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I think that we are looking for someone to say, they can bring your loved one back, unfortunately this is not reality, so when seeking comfort, the only comfort would to have someone say that they can bring your loved one back and since that is impossible, there will never be the comfort we are truly seeking. Also when you reach a certain age, it’s a guarantee that moving forward you can expect a lot of loss and grief. Since turning 50, I’ve lost most of my family, my pets, empty nest and there will be much more in my future, I wonder…what’s the point? Look to nature, life and death are just how it works, nature made a mistake giving humans emotions.

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12:39 IS THE WORST. People just want to forget and I want to talk about my loved ones. What do we do when people say "I can't deal with your grief anymore, it's too depressing and I don't have the emotional capacity to deal with the intensity of your pain". I respect their boundary, but it still hurts. I cried about Chamaco and that lady :( What a beautiful story.

Spoke to & caressed my heart. Timely. I was making plans to release my physical body from the emotional pain that has consumed it. After listening to the podcast, I am delaying that decision, & chose to spend my morning sharing it with others. Thank you for insight, knowledge, & words that will radiate out & possibly save lives. 💔😢🤔🤗

0:00 opening and personal journey of Alan 12:30 inspect way of knowing 28:00 shamata 35:50 shift priority to genuine well being* 48:00 donot reduce meditation into a technique

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Namo buddhay Namo dhammay Namo saghay

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I totally agree, theres no real help, i have given up on psychologists because they are so incompetent, and 1 hr, they have a clock next to you, ticking, i always feel like i spoke for 2 mi utes, and they are focused on the money, a lot of money for a lot of nothing, i want something that is personal, a friend 🧡, i have no friends now to talk too, my sisters are selfish and narcissisti, i am going back to my AA but i have been unwell too, look its not a child, i never had children because i had cptsd, alcoholism, depression, wasn't happy in my relationship blah blah blah; i got a ragdollcat after a severe illness, 2 years, had to give him away! I am grief stricken, can't stop crying thin,ing. then implant made me ill!

I play this every night, it's perfect, thank you xxx

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Thanks, David. Food for the soul. 🙏🏼💖✨

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Thank you. I hope I can get there. My only daughter I lost this week. I found her and I applied CPR . I am so angry at myself. The paramedics were late they got lost. The system failed my daughter.

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Great interview Dr Jo, you are always so loving and caring about how you speak. My Beautiful Wife passed Feb 2021 , hearing you speak helps a little.As my life moves forward i always try to do things to Honors Jans memory and make her Proud of me.The Loneliness always tear me apart from missing Jan so much. I truely know Jan is?always with me. I believe in God and the Spiritual beliefs of Native Americans. Very much respect for Native Americans & their History. God Bless

Oh this made me smile and giggle. Happy holidays to you both. Thank you for all your help this year xxx

What are the names of the books ? I’m going to get a pen and try to write it down. I must

A few months after the transition of my beautiful son Lee Simon ❤️ x in 2021one day my family phoned the doctors and i was posted antidepressant by the doctor the doctor phoned a few weeks later to see how i was feeling on the tablet's. I was sobbing saying if you can find any tablets that could bring my beautiful son ❤️ back I'll take them and said i haven't took them Thank you for this video Dr Jo ❤️ very much appreciated x

Gosh I had my only boy and girl to fentenal poisoning im lost and a hermet now and its been 6 years

You are so right! I just lost my husband of 45 yrs. I hated my grief because it made me so sick. But I listened to people on TH-cam that said you have to embrace your grief even if it hurts. Its been almost 6 weeks since he died, and I'm still miserable but feel so much better since embracing it. Now I know that's what I have to do and I don't have so much anxiety. And that means slot to me. I was so anxious I couldn't sleep. I do have good days and bad days. I know one day I will be able to be happy again, I just don't know when...

Lovely advice and help

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Materialists fear Alan Wallace with no place to hide, so they avoid debating with him at all cost.

What a wonderful interview. Always a pleasure to see Lama Wallace. He is so amazing. You now have a new subscriber. Cheers.

"Grief incompetent" is the perfect description of the therapist I was seeing at the time of my loss.

Thank you. I lost my husband suddenly to suicide loss three months ago and have seen the terror of such a thing being possible play out in some ugly ways. In the need to regain “safety”, some have besmirched my marriage, my love for my husband or have attacked his character or love for his children. There’s a desperate need to “other” me and my grief because it’s so awful and too much to sit with it being something none of us are truly safe from. I’ve realised I’ll have to look to my own instincts, the wisdom we just have when we need it, and invite it in. The only way through anything is through it. There’s no avoiding it. It’s very shocking to find how little societal wisdom and support you find in these moments, death being so universal. Thank you for being a voice of wisdom for those of us who need to hear it’s natural and of course it hurts if we loved deeply, and it won’t kill us. It might if we don’t live with it and try to ignore / avoid the pain. That’s a way to get very sick.

Brilliant 😂☺️ happy Christmas to both of you and to everyone who has been touched by samadhi

You are both adorable 🥰 xxxx Thank you so much for the lovely retreat in Malham recently.

Merry Christmas Everyone!

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i wonder if alan ever investigates near death experiences (ndes). i ridicule western science for not doing so, because they totally destroy the idea of materialism. there is a tremendous body of evidence and wisdom. and people, who have had their lives immeasurably changed FOR THE BETTER. most claim to have out of body experiences, but we have OBJECTIVE evidence that they know things about the operation, while being unconscious on the table. stuff they could not possibly know about, in any sort of materialistic way. to disregard this body of work demonstrates to me a bias towards one's own mindset. most of them get to heaven, and have conversations with a loving being, as well as a life review. while the individual experiences seem to be tailored for the individual experiencer, the basic message they bring back is very similar. i am no longer on the fence, regarding the existence of god. and when we put that information into the pot, everything else makes perfect sense.

Thank you. Lost my child last week.

thank you for posting, you are great and beautiful. Have a wonderful day.

degrees of complexity may be necessary for individuated consciousnesses

45 min, consciousness and mass can be entangled, thought also is correlated to mass manifestation. for the precursors of this research see dr. dean radin, and also the harvard research involving organic intent and also led light selection based off a black box computer RNG.

What of the water brain from cambridge, He was working on his PhD but he has almost no grey matter.

We've always said brain, actually, for the several centuries that we've known it is associated with cognition. We started using brain more because our knowledge of the brain has skyrocketed in the last 20 years. It's still very limited, but it's immensely more advanced than it was. I don't think it's any more complicated than that. Alan seems to have an axe to grind with physical science, which is very unfortunate, because neuroscience has huge potential to radically accelerate the spiritual path and democratize enlightenment, making it available to everyone. As long as enlightenment remains the province of a fraction of society that can dedicate itself to full-time practice, we're doomed as a civilization.

if you knew what went on behind the scenes at charney or how the previous staff were treated you would not go there .

Many thanks. Alan Wallace is truly inspirational. Am deeply moved by his work and his efforts.

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This is the part of my day I always enjoy. Do what the pros do = Promo'SM!!!

Shattering our concept of the good life once again 🙏Thank you Lama Alan and may all your aspirations be actualized 🙏

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Very good!! If we change our internal world, the external world changes. Thank you so much for the video!!!

Thanks for sharing this.

Loved this - thank you! New Year’s resolution is to do one of your retreats David.

Slow life is the best. I feel you. Unfortunately we live in a society that is obsessed with superficial things and the "right now's world" as I use to call it. Everything has to be done quick, fast, and nobody values the natural process of things, of life itself. If we catch a cold we want to heal in two days, we want the work to be done in a second and that's impossible. Life has its cycles and, as nature, everything has a process. Very peaceful video, wanting to see more n.n