Break Your Mental Resistance With The 2 Minute Rule (animated)

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  • Why is it so hard to follow up on our new habits?
    One of the reasons is that the habit we're trying to form can seem a little overwhelming, so we have this mental resistance.
    In the beginning, when we're super motivated it's much easier to do something. For example; going to the gym for 1 hour doesn't seem that hard, because the initial motivation is a powerful driving force.
    But when we're motivated it's also easy to impose some super high expectations on ourselves.
    We think: "Ok, so I went to the gym for 1 hour the first few days. From now on I'll to go to the gym for 1 full hour every single day."
    But once that initial motivation fades away after a few days, there is now nothing that's driving us forward, and we haven't really formed a habit yet.
    That's why when we're unmotivated, we'll probably just skip gym altogether, as dedicating a whole hour to it seems daunting.
    So instead of relying on motivation to push us forward, we should focus on making our new habit, an actual habit.
    Let me explain what I mean, by introducing you to the 2 minute rule.
    Want to learn more about The 2 Minute Rule and habits in general?
    Then check out James Clear's book, "Atomic Habits". It's where I found out about The 2 Minute Rule.
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  • @Aspenrayne
    @Aspenrayne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11155

    I played Warcraft for two minutes and ended up sitting at my computer for 5 years. I vouch for the two minute rule.

  • @sariahsue
    @sariahsue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2852

    "It's far better to do less than you hoped for than to do nothing at all." Words to live by!

    • @dionysus3774
      @dionysus3774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nah, I'd rather not do what I'm supposed to. 😃

    • @MrBizteck
      @MrBizteck 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aye I stress a lot about wasting my day. I run around like crazy get a load done but dont feel like enough.

    • @akshooter7746
      @akshooter7746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yeah, thing is, “did you achieve something?”, rather than “did achieve what you wanted?”

    • @ddittmar940
      @ddittmar940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      "Go big or go home". Not a good motto lol

    • @akshooter7746
      @akshooter7746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      D Dittmar of course it’s a bad moto, it makes you hate what you want to learn or do, and as a freerunner myself, this is the Phrase that stops you from practicing parkour after 2 sessions if you’re practicing with a team. And exactly after 1 try if you’re practicing alone.

  • @jaisonjeyacumar5445
    @jaisonjeyacumar5445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +766

    It’s unsettling how the algorithm put this video in my feed at the point when I really needed to hear this!

    • @mamapegg
      @mamapegg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I met a fantastic musician (from the band Marbin when they were in town). I got to ask him how he keeps his motivation..he told me to play guitar for 2 minutes a day. You'll always play more than 2 minutes.

    • @PARANORMALPROOF
      @PARANORMALPROOF 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You ok mate?

    • @AkimboCorndogs
      @AkimboCorndogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here... I think it’s because I’ve been searching for self help in overcoming procrastination and stuff lately, and these vids are popular for that.

    • @iunderstanphotography2780
      @iunderstanphotography2780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AkimboCorndogs you and me both. The apocalypse has robbed me of a lot of motivation and focus

    • @amg2169
      @amg2169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      law of attraction

  • @demdee4716
    @demdee4716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +666

    Whenever I feel like cleaning the whole house I end up doing nothing but when I just clean one part of one room I end up cleaning the whole house

    • @familylifetoo9541
      @familylifetoo9541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      true

    • @beatricep8282
      @beatricep8282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!!

    • @justnothing7080
      @justnothing7080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Keep doing it and soon you will love cleaning, maybe then you can switch your job to dedicate your full time for cleaning everything. At last if lucky, you may set some world record about cleaning stuffs 😄, become the greatest cleaner of all time.

    • @peterlengyel1916
      @peterlengyel1916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Come to my house for two minutes please 😂

    • @elizabethgirinde8956
      @elizabethgirinde8956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sooo me 😅

  • @catkeys6911
    @catkeys6911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6046

    Ever notice how, the longer you procrastinate, the bigger a deal it seems to do the thing you're putting off doing? Then, when you finally do it and get it over with, it was no big deal at all, and then you feel a little silly for having built up all that dread.

    • @adamknight5089
      @adamknight5089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      Like washing the dishes. It seems like the longer i leave it the steeper the mountain to climb! I end up doing it and it's like, omg is that it? Lol all that dread for a 15 minute job

    • @Charlie-xp9lq
      @Charlie-xp9lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@adamknight5089 I was exactly the same , I bought one of those scourers on a handle you fill with dishwashing liquid . It's so simple I can clean the dishes while the kettle is boiling for a coffee. No need to fill the sink etc etc. Now never a depressing pile of dishes

    • @adamknight5089
      @adamknight5089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Charlie-xp9lq Hey that's a good idea, thanks

    • @williamoneswhannell1060
      @williamoneswhannell1060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@adamknight5089 I hated doing the dishes so I did the only sane thing to do I joined the 21st century and bought a dishwasher

    • @adamknight5089
      @adamknight5089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@williamoneswhannell1060 I've recently learned to use one at work, it is great to have but I think my kitchen is just too small to fit one in.

  • @HaVoCX64
    @HaVoCX64 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2784

    I procrastinate for 2 months then finish the job in 1 hr
    Feelsbad

    • @dooovde
      @dooovde 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yesss...taxes

    • @MaryShelleysNib
      @MaryShelleysNib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Always!

    • @MaryShelleysNib
      @MaryShelleysNib 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/tlddeUri3GM/w-d-xo.html This will help with yr procrastination ...

    • @TheAwesonymous
      @TheAwesonymous 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dooovde ha! I just completed my tax return a few hours ago, after waiting 6 weeks.

    • @Charlie-xp9lq
      @Charlie-xp9lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      A supervisor told me years ago , a job started is a job half finished , so true . That was 43 years ago . I'm still waiting to learn to get started .

  • @mattcardoso1503
    @mattcardoso1503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +743

    This one is a great tip. As I once heard, "anything good that is poorly done is better than not done". I never forgot that.

    • @mattcardoso1503
      @mattcardoso1503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @VerisIngenni That's the spirit! 👊

    • @skadi4094
      @skadi4094 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah that’s a good one. It’s also useful when doing school requirements when i feel unmotivated to do so.

    • @dliedke
      @dliedke ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If it is not to do it properly, just don't do it

    • @studyaccount9822
      @studyaccount9822 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you great quote👍😁❤️. I'm bad at handwriting but good at writing,

    • @lamalenalalala
      @lamalenalalala ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ma grand-mère disait: "ce qui mérite d'être fait mérite d'être bien fait" ce qui fait que je procrastine beaucoup 😂

  • @gaz9411
    @gaz9411 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I think like this when I try to get back into going the gym "you don't have to do as much as you were before, just get through the door and see what you do and it's better than not going at all"

    • @alejandroperez5368
      @alejandroperez5368 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      When you're already going, you'll say "Ok, I don't have to push as hard as usual". But once you're there, you might push even harder xD

    • @eaaeeeea
      @eaaeeeea ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah nowadays I'm very careful of not doing anything related to the gym that might start a resentment towards the activity. So I allow myself to stop at 45mins as opposed to the usual 1hr15min if I feel like it. It's much easier to push myself when the habit is already there. The habit will break if I start to loathe the activity.

    • @tdeo2141
      @tdeo2141 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I didn’t even know I was already using the 2 min rule… there are times when I wake up quite unmotivated to train. So I just get into my gym clothes, I get my running shows on, and I just tell myself, I’ll just do the warm up.
      Usually the warm up is enough to get me going on the actual exercises.

  • @nicolalaaland
    @nicolalaaland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    “Do less than you know you are capable of doing” - the best advice I ever received for motivation

    • @veraahllof
      @veraahllof 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes !! 🌷🌷

    • @astrologyfit
      @astrologyfit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      what do you mean by that? I think the best advice along the same line reads as "Do more than what you are capable of doing".

    • @veraahllof
      @veraahllof 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@astrologyfit It means that you'll get motivated to start in the first place with "just 2 minutes". THEN it very often leads to you doing much more.

    • @julianapinho6720
      @julianapinho6720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@astrologyfit Thats Nice for read, but actually doesnt make any sense: if its more than you are capable you are not capable to do, so you Will not be able tô... or... if you can, its not "more than" its actually something you can do

    • @c_b5060
      @c_b5060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That advice matches exactly with this video. You know that you are capable of doing something MORE than 2 minutes. So, doing something for only 2 minutes is "LESS than you are capable of doing". And then, after doing something for 2 minutes, see what develops.

  • @theangusschmaloer
    @theangusschmaloer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1597

    This vid explains why "Just one beer" always lead to a drunk AF night XD

    • @sunitafisher4758
      @sunitafisher4758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      theangusschmaloer 🌸 lol 😂

    • @michaelstaschke9022
      @michaelstaschke9022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Me at 2am: "Just one more youtube video then I'll go to sleep". Then I continue until I fall asleep at 5am watching youtube videos with autoplay on

    • @chrisbroussard4951
      @chrisbroussard4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It doesn't do that in the slightest.

    • @christopherbarber288
      @christopherbarber288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@chrisbroussard4951 ok boomer.

    • @chrisbroussard4951
      @chrisbroussard4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christopherbarber288 Don't break that mind of yours sharing your brilliant insight.

  • @celestialcressy
    @celestialcressy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    reminds me of this quote from a podcast i listen to : "inaction creates more inaction, action creates more action"

  • @Ilchino1
    @Ilchino1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    "Why put it off to tomorrow, when you can easily put it off untill next week"
    - Dalai Lama, 1994 / colorised

    • @sachinumax9440
      @sachinumax9440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Colorised?? Im dead.

    • @breadgod8579
      @breadgod8579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nah man, always next year

    • @nvk4272
      @nvk4272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@breadgod8579 you got it all wrong mate, it was always next century.

    • @Potato-go4yf
      @Potato-go4yf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmao colorised😂😂😂

    • @nvk4272
      @nvk4272 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noname_6423 you just opened my eyes, thanks man.

  • @krokodilpil8335
    @krokodilpil8335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1200

    "80% of success in life is showing up" - Woody Allen.

    • @mohammedavdul5247
      @mohammedavdul5247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That means so many bad things and is the literally so bad, it means that u have to do something like showing up to obtain ur goals but its wrong

    • @starstencahl8985
      @starstencahl8985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      sedais mah “showing up” means being there. What is bad about that? How are you going to achieve anything at all without even being present to the things/places you want to do something at?

    • @T1Oracle
      @T1Oracle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      The child molester Woody Allen? 🤮

    • @RedGallardo
      @RedGallardo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brilliant! XD

    • @enterthethunder2345
      @enterthethunder2345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The great Kid Eater!

  • @katuni08
    @katuni08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    I’ve been fulfilling a lifelong dream of learning another language by practicing for five minutes a day. I’m on an almost 200-day streak!

    • @5nesta
      @5nesta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But how well can you speak that language?

    • @janikarkkainen3904
      @janikarkkainen3904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@5nesta Better than if not practicing for a 1000 minutes.

    • @katuni08
      @katuni08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @5nesta Not very well yet, but, as Jani said, better than if I wasn’t practicing. I’m learning Japanese, so I can kind of sound out basic words, and am able to understand bits and pieces in anime without subtitles. The real fun will come when I’ve gained enough confidence to start practicing with someone who is actually from Japan.

    • @timothymacdonald5694
      @timothymacdonald5694 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I

    • @timothymacdonald5694
      @timothymacdonald5694 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am in love with my fiance. Now all I gotta do is learn my desired French but, I GOTTA take this advice then,voila!

  • @dorian7215
    @dorian7215 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I did this for the gym. I didn’t realize it was the two minute rule. I decided because my body does so much for me unconditionally, than I can devote two minutes to it. It worked!

  • @DanDascalescu-dandv
    @DanDascalescu-dandv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    20-second summary: to start a habit, make it as simple as possible, and start that. For example, read one page every day, and eventually you'll form a reading habit. Or play the piano for 2 minutes, and you'll find it much easier to continue practicing after that. "2 minutes" tricks your brain into thinking the task is easy.

    • @angadsingh6478
      @angadsingh6478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      U saved my 9 minutes😀

    • @alamamagator5488
      @alamamagator5488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too

    • @gypsypath1
      @gypsypath1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you!

    • @coolasslarry7644
      @coolasslarry7644 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how long should you continue to do that 2 minute rule for??

    • @TTMS-Khaz-kun
      @TTMS-Khaz-kun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@coolasslarry7644 Probably however long it takes for you to naturally increase that timer and when that becomes a habit. Alternatively you use it everytime you don't feel like doing long(er) sessions, but if you just do 2 minutes, you'll have done at least that as opposed to not doing it at all.

  • @chinookvalley
    @chinookvalley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +844

    It does work. I am a slug, BUT this DOES help to motivate me. 2 minutes. Just 2 minutes. I am starting to get things done. Doing those 2 minutes is creating a habit. I have Muscular Dystrophy and a brain injury that keeps me frozen at times. If I am too tired then I stop after 2 minutes. But I can force myself out of bed for *2 minutes*. This really is helping me to retrain my brain and body. Thanks so much!

    • @Mary-km7rr
      @Mary-km7rr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Wow your strength is really inspiring

    • @h.amz.a2262
      @h.amz.a2262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Well brother you are THE HERO of this video and YOUR OWN HERO. For what you said you are trully a HERO wish you recover fully

    • @gveyved4685
      @gveyved4685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Keep going!!!!!

    • @tairastuart
      @tairastuart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Great job!

    • @vigneshm.s.4054
      @vigneshm.s.4054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      keep the good work

  • @stephenm3874
    @stephenm3874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Son of a gun, this is how I lost over fifty pounds. I started going to the gym after six months of meaning to go by just committing to putting on my clothes and showing up. Doing that and studying basic nutrition in eight months I went from 286 to 225! Plus I gained ten pounds of muscle.
    Thanks for a great presentation and I plan to putting it into action on some new goals.

    • @odegasheru9991
      @odegasheru9991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I like your post. Thanks for reminding me that it is achievable, if only I would move my... And just go do it instead of thinking over it again and again and don't move at all by the end of the day. Judt a walk, everyday In my neibourhood, I could do that! Anyway, great to see you are working towards a wellbeing.

    • @JBry_
      @JBry_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@odegasheru9991 I hope you have kept this mindset ;)

    • @odegasheru9991
      @odegasheru9991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JBry_ I wish I did! But thanks for reminding me 😉. A little more confidence in myself that I can do it would be helpful but I 'm working towards it. Anyway, thanks for the reply. Be good. Cheers!

    • @J_Shingy53
      @J_Shingy53 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great job man. Keep up the good work

    • @skylerashe
      @skylerashe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I quit vaping a few days ago and I guess its a pretty similar idea. I mean I can't vape if all my stuff for it is gone and if I think in short term its just another 10min without vaping. I can do 10min without a vape but when you think farther than that it seems unattainable for long time addictions. I'm gonna try and route that nervous energy of craving dopamine towards music because I love it really it just seems daunting but so did quitting vaping.

  • @tombrooks8665
    @tombrooks8665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I didn't know this concept when I started exercising in 2017. I started on the 8th week by doing 8 push ups, 8 sit ups, 8 squats everyday. Only 8. Not that hard and doesn't take that long. On the 9th week, 9 push ups, p sit ups, 9 squats. Not that hard and doesn't take that long. On the 10th week I started doing 10 each, 11th week doing 11, and so on. By week 35 I broke it down to 2 sets of 20 each, then 15 each. Week 36 I did 20 each then 16 each, and so on...
    By December that year I'd decided I'd stick with 2 sets of 25 each and add more exercises than just those 3. Fast forward to today I'm doing a full 20 minute abs / core routine plus curls, squats and lunges. Which I wouldn't have been able to do at the beginning of 2017. All because I started small and developed the habit. I also had to train my body to be in the shape to do all that, but I think it was about 90% habit development.

    • @adabelinda
      @adabelinda 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So basically you did the "Easy Strength Protocol" before it was a protocol!💡👊🏾

  • @Eduardude
    @Eduardude ปีที่แล้ว +77

    There is a writer in Japan who I think proposed a 1 minute rule -- same basic idea. It's easy to get ourselves to do 1 minute, but having done it, we often don't want to stop, and end up doing more, sometimes a lot more.

    • @TheMisterGriswold
      @TheMisterGriswold ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It doesn't even have to be one minute. Just start what you need to do. You will be amazed.

    • @richdibo
      @richdibo ปีที่แล้ว

      The Japanese are more disciplined since they require only one minute, while Americans need two.

  • @BonesofStarlight
    @BonesofStarlight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I really like that he made sure to mention that sometimes, he doesn't keep going after those two minutes are up. To show that it's ok to stop, as long as you do it in the first place.

    • @lucasguimaraesleite4221
      @lucasguimaraesleite4221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes, you should try to be better, but it's ok not to be perfect. A lot of people like to pretend to be that

  • @testcardII
    @testcardII 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    This method is essential! I don’t wait for motivation anymore, I start it anyway. Then the motivation very often happens afterwards :)

    • @pocketfulofpositivity3574
      @pocketfulofpositivity3574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesssss

    • @pranavpendse8611
      @pranavpendse8611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How motivation comes?? What u do for it. Bcoz in my case I never feel motivated

    • @redranger4483
      @redranger4483 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pranavpendse8611 first, if you want to be motivated, you must action, after you act, the rewards will come and after all, you will become more motivated

  • @Eduardude
    @Eduardude ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This is excellent advice. I did the exact same thing, but I called it the 5 minute rule. The idea was I had to do a minimum of 5 minutes a day, but I could do longer if I felt like it. It was easy to get started since it only had to be 5 minutes, but once I started, I often didn't want to stop after 5 minutes. Maybe turning this into a 2-minute rule is even better. I used the 5-minute rule to learn to keep my living space clean, neat, and beautiful. Every day I'd start cleaning for 5 minutes, but having got going, I tended to go on for more than 5 minutes. Not only that, but spending a few minutes a day started to make me feel kind of invested in creating a clean and beautiful space around me, and so I would spontaneously tend to neaten up even without the 5-minute rule. But I have a new cleaning rule: suppose your space is pretty messy. You don't have to clean it up all at once. Instead, do two things: 1) whenever you make a new mess or disorder or dirt, immediately clean up the new mess -- if you clean as you go, cleaning will often only take a couple of minutes; then, 2) spend at least 10 seconds cleaning part of some pre-existing mess, or beautifying things. This method will stop your space getting messier, and steadily make it ever cleaner and more beautiful, without much effort.

    • @random_kid_on_youtube
      @random_kid_on_youtube ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing this. I'll try to clean my space with this 5 min rule ❤️

    • @johnlakey4983
      @johnlakey4983 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks

  • @tsamichuzyme2658
    @tsamichuzyme2658 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    The key to form a habit is consistency so starting with 2 minutes is a good strategy to make it more manageable until we get the hang of it.

    • @Eduardude
      @Eduardude ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Even better, after the two minutes is up, we often don't feel like stopping yet, so we end up doing more!

  • @redcatofdeath
    @redcatofdeath 4 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    This is great advice. However, one weird, unfortunate phenomenon I've noticed in myself is that when I finally do get started on something - and discover it isn't actually that difficult - then I'll become overconfident and feel as if I've conquered the problem forever. Then a few days later I'm back to square one again since I let up my guard and allowed bad habits and procrastination to reassert themselves.

    • @farfromirrational948
      @farfromirrational948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Its good to notice things like this, and also important not to identify yourself with what you've noticed.
      "I have had a pattern of doing x" instead of using definitive language about what you DO
      And when you do choose to use definitive language, aim to use it towards positive reinforcement
      Hope this helps :)
      Im shareing as much for me as for you

    • @irondasgr
      @irondasgr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Is it that bad? Let it happen. All it takes is to remember again the 2 minute rule just to ensure a restart.

    • @acpfeiffer6057
      @acpfeiffer6057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I've had this in the past too. What helped me was to limit how much I could increase my expectations in a given time frame. Ex. I didn't let myself add more than 5 minutes to my daily running each week, because I knew that if I overdid it I would get sore, not run the next day and lose momentum (I'm the kind of person that likes to have roughly the same schedule every day).

    • @dakaodo
      @dakaodo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      This comment and its replies are really great. The overconfidence is kind of related to the Hyperbole and a Half blog post about how you feel like adulting is a trophy, and once you've accomplished your adult tasks (going to the bank, cleaning the house, cooking), you want to put it up on a mantlepiece and not ever have to do it again.
      Far from Irrational's reply has been really relevant to me. The positive reinforcement via language in your own head is really helpful. I think reminding and explicitly saying in your head, "I did THIS today. I AM DOING this right now," forms that positive relationship with your activities and makes you aware of the connection between a dopamine release with the identification of the task that causes it. I JUST started figuring this out for some work habits I have sorely been lacking in for what feels like several years now. I knew what needed to be done. It worked well when I did it. I just DIDN'T DO IT regularly for some reason.
      As the video and irondasgr say, just be sure to apply the 2-minute rule again, next time. Could be in another hour, another day, whenever. Just be sure to do it again, without guilting yourself over the X number of times you didn't do it.
      It's like the video says, or like recycling -- it's better to do it once, than not at all. It's OK to achieve less than you wanted -- b/c that's more than zero.
      In parkour training, we took this to an extreme. In many training sessions, we wouldn't focus at all on fixed number targets or goals. We would just do 1 push-up (like a micro, 1-rep version of the 2-minute rule). Then another one. And another one. And decide to stop when our arms were tired, but we'd still do 1 more just in case. Switch to a leg activity, repeat. Switch back to push-ups. Keep going until both arms and legs were tired, then do 1 more set of each anyway. This way, we never disappointed ourselves by falling short of some arbitrary goal that turned out to be too hard for us, yet we never stopped exactly within our comfort zone.

    • @rtd4520
      @rtd4520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same happens with me

  • @savansajeev2819
    @savansajeev2819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    my greatest enemy is my own perfectionism....and it makes me only plan stuff and not executing it
    😭😭😭😭😭

    • @erikaquatsch2190
      @erikaquatsch2190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Me too. We have such high standards and expectations for ourselves and we fear failure 😳

    • @italywantstoexiteu651
      @italywantstoexiteu651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      These exercises can fuck you even more if done incorrectly. I've never had any back problems in my life. They started when I tried to learn how to execute a plank. Since then my back is never in peace again. In conlusion, take your time and learn execution a bit at a time. Wait a day, and if no pain comes, you can do it again.

    • @Ellie-Belly
      @Ellie-Belly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Some people call this ‘paralysis by analysis’. I used to be like this too, but have realised that although planning is important, DOING is far more important. Once you get started it’s easy to keep going. Chunk big projects down into manageable parts. Start on the easy stuff. Then somehow the hard stuff becomes less hard.q

    • @ajmalbinnizam
      @ajmalbinnizam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you are not alone

    • @cristianojesussilva4384
      @cristianojesussilva4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perfeccionismo é um erro abandone isso!

  • @kimb1943
    @kimb1943 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Im a few months out of a 20 year depression and i have a hard time starting things like exercise or indeed read a book. Tru out your vid i saw my mistake my goals are waayy to high to start with.
    Thank you for explaining it, my husband and my mom both tried to help by saying the same thing but to to no avail. I think i get it now of the 2 min rule, Hell I can do that, watch out world here I come!!!

    • @bigb333
      @bigb333 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm trying to claw myself out of mine, similar amount of time. Hope this technique is working for you and you're still on the up!

    • @Behappy62
      @Behappy62 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go for it❤

    • @luukipuuk3537
      @luukipuuk3537 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A twenty year depression sounds rough dude. Best of luck with everything you want to succeed in ❤️

    • @sheyf7562
      @sheyf7562 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's the same story as mine. Thanks for the motivation. 😍

    • @SilverlineNL
      @SilverlineNL ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Greetings from another Kim B 😃 I’m fighting my way out of a two year depression. I send you loads of positive vibes and hope that you keep going strong. Remember that a step backwards does not mean that you are back to zero. Big hug from Amsterdam! 🤗

  • @dom.str.185
    @dom.str.185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Reminds me of a saying I heard the first time some years ago:
    "Never take the fact that you can't do much as an excuse for doing nothing at all."
    Only, here you have to replace "can't" with "do not want to".

  • @MichaelCavano
    @MichaelCavano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Almost 30 years ago I started playing guitar and promised myself I'd play for at least 10 minutes a day (which was like 2 minutes in today's ADD time). I played guitar significantly more than 10 minutes a day most days, and that skill set became the foundation of pretty much my entire leisure and professional life since.
    But I long ago stopped playing guitar daily, and also forgot about how powerful that simple commitment was for me.
    This video is a brilliant reminder of one of the most fruitful and rewarding techniques in self-discipline I've ever known. Thank you so much for making this!

    • @kimbfwhite
      @kimbfwhite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Watched one of your videos from 8 years ago. Good vibes! :)

  • @zipiwolsner4985
    @zipiwolsner4985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    The amount of hours I spent procrastinating, could have built a whole new career for me...I read once that one effective way to overcome this mental resistance is by imagining yourself already doing this thing you wish doing.

    • @pulsariti3348
      @pulsariti3348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      And I heard about the opposite.
      'Do not imagine yourself like that'
      Because your brain becomes satisfied with that version of you, even though it's not real yet and then it doesn't have that willing to change. As you can expect, that situatuon leads to having less motivation.
      Indeed, it's important to remind yourself what are you going for.
      When you feel like giving up or thinking that you can't do anything more, that's when you should ask yourself 'what am I doing it for' 'why am I here'
      The answer is 'because I want [...]'
      And that's what keeps you motivated.
      But only imagining yourself achieving your biggest goals is not going to help you stay determinated.
      🌼 🌼 🌼
      I'm not saying that this theory is 100% true. I only can say that it works. Maybe not for everybody.
      I think what I said might be helpful, because one day it helped me.

    • @pulsariti3348
      @pulsariti3348 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hani Charif Hi! Thats awesome, goodluck with your goals and have a pretty day ♡

  • @Renee11123
    @Renee11123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    For someone who starts many projects and jump around between tasks, the 2 minute rule helps me to get started and eventually finish at my own pace. Thank you for the great advice!

    • @mahadib
      @mahadib ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MeeToo!

  • @Sarahr98998
    @Sarahr98998 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is super helpful. I'm a serial procrastinator, and once I get myself to just START the thing, I'm always like, why have I been putting that off for two months? It wasn't that hard and didn't take that long. But in my mind, I just couldn't make myself do it. So frustrating.

  • @bruceobrien6604
    @bruceobrien6604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    Nice , reminds me of a saying on a friends wall “ life is hard , yard by yard; but inch by inch , it’s a cinch !!!

    • @khyati7733
      @khyati7733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This is nice! ill remember this

    • @B.Mega.D
      @B.Mega.D 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I like it. It's also a bit like 'slow and steady, wins the race' ...I should write both on my wall. Tnx

    • @shouvikkar9417
      @shouvikkar9417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nice one, heard it first time but I like it ...

    • @samyeezy3068
      @samyeezy3068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro, what’s a cinch?

  • @mindhive625
    @mindhive625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I love this. Lower the threshold of activation, and you're brain takes over and you accomplish your goal.

    • @MrFereshteyeh
      @MrFereshteyeh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm not a brain, I have a brain. It's "your" the word you're looking for.

    • @rafox66
      @rafox66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MrFereshteyeh But you are a brain, you control your body with your brain. You think with your brain, "you" wouldn't be a thing without the brain.

  • @LxE9799
    @LxE9799 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wow. That sentence in the middle of the video, "it's more than nothing", just made me realize how much perfectionism rules and dictates my life.
    I was always aware of it to some degree, but that single sentence, and the fact it sounded so foreign yet so logical, made me take a few minutes now and look back at my life. Recalling all the things I repeatedly said I'll do later, the fear and anxiety from change, rejection, failure and doing mistakes, the self minimizing behaviours because you don't want to "hurt others", the constant look for validation, the inability to compromise and let go of control...I suddenly see how much this is the biggest truth I can say about myself. It's who I am from childhood until today, and while it is a defense mechanism that helped me a lot with some stuff, it also gets me constantly stuck in place, unable to do something if it doesn't meet my unrealistic expectations, and always feeling disappointed, neglected and like something is missing when said expectations aren't actually met.
    Thank you for this wonderful video. I'll definitely check this rule out. And talk with my therapist about how to stop being so complacent and black-or-white and start to take more risks and be adventures. Boy this ain't gonna be easy lol

    • @shawndj1369
      @shawndj1369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with me before.However,what I realized is you dont have to compromise on the quality of yr work.More often than not,being a perfectionist just makes u procastinate until u find a time u feel is suitable or until u feel u are ready to handle that particular task.What I learned is that if I just start that particular task with some minor pre planning,I often get a-ha moments along the way and end up doing the task well in the end.Similar as u,I have regrets due to delaying many tasks in the past due to waiting for the right moment to do it.Glad to say things are different now and I always venture right away into anything I want to do and sometimes learn as I go..Something that helped me is a new sense of drive and I discovered that ever since I started praying often.Hope u find your own method.All the best

    • @LxE9799
      @LxE9799 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shawndj1369 I really sympathize with that, trying to implement it slowly. All the best to you top buddy

  • @brunos.6852
    @brunos.6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    This video can be simplified this way: just start.

    • @tidester3655
      @tidester3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's not very insightful

    • @anarchowombat5309
      @anarchowombat5309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'd prefer "Just start, it is easy."

    • @shivanshusingh7615
      @shivanshusingh7615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Eh no, that's too dull. "JUST DO IT!!" - Shia Lebouf

    • @MichaelTiopan
      @MichaelTiopan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It means You're not watching the video, watch dunning kruger effect video first mate.

    • @SnoopiProGamer2
      @SnoopiProGamer2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not rly, this video teaches a trick on how to get started, it doesnt simply prompt you to start..

  • @lollipop6482
    @lollipop6482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    One of my favorite quotes is "better done than perfect" and I think it's quite fitting for this video :D

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 5 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    *The key is to start by taking action. Take the first step, the next will come more easily. Great video*

  • @HappilyAnonymousGirl
    @HappilyAnonymousGirl ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When I started reading the Bible, it was really hard.
    When I first started, I remember not being able to read past a couple of sentences, because I found it hard to understand. I was also distracted by everything, including my thoughts.
    I kept having to reread the same words over and over again, before they finally clicked in my head.
    At first, I would read a few sentences a day, and it would make me feel really tired to try reading a whole chapter.
    Now, I read a whole chapter with no problem and could read more if I wanted, as well.
    Without knowing it, I was using this rule to get myself started, which is pretty cool.
    I’m gunna use this in more areas of my life, now. Thanks for the video and God bless! ❤😊

    • @ascgazz7347
      @ascgazz7347 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just get the audiobook 😂

    • @TarzanHedgepeth
      @TarzanHedgepeth ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you, Brittany. Good job.

  • @saralsinghmanhas9732
    @saralsinghmanhas9732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    lesson learnt:
    to identify 'better than yesterday' in public , find a person with only one flossed tooth
    😂

    • @KshitijKale
      @KshitijKale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But you can still floss different tooth each day

    • @saralsinghmanhas9732
      @saralsinghmanhas9732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KshitijKale good point

    • @AdeshBenipal
      @AdeshBenipal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What are you people really discussing well?

  • @ichodernicht8131
    @ichodernicht8131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This works. 2,5 years ago, I moved to another city to study (I was only there during lectures). My new flat was crazy cheap, but had no shower. So in order to shower and be clean, I had to go to the nearby gym. So I went there every day. Sometimes, I would do like 30 pushups and go home. But sometimes I would run 12 kilometers and bench like crazy. At the end of the semester, I always used to be crazy athletic.
    I just realized what I did there and that I followed that rule without knowing it. Nice.

  • @InvestBetter.
    @InvestBetter. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    Terry Crews used to this to get back in shape, after his NFL career was over
    He was overweight and wanted to get fit again, so he just drove to the gym one day, and then left
    The next day he went inside, then left. The next day he grabbed a weight and curled it, and left. And so on.
    22 years later, he has been to the gym every day since, and has the body to prove it.

    • @toastytheloafdog
      @toastytheloafdog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Can I get a link for this story? I've tried a number of different Google searches but couldn't find it anywhere, and it's something I'd like to go read.

    • @InvestBetter.
      @InvestBetter. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@toastytheloafdog Not a read, but he went over this in his interview with CT Fletcher

    • @toastytheloafdog
      @toastytheloafdog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@InvestBetter. Awesome, I'll go check it out, thanks!
      Edit: That was a banger interview. I already loved Terry, but my respect level is through the roof after listening to those stories. Thanks for the recommendation.

    • @mc9335
      @mc9335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Terry loves his 2mn rule

    • @s.l.s.l.1405
      @s.l.s.l.1405 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Terry crews is a hottie

  • @degrav2046
    @degrav2046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    i haven't even got the chance to put this to practice, but i'm already sure this changed my life. truly.

  • @Afilliatezero
    @Afilliatezero ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This makes sense. If I have a big project, I only work on the part that is visually most effective. That keeps me going through the entire job without stopping.

  • @Randy2747
    @Randy2747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I have always told my coworkers, friends, and family to always set your goals low! If you set them to high you feel like you failed. But setting them low you always feel like a winner 😁

    • @douglasstrother6584
      @douglasstrother6584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Life is a definite integral.

    • @jackpoppy29
      @jackpoppy29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's amazing advise, so easy to do and ill feal confident about my self! Thankyou

    • @amritnalam9994
      @amritnalam9994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes right. But atleast one big goal is important in life

  • @KalonOrdona2
    @KalonOrdona2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    "Once begun is half done."

  • @Jone952
    @Jone952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1454

    We often use this trick on ourselves to do something we know we shouldn't do, so I guess why not use it to do something we know we should do?

    • @gadgetronia7544
      @gadgetronia7544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Or, monetize those things we shouldn't do.

    • @kennyslg8914
      @kennyslg8914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      This exactly! Just like one hit of weed turns into a smoke session, I find that whenever I decide to clean a small part of the house, I end up cleaning for hours.

    • @snowmanwilly
      @snowmanwilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Just one spoon of ice cream, nek minnit, tub gone lol

    • @leesullivan9676
      @leesullivan9676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank You For that1

    • @squidwardssoul631
      @squidwardssoul631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You really have a point though 🤔
      Quite thoughfull

  • @glitzhull
    @glitzhull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    I finished this video in 5 days, 2 minutes per day

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow, you stretched that last minute out to two?

    • @MrNinjaMan
      @MrNinjaMan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@JaysonT1 half speed

    • @Leon.Stanic
      @Leon.Stanic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      But you still watched it.

    • @sourabhtripathi0986
      @sourabhtripathi0986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MrNinjaMan then lost 6 seconds

  • @Zar2244
    @Zar2244 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When I had fatigue, I got my exercise mat out and just lay down on it. Then I stretched. Then I actually felt like doing some pilates.

  • @caseyburt9569
    @caseyburt9569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step - Lao Tzu

  • @korab.23
    @korab.23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." I love this modern take on it!

    • @appletree8441
      @appletree8441 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But it's raining outside

    • @Someone-nr5dg
      @Someone-nr5dg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@appletree8441 I like rain. Rain is nice...

  • @danidejaneiro8378
    @danidejaneiro8378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At the start of the pandemic, I decided to do just ten sit ups a day. Now I have a six pack and can do sit ups for several songs.

  • @siddharthgager5883
    @siddharthgager5883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This changed my life now, nothing is hard for me to carry on
    I procrastinate doing maths, it was my biggest problem to assume things hard and procrastinate but when i stated doing this technique i started improving in those things and now my procrastination is gone thank you so much for this video its worth watching 🙏♥

    • @arrabalimaz622
      @arrabalimaz622 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you doing elementary maths 😂😂😂

  • @nevbarnes1034
    @nevbarnes1034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Novelist Roger Zelazny's writing regime was to sit down 3 times a day and write 2 sentences. He published over 50 books.

  • @Le_monarch13
    @Le_monarch13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +938

    Newton's law: an object that starts in motion, stays in motion

    • @afthab1584
      @afthab1584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      But we need to provide an external force to overcome the friction and to keep the body in motion

    • @raerae6422
      @raerae6422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hmm. Newton’s law never factored in anti-motion aka a disobedient, pig-headed internal voice.

    • @TheMiccamuk
      @TheMiccamuk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      only in a vacuum

    • @Le_monarch13
      @Le_monarch13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Eh wrong, no where does Newtons law say in a vacuum. An object. “An object at rest stays at rest and an object in motion stays in motion with the same speed and in the same direction unless acted upon by an unbalanced force.”

    • @Le_monarch13
      @Le_monarch13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Acted upon by an external force**

  • @goodlife4484
    @goodlife4484 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Its actually works!
    This video been on my playlist long time so i decided to just start to watch
    and after 2 min it became more and more interesting so i watched this until the end 🙂

  • @patriksl6599
    @patriksl6599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I started off exercising an advanced full body exercise, I did it for two-three days but then I had exactly the same thing as “Mike”. I got advice to do a simple exercise like 30 push-ups, 30 sit-ups and 30 squats daily. I’ve been doing this about a week now and it has became a sort of morning-habit. Really quick and easy exercise for anyone starting out.
    +If I don’t do the exercise one day I add 50% of yesterday’s workout for the day when I do remember to workout.

    • @patriksl6599
      @patriksl6599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now I’m already doing 100 push-ups, 100 situps, and 100 lunges/squats. I’m seeing nice results already after a month every day this.

  • @cassif19
    @cassif19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I saw this 3 weeks ago and since then, I've been making some physical exercises daily. They're for my back problems, and I should have been making them regularly for years. Finally something made me stick to a program

  • @dalliboyrt9927
    @dalliboyrt9927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This channel is gold.

  • @minhtu5059
    @minhtu5059 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for sharing! I've been watching one of your videos per day, and I truly feel better than yesterday everyday.

  • @mohamedsayed4526
    @mohamedsayed4526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have no idea how much I needed that, Thank you so much ♥️♥️.

  • @arbiterelegantiarum
    @arbiterelegantiarum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've been putting it in practice since 40 days. Find it immensely powerful. Thanks for sharing!

  • @kevindenning7361
    @kevindenning7361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    I've been doing this my whole life.
    It's called a Comercial break on the tv

    • @main2333
      @main2333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I do the same. When doing dishes... but For bigger jobs. Five min each. Pots/pans, cups, utensils, dishes, wipe down counter. Done! Less standing time!

    • @Charlie-xp9lq
      @Charlie-xp9lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Commercial breaks are getting longer and longer , I don't have that much stamina

    • @teacherdavid--eatplaylearn5013
      @teacherdavid--eatplaylearn5013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      VERY useful!😘
      Thank you!!😍
      Blessings from Taiwan!!! 😁

    • @vivekvijayakumar2362
      @vivekvijayakumar2362 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Aaron Z. Glad somebody is asking the real questions.. ;)

    • @vivekvijayakumar2362
      @vivekvijayakumar2362 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Aaron Z. Glad somebody is asking the real questions.. ;)

  • @mitrathod7109
    @mitrathod7109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This person is doing his best. I love it. The think when he explains and then give his own example is very nice. It's good idea. Everyone motivate but this person gives us alternative. Thanks buddy

  • @BobMuir100
    @BobMuir100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant thank you, a version of the old one step at a time, baby steps, every journey starts with the first step. Sometimes being reminded is as good as learning something new.
    Again, thanks

  • @unfinishedmonkeyrecords
    @unfinishedmonkeyrecords 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Your voice is perfect for sleep, consider making video's for people with insomnia.

    • @aimercab8630
      @aimercab8630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol!!

    • @DFringeMinority
      @DFringeMinority 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It feels like my bf whispering on my ears...

    • @yrrahyrrah
      @yrrahyrrah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can recommend chess videos with commentary, channels like ChessNetwork, John Bartholomew or Agadmator. :)

    • @suurjonidrumming
      @suurjonidrumming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      listen Alan Watts speaking = instant sleep.

  • @prebenlm
    @prebenlm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Me sees title: "Okay, I'll start following it immediately!"
    *Video lasts 9 minutes*
    "Oh, I guess it can wait a bit"

  • @bluebutterflywellness2273
    @bluebutterflywellness2273 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is very true. I always said I wanted to write a book, but would start and stop as I lost motivation. Then one day I said, I'm just going to write this book, even if it's bad, just to finally accomplish my goal. So I went to a coffee shop and said I'm just going to write one page. I finished my first novel in six months!

  • @NagendraKrishna
    @NagendraKrishna ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I observed that most of the comments in inspirational/motivational videos are of comedy in nature and only a few of them are really helpful and worthwhile seeing.

  • @gluon08
    @gluon08 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The sweetest calm voice and method, I am. a Psychiatrist, I would recommend this to everyone!

  • @turtlewalzer
    @turtlewalzer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I started my yoga practice with one sun salutation each day. Slowly, I'm gaining momentum, but it's way more than when I just thought I should do yoga and do nothing.

    • @serenakoleno9338
      @serenakoleno9338 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My second pregnancy I did 2 sun salutations daily. Son weighed 9lbs. 9 oz.! Lately I started doing 5-10 minutes of yoga in bed. Now I do yoga for 20-40 minutes on and off bed in am and just started doing bedtime yoga routine. Library had a Get Fit in Bed book. Even at age of 65 I am starting new habits. Go for it. Even just a few minutes stretching in bed in the morning makes a huge difference in sleep quality at night.

  • @inspired9239
    @inspired9239 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So true and very helpful. Thank you! I've also noticed, the more I "think" about "doing" something, the less likely I'll do it, eg. exercise. My best approach is to not put much thought into it beforehand. As soon as I think to do something, immediately just do it! Think less about how I "feel" about doing it, and by acting on it, before I know it, it's over and done with.

  • @makmoyin
    @makmoyin ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Always imagine the goals you will have achieved will keep you continuing.

  • @no1ofconsequence936
    @no1ofconsequence936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have the problem of being too overwhelmed at the idea of writing or editing my stories. It's very easy to start a new book, but it's harder to finish the first draft and even harder to just proofread. This sounds like good advice, better than some I've seen because instead of just pointing out the phenomenon and suggesting a vague course of action, it gives an easy guideline of how to break through. Thank you.

    • @kofola9145
      @kofola9145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The problem is. When people say: I am going to start a business. I am going to write a book. I am going to exercise. They do not mean it. They mean the money, the fame, the body, because they saw somebody already possessing those things, but fail to see the effort. In the few first days, they are motivated. They have the vision and carry on. But a week or two later, they look into the mirror and they can see the money, the fame, the body, it is not there. It does not work. So they give up.
      If you want to achieve anything, you have to reverse the process. Do not write a book. Write a page a day. And celebrate it. And a year later, voila, there is your book. And it took no effort. Your immediate, daily actions guided by your vision produce the desired result.
      I want a good body. In the past, I would get motivated by someone who has a good body. And give up a few weeks later, because I wanted the body, not the exercise. But now, I am not motivated. I merely do 55 push-ups a day.
      Have a vision, ask how can you turn it into reality. Then forget the vision and focus on the actions that will create the desired reality.
      Oh, and have some way to mark your progress. A piece of paper you review daily. You will not forget your goals and you will see your victories. And that is it. You will succeed sooner or later.

    • @solciariadna
      @solciariadna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      the thing with writing a book is that many people take it as "i got inspired and i only write when im inspired". This doesn't hold up in time.
      This exercise is super helpful. Whether you write one sentence, one page, 1000 words or a wholes chapter, the thing is to do it daily, which is exactly with this vid is about!

    • @kyrlics6515
      @kyrlics6515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My problem is getting it out there or even attempting to get it out there for people to read. *_when you're so deeply introverted your social skills are arbitrarily bad_*
      Seriously though.

    • @no1ofconsequence936
      @no1ofconsequence936 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kyrlics6515 , that's a problem for me too. I've heard that having an agent helps, but getting a good one is hard. I've heard that becoming known, establishing a fanbase, is something that will look good to publishers as they'll already know someone will buy the book, but that's not easy either. There must be an easier way to do this, but if there is, I don't know it.

    • @MaryShelleysNib
      @MaryShelleysNib 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love proof reading and checking spelling. Send it to me 😉🖍🖍🖍🖍🖍🖍🖍🖍

  • @krokodilpil8335
    @krokodilpil8335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Thats how I start by eating only one chip and end up eating the whole bag of chips.

    • @tldoesntlikebread
      @tldoesntlikebread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      and now you already killed everyone with the Death Note.

    • @biancavegter5488
      @biancavegter5488 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am eating doritos right now

    • @marmar3579
      @marmar3579 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@biancavegter5488 look up is msg addictive, look at the ingredients in the chips, if it says monosodium glutamate maybe thats why

    • @biancavegter5488
      @biancavegter5488 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marmar3579 I'm not addicted😂😂 I just thought it was a funny coincidence that I was eating chips while reading that comment, but I dont eat them often😉

    • @marmar3579
      @marmar3579 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@biancavegter5488 I didn't say you were addicted I said when. you open the bag and start eating them its sometimes hard to stop

  • @fadzayihare1615
    @fadzayihare1615 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really enjoy how you break down what seems like complex concepts into something so small and easy to do. These videos help a lot!!

  • @Gumpa2
    @Gumpa2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    Ahh, just two Minutes of YT.... and whooosh its a habit

    • @darkshadowsx5949
      @darkshadowsx5949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      its a slippery slope. im an expert in watching YT videos now.
      if only i got paid to watch the ads.

    • @thomaswalker4806
      @thomaswalker4806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The concept should not be applied to couch potato app's like YT..LOL

    • @JustHereToHear
      @JustHereToHear 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wish I could uninstall it from my phone 😩

    • @ma-cg1il
      @ma-cg1il 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep, 2 minutes can easily turn to two days

    • @holo6883
      @holo6883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JustHereToHear Use the browser version. It's so bad in comparison to the app that you'll be less reluctant to use it

  • @studiodude1
    @studiodude1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Gotta have a goal or “want” first. If you dont, there’s no point.

  • @seanjan929
    @seanjan929 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed this.. just in time. Thank you for giving me this golden motivation!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jaspm
    @jaspm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I started to meditate on just 3 minute, now I can meditate 1-2 hours daily 🧘‍♀️

  • @lauriemyers3
    @lauriemyers3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Omg...this is my “ah-ha” moment

  • @ItCantRainForever2
    @ItCantRainForever2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I dragging on writing my book and I struggle with perfectionism and procrastination. This sounds like a great idea. Thanks.

    • @nevbarnes1034
      @nevbarnes1034 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Use the John Braine method: knock out a version of the complete book as quickly as possible with no concern for quality or even any special coherence. (The rule is: "Don't get it RIGHT, get it WRITTEN".) Once this rough draft is done you will be in a far stronger position--you will be able to see which characters have worked, and which have not etc. You will also be greatly encouraged. The job then is more editing than writing. (I once wrote a good novel from conception, to rough draft, to proper draft and completion in just 53 days using this method.)

    • @ItCantRainForever2
      @ItCantRainForever2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nevbarnes1034 that's awesome. I will definitely check it out. Thanks.

    • @kilgoretrout6136
      @kilgoretrout6136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ItCantRainForever2 Is it your first book? Allow yourself to write a crappy book. Just get that first one done. A famous author lived by that.

    • @ItCantRainForever2
      @ItCantRainForever2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kilgoretrout6136 thanks for that advice. I'm a perfectionist so that makes perfect sense.

    • @cyohe8643
      @cyohe8643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perfectionism & procrastination are so closely linked. Perfectionism=must be perfect
      Procrastination=won't get it perfect so why bother at all.
      I struggle with this.
      Hang in there. We can do this!

  • @GlitchPixel899
    @GlitchPixel899 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THANK YOU, U HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH I NEEDED THIS. U just earned a new sub

  • @DeputatKaktus
    @DeputatKaktus ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heard about the 2-Minute-Rule first in the early 2000s I think. It was in David Allen’s „Getting Things Done“.
    It said that if you come across a task that takes two minutes or less to complete from where you are at the time and place the task shows up, just do it right then and there. If it takes longer than two minutes, you can either schedule a time to do it, try to delegate (if applicable) or put it in a back log. It is less efficient to schedule a 2-minute-or-less item than it is to just do it as soon as it comes up.

  • @binayakdutta66
    @binayakdutta66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    For people with ADHD, like myself, the 2-minute rule starts at 2:42

  • @Shun-the-Sun
    @Shun-the-Sun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "Rome wasn't built in a day" and "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step" have a similar message.. small but consistent progress ads up to a lot after awhile.

    • @ml3141
      @ml3141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is a very good point but I think it is not the point that the video was trying to make. The idea in the video was to get started in order to break the initial resistance so you would then continue for a much longer time period. Rather then to do many very small steps.

    • @serenakoleno9338
      @serenakoleno9338 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is said it takes 21 days to create a habit. I don't think about washing after using the toilet or brushing my teeth after a meal. Similarly, I wake, make my bed and do stretching yoga on it. If I feel lazy I do less. But I don't skip it, it's become a habit.

  • @alikaperdue
    @alikaperdue ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great idea. I will try this.
    I remember when I was trying to learn to jog. I got a schedule that said jog for 1 minute and then walk for 5 minutes. Then over weeks the schedule becomes longer. It was somewhat like this and it was easier then I thought.

  • @mattyhowse4255
    @mattyhowse4255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic video!!! Thanks for making and uploading it.

  • @bluetickfreddy101
    @bluetickfreddy101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I’ve been doing this my entire life
    Its called “just do it”
    Nike stole the saying from me
    Still waiting for royalty check

    • @mahz27
      @mahz27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😁

    • @muhammadhaneefattari5314
      @muhammadhaneefattari5314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha

    • @sni1144
      @sni1144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You better take a knee, it may be a while before you get paid.

  • @renaissance5839
    @renaissance5839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks sir sooo much, this is what I have been searching for almost 15 years!

  • @nagranoth_
    @nagranoth_ ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Another way around it is a 30 day challenge to yourself. Don't see it as something you're going to do indefinitely, see it as something you'll do for 30 days. Surely you can do that? The trick being that after 30 days it's already become a habit, without the constant expectation of having to make it a habit.

  • @uncertainscientist
    @uncertainscientist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Anything worth doing is worth doing badly." - G.K. Chesterton
    Yeah this is likely a misquote but it's solid advice nonetheless www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/second-wind/201206/anything-worth-doing-is-worth-doing-badly

  • @euripidesghost8834
    @euripidesghost8834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1467

    I only watched the first part of this video, can anyone tell me what happens after 2:00?

    • @jegodard1
      @jegodard1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +453

      Tomorrow you're watching the next 2:00, aren't you?

    • @costascostas1760
      @costascostas1760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      @@jegodard1 best comment and countercomment :)

    • @AndrewHorezga
      @AndrewHorezga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ...see what you I did there

    • @mathewhale3581
      @mathewhale3581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I only got to 0:52
      What happened at 2?

    • @muhammadhaneefattari5314
      @muhammadhaneefattari5314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@jegodard1 hahaha i believe its yes, he started applying 2 min rule at the very beginning of this video

  • @jnn970
    @jnn970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Yes it’s like every time I took a 5 min break from studying , I never be back

  • @B.Mega.D
    @B.Mega.D 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I thought you'd present the idea in 2 min. But then I realized you were speaking really slowly....
    I liked it though

  • @vladlysak2361
    @vladlysak2361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s astonishing! Thank you for such an awesome video!

  • @ImmiTheKhan
    @ImmiTheKhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This absolutely works from my own experience.' I ping people asking if they have 2 mins for a discussion and Once they get on to a call, rest all you guys know. Yes i'm a manager:)

  • @anythingpeteives
    @anythingpeteives 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Agree with this wholeheartedly. Have been using this kind of idea for many years and believe anyone can condition themselves into doing something on a regular basis if they apply the same thinking. I would also add that I deliberately resist any urge to go beyond taking things extremely easily to begin with. Even if the motivation is there. It is better to form the habit first, and the way to do that is to prevent any kind of mental resistance that suggests that the upcoming task is going to be difficult in any way. So stop even if you don't want to. Don't take the chance of setting your achievement level too high at the beginning. It could create a subconscious expectation and hence a resistance against continuing with the habit. So every increase should be as minimal as possible, but there should still be an increase each time.

  • @castlemagic4746
    @castlemagic4746 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I'm dealing with a situation like this in my life, trying to better myself educationally and socially. This is the loneliest saddest time in my life and I am trying to overcome. But while I'm trying self-improvement, I'm also dealing with chronic neck pain that stops me in my tracks. I spend more than 50% of my trying to find pain relief. Life is hard rn.

    • @LunaticDesire
      @LunaticDesire ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Just sending you some love and telling you that you will get through this and that you can do it :)

    • @castlemagic4746
      @castlemagic4746 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LunaticDesire Thank you so much! That means a lot.

    • @castlemagic4746
      @castlemagic4746 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@santamariajorge I will try. Thank you.

    • @advancetotabletop5328
      @advancetotabletop5328 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good luck with the neck pain. TH-cam has *many* videos for them, and hopefully you’ll stumble upon the right one. Two minutes a day, right? (:

    • @scorps192
      @scorps192 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I can relate to the chronic neck pain. Ice! Sending hugs from Scotland. Keep trying

  • @Deadpoolpersian69
    @Deadpoolpersian69 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video. Big love and blessings . And to everyone who made it to this video I send y all much colours and energy