I made it short. My father recently passed away. My brother disowned my father, and only me and my sister were left to care for him. Our husband doesn't let him stay with us. I regret being a hmong daughter. I either broke my marriage or saved my father life. Me and my sister had a plan to bring him back here in the U.S. when we visited him but sadly we passed away before we visited him. Anyways, we finally bring his body over here and have his services in the U.S. Tu siab tshaj plawv ywj los yog ib tu ntxais hmoob ua tsis muaj 1 txog cai nrog cov tub. Tseem tsis muaj tub los txog tu siab.
Txhob txhawj os mi viv ncaus. Kuv ntsib teeb meem ib yam nkaus li koj zaj neej neeg thiab tabsis peb li ho yog peb niam. Peb txiv ho ua ntej lawm. Txoj kev khuj noj khuj haus thaum lub sijhawm li ntawd ces yog kua muag ib kua muag daw xwb nws noj nws tsis ntev kiag ces nej yuav pom kev npam rau nws lawm os mog. Kuv li ces tau 3 xyoos ntau me me xwb ces kev ntsim siab twb caum cuag nws lawm. Ua siab loj os mog. Nej yeej ua tau zoo kawg lawm. Nej yeej tsis pluag li os mog.
@@moniqueartea7047Kuv tsis to taub hais tias ua cas es muaj ib txhia tib neeg es ho yuav mus ntshaw luag tej nyiaj ua luaj li ned. Tab sis twb tsis paub hais tias luag tau kev txom nyem kev nyuaj siab lawm es tseem yuav mus kaus luag noj luag haus thiab siab li hiam tshaj plaws li nej tsis pom los thov kom lub ntuj pom xwb maj nawb
Same thing happened during my dad's funeral except his son's was still alive. They were just sissy and couldn't do anything for my sweet papa. One day out of the funeral my dad's 1st cousin took the bag of money from me and took it home. I know he took money out but I said one word that if he did take some money and used it...that was just death money and that it would break him. So few years later he got surgery on his foot and his wife got her ovaries pulled put and their niece died from covid. Karma will take its course. They will have their turn in hell.
Cov niag ntsej muag tsa nees ko mas ntxim ntxhub dhau os! Hmoob mas saib tsis taus peb cov ntxhais thiab xav kuj noj kuj haus tsam plaws li os! Nej cov tsa nees ko lawm koom siab kaus nej noj tag lawm xwb nej tsis xub nram court xwb os! Nws noj tag los nws yeej tsis muaj nws tsuas muaj pluag thiab liam sim xwb tej nyiaj ko yog nyiaj los kua muag kev ploj kev tuag xwb!😢
Koj cov nus kwv tij ntawd ntshaw nyiaj tiag tab sis nyiaj kua muag iab kua muag daw xwb lawv yuav lawv. Koj txiv yeej pom tej no ua ntej nws ncaim lub ntiaj teb no lawm. Continue to love and support each of your sisters.
So sorry for your lost sisters. Leej twg nyiag noj cov nyiaj kua muag iab kua muag daw yuav tsis muaj lub neej zoo ua. Krama will get them, they will on have bitter tears. Daughters Empowerment!!!!
People that values money over family are nothing less than evil. But it's ok they do what they think they are untitled to cuz there will be one like them to repeat the same cycle once it's their turn to go meet their creater.
Hmoob ces tsis hais pab twg li os lawv mas yeej yuav tsum ntshaw cov nyiaj tshav ntuj nkaus 2 xwb lawv yeej yuav txeeb kom tau mus rau cov tub nkaus 2 xwb tab txawm nyuag tub ntawv twb tsis muaj ib dollars li los cov kwv tij yeej yuav txeeb kom tag mus rau tus tub xwb mas lawv siab thiaj nqi.
Tus me muam kuv lmoog koj zaj neej neeg txog ntawm koj tus nus uas tuag rau tus kab mob na kuv lub kua muag poob2 os mog vim kuv tus me muam hlob los tuag rau tus kab mob thiab os tsis tag li wb tus me ntxhais los tau tus kab mob tob yam es kuv tus me niam tsev niam pheej txoj hmoo mus zoo zos yuam tshuaj rau noj rau haus yuav zaub mov rau noj es thiaj cawm tau tus me ntxhais os es koj tus me nus yog nej txhob ntshai es zov zos yuam tshuaj rau noj pub zaub pub mov rau nws noj es tej zaum twb cawm tau nws os es yog ib qho tu siab kawg os mog
Let those money grabber go. They won't live a happy life nor go anywhere with their life. Conning someone for money is not gonna make you rich. Every dog has its day. This is one thing I hate so much about hmong culture. Its all about money. If there is no money, they don't love you. Karma will get them one day. I'm sorry that you and your sisters lost so much and went through so much. ❤
Kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no ua rau kuv tus siab heev vim kuv txiv yug tau peb 6 leej ntxhais ho 2 ob tub ib yam zoj neej neeg no os 😢😢 hnov li no ma hlub yus niam thiab txiv heev😢😢
Kv nyiam mhoog koj cov neeg neej heev o tam sis no kv lub neej lwj siab vim txiv ua hluas xwb e niaj hnub mhoog koj cov neej neeg li o tsi puab tiav lub neej no yuav xuas li cas o
Why didn't the sister take the parents, instead left the burden on the last son. SMH if they would just had taken the parents the son would be living in the house instead of the cold ass car smfh
I agree. I wouldn't let my brother just die out in the car like that. They talk bout how the sisters do all that but really couldn't come together b4 the brother just died so sad like that.
Me viv ncaus aws.... peb tuaj ua neej nyob mekas teb no ces tsis hais tus tub yug los yog cog tub sab nrau os mog lub neej tam sis no ces lawv hais nyiaj xwb os vim muaj 1 co yeej khaws xyeem noj dawb2 xwb. Muaj lub ntuj pom es lub ntuj mam li rau txim xwb os. Kav tsij hlub nej cov txiv, cov me nyuam, thiab nej cov viv ncaus xwb tsis txhob mus quav ntsej cov neej ua xav noj nej. Nco ntsoov tias tus twg hlub nej ced nej hlub tus ntaw xwb.
Neeg tuag ces sawv daws tuaj saib quaj ib ob lub kua muag ces coj mus faus los sis ntsaws qhov cub hlawv xwb es cas nej hmoob nim ua cuag li nchuav nyiaj kub pam ces niag tuag yuav sawv rov los na? Dab yeej tsis quaj tsov yeej tsis nyooj li los sav. Tag kas nub hauv ntiaj teb lawm es thiaj tuag lawm, yeej tsis sawv los lawm ma. Nim yuav mas ntiav nyiaj luam lug rau neeg tuaj seb lawv puas qhuas nej na. Muab nyiaj cob lawv tes ces lawv ham tsis khaws siv xwb…es tseem ua plaub. Npwb tas tas, nej os
I’m ok with the daughters caring for their parents as long as they also care for their in-laws the same. Trust no one with money!!! God see and knows everything. Let his own evil doing give him hell.
I’m so sick and tired of these old Hmong practices and traditions where the relatives, your own bloodline, cannot be trusted. There is no reason why the daughters can’t hold the money and then the others can request it as necessary to take care of the funeral arrangements. SMDH, such a shame for our culture, though I’m sure we’re not the only ones going through this. We need to do better.
Sigh… I believe me and my sisters will be in your same boat when my dad goes. My mom already passed away. I’ve been telling my sisters to be ready one day when the uncles get on our nerves.
Big red flag when all of a sudden, someone calls and ask you to give him money to hold for you. Friends will turn into enemies when lots of money is involved. You should had never agreed to his proposal. Instead, you should had given it to someone you trusted... not someone who tells you to trust him/her... or better yet, manage the money yourself.
Niam ntsuabteev kuv tus step brother ntawd tseem nyob thiab peb niam yau tseem nrog peb nyob ib lub ntuj es kuv yuav tham tsis tau nkawv txoj kev lim hiam rau koj hais rau TH-cam ib ziag no os. Ib hnub twg tsis muaj nkawv lawm kuv mam qhia peb zaj neej neeg rau koj tias kuv txiv tus niam yau lom kuv niam laus wb es ua cas wb ho tsis tuag tabsis nws cov me tub mi ntxhais ho ntsib teeb meem npaum li cas es mob nws lub siab ua luaj twg. Peb tus nus ntawd lim hiam npaum cas rau kuv niam laus wb thaum kuv niam tau tag sim neej es tsis ntev kiag xwb nws twb tau txais kev mob npaum cas thiab no nawv. Lub ntuj nyob qe2 li lawm npam sai22 kawg li.
Sister aw, nej tus nus ntawv siab phem thiab khwv noj nej xwb os. Tsis ua li cas os tus neeg uas tseem khwv kaus tau u lub sij hawm u tau kev txom nyem ces nws tseem yuav tau kev txom nyem tshaj xwb. Nws siab phem kawg. Nej tseem yuav tsis muaj 1 tug neej tsa noj taus hais taus los mus hais kom tau nej tus nus no li? Nrog nej tusiab thiab khuv xim nej txiv, nej niam, especially nej 2 tug nus os.
Wow! You just lost your husband due to the worst virus ever!!! How can you remarry so fast!! Bad DIL! She could have wait at least after Covid omg. That tell me you don’t love your man to the heart. ❤️
She remarry too soon it doesn't mean that she doesn't love her husband. I hope people understand that she was so lonely and she have no choice. Because I been there before.
Peb tsev neeg Hmoob mas cov coob yeej yog cov coj siab phem li no tiag. Twb yog yus tus kwv tus tij cov tub nyab xwb los tseem nrhiav lub siab phem kom noj tau yus li no mas yeej tsis yog kiag li lawm tab sis yeej tsis muaj ib leej tus twg yuav muaj lub peev xwm hais kom tau kiag li thiab mas chim siab tiag2 li. Yog muaj receipts mas tsis muaj teeb meem, tab sis muab tsis tau ib daim receipts los sawv daws tseem hais tsis taus es tsev kwv tij no yog dab tsi lawm tiag.
It makes my blood boil. Cas peb ib cov Hmong thiaj li nqhis2 tej sunshine money no ua luaj li os. Tej nyiaj no es yog kua muag Iab kua muag daw xwb. Lawv noj yam tsis txaj muag rau lub ntuj thiab daim av li. It’s ok me viv ncaus, cia lub ntuj mas li txiav txim rau tus neeg ntawv xwb. Because karma does exist. When karma comes back at them, it will be 10 fold.
Since they did you guys wrong, when they got a lawyer, you should have gotten one to fight back. Everyone is for themselves these days so you shouldn't care to hurt them as they've hurt you and stole from you. Good luck and hope you get justice.
Unfortunately they didn't sign an agreement about giving him that much money. There is no signed or notarized doc that proves the lost of that money. But no worries what goes around comes around.
Ntuj os teb Aw ! Hmoob txoj cai no leej twg yog tus rhawv leej twg yog tus tsim tawm los rau hmoob siv rau hmoob tej ntxhais ? Puas yog poj ua cia yawm ua tseg ? txawm yuav yog pes tsawg niaj pes tsawg xyoo los hmoob yeej yuav tsis kam hloov pauv hlo li lov ? tos li hmoob lub neej thiaj li tsis vam meej li luag lwm haiv neeg. Koj muab koj tus ntxhais qua mus ua neej lub neej txawm yuav zoo thiab phem koj txwv tu nrho tsis pub nws tuaj tham qhia rau koj thiab cov neej tsa paub hlo ntag lov ? Yog li cas thaum nej ua tshoob tog niam txiv tus mej koob ho nkaw lus rau tus mej koob niam txiv tog tom ub haistias, hauv hlua peb muab rau nej tiam sis qab hluas peb tseem tuav no ma lov hmoob ruam. Hmoob cov kwvtij puas txawj sib hlub ? yog li cov hmoob ho mus coj kev cai tshiab puas ho coj txawv cov coj dab li cas ? Hmoob mékas tab txawm twb tuaj muaj noj muaj haus lawm los yeej tseem hu dab vum loj heev, niaj hnub no los yog muaj ib lub ntees mas noj tas ib ob tug nyuj thiab npua twb tsis tau muab tus qauv coj los ua kev cai cas yuav ntshaw noj ntshaw haus ua luaj ?
Wow! How can you do a funeral and spend $30k and not have any receipts?????? All lie hmoob os. They stole the money. Never give your money to relative only your siblings. We did my dad funeral, never once we argue about money. Who got more, who got less. We only focus on dad.
This story sounds exactly like a recent story that she told where the funeral arranger ate up all the money and can’t provide receipts. Either May is attempting to hype it up with the same dilemma to get a emotional reaction from the viewers or the hmong people keeps making the same darn mistake again and again and keep falling for the same scam. Should there be papers that are sign when someone accept $20k to $30k that is not their money in cash? At the end the dood end up bringing legal into the scenario regardless. And come on, after the relative tells the sister to stop, it appears that they have no mouth and common sense in this story anymore. Most people would not be scare of the relative mediation esp when it is against your favor and money is involved.
I don't get it...why some people are so into other people's money... these people are called gold diggers period. They are old people, brothers and sisters, suppose to help bury your parents when they are old and die. Not to rip each other's off. I feel embarrassed for you asking your dead father for good luck in life because you didn't love your parents. When your brother got Cov-19, he asked you to come take your parents so he can cured himself get better and you didn't get a helping hand. Now you have the face to come ask for forgiveness...please keep dreaming ok. Your blood brother you don't love you think the cousin brother will love you?. That's what I thought!.
I feel your pain. My sisters and I were in the same boat but we were very lucky that our nus tij nus khwv were kind and helped us righteously.
HMOOB DAUGHTERS POWER 💪👏👍
I made it short. My father recently passed away. My brother disowned my father, and only me and my sister were left to care for him. Our husband doesn't let him stay with us. I regret being a hmong daughter. I either broke my marriage or saved my father life. Me and my sister had a plan to bring him back here in the U.S. when we visited him but sadly we passed away before we visited him. Anyways, we finally bring his body over here and have his services in the U.S. Tu siab tshaj plawv ywj los yog ib tu ntxais hmoob ua tsis muaj 1 txog cai nrog cov tub. Tseem tsis muaj tub los txog tu siab.
Nrog nej cov muam tu siab. Tus nus kwvtij no lim hiam heev. Muaj ib hnub twg nws yeej yuav npaj.
Txhob txhawj os mi viv ncaus. Kuv ntsib teeb meem ib yam nkaus li koj zaj neej neeg thiab tabsis peb li ho yog peb niam. Peb txiv ho ua ntej lawm. Txoj kev khuj noj khuj haus thaum lub sijhawm li ntawd ces yog kua muag ib kua muag daw xwb nws noj nws tsis ntev kiag ces nej yuav pom kev npam rau nws lawm os mog. Kuv li ces tau 3 xyoos ntau me me xwb ces kev ntsim siab twb caum cuag nws lawm. Ua siab loj os mog. Nej yeej ua tau zoo kawg lawm. Nej yeej tsis pluag li os mog.
kv xav li koj thiab tej ntawv yus twb tau kev txom los nws tseem npav lub kaus kav tsis ntev li o mog
@@moniqueartea7047Kuv tsis to taub hais tias ua cas es muaj ib txhia tib neeg es ho yuav mus ntshaw luag tej nyiaj ua luaj li ned.
Tab sis twb tsis paub hais tias luag tau kev txom nyem kev nyuaj siab lawm es tseem yuav mus kaus luag noj luag haus thiab siab li hiam tshaj plaws li nej tsis pom los thov kom lub ntuj pom xwb maj nawb
Im glad to hear more and more stories of daughters empowerment in the community. Regardless of gender, both should have equal rights.
"Regardless "
@@MonaLisa-de4cp typing too fast lol
@@hlubkojforever1901 😄 I know sometimes it's auto type and auto correct.
Ntshaw nyiaj tiag2 li os cov kwv tij kom na 🥵🥵🥵
Same thing happened during my dad's funeral except his son's was still alive. They were just sissy and couldn't do anything for my sweet papa. One day out of the funeral my dad's 1st cousin took the bag of money from me and took it home. I know he took money out but I said one word that if he did take some money and used it...that was just death money and that it would break him. So few years later he got surgery on his foot and his wife got her ovaries pulled put and their niece died from covid. Karma will take its course. They will have their turn in hell.
That’s true sunshine $ it’s worth stealing.
Peb yog ntxhaig los peb yeej hlub tau niam thiab txiv ib yam cov tub thiab cov nyiaj uas ploj ces nyias ua nyias ris nyias xwb os mog me vivncaus cov nyiaj koobmoov hauv Tsev ploj Tsev tuag ces yog nyiaj iab nyiaj daw xwb tsis txhob ntshaw os mog
Ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag yus ua li cas yeej yuav tau txais li ntawd os hmoob aw…
Cov niag ntsej muag tsa nees ko mas ntxim ntxhub dhau os! Hmoob mas saib tsis taus peb cov ntxhais thiab xav kuj noj kuj haus tsam plaws li os! Nej cov tsa nees ko lawm koom siab kaus nej noj tag lawm xwb nej tsis xub nram court xwb os! Nws noj tag los nws yeej tsis muaj nws tsuas muaj pluag thiab liam sim xwb tej nyiaj ko yog nyiaj los kua muag kev ploj kev tuag xwb!😢
Koj cov nus kwv tij ntawd ntshaw nyiaj tiag tab sis nyiaj kua muag iab kua muag daw xwb lawv yuav lawv. Koj txiv yeej pom tej no ua ntej nws ncaim lub ntiaj teb no lawm. Continue to love and support each of your sisters.
So sorry for your lost sisters.
Leej twg nyiag noj cov nyiaj kua muag iab kua muag daw yuav tsis muaj lub neej zoo ua. Krama will get them, they will on have bitter tears.
Daughters Empowerment!!!!
Txoj no ho tsis muaj kev khaum los ua cas ned. Lawv twb siab phem.npaum no ua cas ho tsis khaum lawv no. Pab nej chim siab ua luaj li no na.😢😢😢😢
Ib tug neeg zoo li ntawv tsis need Lees ntsais nws ua nej li leej nus li os...neeg siab tsis caj yeej tsis nplua mias li os tus muam
We need to control our money if it is your parent's death...do not let anybody control it.
Please keep us updated when karma hits! Would love to hear more. It's very unfortunate that the cousin brothers are greedy and hungry money
People that values money over family are nothing less than evil. But it's ok they do what they think they are untitled to cuz there will be one like them to repeat the same cycle once it's their turn to go meet their creater.
Sister ... thov lub ntuj thiab noj av foom ces tus relative siab phem yeej yuav ntsib kev npam xwm os.
Ntuj aw txaj muag dhau os twb yog yus tus neeg xwb es tseem kom tej ntxhais vauv yuam thiab koj cov neej tsa ko ces yog neej qhau xwb os
Foom kom koj txiv rov los coj niag neeg siab pem. Ua neej es rau npav lub noj luag....
Hmoob ces tsis hais pab twg li os lawv mas yeej yuav tsum ntshaw cov nyiaj tshav ntuj nkaus 2 xwb lawv yeej yuav txeeb kom tau mus rau cov tub nkaus 2 xwb tab txawm nyuag tub ntawv twb tsis muaj ib dollars li los cov kwv tij yeej yuav txeeb kom tag mus rau tus tub xwb mas lawv siab thiaj nqi.
Hmoob sib hlub ces yog nyiaj xwb os mog. Hos tej nyiaj ntawv yog nyiaj ploj nyiaj tuag xwb txhob tusiab. Yeej tsis muaj leejtwg hla dhau txoj kev txomnyem os.
ghia rau nej tias tus neeg noj luag tug tsis txog twg nws tsuas muaj pluag thiab txom nyem nkaus xwb.nej cov Ntxhais txhob tu siab tus neeg uas tab meeg noj tus ntawv lub yuav pluag mus ib sim
Zaj dab neeg no Hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li o mi Viv n aww 😂😂😂😂
Hmong kev cai nqaim heev. Yeej hlub tsis taus leejtwg. Tus neeg haub noj yeej tsis muaj yeej.
Tus me muam kuv lmoog koj zaj neej neeg txog ntawm koj tus nus uas tuag rau tus kab mob na kuv lub kua muag poob2 os mog vim kuv tus me muam hlob los tuag rau tus kab mob thiab os tsis tag li wb tus me ntxhais los tau tus kab mob tob yam es kuv tus me niam tsev niam pheej txoj hmoo mus zoo zos yuam tshuaj rau noj rau haus yuav zaub mov rau noj es thiaj cawm tau tus me ntxhais os es koj tus me nus yog nej txhob ntshai es zov zos yuam tshuaj rau noj pub zaub pub mov rau nws noj es tej zaum twb cawm tau nws os es yog ib qho tu siab kawg os mog
Let those money grabber go. They won't live a happy life nor go anywhere with their life. Conning someone for money is not gonna make you rich. Every dog has its day. This is one thing I hate so much about hmong culture. Its all about money. If there is no money, they don't love you. Karma will get them one day. I'm sorry that you and your sisters lost so much and went through so much. ❤
Wuag ua cas tus nus no pluag npaum cas ho khuj pab me nyuam ntsuag no na
Kuv mloog zaj neej neeg no ua rau kuv tus siab heev vim kuv txiv yug tau peb 6 leej ntxhais ho 2 ob tub ib yam zoj neej neeg no os 😢😢 hnov li no ma hlub yus niam thiab txiv heev😢😢
May koj hais rov qab rov quav hais Niam tuag ib pliag nyab tuag pliab tub tuag nco zoo zoo mas thiaj confused peb niam no koj pheej hais zoo likoj tsis muaj siab hais li lawm
Makes me missed my dad. He would sat on the doorstep on a nice sunny day and waited for me.
Hmoob yuav tau tseg txoj ke xav tuav lwm tus pob nyiaj. Tus neeg twg taij tuav koj cov nyiaj ces tus ntawd yog tus twb yuav npaj siab kaus.
Tej niag neeg noj nyiaj li no yuav tsis Kav nws os tus sister. Lawv twb tsis Yog cov poob nyiaj tab sis tseem yuav noj nyiaj thiab.
Kv nyiam mhoog koj cov neeg neej heev o tam sis no kv lub neej lwj siab vim txiv ua hluas xwb e niaj hnub mhoog koj cov neej neeg li o tsi puab tiav lub neej no yuav xuas li cas o
Kuv txhob kam kam cia txiv ua hluas xwb mos. Koj pheej cia ces txiv thiaj muaj muaj siab ua.
kav liam os tu viv ncau tsuav nw xav tau tej nyiaj kua muag iab kua muag daw ntawd os cov neeg siab phem yeej tsi tau qhov zoo ib zaug li os
Hope the sisters find justice from the dad’s relatives.
Why didn't the sister take the parents, instead left the burden on the last son. SMH if they would just had taken the parents the son would be living in the house instead of the cold ass car smfh
What kind of question is that? No kids can feed and care for their parent(s). It’s a cult 😂
I agree. I wouldn't let my brother just die out in the car like that. They talk bout how the sisters do all that but really couldn't come together b4 the brother just died so sad like that.
Me viv ncaus aws.... peb tuaj ua neej nyob mekas teb no ces tsis hais tus tub yug los yog cog tub sab nrau os mog lub neej tam sis no ces lawv hais nyiaj xwb os vim muaj 1 co yeej khaws xyeem noj dawb2 xwb. Muaj lub ntuj pom es lub ntuj mam li rau txim xwb os. Kav tsij hlub nej cov txiv, cov me nyuam, thiab nej cov viv ncaus xwb tsis txhob mus quav ntsej cov neej ua xav noj nej. Nco ntsoov tias tus twg hlub nej ced nej hlub tus ntaw xwb.
txoj kev tu siab ces tsis pom qab piav li os 😢😢
Neeg tuag ces sawv daws tuaj saib quaj ib ob lub kua muag ces coj mus faus los sis ntsaws qhov cub hlawv xwb es cas nej hmoob nim ua cuag li nchuav nyiaj kub pam ces niag tuag yuav sawv rov los na? Dab yeej tsis quaj tsov yeej tsis nyooj li los sav. Tag kas nub hauv ntiaj teb lawm es thiaj tuag lawm, yeej tsis sawv los lawm ma. Nim yuav mas ntiav nyiaj luam lug rau neeg tuaj seb lawv puas qhuas nej na. Muab nyiaj cob lawv tes ces lawv ham tsis khaws siv xwb…es tseem ua plaub.
Npwb tas tas, nej os
I’m ok with the daughters caring for their parents as long as they also care for their in-laws the same.
Trust no one with money!!!
God see and knows everything. Let his own evil doing give him hell.
Money is the root of all evil! Nobody cared about your dad until his last days, but they only called to ask about his money. Shame on them!
Hmong people so money hungry those kwv tij are just money hungry always money first
That lawyer he got won’t protect him from karma that’s coming his way
Kuv mlog koj Tham tu siab heev 😂😂😂😂
Tus neeg siab phem noj cov nyiaj ploj tuag tas ces txojkev npam khaum yuav caum cuag nws. Txhob rawm zoo siab muaj nplus, nws yeej tsis nplua nuj, tsuas muaj kaub huam xyobtxhiaj pluag xwb.
I’m so sick and tired of these old Hmong practices and traditions where the relatives, your own bloodline, cannot be trusted. There is no reason why the daughters can’t hold the money and then the others can request it as necessary to take care of the funeral arrangements. SMDH, such a shame for our culture, though I’m sure we’re not the only ones going through this. We need to do better.
Cov dab laug cuav no xav tau nej txiv pob nyiaj xwb os Txhob kk lawv thiab
Don’t worry that sunshine $$ it’s just tear $$ so your cousin will get his own karma!!
Sigh… I believe me and my sisters will be in your same boat when my dad goes. My mom already passed away. I’ve been telling my sisters to be ready one day when the uncles get on our nerves.
Big red flag when all of a sudden, someone calls and ask you to give him money to hold for you. Friends will turn into enemies when lots of money is involved. You should had never agreed to his proposal. Instead, you should had given it to someone you trusted... not someone who tells you to trust him/her... or better yet, manage the money yourself.
No worries. Karma will catch up to them. Zoo uas raus lwm tus xwb los yeej tsis zoo uas li nawb. Lub ntuj nyob qis2 os mog.
niam ntsuab teem kv xa muab ib zaj neej neeg rau kj pab kv hai thiab pua tau o
Niam ntsuabteev kuv tus step brother ntawd tseem nyob thiab peb niam yau tseem nrog peb nyob ib lub ntuj es kuv yuav tham tsis tau nkawv txoj kev lim hiam rau koj hais rau TH-cam ib ziag no os. Ib hnub twg tsis muaj nkawv lawm kuv mam qhia peb zaj neej neeg rau koj tias kuv txiv tus niam yau lom kuv niam laus wb es ua cas wb ho tsis tuag tabsis nws cov me tub mi ntxhais ho ntsib teeb meem npaum li cas es mob nws lub siab ua luaj twg. Peb tus nus ntawd lim hiam npaum cas rau kuv niam laus wb thaum kuv niam tau tag sim neej es tsis ntev kiag xwb nws twb tau txais kev mob npaum cas thiab no nawv. Lub ntuj nyob qe2 li lawm npam sai22 kawg li.
Tham rau peb mloog nawd. Tos tsis taus koj zaj
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Sister aw, nej tus nus ntawv siab phem thiab khwv noj nej xwb os. Tsis ua li cas os tus neeg uas tseem khwv kaus tau u lub sij hawm u tau kev txom nyem ces nws tseem yuav tau kev txom nyem tshaj xwb. Nws siab phem kawg. Nej tseem yuav tsis muaj 1 tug neej tsa noj taus hais taus los mus hais kom tau nej tus nus no li? Nrog nej tusiab thiab khuv xim nej txiv, nej niam, especially nej 2 tug nus os.
Wow! You just lost your husband due to the worst virus ever!!! How can you remarry so fast!! Bad DIL! She could have wait at least after Covid omg. That tell me you don’t love your man to the heart. ❤️
She remarry too soon it doesn't mean that she doesn't love her husband.
I hope people understand that she was so lonely and she have no choice. Because I been there before.
Those relative have no right to hold your dad money. They only want to pocket those money.
Wow people so evil 👿
Peb tsev neeg Hmoob mas cov coob yeej yog cov coj siab phem li no tiag. Twb yog yus tus kwv tus tij cov tub nyab xwb los tseem nrhiav lub siab phem kom noj tau yus li no mas yeej tsis yog kiag li lawm tab sis yeej tsis muaj ib leej tus twg yuav muaj lub peev xwm hais kom tau kiag li thiab mas chim siab tiag2 li. Yog muaj receipts mas tsis muaj teeb meem, tab sis muab tsis tau ib daim receipts los sawv daws tseem hais tsis taus es tsev kwv tij no yog dab tsi lawm tiag.
It makes my blood boil. Cas peb ib cov Hmong thiaj li nqhis2 tej sunshine money no ua luaj li os. Tej nyiaj no es yog kua muag Iab kua muag daw xwb. Lawv noj yam tsis txaj muag rau lub ntuj thiab daim av li. It’s ok me viv ncaus, cia lub ntuj mas li txiav txim rau tus neeg ntawv xwb. Because karma does exist. When karma comes back at them, it will be 10 fold.
Since they did you guys wrong, when they got a lawyer, you should have gotten one to fight back. Everyone is for themselves these days so you shouldn't care to hurt them as they've hurt you and stole from you. Good luck and hope you get justice.
Unfortunately they didn't sign an agreement about giving him that much money. There is no signed or notarized doc that proves the lost of that money. But no worries what goes around comes around.
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Hub ! Cov niag hmoob no uacas yuav ntshaw luag tug ualuaj os hmoob america aw... Nej ma tsis yog neeg li tsis ntshai kev npam li. 😮
KARMA IS COMING...A CONTINUE STORY IS ALSO COMING...
Man! People sure does move fast after the passing of their spouse. 😏🤨
It’s called financial abuse
What? What a nyab??? You can’t even wait little longer? Wow….. tu siab rau tua tub…. Tuag tsis tau tso plig xwb twb mus yuav txiv lawm…
Sad.
Why u trust your cousin who isn't your blood brother? Your cousin just want your money. You as daughter can do the funeral as equal same as the son.
Ntuj os teb Aw ! Hmoob txoj cai no leej twg yog tus rhawv leej twg yog tus tsim tawm los rau hmoob siv rau hmoob tej ntxhais ?
Puas yog poj ua cia yawm ua tseg ? txawm yuav yog pes tsawg niaj pes tsawg xyoo los hmoob yeej yuav tsis kam hloov pauv hlo li lov ? tos li hmoob lub neej thiaj li tsis vam meej li luag lwm haiv neeg. Koj muab koj tus ntxhais qua mus ua neej lub neej txawm yuav zoo thiab phem koj txwv tu nrho tsis pub nws tuaj tham qhia rau koj thiab cov neej tsa paub hlo ntag lov ?
Yog li cas thaum nej ua tshoob tog niam txiv tus mej koob ho nkaw lus rau tus mej koob niam txiv tog tom ub haistias, hauv hlua peb muab rau nej tiam sis qab hluas peb tseem tuav no ma lov hmoob ruam.
Hmoob cov kwvtij puas txawj sib hlub ? yog li cov hmoob ho mus coj kev cai tshiab puas ho coj txawv cov coj dab li cas ?
Hmoob mékas tab txawm twb tuaj muaj noj muaj haus lawm los yeej tseem hu dab vum loj heev, niaj hnub no los yog muaj ib lub ntees mas noj tas ib ob tug nyuj thiab npua twb tsis tau muab tus qauv coj los ua kev cai cas yuav ntshaw noj ntshaw haus ua luaj ?
Wow! How can you do a funeral and spend $30k and not have any receipts?????? All lie hmoob os. They stole the money. Never give your money to relative only your siblings. We did my dad funeral, never once we argue about money. Who got more, who got less. We only focus on dad.
This story sounds exactly like a recent story that she told where the funeral arranger ate up all the money and can’t provide receipts. Either May is attempting to hype it up with the same dilemma to get a emotional reaction from the viewers or the hmong people keeps making the same darn mistake again and again and keep falling for the same scam. Should there be papers that are sign when someone accept $20k to $30k that is not their money in cash? At the end the dood end up bringing legal into the scenario regardless. And come on, after the relative tells the sister to stop, it appears that they have no mouth and common sense in this story anymore. Most people would not be scare of the relative mediation esp when it is against your favor and money is involved.
Which story is this?
Nej ruam tshaj
I don't get it...why some people are so into other people's money... these people are called gold diggers period. They are old people, brothers and sisters, suppose to help bury your parents when they are old and die. Not to rip each other's off. I feel embarrassed for you asking your dead father for good luck in life because you didn't love your parents. When your brother got Cov-19, he asked you to come take your parents so he can cured himself get better and you didn't get a helping hand. Now you have the face to come ask for forgiveness...please keep dreaming ok. Your blood brother you don't love you think the cousin brother will love you?. That's what I thought!.
Damn evil selfish people