Why I quit my $170,000 job after 6 months

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  • @ethylalcohol4605
    @ethylalcohol4605 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    First few seconds hits home :( I'm almost 5 months in and have been constantly watching 'how to quit your job' videos in youtube. It's just painful how much energy and time this job drains from me and yet I can't see myself enjoying even if I did advance in this career :(

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ethylalcohol - My heart goes out to you. In such jobs, we tend to feel powerless, particularly when we're unsure of what direction to move in. I understand it's easier said than done, but I hope you remember that no matter what, you retain the power of choice.
      Choose to look inward, to use your experience as a mirror to find your way. Choose to control what you can, and let go of the rest. Above all, choose yourself.
      I'm fully confident that you'll find your way, even if you feel lost or discouraged at times - you're on the right path. Keep being you, and doing what you can. I believe in you!

    • @ethylalcohol4605
      @ethylalcohol4605 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dennisxiao Thank you so much. I wish you the best in your youtube career. I hope you find success in your chosen path. Cheers and fighting!

  • @NicolasMoy
    @NicolasMoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the video Dennis! I too, look forward to quitting my day job as a management consultant. Thanks for sharing!

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate the kind words Nicolas! It will be a glorious day and I’m confident you’ll make it happen!

  • @Dillon-Sun
    @Dillon-Sun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved seeing your inserts of your dated journal entries, transitions, b-roll, etc. And appreciated the message this week! Great one man!

  • @sherryshang54
    @sherryshang54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video for young kids who are in high school, college and new graduates to watch! Nice video for parents as well ! Thank you for sharing! 👍👍❤❤

  • @Mona-Ali.
    @Mona-Ali. หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Dennis,
    Thank you for this video! I haven’t personally quit a job before because I just graduated this year. I’ve always loved art and design, and I took a step and created my first web design and it was SO COOL, but for some reason, there’s this voice telling me I can’t be like other designers (designers that make you think: why am I existing ? haha), so I started learning Data Analysis about three months ago (which I’m regretting right now, LOL). Your video literally popped up, and I felt like I had no choice but to click. Now, I’m taking it as a sign to do what’s best for me and to do what I have always loved to do, not just what others expect me to do.
    I also appreciate how you emphasized that quitting isn’t a black-and-white decision. It’s easy to watch short videos or stories and think it’s a quick, simple process, but I can imagine how much thought and emotional energy goes into making such a life-changing choice. Your perspective sheds light on that complexity, and it’s something I’ll keep in mind for my future decisions!
    Wish you all the best!
    Best regards,
    Mona

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Mona-Ali.Hey! This is really affirming for me to hear. I’m glad to hear you’re pursuing what you love and are clearly excited about! Following your joy will serve you more than anything else in life.
      Wishing you all the best! And keep me posted on your journey - I’d love to see some of your designs some time.
      Dennis

    • @Mona-Ali.
      @Mona-Ali. 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dennisxiao Thanks a lot, Dennis! I really appreciate your encouragement. I’ll definitely keep you updated on my journey!

  • @SreaputhmesaSun
    @SreaputhmesaSun หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just found your video while I was searching for this topic, thanks for your sharing. I still need to do a few things before I can officially quit.

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SreaputhmesaSun glad you made it here - wishing you well in your journey leading up to and after quitting 🙏

    • @adammorra3813
      @adammorra3813 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@dennisxiao i relate very much to the first 5 mins of your video. I've spent 8 months now watching these videos, reading books about quitting, yet still afraid to pull the trigger. What if i dont have enough money? So i say let me work another few months to secure my bonus. Then another 3 months for this 401k vest. Viscous cycle and worst since ive spent 15 years into this career. I dont even know who i am or what i have without this job.

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@adammorra3813 Hey Adam, I hear and see you. It can be quite scary to step into the unknown. As you’ve mentioned, beyond the financial instability, the loss of identity can be quite destabilizing.
      Wishing you well during this time, let me know if a continued conversation would be helpful

  • @poms_beats
    @poms_beats หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great thoughts, you moving your smoothie around was worrying 😂 but your mind is super interesting

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Appreciate the concern! I can safely tell you a year later I did not spill it 😅
      Thanks for the kind words!

  • @Octaviosaggio
    @Octaviosaggio 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excellent video. Thank you.

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Of course! Thank you for the kind words.

  • @samcostich
    @samcostich 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, Dennis!

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate you Sam!

  • @tushainnewman2198
    @tushainnewman2198 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great one bro!

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate you brotha! 💙

  • @bezpiecznastrefa9718
    @bezpiecznastrefa9718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! :D

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Appreciate the kind words :D

  • @cradleinthewoods
    @cradleinthewoods หลายเดือนก่อน

    We watched the same videos based on the thumbnails you showed and that led me here. LOL!

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@cradleinthewoods 😂 welcome!

  • @LD-vn3zu
    @LD-vn3zu หลายเดือนก่อน

    There’s a whole bunch of Asian parents slapping their foreheads about the impact of these “I quit” videos on their high achieving offspring. 🙂

  • @pandalilpig
    @pandalilpig 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wtg

  • @phil23us02
    @phil23us02 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dude .stop being a bad influence for the rest of the people who need to work in real life for 20us per hours
    You need some therapy. See the light soon

    • @dennisxiao
      @dennisxiao  23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@phil23us02 wishing you all the best in life Phil :)