Yes when I got my new car he acted like he was asleep even though I had text n told him I was on my way to show him my new car. Yet when he got his car , and drove it to my place we celebrated together. He was always a big ass hater and user looking back!
right didnt even have the sense to pretend like he was happy for you. Girl I wouldve been happy for you if you pulled up with a $500 car you bought of your grand mama
I agree. I had a coworker suggest I take a weight loss injection, she took months ago. I asked about side effects, she lied & said she didn't have any. She took the injection & got sick for three days. I found that to be interesting 🤔
Dating again after 40 years of marriage taught me to study Behavior Analysis, Psychology, and Body Language. In six months of being on a dating site, I have recognized a wife-beater, an alcoholic, a love-bombing narcissist, and a devil worshiper. The knowledge I gained has served me well! I highly recommend it.
@ Hi! “The Gift of Fear” by Gavin De Becker is a great place to start. It teaches how to listen to our instincts and recognize a dangerous situation BEFORE we find ourselves in one. He has an abbreviated video version on TH-cam but the book is more in-depth.
Yeah... you should be careful with that. People are just people. You can read too much into something small or mistaken . You may meet someone very calculated who also knows about body language and use it to fool you. Courting .... time reveals all , there s really no rush if you're looking for a spouse WHICH WE ALL SHOULD
People tell on themselves all the time. It's difficult to pretend forever eventually the mask comes off. I've learned to pay attention to the signs and red flags.
Being alone is GOOD! I know that society tells you that women who are alone are miserable and desperate and their lives are "not worth living"...but the truth is that being alone is a 1st class blessing!
Ever Since I Took The Time To Study Body Language/Human Nature && My Intuition, I've Been Winning Ever Since 🏆 I've Cut Off So Much Dead Weight From Low Vibrational Entities 🙌🏾
I also had (friends ) who only used me for rides ,money ,favor. But that one time I needed a babysitter when I was at the hospital THEY WERENT AVAILABLE THEY MADE PLANS . Then when they would ask me for a favor to pick them up ect I also said (oh I can't already made plans 😂 . Then I was block. It's all FUN AND GAMES WHEN THEY DO IT TO U BUT THEY GET MAD WHEN YOU CLAP BACK
This is true in any relationship and in friendship. People will act as if they are good friends, yet their actions say otherwise. I work off the energy and can feel the fakeness.
23:30 yes. And to add to that watch out for jealous people and people who are always comparing themselves to you. Once you clock them, avoid them. It's only a matter of time.
Yes! Comparing means competition that you are not even aware of. Which means they will want to win by all cost. And usually those are ppl that are way lower than you in something but they feel entitled and above you.
Emotions and the way people feel about themselves and about you can never be suppressed fully. A person's feelings eventually burst and their insecurities and envy is expressed by their negativity and actions. It's a shame that it takes us long to realize when someone is toxic.
21:00 YUP! Had a girlfriend like this for years who always ditched me, just disappeared for years on end and would pop back up like nothing had happened 😮 After the 9th time, I was DONE. Of course my mom tried to couch it like "people have lives and lose touch..." No, mom....that's not what this is. I was consistently discarded like trash. I'd text her and tell her I was worried about her, etc? NOTHING. I've had multiple friends like this in the past and when I left my abusive Narc ex, I got rid of toxic friends as well. BYEEEE!!! 👋🏻 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻🤣🤣
@@AmberG777I’d say the same about your voice tbh. “Yall” has forever been ruined for me by cretins like you who don’t even properly punctuate it. Glass houses and all
Thank you!!! 🙏🏽 he was always telling me and showing me his true colors since day one. I’ll never give another person / man the benefit of the doubt again.
I caught haters inside the church ! When people are going through something awful you'll hear them (oh I'm so sorry this is happening to you blah blah ) But when you mention something positive such as (oh I finally got my business license) no one claps ! I've been seeing this.
It's hard to distinguish when you were raised with and/or by these personality types. It becomes normal...currently UNLEARNING to tolerate the bull crap and definitely trust my discernment now
I shouldve listened when she said, "I always ruin a good thing"...😂😂😂😂 I STILL TRIED.. Boy my cape is burnt to a crisp now. Thought i was superman frfr
Yup, the girl with the 2 relationships, manipulative people loveee to talk big games but their actions will always give their truth away. Unaligned words and actions just makes someone a liar
Sometimes you don't need to play/pretend. Recently I broke my right hand and the fracture is not healing well- and all the predators have shown me their true colours. I am not surprised at all, just super thankful to G-d that these folks exposed themselves.
What she said about Sagittarius is 1000 percent true. We are the lowkey crash-outs when our faces are played in deliberately. We notice everything. We just take mental note and don’t react unless you force us directly for that smoke😂
My ex husband Sagittarius played in my face and I had to finally divorce him after 18 yrs marriage. Serial cheater, emotionally abusive, narcissist. God exposed the truth. I don’t follow zodiac signs because it’s not the same for all signs. I’m healing and he has moved on to the next woman. I’m healing and following God.
I have a coworker who we’ve been going to lunch together and being friendly towards each other for the past few months and in the past few days she’s said that she is crazy, a couple of times in one conversation. It made me uneasy the last time because I’ve heard her say it now a few times.
I can really relate to this. I've had a friend who would reach out when things were tough, and I’d stay in touch to offer support. But after things started improving for them, they began to pull away again-this isn’t the first time it’s happened. It always leaves me wondering why this pattern keeps repeating. Is it something about the way people behave when they no longer need that support, or do they just move on once they’re feeling better? Has anyone else experienced something like this, where someone distances themselves after things get better?
The guy saying God points things out- this is true if you pay attention. Sometimes my attention would be constantly drawn to something in the house. I’d question it when I was younger but once I paid attention, it always paid off. Like my eyes would be drawn to to couch-time and time again the couch and lo and behold when I paid attention I found jewelry there that was not mine. It’s happened often. If they don’t eat themselves out God will.
The insult was a good one. Several people became offensive when I was sharing something. One was like Im African, I know that, the other how you going to tell me about my own country. Mother, you think im stupid. Im like sheesh, not my thoughts.
First video I don’t completely agree with her. Sometimes people need reassurance that they are enough. ♥️ But I do agree if they are talking negatively about others that’s a huge red flag.. gossiping for no reason is just not okay.
Yes he is always lying 24/7. He’s a misogynistic mf who is jealousy n hates his sisters, mom, grandmother, aunts, etc all his female friends he trashes as well. I’ve been peeping game this entire time. When he couldn’t take me to my planned medical procedure n I had to drive myself that was an early sign 🪧 he wasn’t about shit.
I agree with "divashaytalks" personally, but from an artistic perspective - cuz I've been throught it and even had the exact same view about "what is and isn't constructive criticism" as her and people have bullied me for having that view as her. What she said is indeed Very accurate.
Who was the first young lady talking to, preteens? Otherwise, DUH! See this is the issue with internet, texting and social media as a whole. We learn how to socialize (WAIT FOR IT) by socializing! One cannot learn how to properly socialize via texting, searching for answers on Google and surely NOT via social media. One is NOT going to go to elementary, high school, college or those streets, enter the world knowing yet hot to properly socialize. OH NO! The adult narcissist are WAITING to prey on the young and dumb (respectfully)! The mental (narcissist, antisocial, psychopath, sociopath, etc.) are waiting to prey on those seeking relationship of all types. And the ability to pluck those weeds before they take over the garden takes LIFE EXPERIENCE! YEARS of trial and error. So young folk, make some tea, grab an elder (50+++), sit them down and ask them what they know!
I'm in my mid 20s but grew up extremely sheltered. The shrewd and cunning ways people have treated me really weighed down my mental health. How do I handle backstabbers? Especially from relatives who are jealous of you? I loved them, but they don't love me. It hurts so much.
I'm definitely on point through this new chapter it took me awhile ...I wanted to see n feel the best versions for everyone for some years ...but I'm worse than columbo when you slip 🤥🤔🤨🧐
I honestly don’t think what she’s talking about at 18:00 is just a certain astrology sign because I’m a Virgo and I think the same way. Some people are just empathetic and emotionally mature. She at 21:00 really said some things I never thought about and it’s so accurate 😮.
Right! I think she was coming at the subject of embodying qualities of a saggitarius As the sign itself, not so much, that if you are a sagittarius, that you will be more psychic than someone else. I'm a pisces. And since I am at the end of the zodiac. I am also at the beginning so I totally got what she meant. It's that Saggitarian energy. However, it is fascinating to see that the stars do play a Big part in aligning our own destinies.
In the uk age 55 to 60 age group they tell you nothing. They dont trust. They dont talk. You can open up, you can talk, but if you try to find out anything about them it will always be- i am a family man, i love work and travel and sport and my kids, my ex wife is nice , my parents are nice, i have no problems, i am not drama . Then if you have anything different from that YOU ARE DRAMA . They say i am kind and caring but if you tell them you have experienced adversity they will from that point lie to you, saying they care etc but they think you are drama and the SECOND you dispute anything or piss them off the truth comes out that in fact they dont trust you BECAUSE you experienced adversity and it makes them feel inferior / it doesn’t help them gain status in life.
I had someone tell me all people are inherently good. I thought wow, how fortunate you've never ran into the people I have. Then I looked a little closer. They were the bad. Oh excuse me I wasn't paying attention. Xcuse me.
If you wanna find out who really cares about you just post about something good that happened to you on social media and see who likes it and comments something nice. It wasn't til I got a job, a car and a boyfriend did I finally realize my supposed friend was actually jealous of me and mad at me but acted fake happy for me by making back handed comments to me like "wow I'm so happy for you finally everything is working out all you need is to lose some weight and you'd be 10 out of 10," or "I'm glad things are going your way but I'm really concerned about how much soda you drink. Did you know how skinny you'd be if you quit drinking coca cola?" And my personal favorite "Oh my God i love your new hair do but is that grey supposed to be showing or ......?" It still didn't click tho completely because I knew at the time she was just projecting her own weight and grey hair insecurities on me and I honestly never cared about my weight. I'm not obese at all in fact I'm the skinniest I've ever been in my life (i have 4 kids) I hike or ride bicycles all the time, I walk for fun and I am very active. I hardly ever eat fast food or junk food and I never cared about being skinny. I was just happy to be able to wear pants that were size 12 for once since I was 12 years old lol. It wasn't until the last time we hung out did she make another comment about how much weight I'd lose if i quit drinking soda and I shut her down immediately and said "Yeah you already told me that 9 times, but what you don't understand is noone asked you, noone was talking about my weight, you are AlWaYS so concerned about my weight when you should be more concerned with your own weight. Not to be rude but I think it's hilarious the same girl who asked ME to go to the gym with her to help motivate her to exercise only to immediately go get tons of Mexican food saying you deserve it is constantly reminding me how fat you think i am. I'm not you. I don't go around complaining about how much I hate my body and need to lose weight, YOU do. I don't actually even think about exercising because I'm too busy running around the trails and hills you always refuse to go on because they're too steep or too muddy or too long or its too hot or its too windy out. I am done inviting you to my hikes and into my life because obviously you don't care." It's been 4 years now since we hung out. I saw her once at a bar and noticed she's coke head thin now and couldn't help but wonder how miserable she still is even with the skinny body she's always wanted. Word on the street tells me she has no other friends left either besides who ever is hooking her up, she's ruined 2 weddings and 4 funerals and she's currently on probation for hitting my other friend during their own day drunk kitchen weigh in before working out on her Bowflex. Apparently my other friend who is much smaller than the original person I'm talking about stepped on the scale and it said 120 lbs, she was pushed off the scale, accused of tampering with it and punched in the face. So it was only a matter of time before she was gonna lash out at me. Thank goodness I got wise and realized I had to remove her from my life. Only after i cut all ties with her did 3 of my ex boyfriends informed me that she talked tons of smack about me when i was outside or at the store and that she would hit on them as soon as I left to use the bathroom or went in another room to answer a phone call. They didn't tell me before because they knew she was crazy and that i was her friend, they were afraid to ruffle any feathers. She did the same moves on all of them and i believe all of them because they had no reason to lie. It definitely explains alot about how she was able to be so mean to me under my own nose when my gullible self was too busy trying to help her with her own problems and just include her in my social life so she wouldn't feel excluded. EFF you Sarah. I hope you have a friend who treats you exactly the same way you treated ME and see how long you can take it before it clicks.
Exactly. People will show if they are really solid when you either shifting life paths as far as bettering your life, when your succeeding, or when you’re really going through something..💯
Tbh, you sound extremely toxic as well. What made you think it would be a good idea to wait until the ninth time someone crossed your boundary to communicate that to them? Not to mention that you knew it stemmed from her own body insecurities, you proceeded to insult her in a way you knew would be the most hurtful, and when you saw the negative effects years later, all you had to say was about YOU. Tbh I wouldn’t want to contact you for years either 😂
18:58 no because this was the first Sagittarius run down ive heard that matches me almost exactly. Very Sagittarius even though I'm born on the cusp...
Im a Sagittarius Rising & NN Sagittarius My Sun Sign is Pisces so people have me fucked up all the way almost all the time lol they mistake my kindness for a weakness and its actually my strength
I had an experience where I was avoided by a group when they heard I got the COVID a shot! As a caregiver for my parents, I got the shot. Please tell me why those who refused to get the jab avoid those who did get the jab? I’m very healthy and rarely have taken flu shots throughout my life. Why is the COVID jab a sudden judgment?
And I wouldn’t know what to do with myself if I had my ones friends butt and I verbalize it … ex “ if I had yo ahh I would be on of” and probably would lol 😅😮
27:06 maybe your energy attracts corny simps who need to climb up a mountain and make statements only to realize you are not the type of person to make statements for
10:59😂😂 and your body language tells me you need to put the burgers down. Bunch of pseudo TikTok psychologists. I’m glad they are banning TikTok. People make basic common sense things into profound intellectual discoveries.
It’s all spiritual. It’s all Biblical.Jesus went through it , chosen ones go through it. it’s not with this new age stuff and this retrograde that’s all demonic. Please stop promoting this.
Foolish advice? Interesting! Yet here you are, hanging around for more. I guess 'foolish' must be strangely entertaining or educational, huh? Feel free to keep coming back-I’m happy to deliver the 'wisdom' you clearly can’t resist.
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ACTIONS SPEAK louder than words!!!!!!!!! Never forget that!
@Emily Point-blank PERIOD!!! 🎯🎯🎯
People who say 'you can't take constructive criticism', usually are haters that live to tear you down
Yes when I got my new car he acted like he was asleep even though I had text n told him I was on my way to show him my new car. Yet when he got his car , and drove it to my place we celebrated together. He was always a big ass hater and user looking back!
right didnt even have the sense to pretend like he was happy for you. Girl I wouldve been happy for you if you pulled up with a $500 car you bought of your grand mama
Always listen to your gut, even if you dont want to 💯
I agree. I had a coworker suggest I take a weight loss injection, she took months ago. I asked about side effects, she lied & said she didn't have any. She took the injection & got sick for three days. I found that to be interesting 🤔
Dating again after 40 years of marriage taught me to study Behavior Analysis, Psychology, and Body Language. In six months of being on a dating site, I have recognized a wife-beater, an alcoholic, a love-bombing narcissist, and a devil worshiper. The knowledge I gained has served me well! I highly recommend it.
@@LauraSchendel-ko1qk Always on the look out for new books any good books you recommend on body language analysis?
@ Hi! “The Gift of Fear” by Gavin De Becker is a great place to start. It teaches how to listen to our instincts and recognize a dangerous situation BEFORE we find ourselves in one. He has an abbreviated video version on TH-cam but the book is more in-depth.
Yeah... you should be careful with that. People are just people.
You can read too much into something small or mistaken .
You may meet someone very calculated who also knows about body language and use it to fool you.
Courting .... time reveals all , there s really no rush if you're looking for a spouse
WHICH WE ALL SHOULD
@ Thanks. I have yet to be wrong. Plus I save a lot of time and heartache. I can’t un-learn what I know to be true.
Great advice with age comes wisdom!!!!!!
People tell on themselves all the time. It's difficult to pretend forever eventually the mask comes off. I've learned to pay attention to the signs and red flags.
Shanquella Robinsons tragic story is what led me to start listening to channels like yours ❤
It's gonna be a lot of aloneness because it's a lot of weird people out here.
Being alone is GOOD! I know that society tells you that women who are alone are miserable and desperate and their lives are "not worth living"...but the truth is that being alone is a 1st class blessing!
@@jvnd2785yet same women abuse and criticise men for being alone.....make it make sense
Right! It's too risky out here
I love how many of us are waking up to this. No need to expose people...they expose themselves.
Great video, one of the biggest lessons I learned on the journey is to sharpen my discernment!
Ever Since I Took The Time To Study Body Language/Human Nature && My Intuition, I've Been Winning Ever Since 🏆 I've Cut Off So Much Dead Weight From Low Vibrational Entities 🙌🏾
I also had (friends ) who only used me for rides ,money ,favor. But that one time I needed a babysitter when I was at the hospital THEY WERENT AVAILABLE THEY MADE PLANS . Then when they would ask me for a favor to pick them up ect I also said (oh I can't already made plans 😂 . Then I was block. It's all FUN AND GAMES WHEN THEY DO IT TO U BUT THEY GET MAD WHEN YOU CLAP BACK
They always tell on themselves ❤ its a promise from the universe ❤ you never have to lift a finger ❤ just watch ❤
This is true in any relationship and in friendship. People will act as if they are good friends, yet their actions say otherwise. I work off the energy and can feel the fakeness.
23:30 yes. And to add to that watch out for jealous people and people who are always comparing themselves to you. Once you clock them, avoid them. It's only a matter of time.
Yes! Comparing means competition that you are not even aware of. Which means they will want to win by all cost. And usually those are ppl that are way lower than you in something but they feel entitled and above you.
😂she said they start beefing with themselves 🤣🤣😆
Watch how they treat others so that you can avoid the bombs that were foreseeable. I love your content!😁🖤
Emotions and the way people feel about themselves and about you can never be suppressed fully. A person's feelings eventually burst and their insecurities and envy is expressed by their negativity and actions. It's a shame that it takes us long to realize when someone is toxic.
21:00 YUP! Had a girlfriend like this for years who always ditched me, just disappeared for years on end and would pop back up like nothing had happened 😮
After the 9th time, I was DONE. Of course my mom tried to couch it like "people have lives and lose touch..." No, mom....that's not what this is. I was consistently discarded like trash. I'd text her and tell her I was worried about her, etc? NOTHING.
I've had multiple friends like this in the past and when I left my abusive Narc ex, I got rid of toxic friends as well. BYEEEE!!! 👋🏻 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻🤣🤣
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Ughh some of yall voices …
Strange that your mother was not teaching you to make your own boundaries.
@@Krlowanigu-mg6egwe learn our self sabotage traits from our mothers sadly. it goes so much deeper than ppl would like to know and believe 😢
@@AmberG777I’d say the same about your voice tbh. “Yall” has forever been ruined for me by cretins like you who don’t even properly punctuate it. Glass houses and all
😂 Oh boy! They really do tell on themselves. Just pay attention & stand on business...
5:14 ❤ had a sister in Christ who would say (beauty is vain) and would look straight at me. 😂so this is so true !! .
Thank you!!! 🙏🏽 he was always telling me and showing me his true colors since day one. I’ll never give another person / man the benefit of the doubt again.
I caught haters inside the church ! When people are going through something awful you'll hear them (oh I'm so sorry this is happening to you blah blah )
But when you mention something positive such as (oh I finally got my business license) no one claps !
I've been seeing this.
Exactly
The church is the worse place for this! I agree
It's hard to distinguish when you were raised with and/or by these personality types. It becomes normal...currently UNLEARNING to tolerate the bull crap and definitely trust my discernment now
lol then people look at me like I’m the bad guy when i go ghost ….. sis you showed me who you are 😂 I’m not sticking around ✌🏾
Ghosting is still the behavior of someone unsavory, unless it’s for a safety reason. Grow up and communicate with people
Narcs tell on themselves subtly so that it's your fault when they do what they said they were gonna do
I shouldve listened when she said, "I always ruin a good thing"...😂😂😂😂 I STILL TRIED.. Boy my cape is burnt to a crisp now. Thought i was superman frfr
He told me he was a black hole and I should stay away.
😂
Yup, the girl with the 2 relationships, manipulative people loveee to talk big games but their actions will always give their truth away. Unaligned words and actions just makes someone a liar
This is so true.💯
Phil madison was on point: play weak to draw out the predators.
Gets em every time 😂
Sometimes you don't need to play/pretend. Recently I broke my right hand and the fracture is not healing well- and all the predators have shown me their true colours. I am not surprised at all, just super thankful to G-d that these folks exposed themselves.
I tell people that all the time , don't say nothing trust and believe they tell on themselves all the time.
What she said about Sagittarius is 1000 percent true.
We are the lowkey crash-outs when our faces are played in deliberately. We notice everything. We just take mental note and don’t react unless you force us directly for that smoke😂
My ex husband Sagittarius played in my face and I had to finally divorce him after 18 yrs marriage. Serial cheater, emotionally abusive, narcissist. God exposed the truth. I don’t follow zodiac signs because it’s not the same for all signs. I’m healing and he has moved on to the next woman. I’m healing and following God.
I felt part of a pack listening to her. 😂. Sagittarius violet flame. 💜🔥🪬
17:30 is when the lady gives tea about Sagittarius 🙌🏾 ♐️ And as a Sagittarius, I agree with EVERY word! She was spot on 🎯
I was raised by a Sagittarius…everything she said is true 😂
Excellent stories !
Lorna from Scotland 🏴 words hit my soul like a freight train. Like hearing my some of my ancestors ❤
27:23-33:10 All so correct. Everything she said is on point. And, wow, she sure can talk!😂
People love to be wolf in sheep clothing, but they love to show you that they can be a wolf
Very true 🥰🤗🙏🏽
I have a coworker who we’ve been going to lunch together and being friendly towards each other for the past few months and in the past few days she’s said that she is crazy, a couple of times in one conversation. It made me uneasy the last time because I’ve heard her say it now a few times.
I can really relate to this. I've had a friend who would reach out when things were tough, and I’d stay in touch to offer support. But after things started improving for them, they began to pull away again-this isn’t the first time it’s happened. It always leaves me wondering why this pattern keeps repeating. Is it something about the way people behave when they no longer need that support, or do they just move on once they’re feeling better? Has anyone else experienced something like this, where someone distances themselves after things get better?
Yes its true he told. me he broke up with his first gf of 6 years for no reason
N he did the same to me 😂 after 3 years
The guy saying God points things out- this is true if you pay attention. Sometimes my attention would be constantly drawn to something in the house. I’d question it when I was younger but once I paid attention, it always paid off. Like my eyes would be drawn to to couch-time and time again the couch and lo and behold when I paid attention I found jewelry there that was not mine. It’s happened often. If they don’t eat themselves out God will.
If they don’t who what??? I think “eat out” must mean something different to you 😂
Great compilation Thank you
I say this all the time. It's so true!
The insult was a good one. Several people became offensive when I was sharing something. One was like Im African, I know that, the other how you going to tell me about my own country. Mother, you think im stupid. Im like sheesh, not my thoughts.
I definitely needed to hear this #Sagittarius
Thank you always. Have a good week too
That's my husband soon to be Divorced husband he's Everything in this message video Everything accurate
@20:04 Yesssss Shay🔥 💯
I was about to say friendships but you said it right away ❤❤❤
First video I don’t completely agree with her. Sometimes people need reassurance that they are enough. ♥️ But I do agree if they are talking negatively about others that’s a huge red flag.. gossiping for no reason is just not okay.
anyone's insecurities and non confidence is theirs to work on. It should come from within no amount of re assurance is going to change that.
Yes he is always lying 24/7. He’s a misogynistic mf who is jealousy n hates his sisters, mom, grandmother, aunts, etc all his female friends he trashes as well. I’ve been peeping game this entire time. When he couldn’t take me to my planned medical procedure n I had to drive myself that was an early sign 🪧 he wasn’t about shit.
Needing constant reassurance that you are enough screams codependency.
@@lf3554if you’ve never reassured or comforted a friend, you’ve simply never had one
When people say what they don’t do or would never do, it’s likely what they do all the time.
Pay attention to cover up for others deceit 🎉❤.
I agree with "divashaytalks" personally, but from an artistic perspective - cuz I've been throught it and even had the exact same view about "what is and isn't constructive criticism" as her and people have bullied me for having that view as her. What she said is indeed Very accurate.
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Who was the first young lady talking to, preteens? Otherwise, DUH! See this is the issue with internet, texting and social media as a whole. We learn how to socialize (WAIT FOR IT) by socializing! One cannot learn how to properly socialize via texting, searching for answers on Google and surely NOT via social media. One is NOT going to go to elementary, high school, college or those streets, enter the world knowing yet hot to properly socialize. OH NO! The adult narcissist are WAITING to prey on the young and dumb (respectfully)! The mental (narcissist, antisocial, psychopath, sociopath, etc.) are waiting to prey on those seeking relationship of all types. And the ability to pluck those weeds before they take over the garden takes LIFE EXPERIENCE! YEARS of trial and error. So young folk, make some tea, grab an elder (50+++), sit them down and ask them what they know!
I'm in my mid 20s but grew up extremely sheltered. The shrewd and cunning ways people have treated me really weighed down my mental health. How do I handle backstabbers? Especially from relatives who are jealous of you? I loved them, but they don't love me. It hurts so much.
I'm definitely on point through this new chapter it took me awhile ...I wanted to see n feel the best versions for everyone for some years ...but I'm worse than columbo when you slip 🤥🤔🤨🧐
thankyou the mum advice I never got x
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I honestly don’t think what she’s talking about at 18:00 is just a certain astrology sign because I’m a Virgo and I think the same way. Some people are just empathetic and emotionally mature. She at 21:00 really said some things I never thought about and it’s so accurate 😮.
Right! I think she was coming at the subject of embodying qualities of a saggitarius As the sign itself, not so much, that if you are a sagittarius, that you will be more psychic than someone else. I'm a pisces. And since I am at the end of the zodiac. I am also at the beginning so I totally got what she meant. It's that Saggitarian energy. However, it is fascinating to see that the stars do play a Big part in aligning our own destinies.
No such thing as a zodiac sign or a year and holidays ECT...
That’s because astrology isn’t real and every sign’s traits can apply to people from other signs
My ex said idk why you’re with me I’m a fked up person…he indeed turned out to be who he said
In the uk age 55 to 60 age group they tell you nothing. They dont trust. They dont talk. You can open up, you can talk, but if you try to find out anything about them it will always be- i am a family man, i love work and travel and sport and my kids, my ex wife is nice , my parents are nice, i have no problems, i am not drama . Then if you have anything different from that YOU ARE DRAMA . They say i am kind and caring but if you tell them you have experienced adversity they will from that point lie to you, saying they care etc but they think you are drama and the SECOND you dispute anything or piss them off the truth comes out that in fact they dont trust you BECAUSE you experienced adversity and it makes them feel inferior / it doesn’t help them gain status in life.
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I'm an impath and a virgo, not much gets past me😅😅
I too am an empath, and I know when your energy doesn't match your words.
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Simply put: OBSERVE DON'T ABSORB!#!
This was a good video thanks
When someone tells you who they are believe them.
I had someone tell me all people are inherently good. I thought wow, how fortunate you've never ran into the people I have. Then I looked a little closer. They were the bad. Oh excuse me I wasn't paying attention. Xcuse me.
If you wanna find out who really cares about you just post about something good that happened to you on social media and see who likes it and comments something nice. It wasn't til I got a job, a car and a boyfriend did I finally realize my supposed friend was actually jealous of me and mad at me but acted fake happy for me by making back handed comments to me like "wow I'm so happy for you finally everything is working out all you need is to lose some weight and you'd be 10 out of 10," or "I'm glad things are going your way but I'm really concerned about how much soda you drink. Did you know how skinny you'd be if you quit drinking coca cola?" And my personal favorite "Oh my God i love your new hair do but is that grey supposed to be showing or ......?" It still didn't click tho completely because I knew at the time she was just projecting her own weight and grey hair insecurities on me and I honestly never cared about my weight. I'm not obese at all in fact I'm the skinniest I've ever been in my life (i have 4 kids) I hike or ride bicycles all the time, I walk for fun and I am very active. I hardly ever eat fast food or junk food and I never cared about being skinny. I was just happy to be able to wear pants that were size 12 for once since I was 12 years old lol. It wasn't until the last time we hung out did she make another comment about how much weight I'd lose if i quit drinking soda and I shut her down immediately and said "Yeah you already told me that 9 times, but what you don't understand is noone asked you, noone was talking about my weight, you are AlWaYS so concerned about my weight when you should be more concerned with your own weight. Not to be rude but I think it's hilarious the same girl who asked ME to go to the gym with her to help motivate her to exercise only to immediately go get tons of Mexican food saying you deserve it is constantly reminding me how fat you think i am. I'm not you. I don't go around complaining about how much I hate my body and need to lose weight, YOU do. I don't actually even think about exercising because I'm too busy running around the trails and hills you always refuse to go on because they're too steep or too muddy or too long or its too hot or its too windy out. I am done inviting you to my hikes and into my life because obviously you don't care." It's been 4 years now since we hung out. I saw her once at a bar and noticed she's coke head thin now and couldn't help but wonder how miserable she still is even with the skinny body she's always wanted. Word on the street tells me she has no other friends left either besides who ever is hooking her up, she's ruined 2 weddings and 4 funerals and she's currently on probation for hitting my other friend during their own day drunk kitchen weigh in before working out on her Bowflex. Apparently my other friend who is much smaller than the original person I'm talking about stepped on the scale and it said 120 lbs, she was pushed off the scale, accused of tampering with it and punched in the face. So it was only a matter of time before she was gonna lash out at me. Thank goodness I got wise and realized I had to remove her from my life. Only after i cut all ties with her did 3 of my ex boyfriends informed me that she talked tons of smack about me when i was outside or at the store and that she would hit on them as soon as I left to use the bathroom or went in another room to answer a phone call. They didn't tell me before because they knew she was crazy and that i was her friend, they were afraid to ruffle any feathers. She did the same moves on all of them and i believe all of them because they had no reason to lie. It definitely explains alot about how she was able to be so mean to me under my own nose when my gullible self was too busy trying to help her with her own problems and just include her in my social life so she wouldn't feel excluded. EFF you Sarah. I hope you have a friend who treats you exactly the same way you treated ME and see how long you can take it before it clicks.
Exactly. People will show if they are really solid when you either shifting life paths as far as bettering your life, when your succeeding, or when you’re really going through something..💯
Tbh, you sound extremely toxic as well. What made you think it would be a good idea to wait until the ninth time someone crossed your boundary to communicate that to them? Not to mention that you knew it stemmed from her own body insecurities, you proceeded to insult her in a way you knew would be the most hurtful, and when you saw the negative effects years later, all you had to say was about YOU. Tbh I wouldn’t want to contact you for years either 😂
18:58 no because this was the first Sagittarius run down ive heard that matches me almost exactly. Very Sagittarius even though I'm born on the cusp...
Im a Sagittarius Rising & NN Sagittarius My Sun Sign is Pisces so people have me fucked up all the way almost all the time lol they mistake my kindness for a weakness and its actually my strength
I had an experience where I was avoided by a group when they heard I got the COVID a shot!
As a caregiver for my parents, I got the shot.
Please tell me why those who refused to get the jab avoid those who did get the jab?
I’m very healthy and rarely have taken flu shots throughout my life.
Why is the COVID jab a sudden judgment?
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Compliments with criticism or a backhanded compliment thats called negging
Oh man, I found out!!!
8:39 🎯 My go to by default✌🏼
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The driving and filming oneself
The lady at 12:49 is so pretty ☺️.
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I don’t compare but I make a wishlist bc they do have something I want and can probably learn from
And I wouldn’t know what to do with myself if I had my ones friends butt and I verbalize it … ex “ if I had yo ahh I would be on of” and probably would lol 😅😮
27:06 maybe your energy attracts corny simps who need to climb up a mountain and make statements only to realize you are not the type of person to make statements for
You are extremely bitter
...are you okay?😂
Brain-dead take
10:59😂😂 and your body language tells me you need to put the burgers down. Bunch of pseudo TikTok psychologists. I’m glad they are banning TikTok. People make basic common sense things into profound intellectual discoveries.
You are extremely bitter and nasty. You’re glad they’re banning tik tok because someone wants to help others understand certain things?? Grow up.
Its so strange to hear someone say they recently figured out the body is a dead give away. Like did he think this is new?
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It’s all spiritual. It’s all Biblical.Jesus went through it , chosen ones go through it. it’s not with this new age stuff and this retrograde that’s all demonic. Please stop promoting this.
You have been thoroughly brainwashed. Once you figure out demons don’t exist, the pieces will start to fall together
Blah blah blah blah , more foolish advice from women to other women.
Foolish advice? Interesting! Yet here you are, hanging around for more. I guess 'foolish' must be strangely entertaining or educational, huh? Feel free to keep coming back-I’m happy to deliver the 'wisdom' you clearly can’t resist.
Do men ever shut up?
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