No laughter…let her know just how unwelcome her inquiries are. People or con artists are off put by secure, stern potential marks who question their intents.
If any family member tells you you’re selfish or something because you won’t give your money away, tell them to give away their own money to them. Then list them on the internet saying these people want me to give my money to them but won’t give them their savings. Tell your parents to give them their money.
How can a person who is not even a member of the family have so much control over that family's financial affairs so as to dictate how those finances MUST be used for the outsider. Also, why is it expected that one sibling is responsible for financing a high dollar wedding for another. This whole thing is ridiculous!!!
It’s such a shame that your family is prioritizing a flashy wedding over your rightful inheritance, which your brother has no claim to in the first place,he sounds like he’s never been told “no” in his life! Do you think this is about the money, or is it more about them trying to control you and your decisions???
The second story I've seen in the last few days about people not understanding how trusts work and that you can't just share it with people not named in the trust. There's a reason it's called a trust in that it's being trusted to be used in a specified way for specific people and to not diverge from that.
When Elenor insisted about using the money for her and wedding plans, his response should be no and not on your life. Lunch should not been with Elenor. Giving that money would mean nothing to the family. My family has a high BS meter so they do not follow crap from manipulations.
It’s wild how entitled some people can be, expecting you to hand over your inheritance for their wedding, like they didn’t even earn it themselves, but what’s worse is that your parents seem to be encouraging this behavior instead of shutting it down! Have you told them how unfair this is, or do they just not care about your feelings???
Until my great grand monther died a couple years ago the whole family used to meet every couple weeks, even those who live far used to come during the holidays
Did his parents and brother told everyone who distanced themselves from OP the truth? And also, OP should never allow them back in their life, as the parents will clearly favor Daniel anyways and Daniel doesn’t really give a f about OP until it favors him. So what i would do as the OP is never allow anyone who believed her and took her side back in my life and i would also get the proof needed for suing Eleanor asap.
Tell your parents to put only your name on the deed to their house, and you'll give them fair market value. Then you can sell their house to fund your future, cause you know, family.
That was my question too and I'm assuming that Daniel the brother probably spent all of his right away and has nothing left he probably spent it on Eleanor
Your brother and his fiancée clearly think the world revolves around them, but what blows my mind is how your parents are backing them up instead of supporting you,it’s so messed up to play favorites like this! Are they even willing to listen to your side, or are they completely ignoring how wrong this is???
Sue her for defamation. Your brother got an inheritance also didn't he. She has family wealth, pay for her own wedding. You are NOT required to pay for your brothers wedding.
This situation is completely unfair, and it sounds like your brother is using his “golden child” status to manipulate everyone into getting what he wants, but good on you for not caving into their unreasonable demands! Are you worried this will create a permanent rift in your family, or do you think they’ll eventually realize how wrong they are???
I can’t believe your brother feels entitled to your inheritance for something as temporary as a wedding, and your parents siding with him just shows how deep their favoritism goes,it’s honestly heartbreaking! Are you planning to stand your ground, or is this going to cause a huge fallout in the family???
You know I’d tell them once and only once I’m not giving you my money I have plans to use it myself.!!!!! Then I would not let them contact me again and would block them and would tell all of my relatives they can donate money to them if they think it’s a good idea. But I wouldn’t put up with it any more from any of them
It is your inheritance - with specific instructions. Stand up for yourself if not they will keep pestering you until you give in. Stay steady for yourself.
Excuse me. In most countries the bride's family lays for fhe wedding. The groom should pay for the alcohol. This is beyond belief that someone from a rich background becomes a vulture on her groom's relatives. Disgusting. Do not yield. All these others could contribute. Ridiculous to spend a large sum on a wedding. Do not cave. Should your brother even marry this bird of prey? Support to you.❤❤
It's a case of "Mind your own business" And be buggered about going to a therapist. Suck it up and just go tell them Bye Bye peeps until you are willing to talk this through you all can get nicked. It's funny tho' All a therapist does is speak common sense. That's all. We all have that is some manner. The cousin did that. Just spoke common sense.
if someone found out that i got inheritance and is not even family yet in front of family . my reply would be what i do with that money is my bussiness . it was left to me not to you or anyone else . i dont need to help at all . your wedding last i checked its the brides family who pays for the wedding . and if you want a gift from me i wil give what i wil give you dont get to tell what to give and on me about money just makes me not want to attend a wedding of a gold digger . then walk out when called i would not answer .then when the day of thw edding i did not show i made sure to be out of town for business ..if family started in on me then my only reply is then you all pool your money from your inheritance or your savings ok i am not giving them money stop asking stop perstering me about money i willget restraining orders .
Time to go low- contact with all of them until they get the message. Why did grandpa only give the money to OP. There had to be some reason. Follow grandpa’s wishes.
This social media era is crazy. Give me what I want or I’ll say mean things about you on social media😡 Ok. Have fun. I haven’t been on FB in over a decade. I think I’ve been on twitter twice. I’ve never even seen Instagram or threads🤣
Your money, your decision. Dont even respond if money is mentioned and just leave. I hate to be disrespectful but the right thing to do is to look after number one which is you.
Glad I don't have any social media accounts. I have refused to go to weddings because they required separation of those who did not have covid shots. Elenor is an evil woman and eventually showed her vitriol.
My God this was far too long! Could have been told in 10 mins..."give me your trust fund to pay gor our wedding answer: F**k no end of conversation now go away"
Why bother by gracing everyone with your attention.What is legally yours cannot be shared because of an avaricious sister in law to be.OP should just distance herself from the family and work with the lawyer to write to do what is right. Nobody has no legal grounds t make any demands when she is not even part of the family yet..Eleanor is a gold digger and OPS Parents and Daniel .What people think doesnt matter. Daniel is blindly in love no wonder he gives his sister an ultimatum. she would have left the family totally bankrupt if she had stayed in the family.
To me if you dont have the neans for a. Extravagant wedding dont dream for it besides youre only .dreaming for theimpossible and waste your feeding people to prove that your wedding is lavish but after yourebroke stupid idea
Nothing fake about it. This could literally be my story. And I am alive and well and I am real. So are the people that I had to deal with that I used to call family.
I am not giving any of MY MONEY to others and if she wants to give herself she can. I have a dream like a business and that is where it’s going I am not giving MY MONEY to people who contribute little or nothing.
When someone asks you about your money, the proper response is “sorry, I never discuss personal finances“.
I just start laughing as I walk away
@ 😂😅😆 Even better
No laughter…let her know just how unwelcome her inquiries are. People or con artists are off put by secure, stern potential marks who question their intents.
@ 🤔👍
One thing could be said is you don't have any money to talk about until getting some. By the way could you loan me some?
1st rule of having a large sum of money, "KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT", 2nd rule - REMEMBER RULE #1, "KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT". Nuff said.
And like Barney Fife said, "Obey All Rules"
Ab so lute ly!
Eleanor can look for a job and save every penny for her wedding. She should sell her luxury items too.
Well Eleanor can foot the bill for the extravagant wedding she wants
This like same story the person want OP inheritance name Laura want spend for the wedding
If any family member tells you you’re selfish or something because you won’t give your money away, tell them to give away their own money to them. Then list them on the internet saying these people want me to give my money to them but won’t give them their savings. Tell your parents to give them their money.
How can a person who is not even a member of the family have so much control over that family's financial affairs so as to dictate how those finances MUST be used for the outsider.
Also, why is it expected that one sibling is responsible for financing a high dollar wedding for another. This whole thing is ridiculous!!!
The biggest loser was Daniel.
He is such a fool 🤣 😂
It’s such a shame that your family is prioritizing a flashy wedding over your rightful inheritance, which your brother has no claim to in the first place,he sounds like he’s never been told “no” in his life! Do you think this is about the money, or is it more about them trying to control you and your decisions???
The second story I've seen in the last few days about people not understanding how trusts work and that you can't just share it with people not named in the trust. There's a reason it's called a trust in that it's being trusted to be used in a specified way for specific people and to not diverge from that.
Inheritance belongs to the person inheriting. No one else has the right to claim it or demand any of it. Family or otherwise.
Spot on! It’s ridiculous how entitled some people get over someone else’s inheritance. It’s not theirs to claim, end of story.
Op could have simply said "the lawyer said no. I don't get any money until I'm 30. Ask again then."
Call her out for being a gold digger. She wants op to give the money so she can divorce his brother and get half in the settlement
Elenor needs a restraining order.
When Elenor insisted about using the money for her and wedding plans, his response should be no and not on your life. Lunch should not been with Elenor. Giving that money would mean nothing to the family. My family has a high BS meter so they do not follow crap from manipulations.
It’s wild how entitled some people can be, expecting you to hand over your inheritance for their wedding, like they didn’t even earn it themselves, but what’s worse is that your parents seem to be encouraging this behavior instead of shutting it down! Have you told them how unfair this is, or do they just not care about your feelings???
Wow, people can be incredibly selfish. That's your money for YOUR future, not to waste on a wedding. They should get married in a court house.
Its your money and if they can't afford their wedding they shouldn't get married.
Take those steps to protect your trust, she sounds like a scammer.
GIVING your money away for a PARTY.
one simple message to all the ( far off family members ) dont know all the facts, mind your own business!
These stories are so fictitious as at 66 years old I have never met families that meet up as often as they do.
Until my great grand monther died a couple years ago the whole family used to meet every couple weeks, even those who live far used to come during the holidays
Did his parents and brother told everyone who distanced themselves from OP the truth? And also, OP should never allow them back in their life, as the parents will clearly favor Daniel anyways and Daniel doesn’t really give a f about OP until it favors him. So what i would do as the OP is never allow anyone who believed her and took her side back in my life and i would also get the proof needed for suing Eleanor asap.
Tell your parents to put only your name on the deed to their house, and you'll give them fair market value. Then you can sell their house to fund your future, cause you know, family.
Seems she knew early on about the money.
Money doesn🎉 make you feel part of a family
so did the brother not get an inheritance?
That was my question too and I'm assuming that Daniel the brother probably spent all of his right away and has nothing left he probably spent it on Eleanor
Why did Grandpa leave a trust for just you? Not the parents, not you siblings, just you?
Because it’s an AI generated story. You can tell by the weird turns of phrase sometimes.
Your brother and his fiancée clearly think the world revolves around them, but what blows my mind is how your parents are backing them up instead of supporting you,it’s so messed up to play favorites like this! Are they even willing to listen to your side, or are they completely ignoring how wrong this is???
Sue her for defamation. Your brother got an inheritance also didn't he. She has family wealth, pay for her own wedding. You are NOT required to pay for your brothers wedding.
This situation is completely unfair, and it sounds like your brother is using his “golden child” status to manipulate everyone into getting what he wants, but good on you for not caving into their unreasonable demands! Are you worried this will create a permanent rift in your family, or do you think they’ll eventually realize how wrong they are???
His trust fund was not meant for her
Did anyone notice that the voice changes briefly to a British accent?
I was just so confused by that
I was so confused by the switch
AI glitching again.
I worked have shut it down the first time it was mentioned. I works have said with a smile 'absolutely ducking not'
Eleanor is a fraudulent character and the family should be careful supporting such a person.
I can’t believe your brother feels entitled to your inheritance for something as temporary as a wedding, and your parents siding with him just shows how deep their favoritism goes,it’s honestly heartbreaking! Are you planning to stand your ground, or is this going to cause a huge fallout in the family???
You know I’d tell them once and only once I’m not giving you my money I have plans to use it myself.!!!!! Then I would not let them contact me again and would block them and would tell all of my relatives they can donate money to them if they think it’s a good idea. But I wouldn’t put up with it any more from any of them
She is not even in the family fully as yet an she is so entitled am happy u stood your ground some ppl r just shameless
This story continuously repeats the same thing
It is your inheritance - with specific instructions. Stand up for yourself if not they will keep pestering you until you give in. Stay steady for yourself.
NO CHANCE is a complete sentence.
Maybe sue them for harassment.
Excellent story,really good. Totally different than usual.
Excuse me. In most countries the bride's family lays for fhe wedding. The groom should pay for the alcohol. This is beyond belief that someone from a rich background becomes a vulture on her groom's relatives. Disgusting. Do not yield. All these others could contribute. Ridiculous to spend a large sum on a wedding. Do not cave. Should your brother even marry this bird of prey? Support to you.❤❤
You have a wonderful way of capturing emotions that makes everything so relatable. 💖
Makes him shutter? Maybe shudder?
It's a case of "Mind your own business" And be buggered about going to a therapist. Suck it up and just go tell them Bye Bye peeps until you are willing to talk this through you all can get nicked. It's funny tho' All a therapist does is speak common sense. That's all. We all have that is some manner. The cousin did that. Just spoke common sense.
What's wrong with u simps....just say NO! And don't ask again
Should have told your brother you will pay for his next wedding
I have 2 words for you "BACKBONE, NO"
0:44 was he only one that got anything ?
The same story over and over
You gave in , 😡😡😡
WTH!!! The voice changed in the middle of the story. 😮😮😮
STOP BEING WEAK.IT IS YOURS TELL EVERYONE TO MEND THEIR OWN BUSINESS.IF YOU MUST BLOCK EVERYONE
How much bullcrap can be piled into one over inflated tale?
Why should you give them for a wedding you can't attend due to restraining order
if someone found out that i got inheritance and is not even family yet in front of family . my reply would be what i do with that money is my bussiness . it was left to me not to you or anyone else . i dont need to help at all . your wedding last i checked its the brides family who pays for the wedding . and if you want a gift from me i wil give what i wil give you dont get to tell what to give and on me about money just makes me not want to attend a wedding of a gold digger . then walk out when called i would not answer .then when the day of thw edding i did not show i made sure to be out of town for business ..if family started in on me then my only reply is then you all pool your money from your inheritance or your savings ok i am not giving them money stop asking stop perstering me about money i willget restraining orders .
Did anyone else notice the narrators voice change from American English to UK English lol
It seems to me if you want to "feel like a member of the new family", ..you dont start by demanding the money of one of those new family members..
What happened to your brother's trust fund and his inheritance or has he already blown through that and not want yours
Our offered a loan at 3% over base rate
you say the name wrong, Eleanor, its el Le a nore
Cheap AI program, not a real person
Time to go low- contact with all of them until they get the message. Why did grandpa only give the money to OP. There had to be some reason. Follow grandpa’s wishes.
This social media era is crazy.
Give me what I want or I’ll say mean things about you on social media😡
Ok. Have fun. I haven’t been on FB in over a decade. I think I’ve been on twitter twice. I’ve never even seen Instagram or threads🤣
What's happened to Daniels trust?
Your money, your decision. Dont even respond if money is mentioned and just leave. I hate to be disrespectful but the right thing to do is to look after number one which is you.
Glad I don't have any social media accounts. I have refused to go to weddings because they required separation of those who did not have covid shots. Elenor is an evil woman and eventually showed her vitriol.
strange changes of accents
My God this was far too long! Could have been told in 10 mins..."give me your trust fund to pay gor our wedding answer: F**k no end of conversation now go away"
Please put the story Canonical order on dates.
Why bother by gracing everyone with your attention.What is legally yours cannot be shared because of an avaricious sister in law to be.OP should just distance herself from the family and work with the lawyer to write to do what is right. Nobody has no legal grounds t make any demands when she is not even part of the family yet..Eleanor is a gold digger and OPS Parents and Daniel .What people think doesnt matter. Daniel is blindly in love no wonder he gives his sister an ultimatum. she would have left the family totally bankrupt if she had stayed in the family.
Please pick an accent and stick with it?
Are people realy this stupid over family comitments
Interesting story but please take a course in English Composition, since you are murdering the language in so many places.
To me if you dont have the neans for a. Extravagant wedding dont dream for it besides youre only .dreaming for theimpossible and waste your feeding people to prove that your wedding is lavish but after yourebroke stupid idea
Another fake AI story…. Nobody is this bold.
Nothing fake about it. This could literally be my story. And I am alive and well and I am real.
So are the people that I had to deal with that I used to call family.
I DONT LIKE STORY OF GREED AMONG FAMILY AND ILS
This sounds like a Harry and Meghan story… 🤣🤣🤣🤣
When someone calls you selfish and greedy, tell them, you won't seen nothing yet.....
I am not giving any of MY MONEY to others and if she wants to give herself she can. I have a dream like a business and that is where it’s going I am not giving MY MONEY to people who contribute little or nothing.