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36:00 a unifying “religion” for all people is not ever going to work. Even if it’s Christian. I will provide your opposition here. There are many exclusive/ranks/social clubs/biases that we divide ourselves amongst. I’d be hard pressed to believe most people will be unified like that unless you give them a story of liberation. Kinda like daenerys did in Game of thrones. A very hyper feminine Queen who liberates by encouraging the oppressed. Now that’s Mother 👩

Your 32:00-33:30 point of view is very feminine. You’ll be a very good mother in that way. Could you consider that you are underestimating your female nature? I don’t think you would “run” wild. Maybe you were always meant to find Oneness both with nature and the receiving of “God”

Eve reveled in her sin and that made Adam find pleasure in life. Husbands in long term marriages that are sexless may be unhappy. His wife just doesn’t revel in the sin of sex.

It was “short sighted” as you due to the cruelties of resources and a life span. We have a very rosy view now about what it’s like to be a retired old person. My “vacations”. My “time shares”. My “old life”. You have to understand that the applicable vision of the Bible was “futuristic/idealistic/romantic/enlightenment” but it was applied in the immediacy of their century. People adapted over the centuries to their new version of Christianity which was primitive. The person born 2000 years ago. How much in common would you have with them if they were to be alive today? How primitive are we even today in comparison to the next 30 years??

15:00 very Glinda of you lol if you’ve seen wicked!

God is good. People who claim to be Christians or claim God tend to fall short of living in the compassion of God. We are made in the image of God they said. Well their God is not the compassionate God. Their God is a reflection of them.

Are you still interested in this same topic of conversation a year later?

Your guy is gonna be a grumpy grandpa! 😂😂 rick much???

I once called a coworker nurse “neurotic”. In time I realize she has reasons to be. She was going through a lot with son. Mothers have a lot on their plate.

Idk if y’all are a couple but y’all are really cute smiling together Ok “relationship”. I heard.

I think they broke up. 😢

I'm so curious as to whether or not they still together. She hasn't posted in over a year, and that makes me wonder if she's doing that thing that we do where we disheartening from the world to figure things out. Love and light to then both, I know full well how it is to have a balance between these though they are believed to be compatible 💛

i think you had the amount of empathy god required of you at the time

Was that an orb at about 1 minute in? If yes, did you see it in the monitor or in your room? You waved at it. Either way thanks

4:38 amazing alliteration 😌

20:04 ✅ She literally sounds like me. I've come to the conclusion that the bic cristal blue pens are the best for everyday writing and signatures, and so I keep one at work, at home, in my pockets, at the office, in the car. 😂 only wear certain brands for shoes, socks, pants, etc.... it doesn't help that she's soft-spoken, thorough, simple, conscientious, and gorgeous. 21:55 this part reminds me of superheroes whose superpower is extracting and infusing other heroes superpowers. Ours is attempting to comprehend others but to also summarize and file away that understanding as a template for future interactions and analyses.

Thanks for your awesome video. You are TOTALLY on point! For me the "INFJ Stare" is what I compare to the word "Grok" from Robert A. Heinlein's Sci-Fi book "Stranger in a Strange Land". To grok is to intuitively/empathize/understand so deeply with others that you merge or blend with them. The simplest way to think of grok is as truly, deeply understanding someone or something based on observation or interaction. While engaging (or observing) you are literally slicing through the layers, connecting anything and everything, to find and define the core issue/problem/solution.

thank you so much, this resonates so deeply withe me. 1. I can't lie, it makes me physically and mentally uncomfortable. absolute integrity, I won't be able to deviate even if I tried to, so I proactively avoid getting myself in such situations. 2. I too feel the other person's pain as if it was my own, it's overwhelming and makes me cry too. 3. also I'm almost always trying to create a coherent world view, a play or story that explains everything. simplifying and organizing all that I know into one neat picture where everything is connected. thank you so much for sharing.

summery: 14:20 college major 1. nonlinear jumps in convos 2. too much empathy 3. hate lying 4. work best alone 5. like to simplify things (bc to much details overwhelm us 6. Infj stare

I can relate to only using one type of pen. I used to write every morning and after using a variety of pens, I only use black Bic pens, and have done so for years.

i’ve been binging your videos for a week because i feel so seen and understood from an infj perspective such as yours, and your videos have just brought me a lot of comfort and a sense of clarity. with that being said, i cant comprehend how people in this comment section can be so superficial & shallow to only care about how they perceive the mbti system and what it looks to them. i think if every intj / infj looked & acted the same as others, it would be a boring world, which isn’t the case. so um i guess what i’m trying to say is that all comments about ‘he is this’ ‘she is that’ are STUPID. anyway, if you ever happen to be reading this, i hope you’re doing well & understanding yourself to a deeper level & trying to be more self-compassionate and i hope that you just keep in mind that people on the internet are just a bunch of incels who want to feel different & unique and need some sort of validation and individualization to overcompensate for their lack of self-esteem. anyway, happy friday .

I love this video. I've been very sheltered in life. As a 43 year old male INFJ i finally have time to finally self reflect life. These video by far help me to understand myself. I've always been obsessed with other peoples thoughts. I find myself constantly curious about the person next to me. I feel like if I were to have been educated more on BAD personality types I would've been able to avoid my narcissisticly abused history I've unfortunately had to endure. It's only fed my thirst for more knowlege on personality disorders. Anyhow, I'll shut up now. 😅

When i get upset with someone, as an INFJ, i find it very hard to forgive in that moment that I have raging in anger and my mind plays a whole movie of what life would be like if I doorslam them, then i almost get consumed by these strong emotions as a result of those thoughts. I really hate that about myself, like i cant handle conflict, it drives me absolutely crazy. Anyone other infj struggle with this??

This is so meee

Humans were designed to be opposed, yes! <3 This is part of why humans are meant to be in authentic community with each other and this opposition is part of a tradition of Christians living in intentional community/monastic communities as a calling. Being in close community with others gives us the opportunity to actually see ourselves and our subjectivity, as well as how other people do things, how reasonable they are given what they have been through (if we have the curiosity and humility to believe that and engage others in good faith). We can only learn about God/Ultimate Reality by constantly engaging and having good faith in the wisdom of the "Other" (both the human and non-human other) and being open and influenced by them while staying in our own subjectivity. We can't know God/the Divine on our own, even when we think we are being intellectual, because we are inherently subjective beings. (This is why I have a huge distrust of intellectuals who are emotionally unavailable and lack self-awareness). Embracing our subjectivity is the beginning of empathy and humility. We can trust and love our subjectivity WHILE really loving the subjectivity of others. Dangerous or misleading INFJs are not able to accept our subjective perspective, cannot accept truth in others, and can end up being cult leaders who believe in own goodness. We basically block out our SE and TI and make our NI the only function we use, treating our NI perceptions as objective, ultimate reality, rendering us narcissistic and unempathetic. Scary stuff.

just make sure you dont buy into the infj compatibilities and have discernments most things are actually lies and you will reach your infj god given purpose. also dont get too attach in mbti let your identity be in christ he will grant you more wisdom.

34:34 This part is so cute. ❤ Wishing you two so much love and laughter.

Especially the stare most people say it's like I am seeing through them but mostly it's because I am actually thinking about something...

You're the exact type of INFJ in all those things damn...

As an INFJ I absolutely suffer with the using toilets in public without buying something first...

Hahahahaaa ohhh thank goodness for LABELS else how would the herd know who they ARE ??!!

Buying something at McDonald or another bar just to use the toilet is something that, as INFJ, I also always do. I would feel too bad if I didn't do that.

Hey Katie I came back to this video after years to tell you that you have very high chances of being gifted. I'm also an infj and I remember identifying to everything you said here, and I still do. Turns out I did a test with a specialized professional and I got diagnosed as gifted a couple of months ago. I'm not good at math or logical stuff, but I can feel people's feelings as they were my own and have very good intuition. Giftedness can manifest in many different ways, you can read about it in the book "Your Rainforest Mind" by Paula Prober if you are interested.

you look similar to this person th-cam.com/video/VTo6UO1crPQ/w-d-xo.html

Recently I discovered who I am I, felt the same as an infp but I am stubborn and fucking addicted to getting things done! Being a male INFJ 4w5 its hard actually. My feminine side is always to comfort for others but not for me.

Im an INFJ responding to ur hypothetical question :) . I feel like the "vision" is a gift you can't really develop over time, you just sort of have it or you dont. For the logic part, I do think it can be strengthened with effort and practice. I also think that you are right about being around different types. It strengthens our skills and helps us know when to pull them out, because we learn by watching what they do best lol. In the INTJ's case, being around them is a reminder to stick to the damn facts on the paper. ESFPs remind us to chill the hell out and choose happiness lol. Sometimes I feel like a human sponge, just soaking up things other ppl are doing.. but it definitely helps me learn + grow

Exactly

It feels so unrealistic to think that there will be a somebody who enjoys deep conversation, or who understands that crowds are overwhelming, or who understands that " being in your own mind" is very deeply enjoyable. Feelings everything is tough. I hope things are going well for you.

you could also be an enneagram 1

I really enjoyed watching both of you talking(it is not my first time watching the whole video 😅). I hope you make more videos like that or just discuss some ideas with each other ), It is gonna be so inspiring. 🤩 Wish you both all the best 💌

Thanks for sharing this video - I think it was really brave to be this honest and vulnerable on the internet with strangers, and it came from a really sweet place. I hope your journey has taken you to good places in the years since you posted this.

He's 1% agreeableness which means he is a gangster he walked through life as a gangster

You disappeared! This is the only video I found on two types,and well my combination didn't work out that well. Can you update us? INTJ really messed me up lol, I had a feeling he liked me until he didn't. I was told we,as INFJ's are very critical and judging but oh boy,but if thats so - then you haven't met INTJ. Cold,just dgaf attitude.

I'm INFJ Male and this was hilarious. You get to the pen part and I'm going "Oh no, here it comes. She's a G2 girl." And I'll be damned, I knew it. I've done the same and have been through them all and used G2 as my go to as well for years. And then one day by chance I discovered the InkJoy and I knew I had discovered the holy grail. Went out and purchased every last one I could find.

Dear Katie, 5 years late but (I've seen other infjs in real life and many infjs in youtube and we all have so so much in common BUT) you are the first ever person in my life that is so extremely identical to me in some invisible ways that I cannot show but just feel. It's incredible! Shocking, amazing and scary at the same time! 😅 (Infj girl here, 4w5) I wish there was a way for us to talk face to face so that I could study our similarities😂 ( you know very well our infjs' need to know and understand fully) Even that feeling in your first seconds of the video ("something tells you to do something, out of the blue, something strange and new and you don't understsnd the "why" but you KNOW you MUST follow that feeling and do it, cause you somehow know it is the right thing to do eventhough you have no idea why" .... I've had so many times in my life this feeling! And of course I've followed it too😊

Did y’all break up??? It says friendship now.

What a lovely person.

Hi Katie! im very inspired by your video. I appreciate your vulnerability with proposing and sharing a less popular view. I think it's so important for us to constantly ask ourselves if the way we are searching for truth and meaning is truly giving it to us? once we think we know the way to meaning, joy, and peace in our bodies, we try to share it with others. the current reality of religions and 'science' are an example how we are once again reminded that the unchecked minds of people run by their conditioning have hijacked the method which was once intended for good, and used it for evil. the only solution for belief in a higher power is to recognize that power within us. to be guided by someone who in our day and time, has harnessed that power within them to self actualize and to learn directly from them, as their student. i recognise this leadership quality in you. i appreciate you! also, this video shoukd have 50k views! i suspect if you took out the first pert of the title, the video would reach more people like me, and fewer who want to convert you lol

love this video...fellow INTJ here who cares about your health. Teflon pans are not safe regardless of if you scratch them or not. You can switch to stainless or cast iron, which will lessen the toxin load in your body. Its easy to adjust your cooking habits and heat your pan differently to prevent food from sticking :)

I feel this. 🙏🏻 (self preserver here)