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A Question In the Solavellan Romance [inquisition-spoilers]
I saw this pop up recently in the fandom, and thought it was worth a deep dive into the oddest question I've ever officially tried to answer. I had a lot of fun crying over this romance again, so thanks my fellow solasmancers!
I think the ultimate answer to this question is that it's completely up to the player to decide what went on behind the scenes for Lavellan and Solas, and it's such an extraordinary romance that's so much more than what 'outsiders' to the experience expect from it.
0:00 - 0:03 = spoiler disclaimer
0:04 - 0:14 = Intro
0:15 - 5:20 = Romance in videogames (and intimacy)
5:21 - 7:57 = Why ask this?
7:58 - 15:56 = THEY DID
15:57 - 29:20 = THEY DIDN'T
29:21 - 31:49 = The Importance of Player Choice
31:50 - = fin
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The Dragon and the Wolf - A Theory | Dragon Age: The Veilguard [trailer spoilers]
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Just a short video concerning my thoughts on this one part from the release date trailer that's been on my mind since I watched it. Let me know what you guys think about this part, because the Dread Wolf is near and dear to my heart, and I hope that whatever Bioware does with him, it'll make me nod in satisfaction (or weep in satisfaction). Wolf wolf wolf :) The trailer link: th-cam.com/video/g...
New Trailer Breakdown for Dragon Age: The Veilguard! [spoilers]
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A breakdown of the Release Date Trailer for Dragon Age: The Veilguard. We finally have a release date: October 31st - I have 2 weeks booked off from work around Veilguard because I'm going to be super busy with content (and personal enjoyment), and I'll be recording my blind playthrough, as well as exploring as much as possible! Let me know your own thoughts, what you're excited for, all of it ...
2 Solasmancers Discuss Solas' Character | Dragon Age Discussion ft. Cassidei [spoilers]
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Myself and Cassidei go over some topics surrounding Solas' character; as people who really loved his character and look forward to seeing where the writing takes him in Veilguard. Don't forget to go check out the other half of our discussion on Cassidei's channel: th-cam.com/video/4mK7gYcqiDM/w-d-xo.html 0:00 - 0:48 = Intro 0:49 - 16:52 = Solas' relationship with the companions 16:53 - 33:58 = ...
Who is Mythal? | An Introduction [no spoilers]
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Who is Mythal, the elven goddess of justice and protection? What role does she play for the elves? Hope this gives you some insight and a little to think about with good old Dragon Age lore - more coming soon!
Who is Elgar'nan? | An Introduction [no spoilers]
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A brief introduction to Elgar'nan; the elven god of vengeance in Dragon Age. Elgar'nan is one of my favourite of the elven deities, and I'm super excited to see where the series takes him! I'll be covering all of the gods, it just so happened that Ghilan'nain and Elgar'nan were my first two, which is just hilarious because I considered them to be the most basic but interesting XD Twitter: x.com...
Theories! - Discussion Part 3 - Dragon Age: The Veilguard [spoilers]
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Today, I'm joined with wonderful people to discuss theories about Veilguard - Don from Crimson Wolf, DarthShadie Lavellan, and Cole from the Kingdom. This is part 3 of our 4-part discussion of Veilguard - don't forget to go watch the other parts, and check out their other content! Part 1 - Leadup Media to Veilguard (books/comics/etc) Crimson Wolf: th-cam.com/video/zABwZFYxADI/w-d-xo.html Part 2...
Who is Ghilan'nain? | An Introduction [no spoilers]
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Who is Ghilan'nain? | An Introduction [no spoilers]
Dragon Age: Inquistion - Part 1 | Latheia Lavellan [no commentary]
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Dragon Age: Inquistion - Part 1 | Latheia Lavellan [no commentary]
Solas' Character - Measuring the Veil [spoilers]
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Solas' Character - Measuring the Veil [spoilers]
Dragon Age: The Veilguard - Gameplay Reveal Thoughts & Theories
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Dragon Age: The Veilguard - Gameplay Reveal Thoughts & Theories
Dragon Age: The Veilguard - Gameplay Reveal - All Story/Cutscenes Cut Together [+gameplay after]
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Dragon Age: The Veilguard - Gameplay Reveal - All Story/Cutscenes Cut Together [ gameplay after]
Dragon Age: The Veilguard - About the Knife, and Other News
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Dragon Age: The Veilguard - About the Knife, and Other News
Dragon Age: The Veilguard - Teaser/Trailer Breakdown & Speculation
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Dragon Age: The Veilguard - Teaser/Trailer Breakdown & Speculation
Dragon Age: The Veilguard - 7 Companions Reveal & Griffins Are Back!
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Dragon Age: The Veilguard - 7 Companions Reveal & Griffins Are Back!
Dragon Age: The Veilguard - What To Expect at the Gameplay Reveal on Tuesday [speculation & hopes]
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Dragon Age: The Veilguard - What To Expect at the Gameplay Reveal on Tuesday [speculation & hopes]
Dragon Age 4 - Dreadwolf to The Veilguard & Gameplay On the Way! [DA4 News/Update]
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Dragon Age 4 - Dreadwolf to The Veilguard & Gameplay On the Way! [DA4 News/Update]
June: God of the Craft | Explaining Dragon Age [spoilers]
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June: God of the Craft | Explaining Dragon Age [spoilers]
Dalish Beliefs and Legends | Dragon Age Lore [no spoilers]
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Dalish Beliefs and Legends | Dragon Age Lore [no spoilers]
The Elven Gods & Their Relationships (ft. Cole from The Kingdom) | Dragon Age [spoilers]
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The Elven Gods & Their Relationships (ft. Cole from The Kingdom) | Dragon Age [spoilers]
All Vallaslin in Dragon Age Inquisition [no spoilers]
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All Vallaslin in Dragon Age Inquisition [no spoilers]
The Scaled Ones | Explaining Dragon Age [spoilers]
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The Scaled Ones | Explaining Dragon Age [spoilers]
The Fall of Cad'halash | Dragon Age Lore [spoilers]
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The Fall of Cad'halash | Dragon Age Lore [spoilers]
The Ash Warriors | Explaining Dragon Age [minor spoilers]
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The Ash Warriors | Explaining Dragon Age [minor spoilers]
Love Stories in Dragon Age - A Valentine's Special [no spoilers]
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Love Stories in Dragon Age - A Valentine's Special [no spoilers]
The Origins of Humans in Thedas | Explaining Dragon Age [no spoilers]
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The Origins of Humans in Thedas | Explaining Dragon Age [no spoilers]
Every Owner of the Red Lyrium Idol & It's Pieces | Dragon Age Lore [spoilers]
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Every Owner of the Red Lyrium Idol & It's Pieces | Dragon Age Lore [spoilers]
A Beginner's Guide to the Dragon Age Novels [no spoilers]
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A Beginner's Guide to the Dragon Age Novels [no spoilers]
Ancient Writing {Veilfire} | Dragon Age
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Ancient Writing {Veilfire} | Dragon Age
Tracing from Temple Doors [Codex] | Dragon Age
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Tracing from Temple Doors [Codex] | Dragon Age

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  • @ladysulevin
    @ladysulevin 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    new live: th-cam.com/video/H3wZy4e7WNs/w-d-xo.html

  • @Silent-Pride4-wt9iy
    @Silent-Pride4-wt9iy 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    If Solas planned on taking down the Veil, why would he strengthen it. I am thinking that activating the artifacts actually helps to weaken the veil in order to bring it down

  • @Silent-Pride4-wt9iy
    @Silent-Pride4-wt9iy 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I always liked the writing for the romance between Solas and Lavellan. The first time I experienced it in the game, I smiled and then when he put a stop to the romance I cried, hard

  • @ervus3289
    @ervus3289 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting that actually solas and josephine are my favourite romances

  • @SunniestAutumn
    @SunniestAutumn 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It's definitely implied, at least. "May the Dread Wolf take you" - "And he did." Yeah. Super subtle.

  • @faithfullkadan2969
    @faithfullkadan2969 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not me rebooting just to romance my man again ❤😂😭😭😭

  • @thecuriositas385
    @thecuriositas385 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I fall pretty solidly on the 'They didnt' camp. I always interpreted the line 'And so he did' to have the double meaning of 'he took her heart' & 'he took her in, ie he tricked her' I love how passionate they are towards each other even if they, even if its not going in physical direction quickly. Passion was for more than just the flesh, it was for the mind & cute sparing & wit. I honestly wouldnt mind not seeing any spicy scenes in veilguard between them, i feel their relationship would need more time to repair itself to that level of trust. I do think itd be cool though if Solas had a room or we found a place he'd been staying & we found a thick bound stack of envelopes that are letters he wrote to Inky but never sent. And the interaction text would say that they seem private & not to pry. Then when Inky shows up if their interaction goes well we could go back to his room & find the letters gone because he passed them on to her.

  • @bunniewood
    @bunniewood 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m in solavellan hell with all the rest of you…but are we forgetting that he is choosing to end her world (and her) by taking down the fade? When he says “I’ll never forget you” he’s saying that becuase he is immortal and will eventually kill her

  • @wildescar
    @wildescar 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They totally did it. Bioware were just too classy to show anything as it wasn't that type of romance.

  • @angiep2229
    @angiep2229 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love how they wrote this so there is just no right or wrong answer. It's a Schrodinger thing. To me, I feel such a strong theme of star-crossed longing. So I feel they didn't. It fits the theme of longing better, with it unfulfilled. I really do want to see something more come of it in the next game.

  • @elfbotanist
    @elfbotanist 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    37:52 i love scene sm because at this point they're so domestic. They're a real couple.

  • @libbygreen420
    @libbygreen420 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "touch-starved wolf" but yes! That's what I would've called him, too. He is ravenous for her.

  • @briannablack1422
    @briannablack1422 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As much as I want to believe they did do it, I think he truly loved lavellan so much he could never betray her like that. Such an amazing and tragic love story

  • @Garruslove4me
    @Garruslove4me 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cullen is my favorite romance in DAI,Alistair in DAO and Fenris in DA2 :)..He says he never went all the way because he wasn't being honest with you or something along those lines..I only romanced him twice ..I do not remember the exact words.

  • @Rusk95
    @Rusk95 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I could be wrong, but I think I read somewhere that the devs made it very vague on purpose. I honestly love that though. What makes something tender and innocent vary a lot from person to person since people have different boundaries and leaving it vague is a nice way to honor that. I think leaving it up to the player makes it even more intimate of a story. Personally I think it adds a lot of tension to leave it unfullfilled. Not only romanticly, but sexually as well. I mean the edging in this romance is off the charts. I uh, worry a bit about how and if this will show up in Veilguard tho... Not how it will be handled, but if it will be handled at all

    • @bunniewood
      @bunniewood 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same. I have doubts

  • @kieralovesjoxer123
    @kieralovesjoxer123 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know it's "canon" that they didn't, but in *my* canon they definitely did

    • @Mother_of_Pigeons
      @Mother_of_Pigeons 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I don’t believe it’s confirmed cannon either way. Weeks seems to have written it to have been intentionally ambiguous and up to player interpretation

  • @aerynstormcrow
    @aerynstormcrow 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The “I would not” is directly contradicted by by his first statement, “I did not”. He’s talking about a fact at first. That he didn’t fool her into sleeping with him. Then he says he would never fool her. That is confirming that just because he slept with her and also is fen’harel doesn’t mean he was manipulating her. It means that not only did he sleep with her, he wanted to honestly bc he loved her and is not the type of guy, regardless of his title, that would manipulate a woman into sleeping with him in an effort to hide who he was.

  • @skyedeegirl
    @skyedeegirl 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I always romance Cullen but I was starting a new games as a Dalish elf and thought oh I try out the Solas romance since a Dalish female elf is his only romance option. Was not looking forward to it since I know how it ends and just didn’t get into it when watching other videos, but oh my gosh, when he drops that graceful line with my rogue elf I was blushing and smiling like an idiot.

    • @ladysulevin
      @ladysulevin 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yeah when his romance hits you it slaps

  • @SmallAngryQueer
    @SmallAngryQueer 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My h/c is that they were both very tipsy at the winter palace and feeling the victory but it was only that one time, they had a talk about it in the morning, and just never said anything about it I would think Solas definitely regrets that it happened when they were not sober or completely ready for it. Lavellan is okay with it but she is also very much focused on Corypheus, distracted and probably has some things to work through before comitting to a sexual relationship. Now she has some more things to work through but she's had 10 years to do that

    • @SmallAngryQueer
      @SmallAngryQueer 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sometimes I think if my Inquisitor would have tried to get in other relationships after and how that would go So I have a theory that if they did get in a romance, Lelianna would probably try to hush hush it after the truth came out but the rumors are already out there probably. Would people be even more intimidated knowing she had an emotionally intimate relationship with a god? What he defines himself aside, this is how he's viewed. I personally think Solas would probably be fine or even relieved if Lavellan sought other romances. But would people assume that he would not be okay with it? Also how would Thedas handle the rumors that Inquisitor Lavellan had a thing with the Dread Wolf, who has been a solid menace for the past several years. Would she be a target by his enemies just cause like... He likes her? Ah, I'm going off on a tangent now

  • @Vals7
    @Vals7 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    in my canon playthrough i decided they didn't. tbh i didn't even ask myself any of it until the trespasser convo. I just assumed they didn't get to that point bc solas always seemed conflicted, so the relationship stayed more on an emotional and intellectual level to me. I'm also ace so it really doesn't change anything for me, in fact it almost makes it deeper in my mind bc that's how i experience love lol tbh it didn't even cross my mind that they did until i saw people only debating lol i do get that side now, but i just didn't think of that option at all lol I always took solas jumping to the clarification that he didn't lay with you under false pretenses to mean that he really worried about it. About your agency and consent every step of the way because he couldn't tell you the truth. He kissed, loved you, took your heart while hiding who he really is and thinking you would reject him if you knew the truth, so he has to reassure himself that it WAS true and real, that he never lied about it or who he is at his core, but also that he drew the line before it went too far physically. Lavellan saying Solas took her is simply a declaration of love, past or still present to me. He took her heart with him when he left. that said i do have other lavellans who i definitely headcanon slept with him, because it can really go both ways lol

  • @ichigozangetsugrimmjozgqp9439
    @ichigozangetsugrimmjozgqp9439 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Who ya romancing? I’m going to do sera

    • @ladysulevin
      @ladysulevin 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Solas :) - Sera is my second favourite romance in Inquisition

    • @ichigozangetsugrimmjozgqp9439
      @ichigozangetsugrimmjozgqp9439 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ladysulevin I love a good sapphic love story and sera really fits that role

    • @ladysulevin
      @ladysulevin 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ichigozangetsugrimmjozgqp9439 it's so playful and meaningful <3

    • @ichigozangetsugrimmjozgqp9439
      @ichigozangetsugrimmjozgqp9439 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ladysulevin being a mtf myself I’m excited to see what the sapphicness is gonna be like for veilguard and up also I agree sera is freaking amazing she’s my fav next to montilyet and leliana I’m still waiting for merill to return tho

  • @EksiliPilav
    @EksiliPilav 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can see the both sides (I'm on the they had a mature &intimate relationship side). In one dialog when we call him grim and fatalistic he goes " I am grim and fatalistic. Getting you into bed is just an enjoyable side benefit." which pushes me to "Oh they've done it" side. Also in trasspasser, if you chose the sad option for Dreadwolf curse dialogue by saying "and he did", he says "I would not lay with you under false pretenses" In the same dialogue he talks about how he was Solas first, the other names are given later, which also makes me think a) he was very much Solas with us, no pretense and they've done it. B) or he was thinking it was a pretense and they never did it. I can always be delulu in my OC's story in the end tho. But still, I hope they give them at least one happy end at Veilguard.

  • @elfbotanist
    @elfbotanist 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    aru from twt here. so obsessed with your channel !!! binge watching everything

    • @ladysulevin
      @ladysulevin 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      i saw the tweet, thank you! i'm glad you enjoy the content <3

  • @TheRooster04
    @TheRooster04 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My joke answer is that Solas is a virgin My real answer (and bear in mind that I’ve never romanced Solas and tbh I don’t really intend to) is that they didn’t do it because Solas can’t bring himself to be intimate with someone that he’s actively lying to.

  • @morgandidomizio2333
    @morgandidomizio2333 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I actually have a third take, I think that they had "physical" relationship but only ever in the fade - hence it was never real. I don't think they boned in the waking world. More like... co-op wet dreams ? 😂 there's nothing to really back it up in game but I think since most of their intimate scenes take place in the fade and solas even says things are easier for him there. Clearly they both wanted each other and they were both very busy people so I think it makes sense that real physical intimacy would've been justifiably deprioritized. Good middle line between they did AND they didn't lol.

  • @LilBeaniebby
    @LilBeaniebby 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Honestly I feel theres the tension to be something more but, him hiding his true self was holding him back and he didn’t want to hurt Lavellan in the sense she was lied to about who he is (which kind of failed). But, with her knowing know now and him still being distance is what hurts her that she is willing to throw away everything for him/his love and he still doesn’t want to commit due to fear of rejection until he was ready. And I think everything he was planning was complete then he would try to come back for her.

    • @bunniewood
      @bunniewood 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      How? She and her world would be dead?

  • @winterrose747
    @winterrose747 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm team they didn't what it's make their relationship even more tragic. There is longing, there is physical attraction, passion but their bond is deeper than that.

  • @littlestarshepherd
    @littlestarshepherd 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm still 50/50 on it and can't decide for the life of me, even 9 years later, and it's eating at me because I have fanfiction tl write ffs!! 😭

  • @missbunnypaints7743
    @missbunnypaints7743 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There are several ways to interpret their dialogues, especially in trespasser. I firmly believe they did not lay together, it makes the romance remiscient of l'amour courtois. A form of platonic love and adoration that is to its purest shape in old literature. Perhaps it could have become intimate, although Solas renounced Lavellan. Sera even taunts Solas in one banter towards this, to which you can laugh it off or get offended.

  • @chrisperry4014
    @chrisperry4014 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “Aww he so fine and sweet!!” My gf: “MF CALL ME A SIDE BENEFIT ONE MORE TIME” 😂

  • @Sephirothisbae
    @Sephirothisbae 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Freaking stupid solas lol he just needs to go live happily ever after with my lavellan lmaooo😭

  • @annaandrzejewska-godecka8498
    @annaandrzejewska-godecka8498 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm really curious if there will be a question about the romance in the Inquisition when we choose the options at the beginning of the game. If so, when my Inquisitor meets Solas I'll drown in tears. Just as I'm waiting for the theory to be explained, I'm waiting for this moment. 10 years ;) This romance is perfect. There's an incredible amount of emotion here. I don't think we even need it if something more happened or not. I've always interpreted this dialogue in Tresspasser as something more happening. That was my first thought. And that's how it stayed :)

  • @DanteMaddox
    @DanteMaddox 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello hello, I love Solas as a companion and hope that my first playthrough is from the standpoint of redemption, but I've only romanced him once. Since there is already at least one child at play, it's super awesome that that could be possible even if it isn't likely. My favorite romance is Josie, but now I have to find the video that explains that part of the game. My biggest concern is Varric, I'm really worried Thedas' greatest storyteller is going to need to be avenged.

  • @ladysulevin
    @ladysulevin 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Okay, I did some reading and I know what a High Keeper is now: "Dating back to the period of the elven Dales, when the Keepers were not leaders and guides for individual clans but rather priests who served as archivists and magical scholars, these robes belonged to the High Keeper for the largest temple of old Halamshiral, dedicated to Elgar'nan the All-Father and Eldest of the Sun." - item description for 'Robes of the High Keeper' It seems they were high priests who sat in residence of the temple of the god they worshipped during the time of Halamshiral and the Dales. If June had one, and Elgar'nan had one (along with temples) - we can presume that all of the gods had a High Keeper, and probably a temple somewhere.

  • @jordanthomas5635
    @jordanthomas5635 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nope. Pretty sure they conclusively said this in Trespasser because Solas thought it was taking advantage. I'm tempted to reconcile them as Rook (after a lot of telling Solas off) just to wingman Lavellan

  • @jigenmajo
    @jigenmajo 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i see solavellan i click

  • @iconicweirdguy8678
    @iconicweirdguy8678 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I replayed the entirety of the Dragon Age series for Veilguard, and this was the first time I romanced Solas, I went from not caring about him to being obsessed

  • @dakotalange2858
    @dakotalange2858 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The Inquisitors serving man Solas! Just makes me laugh in that let’s just say he told Lavellan and she accepted him there is no one that can match him, no matter what they’ve accomplished no matter their title duke empress etc. He is fen’harel an elven “god”

  • @JNK-k6v
    @JNK-k6v 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this analysis ❤️ both are valid, but I prefer that they didn't get there yet, for the same reasons. Very hopeful for Veilguard 🙏

  • @OfficiallyJewls
    @OfficiallyJewls 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Honestly, it's really hard to tell even with some of the implications, but I guess that's one of the reasons why it makes it an amazing romance. You can interpret what Solas and Lavellan are up to and decide for yourself whether or not they've enjoyed each other's company in a physical way or not. I don't think it really matters to a lot of us since the tragedy and the hope of this romance is all that matters. The yearning between these two just gives us enough heartbreak and angst to fuel a steam engine Imo, they probably have never done it, probably just makeout sessions since I think that'd be a good way to reference all the times they got into bed together, however, this is just my own interpretation! I also believe they will get their happy ending, one way of another. I'm just that type of person, though. I much prefer angst with a happy ending than a bad one haha Great videa, Lady Sulevin! I'm sure there's gonna be tons of comments in here by the time the game comes out

  • @inunashi4795
    @inunashi4795 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Solavllan Hell is so hard to go trough, I love so much that they make you decide if you did it or not, and I understand that since he is in fact lying to you all along, it could really hurt the player or triggers them to actually think they got used and put to trash. It was really smart for the writer to do so. I was suffering 9 years ago from solavellan Hell, and recently for veilguard I go right back in it, I hope so much there will be an happy ending for those 2, I needed it so bad T.T Oh and, in my heart, they did it =P

  • @AndersWatches
    @AndersWatches 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really don’t understand why sex apparently erases wholesomeness or innocence in the minds of so many people. I don’t like what that implies.

    • @pativi6643
      @pativi6643 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree, generally. Of course sex/making love with someone you love is one of the most intimate ways you can connect with your partner, in my eyes it only makes the relationship stronger/more intimate/more vulnerable. I think the main issue with Solas and Lavellan having sex taking away from the relationship would be about how much he lies/avoids talking about. He is the Fen'harel and thousand of years old. He caused the explosion in the conclave delibaretely to cause chaos, and a lot of people died there, some important to the Inquisition members - like divine Justinia, or Cassandra's lover. He subtly raised Lavellan to the position of the Inquisitor. The mark that caused her pains, that could eventually kill her, the one that will make her lose her hand is of his origin, his fault. He is lying about using the whole organization to his own ends, to fix the mess he caused. He is omitting his plans - the fact that the world Lavellan loves, and people she cares about will "end" and "be destroyed" whatever the hell that means, he was always so vague to her, even in the Trespasser. By the time Crestwood happens Lavellan implies that she doesn't even know how to call them, what are they? This is why Solas brought her there, to tell her the truth about everything, see if she would accept him, and cement the relationship.

    • @AndersWatches
      @AndersWatches 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@pativi6643 I don’t dispute any of that, nor do I have skin in the solavellan race, my issue is solely with the implications surrounding sex in general, because those attitudes contribute to harmful stigma in the real world and it matters how we talk about such things.

    • @carlyofearth
      @carlyofearth 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      yeah it's not a healthy way to view sex

  • @irregularpearl08
    @irregularpearl08 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've definitely seen people interpret the trespasser line "I wouldn't lay with you under false pretenses" as he wouldn't sleep with you while deceiving you therefore nothing happened. My personal opinion is based on the writers intention, and I feel like they purposefully wrote it so that either could be true. My inky definitely banged though.

  • @annaleft
    @annaleft 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “They didn’t do it even though they said they did it which is a whole headache if you’re trying to analyze the scene.” ??? what? they say they did it so they probably did off screen in the fade. is that what you mean? like it doesn’t count bc they did it in the fade?

  • @michellek1977
    @michellek1977 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I, personally, am on team They Didn't. I imagine they may have had stolen moments of intimacy, but I don't believe Solas would have let it progress to full consummation, for lack of a better term. I do find it fascinating that many understood the Trespasser scene as an acknowledgement that they did, in fact, have all out sex because my read of it was always that he was insisting he did not and would not lay with her unless she knew the truth. All of it. I think you did a fair job of explaining the reasoning behind those who see it as an admission of his love being genuine, so much so that it wasn't a violation of trust, so well done you! Consent is such an important matter to me. I will always love that Trick took the steps to give we, the players, the agency to decide what we would or would not have seen as a lack of consent in this matter. It turned something potentially distasteful to me into something nuanced and well written. In fact, iirc, I didn't romance Solas until after Trespasser dropped, because I heard about the dialogue and felt so relieved by its addition that I felt comfortable enough to play through the game, Solavellan style, lol. It is not my canon Inquisition run - or, well, as close as I get to them anyway - despite The Iron Bull being my all time favorite LI. (Don't come after me, Solas is a VERY close second!!!) It's why, heading into DAV, I'll be going with a Solavellan Inquisitor and not a Bull Rider: I am 100% satisfied with my IB runs. Whereas there is still so much more need for closure - good or bad (good, I hope, please BW!) - with Solavellan. And no, that doesn't mean I think this Romance should get all of BW's attention or that I feel any other Inquisitor choice is invalid, an argument flung about more times than I can count. It simply means I have an ongoing emotional investment in my Solas romancing Lavellan that I don't have with my other Inqs, Hawkes or HoF's, with whom I feel satisfied and happy with their conclusions and only peripheral mention in proceeding games.

  • @LisaLynnsTavern
    @LisaLynnsTavern 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so here for the Solavellan content! I'm on the ''they didn't'' side as well. I think it emphasises the depth of their connection/relationship, and how they feel about each other, all the more. Similar to what you said in the video, in my headcanon their relationship isn't about the physical intimacy part, it goes deeper than that. It's about the personal, emotional connection that they have. They understand each other on a level that no one else does and they know that they love each other. The kisses and the flirting implies that it could've gone further than that, but I believe that they didn't need it to go further, and that the Solavellan romance not having a ''physical'' scene makes the tradegy of it all the more impactful since the emphasis (at least, to me) is on their emotional connection.

  • @TeroTheShortOne
    @TeroTheShortOne 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm solidly on Team Bed(ded) Wolf because Solas is all about wordplay, so 'not laying with you under false pretenses' to me meant he wasn't lying to my Inquisitor just to sleep with her, he truly loves/loved her. However, I am also solidly on "Everyone's headcanon about it is the correct interpretation for them", and I find the near-obsession that some Solavellans have with making their headcanon the 'correct' headcanon a bit disturbing.

    • @ladysulevin
      @ladysulevin 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      "bed(dread) wolf" - but yeah, some people take this way too seriously (along with other things in this fandom).