Thank you so much for sharing your story! You really seem like an awesome guy and you have overcome a lot. I’m sure there are others who will be inspired by hearing your story and feel less alone ❤️
Sadly, I was a bully in elementary school - high school. It breaks my heart now as an older adult because I never took interest in the stories and lives of those I was mean to. Trust me, Karma has more than adequately made me pay it all back. I am now a social worker who is an advocate for those who are abused and neglected. I work every day to pay off my debt of ignorance. God bless Robbie, you're a tremendous and strong individual!
I was bullied my entire childhood by my only brother so there were no breaks, not even at school. I realised early on that I was gay and also very creative and expressive, loved music and wanted to be a singer but Every move I made, every breath I took was scrutinised and ridiculed, I could never express myself or be an individual lest I copped abuse from him and most my family. It was constant physical and mental, he is not aggressive now that he is in his 40s but he is still snide, foul mouthed, severely judgemental and repulsive in many ways. the damage was done, it affected my entire being, the trauma from that ruined my ability to live a full life. I was diagnosed with bpd and severe anxiety disorder at age 38.
@@Crazyguitarcrimrobbie I'll say I'm glad to see you still getting around and about. I always remember you being a great guy any of the times I saw you around school. Always be yourself and don't change! My buddy said he still has the guitar pedal you and him put together when he was in 10th grade.
For all the so called ‘tough guys’ walking around. Robbie is the real deal in my eyes eyes. Your one tough guy Robbie. Stronger than me anyway. I wish you the best in life.
That was my thought as well. Robbie has every reason to give up and let go, but yet he maintains a positive attitude. That's real strength. He's got my respect, for sure.
nice work brotha Mark I subbed to your friends channel [forget name] who travels all over the world and meets others along the way thanks for recommending and great channel
Trust me I still struggle with the stuff myself what your seeing is a warning from me to try to get help there’s more that I’ve struggled with then what I actually told but ya know something I wish i would have seen this sooner to actually talk to you about it
I have read about this but have never seen an actual case. This is heart wrenching. Robbie has overcome so much. He ia an incredible human being. He has been fighting for survival since he was in the womb.
You probably have met somebody with fasd , but didn’t realize it. It is more common than people realize and is a spectrum so you can’t always tell at first
Robbie is a king. I lived in the same small town as Robbie and he was always super friendly with everyone. It's heartbreaking to hear what happened to him growing up and him struggling with this. I hope the best for Robbie in everything in life
My adoptive cousin! A Great guy! Having Fetal Alcohol Syndrome myself surviving with a single blood sister having been the full brother of the one he mentioned we lost recently (Ashlee) which he did not name out of respect and safety for us and I appreciate it it's down to Me and Halee in the biological family (we were adopted at birth) I can relate to you on a mental aspect it took more courage than most of you will understand but we see it Robbie much love buddy ❤️
He's very intelligent and well spoken. He seems so lovely. So sad he had a hard life since he was born. Addiction is so selfish. People who bully and abuse him are trash. Glad he was adopted by wonderful people.
I can't believe a kid in high school could be so ignorant, arrogant, disgusting to bully another. It only makes sense to be a bully- in my mind.... if there's a horrific home life, or they're like a pyscopath, or perhaps... a billigerent, narcisstic exibitionist...or... I dunno, I don't get it.. :(
Although Robbie has been horribly effected by his mother's selfishness, perhaps not even considered, he has managed to turn into a warm and compassionate man. May his future be happier and love find him..💜
@@justindchaney there's loads of addicts on this channel getting pregnant by other addicts and continuing to use, then having their children either live with family or go into the system. Most of the comment section barely makes a noise about it. For me, I lose sympathy for people at that stage, if you want to get fucked up, no kids.
As a mother of a child with FASD I truly appreciate you giving this attention. I have had to fight so hard with Drs and the school to give my kid the services they deserve because fetal alcohol syndrome isn’t talked about and so misunderstood so many kids suffer. Thank you again I really hope this spreads more awareness. And Robbie is just what all of us should strive to be- a kind loving human being ❤️
I think this has been the hardest one to watch. My heart just broke for him. He did absolutely nothing to be given this lot in life. He is such a good person
This man is intelligent beyond words! He has taken the last thirty three years to accept and forgive those in his life. The amount of strength, knowledge, and acceptance it takes to be where he is now.
This is heartbreaking, addiction & careless choices from his biological mother damaged this man for life. Thankfully for his adoptive parents have given this man love & safety. He has such a positive attitude, Stay strong!
@ Melissa while I am not defending his biological mom's choices. I also am not judging her. No one knows what someone else is going through. This young man is a very strong young man and I hope he finds peace.
I couldn't watch the whole video because I'm about to burst into tears. What a sweet human being and God bless his adoptive parents for raising him to be the lovely man that he is today. I hope he lives a long, full and very happy life.
My mother was a meth addict and didn't know she was pregnant with me until three months in, I'm still not sure if she completely stopped when she found out. My grandma would always tell me I was lucky there was nothing wrong with me when I was real young but never understood what she meant until I got older. My mom has been clean for 25 years now. I hope this man can find happiness and continue to have more good days then bad.
My niece is being raised by my mom. My brother and his chosen child bearer can't stay clean. So it's best she stays with my mom and I help out every day. 8 years later...So far my niece seems ok. a little dyslexia but that's common either way. Physically fine. My mom says stuff like that all the time. I wish she wouldn't. Did it hurt your feelings when your grandma said that? I feel like it will hurt my niece if she catches on...
Wow ! I am so touched by what you said here. I was a meth user. I used my entire pregnancy with my first born son. He came out just fine. He is a grade ahead of himself. He's brilliant. It's truly a miracle from God.
I think that many have heard of fetal alcohol syndrome, but almost no one has seen it. Thanks Robbie for bringing this into the public eye instead of just being words. This will surely open the eyes of the future. very brave and inspiring thanks Robbie.
Man this dude is unbelievably amazing! His attitude about life is one we all should take notes from. I dont think he makes bad decisions either. I just think he is a kind and generous man, and unkind people have taken advantage and he has a hard time saying no. His attitude made my day!
Glad you’re here with us, Robbie. You’re needed in this world. I’m sure with Mark’s help you’re going to touch millions of peoples lives. It’s a beautiful thing.
@@Zachmegoodin I certainly hope so they have been amazing throughout still help me even tough sometimes I push them away cause I feel they’ve done more then enough for me I do feel guilty sometimes
Mark, thank you again for giving people a voice, a platform for them to just talk, be themselves, have someone listening (important!). Another amazing interview. Blessings!
The smile he had after he talked about proving those doctors wrong warmed my heart all the way over. I’m glad that he knows how far he’s come and that he’s proud of himself. I’m proud too kind sir. Such a sweet sweet soul. You can tell.
I was adopted when I was two. My Mom did drugs when she was pregnant - this one really felt personal .... thank you for sharing your story Robbie. I wish you continued independence and success in life.
@@a.marvellehoneyman4560 Yes I did my parents are incredible (and still are! in their 80s now) 🥰 Happy for your daughter that she also found a loving home!
@@SandiByrd awe, that’s so amazing to hear! Thank you for getting back to me. I hope you have a wonderful day. Your parents are blessed, as I am, it’s truly a very special vocation to adopt. I’ve always wanted to.
“Family dysfunction rolls down from generation to generation, like a fire in the woods, taking down everything in its path until one person in one generation has the courage to turn and face the flames. That person brings peace to their ancestors and spares the children that follow.” T Real The selfish decisions of alcoholic and drug addicted birth parents have long lasting effects. I'm so very sorry this was done to you. You're a strong person... a fire fighter.... and I truly hope you find love, peace and happiness in this world moving forward. 🔥
This was really nice to read. Thank you for that quote, it touched me immediately and I will remember it going forward. It's hard trying to turn around a generational problem rooted so deeply in the family. Many problems, in fact. It's hard to face it, but it's worse letting it continue knowing it will never end if you don't fight it. Again, thanks for the encouragement.
I think Robbie is quite handsome, carries himself well and comes across as confident & wise beyond folks three times his age. I wanted to hear him play his guitar. If he practices & is good there’s a world of communication in those riffs! Mark, please do a follow up & let us hear him play. My son plays killer guitar & cant sing on key to save his life. But he’s in a local band that gigs most weekends. He’s lead guitar & the other guitarist sings. Drum & bass. Music levels every field. Be great if Robbie could form, or become part of a band. The money ain’t good once you divvy it up. But it’s band mates, fun, & people dance, applaud & scream when you’re good. That from 30 or 40 people is as good as a screaming stadium. Let us hear him play. “Would you hear my voice come through the music? Would you hold it dear, as it were your own?” (Ripple - Grateful Dead)
@@Crazyguitarcrimrobbie The more you play, the better you get. Guaranteed. My son went through a bad patch from 14 - 18. Depression & rage. In a hospital they taught him to use the guitar to “vent.” It was almost funny. He’d be about to lose it, turn around mid sentence, go to his room & play LOUD. But it worked. And he got pretty good with all that “practice.” Whatever works. Whatever it takes. I think you are an inspiring man. Beating all the odds. Just keep on truckin’…
This handsome young man is so strong to go thru his life with his head up. Finishing high school. Not giving up. He has friends and family. He has hobbies. He has things going for him dispute his circumstances. I wish him the best.
Truly heartbreaking...He wasn't given a chance, by a selfish person. God bless him for being so strong. These kinds of stories really put things in perspective. 🙏
If these videos teach us anything it should be not to judge so quickly. His biological parents may have fucked up but we don’t know what demons haunted them.
@@KimbradleyMasterGardener yes that's exactly what I was thinking. I had a premie in the nicu and seeing those babies that should have been healthy broke my heart. No visitors and they never stop crying, they deserve better.
I have never left a comment on youtube before, but here goes. Robbie: you are one of the coolest guys I've ever gotten to know! Your attitude is such an encouragement to me! Mark: thank you for making it possible for me to meet Robbie! Robbie: you mentioned that you know Jesus Christ. You are close to the same age that Jesus was when he laid down his life for us, making a way for us to make sense of this cruel world, through the love that he is showing us. I didn't become a father until after 30. Trust me, there are girls out there that would love a nice guy like you. You've already beaten most of them, because they are jerks. You enjoy yourself as you go where Jesus didn't go, past 30 years old. I wish I could play guitar, but I'm too lazy. I do play the recorder though, because it doesn't hurt my hands. I used to play the tenor well, but my hands are getting too old, but I can still play the soprano. Robbie and Mark: Thanks again for working together and making it possible for me to get to know you guys! You guys are giants among men! Keep up the good work!
Jesus I never knew fetal alcohol syndrome was so severe. God help this man, so glad he was adopted by good ppl, I hope the rest of his life is kind to him🤞
I worked in Neonatal care and Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) is way more common than you think. In the US there are 50k related alcohol related birth defects born every year. Never drink during pregnancy. There is no “safe” amount of consumption.
@truth teller It can be worse. It depends on what stage of development the fetus is in inside the womb. No alcohol consumption is safe during pregnancy!
@@truthteller1908 Thank you, Truth teller. I saw miracles and devastating outcomes often all within a day’s time. I’m glad I had the experience as a medical/psychiatric social worker. I’ve learned so much over the years.
@@5thdimension625 yeah a younger of my family has it I am quite sure -- her mother is an alcoholic, the child was born with the facial features common to FAS (like the first time me and another relative saw her photos we said, 'FAS") and has behavioral problems but it wasn't diagnosed. I wonder how common this is too.
Interestingly enough, he struggles with executive functioning and other things just like I do after a massive stroke. I wish mothers would realize the lifelong, devastating effects FAS causes during pregnancy. Although my situation isn’t due to that, I too was adopted and wasn’t aware of the family history, it was hereditary. I certainly feel his pain. Thankfully he is independent, I am inspired by his story.
Both the children (a boy and a girl) of one of our neighbors in a well off neighborhood where I grew up in Sweden 40 years ago was afflicted from constant alcohol abuse by both parents. Hasn't thought about it in a while, but this video brought it all back. Thank you for giving voice to the stricken.
May I ask where? I'm from Knutby the most famous village in Sweden. Lot's of alcohol in the 80-90's countryside Sweden when I grow up, clearly less today but still around.
I live in Sweden and I've seen this in the 90:s when I worked at daycare. Very very sad. One family was drug addicts and the other one high functioning alcoholics.
It’s very admirable how he tries to have a good life, works and seems like a positive person. That takes strength and most people would be way more bitter about it. It really shows how important good parents are, the ppl who adopted him were amazing, you can tell.
My mother in law is a foster parent; her endless devotion and compassion for the children in her care brings me to tears. Those little ones can’t express how sad and scared and sick they feel - a lot of them have fetal alcohol or are born with severe drug addictions. To hear this young man express his journey is gut wrenching. I carry these participants around with me every day, some of them I think of at least once per day (Patrick, Norman, Bree to name a few that touched me and pop in to my head from time to time). Mark please take care of yourself; you’re carrying a lot of weight no doubt. Sending you love and light from Canada.
Awesome comment, I was happy to read this. Awesome for your mother in law...my mother in law does the same thing, she is raising 4 at the moment, 3girls and 1boy...they're all blood siblings and they're great! They were born with addictions as well
Robbie is a true inspiration to overcome the odds like he has and to so eloquently articulate his struggles and talk about what he has been through. Not only has he proven doctors and the general public wrong, but he has forgiven his biological family which is a lot more than I would have done. He could be holding grudges and letting it dictate his life, but he doesn't. We could all learn a lot from this dude.
Most of us would die for our children, never ever put them in danger in the womb. This young man deserves the very best in life, and he certainly is a remarkable person.
Ah jeez that's sad but least he was adopted by a beautiful family. He's a fine looking lad with a good heart. I wish him the best of luck in life. Hi from the West of Ireland
If you’re reading this Robbie, I just want to send you a hug. Hearing about your life and all you’ve been through is deeply saddening but you turn that sadness on it’s head with your positive and forgiving outlook on life. It’s truly inspiring. I’m going to try and be a bit kinder today. Thank you for the inspiration and positivity. Also, hug your parents for me, they sound like amazing loving people!
God bless you Robbie🙏I had a good buddy in the 90’s who had fetal alcohol syndrome. Sadly he died of AIDS cos he was a hustler to make his bread. God does have a better plan for you man…I hope you can keep up the good fight. You are a somebody who matters and don’t forget it!
This moved me to tears. I wish this man well. I texted both of my parents to tell them I am grateful for the wonderful parent they are. I am so lucky. My Mom and Dad raised me. They are still together and alive. I am so blessed.
The most painful thing to me is to hear stories like these, children being harmed, imagine not being able to breathe as a kid and having to have multiple surgeries just to breathe...its just evil - edit started crying about how he fears his parents passing away.. Adoptive parents like these are just wow the strongest people
This hurt my heart unlike any other video. The fact Walmart, such a huge corporation, couldn't accomodate, support, keep Robbie as an employee... is so upsetting. I have ADHD and was fired from a grocery store for being a little late (often just 2, 3 minutes) and knowing how much money these companies make but zero actual accomodations in place... is devastating really.
We go through life in different ways.. today people complain when their cell phone has issues or someone gets mad at how someone drives. When we slow down and hear stories like this you come to the conclusion that everyday is a blessing. My man said it best when he said "God has a plan" that goes for who ever you believe in. Always have more good days then bad....
Mark, this video was great for many reasons but mainly we get to see & hear from someone actually affected by alcohol abuse during pregnancy. It helps me to educate at work from a different perspective. I appreciate you & Robbie ❤️
When he spokes positivite & mentioned God. It touch me. " I literally said out loud "yes u can, God got u." Please continue to be u, cuz ur such a nice speaker. Your putting good in the world, way MORE then u know. God bless you bro
Thank you Robbie for sharing with us. My grandson has FASD and it’s a really difficult syndrome to navigate. I love him fiercely and I think that keeps him going. Unfortunately he fell into addictions which have made things difficult. Robbie you are an inspiration to all of us and yes, I too believe that God has a plan for you. Just imagine how many people you have helped by sharing your story and resilience. Thank you for your honesty. May the Good Lord bless you and keep you safe always…❤️😊🙏🏼
These hit hard. Robbie is such an inspiring person. Such a positive outlook for someone who has been dealt a terrible hand. Mark, send him to a concert!!
This speaks directly to my heart. I have experienced and am so familiar with so much of this content.. I also have a horrible history with psych meds, so many, adderall and Xanyx too, plus many others, only to get sicker time and time again. im so glad to be free from all of that going on 9 years. thank you Robbie so much for sharing this. you are a stronger example than many with a clean bill of health. thank you for sharing this Mark. I love your videos.
I cant watch this one, heart breaking. Keep posting interviews they are a gift to humanity. Everyone should be watching to open there eyes and see all human stories
I agree this is hard to watch, but all the other people Mark interviewed on this channel - this is what you need to picture every time they tell him about the children they’ve had while high.
What a humbling interview that was with Robbie.. The cards he was dealt in life were rough, but he's an inspiration and is doing his level best it seams. These interviews are fascinating and humbling Mark, a platform for people from all walks of life to share their deepest troubles and lives with us strangers. i have been quick to judge in the past, but not now,.. Keep up the good work. All the best.
Wow. This guy is so inspirational. I just want to offer him my friend ship. He is a good person who deserves to have good people in his life. Keep up the great attitude man!
This is a fantastic interview Mark. Thank you Robbie, you are very special. I've studied FAS, Child Abuse, Neglect, Childhood trama. I'm a retired Health and Safety officer for Health Canada. Its not easy to see these cases. You are so brave, Alive and well with support from your family. You're attitude is incredible! ❤ (Edited for grammar)
Hello I just wanted to let you know you I appreciate you coming out with your life story you articulated very well you should be a speaker about this for others who are struggling with the same issues that you have from the fetal alcohol syndrome you're handsome I love your curly hair God bless you young man and whoever raised you did a wonderful job be proud of who you are young man you are an inspiration to others
Hi Robbie, I'm a nurse and you have taught me much about the lifelong impacts of fetal alcohol syndrome. You are a victim, but it does not define you Robbie. You are so much more. What stands out is your obvious love for your family & their obvious love for you. I'm so glad you have a strong family. Hang in there and keep being you. Keep your face to the sun. 😊
One of my clients is a forensic psychologist, his specialty is fetal alcohol syndrome. He gives testimony in court to prove or disprove weather or not his client has this condition and did it affect decision making. It’s so sad that a woman won’t put the child first. I know with my children I was extremely careful with everything I did.
He was a kind hearted man in a hateful world and he caught everything that life ever hurled Like the oldest mountain he always stood so tall Forever showing what it means to be unbreakable
My brother has FAS, it mostly effected his brain, he was diagnosed with Mental Retardation (that was the actual diagnosis, don't come for me), at 8 years old and it still effects him today. He's never worked, took after our mom and lives on the streets, he's never even had a state ID. He's in bad health, and refuses to talk to anyone in the family. thinking of him breaks my heart, ive always wanted to help him but he won't help himself even when given the opportunity. This man is actually functional, good for him living his life! I always wanted that for my brother ❤
Such a beautiful person. Hearing about CCMH and his experience is heart wrenching. We had a daughter in the NICU for her first 5 1/2 months of life, multiple surgeries too. Hers was due to CDH (congenital diaphragmatic hernia). Hearing about other children passing is hard. Being in a hospital like that is rough, and I was an adult. Robbie’s story just brought me to tears. He’s got such an amazing outlook in life. I hope he keeps his head up…he’s amazing!!
Hang in there, Robbie. Thanks for sharing. Best wishes to you and your family. I’ll say a prayer that God continues helping other through your kind words and testimony in this video. 🙏
Thank you all for all your kind comments I appreciate it I was very nervous at first not knowing what to expect
Thank you for doing the interview! I'm sure it will touch a lot of people!
Thank you so much for sharing your story! You really seem like an awesome guy and you have overcome a lot. I’m sure there are others who will be inspired by hearing your story and feel less alone ❤️
You did an awesome job. I would be nervous too chatting with a camera pointed at me! Well done, you will touch so many people with this video.
Hey Robbie, it was a pleasure listening to you and you didn't look nervous at all. Blessings to you and your wonderful parents.❣
You are beautiful. Stay positive and encouraged. God bless.
Sadly, I was a bully in elementary school - high school. It breaks my heart now as an older adult because I never took interest in the stories and lives of those I was mean to. Trust me, Karma has more than adequately made me pay it all back. I am now a social worker who is an advocate for those who are abused and neglected. I work every day to pay off my debt of ignorance. God bless Robbie, you're a tremendous and strong individual!
Thank you for coming to grips with that.
Well done friend .
I'm so glad karma has made you pay it back.
I was bullied my entire childhood by my only brother so there were no breaks, not even at school.
I realised early on that I was gay and also very creative and expressive, loved music and wanted to be a singer but
Every move I made, every breath I took was scrutinised and ridiculed, I could never express myself or be an individual lest I copped abuse from him and most my family.
It was constant physical and mental, he is not aggressive now that he is in his 40s but he is still snide, foul mouthed, severely judgemental and repulsive in many ways.
the damage was done, it affected my entire being, the trauma from that ruined my ability to live a full life.
I was diagnosed with bpd and severe anxiety disorder at age 38.
I went to high school with Robbie. He was always a great guy, super friendly and nice to everyone.
Much love I’ve been watching the numbers go up I didn’t expect that
@@Crazyguitarcrimrobbie I'll say I'm glad to see you still getting around and about. I always remember you being a great guy any of the times I saw you around school. Always be yourself and don't change! My buddy said he still has the guitar pedal you and him put together when he was in 10th grade.
@@DeckDogs4Life that’s awesome
@@DeckDogs4Life actually just found his comment pretty neat
@@Crazyguitarcrimrobbie that's awesome!
I adopted my son at birth. He had fetal alcohol syndrome too.
Sweet young man....you fought to be here. You belong
Keep well
❤️ I’m doing my best
Thank you for caring
Thank you for caring and for having such a big heart ♥️.
For all the so called ‘tough guys’ walking around. Robbie is the real deal in my eyes eyes. Your one tough guy Robbie. Stronger than me anyway. I wish you the best in life.
What do u mean you can just knock him out in one go.
Or just shake his gourd
@@TheBuddhaVlogs30508 yeah but there are millions who have it better than you. Why use disabled people to feel content with yourself.
So true,
That was my thought as well. Robbie has every reason to give up and let go, but yet he maintains a positive attitude. That's real strength. He's got my respect, for sure.
“My childhood was good, went to Cincinnati for surgery to save my life”
Don’t take what you have for granted. Amazing interview mark
nice work brotha Mark
I subbed to your friends channel [forget name] who travels all over the world and meets others along the way
thanks for recommending and great channel
You're a good man Robbie. The world needs all the good men we can get
Totally agree
As a 3 month pregnant woman that has struggled with alcohol addiction before, this video was all the motivation that I needed. Thank you Mark!
@Jasa, You would never forgive yourself! I know, I'm raising a child with FAS!
Good luck
Trust me I still struggle with the stuff myself what your seeing is a warning from me to try to get help there’s more that I’ve struggled with then what I actually told but ya know something I wish i would have seen this sooner to actually talk to you about it
Psh
@@jankasza5538 you dranked while pregnant?
I have read about this but have never seen an actual case. This is heart wrenching. Robbie has overcome so much. He ia an incredible human being. He has been fighting for survival since he was in the womb.
He really is. I'm inspired by his positivity and will to live!
I have taken care of patients that were far worse behaviorally. Women need to realize what’s bad for them is bad for a fetus. So sad
You probably have met somebody with fasd , but didn’t realize it. It is more common than people realize and is a spectrum so you can’t always tell at first
@@jveanon I met more than one in a state facility as a nurse. I’m sure there were others
@@cozettalandry3429 oops! I replied the the wrong person! My apologies. (Btw I am a nuse too!)
Robbie is a king. I lived in the same small town as Robbie and he was always super friendly with everyone. It's heartbreaking to hear what happened to him growing up and him struggling with this. I hope the best for Robbie in everything in life
That's good to hear. I live right down the road from you guys in between Cross Lanes and Nitro. I hope he lives a long life.
Thanks I’m still alive and doing great
My adoptive cousin! A Great guy! Having Fetal Alcohol Syndrome myself surviving with a single blood sister having been the full brother of the one he mentioned we lost recently (Ashlee) which he did not name out of respect and safety for us and I appreciate it it's down to Me and Halee in the biological family (we were adopted at birth) I can relate to you on a mental aspect it took more courage than most of you will understand but we see it Robbie much love buddy ❤️
He's very intelligent and well spoken. He seems so lovely. So sad he had a hard life since he was born. Addiction is so selfish. People who bully and abuse him are trash. Glad he was adopted by wonderful people.
Some bullys are that way because of how they were abused and they never saw another way.
@@brandonluther80 true..it's a never ending cycle tbh.
Proof that a Loving ❤️❤️❤️ family makes all the difference in the world ❤️🎼🎵🎶🎸
That a joke?
I can't believe a kid in high school could be so ignorant, arrogant, disgusting to bully another. It only makes sense to be a bully- in my mind.... if there's a horrific home life, or they're like a pyscopath, or perhaps... a billigerent, narcisstic exibitionist...or... I dunno, I don't get it.. :(
Although Robbie has been horribly effected by his mother's selfishness, perhaps not even considered, he has managed to turn into a warm and compassionate man. May his future be happier and love find him..💜
Reminds me of that crack addict Savannah, who is pregnant and still unwilling to quit as we speak.
She needs to see this and think about her decisions
@@justindchaney there's loads of addicts on this channel getting pregnant by other addicts and continuing to use, then having their children either live with family or go into the system.
Most of the comment section barely makes a noise about it. For me, I lose sympathy for people at that stage, if you want to get fucked up, no kids.
It's not necessarily selfishness, for an alcoholic it's extremely difficult to stop even if they're pregnant.
They're sick. It's not like they like to be addicts.
@@powderandpaint14 yet, not impossible.
As a mother of a child with FASD I truly appreciate you giving this attention. I have had to fight so hard with Drs and the school to give my kid the services they deserve because fetal alcohol syndrome isn’t talked about and so misunderstood so many kids suffer. Thank you again I really hope this spreads more awareness.
And Robbie is just what all of us should strive to be- a kind loving human being ❤️
I think this has been the hardest one to watch. My heart just broke for him. He did absolutely nothing to be given this lot in life. He is such a good person
Agreed. Selfish actions from a selfish, impulsive person led to his current state. I'm glad he persevered, and thank God for his adoptive parents.
This man is intelligent beyond words! He has taken the last thirty three years to accept and forgive those in his life. The amount of strength, knowledge, and acceptance it takes to be where he is now.
This is heartbreaking, addiction & careless choices from his biological mother damaged this man for life. Thankfully for his adoptive parents have given this man love & safety. He has such a positive attitude, Stay strong!
Well said.
@ Melissa while I am not defending his biological mom's choices. I also am not judging her. No one knows what someone else is going through. This young man is a very strong young man and I hope he finds peace.
@@rebeccaperkins9638 We have every right to judge someone who preemptively ruined an entire schema of one's life.
@@rebeccaperkins9638 Melissa wasn't "judging ". She stated fact.
@@rebeccaperkins9638 like I said I’ve forgiven her for everything
This man is a gem. He is so strong and gentle. I wish him peace and joy.
so much to learn from him
It seems that experiencing unconditional love is a matter of life and death.
Wise man. Thanks for sharing your story.
I couldn't watch the whole video because I'm about to burst into tears. What a sweet human being and God bless his adoptive parents for raising him to be the lovely man that he is today. I hope he lives a long, full and very happy life.
Robbie is a great person and anyone that knows him personally knows that . He’s exactly how he is in this video in person 🥰
😊👏👏👏❤️
He seems very kind and honestly he seems articulate too.
@@user-od4zo1ow6d he is 😊
that is amazing to hear-this man is incredible.
Robbie, you've just found a few thousand more friends! I think you are incredible and very worthy
Hi Gracie
What an uplifting comment; I’m smiling ear to ear. Right on!
My mother was a meth addict and didn't know she was pregnant with me until three months in, I'm still not sure if she completely stopped when she found out. My grandma would always tell me I was lucky there was nothing wrong with me when I was real young but never understood what she meant until I got older. My mom has been clean for 25 years now. I hope this man can find happiness and continue to have more good days then bad.
My niece is being raised by my mom. My brother and his chosen child bearer can't stay clean. So it's best she stays with my mom and I help out every day. 8 years later...So far my niece seems ok. a little dyslexia but that's common either way. Physically fine. My mom says stuff like that all the time. I wish she wouldn't. Did it hurt your feelings when your grandma said that? I feel like it will hurt my niece if she catches on...
Wow ! I am so touched by what you said here. I was a meth user. I used my entire pregnancy with my first born son. He came out just fine. He is a grade ahead of himself. He's brilliant. It's truly a miracle from God.
I would hope so I am actually watching this over again to remind myself what I’ve been through
I think that many have heard of fetal alcohol syndrome, but almost no one has seen it. Thanks Robbie for bringing this into the public eye instead of just being words. This will surely open the eyes of the future. very brave and inspiring thanks Robbie.
So many people suffer from FAS and were never diagnosed! FAS affects the brain and is preventable by NOT drinking while pregnant!
God bless Robbie. I want to hug him and tell him he is important to me.
Aw same
Man this dude is unbelievably amazing! His attitude about life is one we all should take notes from. I dont think he makes bad decisions either. I just think he is a kind and generous man, and unkind people have taken advantage and he has a hard time saying no. His attitude made my day!
Same this guy is so emotionally healthy which is mind blowing considering the situation
This^
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@ Patrick, you are so right!
Glad you’re here with us, Robbie. You’re needed in this world.
I’m sure with Mark’s help you’re going to touch millions of peoples lives. It’s a beautiful thing.
Precisely. Well said.
This one really hits home with me. Looking at it through the eyes of the adoptive parent. Robbie is a beautiful person.
Same. I hope to God I'll be the kind of parent Robbie had.
@@Zachmegoodin I certainly hope so they have been amazing throughout still help me even tough sometimes I push them away cause I feel they’ve done more then enough for me I do feel guilty sometimes
Mark, thank you again for giving people a voice, a platform for them to just talk, be themselves, have someone listening (important!). Another amazing interview. Blessings!
The smile he had after he talked about proving those doctors wrong warmed my heart all the way over. I’m glad that he knows how far he’s come and that he’s proud of himself. I’m proud too kind sir.
Such a sweet sweet soul. You can tell.
Yes Robbie is a awesome man. He's a sweet guy and cares about every one and there problems too. He's my baby and I love him
Yes I am :) thanks hun
I was adopted when I was two. My Mom did drugs when she was pregnant - this one really felt personal .... thank you for sharing your story Robbie. I wish you continued independence and success in life.
Hi Sandi
I hope you had good parents Sandi. ❤️. I adopted my daughter when she was 15 months old.
@@a.marvellehoneyman4560 Yes I did my parents are incredible (and still are! in their 80s now) 🥰 Happy for your daughter that she also found a loving home!
@@SandiByrd awe, that’s so amazing to hear! Thank you for getting back to me. I hope you have a wonderful day. Your parents are blessed, as I am, it’s truly a very special vocation to adopt. I’ve always wanted to.
“Family dysfunction rolls down from generation to generation, like a fire in the woods, taking down everything in its path until one person in one generation has the courage to turn and face the flames. That person brings peace to their ancestors and spares the children that follow.” T Real
The selfish decisions of alcoholic and drug addicted birth parents have long lasting effects.
I'm so very sorry this was done to you. You're a strong person... a fire fighter.... and I truly hope you find love, peace and happiness in this world moving forward. 🔥
This was really nice to read. Thank you for that quote, it touched me immediately and I will remember it going forward. It's hard trying to turn around a generational problem rooted so deeply in the family. Many problems, in fact. It's hard to face it, but it's worse letting it continue knowing it will never end if you don't fight it. Again, thanks for the encouragement.
@Lila, Beautiful message!
I think Robbie is quite handsome, carries himself well and comes across as confident & wise beyond folks three times his age. I wanted to hear him play his guitar. If he practices & is good there’s a world of communication in those riffs!
Mark, please do a follow up & let us hear him play.
My son plays killer guitar & cant sing on key to save his life. But he’s in a local band that gigs most weekends. He’s lead guitar & the other guitarist sings. Drum & bass.
Music levels every field. Be great if Robbie could form, or become part of a band. The money ain’t good once you divvy it up. But it’s band mates, fun, & people dance, applaud & scream when you’re good. That from 30 or 40 people is as good as a screaming stadium.
Let us hear him play. “Would you hear my voice come through the music? Would you hold it dear, as it were your own?” (Ripple - Grateful Dead)
somehow missed that part
that would be great
Don’t put him on the spot, he might be an intermediate level. Seems like a cool guy tho
I’m more of pick and play guy I’ve been experimenting with open g on guitar
@@Crazyguitarcrimrobbie The more you play, the better you get. Guaranteed.
My son went through a bad patch from 14 - 18. Depression & rage. In a hospital they taught him to use the guitar to “vent.” It was almost funny. He’d be about to lose it, turn around mid sentence, go to his room & play LOUD. But it worked. And he got pretty good with all that “practice.”
Whatever works. Whatever it takes.
I think you are an inspiring man. Beating all the odds. Just keep on truckin’…
This handsome young man is so strong to go thru his life with his head up. Finishing high school. Not giving up. He has friends and family. He has hobbies. He has things going for him dispute his circumstances. I wish him the best.
Truly heartbreaking...He wasn't given a chance, by a selfish person. God bless him for being so strong. These kinds of stories really put things in perspective. 🙏
If these videos teach us anything it should be not to judge so quickly. His biological parents may have fucked up but we don’t know what demons haunted them.
@@Mikesmomshouse since when do people who hurt innocence get a pass at not being judged.
Original comment is 100% correct.
@@Angel-jr9kj if he ever saw a baby in DTs from alcohol he would not be so quick too "Judge " those that insist it's not okay 🙄
@@KimbradleyMasterGardener yes that's exactly what I was thinking.
I had a premie in the nicu and seeing those babies that should have been healthy broke my heart. No visitors and they never stop crying, they deserve better.
@@Angel-jr9kj If my point went over your head, just say that.
I have never left a comment on youtube before, but here goes.
Robbie: you are one of the coolest guys I've ever gotten to know! Your attitude is such an encouragement to me!
Mark: thank you for making it possible for me to meet Robbie!
Robbie: you mentioned that you know Jesus Christ. You are close to the same age that Jesus was when he laid down his life for us, making a way for us to make sense of this cruel world, through the love that he is showing us.
I didn't become a father until after 30. Trust me, there are girls out there that would love a nice guy like you. You've already beaten most of them, because they are jerks. You enjoy yourself as you go where Jesus didn't go, past 30 years old.
I wish I could play guitar, but I'm too lazy. I do play the recorder though, because it doesn't hurt my hands. I used to play the tenor well, but my hands are getting too old, but I can still play the soprano.
Robbie and Mark: Thanks again for working together and making it possible for me to get to know you guys!
You guys are giants among men!
Keep up the good work!
What a great guy,.. Just a pure soul.
What a precious soul with an awareness that is so perceptive! Bless his sweet heart ♥️ He is an inspiration!
Hello Amy, how are you
Jesus I never knew fetal alcohol syndrome was so severe. God help this man, so glad he was adopted by good ppl, I hope the rest of his life is kind to him🤞
I worked in Neonatal care and Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) is way more common than you think. In the US there are 50k related alcohol related birth defects born every year. Never drink during pregnancy. There is no “safe” amount of consumption.
@@5thdimension625 I'd say you saw some awful stuff during your job, thank you for looking after those babies ❤
@truth teller
It can be worse. It depends on what stage of development the fetus is in inside the womb. No alcohol consumption is safe during pregnancy!
@@truthteller1908 Thank you, Truth teller. I saw miracles and devastating outcomes often all within a day’s time. I’m glad I had the experience as a medical/psychiatric social worker. I’ve learned so much over the years.
@@5thdimension625 yeah a younger of my family has it I am quite sure -- her mother is an alcoholic, the child was born with the facial features common to FAS (like the first time me and another relative saw her photos we said, 'FAS") and has behavioral problems but it wasn't diagnosed. I wonder how common this is too.
You are here for a reason , you have a strong soul and good heart , stay strong brother.
Robbie you are a champion with a great attitude. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
This interview cut me to the core. Robbie made me feel human again and the importance of just being kind.
Interestingly enough, he struggles with executive functioning and other things just like I do after a massive stroke. I wish mothers would realize the lifelong, devastating effects FAS causes during pregnancy. Although my situation isn’t due to that, I too was adopted and wasn’t aware of the family history, it was hereditary. I certainly feel his pain. Thankfully he is independent, I am inspired by his story.
@Silver, “Lifelong and Devastating” 100% Accurate!
What an extraordinary commitment you have!
I can't even imagine the burden you carry just to bring this to us.
Nothing but Respect.
My adopted brother is Fetal Alchohol. Interestingly his name is also Rob. Thank you Robbie. You are an amazing man.
Both the children (a boy and a girl) of one of our neighbors in a well off neighborhood where I grew up in Sweden 40 years ago was afflicted from constant alcohol abuse by both parents. Hasn't thought about it in a while, but this video brought it all back. Thank you for giving voice to the stricken.
May I ask where? I'm from Knutby the most famous village in Sweden. Lot's of alcohol in the 80-90's countryside Sweden when I grow up, clearly less today but still around.
I live in Sweden and I've seen this in the 90:s when I worked at daycare. Very very sad. One family was drug addicts and the other one high functioning alcoholics.
It’s very admirable how he tries to have a good life, works and seems like a positive person. That takes strength and most people would be way more bitter about it. It really shows how important good parents are, the ppl who adopted him were amazing, you can tell.
Yes I think there is a combination of good parenting and possibly a little bit of positive brain chemistry which is interesting in his case .
Can’t blame people for being bitter about their parents being selfish and wanting to be high all the time.
Robbie is an amazing person and always puts a smile on everyone he comes in contact with
This is an incredible way to spread awareness. Thank you, Mark and Robbie.
The next time I find myself complaining about something petty, I am going to think of “Robbie.” What a trooper!
What a Great Comment, SO true 🫶🏻fifi
Not always easy
My mother in law is a foster parent; her endless devotion and compassion for the children in her care brings me to tears. Those little ones can’t express how sad and scared and sick they feel - a lot of them have fetal alcohol or are born with severe drug addictions. To hear this young man express his journey is gut wrenching. I carry these participants around with me every day, some of them I think of at least once per day (Patrick, Norman, Bree to name a few that touched me and pop in to my head from time to time). Mark please take care of yourself; you’re carrying a lot of weight no doubt. Sending you love and light from Canada.
Awesome comment, I was happy to read this. Awesome for your mother in law...my mother in law does the same thing, she is raising 4 at the moment, 3girls and 1boy...they're all blood siblings and they're great! They were born with addictions as well
Robbie is a true inspiration to overcome the odds like he has and to so eloquently articulate his struggles and talk about what he has been through. Not only has he proven doctors and the general public wrong, but he has forgiven his biological family which is a lot more than I would have done. He could be holding grudges and letting it dictate his life, but he doesn't. We could all learn a lot from this dude.
Wonderful guy!!! Glad his parents loved him❤️
Most of us would die for our children, never ever put them in danger in the womb. This young man deserves the very best in life, and he certainly is a remarkable person.
Ah jeez that's sad but least he was adopted by a beautiful family. He's a fine looking lad with a good heart. I wish him the best of luck in life. Hi from the West of Ireland
Yes , I really admire his adoptive parents. That is LOVE
If you’re reading this Robbie, I just want to send you a hug. Hearing about your life and all you’ve been through is deeply saddening but you turn that sadness on it’s head with your positive and forgiving outlook on life. It’s truly inspiring. I’m going to try and be a bit kinder today. Thank you for the inspiration and positivity. Also, hug your parents for me, they sound like amazing loving people!
God bless you Robbie🙏I had a good buddy in the 90’s who had fetal alcohol syndrome. Sadly he died of AIDS cos he was a hustler to make his bread. God does have a better plan for you man…I hope you can keep up the good fight. You are a somebody who matters and don’t forget it!
This moved me to tears. I wish this man well. I texted both of my parents to tell them I am grateful for the wonderful parent they are. I am so lucky. My Mom and Dad raised me. They are still together and alive. I am so blessed.
The most painful thing to me is to hear stories like these, children being harmed, imagine not being able to breathe as a kid and having to have multiple surgeries just to breathe...its just evil - edit started crying about how he fears his parents passing away.. Adoptive parents like these are just wow the strongest people
What a great guy. Inspiring and positive. Keep it up, Robbie!
This hurt my heart unlike any other video. The fact Walmart, such a huge corporation, couldn't accomodate, support, keep Robbie as an employee... is so upsetting. I have ADHD and was fired from a grocery store for being a little late (often just 2, 3 minutes) and knowing how much money these companies make but zero actual accomodations in place... is devastating really.
@ Cari, you are so right!
@@jankasza5538 ❤
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As soon as he said Wal-Mart I thought, "bet that didn't work out". They're horrible at accommodating anyone.
What a wonderful testimony! My grandmother used to say that if you think you have it bad, just look around because someone has it so much worse!!
We go through life in different ways.. today people complain when their cell phone has issues or someone gets mad at how someone drives. When we slow down and hear stories like this you come to the conclusion that everyday is a blessing. My man said it best when he said "God has a plan" that goes for who ever you believe in. Always have more good days then bad....
He is so remarkable, I am glad he has put his precious life in God's hands. You are so correct.
Pretty sure people have always complained about petty stuff. You just weren't around to see it.
@@sallyann985 yeah I was. I have 4 grandkids and today's world is so much worse..but to each their own.
Mark, this video was great for many reasons but mainly we get to see & hear from someone actually affected by alcohol abuse during pregnancy. It helps me to educate at work from a different perspective. I appreciate you & Robbie ❤️
If I ever find myself in West Virginia again near Poca, I'm going to look Robbie up and take him for dinner. What a great dude.
When he spokes positivite & mentioned God. It touch me. " I literally said out loud "yes u can, God got u." Please continue to be u, cuz ur such a nice speaker. Your putting good in the world, way MORE then u know. God bless you bro
Thank you Robbie for sharing with us. My grandson has FASD and it’s a really difficult syndrome to navigate. I love him fiercely and I think that keeps him going. Unfortunately he fell into addictions which have made things difficult.
Robbie you are an inspiration to all of us and yes, I too believe that God has a plan for you. Just imagine how many people you have helped by sharing your story and resilience. Thank you for your honesty. May the Good Lord bless you and keep you safe always…❤️😊🙏🏼
Hi thanks for this story , I was born in Costa Rica and also am FAS . I was adopted thankfully I was adopted
These hit hard. Robbie is such an inspiring person. Such a positive outlook for someone who has been dealt a terrible hand. Mark, send him to a concert!!
This speaks directly to my heart. I have experienced and am so familiar with so much of this content.. I also have a horrible history with psych meds, so many, adderall and Xanyx too, plus many others, only to get sicker time and time again. im so glad to be free from all of that going on 9 years. thank you Robbie so much for sharing this. you are a stronger example than many with a clean bill of health. thank you for sharing this Mark. I love your videos.
I'm so glad he was given the love he deserved and needed as a child❤️
Blessings to you Robbie and to your loving parents.
Inspiring to me. I have a lot of health problems which get me down, this guy's attitude is brilliant. Best wishes to you Robbie 💗
I cant watch this one, heart breaking. Keep posting interviews they are a gift to humanity. Everyone should be watching to open there eyes and see all human stories
I agree this is hard to watch, but all the other people Mark interviewed on this channel - this is what you need to picture every time they tell him about the children they’ve had while high.
We as human beings are so precious, so delicate. May this man continue to beat the odds ❤
What a humbling interview that was with Robbie.. The cards he was dealt in life were rough, but he's an inspiration and is doing his level best it seams.
These interviews are fascinating and humbling Mark, a platform for people from all walks of life to share their deepest troubles and lives with us strangers.
i have been quick to judge in the past, but not now,.. Keep up the good work. All the best.
This man is a hero, beautiful soul.
Mark you inspired me to start to finally write my autobiography, I'm 17 pages in and I hope to help others the way that you do one day bro.
Wow. This guy is so inspirational. I just want to offer him my friend ship. He is a good person who deserves to have good people in his life. Keep up the great attitude man!
This is a fantastic interview Mark. Thank you Robbie, you are very special.
I've studied FAS, Child Abuse, Neglect, Childhood trama.
I'm a retired Health and Safety officer for Health Canada. Its not easy to see these cases.
You are so brave, Alive and well with support from your family. You're attitude is incredible! ❤
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Hang in there buddy. You’re stronger than most, and your spirit is inspiring.
Here to say you're a great human being! Hugs from Italy
Hello I just wanted to let you know you I appreciate you coming out with your life story you articulated very well you should be a speaker about this for others who are struggling with the same issues that you have from the fetal alcohol syndrome you're handsome I love your curly hair God bless you young man and whoever raised you did a wonderful job be proud of who you are young man you are an inspiration to others
By far my favorite guy you have interviewed so far. Robbie, you are amazing
Bless you man, and your adoptive parents too. You're a cool dude.
Thanks to Soft White Underbelly ,
we're all part of the human experience.
Robbie is a wonderful volunteer for our local Challenger Baseball Team and also a photography assistant for our local sled hockey team.
Hello Linda how are you
Hi Robbie,
I'm a nurse and you have taught me much about the lifelong impacts of fetal alcohol syndrome. You are a victim, but it does not define you Robbie. You are so much more. What stands out is your obvious love for your family & their obvious love for you. I'm so glad you have a strong family. Hang in there and keep being you. Keep your face to the sun. 😊
One of my clients is a forensic psychologist, his specialty is fetal alcohol syndrome. He gives testimony in court to prove or disprove weather or not his client has this condition and did it affect decision making. It’s so sad that a woman won’t put the child first. I know with my children I was extremely careful with everything I did.
That’s interesting it’s been hard for me
This is definitely one of the best ones I've seen so far and watched all the way through, such a good all around dude.
Thank you for educating us today, Robbie.💙
He was a kind hearted man in a hateful world and he caught everything that life ever hurled
Like the oldest mountain he always stood so tall
Forever showing what it means to be unbreakable
Robbie you’re an incredible man.
Glad you made it through everything.
My brother has FAS, it mostly effected his brain, he was diagnosed with Mental Retardation (that was the actual diagnosis, don't come for me), at 8 years old and it still effects him today. He's never worked, took after our mom and lives on the streets, he's never even had a state ID. He's in bad health, and refuses to talk to anyone in the family. thinking of him breaks my heart, ive always wanted to help him but he won't help himself even when given the opportunity. This man is actually functional, good for him living his life! I always wanted that for my brother ❤
I’ll be praying for him that’s one of my issues but here’s the thing a lot of people can’t tell that I have it it’s very mild
@@Crazyguitarcrimrobbie Thank you very much Robbie that is so sweet. I appreciate you saying that! I'm sure he could use all the prayers he can get.
@@jessh9988 not a problem
God bless you, Robbie - you're amazing. A survivor and a winner.
Such a beautiful person. Hearing about CCMH and his experience is heart wrenching. We had a daughter in the NICU for her first 5 1/2 months of life, multiple surgeries too. Hers was due to CDH (congenital diaphragmatic hernia). Hearing about other children passing is hard. Being in a hospital like that is rough, and I was an adult. Robbie’s story just brought me to tears. He’s got such an amazing outlook in life. I hope he keeps his head up…he’s amazing!!
What an awesome young man! His parents should be so proud of him
My heart goes out to him , I know what it feels like to feel abandoned and alone.
Hang in there, Robbie. Thanks for sharing. Best wishes to you and your family. I’ll say a prayer that God continues helping other through your kind words and testimony in this video. 🙏