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One More Time - Paul Mallory
One More Time - An Original Song by Paul Mallory
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The Undiscovered Country - Paul Mallory
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The Undiscovered Country - An Original Song by Paul Mallory
It's Always California In My Heart - Paul Mallory
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It's Always California In My Heart - An Original Song By Paul Mallory
Rooftops of Amsterdam - Paul Mallory
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Rooftops of Amsterdam - an Original Song by Paul Mallory
The Straight Line of Life
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What do we yearn for in life? A straight line or a journey of discovery?
Finding Fullness in Life
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How do we find fullness in life, in an ever-changing, fast paced world?
How To Help Prevent Suicides
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Ahead of Suicide Prevention Day, Paul Mallory of The Thrive Tribe speaks about how we can do our part and help prevent suicides with Maria from Future Me Gloucestershire... They also discuss how you can connect with Samaritans and what to do if you are having suicidal thoughts... CALL Samaritans FREE 24/7 on - 116 123 Or EMAIL - jo@samaritans.org The Thrive Tribe was created to allow people to ...
Your next steps to your Thrive Life!
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An exciting announcement from Paul Mallory on how you can take your next steps to thriving, and help to expand the Thrive Tribe! The book is available on Amazon here: www.amazon.co.uk/Five-Essential-Elements-Meaningful-Life-ebook/dp/B08V5C31PW The online training is available on Udemy here: www.udemy.com/course/the-5-essential-elements-to-living-a-more-meaningful-life
Who is making your decisions? You are being influenced!
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Book review: 'Influence - the Psychology of Persuasion' by Robert Cialdini Ph.D. In this book review, Paul Mallory discusses Cialdini's research into how our behaviour and decision making is influenced every day of our lives unconsciously. Others are getting you to act! Find out how to reclaim the power of individual conscious choice!
Mindfulness - explanation and demonstration
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How can we be more calm, peaceful and effective in the world? Mindfulness helps us to come into the present moment, tame our speeding thinking and become more effective in using our thinking as a tool. In this video, Paul explains what mindfulness is, the benefits of it, and then gives a short demonstration of how to achieve it in practice.
Moving Beyond Depression
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Mental health and wellbeing is one of the biggest challenges facing us today. We can all learn to become more skilful at using our 'higher thinking' to counter-balance our 'lower thinking' (automatic thoughts). This is a life skill, for those who want to be more peaceful, focused and effective, as well as for those who want to do something about their feelings of depression. This video shares r...
Book Review: 'Mindset' by Dr. Carol S. Dweck
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In the second of this new series, Paul Mallory of The Thrive Tribe goes through the books that have helped him to make the transformation to living life as a thriver rather than merely surviving... 'Mindset: changing the way you think to fulfil your potential' is a book by Dr Carol S. Dweck, Professor of Psychology at Stanford University. The book empowers us by understanding that we can consci...
Review of The Power of Now Book - Eckhart Tolle
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In this brand new series, Paul Mallory of The Thrive Tribe goes through the books that have helped him to make the transformation to living life as a thriver rather than merely surviving... The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment is a book by Eckhart Tolle. The book is intended to be a guide for day-to-day living and stresses the importance of living in the present moment and trans...
Simple Steps to Increase Mental Wellbeing
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In this conversational video, Paul Mallory of The Thrive Tribe carries on the discussion of simple steps to improve mental wellbeing... The Thrive Tribe was created to allow people to become more enlightened on the options they have to make small changes to achieve a thriving life, not merely surviving...
Positive Action For A Better Wellbeing
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In this conversational video, Paul Mallory of The Thrive Tribe carries on the discussion of increasing energy in order to take better action for wellbeing... The Thrive Tribe was created to allow people to become more enlightened on the options they have to make small changes to achieve a thriving life, not merely surviving...
How Do I Increase My Energy and Take Action
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How Do I Increase My Energy and Take Action
How To Positively Improve Your State of Mind
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How To Positively Improve Your State of Mind
Wellbeing in Difficult Times
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Wellbeing in Difficult Times
Learning The Skill of Resilience
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Learning The Skill of Resilience
How To Stop Worrying
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How To Stop Worrying
Taking A Holistic Approach To Wellbeing
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Taking A Holistic Approach To Wellbeing
Building Businesses During A Pandemic!
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Building Businesses During A Pandemic!
Dealing with Uncertainty
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Dealing with Uncertainty
Using Veganism for Energy and Recovery
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Using Veganism for Energy and Recovery
What Is Your Sustainability Strategy?
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What Is Your Sustainability Strategy?
The Key to Wellbeing
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The Key to Wellbeing
How To Be A Great Storyteller!
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How To Be A Great Storyteller!
What Is Thriving?
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What Is Thriving?
Do We Live in A World of Illusions of Our Own Creation?
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Do We Live in A World of Illusions of Our Own Creation?
What Does Living A Meaningful Experience Mean?
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What Does Living A Meaningful Experience Mean?

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  • @jojoashley7260
    @jojoashley7260 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wasn't expecting this Paul, I thought it was going to be a collage! Thank you for sharing and great sound

  • @Panacea9
    @Panacea9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    * Thinking Modified is a positive thing sometimes. Mostly if you can see the differences or see them quickly after. Something quite the opposite. When you can't, it is horror. From view today and through memory and what I could see. I was being given drugs from everyone from Hasam, Tomad even, Fren/Ma/David,James,(rarely Jack and Jo's dad) and Andy. I was always modified in someway for the most part. My mental abilities seemed to diminish but I was still able to get through the day somehow. Andy while it looked like he was just getting destroyed by others, was a success in a lot of ways in that he made the field, whether inadvertently or not very quickly with travel and social means. He got a giant view of the world and peoples views and habits and tactics from multiple countries. China explained all their tactics as did the USA and NL, and Russia etc.. It is a ridiculous thing to get. He was very pushy in other countries with kills and to most even at that level, it would look like he was being a bully to them because most people did find out about nukes so they backed from escalating against Canada in a frontal force method. Why Fren would attack Andy and Myself. Andy made the scene and got most people's tactics. At least those that were impactful. This couldn't get out or be clear. It was said about me that he thought I could drive and attack as I could push on a gun "it is one thing to pull on a gun, pulling a nuke is world changing" No one wanted that type of driver. Andy for some reason connected with me on supporting those types of decisions, because I was naturally thoughtful about it. I had pushback where others wouldn't and that can be a positive thing all though frustrating and seemingly undermining as it avoids quick decisions that would cost long term mental and affect the ability to perform in combat such as you have been. He was seen as a driver in combat. They were giving Andy script to think through and a lot of the time you can't see it or outfeel it when certain mediciations are being used. David did give Fren his knowledge of pharmacy and China had been doing tests at home using this medication on people. I can't see so I don't have the answer as to what happened or how things changed. I am unsure if Andy is aggressive with another friend or himself on that level again or has the drive to do it as I have been disconnected for decades. I don't have answers, I can only provide this.

  • @katkat8215
    @katkat8215 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a language! 😅

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 ปีที่แล้ว

      In a good way, I hope! Thanks for listening, and for commenting. Best wishes, Paul

  • @kerriraluna5416
    @kerriraluna5416 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for sending me this link David, very informative

  • @evamyhrer
    @evamyhrer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You for this beautiful conversation. We should talk with each other more like this! Again 1000 tanks <3

  • @adeebshah32
    @adeebshah32 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Adeeb, much appreciated! Paul

  • @georgelaney243
    @georgelaney243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done again, another tough subject to focus on... ❤️

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you George, glad to have your comment. Best wishes, Paul

  • @jojoashley7260
    @jojoashley7260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful to see you again Paul, thank you I wsnt aware of the day this week!

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Jo Jo! That's kind of you. Best wishes, Paul

  • @hartsutton
    @hartsutton 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant!!!

  • @ajmarr5671
    @ajmarr5671 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A novel procedure for converting mindful states into ‘flow’ states (and explaining them too), quickly refutable with a good swift kick! The ideal for any scientist with a great idea is to be able to explain it in a minute, and to confirm or falsify it as quickly. The world record for this arguably goes to the English philosopher Samuel Johnson, who rejected Archbishop Berkeley’s argument that material things only exist in one’s mind by striking his foot against a large stone while proclaiming, “I refute it thusly!” Here is a similarly novel and useful idea that converts mindfulness states into pleasurable and productive ‘flow’ states that can be confirmed or refuted with a proverbial swift kick, and can also be easily explained through affective neuroscience (links below). Summary Endogenous opioids are induced when we eat, drink, have sex, and relax, and are responsible for our pleasures. Opioid activity however is not static, but labile, or changeable. When elicited, opioid release is always modulated by concurrently perceived novel act-outcome expectancies which may range from negative to positive. If they are negative (e.g. a spate of bad news or bad implications of our behavior), opioid activity is suppressed and our pleasures are reduced (anhedonia), but if they are positive, then opioid activity is enhanced and our pleasures are accentuated as well (peak experience, ‘flow’). This is due to dopamine-opioid interactions, or the fact that act-outcome discrepancy, or positive or negative surprises, can induce or suppress dopaminergic activity, which in turn can enhance or suppress opioid release. This can be demonstrated procedurally, and if correct, can provide a therapeutic tool to increase arousal and pleasure, or positive wellbeing. Basic Facts: Endogenous opioids are induced when we eat, drink, have sex, and relax. Their affective correlate, or how it ‘feels’, is a sense of pleasure. Fun Fact: When we are concurrently perceiving some activity that has a variable and unexpected rate of reward while consuming something pleasurable, opioid activity increases and with it a higher sense of pleasure. In other words, popcorn tastes better when we are watching an exciting movie than when we are watching paint dry. The same effect occurs when we are performing highly variable rewarding or meaningful activity (creating art, doing good deeds, doing productive work) while in a pleasurable relaxed state. (Meaning would be defined as behavior that has branching novel positive implications). This is commonly referred to as ‘flow’ or ‘peak’ experience. The same phenomenon underscores the placebo effect, which describes how expectancies can increase dopamine and opioid activity, such as when a meal is tastier or a sugar pill reduces pain when we anticipate they will. So why does this occur? Dopamine-Opioid interactions: or the fact that dopamine activity (elicited by positive novel events, and responsible for a state of arousal, but not pleasure) interacts with our pleasures (as reflected by mid brain opioid systems), and can actually stimulate opioid release, which is reflected in self-reports of greater pleasure. Proof (or kicking the stone): Just get relaxed using a relaxation protocol such as progressive muscle relaxation, eyes closed rest, or mindfulness, and then follow it by exclusively attending to or performing meaningful activity, and avoiding all meaningless activity or ‘distraction’. Keep it up and you will not only stay relaxed, but continue so with a greater sense of wellbeing or pleasure. (In other words, this is a procedural bridge between mindful and ‘flow’ experiences that are not unique psychological ‘states’, but merely represent special aspects of resting states.) The attribution of affective value to meaningful behavior makes the latter seem ‘autotelic’, or reinforcing in itself, and the resultant persistent attention to meaning crowds out the occasions we might have spent dwelling on other meaningless worries and concerns. A Likely Explanation, as if you need one! A more formal explanation from a neurologically based learning theory of this technique is provided on pp. 44-51 in a little open-source book on the psychology of rest linked below. (The flow experience discussed on pp. 81-86.) The book is based on the work of the distinguished affective neuroscientist Kent Berridge, who was kind to review for accuracy and endorse the work. From meditation to flow Affect in rest is labile, or changeable, and rest (i.e. the general deactivation of the covert musculature) is not an inert and non-affective state, but modulates affective systems in the brain. In addition, the degree of the modulation of pleasurable affect induced by rest is not dependent upon a species of attention (focal meditation, mindfulness meditation), but is ‘schedule dependent’, and correlates with the variability of schedules or contingencies of reward and the discriminative aspects of incentives (i.e. their cognitive implications). In other words, sustained meaningful activity or the anticipation of acting meaningfully during resting states increases the affective ‘tone’ or value of that behavior, thus making productive work ‘autotelic’, or rewarding in itself, and providing a consistent feeling of arousal and pleasure, or shall we say, ‘happiness’. References: Rauwolf, P., et al. (2021) Reward uncertainty - as a 'psychological salt'- can alter the sensory experience and consumption of high-value rewards in young healthy adults. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General (prepub) doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fxge0001029 Benedetti, F., et al(2011). How placebos change the patient's brain. Neuropsychopharmacology : official publication of the American College of Neuropsychopharmacology, 36(1), 339-354. www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3055515/ The Psychology of Rest www.scribd.com/doc/284056765/The-Book-of-Rest-The-Odd-Psychology-of-Doing-Nothing The Psychology of Incentive Motivation and Affect www.scribd.com/document/495438436/A-Mouse-s-Tale-a-practical-explanation-and-handbook-of-motivation-from-the-perspective-of-a-humble-creature Meditation and Rest, from International Journal of Stress Management, by this author www.scribd.com/doc/121345732/Relaxation-and-Muscular-Tension-A-bio-behavioristic-explanation Berridge Lab, University of Michigan sites.lsa.umich.edu/berridge-lab/

  • @genericwhitemale7028
    @genericwhitemale7028 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm gonna join your forum, I know I wanna thrive!

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad to have you on board! Best wishes, Paul

  • @trentonharvey1313
    @trentonharvey1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly, This video is very amazing and useful. Because all tips are very important for anyone. Thanks for sharing the name of your book.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your comment Trenton! Best wishes, Paul

  • @jawadahmad4862
    @jawadahmad4862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very informative and good motivating material. you are so intelligent person Thank you Paul

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bless you Jawad, thank you for your kind comment! Best wishes, Paul

  • @jawadahmad4862
    @jawadahmad4862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is very informative and thank you Paul. This is good advice.

  • @georgelaney243
    @georgelaney243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Paul, my biggest aha moment was going through the Using Time part in the videos. I would urge others to go through the video course

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Superb George, thanks for encouraging everyone to make use of the resources! Best wishes, Paul

  • @jamesbettes4015
    @jamesbettes4015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really Great Video! This is very good advice. You are very intelligent and smartly because your all tips are useful.This video motivates us in a positive way to improve our productivity.Thanks for sharing this Thrive Life video.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you James, you are very kind. I'm so glad you find these resources helpful. Best wishes, Paul

  • @kevingreene4399
    @kevingreene4399 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wanting more in life is why I subscribe to this channel. The book and training courses are very helpful.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great Kevin, thanks. Keep watching! Paul

  • @karmel1286
    @karmel1286 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the encouraging video.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the comment Kar Mel. Best wishes, Paul

  • @hilarydevan2218
    @hilarydevan2218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Paul, I am going through the free course now. Going through Money

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful Hilary! Enjoy! Best wishes, Paul

  • @petercourtney-fitch7043
    @petercourtney-fitch7043 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent Paul! Great to know there is a course on how to thrive in these challenging times.👍🏾

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your comment Peter! Best wishes, Paul

  • @jbird1777
    @jbird1777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really need to get this book! I want to know who is influencing my decisions for me. Thanks for the great videos!

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great comment, thank you jbird1777. Best wishes, Paul

  • @johnnybernachtez9261
    @johnnybernachtez9261 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting, I'd love to hear more on this subject, any other books or other material you would recommend?

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Johnny, thanks for your comment. I believe Cialdini himself has published another book called "Pre-suasion', though I haven't read that one, so can't comment. Most of the other relevant sources I can think of relate to how our brains fox us or help us, rather than persuasion/influence as such. I'm thinking of 'Blink' by Malcolm Gladwell or 'Thinking Fast and Slow' by Daniel Kahneman. If you do come across any other sources that build on Cialdini's work on how we're influenced, do let me know! Thanks, Paul

  • @stanheemmeijter2960
    @stanheemmeijter2960 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel it very much in the South African governments draconian agenda. But I can only focus on myself I suppose?

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Stan, Oxford University did a study of lockdown regimes globally, and UK was third strictest lockdown regime in the world, out of 180 countries! (Beaten only by Venezuela and Lebanon!). But I sympathise with you. These times are quite difficult for freedom-loving people. The way I deal with it, personally, is to try to remember that there are things over which I have no control and things over which I have some control. I have no control over the government and what it does. I have some control over where I choose to focus my attention and how I choose to respond to events. So what I try to do is to keep a sense of perspective; all things must pass, this current situation will too, as will this government, as will my life! So I try to focus on things that add meaning and purpose to my life, and try to carry on putting attention on those, no matter what obstacles and challenges life throws at me. It's not always easy, but I think it's the right strategy. What do you think? I wish you well. Best wishes, Paul

  • @andrewpearson2474
    @andrewpearson2474 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    very good video, I agree with you fully, thank you for taking the time to talk about this topic, I appreciate it very much

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your comment Andrew! Best wishes, Paul

  • @anabellegardner9361
    @anabellegardner9361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    good video, lately I have been influenced by my family to make decisions that sometimes I don't want. Your video was a great help to me

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Anabelle, I'm glad it helped! Best wishes, Paul

  • @karmel9919
    @karmel9919 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We all influenced. The question is do we realise that or not?

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed Kar Mel! There wouldn't be billions spent on advertising and PR if the people investing that money didn't have strong reasons to believe we would be influenced by it! Best wishes, Paul

  • @mildredw.nelson5564
    @mildredw.nelson5564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The information you provided is very useful to me, I subscribed to the channel. Many thanks for sharing.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome Mildred, I'm glad to have you on board as a subscriber! Best wishes, Paul

  • @desire8254
    @desire8254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Actually sometimes I'm influenced by other people. I've learned and thank you.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are most welcome. Thank you for your comment. Best wishes, Paul

  • @ralphripple9137
    @ralphripple9137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your video is really helpful and it's super easy to understand! Thanks for sharing with us.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Ralph, it's very kind of you to take the trouble to comment. Best wishes, Paul

  • @kevingreene4399
    @kevingreene4399 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Paul thanks for sharing the book information.. I find the study of compliance to be very interesting since I am attending school for marketing.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Kevin, as a student of marketing, I'm sure you are going to be learning how to influence people. Of course, there is nothing wrong with trying to persuade somebody that your product will help them by meeting their needs. Indeed, I would even suggest that Thrivers are people who want to persuade others that there is an art to living and that they might want to become Thrivers too. Then a question of personal values and ethics comes in; to what lengths are we willing to go to get that sale? Thrivers want the best for all concerned, so know where to draw the line ethically. And they are certainly alert to unconscious influence from those who hold a less virtuous value system! Best wishes, Paul

  • @carlclaments6428
    @carlclaments6428 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting video, with very useful information, I learned many tips to improve when making my decisions, thanks for your help.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great Carl, thank you so much for your kind comment. Best wishes, Paul

  • @georgelaney243
    @georgelaney243 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sheep mentality! Yet we aren't allowed to even protest right now. Not sure what else to do!!!

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel your frustration George! Protest is a form of communication, I'd say. It lets others know that we feel strongly about something. So while protesting is temporarily prohibited, maybe we can find other ways to communicate our views? (We live at a time when communication far and wide is more feasible than it has ever been in the whole of human history!). Best wishes, Paul

  • @petruaurelianirimia5364
    @petruaurelianirimia5364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant video! Thank you both for this enlightenment.

  • @rayamalam2734
    @rayamalam2734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am very happy to follow your instructions, I feel much more comfortable now. Many thanks for sharing.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's great Rayam! I'm glad you found it useful. Best wishes, Paul

  • @samuelcuriel3774
    @samuelcuriel3774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! It is very interesting and instructive video. I personally use yoga to stay positive. Thanks for sharing this instructive video.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Samuel, I appreciate your comment. I find yoga a great way to combine mindfulness with keeping my body flexible through stretching and strength routines. It is a very similar process really to the one I demonstrated, because to do yoga poses, you have to put your mind inside your body and ask 'how does that feel? Can I stretch that leg just a little bit further?...' A very similar practice to mindfulness, used to get the same benefits. I can really recommend yoga exercises to anybody who hasn't tried them. Best wishes, Paul

  • @thecommonsensediet8619
    @thecommonsensediet8619 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The greatest of follies is to sacrifice health for any other kind of happiness." Arthur Schopenhauer

  • @kevingreene4399
    @kevingreene4399 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really good conversation that really made me think about the mind and brain. I believe we all think about the purpose of our life, especially as we get older or go through a midlife crisis.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Kevin, great comment! For a number of years, it is possible to distract ourselves with all kinds of worldly concerns so that we can avoid concerning ourselves with 'what's the point of all this frantic activity?' At some point in everyone's life, the noise and activity quietens down a bit and that persistent nagging doubt becomes a little louder. I believe living our best life is living it intentionally, which means facing the big question and finding a good answer. (That's Thriving, to me!). Best wishes, Paul

  • @NarcissusD
    @NarcissusD 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vibes and very neat presentation! It feels like listening to a good friend. I often do yoga and mindfulness meditation to cope with depression and anxiety too. Love your video!

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you NarcissusD! Fantastic that you do yoga and mindfulness meditation, and thanks for sharing with others that it is helpful to you with coping. Best wishes, Paul

  • @jbird1777
    @jbird1777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm currently using mindfulness when I do my daily yoga. Great job on explaining things!

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Terrific Jbird! Thanks for sharing that, so people can see the benefit! Best wishes, Paul

  • @redahmurtadha7063
    @redahmurtadha7063 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is very interesting topic. Your explanation is very clear and understandable, thanks for the video

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Redah. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Paul

  • @tawnypeacock2670
    @tawnypeacock2670 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mindfulness is now being examined scientifically that Mindfulness meditation lowers levels of cortisol. Thank you for share this information.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for the information Tawny P. It is pretty well established that it has physical as well as medical benefits. That doesn't really surprise me, since I think of us as a whole system: mind, body and soul. When they are integrated, all pulling in the same direction, to a clear purpose, we are calm and effective. In short, happy! Best wishes, Paul

  • @ambersimmons9142
    @ambersimmons9142 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you explained it very well. and your recommendation is going to help me a lot . thank you .

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great Amber, I'm glad it helped. Best wishes, Paul

  • @Oddavid
    @Oddavid 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    excellent explanation my friend, your content is useful and easy to understand.

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Jhon, I'm glad you like it! Best wishes, Paul

  • @koulibalejensa8187
    @koulibalejensa8187 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Paul. do you recommend doing this daily or just when someone is stressed?

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Koulibale, my suggestion is that because the most difficult time to remember something or to do something positive is when we are in a state of stress or anxiety, I would recommend practising this daily, so that it becomes a daily habit, even if only for 5 minutes per day. That way, when we get into a difficult situation, we already have a skill to call upon, and that way it should be easier to run the habitual routine we have formed when we need it. Once you are able to do it, I recommend doing it whenever you think of it! (I try nowadays more and more to listen to my intuitions... I find myself having a thought like 'you're thinking a lot today!' and then realising my intuitive side is suggesting a bit of mindfulness would be good right now! Hope that helps. Best wishes, Paul

  • @estoyloco9020
    @estoyloco9020 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Solid advices for improving mental health, keep posting!

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will do! Thank you Estoy for your comment. Paul

  • @thecommonsensediet8619
    @thecommonsensediet8619 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The greatest of follies is to sacrifice health for any other kind of happiness." Arthur Schopenhauer

    • @TheThriveTribe
      @TheThriveTribe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your comment. Nice quote! Best wishes Paul

  • @jojoashley7260
    @jojoashley7260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its almost like this is as bad as the virus. My teenagers are struggling the most as they can't comprehend being locked in when they are not at danger

    • @paulmallory3196
      @paulmallory3196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Jo Jo, I know what you mean. There is a lot of focus going into protecting people physically at the moment, and not so much focus on protecting people mentally. I'm going to do a video on mindfulness next, in the next couple of days, so I hope that might be useful for your teenagers, in offering a way of bringing ourselves back to the present moment, which is a great way to deal with stress, anxiety, feeling low etc. I hope it helps. Best wishes, Paul

  • @karmel1286
    @karmel1286 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I tried to cope with negative thoughts by ignoring or erasing. Thanks for sharing your experience.

    • @TheThriveTribe
      @TheThriveTribe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your comment Kar Mel. Often a negative thought is repetitive, because it comes from an attitude or belief. It is sometimes useful to look for the underlying attitude or belief that may be causing the negative thought to reoccur and then to look at the evidence for the attitude or belief, and ask what evidence exists for a better/more accurate attitude or belief. In this way we can sometimes end the flow of that repeating negative thought and turn on a flow of more useful, more empowering thoughts. Best wishes, Paul

  • @atiarwright9512
    @atiarwright9512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice about mental health, thanks for sharing this video.

    • @TheThriveTribe
      @TheThriveTribe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Atia, I'm glad you found it useful. Best wishes, Paul

  • @NarcissusD
    @NarcissusD 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vibes and very neat presentation! It feels like listening to a good friend. Love your tips on mental health.

    • @TheThriveTribe
      @TheThriveTribe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm very grateful for your appreciation NarcissusD. Keep watching! Best wishes, Paul