Failures Make You A Better Dater || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 523

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  • @Mario-em1zg
    @Mario-em1zg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Congrats on 10k! Jared clean your place we coming over lol

  • @PennyDunn-j8h
    @PennyDunn-j8h 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    When you read the email about the guy on the date who left to go buy a Juul, in my head I thought “jewel” 😂 When Jordana said he had an addiction I was like “he’s addicted to jewels?”. 💎

    • @classicnel
      @classicnel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I thought the same!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jaredfreid
      @jaredfreid 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

    • @karolinaks4192
      @karolinaks4192 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @sgtouring
    @sgtouring 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    "...and I am Jared Freid. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you? What's going on?"......

    • @aleS444
      @aleS444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I always say it with him 😂

    • @i-lon3185
      @i-lon3185 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's the Mrs. Doubtfire "Hellooo" that kills me 😄

    • @victoriab6802
      @victoriab6802 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      *… it is SO good to be back here with you, Jordana”

    • @winterwaffle16
      @winterwaffle16 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@aleS444Me too! 😂

  • @SK-kw4kz
    @SK-kw4kz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yay! I’ve legit been following your subscriber count for months hoping for this. Lol

  • @emilydehod9013
    @emilydehod9013 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was the second email, When I wrote the email I didn’t realize how negative I came off haha!
    I really love how you changed the situation to be a positive one though:) im still seeing him and enjoying my time and putting less pressure on the whole thing. Thanks for the roast.

  • @rockiegoldb
    @rockiegoldb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love the mustache Jared! Takes a confident man to sport one. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @thehawttomboy
    @thehawttomboy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jay Shetty is like helium. Excited for Sunday's episode!

  • @Noellevrr
    @Noellevrr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I talk to my best friend multiple times a day and I will still always confirm our plans! Even if it’s just we’re going to the other’s house for dinner or a glass of wine. We both have kids so that plays into it but still! I share my kids with their Dad and even though she knows my schedule by heart, she always confirms. It literally takes 20 seconds. We’re too old to be guessing each others needs and schedules 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @thehawttomboy
    @thehawttomboy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jared - i would LOVE to hear your take on men + confidence. I'm a single, attractive woman ... and I feel like men don't have any confidence. How can we change this?? lol

  • @juliac2687
    @juliac2687 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Might sounds bad, but you don't wait for someone to confirm the date lol because yes, you don't want to waste your night on waiting, I agree with that. That's why you always have multiple options for that night🤷🏻‍♀️ So literally if Guy A doesn't confirm, you just go out with Guy B or Guy C who does... Nothing personal and you can even give Guy A a second chance on another day if you want. By that time they will get the idea of what your expectations are 👍🏼

  • @ninaullrich983
    @ninaullrich983 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree if it’s a new person yes you can touch base about date plans but after a while and you have learned each other a little bit and you know the person is a hey if I don’t hear from you by the day before or morning of person then no excuse after a while. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @carolinerobinette
    @carolinerobinette 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol I totally get how Jared feels when he spent a weekend not working. I don’t even like working that much but the feeling of having a day doing nothing meaningful is kinda tough lol

  • @Alpenglow29
    @Alpenglow29 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for acknowledging the mustache

  • @AllisonIntheCity
    @AllisonIntheCity 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cannot stand the trend of women making videos on TikTok of their 'receipts' when men don't text them early enough on the day of their date for their liking. There's one video of a woman who went viral and she comes off completely unhinged - like, this is why you're single, girlfriend. I think you guys brought up a really good point of women saying they're empowered but not acting like it in the tiniest way possible - ie. sending a confirmation text.
    And I think Jared would really benefit from meditating to get comfortable with being present with himself by himself. Take yourself out on dates, Jared!

    • @juliac2687
      @juliac2687 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What is so empowering about chasing down a date though? Having said that, I think the first email question speaks more to the type of relationship, the type of dynamic and the type of person someone wants to be with. For example, I definitely would not want to be with someone who displays low effort, doesn't pursue and doesn't confirm plans. That's a huge turn off for me.

    • @AllisonIntheCity
      @AllisonIntheCity 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@juliac2687 Huh? There's a difference between chasing down someone for a date and taking the initiative to confirm plans that were already made. When I was more insecure, I liked someone to confirm plans or to confirm plans myself, but as I got more confident in myself, it became not such a big deal.

  • @karleyhebert
    @karleyhebert 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    10K!!! 💜💜💜💜💜

  • @cozy_sundays
    @cozy_sundays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I also don’t easily like guys for some reason. And not because I think I’m too much of anything or they’re not cute or nice…. Not sure what it is…. Maybe it is a fear of commitment and I only end up falling for people that I can’t be with because of circumstances like the one she mentioned…… hmmmm just gave myself therapy right now lol

  • @lornarosenblum9354
    @lornarosenblum9354 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    so we get an apartment tour now right

  • @judemda2232
    @judemda2232 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s literally just being single - not depressing

    • @AllisonIntheCity
      @AllisonIntheCity 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I've never disliked being single. Why do people hate it so much??? you get to be completely selfish with your time and do whatever the hell you want to.

  • @cozy_sundays
    @cozy_sundays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If I were the pizza guy I would literally tell the person, I can’t share because “insert excuse”… this happened with my boyfriend too but I was the one who doesn’t like sharing but I did let him know I was very HANGRY and couldn’t share. He said he didn’t want food and later then wanted my fries. I jokingly showed annoyance or pretended I didn’t want to give it to him but obviously I gave him fries lol plus I got full and gave him the rest of what I had. The next time i went to a fast food spot I bought extra food 😅 all in all… if you knew you had to have a certain amount, tell the person BEFORE that you can’t share.

  • @cozy_sundays
    @cozy_sundays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    10kkkkkkk!!! Nick Vial is going to come begging soon

  • @tenaciousbb
    @tenaciousbb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is the apartment tour?! You’re at 10k

    • @uuppodcast
      @uuppodcast  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      coming this week! We wanted to surprise Jared so we couldn't announce until it was done

  • @wahinepaddler4
    @wahinepaddler4 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wait... Jared isnt on dating apps anymore?

  • @cozy_sundays
    @cozy_sundays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I kinda like keeping stuff on instagram.

  • @Mere-q7r
    @Mere-q7r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    plug city for park city

  • @cozy_sundays
    @cozy_sundays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t think gen z does peace signs lol. Millennials do. And I feel awk when I do it. But then realize peace signs are freaking cool lol

  • @Hokieashley
    @Hokieashley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The juul thing, such a turnoff but I would never match with a smoker anyway.. so gross.

  • @cozy_sundays
    @cozy_sundays 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love a mustache! All the hot North West guys wear them.

  • @MyChannel-ul3tm
    @MyChannel-ul3tm 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Andrew Schulz has the same mustache! Can jared grow a beard? He should if he can, it would look great.

  • @esikazemese
    @esikazemese 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg, come to Hungary and see what we get for one of the highest taxes in the World. I'll tell you, only shit that we get.
    I think Jared is correct about the pizza guy, this sounds very passive aggressive. Unless I've been starving for 3 days prior, I would share my food even if I'm super annoyed. This is a nasty power move - and if someone is this pity, just leave - ok, just heard the end - sounds like a man child who had to be thought to not be 100% selfish?? Yickes