Who else agrees with Dr Suleiman when he said we don't have to be in multiple relationships and be broken over and over again, we're killing our own abilities to have meaningful relationships
I agree however it has exceptions. For example i had few relationships from my 18 until 36+- then the man i am in love with. However i wasn't a believer when i was younger. I became a muslim few years ago, since that day i am alone and wait for the man i love to come back to me, inchaAllah💖🤲 thereofre when i had few relationships (and believe me very few comparing to the average european!!)i didn't have much knowledge on Allah, what is Halal and what is Haram. My 💖 always was pure, just i had no spiritual education on such matters.
I agree with what Professor Sulayman said, if they don’t want the relationship to be mounted a broken brick, actually I am experiencing something related to this right now, I love someone and at the same time I don’t want to move closer to zina as Allah warn us, but am scared of loosing this lady although I have not informed her that I love her so as not to complicate something and also serve as a way of preserving my love for her, sometimes i talked to her, sometimes I talked to her and brag about missing her but once my nafs called me back I may not talked to her for the next 3 or 4 weeks, to make things more clear I love this lady, she is a righteous, well behave and practicing and sunnatic muslimah, I wish she would be my wife but am not ready for Nikkah, lol you may not understand what am saying but I understand what am talking about
I can’t imagine how you feel I’m currently in a 4 year long distance relationship and I cry all the time because of fear that he may not be what he tells me. I feel I should let go and see in future if he still wants to pursue it. But idk im just stuck in my head it’s depressing.
@@Miskeen. Ya ukhti you're so strong why do you want to tire yourself by being in a ldr being in the "search" for the right person when Allah Azzawjal has written i repeat WRITTEN who your spouse is going to bE WAYYYYYYWAYYYY BEFORE HE CREATED THIS EARTH AND US!!!! isn't that crazy!!!?? Have Tawakkul my beautiful sister ❤! Trust in Allah and ALLAH ONLY!!! he created every nook and corner of you and he's the one who knows what's in everyone's heart....he made everything halal and haram for a reason!!! Do you really trust you can choose a better partner than Allah, who created both you and him?? And remember ya ukhti There'll be no barakah in something that started from Haram!!! And do not lose hope in the mercy of Allah Subhana hu wa taalah!!! Indeed Jannah is filled with sinners who repent!!! Us humans are designed that way! And also ldr is a headache in it itself like "oh he's replying late" "oh he saw my message and ignored" "oh he's not active" WHY??? why??? Just ask yourself...is this worth more than akhirah? The best form of loving someone is caring for your akhirah...if this person really REALLY loved you, he would leave this haram relationship.. trust me my beautiful sister, there is no barakah in it!! Allah is All-Forgiving and he is Ar Rahman the most merciful he'll sURELY forgive you!!! And he's the only ONE who'll love you more than any one can and it's a fact!! may Allah make it easier for you my beloved sister ❤ .... I'll pray for you , you're a person with a beautiful soul ya uhkti devote yourself to Allah and ALLAH only. May Allah make it easier for you ya habibi!!!❤
That’s one thing that I agree with when they said it’s a case by case situation. It depends on so many different aspects of the individual couple, and there is a HUGE difference in your first crush and someone you are emotionally invested in on a much deeper level.
Brother Nouman was telling whoever have been in an illegal relationship should get married, whereas brother Sulaiman was talking about rationality in the context of short term relationship... Both are correct in their views... How come someone has to carry with someone who was emotionally and physically attached with someone else for long time?
He wasn't predicting the future. He was being realistic and that's why he also said," ask Allah for the best. Obviously, asking Allah for the best,isn't you predicting the future
In love with smb whose family don't want me (even though they don't know me!)& on top of that we have plenty of people who want to destroy us (us and his family). I🤲 Allah makes a way & we can finally be happy(started seeing each other 10years ago and being apart since few years!), inchaAllah
I will tell you something ive learned from experience, I dont know if it can be generalised but looking back, I've come to realise that going through multiple relationships serially, does definitely destroy a part of you that you once had with regards to truly loving someone and emotional stability. At least i can see it in my life.
My couson dated thinking she will get to know him better then just getting married Sadly Sheikh Omar is correct They diddnt even have a good Honeymoon Y?? They already passed the roses extra Worst later got bored of each other ended into divorce.. May all our brothers and sisters be protected from a divorce.. As also a no love anymore marriage.. Kids suffer in that marriage.. They both felt sad but fell outa love😢
I am in a haram relationship with someone who is in the process of reverting to islam, who is a different ethnicity from me. We want to wait until he has fully able to pray, read quran etc until we tell my parents so we can get married inshallah. However, my parents are very traditional and only want me to get married to someone from our own country, regardless if he is muslim or not. This is why we are choosing to wait. Please pray for him to become a good muslim and accepted by my parents inshallah so that we can make it halal ASAP
If you know it's haram stop it and tell him to go to a local mosque and learn the basics of islam from there. Give him your dad's number and tell him to contact him once he think he's muslim enough, about a year or so.
I love someone and being with him I felt again and again that I have hurt Allah because of a haram relationship, so I left him for Allah's sake. Now I am always praying to Allah to return him to me in a halal way... Is it permissible to do this prayer now??? please answer me
What is meant for you, will reach you even if it is beneath two mountains. What isn't meant for you, won't reach you even if it is between your two lips."Trust Allah. Indeed,He is the best planner ❤️
Never ask Allah SST directly to marry this person give that thing. Because Allah is the knower of the unseen You can say if this is good for my Aakhirah and ask for what you want
Do you want to know the name? Well It's Nouman Ali khan with his channel name "Nouman Ali Khan-offical-Bayyinah" And for the other one It's Omer Suleiman At the "Yaqeen Institute"
2:15 Therefore- ZAWAJ CARDS but they don't ship to my country. In sha Allah when there is a suitor, HOPEFULLY they can ship to here 8:20 Hence, ZAWAJ CARDS
Who else agrees with Dr Suleiman when he said we don't have to be in multiple relationships and be broken over and over again, we're killing our own abilities to have meaningful relationships
Agreed
I agree however it has exceptions. For example i had few relationships from my 18 until 36+- then the man i am in love with. However i wasn't a believer when i was younger. I became a muslim few years ago, since that day i am alone and wait for the man i love to come back to me, inchaAllah💖🤲 thereofre when i had few relationships (and believe me very few comparing to the average european!!)i didn't have much knowledge on Allah, what is Halal and what is Haram. My 💖 always was pure, just i had no spiritual education on such matters.
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@@Virginie-a May Allah bless u
I agree with what Professor Sulayman said, if they don’t want the relationship to be mounted a broken brick, actually I am experiencing something related to this right now, I love someone and at the same time I don’t want to move closer to zina as Allah warn us, but am scared of loosing this lady although I have not informed her that I love her so as not to complicate something and also serve as a way of preserving my love for her, sometimes i talked to her, sometimes I talked to her and brag about missing her but once my nafs called me back I may not talked to her for the next 3 or 4 weeks, to make things more clear I love this lady, she is a righteous, well behave and practicing and sunnatic muslimah, I wish she would be my wife but am not ready for Nikkah, lol you may not understand what am saying but I understand what am talking about
Try 6 years in haram relationship i just broke up with her today for sake of allah , i feel so depressed and weak may allah help me get over this pain
Ameen ❤
Atleast message her that you will marry her and don't talk to her
How are you doing now
I can’t imagine how you feel I’m currently in a 4 year long distance relationship and I cry all the time because of fear that he may not be what he tells me. I feel I should let go and see in future if he still wants to pursue it. But idk im just stuck in my head it’s depressing.
@@Miskeen. Ya ukhti you're so strong why do you want to tire yourself by being in a ldr being in the "search" for the right person when Allah Azzawjal has written i repeat WRITTEN who your spouse is going to bE WAYYYYYYWAYYYY BEFORE HE CREATED THIS EARTH AND US!!!! isn't that crazy!!!?? Have Tawakkul my beautiful sister ❤! Trust in Allah and ALLAH ONLY!!! he created every nook and corner of you and he's the one who knows what's in everyone's heart....he made everything halal and haram for a reason!!! Do you really trust you can choose a better partner than Allah, who created both you and him?? And remember ya ukhti There'll be no barakah in something that started from Haram!!! And do not lose hope in the mercy of Allah Subhana hu wa taalah!!! Indeed Jannah is filled with sinners who repent!!! Us humans are designed that way! And also ldr is a headache in it itself like "oh he's replying late" "oh he saw my message and ignored" "oh he's not active" WHY??? why??? Just ask yourself...is this worth more than akhirah? The best form of loving someone is caring for your akhirah...if this person really REALLY loved you, he would leave this haram relationship.. trust me my beautiful sister, there is no barakah in it!! Allah is All-Forgiving and he is Ar Rahman the most merciful he'll sURELY forgive you!!! And he's the only ONE who'll love you more than any one can and it's a fact!! may Allah make it easier for you my beloved sister ❤ .... I'll pray for you , you're a person with a beautiful soul ya uhkti devote yourself to Allah and ALLAH only. May Allah make it easier for you ya habibi!!!❤
That’s one thing that I agree with when they said it’s a case by case situation. It depends on so many different aspects of the individual couple, and there is a HUGE difference in your first crush and someone you are emotionally invested in on a much deeper level.
Brother Nouman was telling whoever have been in an illegal relationship should get married, whereas brother Sulaiman was talking about rationality in the context of short term relationship... Both are correct in their views...
How come someone has to carry with someone who was emotionally and physically attached with someone else for long time?
May Allah guide us all
Ameen
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Aameen
So inspiration and nicely describe
Brother Solomon makes things complicated,you cant predict the future I agree with Ustad Nouman
He wasn't predicting the future. He was being realistic and that's why he also said," ask Allah for the best. Obviously, asking Allah for the best,isn't you predicting the future
we left the haram relationship for the sake of Allah can we pray for each other to get in halal way
Imam Omer Suleiman ❣️ You made it very clear to me.
In love with smb whose family don't want me (even though they don't know me!)& on top of that we have plenty of people who want to destroy us (us and his family). I🤲 Allah makes a way & we can finally be happy(started seeing each other 10years ago and being apart since few years!), inchaAllah
May Allah choose the best for you. ❤❤
@@ropeofallah9584 chukria & may it be also what is best for the man i 💖🤲
Ameen
I will tell you something ive learned from experience, I dont know if it can be generalised but looking back, I've come to realise that going through multiple relationships serially, does definitely destroy a part of you that you once had with regards to truly loving someone and emotional stability. At least i can see it in my life.
My couson dated thinking she will get to know him better then just getting married
Sadly Sheikh Omar is correct They diddnt even have a good Honeymoon Y?? They already passed the roses extra
Worst later got bored of each other ended into divorce.. May all our brothers and sisters be protected from a divorce.. As also a no love anymore marriage.. Kids suffer in that marriage.. They both felt sad but fell outa love😢
Ameen.
@@ropeofallah9584 Allahuma Ameen
I am in a haram relationship with someone who is in the process of reverting to islam, who is a different ethnicity from me. We want to wait until he has fully able to pray, read quran etc until we tell my parents so we can get married inshallah. However, my parents are very traditional and only want me to get married to someone from our own country, regardless if he is muslim or not. This is why we are choosing to wait. Please pray for him to become a good muslim and accepted by my parents inshallah so that we can make it halal ASAP
Ameen ameen.
May you find what is good for you.
If you know it's haram stop it and tell him to go to a local mosque and learn the basics of islam from there. Give him your dad's number and tell him to contact him once he think he's muslim enough, about a year or so.
Ameen
In Sh and
I am in similar situation and I know Its haram but I can't give up him. It been 2 years and I am just so lost I don't know what to do...
Marriage is not just a rational decision. Love binds two people together.
I love someone and being with him I felt again and again that I have hurt Allah because of a haram relationship, so I left him for Allah's sake. Now I am always praying to Allah to return him to me in a halal way... Is it permissible to do this prayer now??? please answer me
What is meant for you, will reach you even if it is beneath two mountains. What isn't meant for you, won't reach you even if it is between your two lips."Trust Allah.
Indeed,He is the best planner ❤️
Approach for marrying. If you Don't make an effort Allah may not give it to you.
Never ask Allah SST directly to marry this person give that thing.
Because Allah is the knower of the unseen
You can say if this is good for my Aakhirah and ask for what you want
Any suggestions on how I can reach out to anyone of the speakers.
Do you want to know the name?
Well It's Nouman Ali khan with his channel name "Nouman Ali Khan-offical-Bayyinah"
And for the other one It's Omer Suleiman
At the "Yaqeen Institute"
2:15 Therefore- ZAWAJ CARDS but they don't ship to my country. In sha Allah when there is a suitor, HOPEFULLY they can ship to here
8:20 Hence, ZAWAJ CARDS
Where can I find the full video?
I will provide you it's link, let me just check where is it.
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How to watch the full lecture
I will provide you it's link, let me just check where is it.
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Jzk
Haram relationships are not allowed. Violation of surah 17 aya 32. Most disgusting major sin.
man, have huge egos
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@@ropeofallah9584 🤣