AITA For Banning My Mother’s Boyfriend From My Wedding?....- Reddit Family

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  • @Shivamkumar-wd2qe
    @Shivamkumar-wd2qe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +241

    Seriously sis has got more parents than I have friends😂😂

    • @astrxdem
      @astrxdem 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      shes just like me fr 😜 ive had four fathers

    • @LegitVerticality
      @LegitVerticality 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@astrxdem4 fathers? Wild

    • @benkenobi7259
      @benkenobi7259 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@LegitVerticalityfr

    • @jenwhite8173
      @jenwhite8173 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t have that many friends

    • @Munchkin.Of.Pern09
      @Munchkin.Of.Pern09 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The officiant at my mother’s wedding was her “third ex step grandmother”. Great Grandpa Bill go around lol. He passed last spring.

  • @erikah830
    @erikah830 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    In the 1st story, she has the right to not invite anyone she doesn't want.

    • @danacarter9147
      @danacarter9147 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well said. Not only should OP go no contact with her mother, she should also put her wedding on hold, move with her fiancée to another state, have a courthouse ceremony to legalize the marriage, and then, resume her wedding in Milan, Paris, the Caribbean, or Bora Bora. Who knows?

  • @radish6740
    @radish6740 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    If the ex has taken tests & confirmed with a doctor, why wouldn’t she show up with all that documentation?

    • @TalesFromRedditHome
      @TalesFromRedditHome 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      That’s an interesting point you’ve raised. Maybe she feels her word should be enough, or perhaps there’s something deeper, like fear of being judged or misunderstood. Do you think people often avoid providing evidence in situations like this because they don’t want to seem defensive, or could it be something else entirely?

  • @michellemartinov6267
    @michellemartinov6267 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    3 bottles of wine per day? Yeah that qualifies as alcoholic which is sad because that’s a terrible way to die.

  • @EmilyPlein
    @EmilyPlein 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    These sweet treats are killing me 😊

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Glad you're enjoying the!

    • @Sagasofbetrayal
      @Sagasofbetrayal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Haha, I know the feeling! They look delicious

    • @OliverHauge
      @OliverHauge 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hope you are okay😢

    • @chloeann6830
      @chloeann6830 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@RedditFamilyTales Do you have a favourite recipe site or are these original creations? They look amazing

    • @Isagi_yoichi679
      @Isagi_yoichi679 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And killing the people eating them I didn’t know you could speedrun diabetes

  • @PsychologyFacts-jx2uk
    @PsychologyFacts-jx2uk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I'm truly sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing with your mother and her behavior. It's understandable to prioritize your peace and boundaries, especially on such a special occasion. You deserve to celebrate your wedding without added stress. Take care of yourself and lean on your support system

  • @allieniner675
    @allieniner675 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She’s not a gold digger, she seems to be a cradle snatcher if she’s going out with younger guys

  • @badlydrawnavocado2569
    @badlydrawnavocado2569 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I get that the visuals are just something to place the audio on, but BOY some of those deserts are UGLY.

  • @ivywalker7989
    @ivywalker7989 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    No its your wedding and you have a right to set boundries nta

  • @Mop222
    @Mop222 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I don’t think it’s about childhood! I don’t think a child wants to be in her mother’s love life, especially if it is a rolling wheel!

  • @AgathaMagnie
    @AgathaMagnie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    this video is super engaging, with lots of family drama that keeps you hooked. you won't want to miss the ending, it really makes you think about the situation. definitely worth watching all the way through!

  • @izumiuchiha5809
    @izumiuchiha5809 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have BPD I pray I’m not like this.

  • @DoctorReddit09
    @DoctorReddit09 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Mother in the srory is only good at causing trouble for others

    • @Sagasofbetrayal
      @Sagasofbetrayal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Totally agree, she seems to cause more harm than good.

  • @afquan9211
    @afquan9211 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Not my fault" hardcore alcoholic mother who blames her divorces because the men didn't have enough money to give her what she demanded---that ain't the sort of woman who is either a good mother or wife or just person. No responsibility and too damned selfish.

  • @ourladyofsorrowsxx
    @ourladyofsorrowsxx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    (1 story) him adding all the actual bad shit after acting like she was just a woman who dated many men (which isn’t a bad thing) is interesting. The woman lost my respect after hearing that she put her partners over her children (my biggest ick) so he wouldn’t even be the asshole if he even didn’t invite her.

    • @erin4057
      @erin4057 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I thought the same thing! It sounds like the problem is mom is an alcoholic narcissist, not that she is a serial monogamist…

  • @rubypeter2025
    @rubypeter2025 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your perspective is so refreshing, it's like seeing the world in a new light. 🌍

    • @TalesFromRedditHome
      @TalesFromRedditHome 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It's interesting how your perspective brings such clarity. Do you think the mother's boyfriend might have had a chance to explain his side, or was the situation beyond repair? How do you approach balancing personal boundaries with family dynamics in such cases?

  • @raymondmartinez1263
    @raymondmartinez1263 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Haven’t finished the whole story, im calling it now, those pregnancy pictures were fake, & she’s going to come up with a reason for “losing the baby”

  • @BlommaWikman
    @BlommaWikman 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, this video was really eye-opening! I never thought about the complexities of family dynamics in such a personal setting. But honestly, I think banning any partner from a wedding can be extreme. Everyone deserves a chance to be there, even if the relationships are rocky. I mean, it’s supposed to be a joyous occasion, right? I wonder if there could've been a way to bring everyone together instead of creating even more tension. Just my two cents!

  • @NeverEndingSoda
    @NeverEndingSoda หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could have made things more believable. Alimony stops when the receiving spouse moves in with a new partner- marriage is not required to stop alimony. Basically as soon as she moved in w his brother & parents the courts would not have even touched the issue of alimony

  • @MaccullochPearlman
    @MaccullochPearlman หลายเดือนก่อน

    what a captivating video! it really sheds light on a complex situation. personally, I think banning someone from a significant event like a wedding can create more tension than it's worth. while it's understandable to feel uncomfortable with a parent's partner, maybe having an open conversation would be a better approach instead of outright banning him. just my two cents!

  • @skduhd
    @skduhd 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was really well put together and gave a lot of insight into the situation. I have to say, though, I don’t completely agree with the decision to ban the boyfriend. weddings should be about love and unity, not dividing families, even if there are personal differences. just feels a bit extreme to me.

  • @GlasseyFradette
    @GlasseyFradette 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was really well made and raised some interesting points. I get why you’d want to protect your special day, but banning a family member's partner seems a bit extreme. can't we just set boundaries instead of cutting people off completely? just a thought!

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! Setting boundaries is definitely a good approach, and I can see how it might work for some situations. In this case, emotions ran high, and decisions were made in the heat of the moment. It's a tough balance between protecting your peace and maintaining family connections. Appreciate your thoughtful comment!

  • @taeiehdog
    @taeiehdog หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video, really enjoyed the discussion! but honestly, i think banning a parent’s partner from a major event like a wedding is a bit extreme. while i get there might be valid reasons, it feels more mature to address the issues directly rather than excluding someone. what do you all think?

  • @KemmeriesFantini
    @KemmeriesFantini หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was really well made and it brought up some interesting points! that said, i can't help but think that banning someone from a family event, even if they’re not the greatest influence, might create more drama in the long run. sometimes, keeping the peace is more important than standing your ground, don’t you think?

  • @RikuHirao
    @RikuHirao หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was super interesting and made me think a lot about family dynamics. but honestly, i feel like it’s a bit unfair to completely ban someone without considering their role in your mom's life. i mean, while i get wanting a peaceful wedding, maybe a conversation could've helped instead of an outright ban? just my two cents!

  • @DubuissonMckemie
    @DubuissonMckemie หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video, I really appreciate the insights shared. However, I can't help but think that banning a family member's partner from such a significant event could lead to more family drama down the line. Isn't it possible to find a compromise instead of creating a rift?

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment!

  • @MinhGia-w6j
    @MinhGia-w6j หลายเดือนก่อน

    What an interesting take on a very complex situation! I appreciate how you presented both sides. Personally, I believe that family dynamics can get really tricky, and while it’s totally understandable to want a stress-free wedding, banning someone might come off as a bit extreme. Couldn’t there be a way to set boundaries without completely cutting him out? Just a thought!

  • @ParadoxicalPoetry
    @ParadoxicalPoetry 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:03 your wedding. Your life. Your rules.

  • @NailerAllbritton
    @NailerAllbritton หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video, really enjoyed the discussion! but honestly, i think it’s a bit unfair to judge someone just for wanting to protect their big day. i mean, every bride wants it to be perfect, and if the boyfriend’s history is sketchy, shouldn’t she have the right to set those boundaries? some might call that overreacting, but i get where she's coming from.

  • @CharvesOommen
    @CharvesOommen หลายเดือนก่อน

    i really enjoyed this video, it brought up some interesting points about family dynamics. but honestly, i think it’s a bit extreme to ban anyone from your wedding, even if they’re not your favorite person. weddings are supposed to be about love and unity, right?

  • @ArelyLermaa
    @ArelyLermaa หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was really engaging and gave me a lot to think about. while i totally get wanting to keep your wedding day special, i can't help but feel that banning a family member's partner might be a bit extreme. isn’t it important to try and include people, even if they aren't the "best" fit? just seems like it could create more drama in the long run.

  • @BellemyHerauf
    @BellemyHerauf หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video! really appreciated the insights shared here. but honestly, i think it's a bit unfair to ban someone just because of personal feelings. weddings are about bringing people together, even if they don't always get along. just my two cents!

  • @blazingzombiex1724
    @blazingzombiex1724 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Second story is definitely Ai generated or assisted

    • @blazingzombiex1724
      @blazingzombiex1724 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And then the constant need for there to be a lesson learned is a common theme with these AI

  • @NuradinMohammed-n4r
    @NuradinMohammed-n4r หลายเดือนก่อน

    really enjoyed this video, you did a great job presenting both sides. however, I have to say, I think it’s a little extreme to ban someone outright. family dynamics are complicated, and maybe there's a way to address concerns without cutting people off completely. what do you all think?

  • @Im.ablink.editsandrandomstuff
    @Im.ablink.editsandrandomstuff หลายเดือนก่อน

    Title says everything🎉

  • @AssoDerhy
    @AssoDerhy หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video! it really brought up some interesting points about family dynamics. personally, i think it’s kind of extreme to ban someone, even if you don’t get along. weddings are supposed to be about love and unity, right? it might be worth trying to find some common ground, even if that’s tough. just some food for thought!

  • @TorbeckBulgrin
    @TorbeckBulgrin 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was really well done and sparked a lot of thought! honestly, i can kinda see both sides here, but i feel like banning a family member's partner might be a bit extreme. weddings are supposed to be about love and unity, right? wouldn't it be better to try and find a way to make it work instead of cutting someone off? just my two cents!

  • @LAOCHPadre
    @LAOCHPadre 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    S1: Just tell her she is mentally unwell and that she needs to fix herself in order to earn a spot back in your life. Get sober, stop valuing things and money over people, and figure out how to have healthy and stable relationships, both personal and familial. Everyone runs from a live grenade.

  • @EmmaKaramaneas
    @EmmaKaramaneas หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video, really enjoyed the insights! but honestly, i feel like everyone has different family dynamics, so banning a partner seems a bit extreme. maybe it could’ve been an opportunity for healing instead? just my two cents!

  • @Alastor-n6h
    @Alastor-n6h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Steampunk Wedding Sounds actualy kinda cool

  • @TerrasasFraccola
    @TerrasasFraccola หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video really dives deep into a complex situation, and I appreciate the perspective you brought to it! however, it seems like banning a family member's partner from such a significant event might be a bit over the top. I wonder if having an open conversation could’ve resolved things better instead of creating a bigger rift in the family. What do u all think?

  • @officerhansencaptures
    @officerhansencaptures 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The first story reminds me of frank gallager

  • @BuonoAbbey
    @BuonoAbbey หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was really engaging and brought up some interesting points. however, i can’t help but feel that banning a family member’s partner from such an important event might be a bit extreme. shouldn’t weddings be about love and inclusion, even if there are some personal disagreements? just a thought!

  • @Piggypiglets
    @Piggypiglets 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anyone else feeling troubled by the amount of cardboard used in the cake decorating?

  • @TarnoffDeschner
    @TarnoffDeschner หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really enjoyed the insights shared in this video; it’s always interesting to hear different perspectives! However, I can’t help but think that banning someone from your wedding, especially family, might be a bit extreme. I mean, isn’t a wedding supposed to be about love and unity? It feels like there could've been a more diplomatic way to handle things instead of cutting ties. What do you all think?

  • @Monicaelliott-k5g
    @Monicaelliott-k5g 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i really enjoyed this video, it was super engaging and made me think. but honestly, i feel like banning a parent's partner from such a significant event might be a bit extreme. i mean, shouldn't weddings be about bringing families together, even if there are differences? i get wanting to set boundaries, but it could lead to more division in the long run. what do y’all think?

  • @BrumaghimEdleston
    @BrumaghimEdleston หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was really thought-provoking and well put together. however, i can't help but feel that the whole situation is a bit extreme. it seems like having an open conversation with your mom about your feelings might have been a better approach than banning her boyfriend outright. it could've helped avoid any unnecessary drama on such a special day. what do you guys think?

  • @11dizzy11
    @11dizzy11 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    airport security has GOTTA suck for some of these ppl😭

  • @tamarajackson1729
    @tamarajackson1729 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Seems like the mom has some deep rooted hurt and her children are only seeing their hurt but not hers . Have your wedding but don't cry at your mom's funeral. I wonder if anyone asked how she felt.

    • @lw0987
      @lw0987 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alcoholism is a disease. OP seems judgmental. The mom is self-destructive and probably carries pain from some kind of childhood trauma. OP seems smug and self-absorbed.

    • @prettynostalgia
      @prettynostalgia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i honestly agree, normally im always 100% with op when they discuss entitled parents but something about this story just genuinely throws me off… like its either rly fake or there is a lot more going on tbh

    • @sportslover3103
      @sportslover3103 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      No. The mum is am adult and can communicate these problems herself. She chose not to, and instead manipulate her children. She fucked up over and over and made no changes or attempts to change or even address any issues. This was 100% the mums fault. She clearly never acted like a responsible adult or parent. Op deserves peace and is not responsible for her parent.

    • @Tonyelec10
      @Tonyelec10 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't worry, no one is gonna cry at the mom's funeral other than maybe the grandma

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    @Hola-oj4gx วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ummm is it only me or the second story feels A.I

  • @56karenandjim
    @56karenandjim 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh for god sake, move into a gated community and stop answering your phone

  • @vmrstl
    @vmrstl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Op is the friend everyone hates but can’t let go because of childhood memories

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    @StoryVaultttt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nice video

    • @RedditFamilyTales
      @RedditFamilyTales  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it. Don't forget to subscribe for more stories!

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