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Hi @coach m i need help! Ive let my daughter get away with things for years given no clear boundaries my bad i know but my child is also on the spectrum im trying understand whats (hate the word normal) and whats not, please can you do a vid on whats expected from.all kids even ones with additional needs. My daughter will shout, smack, get angry and i try so hard to talk but she so obsorbed in social media, sue doesnt wantbto spend time with me, tbh shes only 12 not yet a teen but they growing quicker nowadays. I struggle to talk to her for her to completely understand no disrespect but i think it could be slightly more challenging with kids on spectrum x

As a high school teacher but do not have a good teenage years this helped me understand how to build a relationship with my students. I was raised traditional but my peers weren't and now as an adult I am shutting my parents in order to care for my bruised teen at heart. I needed that to be healthy.

Every kid is different, But in my opinion - MOST of todays teens: "Heart to heart" ONLY exists when things are the way THEY want them. The very SECOND they DONT get their way - you are the most horrible person on earth & THEY'RE A "victim" 🙄 ... AND as far as "being vulnerable " with them - they will simply blanket that with the "OMG none of that will even happen" or "I know that already" soooo.... I'm guessing this video is WAY OUTDATED. Because MAYBE this might work with earlier generations - but NOT today's teens. Between being taught by computers (in public schools) & ALL the Social Media platforms, the internet, as a whole, has has made SUCH A NEGATIVE IMPACT on today's kids.

I read this awhile ago. We put our kids before ourselves. Devaluation of our own relationship as parents. They can't handle any responsibility. Kids are actually drunk with entitlement. It makes total sense.

Very informative video

I thought I was going crazy!!! Thank you for this

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As a parent of two boys and two girls, I agree with everything she said. This is how I raised my kids and never had them disrespect me; they are now all in their late 20s and 30s and still have respect for me and still will come to talk when they have an issue because they know I listen. And will not try to judge or solve their problems. I will make suggestions as to what I would do.

Excellent strategies here and communicated well. Would love to have you as my guest on the Front Row Dads podcast. Many of our men would benefit from ideas presented here. 🙏

And if they're 20?

Outstanding advise as usual. Thank you Coach M!

It’s so hard to be an introverted parent to an extroverted child. The things he wants from me is just not my personality. I already drain my social and mental battery by doing soooo much I would never do so he feels like I’m involved. But I don’t think he knows how taxing it is for me. I want to be just like him I was just not born that way.

WOW! this is amazing advice

I think this is a bunch of psychobabble coming from the place of ' parents don't know how to express their love to their children and grandchildren.'

And every time the argument is about cleaning this room today he broke the door down to the house and to the bedroom just because somebody didn't open the door fast enough for him Hazel would it be out of your house what would you do

I don't want to hear all this Soft Stuff the 16 year old almost 6 ft is jumping on his mama

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I need your help

This is not accurate at all. We are very open, we are very connected, we are also neuro spicy. My daughter has P.D.A our problems definitely don't come from a lack of vulnerable communication or connection.

Going thru this with my 13 yr son.

Thank you so much, I was looking for this topics since I was a teenager and I went to counseling but you are right about life !! Excellent ❤

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Thanks Coach!!! Your coaching is priceless!!!

Excellent content, Thank you!

Thank you for the up front information! These are scary topics, but you help through your honesty and "for-real" suggestions on how to help me help my child! Thank you!!

I do all of this, but I can't get my son to stop using his computer and phone, I don't have the support of this father to stop using his electronics.He got physical with me today and he keeps on calling me names and being disrespectful plus saying I don't care.

I want to see more videos like this one please!

Great content. I just found you and would love to see more!

My daughter just screamed in my face relentlessly bc I was explaining her rx to her that I just paid 145 $ for . I told her stop screaming in my face . Than she came in my face loud screaming and I lost my shit and threw her rx on the floor and said I’m done . Which was s tube gel it was not goi g to break , she in return took my rx and threw it at the wall breaking it and blamed me and said she was like me and I made her do it . This is bullshit . I never did anything wrong all I did was sit out 7 rx and try to help her find a way to set them up and check ingredients bc she has allergies . And I’m being talked to with sarcastic words and being talked over and screamed at . I literally grabbed my coffee and breakfast I left the house and I’m sitting in my car right now to get away from her screaming at the top of her lungs . She rages and won’t calm down . I’m sick of this she is gonna be 18 . Idk how to make her respect me . She calls me uneducated belittles me and Will not allow me to be the mom I need to be . She can’t support herself and is a risky behavioral child turning into an adult , I wish I knew what to say when I leave this car and go back inside, I’m taking a cool off for her and me , but I want this to stop . I understand she is turning into an adult but that does t give you the right to scream at your mother . When she turns 18 and thinks this will be tolerated it won’t . I’m getting her therapy today and I’m a very loving mom and she comes first before anything. But the rages are real the control are real the screaming at me is real and the blaming me is real . I litaeralky feel abused in these moments and she can be a loving kind daughter as well . Im not a narcissist crying poor me and far from an abuser . But this uncontrollable rage against me needs to stop , I literally do t no to be kind at this time or stop dealing with her . But either way no there id no consequence for this behavior . And it continues . What do I do ?

This clip is the best! I use these tips actively and they have made an incredible difference with my 16 year old. Thank you!

This is so unrealistic....wish It was a reality. These kids will not respond to this type of parenting. These kids are something different. But good luck, parents.

Why didn't I discover you 3 years ago! Thank you.

I’m sorry, but what she’s saying simply does not work. My husband and I put forth every effort to create situations where we can connect with her chat with her get into her inner world spend time with her and all she wants to do is roll her eyes if we try to communicate and have any sort of meaningful conversation and she is not interested in speaking with us at all.

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Anyhow you got any healing to do you can parent well

Really like your advise and guidance. Presently I'm still struggling with depression. My worry is my granddaughters who are getting out of line with drinking and growing a lust for men. I think with your videos I will help them through all this. Thank you again ❤❤❤

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Great tips, thanks, I just wish it had no background music..;)

I’m trying get help for my 14 year old son who’s dad was murdered when he was 9 then two of his friends was murdered I need help all he way to do is sleep

Tired of the background sound of this video

Thank you. As a parent of a teen I’m always seeking for opinions. I’m glad I come across your channel

Sad we destroying these kids wow

You need to find another profession. This is TOTAL BS.

This advice does not work! These new generation of kids are blatantly disrespectful no matter how much you are respectful and listening. Take those electronics, and they lash out like it's World War III

Talking with many people and their experiences doesn't just fall on that particular teen. It is an adolescent phase to challenge boundaries. What has happened with the gentle parenting movement is parents are the first to blame in what's going wrong. Instead of the adolescent being corrected and the parent supported through other resources, instead the resources side with teen. Society has placed parents in the backseat of parenting. Teachers have been left on the curb, while the adolescents screams at us that we are being unfair for parenting. Everyone is a winner and no child left behind has set the bar low for these kids when it comes to learning accountability.

So true 💯

Thus coach have teens childrens !?

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I just love how you say "deal"with your teens like it's a the worst to be a good mom

Ive always tackled new challenges but my god, I wish I wasn't in a position to seek advice from youtube.