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Kevin Hao
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เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 6 พ.ย. 2014
Together, we're creating a community where gay asians can share our common experiences and feel heard - making this channel into one I wish I had stumbled upon on youtube as a confused 14 yr old.
I'm Kevin, a Chinese American born in 山东, grew up in NYC, now living in Chicago. Thanks for checking out my channel!
I'll share my thoughts on things going on in our community, my own experiences growing up, and lifestyle/vlogger-style tips focused on those who identify as gay and asian.
It's time youtube had more gaysian creators :)
Creatives looking to collaborate, please email me (see Details section - For business inquiries).
Instagram & Tiktok: @k00ven
I'm Kevin, a Chinese American born in 山东, grew up in NYC, now living in Chicago. Thanks for checking out my channel!
I'll share my thoughts on things going on in our community, my own experiences growing up, and lifestyle/vlogger-style tips focused on those who identify as gay and asian.
It's time youtube had more gaysian creators :)
Creatives looking to collaborate, please email me (see Details section - For business inquiries).
Instagram & Tiktok: @k00ven
My 2022 was a hot mess
she's back at it again with another video! Fresh off Spotify Wrapped, it's been a while so let's zipline through everything that happened to me in 2022. First topic of discussion...why is my romantic life so depressing? I don't know, maybe Mercury is in retrograde? (that's a Rina Sawayama reference) ANYWAYZZZ I'm heading to Bangkok for Bangkok White Party this year (and then Taipei afterwards) to escape the Chicago cold.
Instagram: k00ven
Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@k00ven
0:29 Intro
1:57 My romantic life is a mess...again
4:50 but at least my career is going well?
6:01 I joined my friend's queer rock band!
6:48 I'll be at Bangkok White Party to ring in the new year.
8:18 Just let yourself be _insert your age here_
10:37 Asian parents are tough to communicate with, but it doesn't always have to be that way.
Instagram: k00ven
Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@k00ven
0:29 Intro
1:57 My romantic life is a mess...again
4:50 but at least my career is going well?
6:01 I joined my friend's queer rock band!
6:48 I'll be at Bangkok White Party to ring in the new year.
8:18 Just let yourself be _insert your age here_
10:37 Asian parents are tough to communicate with, but it doesn't always have to be that way.
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Where are you now, Kevin? Come backkkk. Hope you're doing well!
Your vibe when attempting to plan I relate to so much😂😂
It's been a year since your last video, did you get tired of posting? After opening TH-cam while in Thailand, I've been getting an endless stream of gay Asian content. I have no idea what they are saying, but I find it interesting to watch. Here is hoping you are happily married to a wonderful guy who loves you for you!
I am a child of the late 60's and early 70's. I graduated in 1973 (yeah, I know another old queen). I knew when I was 14 that I was gay and that I NEVER EVER wanted kids (I refuse to bestow my genes on ANY KID) and this was a time of rampant homophobia. I messed around with a couple of guys in high school, but pretty much kept to myself. This was in the time where you could and often WOULD get fired for being gay. I never paraded around announcing my sexuality, just was me. After HS, I went off to college for a criminal justice degree and snagged a part time on my home town police department. Since I lived in a small town, gossip was brutal and I managed to get a part time job on our local department while I was in college. My Chief never asked me about anything (other than if I knew a chick that might be interested in being a f*ck partner, just sex, no commitments and I obliged). I met my boyfriend at a Christmas party 2 years later and it was the proverbial "love at first sight" (I know, cue the violins) and we were together to 10 years until a drunk driver took him from me. Devastated I was to say the least. I managed to keep it together and did 26 years and retired. I moved west and retired for good 7 years ago. I was lucky to meet a Navajo Champion Bronc Rider and when I pulled the pin for once and all, asked him to move with me to BFE Montana. Mainly because I was tired of the big city crime and drugs and crazy people and he agreed. He works as a horse trainer and I am a happy house husband. It sis take me a long time to find someone I could trust and be comfortable with.
Break away from your fckn culture….I did and life is now fantastic
Good story and good advice. I never came out to my parents. For many reasons, we weren’t close, and only talked about the weather….that’s as deep as it went. But, one day, I called my mother (I was in my 30’s) and talked to her for nearly 2 hours. (Dad was bowling). I told her she was a great mother and did a fantastic job raising me. I thanked her and told her I loved her. She thanked me and told me she was glad that dad was out, bowling. Three days later, she had a fatal heart attack. My father later mentioned to my brother that the last few days of her life, my dad had never seen her so happy. I think we should tell our loved ones, every day, that we love them.
You’re beautiful inside and outside. Thanks for sharing your story. When I was about 12, my parents asked me if I wanted to be a girl. That idea was repulsive to me. I yelled, “NO!” at them. We never really talked to each other again….just surface it, how’s the weather…stuff like that. I tuned them out.
After seeing that, I having erection every time I am making coffee 😅
More piano video please
非常帥
You are the most beautiful man I have ever seen in my life.
what book is that ? misleading book 😡
Very articulate insightful
Sir, I was profoundly impressed with your remarks; very articulated, insightful statements on cultural differences, and personal history. In recent history Asian people have experienced attacks due to the virus, fear of China/Taiwan, can you help us understand how this impacts you. I offer this so as to raise awareness, healthy discussion ....
Make some videos about dating
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lol
I find it isn't so much about race as it is about being ethnic looking. But anyway
HE HAS THE CUP!!!!
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7:04 really hit hard. Thank you so much for sharing your 💖 You posses such a beautiful spirit. Hope you keep spreading your light with the world.
We miss you. Wishing for a comeback this Summer. We hope you are doing amazing.
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all the best, come to Australia
How was the White Party? Please post more!!!! Miss you!!!❤❤❤
Tyler Lautner lol...too bad he was blacklisted by Hollywood
Just be yourself! 😄
Great video and you look so cute and I'm bi.😘
Love u somuch oppa 😊
Thank Goodness you're back! Looking forward to more videos from you!!!
Love u babe saranghae oppa 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Love u babe 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Being gay doesn't mean you can't be masculine.
very great thinking. its the only way to feel good and make real progress in the long run. i simply shut them up whenever i see one
Also, I've changed career paths and jobs - and more working from home -- and my roommates comment shady remarks // don't get me wrong I know it's joking but the sarcasm of how they've said things is just jealousy
Yasss! we love that energy !!!
new job, new neighborhood, PLUS being in a band?? winning. boys can wait
I’m glad I’ve found your channel. Very nice. Hope you enjoyed the White Party & your trip to Asia. Looking forward to seeing more.
That was poetry and I want everyone to understand that
love to see you in london your a nice guy
Thanks for sharing. Interesting video.
Thank you for taking the extra time to talk to us (and edit it - so much behind the scenes work). I wish you for the new year someone who is honest, humble, smart, patient, relaxed, responsible, positive, with a big heart and lots of respect, who sees you, hears you, likes you as you are, doesn't want to change you, is thrilled to hold you and to be in your arms and whisper in your ears whatever makes you tick.
that was a great video especially at the end. I know that there is a huge problem in this country in which many people in their 50s and 60s no longer talk to their parents because of the exact same reason with respect to their parents being disrespectful towards them. Now that their parents are older they are in need for some assistance and their kids are no longer there to provide that to them. What you said to your mother was exemplary of what should be done when our parents are not being respectful of us regardless if we are gay or not. It is more than just a generational thing and you are very smart in pointing this out to your mother. Have a great trip to BKK and Taiwan. Please watch Just Joey T on YT on some advise on going to the White Party in BKK. Thanks!!!!!
I felt the not have kids part😂💀
Wish you did these more often. A nice surprise in my feed.
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Yay you’re back!! If it makes you feel better, my romance experience was kinda similar to yours this year. I experienced my first heartbreak actually :,) but I think I’ve recovered a lot from it so I’m ok now. Take care and have fun in Bangkok!
Aww I'm sorry 😔 hoping we will both have a better time next yr!
@@KevinHao You seem very charismatic and are definitely very articulate. Have enjoyed hearing your TH-cams. What are you doing now? Have your recent travels given you new perspectives on life?
Good to see you again, Kevin. Now I remember why I subscribed. You are funny, down-to earth and SMART. 👏 A lot of us went through a mid-twenties Gay crisis - I did from 25-27. Turned my life around and never looked back. It's been great. You will have a blast in Bangkok‼ Merry Christmas 🎄and may more of your dreams become realities in 2023 💫❣
Thank you 😊
Wow nice video !