My Biggest Insights as a Marriage Therapist Part 1

You don't need to go to marriage therapy to start making some significant changes in your relationship. You just need two things: (a) the knowledge of how to grow together, and (b) 100% buy-in from you and your spouse. In the first part of this two-part series on my biggest insights as a marriage therapist, you'll get a lot of that knowledge.
Expect to learn the first three of eight of my biggest insights that you can start implementing in your marriage together today.
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Commenting before fully watching. How long am I supposed to put in the 'extra' effort before that becomes resentment? How long do I wait for him to catch up before the damage is done?

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@@alycadabra7956 Good question. It varies so much by the situation. Have you two talked about the sort of marriage you both want? That’s important.
The best way to prevent resentment is by challenging the reason you’re doing something. Are you bettering yourself because you want to be better, or because you want your spouse to take a hint and be better? The former will prevent resentment no matter what your spouse does. If your goal is something completely within your control, you can always accomplish it. If it depends on your spouse’s actions, you’re likely to be frustrated that he isn’t doing more of what you want more quickly