Managing Scrupulosity
Managing Scrupulosity
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Catholic OCD: The Real Suffering (The Management Minute)
The real suffering of the scrupulous disorder is the inability to trust  the authenticity of individual feelings, emotions, and sensibilities.  It is a profound loss of the true self.  The inability to routinely trust the feelings associated with a particular action demonstrates a real threat.  The all-encompassing scrupulous experience deprives a person of the ability to trust that their feelings are informative.
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Catholic OCD: St. Thomas Aquinas, One More Question (The Management Minute)
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St. Thomas asked the big questions about God, the meaning of the universe, and other big questions and mysteries and it seemed, no matter how hard he tried, that he never reached the end of the string of questions that might provide the ultimate answer.  The questions he asked, despite the systematic system's promises, were not answerable.  He slowly understood that a person would never be able...
Catholic OCD: Misplaced Loyalty (The Management Minute)
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Although your OCD/Scrupulosity demands absolute loyalty from you, it will not return the favor.  It has no loyalty whatsoever; it only cares about your anxiety and your guilt.
Catholic OCD: The Necessity of Risk (The Management Minute)
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Although it is true that people who do not suffer with scrupulosity are not constantly bombarded with questions, second-guessing themselves and the people around them, it would not be true to believe that there are no questions and no anxiety as part of their lived experience.  The difference is found in the magnitude and the frequency of the questions about life and not necessarily in the pres...
Catholic OCD: Love God and do what you please (The Management Minute)
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St Alphonsus Liguori understood the power of love. He understood the freedom that love provides. The freedom to be accepted exactly as you are. He also knew that when loved a person is determined to present the good that love sees, the best of themselves. This conviction helped him to better understand his primary relationship with the Lord. It gave him the confidence to proclaim "Do what you p...
Catholic OCD: An Unequal Exchange
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OCD demands full loyalty and attention. In return for this dedication, it will give you anxiety, guilt, shame and other emotional and spiritual challenges. It also promises you that it is honest and authentic, totally believable and worth the investment. It is a LIE. The exchange is unequal and does not lead to life.
Catholic OCD: Historical limitations and challenges to contemporary issues.
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As people who have been created by God we have been created in time, in this time and in the place. This is our lived context; this is our present moment. This is where we work out our salvation. When we examine the historical record, even the record provided by the great saints, we must accept them in their time and place. It is unreasonable to assume that someone who lived 1000 years ago unde...
Catholic OCD: St Alphonsus and scrupulosity (The Management Minute)
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Another contribution in the continuing series "Management Minute." In this video we consider the struggle of St. Alphonsus Liguori with scrupulosity and how he transformed his struggle, with the help of the Grace of God, into his life-long dedication to helping others.
Catholic OCD: The fear of mortal sin (Management Minute)
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This is a new series entitled "The Management Minute." Short reflections on subjects/topics that are useful in learning how to manage your scrupulous disorder.
Catholic OCD: More than sin (The Management Minute)
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This is a new series entitled "The Management Minute." Short reflections on subjects/topics that are useful in learning how to manage your scrupulous disorder.
Catholic OCD: Is it mortal sin?
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Is it really mortal sin or is it more accurately the fear of mortal sin? It is important to know and to understand the difference. In this presentation the requirements for mortal sin are outlined. In addition, helpful context and direction is also provided that might be useful and effective in your management of the disorder.
Catholic OCD: Pastoral Insights and Direction
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If you suffer from scrupulosity, please consider sharing this video with your priest confessor. In this video I speak about the dynamic of the Sacrament of Reconciliation between the priest and the penitent. I speak about the actual experience, the real feeling of disconnect that is manifested. I offer good, solid, practiced, and useful pastoral advice that will be helpful. This may we be one o...
Catholic OCD: Embracing Your Fragile Self
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It is hard to accept that we are so fragile as human beings. We all prefer to see ourselves as the "strong and silent type," or as "having our act all together." The truth is that each of us are quite a bit more fragile than we care to admit or to accept.
Catholic OCD: The Graveyard of the Gods
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This video is a little different than the videos that I normally upload to this channel. It is a meditation on developing a positive image of God, but I approach it from an entirely different starting point. I hope that it inspires those who watch it and that it does not make you anxious. If you are prone to anxiety when thinking about images of God, perhaps you might want to skip this one.
Quiet Your Mind: Journey to the womb
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This is one of my favorite inner-quieting meditations. I find it very comforting and am often surprised by the images and experiences that it generates within me. A real moment of God's grace and life.
Catholic OCD: Jesus and Forgiveness
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Catholic OCD: Jesus and Forgiveness
Catholic OCD: The Devil you know
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Catholic OCD: The Devil you know
Catholic OCD: Why Doesn't Anyone Understand Me?
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Catholic OCD: Why Doesn't Anyone Understand Me?
Catholic OCD: Mindfulness. Not a trick but very helpful.
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Catholic OCD: Mindfulness. Not a trick but very helpful.
Catholic OCD: Pastoral Responsibility
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Catholic OCD: Pastoral Responsibility
Catholic OCD: The Catechism of the Catholic Church in Context
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Catholic OCD: The Catechism of the Catholic Church in Context
Catholic OCD: What is Lust? More than you might think.
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Catholic OCD: What is Lust? More than you might think.
Catholic OCD: Mental Gibberish and Our Image of God
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Catholic OCD: Mental Gibberish and Our Image of God
Catholic OCD: The fear of Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit
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Catholic OCD: The fear of Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit
Catholic OCD: The Examination of Conscience.
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Catholic OCD: The Examination of Conscience.
Catholic OCD: Helps for those living with a scrupulous person
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Catholic OCD: Helps for those living with a scrupulous person
Catholic OCD: Sin, Sin everywhere a sin
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Catholic OCD: Sin, Sin everywhere a sin
Catholic OCD: Can't stop the feeling
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Catholic OCD: Can't stop the feeling
Quiet Your Mind: Hand and heart meditation
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Quiet Your Mind: Hand and heart meditation
Catholic OCD: Human Sexuality, a perspective
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Catholic OCD: Human Sexuality, a perspective

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  • @KyrieEleison1990
    @KyrieEleison1990 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Father it’s true that sexuality is a gift, but as everything it must used accordingly to natural law made by God. Sodomy for example, is not a sexual experience, it is an immoral act, clearly forbidden by scripture and from Saint Paul. Do you agree?

  • @francesmcguigan3151
    @francesmcguigan3151 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Father this is so helpful.

  • @Okgreat-p5z
    @Okgreat-p5z 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Jesus for bringing father into my life ! May the saints pray for him, and the angels protect him

  • @ronhee57
    @ronhee57 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So good. Thank you.

  • @patrick764
    @patrick764 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you suffer from this worry, you have OCD. You are NOT a bad person. Get a therapist who can help you with this, and do not waste another second of your life in turmoil about your thoughts. Find an OCD therapist NOW.

  • @lonepheasant3489
    @lonepheasant3489 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I apologise if this is off topic just wondering if people are such good parents etc i.e friends family..why they can't aren't or don't stay together??

  • @martyfrank
    @martyfrank 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just want to know if the Confiteor we pray at Mass is contrary to what Fr is saying when we pray, "I have sinned in my thoughts and words" etc? Another point is that of resolving to stay away from occasions of sin when we ask for forgiveness in confessions. Fr said he watched 5 movie trailers of certain kinds and each gave occasion to certain thoughts which could lead to temptation to certain sins. Avoiding these occasions of sin seems IMHO to be prudent. Any thoughts anyone?

  • @sophiefajardo1268
    @sophiefajardo1268 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏THANK YOU FATHER.🙏 THANK YOU ABBA, THANK YOU JESUS, THANK YOU O HOLY SPIRIT FOR YOUR ETERNAL LOVE, MERCY, FORGIVENESS AND COMPASSION. 🙏I PRAY HAIL MARYS AS A REMEDY TO AVOID COMMITTING MORTAL OR VENIAL SINS DURING THE DAY AND THE NIGHT PRAYER WITH THE EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE WITH FR. JOSEPH MATLAK.

  • @sophiefajardo1268
    @sophiefajardo1268 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏THANK YOU. SAINT ALPHONSUS LIGOURI, ORA PRO NOBIS.

  • @ralphauer150
    @ralphauer150 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What helped me watching NDE’s

  • @Raychi91
    @Raychi91 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ocd is horrific I keep getting rude thoughts of Mary and Jesus very rude ones 😢 it upsets me so much

    • @MotherMary112
      @MotherMary112 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stay more time before the blessed sacrament or atleast look at an image of the blessed sacrament that helped me to cure myself and obtain other more virtues

  • @averyvery18
    @averyvery18 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless your heart. I needed to hear this. Sometimes I get anxiety almost to a panic attack when I hyperfixate on every moments starting from my thoughts to my words to my actions. Its tiring🥺

    • @michaelkruger9368
      @michaelkruger9368 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know the feeling sister. Praying for you 🙏

  • @Volaer1
    @Volaer1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello father, could you please elaborate or clarify what does the Catechism mean when speaking about “inward” utterances that constitute blasphemy. Would it be correct to say this is not referring merely to inappropriate thoughts in themselves but presume also a malicious intent, such hatred of God or desire to mock God. Or am I mistaken? Thank you.

  • @judiehernandez8230
    @judiehernandez8230 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you father🙏🏼♥️

  • @ocdab0ss049
    @ocdab0ss049 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If I were to knowingly get on the internet to look at an explicit photo, and then choose to stop looking at it, is it still mortal sin?

  • @StephenB-u8r
    @StephenB-u8r หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well stated. Thank you Fr.

  • @annerudd860
    @annerudd860 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for posting this video, Father. I can’t even express my gratitude.

  • @Aidan-ku6tz
    @Aidan-ku6tz หลายเดือนก่อน

    first off, God bless, secondly how do you have a video on this exact subject i was not expecting to find this

  • @conniecline201
    @conniecline201 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you father this was so helpful

  • @dankmatter3068
    @dankmatter3068 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Father I love you, thank you!!!

  • @thephotoandthestory
    @thephotoandthestory หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tgis was an interesting discussion and important....My wife and me are on ten years of living a chaste marriage. I won't make a judgment on those who do not abide by Pope Paul VI's HV, but I will say that rather than finding it lacking or incomplete, it seems to me to enlighten me, perhaps unintentionally, to the idea that sex has purpose(s) and end goals, and that the further distance between that we generally have understood as "normal" sexual behavior and the prevailing culture the less sustainable and lievable our world has become. I think social science, rather than a study of physical science could back that up. I am a Gen Xer and mine was tge first "liberated" generation. From a purely secular level I think the "loosening of morals" HV warned about has born out a lot in my lifetime and has reached a very dangerous point where young men and women don't really interact much for the purposes of family formation. The idea of family as primary for organising society has colapsed. The void is being filled by radical progressivism, radical traditionalism or just plain toxic misogyny. None of this helps the person struggling with scrupolosity or actual sexual sin, but it is to say I don’t believe we need a rigorous understanding of the physical sciences to understand sex and sexuality shoukd be handled with care.

  • @dankmatter3068
    @dankmatter3068 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This Father I would trust with anything, and I have serious trust issues.

  • @Josh-zu6uo
    @Josh-zu6uo หลายเดือนก่อน

    If anyone wants the song for this video. It is "From Within" by Kevin Graham

  • @TOM-ov8oc
    @TOM-ov8oc หลายเดือนก่อน

    Severe Trauma can effect your relationship with Christ . Live through a war as a baby I just know Blessed Mother has me . That's all that matters , Jesus does not judge us like we judge people He judges us by our whole being including psychologically. Jesus wants us to get to heaven more than we do Believe me.

  • @josephinemacken4391
    @josephinemacken4391 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you very much, Fr. Santa, for your dedicated ministry to those of us with scrupulosity. My life has been made better because of your scrupulous anonymous publications. I do have a request: I would like to ask if you could mute the background music because I think it interfered with digesting what you were saying. The background music makes it hard to process what you have said. It is just my opinion but please do consider removing the background music. If I could present myself to be credible in my assessment, I have a degree in medicine. The music interferes with thought processes as the hearing of music and the hearing of your words occur simultaneously, competing with each other. Thank you.

  • @St.DemetriostheMyrrhGusher
    @St.DemetriostheMyrrhGusher 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for baptizing me 6 years ago!

  • @marymorris6329
    @marymorris6329 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Matthew 15:22-29. Healed.

  • @marymorris6329
    @marymorris6329 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1 john 4:4

  • @kellysoo
    @kellysoo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Father. God bless you. I needed this video.

  • @Remedey49
    @Remedey49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This content is an absolute oasis of healing in what has been a long and torturous journey through a deep valley of despair. Thank you, Father. Im amazed and feel joy I didn't know existed, I can make it another day. ❤ Ave Maria

  • @angusmcflynn
    @angusmcflynn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God Bless you Father. I have really needed this good counsel. My thanks.

  • @ChristoJP
    @ChristoJP 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sir.

  • @fiveelevenevan
    @fiveelevenevan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thought this one meant "is Catholic OCD a mortal sin" and was terrified for a second, haha. Regardless, I was having a rough day with intrusive thoughts and really needed this. Thank you, Father!

  • @Vatroslavv
    @Vatroslavv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much 🥺

  • @ksagg2008
    @ksagg2008 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Father: Could you help explain Romans 1: 18-32. Paul discusses that the pagans burned with Lust toward each other. The Lust that King David had resulted in him taking a life because he wanted his wife, no matter what and nothing was going to stop him! I have heard that Paul was discussing Pagan temple worship that the "lust" was a lot of times, drug induced. I've often wondered about that. I "think" what you mean is that LUST is much much more than just plain sexual attraction and desires. The story of King David really puts it into a whole different level. Thanks kindly

  • @ChristoJP
    @ChristoJP 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @ksagg2008
    @ksagg2008 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was very helpful Fr. It would be great to give a talk about homosexuality, as I struggle with that. I know many gay couples that don't appear to have a lustful relationship, but I also am well aware of parts of the community that are driven by lust, which leads to a lot of trouble in their lives and yet, the Lord loves them as much as he loves me. Lust is a biggie for sure.

  • @heavybar3850
    @heavybar3850 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've struggled greatly with this. My battle against lust started out as a battle against masturbation and pornography, but it slowly turned into an ocd battle against sexual thoughts where I am obsessively trying to not look at women with lustful intent. Needless to say ever since I've been obsessively concerned with not looking at women lustfully I now do it more then ever because its always on my mind. This obsessiveness has lead me down a dark path of constantly falling back into masturbation and pornography. Im also an illustrator and routinely study the human figuire as part of my work. Never have I been filled with such anxiety during my drawing sessions. This video has helped tremendously. Thank you Fr.

    • @dónalÓNiadh
      @dónalÓNiadh หลายเดือนก่อน

      My friend, I have been in the same position of you. I'm observing St. Michael's Lent (August 15th- September 29th), and fell into the sin of self abuse in the first couple of days. I then prayed the Mary, Untier ot Knots Novevna. The nine days helped me so much as I didn't wamt to let God and Our Lady down by falling during the nine days. Since then, I am doing well. As a single man who suffers with anxiety, and has a lot of time on his hands, I have struggled but I am doing much better. I will pray for you to look up the Novena and win your battle. The fact that you are struggling shows that you have a good conscience and want to get out of this bad habit. God forgives us each time we fall and repent, and so long as you are sorry, and actively try to change, don't be so hard on yourself. God bless.

  • @megan8832
    @megan8832 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don’t have an appetite but I’m underweight and I get a runny nose when I eat (a histamine reaction) I also get full before I’ve eaten enough calories because out of the foods I’ve tried I react the least to beef. Should I still eat or is it gluttony to finish if I’m physically full and/or have the histamine reaction? I feel it is wrong so I avoid eating or eat very little

    • @solomiyakovalenko3568
      @solomiyakovalenko3568 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gluttony is when you are using food as a coping mechanism, and putting food above God. You are eating to make sure you survive, and making sure even though you are uncomfortable, you eat enough to nourish your body. If you are worried, just see how many calories you need to eat to gain weight and try to hit those calories. That way, you are not “overdoing it” (which i’m sure you wouldn’t be).

  • @richyburnett8982
    @richyburnett8982 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sounds like modernism

  • @ViaOjo
    @ViaOjo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for this!!! The temptations are sometimes so strong that I wonder if it’s a mortal sin though I have no intention of carrying it out.

  • @guilhermedelcampo4832
    @guilhermedelcampo4832 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Near occasion of sin for me its one of the most stressful situations, I acknowledge that I put myself in bad situations, but not with the intention to sin, so I get stress and afraid, and cnfuse, want to overcome scrupulosity but think I am just trying to harden my heart and deny that I have sin.

  • @christinawelbeck3151
    @christinawelbeck3151 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Father. I am blessed to be led by grace to your service today.

  • @Derbyyy
    @Derbyyy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A good rule of thumb is that if you are afraid that you have blasphemed the Holy Spirit, you likely haven’t. It is to spread lies and convince the public that the Holy Spirit and God’s grace comes from a wicked/demonic source. It is to say the exact opposite of the truth, and to then spread it knowingly to the world. The people most susceptible to the unforgivable sin today, are still the same people it was originally referenced to if you know the scripture. They knew that Jesus was performing miracles in the name of God, and they knew he was the messiah, yet they denied him and professed to others that he worked for the devil.

  • @aldomonteon9361
    @aldomonteon9361 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Father Santa

  • @MajorTom546
    @MajorTom546 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen 🙏 bless you Fr

  • @Shlomayo
    @Shlomayo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can thoughts not be sinful, when we say in the Confiteor that we have sinned in THOUGHT, word, and in deed: Peccavi nimis cogitatione, verbo et opere.? "For perverse thoughts separate from God" Wisdom 1:3

    • @trogbison1625
      @trogbison1625 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thoughts must be wilfully indulged in to be sinful. If an intrusive thought is repudiated, it cannot be considered a sin, since God is aware of our fallen nature and knows that we cannot possibly block our mind from all evils and are prone to having sudden bad thoughts, even if we don’t desire them.

    • @Shlomayo
      @Shlomayo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@trogbison1625 But this is not what Father seems to be saying in the video

  • @Mary-y9z
    @Mary-y9z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dont think we can comit blaphemy against holy spirit in this world. U coyld when he was here on earth and again when he comes back

  • @cartercurrans8812
    @cartercurrans8812 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is actually helpful

  • @anupamahaldar7063
    @anupamahaldar7063 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I accidentally make promises that l can't keep.l am scared to be bound by promises.