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Sullivan + Associates Clinical Psychology
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เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 28 ก.พ. 2018
Sullivan + Associates Clinical Psychology
Welcome to Sullivan + Associates' official TH-cam channel! Nestled in the heart of Thunder Bay, Ontario, our esteemed practice has championed the cause of comprehensive psychological care for over a decade and a half. Here, we delve deep into a plethora of mental health topics, spanning from the intricacies of anxiety and the complexities of trauma to the latest breakthroughs in therapeutic methodologies. Our unwavering passion is to demystify the nuances of mental health, offering viewers actionable strategies, expert insights, and a treasure trove of knowledge. With a foundation firmly anchored in values of honesty, integrity, and the pursuit of excellence, our goal is to cultivate a vibrant community where mental well-being is celebrated and championed. Embark on this enlightening journey with us; subscribe and immerse yourself in a world where psychology meets everyday life, and together, let's champion the cause of mental health.
Welcome to Sullivan + Associates' official TH-cam channel! Nestled in the heart of Thunder Bay, Ontario, our esteemed practice has championed the cause of comprehensive psychological care for over a decade and a half. Here, we delve deep into a plethora of mental health topics, spanning from the intricacies of anxiety and the complexities of trauma to the latest breakthroughs in therapeutic methodologies. Our unwavering passion is to demystify the nuances of mental health, offering viewers actionable strategies, expert insights, and a treasure trove of knowledge. With a foundation firmly anchored in values of honesty, integrity, and the pursuit of excellence, our goal is to cultivate a vibrant community where mental well-being is celebrated and championed. Embark on this enlightening journey with us; subscribe and immerse yourself in a world where psychology meets everyday life, and together, let's champion the cause of mental health.
The REAL Reason You Can't Change (and How to Fix It)
Cultivating Lasting Change: A 10-Step Guide to Achieve Your Goals and Transform Your Life
Change is an inevitable part of life, but it's not always easy. Whether you're striving for personal growth, trying to adopt healthier habits, or working towards a specific goal, the journey of change can be filled with challenges and setbacks. This video offers a comprehensive and supportive guide to navigate the process of change, drawing on psychological principles and practical strategies to help you achieve lasting results. We'll delve into the reasons why change can be so difficult, exploring the psychology of motivation, habit formation, and resilience.
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How are habits formed: onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ejsp.674
Appealing to fear: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26501228/
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This video provides a roadmap to not only understand the process of change but to successfully implement it in your own life. We'll explore how to identify your core motivations for change, clarifying your "why" and connecting to your deepest values. You'll learn how to set realistic goals and break them down into manageable steps, making the journey less daunting and more achievable. We'll examine the science of habit formation, providing you with effective strategies to build new, positive behaviours and break free from old patterns that no longer serve you.
This video also addresses the common obstacles that can hinder your progress, such as self-doubt, negative thoughts, and unexpected challenges. You'll learn how to cultivate resilience, develop coping mechanisms, and maintain momentum even when faced with setbacks. By understanding the psychology of change and applying practical tools, you can increase your self-awareness, improve your well-being, and create a more fulfilling life. If you're ready to embark on a journey of personal growth and unlock your full potential, watch now.
If you’re experiencing challenges implementing these steps, please contact us @ www.drsullivan.ca/
Subscribe: th-cam.com/users/SullivanAssociatesClinicalPsychology
Find us on Facebook: sullivanpsychology/
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Change is an inevitable part of life, but it's not always easy. Whether you're striving for personal growth, trying to adopt healthier habits, or working towards a specific goal, the journey of change can be filled with challenges and setbacks. This video offers a comprehensive and supportive guide to navigate the process of change, drawing on psychological principles and practical strategies to help you achieve lasting results. We'll delve into the reasons why change can be so difficult, exploring the psychology of motivation, habit formation, and resilience.
RESOURCES & LINKS:
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How are habits formed: onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ejsp.674
Appealing to fear: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26501228/
____________________________________________
This video provides a roadmap to not only understand the process of change but to successfully implement it in your own life. We'll explore how to identify your core motivations for change, clarifying your "why" and connecting to your deepest values. You'll learn how to set realistic goals and break them down into manageable steps, making the journey less daunting and more achievable. We'll examine the science of habit formation, providing you with effective strategies to build new, positive behaviours and break free from old patterns that no longer serve you.
This video also addresses the common obstacles that can hinder your progress, such as self-doubt, negative thoughts, and unexpected challenges. You'll learn how to cultivate resilience, develop coping mechanisms, and maintain momentum even when faced with setbacks. By understanding the psychology of change and applying practical tools, you can increase your self-awareness, improve your well-being, and create a more fulfilling life. If you're ready to embark on a journey of personal growth and unlock your full potential, watch now.
If you’re experiencing challenges implementing these steps, please contact us @ www.drsullivan.ca/
Subscribe: th-cam.com/users/SullivanAssociatesClinicalPsychology
Find us on Facebook: sullivanpsychology/
And on Instagram: sullivan.clinical.psychology
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Three years won’t bring him back all my life I’ve done been gd sole they gave me a life of being a Hampstead taken my grandson suddenly I’m so mad angry full of rage with no power walking dead I’m here
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Anyone feel like they’re falling even when the plane is flying smooth? How do you combat that?
1 in 9 millions but if It happens you're dead as a duck while car crashes are not necessarily lethal 😅 Im imagining to be listening to this while the plane is going down😂 We can do this boys and girls 💪🏿
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bro i have a 16 hour flight and all these crashes are happening 😢
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I got anxiety just watching those geese flying in the video.😂
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Please slow down. You speak too fast.
fuck exploring new places, nothing is worth the pain that endures for hours
Informative video...Planet Ayurveda’s Brahmi Capsules are perfect for improving focus, while Neuro Plan Syrup provides stress relief and better mental clarity. One must use them.
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“What goes up must come down” Definitely not something I want to say to myself while on a flight 😂 I know what you meant though lol
Hey arbenpali5124, Haha, you're absolutely right! Definitely NOT the best mantra for calming flight anxiety. 😅 It's all about focusing on the positive aspects of flying - the exciting destinations, the convenience, the amazing views. Thanks for the laugh! I hope you have a safe and enjoyable flight whenever your next one may be. ✈
I’ve not flown in over 10 years now but have a 5 hour flight booked for in a few months. I’m already getting myself worked up and searching for self help videos. I took diazepam for previous flights as it got that bad with me cry causing a scene with my anxiety worrying other anxious passengers they moved me to the stewardess seat with harness seatbelt for a little while to help me stop the panic attack. I felt safer in that seat fully buckled in, no windows and sitting backwards oddly felt better. I cried again getting off that flight thanking them and apologising for my panic attack. I tried once more to fly with my doctor doubling the relaxant that time. You know what I did? Checked in and hid in the toilets deliberately missing my flight & holiday. 😂 I laugh at that one but honestly I need some serious help. I’m flying with my children and they can’t see me behave that way. I have zero control over it which is what’s most terrifying. It’s like it takes over me and consumes me. I shake, sweat, hear voices in my head and irrational thoughts that I just wish would go away. In your scale of 1-10 I’m at an 8-9 before we even get off the ground. If it’s any consolation I absolutely love descending and landing, just that final part, nothing else. I can’t eat sleep or concentrate on anything but the planes movements and sounds. Any thoughts?
Hey Alligatorjuice2, It's understandable that you're worried about flying after those experiences. It's great you're seeking help! Consider professional help from a therapist specializing in anxiety. Talk to your doctor about medication options for flight anxiety. Gradual exposure through virtual reality might help desensitize you. Practice mindfulness and relaxation to manage anxiety. Talk to your children about your fears so they understand. You're not alone, and there are ways to manage this! ✈
You missed one major one. Parents spend less time with their kids compared to back then. There are more working parents that have less time and energy to spend with the kids they have.
I was a very mean person years ago treating people poorly online saying and posting mean things to random people now i have guilt from it and blame myself for things that did not happen its a thing where i can not get closure any advice? Tl dr cant get closure for being a bully now im guilty
Hey swagknight6973, It's commendable that you're taking responsibility for your past actions. Even though you can't change the past, you can focus on making amends now. Reflect on your behavior, practice self-compassion, and focus on positive actions. If the guilt is overwhelming, consider talking to a therapist. It's never too late to change. You're not alone.
@@sullivanandassociates ❤️ thank you hardest thing is cant change the past just have to figure out how to move on thanksnfornbeing generious
@sullivanandassociates thank you ❤️ ☺️
My plan for the day is never realized.
Hey DAClub-uf3br, It's common to struggle with motivation when feeling low. Try setting smaller goals instead of one big plan. Be kind to yourself if you don't achieve everything. Focus on self-care like sleep, good food, and exercise. Reach out to a therapist or support group if you need help managing depression. You're not alone.
At one point i was on a plane every month maybe less and then when covid hit its been 5 years since i touched a plane, i have a flight later this month and i have been binding plane crash go overs with alot of details and how changes are made, it makes me feel better because i know how things are fixed, its my weird tactic to get over fears of flying, not helping with my amazing fear general travel with any vehicle. This is a new thing i have started with the coping from investigation, and i am excited to have my flight soon and the anxiety reduction things are helping as well 😊
Hey analytics6855, It's fascinating how different tactics work for different people! Your approach of diving deep into investigations and understanding how things are fixed is definitely unique. If it helps you feel more informed and in control, that's fantastic. It's also great that you're combining that with other anxiety reduction techniques. Hopefully, this multi-pronged approach will make your upcoming flight a smoother experience. Let me know how it goes! I'm rooting for you to have a safe and enjoyable journey.
Watched this video just now. I had 12 flights during the holidays and always had anxiety almost all throughout the flight especially during take off and turbulence. My bpm is so high and I receive notification from apple watch. I have all done deep breathing and self talk but still doesn’t help much. I just keep wishing the time flies fast and we land soon so my anxiety will go down. Hope I can still manage this as I want to travel😢
Hey iamMau17, It sounds tough to deal with flight anxiety, especially with so many flights! It's great you still want to travel. Deep breathing and self-talk are helpful, but try adding distractions like books or movies, and practice mindfulness to stay grounded. Consider talking to a therapist or your doctor about medication. Don't let anxiety stop your travel dreams! ✈️
In my opinion, a huge part of being a good paramedic is being able to read each situation and determine what each individual patient needs to hear.
Hey kevinmr3548, You're absolutely right. Being able to read each situation and tailor your communication to the individual patient's needs is a crucial skill for paramedics. It's about more than just providing medical care; it's about offering emotional support and empathy during a potentially traumatic experience. Thank you for sharing your insight!
I feel guilt that crushes me, and yet there's no way to escape it. I married a woman out of desperation -- I was intensely lonely and unable to cope with my loneliness. She presented herself to me as a dating option, and it was the end of my loneliness: I didn't have friends, but at least I had her. It was like life had thrown me a life preserver. One thing leads to another. We've been married for eight years and have two young children together. The only problem is, I never wanted to be married to her. I just didn't want to be alone any more. I can't ever make this right to her, my children or myself. I want a normal life, but I can't have one. There's no escape. When I consider all of this, I start to panic. I don't know what to do.
Hey bow_wow_wow, It sounds like you're carrying a heavy burden of guilt and regret. It's understandable to feel trapped and overwhelmed in this situation. You made a decision out of loneliness, and now you're facing the consequences years later. It's important to acknowledge that there are no easy solutions here. You have a responsibility to your wife and children, but you also deserve to find some peace and happiness. Have you considered talking to a therapist or counselor? They can provide a safe space to explore your feelings and help you navigate this complex situation. It might also be helpful to have an honest conversation with your wife, if you feel safe doing so. Open communication, while potentially difficult, could be a first step towards finding a path forward, whatever that may look like. Remember, you're not alone in this. Many people face challenges and regrets in their relationships. There is support available, and it's possible to find a way to move forward, even if it doesn't look like the "normal" life you envisioned.
Hard to take them seriously.
There is no way i can think about myself any good 🙂
Bro just chill I also feel the same I find meditation is one of the way to the inner journey. Nowhere to go but in.
Hey Prashid7, That's a great point. Meditation can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and finding inner peace. It can help create space for self-compassion and understanding. fardeentamim4497, it sounds like you might be struggling with some intense self-criticism. Remember, everyone makes mistakes, and it's important to treat yourself with kindness. If you're finding it hard to see the good in yourself, consider talking to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist. They can offer support and guidance as you work through these feelings.
@@sullivanandassociates thank you very much I am your subscriber. I am from Himalayan country Nepal. Well said about meditation and thank you for all your videos 🙏 it's very informative. I was an opioid addict and now I am in recovery process and it's been 18 months I am clean and sober. Your videos had help me a lot in this recovery journey. Hope to see good content always. All the love and respect from Sydney Australia 🌏 jay hos #informative channel
I’m flying for the first time in 7 years since I was diagnosed with anxiety . Looking forward to the experience however I know it will be a challenge
Hello! I haven’t gotten on a plane in 8 years! And even back then the flights were only 2 hours or less. I was diagnosed with anxiety and panic disorder back in 2022 but I REALLY want to travel! I really want to visit Washington in March and the crazy this is I used to be afraid of plane crashes but now Its just the idea of in a vehicle I cannot get out of lol. I’ve calmed myself down a lot over the weekend though and I feel more excited now but i know it’ll be different when it’s time to get on. I’m on medication for my condition so my anxiety isn’t bad like it once was, I was planning on just taking a Xanax before getting on. Please let me know how your flight goes!
Hey thegabbiedoll, That's amazing! Washington in March sounds great. Feeling trapped is a common fear. Try an aisle seat, practice mindfulness, bring distractions, and talk to the crew. It's great you have a plan with medication. Have a wonderful trip! Let me know how it goes.
I just deleted something important from my friends on accident, now they unfriended me and removed me everywhere. I feel guilt and regret, i understand why they cant forgive me.
Hey YukoshiTheSolsRNGTryhard, I'm sorry to hear that. It sounds like an honest mistake that led to some painful consequences. It's understandable to feel guilt and regret, but try to be kind to yourself. Even though they might be upset right now, it's possible they'll come around eventually. In the meantime, focus on forgiving yourself and learning from the experience.
Since covid hit.. My mission started 2 find you (actually very angry at the world wanting to find the truth of my suffering and enslavement) wanted to kill and fight at least I would die.. 4something..make a difference for the little man.. Low and behold.. I died for love... The first time I looked in your eyes.. My struggles seemed meak and feable and fell away.. I just knew there is a higher power💚💫👁️🗨️
Focusing on where you need to arrive can help the process. Setting a goal can help you prevail
Hey Andrew, that's a great point! Having a clear destination in mind can really help. Other helpful tips: practice relaxation techniques, start with short drives, consider a driving course, and seek professional help if needed.
Please slow down. You talk too fast.
Hey sharminiserasinghe3293, Thanks for the feedback! I'll try to slow down my pace in future videos. It's important to me that my content is accessible and easy to understand for everyone. I appreciate you letting me know.
It’s odd but I also think about how the guys in the RAF must have felt in the war
at least they had the plane in their own hands. And the parachute.
Flight to Perth from UK on Monday and I’m already sweaty.. it’s the fear of being trapped for me. No alcohol and caffeine and plenty of food will help I’m sure
How did it goes?
Hey! It went really well thanks, I had some moments of anxiety during the flight but very mild.
@ glad to hear that because i stand in same situration as you, but i try to think positive about it! What was you doing when you was thinking about being trapped?
Hey Hayden, It's awesome that you had a good experience despite some mild anxiety! It's really encouraging for others facing the same fear. If you're still around, it would be super helpful to share what helped you manage those "trapped" feelings during the flight. Did you use any specific techniques or distractions? ProdNodus, thinking positive is a great start! Remember that millions of people fly safely every day. Perhaps focus on the exciting destination and experiences that await you at the end of the journey.
Hi all I’m now back in the UK. I found sitting on an aisle seat a massive help, also knowing that we aren’t alone and there’s a lot of people on that flight in the same shoes. Try thinking about the air crew and how often they fly and focusing on the food/drinks that are on offer and tell yourself ‘it’s just like a train journey’. You can put that in to play with turbulence too, just like a train journey has bumpy moments, turbulence is nothing more, just a windy day! But always remember that airplanes (especially established companies like Virgin, British airways, AA) will under go vigorous safety tests. Always remember it’s safer than driving a car! All the best, Hayden 👍
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My hamster got killed by my cat because of my incompetence. I just feel so guilty, my hamster was my best friend. It feels like I can’t cope with the guilt at all. I absolutely can’t blame my cat because you know, it’s a cat
Hey StanLoona-sg4fm, I'm so sorry about your hamster. Losing a pet is so hard, and it's understandable to feel guilty. Try to be kind to yourself. Accidents happen, and you can't blame your cat. Remember the joy your hamster brought you.
I have a flight tomorrow to africa. Have flight anxiety
Good luck! Let me know how you do.
how was it?
Hey RxtroBrawlStars, Deep breaths! It's normal to be anxious. Distract yourself with books or movies, learn about how planes work, and talk about your worries. You've got this! Safe travels to Africa! ✈️
I have a flight to Liberia. It’s my first time. I have flight anxiety. I can’t change my mind ugh
Hey RxtroBrawlStars, First time flying can be nerve-wracking! Try deep breathing exercises, bring distractions like books or movies, learn about how planes work, and talk about your worries with someone. You've got this! Safe travels to Liberia! ✈️
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