
      @sandramooney589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      @@funsizedazzy6708 , I just don't get a good vibe from her. I'm sure Will would have supported her decision if she wanted to continue acting. I think she didn't get many offers and because of that, and because Will is successful, she publicly embrasses him.
      Just the feeling I get.

    • @funsizedazzy6708
      @funsizedazzy6708 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@sandramooney589 they had their kids back to back so jada just supported him it wasn’t she wasn’t getting offers. When jada got with will she was one of the top black women actress at the time that was not a problem for her she chose to take care of the kids and the household so will can become the mega star they knew he would be but if you listen back to there interviews will comes from a military background which makes him a lil controlling so once he has a vision on what he wants his life as that’s his vision he wanted to be Americas golden boy to do that you have to have the perfect family image so who cares what jada is feeling at that time in his head because he knows best. I see Botha sides truth is they should have let each other go years ago

    • @sandramooney589
      @sandramooney589 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@Justscrapping1 , I totally agree with your comments.
      I only saw a snippet of one episode, it was not for me.

    • @TheAshMcG
      @TheAshMcG 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@Justscrapping1 I disagree, in the 90s she was a pretty big movie star, Will was on a sitcom. My issue is she seems to be a covert narcissist.

  • @RedHedyLamarr
    @RedHedyLamarr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +405

    She is so desperate to be seen as some powerhouse celebrity. She failed as an actor, she failed as an “influencer”, and now she is trying to become some Oprah like guru but she’s only embarrassing my herself and those around her at this point. She’s only making herself more of a joke the deeper she digs her hole.

    • @kiraflash4596
      @kiraflash4596 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Her only career was being Will’s wife. And she failed at that, too!😅

    • @laurab.fierce3523
      @laurab.fierce3523 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      You forgot about her metal career too 😂

    • @jamiemacdonald5203
      @jamiemacdonald5203 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      It's her kids I feel bad for, most mothers would be more concerned about what airing painful family issues publicly will do to their kids but she only seems to care about herself.

    • @Dominique_99
      @Dominique_99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Oh she’s done some messed up things with the kids and allowed them to do weird things too. Like sleeping in adults beds. She’s got all sorts of explanations for things. She an exalted being though who obviously knows much more than us mere normal people who haven’t been given all the information she has through her amazing life experiences (and drugs).

    • @j49bd189
      @j49bd189 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Well Said Pop Psych

  • @chelelee6321
    @chelelee6321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    As soon as "the slap heard round the world" happened, I knew, with absolute certainty, that it was somehow Jada's fault. I saw the way Will looked to her, to see her reaction to Chris's joke. When he saw that she was not happy, he felt obliged to protect her and stand up for her. That's entirely on her. She had him trying so hard to earn her respect that he hit someone in such a public manner. She's awful.

    • @malumello17
      @malumello17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Will got angry when chris said "its jealousy. That was a nice one".
      Chris could have done way worse against Jada and Will knew it and felt disrespected.

    • @phillyfaith
      @phillyfaith 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Heard around the world but Jada didn't hear it somehow. Ugh!!!!

    • @chelelee6321
      @chelelee6321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @phillyfaith lol right?!

    • @laurawhite4118
      @laurawhite4118 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was all a set up.wasnt real

    • @phillyfaith
      @phillyfaith 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@laurawhite4118 disagree

  • @46foryounger
    @46foryounger 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Thank you!! The woman has all the traits of a narcissist. Can’t take responsibility or find any fault in her own actions. Has this grandeous sense of self and excels at manipulation and total gaslighting rn she is literally gaslighting the public trying to make us think we didn’t see her do what she did. I see people loosing their mind over the things she says which is exactly what people who are in relationships with narcissists go through

  • @MomandBuggs
    @MomandBuggs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +746

    Jada is a covert narcissist. It's so annoying that people can't see through her. She has used her mother and Will to deflect from her own behavior and wants to be seen as a victim.

    • @StayOffMe
      @StayOffMe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      Covert?!?!?! 😂😂😂

    • @guillaumem9953
      @guillaumem9953 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@StayOffMeRight?! 😂

    • @jamiecronin967
      @jamiecronin967 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s not very covert, she is full blown overt , malignant narcissist.

    • @Gen-yh1jz
      @Gen-yh1jz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Yup, but I think most people see she is a cruel narcissist.

    • @robbieogle8622
      @robbieogle8622 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yup.

  • @kylieellis5671
    @kylieellis5671 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +366

    I've never believed her or anything she says. She's always appeared to me as insincere and calculating

    • @didyouknowamazingfacts2790
      @didyouknowamazingfacts2790 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      She reminds me of Hilary Clinton and Will is the pleaser type that wants everyone to be happy. But there is nothing he can do to make her happy.

    • @i8zmnm
      @i8zmnm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@didyouknowamazingfacts2790
      So true! Now I can’t unsee that. Jada and Hilary both have the appearance of reserve, disdain, and arrogance. Makes it very difficult for me to listen to them even if they are saying something I actually agree with.

    • @matureblackfemalepodcast
      @matureblackfemalepodcast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Very calculated

  • @It-Is-What-It-Is.
    @It-Is-What-It-Is. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You took ALL the words right out of my mouth. I wanted to express the exact same thing on another channel that believed in Jada's game but I felt too exhausted to write it all and stress myself for nothing.
    Like most people, I don't know Jada personally, but what she has been putting out there for the public to see, and her attitude is enough to give me the creeps.
    You are the type of straight-shooter therapist I'd go to, so I just subscribed. 👍🏽

  • @EdytaMadyda
    @EdytaMadyda 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are so rigth about the depression. As a person who struggled with it for years, I can tell you it is all about avoiding the triggers and self care, and also AWARENESS. This is every day fight of NOT going back into that dark place. In my opinion you can never just get cured, you will live with it FOREVER, but you will learn how to keep it under control.

  • @Stephanie.101
    @Stephanie.101 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    The way she’s smiling while the interviewer asked about being divorced is just so psycho

    • @latishabrown2158
      @latishabrown2158 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I said that too!!! Like, why are you beaming about this? 😢

    • @natthebratster
      @natthebratster 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      And she looks high AF on something....just wow!

    • @46foryounger
      @46foryounger 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@natthebratstershe probably is. Today it’s the thing to be high and smoking dope.

    • @joannarichards6245
      @joannarichards6245 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You can just tell she’s not right, can’t you. X

    • @NausicaaBlade
      @NausicaaBlade 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It comes off as a narcissistic response, she has this interviewer validating what she has done and said. She isn’t being challenged on any of it. She is having her ego stroked and relishing in it.

  • @therealliveguy
    @therealliveguy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +367

    She is currently in the discard phase and the ultimate win in her mind is Will pulling the trigger and filing for divorce and she is pushing him to initiate it because it would make her feel like she kept her word and Will is the bad guy because he didn’t. She’s a covert narcissist which is the worst kind.

    • @lalat5899
      @lalat5899 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Yes. I’ve dated multiple covert narcissist, all briefly, but it still did a number on me.

    • @creativelychimaine110
      @creativelychimaine110 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      You nailed this. Exactly what happened with my divorce.

    • @PoetryOf
      @PoetryOf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      You’re spot on!!!!!

    • @katricejohnson6164
      @katricejohnson6164 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Your spot on 😊

    • @amnasalman3407
      @amnasalman3407 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      On the spot

  • @Niki-mo1wf
    @Niki-mo1wf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm so glad to hear your thoughts on Jada. She is exhausting. Everything you say is a release for me because I'm thankful I'm not the only one who feels like I do about her. Thank you for your professional input

  • @mirjanasajko3902
    @mirjanasajko3902 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omgee, you totally crack me up! Loved your take!
    I feel like you are spot on and not afraid to say it, thank you! I would never take any advice from her.

  • @sassypants511
    @sassypants511 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +539

    As someone who suffers from depression and has struggled with suicidal thoughts, I find her to be flippant and ignorant. Mental health is a serious issue and doesn’t need to be treated like a passing phase that Jada was able to overcome so easily because she is so wise.

    • @NN-re7cy
      @NN-re7cy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      🎯 Bingo.

    • @katjaxxx7353
      @katjaxxx7353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      💯

    • @brendatruant7404
      @brendatruant7404 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      🎯🎯

    • @lau77771hh
      @lau77771hh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please stop over sharing on TH-cam comments... Nobody cares.

    • @angelal1923
      @angelal1923 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I 100% agree. I've been struggling for the better part of 15 years and it feels like I approach the edge with those thoughts, look over for a while, manage to get myself back to a better footing and then something triggers to move towards that edge again. It's an ongoing thing and not once when I have gotten away from the ideation have I ever thought "I'll never go there again"

  • @romarobbins270
    @romarobbins270 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    Jada is one of the last people on earth I would take advice from, because narcissists are just manipulative and disingenuous.

  • @StKrane
    @StKrane 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you! A voice of reason amidst so many voluntary or involuntary enablers online.

  • @adrienedorsey-tynes
    @adrienedorsey-tynes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This man is soo on point it would be good if he could have his own show. He's soo on point.
    Real talk. ❤️

  • @chammiequeen7838
    @chammiequeen7838 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +420

    Lord have mercy! She is sooooo far from the real world. I totally agree with you. As we say in my neck of woods, an ounce of pretension is worth a pound of manure.

    • @bizburgess1947
      @bizburgess1947 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Had never heard that b4....but I hear you and love it!

    • @kathyelliott6051
      @kathyelliott6051 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      EXACTLY 💯

    • @lizturner267
      @lizturner267 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Oh I’m adding that phrase to my lexicon!

    • @JOHNYCRAFT79
      @JOHNYCRAFT79 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lizturner267 I’m adding that phrase and the word lexicon to my lexicon. Thank you!

  • @nerissajones6763
    @nerissajones6763 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +379

    I am a licensed therapist and I have pursued these internet streets searching for this sound perspective right here!! Wow! FINALLY! This woman meets all the criteria for NPD it's poorly concealed for those who know and understand what the disorder is and how it impacts others in their lives. It's a highly abusive situation and it is difficult to witness the media and fan take on a scenario that is damaging this family in real time.

    • @Kinypshun
      @Kinypshun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Thank you for weighing in as a mental health professional. It's sorely needed.

    • @__-xq9gp
      @__-xq9gp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jada is a classic psychopath with NPD

    • @tonyareed5083
      @tonyareed5083 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Agreed, on all accounts, coming from another Mental Health Therapist. And, she sounds completely unhinged when she starts talking about Ayahuasca.

    • @sylviaking8866
      @sylviaking8866 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I totally agree

    • @unapologeticlydope3451
      @unapologeticlydope3451 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Having a narc therapist at the red table was a big clue

  • @natassjagale9897
    @natassjagale9897 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think your take on this is 100 percent spot on!! 👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Heavenzvoice
    @Heavenzvoice 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thaaaaaaannnnnkkkkk you!!!!!
    I’m getting my master in psychology and for a moment I was beginning to think I had lost my touch. Everyone siding with her then with Will. I have always said..” she’s full of it.@ this woman is a master manipulator. Her stories are too over the top and they don’t make sense.
    She is going rogue with these stories and has everyone all caught up in her web of lies. This woman is sick!!!

  • @CLP334
    @CLP334 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

    I can’t stand her/ listening to her talk for even 5 seconds is exhausting but I do believe that her and Will are not together bc Will has said for forever that he doesn’t believe in divorce. He considers it a failure.And refused for awhile to give his 1st wife a divorce. Will and Jada have always said that they will never get divorced. But I do believe she gets a sick joy out of embarrassing him.

    • @bevmacdonald9008
      @bevmacdonald9008 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I think you are right. They both have said divorce is like a failure. Jada has always had some misanthropic tendencies because of her ( allegedly) horrible traumatizing childhood, Will promised her ( and her mother) that he would never abuse her nor leave, he vowed to prove all men are not bad and that he was not like those nasty men. Will had also been divorced and hated breaking his promise to God . He asked for forgiveness and promised God it would never happen again, he would not break *this* promise. She has been actively and continually testing him. He did not want an open marriage, he went along with it to please her. I wonder if her alleged sex addiction gets any mention in this book 🤔

    • @BabyBoy_Milo
      @BabyBoy_Milo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@bevmacdonald9008this is sooo sad. It sounds like will has made a big core value of his identity his faithfulness to jada and if he leaves he’d be a bad person but honestly, will deserves someone who isn’t so openly abusive to him. I can’t even imagine the hell that must be a 30 year marriage with her

    • @basicallyno1722
      @basicallyno1722 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In that case no wonder she disrespects him - she would HAVE to resent him.

  • @paulan7218
    @paulan7218 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    She wants to give breadcrumbs on how she got through cheating on her husband lying to her children and taking advantage of one of her children’s friends that was in a extremely vulnerable state

    • @Chels-fz5uq
      @Chels-fz5uq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      She used an interesting word…breadcrumbs. Narcissist literally breadcrumb. So she just outed herself as a narcissist.

    • @danielledriver469
      @danielledriver469 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I don't hear enough people taking about how she was a predator during the entanglement situation and that upsets me

    • @Clutching.My.Pearls
      @Clutching.My.Pearls 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      IMO, she only wants to give breadcrumbs, because giving us the 'whole loaf' would help us realize she's full of baloney.

    • @MomKimHub
      @MomKimHub 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As if we want or need her bread 'crumbs'. No thanks.

  • @phillyfaith
    @phillyfaith 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing. You said it all perfectly!! Refreshing. ❤❤❤

  • @pammyd5475
    @pammyd5475 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So good. So good I've subscribed. Best summary I've heard.

  • @gingerjohnson6575
    @gingerjohnson6575 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +315

    For Will Smith: You will never really see how toxic someone is until you breathe fresher air. Will, it’s time to step “outside” and breathe in freedom. You don’t attract Jada (a narcissist) because something is wrong with you. You attract her because so much is RIGHT with you. Praying for you.

    • @OneTakeTuber
      @OneTakeTuber 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He's done that.. read his book

    • @saetae9208
      @saetae9208 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How long have you know Will? Jada? Yourself?

    • @MarthaAnthony
      @MarthaAnthony 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@saetae9208 Consistent red flags can tell you about a person.

    • @socalrenegal9409
      @socalrenegal9409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      He’s probably a narcissist too. Always the center of attention. She’s just the more covert and overt one between them.

    • @MarthaAnthony
      @MarthaAnthony 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@socalrenegal9409 More likely he is empath or scapegoat from childhood. It's usually who narcissists are drawn to.

  • @Mimi-74
    @Mimi-74 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +141

    "Therapist Cosplay" is the perfect description. I have not had words for it, but that is exactly it. She reeks of an arrogance that she is superior, all knowing and has 'figured it out'.
    I call BS on "we haven't been married since 2016" (or whatever her crazy speak was). That gives her license to go forward and say she never cheated during her marriage she was not the impetus behind the slap heard round the world, and she sacrificed so much to not break her promise to her 'husband' that she would never divorce him. Her word salad is heavily seasoned with self righteousness and lies.

    • @onelove864
      @onelove864 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      “Her word salad is heavily seasoned with self righteous and lies.”
      Perfect description!

  • @michelehafey2607
    @michelehafey2607 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THANK YOU! Finally! A psychologist who sees through her!! Subscribed. 👏🏻

  • @suev7542
    @suev7542 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this- you put into words exactly how I was feeling about this whole thing- from marriage to table talk to now. Perfectly said!

  • @jancarmy5749
    @jancarmy5749 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    I can’t listen to her talk; and definitely will not read that book.

  • @sugarspice7768
    @sugarspice7768 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Her marriage does work--- for HER. The whole "bad marriage for life" pact she made with Will was a way for HER to keep him on a short leash. She wanted the benefits of wife, but none of the responsibilities. She gets what she wants from their little arrangement. She brings nothing to the table. Will loses every time. That is why he is a shell of the person he once was. He truly believed if he did all the right things and loved her unconditionally, one day he would have his wife back and she would final appreciate all the things he did for her. Instead she has turn and spit in his face on the world stage. That was her thank you to him for bearing with her all those years

    • @leannemclean9024
      @leannemclean9024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much like the Markles..

  • @arielmarbury467
    @arielmarbury467 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You just finished describing a lady who I was friends with. I no longer talk to her. I thought she seemed narcissistic. You nailed it!!!!!

  • @karenkeiper1278
    @karenkeiper1278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your commentary so much! You have a new subscriber.😊

  • @duallove6909
    @duallove6909 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    She has nothing. Without Will she would have been forgotten. Without the scandals no one will talk about her. She has a book and a talk show. She needs to be in the spot lights.

  • @FeishaP1984
    @FeishaP1984 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    Nailed it! It blows my mind how she has so many people fooled! As soon as she opens her mouth my eyes start rolling.

  • @brott2rp
    @brott2rp หลายเดือนก่อน

    TY Great video & food for thought !
    ... 🐈

  • @kathysue9890
    @kathysue9890 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just found your channel. I really liked red table talk because I have never had a family where you could sit around and just talk about things. I always thought it was weird how she just overlooked her mother's drug use for 20 as you mentioned in your other video. Then when she and will came out and talk together my mind was blown on my anybody would put themselves through that. I never thought it was narcissistic, but you laid it all out. My mother is a and I am now able to spot a lot of people but I am still having problems spotting everyone

  • @user-vm7vg6mk3e
    @user-vm7vg6mk3e 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    Thank you for saying what the rest of us are thinking. I'm so tired of this person.

  • @Paigedh1776
    @Paigedh1776 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    Completely agree. She’s 100% fake and self serving. Toxic and I feel terrible for her family and for how bad off Will must be to be in relationship with this toxic, manipulative, abusive woman.

    • @lukkymee2000
      @lukkymee2000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Her entire family enables her. Kids husband … the whole bunch.

    • @delretadonaldson
      @delretadonaldson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@lukkymee2000absolutely...

  • @rachelheggie8709
    @rachelheggie8709 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You've gotten over 300,000 views on this video. Time to read the book three times! 😁

  • @susiechristianson8491
    @susiechristianson8491 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't know much about the Smith family. They don't know anything about mine. I do not care if they are married, separated, divorced, or eating popcicles on a Sunday afternoon. Why do people care about celebrity lives? Truly laughable. (Oh, and i'm out at 3 mins)

  • @normo3602
    @normo3602 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +312

    It really irks me how she and her kids speak with a faux enlightenment like they have all this knowledge to teach other people. She's had a hard life? So has everyone else and everyone else has learned life's lessons. She can shove her book. Thank you for the analysis

    • @laurab.fierce3523
      @laurab.fierce3523 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I don't wanna hear about a hard life from anyone who's been living well for several decades consecutively...but that's just me.

    • @siv5085
      @siv5085 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      "She can shove her book" ... Funny

    • @josephinejoseph8837
      @josephinejoseph8837 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      And to throw her son, Jaden publicly under the bus stating he introduced HER to a substance., not the other way around.

    • @bessycorrales6405
      @bessycorrales6405 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They’re all extremely annoying. Won’t watch any of their stuff anymore, much less buy her stupid book.

    • @lainedelfelder4283
      @lainedelfelder4283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@josephinejoseph8837right?! Who is the parent and who is the child?

  • @SusieQ3
    @SusieQ3 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +228

    You are so spot on with Jada humiliating Will for media attention. It is tragic that she repeatedly chooses to tear her family and husband apart for her own fame.
    Clearly 100K views was too few. I can't wait to hear your review of her book.

    • @Dominique_99
      @Dominique_99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Please find a way to get it for free so she doesn't get a penny. That woman doesn't deserve any money.

    • @Rickuttto
      @Rickuttto 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      It’s ok. Please do not read it for your own sanity. We’ll let you off the hook!

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      HIS BOOK VALIDATES EVERYTHING SHE SAYS!!! THATS WHY HE SUPPORTS HER BOOK! SHES DONE COVERING AND TAKING THE BLAME!!!

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THEYVE BEEN SEPARATED FOR 7YRS!! YOU THINK WILL IS CELIBATE??!! YOU THINK HES NOT ENTANGLED AS WE SPEAK!? HIS ENTANGLEMENTS IS WHY JADA WAS FREE TO HAVE HERS! HE COULDNT POINT HIS FINGER AT HER! HE JUST DIDNT WANT IT KNOWN THAT HES NOT A DEVOTED HUSBAND HES A CHEATER! AND HE'D RATHER HAVE HIS WIFE BE WITH SOMEONE THAN TO CHANGE HIS WAYS! SHE HELPED HIM HIDE BY NOT EXPOSING HIM AND TAKING THE BLAME....WELL SHES NOT HIDING AND COVERING FOR HIM NOW!!! THE GOOD THING IS HES FINALLY BEING HONEST! HIS WRONGS LED TO THIS! YALL NEED TO ACCEPT THE TRUTH!!!!

    • @DNLDVID
      @DNLDVID 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think Jada & even Will, as some kind of Wisdom gurus! Maybe she is going to start her own church or cult following when everyone gets tired of all exploitation of their story. She has the personality to manipulate people who want give up all control.

  • @erikaramos4917
    @erikaramos4917 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m glad I found your page!! Spot effing on with your take on this and I can’t stand that she of all irrelevant people felt she needed to come out and not only NOt stand by her husband who defended her and ruined his reputation and his relationship with the Oscar society but now she just cuts even deeper into his soul in her search for relevance. Sad!! Don’t read the book unless you find a copy in the trash or discarded on a table somewhere.

  • @phoenixLeoRising333
    @phoenixLeoRising333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video is gold!! Agreed! Nailed it! 🎯

  • @MayaMaia311
    @MayaMaia311 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +203

    Finally someone who sees through her. I find it incredible that people keep applauding her.

    • @evelynwalker6670
      @evelynwalker6670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me too

    • @montamiddleton9318
      @montamiddleton9318 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw through her crap the minute she started acting like Gwyneth Paltrow. A women who also doesn't deserve any attention.

    • @sylviaking8866
      @sylviaking8866 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      People who do not understand narcissism unfortunately get manipulated

    • @aussiejubes
      @aussiejubes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I didn't know people liked her. My side of the internet is 100% Jada hate. I'm on the correct side lol

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What, someone? Literally everyone now sees through her, at least on the Internet. In fact, who are those people that keep ''applauding'' her, where have you seen them?

  • @queenohalloween7089
    @queenohalloween7089 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +371

    I have a hard time just listening to her talk, I don’t even care what it’s about. The air of arrogance and that condescending tone. She lies so often her story is always changing & she works so hard to insert herself in media conversations where she has no place. Her whole Tupac story is so false. His closest friends have said they were together a short time long before he passed, & she was never that important to him. She exaggerated their whole relationship and he was probably too nice to her. I was just telling my husband the best thing that could happen to her is she get cancelled. Then maybe in the quiet of her own life she can get real with herself. She has herself placed so high from us mere mortals. That red table show they do is insufferable. Willow and Jadas mom are all the same. Thank you for this. I was kind of beating myself up a little for being hateful in wanting someone cancelled

    • @indybeth200
      @indybeth200 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Oh yes, Willow and Jada's mom...the arrogance is disturbing.

    • @lisasalvati5029
      @lisasalvati5029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      She always talks like she is the smartest person in the room! Had she not married Will no one would even know her

    • @kathyelliott6051
      @kathyelliott6051 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      YOWZA. , YOU NAILED IT 🔨 FOR ME TO. 🙃😉

    • @reggaevankramberg1649
      @reggaevankramberg1649 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      She always had that..and no accountability for her actions whatsoever...she raised her children the same way 😏

    • @coastaldiva
      @coastaldiva 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lisasalvati5029yes

  • @leslieb5836
    @leslieb5836 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally agree. And I am glad that someone is calling this out.

  • @vereen72
    @vereen72 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That is facts. Very well said sir. 👏🏼

  • @belladoran222
    @belladoran222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    She's not fooling everyone, despicable woman, Love and support to Will.

    • @tylermarzette7533
      @tylermarzette7533 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Sadly Will is a narcissist too. And he’s and enabler.

    • @ersheri
      @ersheri 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I think Will is along for the game.

    • @ersheri
      @ersheri 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@tylermarzette7533I agree!

    • @andreavanda5402
      @andreavanda5402 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Will's no better.

    • @mariag2916
      @mariag2916 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes!! Exactly!!
      'Everyone' isn't buying this at all. I stopped watching when he said that. It's insulting our intelligence. We can all see what she is.

  • @laracroft13th
    @laracroft13th 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    The last thing a narcissist would do is to harm themselves. They'd rather harm others instead!

  • @nolaparton-jones8932
    @nolaparton-jones8932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    From all your descriptions of her I was thinking (before you said it) "Can we say Narcissist" And then you finally said it!! I think EVERYONE just wants her to go away!!

  • @coreyhr4100
    @coreyhr4100 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I agree with you 💯. She drained my energy with all this narcissistic ways.

  • @ashebennett7726
    @ashebennett7726 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    “I find her so exhausting”. Understatement of the year. And if this is a “strong” woman, I’d rather be weak.

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol, nobody considers her a ''strong woman'' , at least reasonable adults. Everyone sees through her, she's a nobody.

  • @dvdezy1167
    @dvdezy1167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +365

    We need more David's in this world who are not afraid to call out high profile people on their BS. Plenty of people would believe this crap and someone who is truly depressed took her advice and she was lying then it may not have the sad outcome and that to me is horrifying. Thank you for calling her out and anyone one else who will say anything for $$$$

  • @catherineharvey5556
    @catherineharvey5556 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My god I'm loving you...damn first time I have seen you. Finally, someone talking like a real person.

  • @schneewitschen101
    @schneewitschen101 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Therapist cosplay”. So well put

  • @socalrenegal9409
    @socalrenegal9409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +183

    She talked about how after the Red Table talk she only THEN realized how her infidelity hurt people…but she doesn’t regret it, and she never mentioned how it hurt Will. This “nobody is wrong” ideology she worships is sickening and allows her to obfuscate her actions and her need to say sorry and BE SORRY. But she’s NOT sorry, and she just shifts alleged victimization back to her and “the healing I needed. I-I-I…”. She’s a master manipulator and she’s not fooling anybody.

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her infidelity? She was separated from Will a couple of yrs before Al so no. It wasnt infidelity.

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will fooled you. All the time that he complained and acted out ....they werent even together! Lol keep blaming Jada

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She shouldnt regret it. She didnt make will come to the red table episode. He showed up. She didnt make him try to put her on the spot but couldn't handle honest answers ....and he already knew the answers. How is he hurt when the arent even together?

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I I I....ITS HER BOOK. ITS HER MEMOIR. NOT OTHERS. YOU JUST REACHING!!

    • @communicationbreakdown256
      @communicationbreakdown256 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just Will

  • @yukitakenaka3076
    @yukitakenaka3076 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    You got her! She is a total max narcissist. She is so self centered and you are correct about the last person I would go to for advise on life. Delusional…I know that’s right!

  • @stephanieT83
    @stephanieT83 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me too 😢very exhausted too.
    We have all had hard lives. It didn't stop with just you Jaded jada

  • @nathlom6723
    @nathlom6723 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ”psychologically cosplaying” you hit the nail on the head!

  • @sallyostling
    @sallyostling 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    A narcissist sitting on a therapist's couch is almost an impossibility. Right there is the a box checked that she's narcissistic. Come sit at HER table, she's the one who knows! She's dangerous and thank goodness her career fizzled out. Can you imagine the trouble she would cause if people actually cared about what she has to say?

    • @kamaliancirranoush1916
      @kamaliancirranoush1916 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Scary part is the person she enjoys punishing the most DOES care what she says and it runs his life. You are correct that she is dangerous. She is the type of narc that would gain satisfaction when her target unalives themselves. She needs to be gone.

  • @bradleyharting6038
    @bradleyharting6038 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    Her new book explains everything. Does anyone wonder how her hair has miraculously grown back? I feel she had damaged her hair from over bleaching over and over again, and decided to shave it to start over again. The alopecia thing could be, but knowing how she is, has worked everyone into feeling sorry for her. She's worked Will throughout their relationship, and he's to blind to see it.

    • @chiquitahodges
      @chiquitahodges 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Alopecia for some is not as severe and it can come and go.

    • @WiseOne77
      @WiseOne77 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is LYING ABOUT HER ALOPECIA. She NEVER had it, and it’s not a coincidence that she’s not saying about the dead man (2 PAC) that she has been obsessed with for years, especially even after he died that he had Alopecia as well, and proposed to her before he died. I believe she lied about this disease and shaved her head as a way to “connect” with 2 Pac. She is just…ugh.

    • @yd3229
      @yd3229 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I was more or less thinking the same and why bleach your hair if its that fragile, surely it wouldn't help with alopecia but i could be wrong

    • @bradleyharting6038
      @bradleyharting6038 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@chiquitahodges I'm a stylist and would never, ever, bleach someone's hair if they had alopecia. Ever!

    • @penneyburgess5431
      @penneyburgess5431 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      You lose eyelashes, eyebrows, and body hair with alopecia.
      She played on everyone’s sympathy.

  • @jennifersutton3115
    @jennifersutton3115 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂 hilarious!! I love this Doctor commentary. He's so right. And funny too.

  • @pavlinahrebackova3000
    @pavlinahrebackova3000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your video! I agree with you totally. Just today in the morning I was saying my husband, it seems to me she is saying all the learns nice therapeutic sentences just repeating after someone like wisdom.

  • @Ann-vr1qr
    @Ann-vr1qr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +179

    There is something about her voice, the words she uses, and cadence that wants you to stop listening and not believe a word she says. Love that you did this review! 👏

    • @terryl.cooper
      @terryl.cooper 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      And the way she flips her hands around with wide overly dramatic gesturing. I bet she would be a mute if she had to sit on her hands during a conversation LOL

    • @jaysmith5047
      @jaysmith5047 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Word salad makes no sense as it is superficial dressed as deep. Too crazy making.

    • @deed2157
      @deed2157 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@terryl.cooperThey say certain types of narcissists have those hand gestures

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Yeah, she wants to ruin him. I believe she's a narcissist. Too many red flags from her...and Will has some issues, too. 😢

    • @latashabreal9077
      @latashabreal9077 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah he's to prideful to let that woman be she means him no good. She has no regard for him as a husband lover friend being in her life. It's time!!!

  • @MarkusKayl_
    @MarkusKayl_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 11 years. After everything I have experienced in my toxic relationship, I can clearly see how narcissistic and manipulative this woman is - she almost "scares" me. And that Jay Shetty gave her a platform is one of the biggest mysteries of this time...

  • @ricileigh88
    @ricileigh88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best thing to do with a person like this is to ignore them.

  • @didyouknowamazingfacts2790
    @didyouknowamazingfacts2790 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Dude you broke it down perfectly. She seems very Narcissist

    • @reemclaughlin4260
      @reemclaughlin4260 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I could see her making it up as she was speaking. Terrible what narcs do to people.

  • @madogNikky
    @madogNikky 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +228

    My father and my daughter’s father were both narcissists and both used depression and supposed suicidal thoughts to manipulate me. I started listening to HG Tudor who described narcissistic depression as a withdrawal from people because we were not worthy of their presence. Perfectly described what my father did to me throughout my childhood. He destroyed me. This woman is just as destructive. We’re surrounded in a culture of sadistic narcissism.

    • @KLmoxie
      @KLmoxie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      We are surrounded by people who were raised badly, not a culture of sadistic narcissism. It takes a very demented and mental psychopath to be sadistic. She's extremely selfish and self-centered, and lives in a warped world where she is #1, but I wouldn't class that as sadistic.
      Also HG Tudor is a self informed narcissist who exposes his personal view of people. He does not give medical or therapeutic advice, seek therapy to gain insight and clarity to deal with the past, HG is not the way to access that path.

    • @Bob-sd8ns
      @Bob-sd8ns 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The attention seeking antics of a narcissist.

    • @Dominique_99
      @Dominique_99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      HG Tudur is very good but I have to be in the right mindset to listen to him. Otherwise I feel a little depressed. I also had a narricistic mother. She's still running around trying to do stuff to me and I don't even talk to her.

    • @jonnuanez7183
      @jonnuanez7183 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I want to check out HG Tudor as I'm currently studying/delving into narcissism, as both of my parents are/were rampant (grandiose) narcissists.

    • @Kinypshun
      @Kinypshun 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@KLmoxie Sadism is defined by specific behavior, regardless of upbringing or formal diagnosis. There is a spectrum of behaviors that do not necessarily escalate to the clinical triad associated with psychopathy.

  • @jharristhetruth21
    @jharristhetruth21 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I'll read that book if this video gets 100,000 views." Happy reading, my friend! 😂 Congrats on the success of this video. 👍🏾

  • @chewygal69
    @chewygal69 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I also have a background in psychology and you are on point!

  • @sabrinar.purnell3869
    @sabrinar.purnell3869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    All I know is, she embarrassed and hurt her family with this foolishness. The whole Entanglement situation and the Slap never needed to happen since her and Will weren’t together. Disgusting.

  • @gingerjohnson6575
    @gingerjohnson6575 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    “The narcissist is like a bucket with a hole in the bottom: No matter how much you put in, you can never fill it up. The phrase “I never feel like I am enough” is the mantra of the person in the narcissistic relationship. That’s because to your narcissistic partner, you are not. No one is. Nothing is.” ― Ramani Durvasula

    • @KathBorup
      @KathBorup 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dr Ramani's podcast is produced by red table talk 🤔 Interesting!

  • @bbsv13
    @bbsv13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so refreshing to hear

  • @elpidiaholguin9643
    @elpidiaholguin9643 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you are the one that said it best. I did read the book and she is constantly giving us advice or telling us what to do to make your life better and I did question that as well I did get my money back for the book.

  • @alixaugustine9599
    @alixaugustine9599 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    Let’s not forget that they are involved with Scientology to some extent, which decries therapy. It is also a religion that is exceptionally attractive to narcissists.

    • @edelgardgoldmann4542
      @edelgardgoldmann4542 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My thoughts exactly 👍

    • @BabyBoy_Milo
      @BabyBoy_Milo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I always forget they have Scientology ties 😞

    • @BabyBoy_Milo
      @BabyBoy_Milo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@annemarson4144 did she really???? I never saw the Leah remini episode but that makes me SO mad bc Leah has been through hell and fights so hard to protect the people Scientology hurts
      Jada has so much dark mean girl energy bro she’s awful

    • @etherspin
      @etherspin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      well she talks about actual therapists she has used with will and has therapists on her show and to top it off, no solid reports of scientology especially not Will

    • @peacebaby914
      @peacebaby914 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was looking for someone else to make this connection! This all just SCREAMS scientologist.

  • @janinepannell
    @janinepannell 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Man I agree with you 100%. She doesn’t want a divorce as she doesn’t want Will to be happy. New meaning to the word toxic.

  • @michaelrock3789
    @michaelrock3789 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is truly the most accurate discription of Jada Smith.I believe she is envious of Wills' fame yet at the same time revels in it. All this Red Table talk and now a book is she trying to be noticed and become a somebody.

  • @sincerely5906
    @sincerely5906 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Therapist cosplay! Perfect analogy.

  • @Undefinedde
    @Undefinedde 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Jada is awful. Will has been embarrassed from her cheating and all the other stuff

  • @NETX2018
    @NETX2018 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    Hallelujah! I’m so glad someone finally has the courage to call this woman (narcissist) out!!! Very succinctly done without being hypercritical or sugarcoating it, for the more naive members of society who buy into her garbage simply because some foolish members of the media choose to continue to give her a platform. Thank you!!

    • @deed2157
      @deed2157 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I actually follow someone who discusses narcissists and has called Jada out

    • @yesterdayitrained
      @yesterdayitrained 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Jada has been and continues to be called out repeatedly as a narcissist. By many people, on many different platforms. I’m not sure how you missed that- it’s been going on for years.

    • @leakypussy9813
      @leakypussy9813 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bot account.

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yesterdayitrained she cover for the controling, insecure, egoyistical narcissists and took tge blame. Now shes not! Hes always cheated. She was forgiving until she wasnt and he continued.

    • @Parker3Curry30
      @Parker3Curry30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THE GARBAGE IS THAT HANDSOME PRINCE SHES MARRIED TO. THE ONE WHO WROTE IN HIS BOOK ABOUTHOW MUCH HES CHEATED AND HOW MUCH JADA FOR GAVE !!

  • @qianashaw8167
    @qianashaw8167 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for saying that. When I first heard her say that, I said, "She lyin!" You are one of the few people who has said that. Everyone else is buying her lie.

  • @jengarcia109
    @jengarcia109 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I couldn’t agree with you more!!! You nailed her😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lysan4878
    @lysan4878 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    She’s been doing this holier than now bestowing her knowledge of the right way to do things FOR DECADES! She got famous when she and will first got together because she went on Oprah and everywhere else lecturing everyone on how to properly coparents with Will’s ex and how to step parent the right way. The ego on her has always been insane.

    • @blugreen123
      @blugreen123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She thinks she's an expert on everything, including championing having an "open marriage," which seemed to be a whole lot more open on her end than his.

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True.

  • @sage_forensics_2261
    @sage_forensics_2261 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    🚩As the daughter of two Narcissists, I was the Scapegoat Child. Jada has all the red flags, sets off all the warning bells, etc. I've been No Contact with my family (including my younger sister--Golden Child and she grew up to be a Narcissist, too) as a way to protect myself for a long time now. So much work has to be done to heal after growing up and enduring such abuse! 💔My concern goes to the children who are becoming adults now and all of the things they will have endured over the years that they will have to overcome in the future. Will and Jada have been adults for a long time; they've had a chance to make better choices. Their kids are only starting to have that chance, and that is where my thoughts go. I'm in my late 40s, and none of this is easy! Healing is possible, and I'm living proof. I hope they have the opportunity to heal someday... 🙏

    • @Reevay762
      @Reevay762 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You took the words out of my mouth. Same experience here. I'm in my 30s and glad you feel better. It's a sign for me all is gonna be fine too 😊 God bless ❤

    • @shayshaymann113
      @shayshaymann113 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      AMEN!! 💯

    • @vickysimpson3750
      @vickysimpson3750 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    • @reemclaughlin4260
      @reemclaughlin4260 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      sage, SAME HERE. I had to walk away. Been on my own since way too young, but it’s healthier. 🙏🏼☮️

    • @dollymadeson3963
      @dollymadeson3963 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wills son had to tolerate his daddy kissing him, so there’s that!!

  • @a.w.3689
    @a.w.3689 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People who are narcissistic dont think they need help! They think you need help! But you already know this.😮 I do agree with you 💯

  • @michellestocken1165
    @michellestocken1165 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on! As she opens her mouth 😖 fingernails screeching across a blackboard comes into play!