4 things to do for a happier marriage I Nouman Ali Khan I Saad Tasleem I 2019

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  • @SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS
    @SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Anyone have any other tips for a happier marriage feel free to comment below. :) May Allah bless us all with happy marriages and beautiful pious children. Ameen

    • @chouu1952
      @chouu1952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My husbnd was in love with me but after 4 years of marriage he told me he wans to get married again bcoz i am always sick ( poor health ) .i know this to b true but before marriage i told him that i got health problem and he still marry me .But later complain
      I felt hurt ., but i didnt show my hurt just act as normal n focus my love for Allah more .Anyway he did get married again and his second marriage went wrong and now he show more love .Evn though i say i love you to him many times but i hardly think of him .My love is only for Allah .
      My tips is 1) to love your husband for the sake of Allah
      2) Not to be lazy , ie do the house work & cooking
      3) take care of the children
      4) Say love words to him even though you dont mean it
      5) Praise him for his good behaviour
      6 ) try not to think of all his mistakes & faults but remember the good times and appreciate it bcoz he is a gift from Allah
      7 ) compare yourself someone worst off then you
      8 ) Use always kind words
      9) When you wan something , giv him a good massage
      10 ) Be pious ie dont neglect your religious duty
      11) Not to be materialistic , be grateful always ( rem the hadith many women go to hell fire for ungratefulness
      12) Occupy yourself withzikr Allah
      13 ) before mariage must do istikhara bcoz marrriage to foolish stubborn person is a bad marriage .

    • @aimay8507
      @aimay8507 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aameen

    • @BibiKhan-j6y
      @BibiKhan-j6y ปีที่แล้ว

      What advice for a wife who think husband is the cause for her health issues and he's not listening nor being compassionate

  • @m_o_n480
    @m_o_n480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    1. marry for the right reason
    2.worry about your obligation rather than your rights
    3.mercy and courtesy
    4. don't rely on anyone other than Allah swt to determine your self worth

  • @shaikgohar5885
    @shaikgohar5885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I love my husband as much as anything in this duniya and I wish may Allah subhanawataalah reunite us in Jannah also ....ameen

    • @SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS
      @SHORTIMAANBOOSTERS  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen

    • @gemedajado2082
      @gemedajado2082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May allah reward u sista.... And also give me a wife like u😇 ameen

    • @mehwishawan5178
      @mehwishawan5178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen amen suma amen Insha Allah💕

    • @aimay8507
      @aimay8507 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aameen

    • @laminsesay8299
      @laminsesay8299 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gemedajado2082 pray for good wife brother

  • @nisaakhan955
    @nisaakhan955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Alhamdulillah respect and understanding for each other and most of all trust in Allah

  • @rosnehassan7962
    @rosnehassan7962 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sakinah mawaddah warahmah is the key.Pray to Allah to grant us.Aameen

  • @shinebright5917
    @shinebright5917 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    we are accountable for our obligations, and what others doing should be our least concern...when you go the extra mile fulfilling your duties we will be less interested in what comes in return...we ourselves are not perfect and compatible all the time so we should give that margin to others too, and should find the purpose of life along with all those experiences we go through...

  • @emankhalil6762
    @emankhalil6762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    All what is said is the basic truth of good relationships and these advices are the solution for all problems not only between couples but also with friends and relatives this will repair all the issues in misunderstanding between people.
    I can say that all relations when it is connected by Allah it will soon turn to successfully happy relations cause each will apply Allah’s commands which starts by fulfilling ones obligations towards others which certainly leads to mercy and good tolerance for all around you. This bring the best community one can ever live in.

  • @felizmann7076
    @felizmann7076 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed this advice right now because the same occurrence happens every time that causes my husband and me to not speak to each other. No matter how nice and kind treatment I gave him after we are ok....again he raises his voice, throw hurtful comments and disrespected me. I had to gave up, do the first move, forgives and forget....this happens repeatedly. Sometimes I feel, im ready to move on....but I know it's out test, because deep inside, we love and care of each other 😔

    • @KBH4
      @KBH4 ปีที่แล้ว

      sheesh i hope and pray it's all good for you sister Ameen ❤️

    • @ala_2002
      @ala_2002 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sister i dont know exactly wht u r going through..
      if i could tell . try have a time to talk to ur hubby why he treat you like that, wht things he doesn't like until it makes him does that.. also you tell him about ur feeling if it's all hurt you.. when u find the cause of problem it would be easier to get solution for it..
      again sista i dont knw wht is happening with u and ur hubby..
      may Allah always protect you and bless you, and show u a way out for everything ♥️ 💞

  • @soccer90tem80
    @soccer90tem80 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Thank you for not adding background music thank you😢😌

  • @Katniss_cosmos
    @Katniss_cosmos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such simple beautiful but effective advice ❤

  • @elenipapadopoulou827
    @elenipapadopoulou827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you it's so good to listen and do what priceless

  • @bintihemedmwarundu4615
    @bintihemedmwarundu4615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Even if am not married shukran for the advice🙏👌

  • @MuslimreminderKids
    @MuslimreminderKids 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent advice

  • @nabukenyarashidah3953
    @nabukenyarashidah3953 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this

  • @bibibiti1098
    @bibibiti1098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    شكرا بارك الله فيك و جعله في ميزان حسناتكم 🌻

  • @rosnehassan7962
    @rosnehassan7962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Forget about your right n worry about your obligations

  • @shaguftakhadeer9610
    @shaguftakhadeer9610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am Gonna Keep These Tips In Mind
    In Shaa Allah
    Jaza Kallah Hu Khayran For This Amazing Short Clips...
    May Allah Azzawajjal Reward You For Your Efforts...
    Aameen Sumameen

  • @sanssufiyan6261
    @sanssufiyan6261 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally....

  • @rosnehassan7962
    @rosnehassan7962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love conquers all

  • @BibiKhan-j6y
    @BibiKhan-j6y ปีที่แล้ว

    What if they change years after marriage in the negative what advice for that

  • @rosnehassan7962
    @rosnehassan7962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be happy with the way your soulmate is

  • @bilalkhan-kn8cx
    @bilalkhan-kn8cx ปีที่แล้ว

    What should I do if the wife is influenced by her parents and siblings.

  • @VictoriaFilmsgroup
    @VictoriaFilmsgroup 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    its the other way, out of her love i change.

    • @ajshazad6916
      @ajshazad6916 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would say i will change for the sake of Allah SWT

  • @rosnehassan7962
    @rosnehassan7962 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A believer expects their Lord

  • @afiyahashmi9404
    @afiyahashmi9404 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if the wife smiles and welcomes her husband warmly, and their night doesn't go smooth? I mean husband just smiled back and that's enough, He didn't go smooth after that from his side first..?

  • @Sam-mv2vf
    @Sam-mv2vf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wat if ur husband is a compulsive liar u can’t believe a word he speaks. Wish he would leave

  • @ilys4819
    @ilys4819 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do some men see their wife as beneath them or dumb? What’s up with that? Those men will never have a happy marriage.

  • @mishalbinmohammedyazir8608
    @mishalbinmohammedyazir8608 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi

  • @ayeshataifoor4908
    @ayeshataifoor4908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤❤

  • @freshflower8327
    @freshflower8327 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢

  • @mikydadevil
    @mikydadevil 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Alhumdulillah I'm a man 😂