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We can agree to disagree. I think they’re on the same side of the coin but acceptance goes a level higher than judgment. Acceptance means that you are at peace with the other person and thus release yourself of any expectations you may have on them. Whereas judgment, we can still not judge someone for their behaviour or actions but still not fully accept them.

The essence of a hope that such a world as hell or heaven exists when heaven and hell are already present on earth, and it is in our perspective in which we choose to see which world we are living in. I don’t much believe in those things because religion is used as a virtue to get away with doing sinful things. Such as priests fucking little alter boys, or the wars that are going on because of religion. In their perspective, god tells them to do such things. God is an entity that exists to give us hope and to appease our suffering. There is no factual evidence that such a god exists, it is solely through our own perception of the world. Nothing less and nothing more. I would rather be surrounded by people who are non-religious and act sinful than religious people who use religion as a virtue in order to get away with doing sinful things. We all do sinful things because we are human.

@@AnLittleAlex I want to help you to find the answer to true love. I was myself with no religion, but god has changed my ways two years ago and improved myself and the answer is the word itself. The bible is written in the perspective of god (he is love, father of truth and sin free) and this world is the result of broken trust and therefore broken faith in him. He told Adam and Eve not to eat from the tree, but they did because of this snake (father of lies, the devil) and did therefore the first sin of breaking their trust to god. Therefore the devil became the ruler of this world and the only thing he does is to tempt us into sin, so we disconnect more and more from god in our hearts until we end in hell. He trys to harden our hearts, so we cannot hear the quiet voice of god anymore, which you and many others might do. The result is war and other unholy things like these missguided priests, because of sin. Sin is vanity, greed, lust, gluttony, wrath, envy and sloth. You can see this in the world nowadays and maybe in the own way you currently think, if you reflect on yourself. In the bible it says that we are all sinners and to know this truth is harsh, but god made us an escape plan. We have to know Jesus and understand what he did for us. He defeated death (soul death). He did that, because he lived a life free of sin. There is proof he existed and he was born by a virgin. Because of his full faith in god, he died on the cross and even on that cross he said "...Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do..." (Luke 23:34 old King James Version Bible). He died literally for our sins and because he lived sin free he is now a flesh representation of god manifested in our hearts. If we accept, that we are sinners, confess our sins, accept Jesus in our hearts and repent, which means to turn from sin, the kingdom of god will come in our hearts day by day walking with him. This suffering would not exist, if we all would realize that and listen again to him and even help each other to understand what god wants from us individually. The enemy are not the people who walk with sin. The enemy is sin itself and the devil who tempts them in the first place to do so. I suffered a great deal in my life, but I understand more and more that this suffering was because of sin I did and others did to me. There is only one truth and that is to walk with god, the father of truth and suffer, because of this world, but experience true love, because of virtues and end in heaven, or follow the father of lies and get everything from the world, because of sin, but experience loneliness ending in hell. There is no inbetween and if you would read the Bible you might see that, if you allow god in, because you repent. This path is not easy with god, the path with the devil is. By The Way: The Bible has nothing to do with these priests, war and everything else, it is the perspective of a loving father in heaven that cannot change us, because of free will we have, but who wants to give us hope, so we do the righteous thing and walk the righteous path in truth.

Men also want to control women, this isn’t a gendered issue more of a human nature issue.

Accepting someone for who they are benefits yourself as much as the other person. That doesn’t mean you should tolerate a certain type of behaviour. You can accept someone for who they are and let them go if they hurt your feelings. Once you let go of the attachment and expectations, you will feel at peace because you realize that you can never have control over anyone.

Thank you so much! I am doing the same thing. I like that a lot “the foolest” I’m going to use that one! :)

@@AnLittleAlex It's fair. You can use it and make it yours. ☺Cause all the words run free and find a place of their own. Thank you for sharing...

That is very difficult and unfortunately very common in most modern relationships. We are taught to be codependent on our partners through social conditioning. Women especially, because they used to depend on men to take care of them financially. So women by nature are more prone to sacrificing themselves for the sake of keeping a man. It’s almost in nature. People sometimes don’t know any better and aren’t capable of looking deeper into their subconscious. If they choose to stay the same, and they choose to be that way, the best you can do for your own sanity is accept them as they are or let them go.

@@AnLittleAlex Thanks for the wise words 🙏

Ah yes, I am familiar with all the types of love.! What I am speaking about is agape love shown through the form of romantic relationships - eros as you will. Eros in essence is ruled by sex, passion and control, whereas agape lets go of all of those ego-centric desires and looks deeper into a spiritual sense. By finding an unconditional love for all, you find love for yourself, and to love is to simply exist. It’s all a journey, and it’s interesting to dive into what the world perceives love to be, as it is different for each person.

Indeed. I’ve been very lucky to have been raised by parents who gave me total freedom in all aspects in life. It has provided me with a very different perspective. Thanks for sharing :)

Yes you are totally right. I don’t think it’s fully possible for most humans to be totally free from their ego’s. Everything you said is spot on how I feel. Thanks for sharing.

@@AnLittleAlex No problem. I've since watched a few other of your videos. You seem like a very deeply feeling and introspective person. The older I get, the more I really admire those qualities in people. Thanks for having the courage to be your authentic self here on TH-cam.

Totally same for me. I don’t even get angry anymore, don’t even know if that’s a good or bad thing 😂

​@AnLittleAlex I'd say that's more of a good thing lol. I was your 500th sub, by the way. I should've screen captured it so I could look back at it when your channel blows up.

@@duketogo1372 I’m flattered! I don’t know about blowing up though, I guess we will see :) I’m just having fun for now !

​@@AnLittleAlex Keeping my fingers crossed that you will 😊

Your video got me in trouble earlier. I accidentally streamed this vid from my phone to my family's TV while they were watching a series lmao

I think that’s why children grow up resentful for their parents and why relationships go awry- the mere though that we know better than the other person so much so that we need to control them. By control I don’t mean making decisions because their definition varies in intensity. Love, true love, is simply in existence and the acceptance of it for what it is

I wish but I am definitely not that athletic 🤣 maybe one day

​@AnLittleAlex I loved how you took a couple of steps up the tree before realizing "Nope, that's enough" 😂

@@duketogo1372 😂😂😂

I’ve also went through a spiritual experience not long ago that made me develop a deep love for life and appreciation for living. Almost like a sensitivity to life, like I could feel love and joy in everything that I do. But also, I still harbour a lot of past conditionings that I’m working hard on getting rid of, like the need for perfection.

Yep yep!

Thank you 😅

Totally agree! And thank you:)

Definitely. And because of a lot of trends popping up on the internet like redpill ideologies or woke feminism, it makes romantic relationships incredibly difficult. You hit the nail on the head with that. People are desperate and lonely, people are perfectionists, people want things but don’t know why they want them.

Some people are like that, it’s tough because you just have to accept that that person just sees things differently. We all see life based on our perception. I also see a lot of potential in people and I try to help them reach that potential but some people aren’t open to changing or don’t have this need or desire to self reflect. It is what it is

Some people are like that, it’s tough because you just have to accept that that person just sees things differently. We all see life based on our perception so it’s hard to be able to convince someone that your perception is better than theirs. I also see a lot of potential in people and I try to help them reach that potential but some people aren’t open to changing or don’t have this need or desire to self reflect.

You’re not the first one to tell me that haha, thank you!

Totally! I definitely agree with everything you just said. Love in its purest form is joy, simply love for all. It can take a whole lifetime to detach from one’s ego in that way.

@@AnLittleAlex I don't think you can detach from ego. You need to accept it and just be aware of it. It doesn't necessarily need to take a lifetime to do any of this, just a life situation or many over time that open your eyes.

@@shawngoral3987 You are right, although by detach I mean to look at it from an observational point of view not in a way to get rid of it because that’s impossible. Unfortunately sometimes no matter the situations people face, they are incapable of becoming aware of the ego.

Ego and awareness of it would be a great topic to explore. Ego is so complex, clever, and contradictory. The lengths it goes to just to survive and yet still puts itself in dire situations that ultimately kills/damages itself or the person.

Human beings are hypocritical by nature. It’s because of the ego that only thinks about itself and how to tame the world around them to suit their fears. That’s why self reflection is critical. A great example is how right now, the red pill community has indoctrinated this belief that men should be allowed to sleep around in relationships whilst women are not because it would be considered disgusting.

It’s honestly crazy ! Haha